Important Messages from Your Spirit Guides | Timeless Reading

[@Booklover146]

Thank you Reem. You are the one who has helped me to heal. I lost my husband, my job, my money . I trusted the wrong people. I suffered hell as no one supported or understood me. I started following you an year ago. I reconnected with myself. Only a few days ago I got a new job which gave me the courage to understand my situation. Infact the last 2 days I got clearheaded so Reem thank you. Love you.❤

[@priyasharma0021]

More power to you 🤍

[@Booklover146]

Thank you 🙏

[@mca3001]

Blessings !! Keep on growing and thriving dear one !Reems readings are very helpful to me too !! ❤️

[@LittleEolf]

Hugs from a far ❤ yep, you are right. Reem has a very soothing way to convey the guidance we needed to hear. Keep walking towards the Light, you will be okay, better, and stronger :)

[@Sherry-ul5yg]

😊​@@LittleEolf

[@okipullup7202]

Pile 1! I am a 16 year old teenager with undiagnosed narcissistic personality disorder. Its a generational curse i have to break. Yes i was left out in the cold as a child and had to fend for my own self in many ways and being such a defensive person was the only way for me to survive as a child. I turned my emotions off because I couldn’t handle them, and i learned my toxic behaviour from my family because i grew up seeing that. I, through a lot of self reflection have come to this realisation about myself, it’s quite sad that I can’t really get help from a mental help professional because of many reasons but spirit helps me. I have done a lot of research and continue to do so on this topic and have been trying to face my emotions little by little, the scary ones are coming up in the start but i have to burn before i rise from the ashes. So i am trying my best to experience them as fully as i can and for as long as i can. I have been more considerate in my interactions with my friends, I apologised to a friend about something i said, I naturally reflected upon it, found my fault in and felt guilty truly. I have also been trying to challenge my shame and text people first or show effort to keep up the conversation and talk about authentic topics as much as i can. I have a really long way to go but at least i have started. I wanna genuinely care about people, and show it. I will get better. Someday i will be capable of loving. I will keep going because everything is possible!

[@Dafne-jw7ro]

Your inner awareness and inner work at your young age is inspiring me so much! Congratulations! Keep on and never give up ❤🎉🎉🎉

[@helenblundell7813]

Don’t live your life through a diagnosis. Live your life through the love and light of Creation. We are as one. The way you treat others is the way you are treating yourself. Believe in yourself. You are worthy and amazing.

[@MonekyDo]

Bless you, strong soul! Do what you wanna do, when you wanna do it for reasons that are important to you. The force is always with you ❤ And I felt a lot of love in your writing..

[@MonekyDo]

And yes, don't conform to diagnosis because every each one of us has it or would have had it if we'd go and ask the doctors. Meditation is the best cure and maybe the only one. Also, you may wanna explore how different cultures, especially shamanic tribes treated schizophrenics (with very much love and care for their different perspectives and information while knowing which herbs don't work well for them). And also, I think how we treat others is a reflection not only of how our parents treated us but how we came to treat ourselves (which is basically the same plus individual characteristics of the soul). So, start with showing love to yourself first and everything else will fit. Find love for all the good and bad, big and small that you know you are now. So much more is to come. This is your life. God bless you ❤

[@ree36911]

Do - hooponopono meditation - for self healing, karma healing and inner child healing. Bless you ❤️

[@vanessaprincesssa]

Pile 3 - I AM stepping into the new path with confidence and I AM accepting my new position of benevolent authority in the community

[@katrandoo]

Pile 2 here, thank you for this reading. I've been stuck in not seeing how to shift my perspective to one of self love but this finally made things click. Sending love to all my fellow pile 2s - we're in this together and i'm cheering for you!!

[@soulsparkadventures]

Pile 2, it's been my absolute focus for some weeks now. Spot on. Thank u again ❤

[@helenmallory1]

Pile 2 here, perfect reading for me! I’ve always been trying to please others to be loved and accepted. (This message was exactly what I needed to hear today). As a result I’ve been frustrated and created limitations for myself and my life, which is not the way I want to live. It’s all about self love and, for me, the journey has been to learn how to do that. Thank you!

[@georginam824]

Pile 3 - I was only grappling with these exact thoughts today! That I know so many opportunities and things are evolving for me and I became terrified and anxious about how I would ever face people and interact with some certainty. Your reading gave me such strength that I can stop almost creating these shy thoughts as things have changed. God really does speak through you in such a profound manner...

[@scooby1970m]

Pile 3, oh how I laughed. The up and down energy definitely describes me over the past year and now, so much promise. Thank you for sharing the messages ❤

[@theresashetler]

Pile 3 is the evidence of what I have been manifesting ...I accept this reading 100% I enjoyed your explaination of the Egyptian Gods and their energies. Be blessed, be well❤❤❤..

[@charliewu5542]

Pile 3, Thank you very much for always being there to confirm the connection I feel almost everyday with the universe! ❤Makes me feel protected and looked after, and able to find my strength to fight for my dreams!

[@jskeller6220]

Pile 1. I have been starting every day this month (Jan. 2024) with a journal called “Write the Word”. It begins with something I am grateful for. Then I write a few lines of a particular passage from the Bible that the journal suggests. After this, the journal is open for reflection. Finally, there is one more blank page for thoughts and finishes with a “Word of the Day”. I find that this practice really allows me to begin my day on such a higher note. Contemplation, gratitude and sometimes just like these readings here with Reem, I am amazed by the relevancy of the Bible’s message. So my interior self becomes connected to my exterior self leaving me more connected in a wholistic manner. Hope this helps 🙏🏼🥰

[@magdanova9771]

Pile number 1. What I have done to heal my inner child? It had been very hard time, as you said, full of cold. I missed love and understanding of my parents and family. I always had a feeling that no one understands me except God (my best friend since ever). There were years when I felt so lonely and like I am an alien. I stopped speaking, because I felt that it has no point anymore. Children at school gave me names because of it. And so on. This whole journey lasted till now, when I am 22 years old. Till now, all the feelings and painful experiences had been affecting my everyday life. When I started thinking, that I cannot torture myself like that, it was the starting point of the whole healing process. First step was to take responsibility for my life and say to myself, that "I love you, and I am going to make sure that you live happily" (to my inner child). The second step was to meet directly the painful part of my mind just when it occured in a situation. It was hard because it felt like I was at war with myself. There were moments when I felt like I must kill myself in this situation. A lot of "demons" and dark clouds surrounded me... I cried a lot. But when I cried, the feeling after was as if one of my wounds in the heart was healed. It went this way, since september. There were days when I woke up in the morning and wanted to be dead and hated how hard the life is... It went so far, that I didn´t have motivation to live. However, besides meeting psychologist I had people around me who helped me get up from this deep state of being. After some time I gave myself on the first place (not just in my heart, but also took an action) and for the first time in my life I set my limits to all the activities and people around me, who had great expectations of me. The feeling of being a parent to myself, when I made it without fear, was miraculous. More and more I had the courage to do so... The last step of this healing was about a week ago, when I realised that I don´t want to be in this suffering relation to my past at all, and decided to change my perspective. The change of the perspective made me see this whole journey I went through, and not just that I accepted it as a part of my life, but also made me see it as a chapter in my life that taught me so much.. Experience of an experience. I am deeply grateful for that. And now, I think I have the strength to start living my life, relying on the whole process that the universe and soul planned for me. :)

[@mistresslluvia2632]

Pile1 here; it’s all about self acknowledgement. Learning why you responded to the trauma when it happen; it’s all about knowing the favorable and unfavorable qualities and making those higher self choices. Because love for and from self is very potent.❤

[@lechaebaker-redfield3070]

Pile 1 - I grew up homeless with addicted and absent parents who left me to others to raise. I switched 7 different homes as a child and its instilled a great deal of trauma with how I value myself and my stability. I moved to texas taking my younger sibling and getting her out of that environment and she returned to California and had a baby pretty young. So now at 30yrs old I am deciding to start over completely again and move back to California to help be there for this child and its going to uproot ten years of hard work. Ive realized that sitting inside of those uncomfortable feelings to understand why it is I feel those things has helped me the most. If you go all the way down the thought spiral, there is no where to go but up. Separating the guilt and insecurities from situations we have no control over can help you gain a confidence that you can make decisions to impact your life the way you want. Turning the shadows we see into something beautiful that you can share with others like art and music and creating. But also remembering and honing in on what you really value in your life so you can work towards fulfillment instead of 'success'

[@crischansan]

Pile 1 I'm still, and in the early stages of healing, but I've healed enough to be calm and at peace. I can write a lot about my journey, but I'll just write what I believe is the most important, and what I think is the key to healing "wounds". Awareness is the first step. And if you already have the intention to heal, or change, even a bit, you are already starting the process. We cannot "heal" a "wound" if we ignore it. It's only by looking at it that we can start finding ways to heal it. I believe that the key is to truly love yourself. Can you say 'I love you' to you without cringing or being repulsed by the idea? With love, you will be able to accept the whole you. Both the "light" and the "shadow" parts of you. It will allow you to forgive yourself. If we don't forgive ourselves, we are also not giving ourselves the opportunity to change for the better. If we have some hope, we can think someday, someday we will heal. No one is perfect. Don't put unrealistic expectations upon yourself. You are not your own enemy. Others may be critical of you, but you shouldn't do that to yourself. Think if it is directed to you, or is it directed more to themselves? If it is, they need healing themselves. In the first place, it is them, not you. Plus, you are now in the process of healing. Try to become aware of how you "talk" to yourself. Are you kind, gentle, understanding, compassionate, and forgiving in your self-talk? Maybe try to see your childhood self. Close your eyes and see the child in front of you. You are older than him/her. What are his/her worries and fears? What goes through this child's mind in his/her innocence? How does he/she truly feel? What pains this child? What does this child really want, what does this child need? You know better, now, than him/her at that young age. What can you say to him/her? You can sympathize with him/her, right? If it's hard to love the adult version of you, then can you love the innocent child in front of you? A child who knows nothing, a child who doesn't know how to express himself/herself better, a child who just wants to be seen by the people he/she loves, that wants their understanding, their forgiveness, their hugs and kisses. To know they are proud of him/her. That they are so blessed to have this child in their lives. And to hear back from them that they love you too.

[@kenny-leebasson4451]

Pile 1. I grew up in an abusive environment. I know the smell of blood very well, I almost lost my mother at the hands of my dad. I had so much trauma, it affected all my relationships and all the way I thought about life. In my 20's I still tried to rekindle the relationship with my dad but I got rejected over over and over and over. I had a subtle hate towards men. I have an ancestral calling to be a traditional healer, I have accepted this calling and it has changed my life. I've made peace with everything, I love myself so much and invest in my mother and my kids. I invest my energy in projects such as building a village for the San and bushmen ancestors. I have so much joy because I have a new spirit family... the elders I work with are replacements of my dad. I'm truly calm and at peace but it was so hard to live with this. This season I let it go. It just doesn't serve me and the past cannot change. Peace and love.I ❤

[@dorthepetersen9773]

Pile 3. You are SO right Reem😉 and thank you very much🙏🙏 I am deeply grateful ❤️❤️ Got this business idea like lightning from a clear sky a little while ago. And YES you are absolutely right Reem...I struggle to keep my thoughts positive...up and down up and down it goes but I'm getting there👍💪🙌

[@juditsimon958]

Pile 1- I have been going to art therapy and listening to you Reem and also journaling every day for more than a year. Just recently, in January, I've had a dream that went to the core of my problems and explained it all. There was a little child surrounded by broken mirrors and than a big part of me hade to go to sleep unavailable, unattended and unseen. It was my "wild" side that wasn't allowed to exist. I have created a nice life but only from a part of me and there is a great amount of suffering under the surface which is hard for others to understand. Now I must start to see accept and love this part of me to heel but it is not easy.

[@illuminatingchiron]

Thank you so much, dear friend. I chose pile 1. You are talking about my mother and father, and without getting into the depths of how but my childhood hurt, you are absolutely right when you said that I have been able to take hold of my emotions. For so long my inner child just raged and cried and acted out, hoping someone would notice her pain and come save her. I finally realized I’m the adult she’s been waiting for. I can feel when she surfaces because my reactions are emotionally immature, and I’ve started to be able to catch myself before I get to that point by being the adult in the situation and grabbing my inner child by the hand, asking her to come sit with me, and I hold her while she (I) cries. I tell her we are safe, we are okay, I am here. Tell me what you need. And then I hold space for whatever she needs in that moment to reground. A lot of the times I tuck myself under my blanket and do deep breathing until I have drifted off, or calmed down. And then I ask myself what happened. What about what happened caused that reaction so I can help you. And then I listen. And then I act. Whether that’s telling someone a boundary has been crossed, whether it’s realizing within myself that I’m acting out a trauma response and responding from a more grounded place, or whatever. I be the person that little girl needs in a healthy way, in a way that a 31 year old is able to. A lot of my shadow was getting lose in the depths of my own ocean and hoping a rescue swimmer would see me, and I’ve just learned to swim for myself. In those moments of fear or anxiety or anger, I hold myself and I keep swimming until the waters aren’t choppy. Holding myself just looks like cuddling and loving myself.

[@experiencesourceself999]

Pile No.1: Reem has pretty accurately captured how we/the pile heal emotion wounds, it is to moment to moment sit & feel through them, feel them fully, with no resistance. Trauma is simply unfelt emotions in our body. That’s all. By infinitely patiently feeling them whenever they arise - we LITERALLY shift all the so called limiting beliefs caused by so called trauma. Love every bit of the journey. Hope this helps you all so much love ♥️♥️♥️

[@tulipghosh8264]

Pile 3.... really resonated with me,,, claiming all the positive blessings,,, thank you universe ❤

[@looooooone]

Pile one here. I thank you for this reading. Trying to say what I did... I am 72 years of age. I have tried all my life to get approved by my parents and siblings. After the corona close down with no contact I just realized that my siblings see me the same way they did in childhood, and to make it short I decided to be my own best friend, release all expectations from others, setting them free as well. Realizing I have an amazing star family, feeling their love. Peace with being here, and just treat people kindly, myself included. Knowing I have learned so much. I don't know if I have arrived, but I am close, in a way letting go of the world, but loving it and intending to enjoy it to the fullest.

[@xandria_magic777]

Omg pile 1 resonates so much: A lot of emotions have been shaken up recently and it doesn't feel good but I intuitively got the feeling that it's happening FOR me to say goodbye to these shadow aspects forever, and then you say exactly that! Amazing. Working with my inner child at the moment. And today in particular I sat with an emotion that I avoided since last year. These energies, just wow.

[@goddessjin]

Pile 1 - 1st, thank you so much! I love your readings. You really answered it in your reading. I learned to sit with myself, to not distract, numb out or beat myself up for the hard feelings. I learned ro recognize the stories I was telling myself and to see them for what they were, just stories, not the truth. What took it over the top so to speak, I started dating almost 2 years after leaving a 20 year relationship and went through 2 significant situations, the 1st was a terrible date where I realized I was abandoning myself during the date by doing something I didn't feel right about, doing it just to feel accepted. The next day, I found a ring on the ground and meditated with it, hearing to make a commitment to myself. And began to really recognize when I was beginning to fall back into those thought patterns. The 2nd was falling in love with someone who, while I know had deep feelings for me, was not emotionally available. Instead of feeling sorry for myself, I sat with all the feelings the experience brought up for me, the heartbreak, sadness, etc. I just sat with it and allowed myself to feel it. I held space for myself like I was a dear friend, and isn't that what we truly are? Our own best friend? This past weekend, the person I fell for ghosted me and deleted me from the app we used to talk. I felt devestated. I used to isolate or slap a happy face on, instead I went to the functions I planned to before this derailment occurred and I was real and raw and allowed my community to be there in a loving way, it was so beautiful. I allowed myself to receive their love and by the end of the weekend, my cup was running over with love. Thank you for the confirmation that my work is finally paying off!! So grateful for all the experiences I get to have in this amazing journey called life!! ❤🙏✨️

[@sabierosiefilms]

pile 1, journaling when triggered and being completely honest with myself has helped me so much! I journal everyday and ask myself questions to get to the bottom of why I feel a certain way!!

[@Hailzbrowny]

Pile 1 thankyou. Healing the mother wound that my inner child felt ❤ I spent the day deeply sitting with these turmoil of emotions holding myself through these, releasing and cultivating safety within my inner child to feel all that she did. It was HORRIBLE to sit with. Oh how the healing now one month post has manifested out in the most beautiful ways. Sending so much love to everyone !❤ thankyou

[@vedantnagpal]

Pile 1 - This is the way I have done it, sounds simple and it is.. We all have an inner divine, we are divine, so just doing simple practices so I can have a deeper connection with that inner voice of guidance, so I can see through things which may not have a conscious understanding over but my inner divine knows, so just trusting that voice and letting it guide me. Of c the hard part is even understanding the fact that there is a voice and not our own thoughts, and for that I was guided by an awakened master, whom I was seeking for a long time, he gave me a tool called the Divine Light to awaken my inner divine. His name is Maitreya Dadashreeji

[@Bohmine]

Pile 1. Meditation helped me the most. When I started I was so desperate to try something that would help me heal. It filled my heart with love when I felt hurt, I felt more connected to my higher self and became calmer. I also write affirmations. When you start writing it feels a bit weird but soon your brain starts accepting that as reality and you feel - Yes! This is exactly how it is. I have this. I am like this. Hope this helps someone ❤

[@karinl7]

pile 1: First I ask if something is mine or not. Then I claim all my emotions. Even the "bad" ones. They are mine, they are my compass. I make space for each of them. And when they are given space and loving attention for what they want to tell me, they diminish, they pass. Like the trapped water that is released. And then the path is clearer. I know what action to take.

[@kptheminion8328]

“Watch the Universe bring marvels in your world!” 💫

[@juliaprykhodko]

Pile 1. I wanted to find an answer and started by watching different general readings on KZbin. I was surprised how many were matching each other also at different days/weeks. Meditation was a big support - being present and centered. Also, letting creativity strive - writing poems )) Then when re-reading them, I was crying. It was like a therapy for myself from myself. Connecting to ancestors for guidance. These were my ways to find the path to calmness and to see things through

[@csrmtl11]

Thank you for all of your readings, they're all beautifully made❤

[@ceciliakraft8770]

Thank you! To forgive is the only way to move on. Forgive yourself and the people that have been hurting you.

[@YaffeAgape]

Pile 1 here 🤗 Reem, you have helped my husband and I through the most turbulent year of our lives and a spiritual awakening for both of us. After 33 years of running away from my emotional issues and suppressing them. I finally sat with them (more like forced to sit) these past 3 months. Thanks to all the guidance I received, I have learned to sit with my emotions, and journal what I’m feeling and usually after a couple of minutes journaling, I am able to figure out where the feelings stem from. Once I was able to see the feelings and why I felt them, I was able to look at them more objectively. The power of now book, meditating and journaling all have been instrumental in my healing so far. I also participated in a Huachuma Ceremony so I was able to address these deep seated emotional wounds that were never addressed. Thanks to all of these things and finding my inner strength by being willing to face them head on. I already feel an amount of peace I have never known in this human life time. I am so grateful. And now everytime a challenge or strong emotion pop up, I don’t just lose myself in my emotions anymore.

[@DilrajGulshan]

Reem, thanks so much for this positive and exciting reading for Pile 3! I'm confident that this miracle will happen so soon and it makes me really happy to know that things will go in the right direction and everything will be fine! I strongly manifest for this miracle to happen fast and I thank the Universe and my spirit guides for being here for me in my struggling period, which will be over really soon! 🙏

[@crossfitbellydancer]

Pile 1!! I am so happy to hear this message!! I have been hurt in the past, but these last few years I've worked hard to not let the emotions get the best of me, as it makes me get carried away down a dark path. I didn't like it there, I prefer the light. So I made a conscious effort to help myself improve. I asked my angels and spirit guides to help me and they have. I have grown so much over the last three years, I am practically a new person! And mostly (99% of the time) I am happy. Every now and then something comes up that affects me, but I can easily hear my spirit guides and angels guiding me. Just a few words from them, and I find my way out of any dark thoughts. This message you have given Pile 1 was really wonderful, thank you.

[@lesliea.6440]

Pile 1- Smart to "see through" with wisdom and sitting with emotions. Oh for sure, sitting with childhood shadows attached to being diagnosed with Asperger syndrome as a female. Wisdom was embracing what I like and use it for the greater good. By doing that it re-directs and transforms negative emotions into something productive. Boundries another issue but I used my over-thinker or analytical brain 🧠to create emotional and body language algorithms that are "socially context-adaptable." It helps me asses or "read people." This has helped SO much in how to interact with people....and those who really care stick around and do not my true -self. ❤‍🩹🦄Thank you for the reading Reem 🙏

[@debbyrichards5618]

💛 Thank you, Pile #3 💛☮️ much needed confirmation for me right now 🙏

[@Slaaverin]

Pile 1. I am healing from a trauma caused by shadows. The event in itself was extremely traumatic and it took me 4 years to heal from it, and now I am at the end of my healing journey. I am healing by seeing with my mind how I bought into false beliefs of powerlessness, of lack, I learned now how to put boundaries, how to have authority, and how to be soveirgn in my own field, to have discernement so no one can ever manipulate me again. I went through an ego death but I built myself up together stronger than before. I felt in my body than nothing can destroy my light, even if everything else that made up me was gone. My light is eternal and indestructible, so now I have no fears anymore, even of the shadow, even of death. Lately I feel I am cleansing some residue from that trauma by having positive affirmation, putting my faith in my own power, in the light of my soul, having full confidence in myself. In truth I had no choice than to do this, we could say the higher power forced upon me this transformation, but it had to be done I guess. Thank you for this reading, it confirmed what I was thinking ❤

[@hasaryagappa979]

God bless you Reem 😇 Truly grateful to you and God for the divine guidance 🙏🏻 Jai Gurudev 🙏🏻 Har Har Mahadev 🙏🏻 Jai Bholenath 🙏🏻 Jai ShivShakti 🙏🏻 Jai Siyaram 🙏🏻 Jai Hanuman baba 🙏🏻 Jai Maa Kali 🙏🏻😇

[@karmarising144]

Pile 1 - 10 Day Vipassana as taught by Mr Goenka. It’s tough but very worthwhile. Life changing. Exactly what you are describing Reem. It’s free - run by donations from past students and volunteers. Just got back. It’s run worldwide.

[@life_aftersobriety]

Pile 3, thoughts are powerful and can keep you down always remind yourself it’s going to be great, it’s going to work out for you. Your guides are always there for you.

[@17tdonovan]

On how to integrate your shadow, my best advice is to come to the understanding that your past traumas are what have shaped you into being a strong person. So use that strength that not many have.

[@GabriellaVernersson]

Pile 1 here. Im happy to share how I integrate my shadow continuesly as I get to know it. We know neither our light or shadow side is really truly who we are, but it is ours. By judging our shadow it becomes louder. Therefor I like to look at my shadow as my child. It is mine but its not me and I treat it just like I would my child, with love and respect, never rejecting it and guiding it to heal.

[@gemyza]

Pile 3 here - Reem, watching your videos always gave me hope. And this one is true, my dream has finally came true to me after a long time. Sometimes I get anxious about it, but I stay positive. I havent been able to keep up with your videos because I’ve been busy fulfilling the requirements! Thanks for helping us manifest good things in our life. You are my favorite. ❤❤❤

[@Ast11rea]

Pile 2: I can't believe you hit it right on the head, I haven't taken care of myself or loved myself for a very very long time, it's when I became a mother, that I felt like if I did anything for myself that everyone would see me as selfish... but it's been detrimental to my health, and to stay stuck in a relationship for 12yrs bc I'm scared that it will traumatize my son, but if I don't do what's best than I won't be there at all😢

[@danielj5266]

What helped me was DL’s calm and generous spirit. She is a remarkable person and I honestly could not have done this without such a calm, firm and smart individual. I am humbled.

[@jackieosornio4945]

Pile #2 The healing and learning I did wasn't easy in the least bit but 1000 x worth it. The biggest part is witnessing, and sitting with my past, my choices, my pain, and not denying myself permission to respond. However, I had to take full responsibility for my participation, my choices, or lack there of. I allowed myself permission to feel how I felt for those involved along with not take on any responsibility for their actions and choices. Then, I watched my reactions, responses, and internal dialogue and got curious, then went through the process of compassion, forgiveness, and acceptance. I had to get real and vulnerable with who I truly am, what I real want, what does that look like and who does and doesn't fit that. I had to say good bye, a lot, even to those situations that weren't seemingly bad or wrong, but just needed to go. I learned not all things need to get bad before they end. Sometimes things just aren't, and that's okay. It's okay to say goodbye with a loving heart. I got quiet and learned to do things alone, by myself and it was uncomfortable. But! I learned I love my own company and those I invite me have to bring the same level of joy and ease. If I can't be me with them around, they're not for me. I went to several concerts by myself, I went to dinners solo, I took walks and hikes alone. I spent holidays solo. I got to know me. Who I was silent, singing, dancing, cooking, cleaning, stressed out with only my responsibilities, not anyone else's. It was lonely and hard. It's gotten easier. I feel lighter. I feel more liberated to be exactly who I am. I've made peace with my past. Im not fixated on the future and I'm learning to remain present without being passive.

[@hardevkaur1383]

Thank you for such amazing reading 🙏🏻💝. My journey to healing started when I got myself healed in 2019 from there I worked on myself even been a healer now I ask for help from friends who did healing for me. I had learned to be patient with myself. As been a healer help me a lot as I heal people I heal myself too. Just end of last year my friends said to me tht my energies are much calmer now. As you mentioned in Pile 1 🥰. Most important thing is to acknowledge it & ask for help. Do things that makes you happy this also help you heal your inner child eg eat dessert before lunch or dinner, enjoy playing at playground think what would you do as a kid. Hope this helps anyone out.

[@Flerken-Rainbow]

Pile 1. Your reading resonated with me, and I wanted to share how it applied to me specifically. For background, I did grow up with emotionally absent/ab*sive/narcissistic parents, and I feel like the original trauma was recreated in my relationships as an adult. The persistent feeling I had was 'being left out in the cold' just like you described in the 5 of pentacles. I want to share in the below what bit of cleverness helped me see through the wheel of wyrd. The truth is that my growing up with absent (deadbeat) parents taught me to accept toxic (deadbeat) people into my life and to tolerate persistent mistreatment/betrayals. People can do that for a number of reasons, but in my case it was because: my upbringing taught me to be an empath and I could understand and "connect" with pretty much anyone. Im a scorpio Sun with a lot of capricorn in my chart, so the "hard work of going deep" wasn't scary and I kind of enjoyed pretending I was a sort of ferryman for other people and their problems. The obvious is that putting myself into that position over and over again (and often helping people succeed and get better) meant that I eventually met people who had no interest in getting better. Those people are most easily described as high in Dark Triad traits: abusive, controlling, manipulative, egotistic etc. Energy vampires. To people who grew up differently it likely already sounds very silly to have put myself into those situations. However, if you are pile #1 and can relate: my turning point was going beyond "being a good person" and "doing the right thing." Very good and kind empathic people get sucked into these enabler positions where they're trying to change people who don't want to change. The truth is that they are energetic vampires who want to suck your time and resources, and their greatest hope is to distract you from putting your time into something better. So they will endlessly create drama and problems to distract you. It's like the Odyssey where Odysseus wants to go home, but he's stuck on the island with sirens. He has a greater mission, but he forgets it because there's a never ending cycle on the island to distract you further. In the same fashion, toxic vampiric people create an illusion of reality; you think you're in a meaningful marriage or family, and that the time poured into it (and your partner) will achieve some greater end. However, each and every time you reach a point of stability: there is some new unhappiness, affair, imperfection, etc to take away all your focus. In my life, I had a marriage that was like that. And that marriage was a microcosm / shoe-box diorama of what I've been doing my whole life trying to coach other people on their problems. My answer was to change focus from other peoples' paths and karma, and to refocus on my own. The first thing I had to do was realize I was on the island of sirens, and that I was being bombarded by endless distractions - in my marriage with a toxic person this came about as: devaluation, criticism, dealing with their infidelity, dealing with their substance abuse, etc. and that the way I was sucked back into the illusion was my own emotional reaction. Ah, an affair -- that hurts. Ah, some criticism -- let me focus on that since it hurts. To deal with the hurt I'd again go down the path of "working on my marriage" and usually being told some demands for change. I stopped reacting. Ah, some criticism -- ok, whatever. Ah, an affair -- hope she keeps you busy! I took back my own energy and focus, and I stopped giving it away. Secondly, I saw my parents again, and I saw that they had aged. The island of sirens was distracting to me as a wife, but I had another illusion to deal with as a daughter. The reason my most intimate relationship was so toxic was because I was replaying my parents' marriage. My husband did to me what my dad did to my mom. That's one generational karmic cycle that I identified and which needed to be broken. Then, as a daughter I never got the parents and family that any child would deserve. I bet that I was also reliving my parents' childhoods -- the other generational karmic cycle that needed to be broken. As a daughter, this other island of sirens distracted me with a cyclical game of: making bids for acceptance/praise from my parents and then also pushing them away / barring them from my life when they'd criticize or reject me. Like the toxic marriage, the thing that keeps you mired in it is the perpetual cyclical instability. I stopped reacting. Ah, you don't like my decision -- ok, that's fine. Ah, your friend's child is more successful -- I'm happy for them. From my side I had to end the perpetual distraction of the emotional pushing and pulling, and to maintain my own stability like a sturdy rock. Then I could see it clearly: they're aging, and one day (sooner than I know) I won't have parents anymore. At this point, I had mastered my own self (with the 8 of pentacles), and my next step had to be putting my own house into order. This process I think is very beautifully represented by the other tarot cards. It seemed like once I pulled back and stopped being distracted: the truth is that I was surrounded by people who don't want the best for me. That does not necessarily mean that they want me to suffer -- it just means that in their world they are number one and they'd use my suffering to get ahead. I believe that threat of betrayals / conflict / lying in wait under the bridge is represented by the 7 of axes. With the 2 of axes I had to make careful decisions. The lovers card I think is both me having to do inner shadow work (yin and yang in my own self), and also a representation of how I've used lovers throughout my life to do that shadow work externally -- I mean, I had finally found someone exactly like my father to confront him by proxy. I made practical decisions first, and filed for divorce and initiated separation. With my parents, I realized I had to go beyond "low contact" and "information diets." I had to finally put to rest (5 of cups) the anticipation of one day having a different relationship with them. One, because of the now very obvious practical time limit. Two, because clearly the only relationship they're capable of facilitating with me is a goose-chase of seeking and taking away approval. They're incapable of having something stable and healthy with me. A lot of people cut ties and decide on no contact -- and sure, I cannot go seeking for validation from them if we do not talk to eachother. That is one very valid way to break the cycle. However, after some time spent in the energy of the hermit / high priestess / sun, I decided that NC would be unnecessary for my case. The backbone of what allowed me to survive these siren islands was my perpetual tether to goodness (the sun) and my want to genuinely build into and serve others. I think out of everything negative that has happened that's one very unique strength that I should (wisely) lean into (at the right times). Circling back to the 5 of pentacles: it's very exhausting to simultaneously be a good person who wants authentic connection and also deal with cycles of betrayals. I can admit that sometimes that led to unnecessary black/white thinking where a dramatic action or decision just felt easier than trying to tiptoe a middle ground. In my case, drawing back my focus and energy inwards gave me the vitality to find that grey area for my parents. I don't think there is any hope to redeem an abusive marriage and that I made the right decision to end it -- there was no hope for grey there. Romantic (especially legal) partnerships aren't just bound by honor -- they're legal and financial systems where one misbehaving partner can relentlessly take advantage of you. However, as an adult my relationship to my parents is now only bound by honor, and we are all free to discontinue at any time. I have found that after I stopped (on my side) yearning for their validation and saw them clearly, then I could act within my values toward them and not be entranced by the push/pull dynamic. The external relationship is the same -- I still have low contact, limit information, and visit them outside of holiday seasons -- but the internal relationship is completely different. My inner child is secure now because of the relationship I have with myself, and she isn't seeking an (external) parental relationship that will never show up for her. So to summarize, I had to break some generational karmic cycles by becoming aware that I was in them. I decided to end my toxic marriage (and be done with toxic partners for good), and the associated inner work hopefully broke some generational cycles and that I learned whatever lessons carried over from past lives. I also decided to confront my parents (internally) and accept that I won't have a healthy dynamic with them. By keeping this problem just between my parents and I, it means I don't have to relive it with some toxic partner and beg them to love me better as a do-over. Letting go of validation seeking (and instead focusing on the grief of one day losing them, the realization that there won't be closure by apology or meaningful change, refocus to choosing to live by my values regardless of my parents' opinions) freed up my inner child to actually heal and to safely explore the world. Since then I've been doing shadow work by journaling and journeying, pursuing energy healing, paying attention to my dreams and focusing on shadow work with that, etc. The main block was in my heart chakra (understandable), and energy work (through reiki and sound healing) as well as metta meditation has helped tremendously to shift that. The inner healing work has been helping me move on with my life and focus on the things I'm meant to do in this lifetime.

[@ShahdFarid-q1l]

I started to speak to myself as if we are 2 versions of me the current self and the higher self we that’s when i build a strong bond between me and myself .. started to love and appreciate and respect my self and this is step one in healing .. once you love yourself unconditionally.. ur life starts to change little by little and u start to vibrate higher and attract better in ur life generally.. but this is a long journey and it is worth it ! ❤

[@ShahdFarid-q1l]

Then i started to vet bk to basics .. I am muslim and Quraan has a magnificent healing energy.. it balances my energies both masculine and feminine ❤️

[@ShahdFarid-q1l]

Acknowledging that we are part of this universe or part of god makes me be very aware of my emotions and thoughts and intentions.. because we truly have the power to attract who we are and what we are .. worked hard on cleaning my energies and specifically the subconscious mind because our reality is a reflection of our subconscious mind too ! Little by little it’s getting better and clearer .. you create your reality with Divine help ❤

[@ShahdFarid-q1l]

All alone with meditating in nature ❤❤

[@AliceClaggett-ou7kb]

Pile 1 I think that the path to healing was a combination of learning true self love and facing codependency head on …boundaries boundaries boundaries !! And finally releasing with love any people that are not serving your greater good. And never ever giving up hope.

[@fb7163]

[Pile #1] This is one of your rare glorious readings that are 100% for me! Everything fits. I was never able to get her (mother) out of my head. She was cold and cruel and towards the end, crossed into evil. None of it was physical, she tried to destroy people emotionally. She has been dead for a while now and I am finally getting (emotionally) rid of her. None of the standard advice out there worked. What I finally did was to completely stop trying. I gave up. That put my problem into my subconscious which is actually doing it's job of problem solving. My negative feelings are slowly lessening and neutralizing. When indifference comes, I'll be free.

[@yola6842]

Pile 1. I look at everything like a test from God. And I say no I will not let you trigger me and I turn the way I feel around and act in a total direction of what I’m feeling. Always seeing things brighter and as if I have passed the test. Thank you God. 🙏🏽

[@TheSunGodrises]

Pile 1: First thing is to become aware of your shadow aspects. Introspection and reflection play key roles. Meditating and just sitting with the shadow aspect is a good start. Once we are aware of the shadow aspects, we can accept them. Acceptance of the shadow allows us to integrate it. Dont be afraid of the dark

[@christashandsasmr]

Pile 1. It’s a really difficult process, especially when you’ve been traumatized since childhood, and it’s something that takes a really long time to overcome. Your growth becomes stunted when you’re traumatized at a young age and you continue to see the world as a child does. You continue to expect others to take care of you and provide for you causing pain in relationships. Being willing to stop blaming others and sit with the pain of the trigger which leads to the pain of what happened is excruciating and very difficult. But as I determined to keep doing that and keep facing my fears I began to see where I had stopped growing and how it had made my view of life and others distorted. I began to see that the people in my life weren’t the people that hurt me and weren’t even trying to hurt me like I thought they were. Forgiveness is a big deal, but when you start to see how everyone is imperfect and makes mistakes without even realizing it, forgiveness becomes easier. Softening, getting slow with every movement not just through triggers and being willing to look past blame is what has helped me to conquer over the pattern that pain from my childhood caused me. Also a big help has been my spirit guides. Without their profound love and respect for me I would’ve never been able to overcome the hurt that I experienced in my past. ❤

[@juliepope5748]

I am called to share for pile 1. Yes interesting the shadow/ light which is congruent with freedom/love, unknown/known, cosmos/earth, space/time. Union it's all come together... And it has always been whole, the puzzle is the illusion.. It's already complete as that... Yet being separate cannot be seen. Be still and know .. Let the current carry you.

[@silverbird779]

Hi Reem. I chose pile 1. I have learned to integrate my shadow and light by learning to value the darkness, to see it as a learning tool which shows me where I need to love myself. I have worked to heal and love my inner child and be the parent to myself I wish I had. I have learned to see all things as and/both rather than this or that and either/or. Including both sides, all aspects has helped me reintegrate and find a greater sense of wholeness. Wishing anyone who reads this finds the inner peace and harmony I have. Infinite love and blessings to you all. ❤

[@chriswhipp2347]

Thank you 🙏 I have been meditating daily for 5yrs... Looking into my shadow and light aspects and how they were manifesting in patterns in the now.. recently I received a healing via zoom from Soma Kallista in Australia which has enabled me to move through some emotional energetic blocks to embody light and shade and follow my bliss back into creating from a beautifully grounded space ❤ Chris

[@artsy1447]

Since Reem asked to share advice on how to integrate your shadow, the first step at least for me was accepting that it exists, I stopped repressing it and started respecting the side of myself that can do really bad things if I let it. This has let me start using it appropriately when I need to be more stern, but I don't let it make me get triggered and act out of control. I don't know what you think of Jordan Peterson, but setting everything aside he taught me this valuable lesson. Though I think he's theory/advice is based on Jung's theories. He just explains things really well.

[@jessierivest]

Thank you! Pile 1 - yes I feel that I'm still completing lessons. Today at work j got super frustrated by tech difficulties and realized that h can separate myself from that. I went for a run after work which I have NEVER done before. Had a lot of breakdowns and breakthroughs around the Pluto move and the Leo full moon. Also got my period today and taking in the most task oriented goals yet. So, I realized that my Warrior and Strategist are maturing and ready for me to put their energies into good things in my life...and if I don't I run the risk of spending it on stupid things like printers!!!!

[@sph798]

Pile 2: v accurate reading.I am finding it v hard with a work situation.Im going through stress, anxiety, mental stress and great sadness and all that you describe. yes I am dealing with something much bigger than me and am finding no way out. Thanks for a luvly reading.xx❤

[@iamcharuni]

Thank you so much dear Reem! ❤ Pile #1. Since you asked to share, for anyone whom this might be useful, the biggest lesson I learnt about myself was that self love is the only way. I lost my father to suicide in 2009 and the journey has been one of deep grief, deep awareness and transformation. As an intellectual person, one way I used to escape my body/emotions was by going into my mind. Intellectualising the solution take us away from true wisdom, which has to be felt within the body. Inner child work, meditation and sound healing has helped me resolve many layers including ancestral patterns. Discovering Human Design last year was an important turning point as well. Whichever path we can take to get closest to our own self with compassion, is the way forward. Another very important thing I learnt as a recovering perfectionist is that, complete healing is a myth! We DON'T have to be completely healed to be deserving of anything. Learning to give ourselves grace is very important. I'd be happy to share specific methods and teachers if anyone likes to know. Much love to our soul family ❤

[@iamcharuni]

Vipassana meditation was the best method of all for observing. But a degree of emotional healing is necessary BEFORE that, I feel, so that we may not use the meditation as an escape route out of integration..

[@0608jeffrey]

Reem❤ My way to integrate my shadow starts with appreciating and being grateful for everything life blisses me with. Meditation helps to detach from the triggers and emotions, see myself clearly who I am. Be at peace and patience, which are the most important aspects in my life now. All these virtues I learned from your readings since the last June. “Certainly one day we will meet in person.” my inner voice said. Can’t be more thankful❤

[@Yaduvanshi.p01]

I am LIBRA ♎but intuitively I selected pile 3 and REEM ! IT'S SOO ACCURATE I have my exam of UP POLICE RADIO OPERATOR that's dream come true opportunity for me and your reading just filled me with lots of positivity ,Confidence and hope ❤THANK YOU SOO MUCH REEM ❤LOVE YOU❤ LOVE YOUR WORK❤

[@radarlove462]

1 - I started posting my journey with shadow work and healing on my channel in August 2023. The tools I used to get started are there and there is so much I'm being guided to share on doing this work coming. It was a very difficult choice for me to begin telling my story but I want to help anyone that can resonate because we can heal, we can do this, I feel like I'm "proof in process" and I should encourage others to keep going, we got this lol. Thank you for your service and for the invitation to share 🙏 😊

[@claudinephoeniix3298]

Thank you Reem. In pile 1, it is true, I was left out in the cold by my own family. I had to break the Generational karma. And I did. I have stopped speaking to them for about 5 years now. I have learned that by leaving negative people in your life, it really makes you happier. It was hard at first to do so as it was my father, mother and brother. But I have come to accept it. I have also dropped many so called friends in my life. Doesn't mean if you know them for many years, that you have to keep being friends with them if they have no loyalty, steal from you, betray you and put you down. Good riddance to all these negative people. Pile 2, Yes, trying to see my true beauty as I was always told by my mother that i was ugly. Was always told how to dress, or sit. Knocked a lot of my confidence and I was very shy around the opposite sex. But I always dressed the way I wanted when I went out. I am now happily married to my second husband and have two beautiful little girls. My husband is very supportive in what I wear. He and my girls think the world of me and always compliment how beautiful that I am. I am not afraid to dress the way I want to be. Pile 3, I am already preparing for August to launch on KZbin as a content creator. And Reem, you are right, even though I know that I have amazing content, I am still kinda of nervous. But thanks to your reading, I will definitely will keep it in mind that everything will be ok, and that my community is going to love what I do :) Thank you Reem for all your readings, you are a source of light from my guides xx

[@happyshopper2647]

Pile 1, Resonated beautifully. You were telling my story. I accepted what was hidden from me as a child with love. My ancestors were waiting for me with love. Thank You❤❤

[@Amaratheoracle]

Pile 1: thank you so so much 🥹 I recently went back to the Bible reading specifically the Book of Psalms! I got a really good teacher and it has literally unshackled my mind! Literally my life is changing before my eyes! I think the way I learned the Bible was incredibly inaccurate. This new teacher really explains it so well and I’m seeing the benefits in real time 🙌🏾. Thank you so much Reem! 🤗🤗🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@RobertaCoila-lw1dn]

Hello. I chose pile number 1, a very true reading for me, thank you. To share one of the specific things that helped me, I had a dream that there was a level of my nervous system that I was unaware of as a being. A violet woman showed me how to see it. When I saw the emotional pain that my body was experiencing, I was horrified. I woke up. That day on KZbin I ran across the term Childhood (complex) PTSD, and learned about nervous system deregulation that affects your brain functioning. I found the KZbin channel Crappy Childhood Fairy, and she explained so much. Now I have been shown that forgiveness is a state, not an act. It is a state where you see the wound, the distortion, and decide that you do not need to carry it with you anymore. Choose to release the distortion from your nervous system, and your emotions and world become clear. Thank you for all your wonderful communication 💚

[@sarakathrynfort]

I went through the darkest time of my life and I'm on the other side. It lasted several years. I completely unraveled who I was so I could see what was at the center. We are all good people, and we all deserve love and affection. This affirmation helped more than I can explain: "I love and accept myself no matter what."

[@lorrainetaylor8570]

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[@may_you_shine]

Pile 1! Practicing vipassana meditation everyday (though its definitely not for everyone)is something that has really helped me

[@archiesparrow3969]

I always love hearing the intro "Hey Soul family!" It's so soft❤

[@elaineriley1111]

Thank you so much. This reading really resonated with me. I have been going through so much these past few years. Losing loved ones and trying to work through many spiritual lessons. Last month I had a light bulb moment when I realized that my thoughts were the problem. I was thinking so negatively. As soon as I started acknowledging each thought, thanking them but if negative moving them to a trash pile in my mind things have improved. I now have far less negative thoughts and my life is definitely changing for the better and my fears are significantly less. Be careful what you think, acknowledge each thought but only keep the positive and positive thoughts attract positive. Love and light to you all ❤. Thankyou for your wonderful readings which are always so accurate and have helped me stay strong and definitely helped me in my journey xx

[@PhylPeters]

Pile #2. Once again you nailed it! I’ve been given this message before and I continue to be stuck because my situation involves another person. Once I have the courage to be completely honest with myself, I know I will be very happy! Thank you!

[@saumyasingh8180]

Pile 1. I tried understanding and recognising my emotions and tried to find the root cause of my triggers and the underlying thoughts of unworthiness or not being valuable enough. When I changed my thought patterns and actively my behaviour associated with it, the extreme emotions started to become more mellow in nature. And guided meditation of positive emotions also helped me a lot in this healing journey.

[@Anu-xu3ls]

Pile 1 resonated so much. Like you said sitting with my emotions and being okay with feeling vulnerable instead of rushing to feel in control helped a lot and also the realisation that no one is ever truly alone in this world helped

[@lola9706]

When you are right,you are right.And without a fight.That's a clue.

[@jhod555]

This is one of the most astonishing readings I have ever seen from you. Normally only pile 2, but I was drawn to pile 1 and 2. A flawless reading about childhood neglect and trauma leading to an anxious attachment style and being drawn to the emotionally unavailable. About shadow work and seeing yourself as needing to have your sense of yourself being not externally based. I cried through this. I am quite literally struggling through a limerent episode currently, in spite of being happily married, and yes, another charlatan, caught me in his seductive grip (only in my head...he will never know my feelings, and I will never betray my husband..this is just the romantic fantasy of someone trying to win her remote fathers love, again and and again). Very hard to free myself from limerence, but I will. My emotionally absent father ....wow. I am prattling here but this is profound for me. I cannot thank you enough.

[@Sweetiekittie]

Thank you so much, Reem. Your reading is just on point. It really boosts me and my confidence (pile 3). I’ll come back to update how it went!❤

[@DenisseMiramontesRosas]

Pile 1: I have been doing lots of shadow work, feeling the Emotion what ever it may be, remembering when was the first time I felt it, going as far back as possible, and holding myself like a baby while feeling the emotion and releasing it. Then asking my spirit guides for their help transmutting it, fear to love, sadness to joy, etc. and making a new commitment to myself. So if I was betrayed or abandoned, my new commitment to myself is to always be loyal to myself and my inner child. I also make sure to send unconditional love to the person or people who did the harming, being compassionate and remembering that they were doing their best with the level of consciousness and resources they had ar the time. Some times I would journal, sometimes I would just go through this in my mind while taking a shower. Etc. I would then do self care activities afterwards because it is exhausting at times to go through these steps but it has been so incredibly important in my healing process

[@VeraDeveling]

Pile 2 really picked up the energy and story I'm in right now! There is something where I have to come clear about, I have to be honest, pure, speak my truth. How special that also my firstname means truth. I have to speak (up to) my name! I have to speak the energy that I have been given. The energy of love and light, truth, honesty, purity. And this is the moment, a jump of faith (fool 2.0) and it will indeed take me where I want, long and have to be. It will bring me what is meant to be. The word for this year that came through, is trust... This reading was a huge confirmation and divinely timed. It had been a while since I watched a reading of yours and I was drawn into it. Thanks again and yes, it is all my responsibility, though I feel it can only get better when I do take that step, when I do jump into what feels the unknown, yet it feels so safe and warm and protected. Lots of Love and Sunshine!

[@AmandaReel-oi5mp]

I have had a rough time, but I sat by myself, my biggest fear. I always felt everyone was leaving me, I realized everyone does the best they can with the tools they are given. Unconditional love for everyone no matter what they have done. You can love them but remove them from your life. Lots of journaling. Thank you so much for everything you do, bless you🌻

[@NanzNaturally]

Wow Reem, this video was absolutely amazing and unbelievably accurate. I Chose Pile 1 and the one thing that really helped with the observing of the emotions was Journaling. I was able to look back at previous days, vividly remember it but have the wisdom of having already been there. Then I can search deeper, understand the first reaction and think of better ways to respond next time.

[@Queenofair8]

Hey beautiful souls, I have chosen the pile 3 but for some reason was drawn to pile 1, just for the fact that I have just integrated and healed a big part of me , This part was heavy and was holding me back from my life, in the past , I have healed this with 5 magical things: -Unconditional Love towards myself and those who hurt me -Breath work -Dancing -Self care & Self love -Surrendering to my feminine energy I would love to add one thing that I have been seeking God talking to him every single day and night making him the closest to me than anything else, I do see him as a he because he’s my protector ❤

[@samikshasharma7501]

Pile 1: I’m a writer mainly my childhood and the traumatic experiences shaped me into this role. I’m about to finish writing this novel inspired from my life events about how I came out of my trauma!!

[@shivanishivani8999]

Pile 1: My Guru Baba Avdhoot Shivanand taught me ancient Indian meditation for burning karmas and his son Ishan Shivanand taught me how to heal past traumas and ancestral traumas. The word guru means the one who takes you from darkness (gu) to light (ru). I thank them and bless Reem and all earth angels for uplifting me🙏🪷🙏🪷🙏🪷🙏🪷🙏🪷🙏

[@Drogskol333]

Pile one. Taking the step to really start working on balancing your emotions is definitely not a easy one to make. But one that we all have to do if we want to move onto really getting to live, not just survive and exist. You have to make the choice to fight your war and confront and learn from your traumas in life. We all have them and they are no worse or no better then the other because one persons trauma is a big deal to them. I really decided to put me first, I quit my human job because all it was doing was making me depressed and just waiting for something to finally put me in the big sleep. I can't work a human job there is no point to it for me. But when I was finally out of that I could really focus on myself and healing myself putting the work into understanding my emotions and learning the lessons this world has for us. It wasn't easy. Many sleepless nights where I would end up spiraling until I finally figured out the lesson. A lot of going back to my traumas and reliving them to learn from them and once you learn the lesson and find forgiveness and release the past completely that trauma gets healed and goes away. If something continues to show up it's a sign that you still have something to learn from it. Once it no longer serves a purpose then it will no longer effect your life unless you hold onto it instead of letting it go. Like recently I thought I learned everything I needed from my past so I let it go. But one trauma came back randomly one night but when it came back I let it play out and observed the thoughts turned out it still had a lesson for me to really understand. All of your emotions are there to tell you something. None of them should be suppressed and ignored. They teach you what you love, what you don't like, what your passions are ect. They teach you about yourself. Though you shouldn't let your emotions make your choices because if you do it can turn out not in the best of ways when you do something out of emotion. Like take anger for example. If you make a choice to react out of anger you can end up saying or doing something that can hurt someone else. That's not to say your anger shouldn't be listened to, it defiantly should be listened to because it is telling you that someone crossed a boundary and you don't like what has happened. However if you chose to recognize your emotion and take time to think "why am I angry? How can I solve this without reacting?" You give yourself the ability to respond to the situation and gain the ability to make the best choice. When you can take the step back and recognize your emotions and what they are trying to tell you without reacting out of them you gain a balance and the ability to respond. Another example that I'm sure a lot of people can relate with is the feeling of lonely. Now what do you do when you feel lonely? You want to find someone to hang out with or date ect. If you let your loneliness take control and react from it you can end up in very poor company that can end up hurting you because you rushed into things thinking "Oh if I'm lonely I just need someone in my life." You don't stop to see red flags, you end up trying to put up with BS when that is just saying they are not the one to help with your loneliness and in the end you still feel lonely even hanging out with them. But if you don't rush into things and let yourself feel you will come to find the souls that you don't feel lonely with. Will they be human? Not always. There are so many beings in the universe humans aren't the only ones and sometimes humans can have more of a bond with non humans then with humans and that's okay.

[@carmenavila2621]

Thankyou White feather! Number 1 pile....eight of pentacles...am in the process 🎉. Self love....yes I am Loved, yes I am important and don't have the need to show myself to others ...I know how I am. We are working towards the family Unity and Love.

[@melsa8411]

Hi reem and soul family❤ pile #1 ; to find peace of mind and balance , these are my choices. Getting so far away from my comfort zone to find who I am is number 1. I acquired a lot of wisdom in my field at a young age due to my boldness even if everyone disagreed with my ideas at that time. Getting to the root of my insecurities by learning and taking risks, and investing in my health. Getting help by a professionnal to understand the trauma and healing my inner Child, its a work in progress but worth every tears. Putting in place boundaries verbally and mentally with people that I love but can't help. Cutting toxicity or people that I don't align with . Make peace with the way I had to live my life. Accepting love , help and aknowledge the fact that the lack I felt was due to the way my brain worked and I could rewire it. Bringing more joy with creative endeavor that bring me peace. Hope that help someone xx

[@PrakashSanjana]

Pile 1 Thank you Reem❤ You are 100% right. I healed myself with the intention ' To see everything for what it is , as it is, accept it , digest it , let go of it , learn the lesson , utilize the lesson '. I did this every single day and the shifts have been pure magic ❤🎉

[@michellejane8650]

Pile 1: During my meditation I started visualizing my inner child as young me and then I poured my heart to her, told her I love her soo much and took her in my lap and hugged her, cradled her, cared for her, shower her with kisses. And I worked on my shadow self to by recalling the events that I still remember even though its been years and then started evaluation of the emotions I felt that time. I started talking to my self in the mirror, smiling at myself, complement ing myself and pep talking myself. .....I heard someone saying that we should not say anything to ourselves that we can't say to a 5 year old. I pray that all those seeking inner peace and emotional growth shall find it soon. 😊

[@bethereorb2782]

Pile number 1 Advice and sharing my experience!!: I am a sun cancer, who is a big empath. I have grown up being emotionally intelligent but as mentioned in reading,while growing up adults have influenced the way I view my own emotions. In my case, being a child with overwhelming emotions lead to misguidance,where they told me I was rude and evil for speaking up about them. This experience made me more Intelligent regarding human emotion and actions, I always been good helping others but my problem has been (this might be yours too if u are pile 1) BEING MEAN TO OURSELVES! Yup. The lack of compassion for being HUMAN! we are human! And personally what always calms me down when being driven with lots of conflict in emotions, it's realizing I'm human and it normal! It's not as easy if everyone has inflicted on you that it's wrong to share your feelings. For me I have had companions who have taught me its human and okay, best of luck to those who also are in pile 1. No one deserves to feel evil or wrong for simply having human emotions

[@luizasantana_facilita]

Pile 1: I have been studying Dr David Hawkins' books, especially Power x Strength, and I have been applying them in my life to raise my vibration and I am finding it easier to deal with my emotions

[@S-M-9]

2 - I'm so overwhelmed, and sad, and betrayed, and defeated right now... I am not so worried about physical looks, but looking like an idiot for trusting someone I shouldn't have. Thank you for the encouragement. 🥹🙏🏾💐

[@dannimura2670]

So you have a beautiful heart. Be encouraged by this, but begin to have discernment and look beyond the mundane in your dealings with others. Accept it as a lesson in growth and move forward with confidence knowing that you have learned from this experience

[@michellehay2394]

1.. breath, allow, receive and surrender

[@gitisaleh8535]

Thank you Reem for this reading. ❤️. I really needed it. I could find the deep wound inside me. Maybe I can do something for it. It was as if I talked to someone. I feel calmer now, although the problem is still there . I think we need more of these readings, than just giving hopes. The inner wounds from childhood, essentially those that still exist, are very important to find. And a cruel mother is one of the worst 💔.

[@sandrachow6997]

Pile 1: You have described most of steps of achieving the calmness. #1) I do mindfulness everyday, sit with my emotion, learn to accept them rather chase them away (cuz it’s impossible) and see what they are trying to express to me. #2) I also write down my emotional experience every day. I will analyze what they are, and what thoughts are embodied in them. I named them “…” little man, and thanked them for being around and useful in the past. Through this, I learned to keep a distance with them, being able to see that the thought triggered those emotions do not serve me anymore. Thank you for this amazing reading!❤🎉

[@TheGade77]

Pike 1: I don’t resist any scenario in life. Do what I can and trust the Divine to guide me. I express my gratitude to the Universe for giving me my TF in this life, may he be with me or not.

[@Taniaherold1]

PILE NUMBER 1: First, thank you Reem for your absolutely magnificent readings - and your own personal energy you put into it. I feel like I'm sitting down with a loving, trusting and uplifting friend while having these readings, so thank you :) Apologies in advance for my long story below haha, but since I had already wrote it as a part of my breathwork instructor training, I thought I would copy the whole thing here. It's been truly transformative working with my shadow and taking the time to understand and transform it. I can honestly say I am the most calmest and happiest I've ever been - and I'm so so excited for life. YAY. --------------------------- Intro: Imagine experiencing the most blissfull and life-changing moment, in the midst of absolute struggle and personal chaos (!) - that was my reality 6 months ago. While I was navigating a deeply traumatic breakup that had left my spirit broken and my life in mess, I stumbled upon a breathwork session that filled me with intense emotions of love, gratitude and compassion. My life changed drastically from that point forward. Breathwork experiences: When I say I stumbled upon breathwork, I actually do mean it. A month after the breakup, I took off to Bali in true Eat Pray Love spirit, and embarked on my own self-discovery journey. My initial days started off at a yoga and wellness retreat where I found myself emerging in yoga and meditation more than ever before. On my last day they had a Quantum Breathwork session, which sounded interesting, so I attended. It was a small class of 10 people and we were doing all these weird techniques: box breathing, alternating nostrils and intense breath holds. I believe our longest was over 2 minutes. During the breathhold my mind switched off and I was enjoying complete stillness. When we finally released that last long breathhold, that’s when it got strange: I had an extremely pleasant feeling running through my body, warmth, calmness, relaxation - to the point where I wasn’t even sure if I had a body. Shortly after a long state of intense love and bliss took over. I can honestly say I have never felt emotions as powerful as in that moment. Also, feelings of compassion and forgiveness really stood out to me, and I was able to not only ease my feelings of resentment towards my x partner - but also old buildup feelings towards my mum. A week later I found another breathing class at a place called Yoga Barn. I signed up to the class and was excited to once more connect to those exceptional positive feelings. However, this time the class had more than 60 people attending. And we were all placed in a big circle and asked to hold hands. Not something I’m particularly into, but hey I had committed to going full-in on the bali vibes. This time, we were breathing in a completely different way. Very rapid nose breathing, with no breaks or holds. Our hands started to tense up into odd postures. Our instructor had pre-warned us of the chicken claw effect. And then people started to cry. One person was screaming while crying. And suddenly I started to cry. Although my body was cramping and tensing up, I experienced feelings of release as my tears started to flow. It was a very intimate moment to be sharing with so many strangers, but we all found ourselves hugging the people next to us afterwards. I strongly remember how I felt this unexplained compassion for the girl sitting on my left, why I initiated a hug. Something I never ever do fyi! But here we were, two strangers, sharing a very caring hug. Afterwards people could choose to share their thoughts. And I found myself being one of the few who grabbed the microphone to share my gratitude for the experience. I left the class incredibly intrigued, because I now understood there's a breathwork scale. I had just had 2 completely different experiences, but with the same practice. And beyond that, the 2 sessions had changed my thoughts and behaviors instantly: made me comfortable with intimacy, gave me courage to share my words, it made me feel love from within myself and it gave me compassion towards people I held resentment for. Family dynamics - and personal journey: And love, intimacy or speaking up is not something I have been particularly comfortable with throughout my life. Looking back on my childhood, the lack of stability in my upbringing is now more clear. My dad was an alcoholic, and my mum a work-aholic. They split when I was an infant, so I was going back and forth between them as a kid. I lived with my mum, and would see my dad a weekend each month. Days with my dad would be spent at the local pubs with him. Other times I would be home alone. I didn’t have much of a meaningful relationship with my mum either, as she was hardly home and what I would describe as emotionally detached. These childhood dynamics made me feel lonely, insignificant and unloved. Taking care of myself, compromising my needs and not sharing my feelings was a way for me to show them love and hoping to get it in return. In my late 20’s an episode triggered me to share some of these feelings with my mum, as a way to improve our relationship. Instead of bringing us closer it brought us further apart. I found myself in a mild depression, going to therapy and postponing my thesis. A year later when I finally finished my masters, I decided to escape my life. Or rather try and pursue happiness and belonging elsewhere. So I went off to solo-backpack Australia for 3 months. I could have returned to Denmark afterwards, and the comfort of my apartment in copenhagen and kick starting a career with a fresh uni degree. But Australia made me feel full of life. Why 7 years later I’m still here. Looking back, this was my re-birth. Starting from scratch, building a new life. When I settled in Melbourne I was living in a 1 bedroom apartment with 5 other girls on and off for a year. Jumping between random jobs - painting fences, cleaning airbnbs, waitressing, farmwork and sailing. But I was happy. However, my biggest struggle was to find ways to stay. Visa’s therefore became an ongoing stress; backpacker/farmwork, student visa, work sponsorship and finally a partnership visa. So as my visa story reveals, I finally found myself an aussie partner! During the following years I was at my happiest, ever. I had found my home in Australia, I was working for Walt Disney in my dream role, found a partner i loved dearly. We bought a house together, got a dog together. And talked about marriage. I became a part of his family who I cared for deeply. But 3 years in, a sudden situation instantly destroyed the relationship. My new house, my dog, my visa, my job with Disney, my aussie family - the foundation of all these things was built on my relationship. I was at an all-time low in my life. Life was a struggle and chaos. So that’s when the idea of Bali came up, and when breathwork showed up. We are now back at where we started, we are back to the transformative experience. When I found out that science could explain the experiences I had with breathwork, I became obsessed. I started to reflect deeply on my breakup and how my childhood patterns had allowed specific personality types (narcissistic abuse) into my intimate relationships. For me, this realization was an epiphany. And it propelled me into profound healing. To the point where I can say I am happy for every single thing that has happened in my life. Good and bad. Because it led me here, and to who I am today. I have now quit my corporate work life, and instead following my heart. Because I am now more connected to my heart than ever. I feel purpose, courage, drive and a deep compassion towards others, especially those who have been going through hard times themselves.

[@Evelyn-ox8ef]

Pile 1❤,I met Astrology in 2021 which assists me in realizing how come I have emotional turbulence since born. (Four planets in Scorpio and another three in eight house). Astrology helps me figure out it is the deep rooted fear of abandonment and rejection causing my low self esteem. Since then I told myself I will always love and stand by myself no matter what. By now I am rarely triggered by anyone, but if I am, I will tell myself to detach and go home pick tarot cards to see what’s the lesson behind. It helps me become calmer and happier.❤ thanks Reem!!!!