Joint Family system and its issues.|urdu| |Prof Dr. Javed Iqbal|

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Sir aj topic ko maine bht enjoy kiya yaqeenan ye ESA ak muzu hai jis py jitna bola jae or jitna ilkha jae kam hai meri shadi ko 12th year hai ye 2020.or abhi tak joint family system mai hi hun bal ak aam uorat k muqable kafi mukhtilf logo mai or mahol mai time guzra maine bas ye bat samjhi hai positive mind hona dosron se zada khud bande k apne liye acha hai or ak sub se ahm bat koi bhi rishta chahe wo behen ka bv ka bahu ka ya maa ka sub ko nibahten ve ALLAH ko razi karne ki koshish honi chiye insano ko nhi phir ap bht ache se sub rishte nibhaten hain mera Iman is cheez py hai kisi bhi insan ko us ki ibadat se nhi us k mamla karne se pehchanen or respect karen

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Ma sha Allah ma sha Allah ap bht acha kam kr rahy Hain Allah apko duniya akhirat ki kamyabi dy

[@shaziasiddiqui4320]

Sir humare dada pardada k zamane se joint family system tha humare khandan me... Lekin jo malik aur malkin hote the.... Woh bht zyadatii karte the us zamane me bhi.... Sirf duniya ko dikhane ki unity rahti thi... Haqeeqat tab bhi bht mukhtalif thi... Bahut haq mare jate the...ye sab sirf kahne ki baten hain... Aksar taya ya ghar k bade k pas zyada paise... Zyada jaidad... Un k bachen zyada ache lifestyle... Internally bht kuch chal rha hota tha tab bhi... Sirf zahir me lgta tha ki sab ka sab kuch ek jaisa hai

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I am Dr Zaeed from Bangladesh 🇧🇩 , salam Dr.Javed sir, your youtube content motivates me a lot

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Love u Dr Sahab u r like a father for us ❤️ap hamesha bohut achi targa baat ko samjhaty hain ... I saw your all videos Allah pak apko hamesha sehut tunddusti de ameen 💕💕💕

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Mjy laga hamary gar ki baten kr rahy hn ham MashAllah sy akhty rahty hn Allah ki boht rehmat h...

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[@khddf367]

Ameen Sum Ameen Yarabul Almeen

[@numrah.khan.]

I've been living in a joint family system since I'm born. There are always pros and cons. You get support from the other family members but the cons always outweigh the pros. We cannot have joint family systems in this age. Everyone wants to be financially, emotionally and socially independent.

[@AlviSultan]

You are more or less on target, good comment by a smart girl!

[@salmarashid3475]

Ji correct

[@mohplaysrblx]

For sure, I can relate.

[@sanji546]

There ar lot of pros

[@zoologistpk4678]

Yes exactly

[@kiranshaikh4223]

Its actually the space which is demand of every person. In combine system mostly this space is left no where. Thats y one gets suffocated by other. Respect n love everyone whether one is more or less financially stable than u. Life is simple we make it complex by our opinions. Sir its really glad to hear ur opinion which is solution of the problems every house is facing today but they take it very light due to their EGO n end their relation. May ALLAH guide us to R8 path.

[@AlviSultan]

Sahih kaha aap ne! JazakAllah!

[@huzaimaamir3220]

ڈاکٹر صاحب اس مسئلے پرآپ نے بہت عمدہ گفتگو فرمائی ،جوائنٹ فیملی سسٹم میں لڑائی جھگڑے ہونے کی ایک بنیادی وجہ تنگدستی ، یعنی کم آمدنی بھی ہیں تنگدستی اور کم آمدنی سارے مسائل کی جڑ ہیں ، ایسے خاندان جن کے مالی معاملات ٹھیک ہیں ، وہ اپنے مسائل پر قابو پا لیتے ہیں اور خاندانی لڑائی جھگڑوں سے بھی محفوظ رہتے ہیں۔

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جی آپ نے درست کہا۔

[@saimkhan8138]

جوئنٹ فیملی سسٹم اگر محبت ہے سلوک ہے عزت ہے تو جنت ہے اور اگر ایسا کچھ بھی نہیں ہے تو یقین کرین دنیا میں ہی جہنم ہے برداشت اب نہیں ہے لوگوں میں اور حسد کی بیماری عام ہے ایسے میں بہتر یہی ہے شادی کے بعد ہی محبت سے الگ الگ کر دیا جائے

[@mariyamkhan8499]

Deewar alag hone Se Mohabbat khatam ho Jaati Hai kya ???

[@ezzahwaheed]

@@mariyamkhan8499 wo mohabat hi nahi jo deewar se khtam ho jae

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@@ezzahwaheed wah kia kehna

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What should I do same here in my case.

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@@ezzahwaheed Mera yah Sawal hai kya bete ko alag rakhne se Mohabbat khatam ho jaati hai Maa baap ki

[@Short_KING-A]

masha allh sir ap ki baten bht mazboot bunyad h ..bilkul sahi kha apne

[@MOSCOWZ]

Sir Wonderful explanation ....sir you should do programs on PTV so that your golden words reaches to every pakistani ....May you live long...you are diamond of Pakistan...

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Nice comment

[@atikasyed3233]

Well said I'm going through the same even I get aggressive staying in joint family.

[@mr.anonymous784]

Joint Family system is from Hinduism. In Islam there is no reason to stay in a house with everyone. Islam says to give separate house to every children or at least make portion of your own house and give them independence.

[@2903kiran]

thats very good part of islam

[@basitgaming832]

MashaAllah. professor sahab kash pakistan ki tamam abadi ap ka ye video dekhe aur samjhy. Jazakallah

[@uroojhussain5274]

میرے حساب سے تو جواٸنٹ فیملی انتیہاٸ بیوقوفی ہے۔۔ ہم رہ چکے جواٸنٹ فیملی میں تو ہم جانتے ہیں اسکے کتنے نقصانات ہیں۔۔ ساتھ رہنا ہی جھگڑے کا باٸث ہے۔۔ بہتری اسی میں ہے کہ سب الگ رہیں اس طرح محبت بھی بڑھتی ہے۔۔ اسی جواٸنٹ سسٹم کا نتیجہ ہے کہ آج ہم سب ایک دوسرے کی شکل دیکھنا بھی پسند نٸ کرتے۔۔ ہماری فیملی میں ایک دوسرے سےاتنی نفرتیں بڑھ چکی ہیں۔۔

[@mtufailk]

ڈاکٹر صاحب اللہ اپکو خوش رکھے۔۔بہت خوبصورت طریقے سے اپ کام کررہے ہیں

[@briliantmindzbriliantmindz1139]

جوائنٹ فیملی سسٹم میں ہمیشہ ہر فیملی کا کچن الگ ہونا چائیے کیونکہ ہر لڑائی جھگڑا کچن سے ہی شروع ہوتا ہے ، بڑا بھائی اگر نوکری پر صبح 11 بجے جاتا ہے اور رات کو 12 بجے واپس آتا ہے تو اس کی بیوی کی اور اس کی خواہش ہوتی ہے کہ صبح فجر کی نماز کے بعد کچھ دیر سو کر 10 بجے اٹھ کر ناشتہ کریں اور دوسری فیملی کا شوہر صبح 7 بجے نوکری پر جاتا ہے اور رات نو بجے گھر آ جاتا ہے تو تب یہ ٹھیک ہے ورنہ بے وقت کھانے پینے اور بے وقت سونے جاگنے کی وجہ سے نوکری کے معمولات اور صحت سب پر بہت برا اثر پڑتا ہے میری امی کو جوائنٹ فیملی میں اس طرح کا نظام نہ ہونے کی وجہ سے شوگر ، بلڈ پریشر اور بواسیر ہو گئی ہے اس لیے میں جوائنٹ فیملی سسٹم کے بہت خلاف ہوں ۔۔۔

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آپ معاملات کو بہت اچھا سمجھاتے ہیں ماشا ٕ اللہ۔ اللہ پاک آپ کو اس کا اجر عظیم عطا فرماۓ۔ بہت سے لوگوں کے مساٸل آپ کی باتیں سُننے اور سمجھنے سے حل ہو جاتے ہیں۔بالخصوص میرے جیسا بندہ تو آپ سے بہت کچھ سیکھتا ہے 😊😊😊😊😊😊

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Very good thinking sir I am agree with you Meri life main gitni be problems hain sab joint family system ki waja sy hain.

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Allah pak har orat k nasib achy kry or naik susral mily jahan bahu ki b izat ho beti ki tra wrna larki ki zindgi tbah hojti hai thik kaha dunya m ho dozah hn jati hai life

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[@syedullah613]

Joint family system is the blessing! It is biggest curse if people have no patience (Bardasht). Nowadays it’s best to live separate in a small house and try to live close in one area. Go to each other house as often. If you think in Prophet time it was the same everyone had an independent and small homes.

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Well said !!! Ye mera life time thought hai !!!!

[@KanuniSuleyman4857]

We're not living in 7th century anymore. In this age, the social dynamics of the society has changed. Now everyone wants to live an independent life

[@Nnn8o]

No way better to be safe than being mentally tortured by these relations!!

[@asqueen2013]

Joint family me reh reh k mera logical brain muj sy naraz ho gya hua hai r emotional brain r heart mil kr silent volgure galian dy ry hotay hn... R eyes me tears hotay hn 😂

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Lagta hai ye har larki ka haal hogaya hai 😁😁

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Joint family system bhut kam kamyab hai kyunke aj kal sb ko privacy chahiye jo k joint mein nhi hoti jo bhi reh raha hai majboran reh raha hai, purane logo main sabr, darguzar aur ikhlas hota tha aj bhut kam logon mein hai is liye join rehna bhut mushkil hai

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Assalamo alaikum sir. I m from India.I m Rahima Perween.I m a research scholar in education, I m married having two small kids. I always see your videos and like that most. I m your new subscriber. Your speeches are awesome, Mashallah.

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Nice comment.

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Bht khoob Sir behtreen or ala wazahat k sath ap nay Bht saray mamlat ko suljha dia 👍Jazak Allah khairan kaseer.

[@sohailshaikh1334]

Jiss tarah Dibetese bohot see Systemic Bimaariyaa paidda kartaa hai theek ussi tarah Joint Family System bohot see Mental health issues Paidaa kartaa hai..

[@AlviSultan]

Baishak!

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Exctly aur olad b suffer krty hy .barbaad hujata hy sb kch

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100% Agree❤️

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Sir ap ki all video bohat ashi hoti ha zabardast well done

[@maheenali728]

Maintaining purdah from brother in law is very tough in joint family system. When children grow up, they also struggle in maintaining purdah from cousins who are non mehrams.

[@hayazahra8412]

Thank u Sir... You are great... Apki baten super kash k sbki soch bdly...

[@hamidabbasi2325]

Assalamualaikum sir ...!!! Ap na belkul sahi kaha ,buzrug he insaf k sath joint system ko better Chala sakty Hain but hamary idar buzrug he farq karty Han apni olado ma ...,,.that's the reason .now I am the patient of depression to...,,

[@waqasgul4538]

zbrdst guftgu.....asa sb valdyn ko sochna chahy

[@hadiakbarkargili637]

Mashallah best answer and solution for family system issues.

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Thankyou for introducing quran education channel

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لوگ پڑھی لکھی بہو نہیں لاتے کیونکہ اسے دبا کر رکھنا مشکل ہوتا ہے. نہ خود ضرورتیں پوری کرتے ہیں نہ کام کرنے دیتے ہیں

[@nuzhatkhan3530]

My son Mubarak is normal. He can speak. He is happy and healthy and peaceful soul. He is totally fine and fit. Thank God. Thank you so much.

[@roshni2679]

Sir.... I tried my best k joint family system at least tb tk qaiem rhy jb tk sb beh' bhai ki shadi ho jaiy... But I failed, ghr ma jaghry fsaad ko khtm krny k lea qurbani deni pari, abhi sb sepret reh rhy although sbko e koi na koi msla face to krna pr rha but abi etna zaror hoa k jaghry khtm ho gy hen...so yehi kahngy k rishton ko bchany k lea jhuk jana behtr h rishtay cutoff krny se.. Hr msly ka sensible hal mojood h wqt p faisla kr lena hi behtr h

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First comment dr Saab you are a very good motivational speaker

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[@muhammadsufiyanmehboob786]

Sir, I have a question for you. I have seen a lot of joint family system around us and I have seen a lot of problems in joint family system. I don't think there should be a joint family system nowadays. People who are living in a joint family system and most of them suffer from a lot of problems and suffer from many diseases.

[@hassamkhan5794]

100 % agreed.life is more hell for a girl bcs parents dnt support after marriage.and husbnd is more concerned abt his family even if they r wrong.

[@muhammadsufiyanmehboob786]

@@hassamkhan5794 Yes you are right when girls get married then this problems becomes difficult to deal with.

[@abubakarhussain6879]

100% right

[@rajazain6974]

Right bhai meri sister in law meri cheezen chori krti thi or bs poochny ki dair hoti larai ho jati saboot ho in pata that siwaye is k k unko kmry sy nikalty dekha. .... Bht kuch gawaya akhir thak k ilzam lagaya to mujhy divorced dy di joint family system ny mera ghar barbad kiya;(

[@muhammadsufiyanmehboob786]

Raja Zain No problem, brother, don't worry, just live your life in silence and don't argue anyone it, leave your matter to Allah Almighty alone, insha'Allah you will live a very good life in the times to come.

[@hanimusa4858]

Zabardast Dr sahab.i listened to u on daily basis .this is an awesome lecture

[@khawjamaaz9433]

Very good and logical interpretation regarding social issues. Ma Shaa Allah, sir live long and healthy life

[@rasheedkhan9835]

Ap ki batay sahi hai professor saheb . Khush rahay

[@strongwoman9997]

We are living this life style.all of us have portions..everyone has its responsibility.but people in our society alag hony ko gunah samjty hain

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[@AlviSultan]

Asiya Hassan: The only thing constant in this world is change. I hope our people soon realize this and come to their senses. Dr Sahib is doing his best to educate our people.

[@MATHSMATHSInnMATHSInnBusiness]

Hmmm hum aisy e rhy productivity km hojati hai main sb ko kehta hun k aisy rahain k alag alag b hon progress b zyada hojay aur combined b controlled manner mn hon but it's really tough here to make everyone learn here.

[@AlviSultan]

@@MATHSMATHSInnMATHSInnBusiness Sab logue apne apne haalaat aur bardaasht ke mutabiq guzaara kerte hein. Aik poor man living in his shanty or hut, where can he go but stay put?

[@hassamkhan5794]

Mian biwi dono working hun tu finaces ka issue nhi huta and alag hujate hain ..mental health should b priorty

[@amanullahqureshi880]

What a flow of words and ideas..MashaAllah

[@shahida_vlogs5417]

Toba kren joint family sy to

[@asfhjiwwryhdddu2159]

اللہ تعالی جتنے بھی جاٸنٹ فیملی ہے سب کو ازادی دے دیں یہ بڑی رسوا زندگی ہے

[@sabashaikh776]

Aameen summa aameen

[@intekhabali5821]

مشترکہ خاندان کی لڑائیوں کی وجوہات اتنی زیادہ ہیں کہ انہیں بتانا، سننا، سمجھنا، سمجھانا ناممکن ہے۔ ڈاکٹر صاحب نے بہترین حل بتایا، ورنہ ویسے بھی قدرت الگ کر دیتی ہے۔ مثال: " دادا" کے 5 بیٹے 2 بیٹیاں آپس یہ آپس میں سگے بھائی بہن پھر ان پانچوں کے بچے آپس میں فرسٹ کزن پھر ان کے بچے آپس میں دور کے کزن/ رشتےدار " دادا" کا نام بھی کسی کو معلوم نہ ہوگا۔

[@hassamkhan5794]

Bht achi baat

[@saraahmad5859]

Joint family system in today’s day and age is just illogical and cannot work the way it did decades ago. There’s a huge generation gap and cultural differences that it cannot withstand the compromise and expectations it warrants.

[@iramahsan4989]

AoA Sir....apki batain bht achi Hain MashaAllah

[@mrsumar5358]

Sir what about injustice and favorism in household systems. The main reason behind all fights is this i think

[@centreofprayerharummakkah9899]

Ap ka question bhot acha hy

[@rizwanali3341]

Very true.. Favoritism is the cause to one specific family and comparing with other family

[@sanamnasir1399]

It's right

[@ummemun2185]

Bilkul sahi hamare haan yahi hain favourism

[@cookingwithorakzai5136]

Blkl

[@abihasami7287]

Dr sb. Tusi great hoo very well explained and usually people underprivileged they get feel of jealousy and things gets messed up.

[@stitchwhich8317]

Bilkul drust Islami triaq b ye hi hy Bjaye ek sath marny k tang a k nafrat krny monafqat krny ki bjye alag ho jana chahye Kam az kam waqt k liye zror Es sy ek dosray ki qadar b a jati hy

[@MuhammadBilal-lk7uu]

السلام علیکم ورحمۃ اللہ ماشاءاللہ بڑے اچھے مشورے دیتے ہیں اور بڑے اچھے لگتے ہیں اور آپ زیادہ آپ بہت زیادہ آواز صحابہ کرام کے حوالے دیتے ہیں آپ کا چہرہ مبارک اگر سنت کے مطابق ہو جائے تو جتنے مذہبی لوگ ہیں وہ بھی آپ کو خوشی سے سنیں گے یعنی سمجھیں گے کے یہ یہ سیکولر آدمی ہیں

[@abdullateef6307]

Ek masla ye be hay Kai Ghar k bary Koch bachon ko buht ihmeyat daity hayn kuch ko km .is nainsafi k waja say b jagry banty hayn

[@syedasyeda7825]

Aisa he hai...

[@muhammadishtiaq2258]

Its true mari sas mari devrani ko ghar ka bara khti hai or usay he har chez mein aagay rakhthe hai yeh nainsafi hai

[@amnakhan8340]

agreed

[@tariqrajput6709]

Agree with you

[@sardarjamshaidkhan5087]

100% agree aisa hi hai Ye nainsafi karna chor dain to sb acha ho jaye

[@SaimaKhan-q3x]

Some families lived very happily in Joint Family whose lived happily just focus on them what things made them truely happy❤ 2:09

[@aqsaakhter4734]

It's always good to see u 🙂 May God always bless you.

[@Fruqman]

I wish k main iss video ko ek se zyada baar like ker skta

[@verdhanadeem665]

Sir i think issues rise when people get jealous of each other due to economic imbalances.

[@soniyaimran8822]

I agree, my step dad is kicking me out; I’m pregnant and he wants me out by the time I give birth; my mum works non stop pays the bills the mortgage and gets the groceries he does nothing. Yet I cook clean and look after my younger brothers yet I’m getting kicked out, the unnecessary stress during pregnancy is not needed and I pray it doesn’t affect my unborn child. I’m pregnant but I also work two jobs I’m a lady and I don’t complain so I don’t see why men can’t do anything; alhamdulilah I’ve been blessed with a husband Who works and prefers to work. Yes I also had shortcomings I don’t tolerate lies and manipulations I sometimes speak the truth too much and it gets me into trouble but I’m only being true to myself.

[@creativeweirdodiy3105]

No issue rise when people are evil themsel3

[@verdhanadeem665]

@@creativeweirdodiy3105 not able to understand your replie

[@kashifmrs5091]

Not only economicimbalance there is many behaviors which disturb such as enterfare in every matar

[@was7861]

Mashallah your amazing sir. Thank you for this video 👍

[@baazal]

I used to live in joint family when I got married, but my wife was always fighting with my family. When I moved out with my wife all problems stopped.

[@daizy850]

bhai wo apki biwi bn k ati ha jub k joint family mn sb uski azmaish krna shuru kr dety hn

[@its_lovet_queen57]

Yes 👍

[@theflowers9677]

Maybe your family is fighting with your wife and they are acting as innocent infront of you and showing your wife cruel because it's happening in many joint family

[@maqsoodazam7572]

Deen ki Dori ki waja se Ghar Main ladari Hoti hai ....

[@risingstar9086]

@@theflowers9677 absolutely.....his writing skill should must be improved 😃

[@khddf367]

Apke bt krny ke anerjy bht shandar hy

[@VlogswithAysha]

Good topic. Nowadays, joint families are different. My mother in law didn’t allow her 3 daughter in laws to leave kitchen the whole day. . We only had break from 3-5. Parents should be very careful while marrying their daughters.

[@mrsmohsin1024]

Then... what are u doing? All day works?

[@VlogswithAysha]

@@mrsmohsin1024 My mother in law has passed away. Now I part time teach and keep myself busy in house work like always

[@eishaturrazia8350]

Jazaakumullaah Prof. Sahab! May Allaah accept you for HIS cause. You are an adorable mentor.

[@noshadjs3116]

Thank you sir for such recommending such nice channel. I have subscribed to it, now my family will learn the holy Quran in easy way. Once again humbled and grounded dear sir. Stay blessed.

[@elhamrasheed4784]

cejk

[@shahinislam2259]

Respect from Bangladesh

[@cymantha_robin5892]

This man is gem 💎!

[@SaddamKhokhar-zj8yn]

Combined family ... Joint family... House wife ... useful... Halat are changing 🚼... Combined family break due to women working outside... Solution.. اکٹھا بھی رہیں اور علیحدہ بھی رہے ۔۔۔ No interferes... Nuclear family... میرے جیتے جیتے یہ نہیں ہو سکتا ۔۔۔ But this is ... Imotional... Imotinall intelligent ..fore brain... جملے میں مفہوم ۔۔۔ نکالنا یہ بہت بڑی بات ہے ۔۔۔ Imotionally stable...

[@Omer3k]

Unfortunately it’s not possible anymore 😭. Everyone has bigger ego than oneself. Family system has almost done.

[@shawn7258]

U summed up

[@shawn7258]

We r just trying to drag it in name of religion & culture destroying mental health of future generation

[@HassanandAleeza]

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[@shahida_vlogs5417]

Mery sasur b yhi same baat khty k mery jity Ji alag nei hony dena aur haal ye k ek dosry ko dekhna b gawara nei krty , 😢

[@muddassurqureshi6734]

😂😂same ......aur yehi susar sahib khud apni bevi k sath alag ghr main sari zindagi rehty rhy hongy ....

[@yumanaslatestdressesfashio5100]

Bohot hi zabardast topic hai ajkal tu mostly yahi problem hai

[@Motisol786]

Family system is becoming a problem for this mobile generation... 😊

[@gateaspirant2383]

It was a problem since ages, my mother suffered a lot due to this evil system when there was no mobile no internet. dont try to connect it digitally.

[@mrssajid7263]

Respected sir yeh ap ka toota phoota jwab nei hai,yeh to superb jwab hai 💯👍

[@LearnwithMariyam]

اکثر بزرگ یہی کہتے ہیں کہ میں جیتے جی یہ نہیں ہونے دوں گا

[@newvediosandwhatsappstatus4323]

Hahaha ese hi h

[@farhan-rl9ut]

Hahaha hahaha hahaha hahaha 😂

[@EngineerMuhammadAsif]

Free Quran Education best channel on KZbin .... thanks 🥰😍

[@UrduNovelsbyMajid]

hats off 🎩 ❤️

[@abidhifeez3247]

Dr Saab,bundle of thanks for telling about free Quran education on u tube

[@iqrarashid7796]

Nodoubt joint family system is problematic on many grounds but at the same time those sufferings which u face in joint collaboration makes u experienced as u live with many people ,u read their psychy which helps u in future to tackle different situations peacefully,humbly.

[@creativeweirdodiy3105]

No one wants bad experiences

[@creativeweirdodiy3105]

Kids who live in toxic environment can never become Confident adults

[@iqrarashid7796]

@@creativeweirdodiy3105 bad experiences makes one experienced... Well that is my opinion.

[@iqrarashid7796]

@@creativeweirdodiy3105 myself being the product of joint family don't think so.

[@creativeweirdodiy3105]

@@iqrarashid7796 well it depends with what kind of people you lived..

[@2903kiran]

Wonderfully explained the solution

[@rpskidsvlogs9049]

Sahi kaha sir, hasad badi cheez hai , yahi sab galtiyaan karwata hai, I think.

[@akbarrahman6560]

No fight from One-Sided, Syed from San Diego, CA

[@farhatamin9718]

Bohat kamaal MA SHA ALLAH 💗

[@hassamkhan5794]

Koi b larka ya larki shadi ka tasawar b na kre agr woh khud nhi kama skta..aur ghr nhi afford kr skta!!YH SIRF APKI LIFE NHI APKI OLAD KI MENTAL AND PHYSICAL HEALTH ka b sawal hy...inlaws ki interference aur ghr k jhagre bachon ko zehni mariz krdete hain..

[@Jabir37]

Excellent Dr. Sb. Allah apko mazeed himat de taqat de. Jazak Allah o khairan

[@rizwaan6333]

بہت نازک مسئلہ آج چھیڑ دیا ہے مرشد 🙈🙈🙈🙈

[@byusama]

13 subscribe done plz back

[@AlviSultan]

Dr Sahib toh aik haqiqat bayan kar rahe hein, jitni jaldi issey tasleem kar liya jaye, behtar ho ga!

[@muhammadamaan5707]

Good Free Quran Annimation I will must search this site thanks sir

[@qadirshakeel649]

I hate joint fasmily system The older brothers and sisters often use your life for own purpose

[@zobkpk]

Aaap k batein heeroo'n say bhi qeemti hein. Mein ap k nazriyaat say 100 % atafaq rakhta hon.

[@byusama]

plz subscribe back kro ma ny ap kiya hy ap mojy krooo

[@pakistani_suits_]

Don't ignore this comment sir Please sir make a video on the importance of girls education.. Our parents listen may they will understand and let me study further.. Please🙏 sir dont ignore my comment..

[@AlviSultan]

Write him an email and explain your problem with your conservative/jahil parents: [e-mail]

[@pakistani_suits_]

@@AlviSultan mind ur language sir. I am not telling you anything. Ook. they are my parents and you don't have any right to say a word about them. And sorry to say sir your language shows your education and your upbringing at the same time. If you can't talk decently or with respect, I can say your education is nothing more than a paper degree.

[@pakistani_suits_]

@@hassamkhan5794 they won't force me to get married.. Actually We are from a very small city of Bihar. Here’s the education is not of that high leveled .. they said that they can't take risk of sending me in boardings or hostels.. As every one knows the crime rate or rape graph of India🇮🇳. . That's why they are fear of the evil things in our society.. Btw Alhamdulillah I am doing my graduation from Bihar university.. But for the higher studies I wanna go to Delhi Or somewhere else for good studies but can't able to agree them ..۔

[@hassamkhan5794]

@@pakistani_suits_ oh i se bihar same place frm where famous celebrity sushant singh rajput belonged to..then u r lucky..to get such parents.my advise is dont get married till u strt earning .really good and marry sime guy frm own field who encourage u fr furthur education

[@hassamkhan5794]

@@pakistani_suits_ u have some relative in big cities u may live at their place ?

[@KhadijaWaqas-cn4qw]

Its a bitter truth of our society.. saas bahu aik doosre ko dekh nhe sakty but still they share same house n kitchen and fight on petty issues

[@qudsiabano4797]

I think parda is for women so how can joint family system can work for muslims or bechari women had to cover all the time even in homes 🤔🤔

[@creativeweirdodiy3105]

Exactly.. gher mein b sakoon nai.. joint family is haram

[@user-gz5mx2nd5p]

You have a point. Even if family does not observe Prada, men in general do not respect women who are not mahram and may lead to quite harassment and abuse of women specially young girls.

[@mrsumar5358]

We have strict parda protocolz in house and outside. And the summer season is just very very hot for us. Alhamdulillah we have ACs in home. But kitchen and lounge are like hell.

[@user-gz5mx2nd5p]

Mrs Umar Can you share what those Parda codes are?

[@creativeweirdodiy3105]

@@mrsumar5358 exactly.. what is the purpose of parda in home.. why women are forced to live with na mehram.. atleast saudia mein women ghero mein toh sakoon sy rehti han

[@Samarchanda9794]

fantastic doctor sahab good information thank you sir....

[@desidog4169]

A lot of people are just too poor to live independently. Their kids and wives have no idea of financial issues. Family members should be transparent to each other and discuss these matters. Fake pride is a killer! 👪

[@hassamkhan5794]

True...if a man cant provide a seperate space than he shouldnot marry both mian biwi should b earning and better if of same field..always b4 marriage one should clearly discuss this stuff without hesitation! Yh pori generation ka mamla hy bachaon ko b nafsiati issues hute aise mahol m reh kr

[@SairaSabir1443AH]

Showoff and ریا کاری

[@umarnagi2501]

Asal wajah hoti hy personal mamlat main dakhal dain. Aik dosray ki personal sapce ka khiyal rakhaun. Limits ka khiyal rakhain to joint family is a blessing. Room aik

[@bjahan6971]

In short joint family mein just woi survive kr skta k jo bara badmash ho... phr chahy wo kuch b na kry... sary usk gulaam

[@saeedatariq8042]

Jazak Allah Kash .Aysa har Family May hu Jaay Ameen

[@ibrahimibrahim-fd9yy]

Agr rule bna dia jaay k hr maan baap apni betion k sath rahen to muaashry sy jurm aur zulm kaafi hd tk km ho skta hy !

[@byusama]

plz subscribe kro mery channel ko

[@muddassurqureshi6734]

Tu ye betiyan apny saas aur susar ko man bap samajh lein tu jurm zulm aisy bhi kam ho jayei ga

[@ibrahimibrahim-fd9yy]

@@muddassurqureshi6734 Aur agr maan baap bahu ko beti na smjhen to phir

[@ibrahimibrahim-fd9yy]

@@muddassurqureshi6734 Kuch b ho jaay jo mhhbt maan baap ki apni betion k sath hoti hy wo natural hoti hy. Es men kisi ka koi qsoor nhe.

[@muddassurqureshi6734]

But mery bhai shadi k baad lRki man bap k ghr ni rehti

[@sidrasaeed1447]

bot achay sy ap nay is bat ko clear kiya hats off for u sir❤️