In-Laws DEMAND that my family MOVE OUT of OUR HOUSE so my SISTER IN LAW can MOVE IN

[@AmItheJerk]

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[@Red_LGN]

Absolutely NTA. There are so many better ways to help the in laws, and them asking for your entire HOME, your own place is just insane.

[@vdx3523]

This is not iam the a holw

[@WHATISAHANDLEANDWHYDOESITNEED]

NTJ*

[@ponyfairyVania]

Not only are they trying to make it sound like it's their fault SIL and her children are homeless, but they are also making it sound like it's easy to just uproot your family and get a new house. You know people usually save up for years or use the profits from the sale of their house to purchase or build a new house. And yet here they are acting like it's no big expense or like they are making millions to afford being able to just hand over a whole house for free and go find another house. That would only end in OP's children being homeless. They should make a PowerPoint to explain these basic facts to them. Does OP and her husband work? Do either or both of them have high paying jobs? If so that would explain their disconnect on what's feasible/reasonable. Especially if SIL was a stay at home mom who now has to adjust to being the provider.

[@justonerandomgamer2353]

"How dare you not give us your house, how greedy and selfish of you!" *says the ones trying to greedly take the house.* As an old saying goes: "Pot calling the kettle black."

[@Brothemeus_TheThird]

Just leave em' Empty Handed -Wise man.

[@nichochan8681]

This is some "Do it for Dan" energy.

[@TC-cd5sm]

I absolutely loved that story. YOU CAN STILL DO THIS FOR DAN! lmao

[@xrystaliaa]

Thankfully they don't invite themselves into moving in. The "Do it for Dan" story had some terrible people there.

[@user-ri2wh8jl5felll]

This is a joke "amongst us" 🟥🟥🟥 🟥🟦🟦 🟥🟥🟥 🟥 🟥

[@TheSonicPlushTeam77]

This SIL giving Dan a run of his money

[@lizziekaptain843]

I forgot about that Saga. Thank you for reminding me. That was a ride of emotions and twists.

[@Cameramanthepro]

Am getting do it for Dan vibes here

[@leslieking6259]

I thought the same.

[@goCanes8]

YES!!!

[@QuickManEXE]

I did too.

[@thealchemist51]

So did I I expected this to be somewhat of a continuation

[@joshuadavis9216]

Big time

[@Jermbot15]

If ex-husband gets the house, he's also going to get the kids. So don't worry, it's only sister-in-law who will be homeless.

[@ElecticalCheetah]

True, OR the kids aren’t his aka she cheated

[@gurglequeen433]

The way OP told it, it sounds like he abandoned the kids. There's a tiny cynical part of me that's heard so many of these reddit stories that jumped to the "she cheated and the kids aren't his" explanation.

[@Adam-lw9xp]

Story 1: OP offered a compromise and that compromise was rejected. OP was not a jerk and was fair to offer a compromise.

[@doctordetroit1217]

Even if OP didn't have 4 children, why should they give up their home, for the SIL to lose the house it sounds like she is at fault, and are they saying that the Father is going to put his kids on the street? Regardless you are not idiots, but the in-laws are, sounds like SIL is the golden child!

[@fanofpink]

So telling them to move out of their home they bought isn't greedy and selfish? Gtfo mother in law.

[@evadedenbach1226]

"But we're family. But I'm family. " My response? "Toxic is toxic. Entitled is entitled. If you want a house so bad, get a job! Same goes for you Mom and Dad."

[@JamesDavy2009]

Also, "The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb."

[@bobm5951]

Story 1 - I would've burst out laughing! And then told them, through the laughs, that they're out of their whole damn minds if they think I'm gonna give up my house for ANYONE. Story 3 - Your father and his wife are AH's. It is in NO WAY your problem to take care of THEIR kids. Story 4 - I'd end up going off on them and throwing them out. Story 5 - He needs to screw off. He is not relevant. And your fiancee doesn't need to ask him ANYTHING and neither do you. Uninvite him all together if he won't shut up. And remind him that he is NOT your father at all. Story 5 - Stop trying to be friends with coworkers. They are not friends. And do not leave early for any of them and also argue it if your higher ups try to send you home early. Tell them they can send someone else.

[@7thlittleleopard7]

For #3, nah fam. The OP is bonkers crazy, expecting a five year old to be carting around water as a 'small chore'. You can do all sorts of damage to a childs' body by forcing them to do stuff like that before they've fully developed their musclature, especially if they're new to any sort of working of that level (which they fucking should not be doing before that age so absolutely SHOULD be new to that shit). I wonder what other 'small chores' she expected to be done around the place that were actually unreasonable as fuck, because holy shit, a lot of the stuff she mentions hints towards a hella crazy mindset. Like, cool, she gave stepsis and fam a place to stay for a while, but where she lives and the expectations she has may be pretty fucking wild just based on thinking it's at all sane to expect kids to lug around water buckets as a 'small chore'.

[@michaelshworak]

Why is this kind of giving me do it for Dan vibe tbh

[@LUCASTHECOWBOY]

I’m getting do it for Dan vibes from the first story

[@firefly4f4]

Stepdad engagement: Absolutely NTA. The wedding is for the bride & groom, and the now fiance is under no obligation to follow "tradition". It has nothing to do with him being a stepdad either, as I'd say the same if he was her biological dad too.

[@princessmarlena1359]

“Do it for -Dan- whatever the sister in law’s name is!”

[@jasondyrkacz8270]

"Do it for Danielle."

[@joshuadavis9216]

? Who does this? Who in their right mind thinks they have any type of authority over someone else's property regardless of financial status. What country what state what generation what year.

[@QuickManEXE]

Key phrase is "in their right mind", which they clearly are not.

[@evadedenbach1226]

Worked at Claire's. Worked in the toy department at Meijer's. I've seen them both bring out the worst in every one on both.

[@cliffordmaynard6559]

On the first story, op do NOT do it. It is YOUR PROPERTY, PERIOD.

[@brandonnewby178]

#1 : 😂😂 why is this even a post? Your husband kind of handled it perfectly.

[@darkstorm5388]

I love that "Do it for Dan" has become a term and a meme 😂

[@Southparkclips.2]

Story 1 my response : womp womp

[@axellucielle9060]

Oh great another Do if for Dan situation

[@Kanerudo16]

Story 1:Starting to make sense why SIL's now ex is divorcing her.

[@jasoncarpp7742]

*Story 1:* I don't think OP's the selfish jerk at all. I think it's the family who's being the selfish jerks.

[@4givablyun4givable]

How are the in laws saying they dont need all that room but the SIL does? Do the in laws not know how math works? Not even math just counting in general. If the sister in law moves in with her 4 kids that equals 5 people living there, however op also lives with her 4 kids AND her husband which equals 6 people. Obviously the family with more people in it are the ones that need more room right? I mean i would've flat out said to them "so with this house being 'too big' for my family, by that logic since you would have one less person living with you than i do, then this house is WAY too much room for your family also sis. Nice try with that one though"

[@AlonPotsdam]

Found this channel yesterday.i love it

[@brandonnewby178]

#6; definitely don't leave early without telling the manager what is wrong with you?!

[@brandonnewby178]

Oh. Hah. He knows

[@brandonnewby178]

And for not telling him that Dads support their daughters, not their own wishes.

[@CompulsingFate]

Been a while since I've been here.

[@v.crowley]

Story 1.. sorry.. but for a judge to choose the husband to get the house and put kids on the street.... Then OPs SIL seriously f-ed up that relationship...

[@leighnisbett9691]

S4 , most people who get their ears pierced usually go for a non allergenic stud earrings . I had my ears pierced three times ,twice I had to take them out because of an allergic reaction to nickel , the third time one of the studs went into the love the doctors and nurses suggested hoops until it healed completely for 8 weeks . You don't need expensive expensive earrings until your ears is healed completely from the piercing ,then you slowly but good non allergenic earrings .NTA

[@ElecticalCheetah]

Seriously op leaving means her dad and step mom have to now be parents and deal with it and you know what if they don’t want to be parents they can put their kids up for adoption, because seriously if your not going to bother parenting your own kids then why ya have them? Their mad that they now have to give up free time to be parents and don’t want to pay for a manny or babysitter

[@Connor-zl8gi]

The in laws are clearly the jerks in the first story, thinking they can get whatever they want just cause they can is really selfish

[@beverlyhyso7553]

The first OP is so not the jerk you got to look out for your kids they need to just stand their ground.

[@7thlittleleopard7]

I'm sorry, but expecting a FIVE YEAR OLD to carry a bucket (even if it's smaller than a normal one) of water from a well is FUCKING MENTAL. Maybe if they were 8-10, sure, okay, but at five your muscles are not developed enough to deal with strain like that. Water is heavy, far heavier than a small child should be carting around. Besides, at five the water is more likely to be spilled all over the place than make it where you're carting it anyway. Sounds like there's some coco-bananas stuff going on in that OP's head if they think living like that is normal. If I were OP's sister, I'd be gunning my way out of that situation asap.

[@remigiuszkozak2016]

Why do I got wibes for do it for dan story

[@brandonnewby178]

Won't be in the picture till 2032? Damn. After that long of a sentence, would you even want him in the picture?

[@andriiukraine6697]

Story #1: are they idiots?

[@KateSuhrgirlPlays]

Since when is 12 bucks for a pair of earrings considered expensive?

[@QuickManEXE]

Karen's want everything for free.

[@RefaelAcosta]

I’m gonna stop at 2:08. Excuse me you’re saying to build a new house you guys need to build a new house. Are you kidding me? You’re telling us to move out of our house when it’s literally. Your fault that you didn’t start to look for a house during the divorce that’s what normal people do.

[@stygiandragon3865]

Story 1: The fact that OP's husband didn't even need a second to just drop a simple "no" in the in-laws' face and just walked out. Now that's badass. Story 2: NTA. It's not like OP is asking the children to do anything out of their league. Sure, it's inconvenient to not have anything near you. But this is the compromise the step sister needs to be aware of if you are living in someone else's house. Also, what's wrong with guests nowadays not wanting to help around the house? Story 3: What a lazy couple! They are the parents, not the OP. If they don't care about OP, then why should OP care about them? But OP should at least leave the kids a note and stuff, telling them why she's leaving and what their parents really are and just hide it. Story 4: ...Nothing else that needs to be said here. Just let the imagination do the rest. Story 5: That step dad is just not worth the trouble. He has a really weird main character syndrome. Also, most of these "traditions" are all ditched in times. And his last statement about being the dad longer than OP's actual father is just the icing on the cake of showing his true character. Being a father figure DOES NOT make one a father.

[@WHATISAHANDLEANDWHYDOESITNEED]

Ermmm, actually, it's NTJ🤓

[@entertaining-shorts246]

people who are not listing to the strorie but watching the car miro

[@chung2055]

NTA Story 1: Get the hell out of that toxic house as soon as you turn 18.

[@jordensmith355]

The first story was not the jerk why does the sister have 4 kids when she was not stable and her relationship with her partner was bad and wtf is up with all these people thinking they are the jerk with these storys

[@sophietierney-jf6el]

story 1 your mother in law is the jerk here demanding that you and your family move out because her princess daughter got divorced and she and her kids need somewhere to live tell her to get a job or go on welfare and food stamps and make sure you change your locks and put up cameras she might break in and claim squatters rights and it will take years to get her out 🤬🤔😡🔐🔑🎥📹📸📷

[@ReSoule]

For the first story. It is interesting that multiple family-in-laws are attached to this idea of having OP give up their home. No mention of paying them for renting their home to the SiL. No mention about how bills will be paid. No mention AT ALL about the OP's kids (which are 4 kids). BUT they mention the SiL's kids. Any one of them could have easily been targeted to give their homes up. It gives me the feeling that this perdicament of the SiL was a excuse to mess with OP's family or get rid of them for whatever reason.

[@ColinFriedl]

hell no not the jerk frist story

[@ColinFriedl]

plus you should get the house you have kids and need house argue for the right for the kids

[@gurglequeen433]

Wow, imagine telling a seventeen year old they are the most consistant person in a childs life, while being that childs parent. How sad for both OP and tbe step siblings.

[@seraglioborneo2803]

S1 Never do business with family. Never buy/ sell property from/ to family. If you inherit property (eg dad's house) that was seen as common property by other family members then best to sell it and go far away Simulate having a brain wave in front of inlaws and tell them to house daughter + grandkids!

[@thattpsplayer]

“How greedy and selfish for not giving us your house for free” They are being greedy for wanting the whole house. They also said that the person is making the family homeless. If the person gives the house wouldn’t they become homeless.

[@AmandaOwen-n9r]

Why do people think that family give them the right to do what they want. With everyone else's lives. Cut ties. Best thing I ever did in my life.

[@seanwashbrook9235]

Why don't the in laws give up their home?

[@PajamaCatWithRamen]

Soup is hot 🍲

[@SpencerMiller574]

A little ice 🧊 for your soup 🍲?

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

The Tea is hot ! 😂

[@PajamaCatWithRamen]

@@SpencerMiller574 yes please good sir or maam

[@funNactive1]

"The father isn't in the picture & won't be until the end of 2032." - Wonder where he could be with expected arrival date? Maybe he could get home early with "Good Behavior"? 😉😂

[@antoniosantini6937]

14:29 See, my parents are Spanish. They just say let's go to the bathroom

[@VoidDuckk]

Easy solution to this problem, just rent them a few rooms in a hotel

[@lolyguyisgood]

Ahh yes Retail, the field that can break even the most patient of people

[@kathleenmcfarlane2555]

Story 2: OP is the A-hole for sending a 5 year old to a well. She needs to look up Baby Jessica. Millions of 80s kids were traumatized by this.

[@MyulMang]

Story 1: The fact that the SIL was offered the guest room and other room and still rejected saying that she wanted the whole house is just greedier

[@ann-sofipetersen6184]

They even said they could get the guest room in the 1 story

[@Summertime-ye3wg]

Screw the in-laws and the sister in law, just block them and change the locks so they don’t get any ideas about trespassing.

[@eric98292]

The Claires story: Honestly sounds like a day in the life of every parent of a 6 year old. All 6 year olds are like this at times. They want everything and complain all the time. The parents kept saying no and were obviously stressed and embarrassed...also normal. The main point is they kept saying no and even put some stuff back. OP has obviously never spend any time with kids.

[@agentmaryland1239]

If the sister in law was bringing just as much to the relationship...why can't she buy her own home? Unless they both worked minimum wage, I don't see why she needs your home...other than because this means she won't have to pay mortgage or rent. So basically, the sister in law is the golden child.

[@camdenzeigler6954]

Story 3: you can press charges on 4 counts of child neglect

[@mcme1537]

S2, what if that 5year old child falls into the well and drowns, Be responsible Adults and be careful with children and water. YTA

[@lornaorengo3410]

@AmItheJerk always put himself in the situation the OP is in but you read so many stories that you know the outcome

[@TC-cd5sm]

In-laws and sister in law story? I'd tell them to F off and block their texts/numbers.

[@jaydeerevilla4808]

Story #5. I'm just confused with the part that her bio dad died when she was 6yrs old then later she said that her father wrote a note saying that he hopes she followed her dream of making games. At 6yrs old I'm not sure if anyone already grasp or has an idea what making games is about. Correct me if i'm wrong tho.

[@LemonChick]

Yep - I picked up on that too. Sounds like the story is made up, which I hope it is as the treatment of her step-dad, her father of 20 years, is just horrible.

[@QuickManEXE]

I noticed that too. Maybe the OP has wanted to do something like that since she was 6 or younger? Probably not, but it is still possible.

[@Iansco1]

On the second story. You are. Not for anything sister. But because you bred with a criminal. He is not "unavailable ". He is imprisoned.

[@Ya-boy-BoM]

17:24 'hes not my dad' 17:44 'your dad'

[@zero00044]

$12 is expensive for earrings? I charge $15 for the ones I lase cut, and those are made of stainless steel and wood. Nobody has said they are expensive. Many think the things I sell are going to be much more expensive than what I actually charge. So $12 for precious metal, is actually a good deal.

[@LemonChick]

We only get to hear one side in these stories but a step dad who has been a father to a child for 20 years really should not be treated as if they are nothing. So he is probably clinging on because of how he is being treated - which is horribly.

[@chung2055]

Op was right to say NO

[@stvandy1]

How did the ex-hasband get the house? No judge would have given him the house.

[@dogofwar6769]

Story 2: If nothing else that is some seriously primitive living if the OP doesn't even have running water. But she still has internet access... priorities, I guess. lol.

[@leighnisbett9691]

S2 ,Op how does your sister and her kids think that the first settlers lived like ,the fact that you have the internet is progress and that's possibly for the children's schooling and your work . The first settlers worked together as a whole family unit with everyone doing chores that was age appropriate . If your sister can't handle the basic living standards in the country side then she needs to move to a town or city where she'll need to pay a high rent for a three / four bedroom apartment .NTA

[@sophietierney-jf6el]

story 2 your stepmother and father are the jerks here for making you babysit for every holiday and didn’t pay you start taking your stuff little bit at a time to your friends house and take your passport social security and a copy of your birth certificate and leave when you’re father and stepmother are asleep and make sure you have a get away car a taxi or a friend because they know their loosing a free babysitter and if you stay for get about college or a career 🤬🤔😡🚘

[@ebayrose]

Story 1: How the heck did the BiL get the house? Especially with SiL keeping the kids?? After he filed for divorce and left the house...?

[@WatermelonmanHELMET]

Game?

[@Fangs-jo4bq]

So I have a story about finding the Lego Minifigures blind bags. I seen people who tries to steal those bags. And the entitled karen get caught in the act. So finding them in store are impossible now days.

[@Panwere36]

To me, there has to be more to the story with the divorced sister-in-law. The OP is NTJ, but again, I don't think the whole story is known.

[@dodgeviperman]

What’s the video game being played??

[@jasonvoorhees3430]

What's the name of the game playing in the background in the first story can anyone tell me please

[@Dragon_SevenK]

I think it's a need for speed game but I'm not sure

[@jasonvoorhees3430]

@Dragon_SevenK thank you for letting me know I'll have a look at some videos to see

[@hamrad645]

NO! You are not being selfish at all. You have four children of your own. You and your husband did NOT cause the divorce, and you didn't give birth to their four children. Your first obligation has to be to your children, not your sister-in-law's children. Of course you love her children, but your first obligation is to your own children!

[@LiamSmith-d1i]

Ok

[@tommymarcelain3583]

How is it when you don’t give someone something that is yours you are selfish. But they not selfish for demanding you give it to them and you go buy another one. That is selfish. Narcissistic The step dad in last story is a horrible person for saying that about her dad.

[@akiralyrics9590]

Story 3 isn't the house in OP's name? It totally should be

[@akiralyrics9590]

17:45 But he's literally not her dad? Why are you calling him her dad? 🙄

[@Ahem-nc2nt]

Well the baby sitting one Well these kids did nothing bitter to her and only wanted their sister to spend time with them and completely disappearing would be terrible for those kids you should Try taking revenge like asking a very high baby sitting rate and do it for so little and manipulate them like hate those other baby sitters or force their parents to pay for you

[@jacksonsworld9075]

Im hoping the OP is away from his in laws

[@ArthurGroves-v9v]

Anyone else getting the “do it for Dan” vibes 👇

[@Dragon_SevenK]

What's the game

[@maikoukun]

What’s the game in the back

[@ninja_kitten-1]

Nah 😂 the fact that they are making u homeless

[@camgra9763]

Bet

[@dcg590]

S-2- your husband is in jail?

[@kmon1324]

Processing... "Do it for Dan" vibes detected...

[@jonnneydeep948]

Bigg fan

[@shawnsparkman7916]

Offer to sell the house to sil. If she doesn't want to buy it, sell the house and move far away.