The WORST Date of My Life: A Call to Stop Settling and Wait for God’s Best

[@jaelinmoore2174]

Nothing was working because God is keeping you invisible to other men for you to be presented to your husband when the time comes 🎉🙌🏾❤️

[@mariaangela6798]

You couldn't say it better!! I was always wondering why the guy that I thought at the time was my future husband never saw my worth. God didn't let it, cause he isn't the one. Simple as that

[@Taylor-ge5ex]

@@mariaangela6798do you think you idolized marriage because of you thinking that the person was your husband

[@Sofancyxyz]

I’m glad this popped up, I’ve really been in some tough relationships. I just refuse to settle anymore! No matter how long it takes I have faith God will send my husband.

[@mia.antonia]

Off topic but when I clicked I said wow she is just so beautiful you’re glowing sister, God bless you 💜🦋

[@SonFlowrDayz]

Give yourself grace Dyani. You have grown and natured in Christ so much. We have all experienced this before. Those were definitely spirits at work and they were trying to become one with you. Thank God for his ultimate protection and that you did have the sense enough to walk out and leave. Hindsight is always 2020 especially when we walk with God, he allows us to see what could have and that his grace is more than sufficient❤

[@yahudahintrudahtruetribeof7639]

I'm actually watching this right now as I text. May God bless you to keep on living, because In this world we are ever learning. You a very funny person in a good way. I'm sure who God line's you up with will definitely appreciate your time and company as long as you both shall live.✊🏼✊🏼

[@nancylakot8139]

Yet u r so pretty & needed no validation from any man. Like u said, unless u know the lord & discover ur value - u can be vulnerable & used. Thks for sharing. I hope u always remember u r more than rubies & a real man would be blessed to have u. We have to be smarter as daughters & sons of zions. Coz we love real & fall hard.

[@yahudahintrudahtruetribeof7639]

I actually watched this video because I wanted to see how someone was lured away from God's understanding and timing by the enemy or just freewill situation and learn from it. I thought it was recently, but you said it was 2019.😂😂😂

[@openjoyrevelation]

God is testing us!!! And we must be obedient to Him NOW OR NEVER!!! 😮 Thank you for sharing your testimony❤- God bless you, Dyani❤!!! ❤️ 😇 🕊️

[@c.m.8776]

Omg the SAME thing happened to me after my breakup! And I unfortunately slept with him because I was too scared to make him go away after I said no multiple times :(. And afterwards I literally thought “he has a spirit of anger.” I cut it off the next day but the mistake was made.

[@Taylor-ge5ex]

I’m so sorry to hear that

[@MrStarshotter]

Why are you dating though? Rmbr the scripture states that "He that findeth a wife find a good thing" So it is man that is in search of his wife. It is like an archeologist searching and finding a rare artefact or a miner finding a rare gem and he treasures that artefact or gem because it is valuable and hidden (consecrated). So you stay closer and closer to Jesus and when the right moment comes your explorer would come and see your value and treasure you with all his heart

[@Lauralily717]

How do we all go through the same thing and get the same lessons,and yet we still have different stories to tell ?

[@His_Daughter92]

1 Peter 5:9 But you must be strong to fight against him. Trust God completely. Remember this: Believers all over the world are having the same kind of trouble.

[@FIRE4JESUS]

Girllllllll , i was reacting to this video at the end... i did NOT expect that. Ended with tears and i believe deliverence God bless you. One thing i will say is this was real fs be blessed and protected Praise The Lord Jesus Christ.

[@WomanofGod3]

Wow! Dyani first I would like to say, thank you for sharing this testimony. I am actually going through something very similar. There is so much we have in common concerning this testimony. The part were you sad that you made a vow to God not to ever eat edibles again, because of the experience you had. Listen, That was me too. Just this whole video really resembles a lot of what I am experiencing in my life right now. I know it was God‘s will for me to see this video because there’s so much that you’re speaking on that is actually happening with me right now. I actually prayed, just before I watch this video asking God for answers and then I watched the video. Wow!!! I am just in awe of how God moves. You are my sister in Christ. I thank you so much for sharing this story/testimony. I wish I was able to speak with you in an actual conversation. honestly, I don’t have any female friends or any friends at all because I’ve chosen to live my life for Christ so a lot of the friends I had got removed, so most of the time it’s just me, but if I could pick one friend it would definitely be you. God Bless you. 😊

[@renitacody8841]

They can act and a lot of that mess has been in them since the beginning. It was a dangerous move going with him in his car because they have more advantage over you to do whatever. You're teaching now! 👏🏿 Great Teaching and Message❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉

[@melissaoviedo1021]

The blog post gave me chills and made my eyes watery. Thank you for sharing 🩷

[@christopherharris1237]

Thanks!

[@Skyylina]

Your blog post was everything I've experienced, been going through, needed to hear, and certainly perfectly timed confirmation. All in one all summed up. Thank you Dyani. Phew.

[@ariannarivera8629]

Bruh 17:13 had me dying. In all seriousness though I am so happy you found yourself out of that situation and I am really keeping you in my heart. I appreciate you being open and honest about situations and experiences like this. DONT BE AFRAID TO BE BLUNT PLEASE YOU CAN LITERALLY SAVE LIVES AND HEARTACHE TELLING YOUR EXPERIENCES. It is softening my heart tremendously and I hope we can have a full length conversation at some point. Thank you for being you and may God continue to bless you on your journey 🌱

[@christopherharris1237]

Thanks Dyani. ❤ You are Beautiful!

[@celestemonete]

Thank you so much Dani!! This is so good and brave. I am grateful for the teaching and the encouragement.

[@OpenHeaven90]

That blog post you read at the end of the video was the answer to my prayers. God bless you woman of God. Thank you so much for sharing and walking in obedience to God.

[@iamalpha2597]

I love your videos. Keep allowing God to use you

[@MostFavored1]

Best wishes for you♥️ Thank you for your vulnerability and obedience 🙏🏽

[@sharleneknight3486]

This was a powerful testimony and the poem at the end really spoke to me. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏾💜💜

[@katelandpeters1237]

This whole video is so powerful thank you for sharing Dyani ❤

[@CLGLifestyle]

Girl you looking goodt!

[@CozyLoveAbovethehate]

sister dyani is so profound and sweet a sister - may she be given even more perception, and the power to love herself biblically even more - and may all of Abba's dreams and the cries she and we have because of purpose and destiny biblically - come powerfully, sweetly, adorably, oh fabulously - TRUE! pls pray for me our powerful, sweet - and obviously so loving sister! keep shining sis! - brother cam 💛

[@oliviageorge5320]

Wow, that resonates! So beautiful

[@tonijenkins777]

OOOH MY GOSH! That was my 1st date dinner WOW 🤩

[@XIGHTS101]

Thanks

[@kishacook5085]

I’m still stuck on the fact that you were worried about you didn’t have a wallet going on a date. If he doesn’t pay, it’s not a date. 😂

[@LouiseLaStarLLS]

She is smarter than that. It’s a lesson to always pay for your meal or you might get make the guy angry.

[@kaoshi_kutie]

@@LouiseLaStarLLSa gentleman will happily pay on a first date! I get what your saying though ❤

[@sylviah9589]

Yes girl! Yes!! Amen. ❤

[@lisajay3470]

This was such a great video!! ❤

[@dspenderella9671]

This sounds too familiar like a "situationship" I somehow found myself in for two wasted years when I was backslidden. He was a military Playboy breaking hearts from TX to Germany and beyond. Used his impeding European tour/deployment as an excuse why he couldn't be in a serious relationship when he finally told me we weren't in an official relationship when I sat him down to find out why he hadn't proposed yet...I legit thought he was my man. Who moves a woman in when you're not with her? 🙄 Such a waste. I don't care how good they look. Just a waste leading you nowhere... I'm glad you learned early on too.

[@royaldiadem324]

That’s why we need to let God choose and not allow the enemy to mislead you with false confirmation. A man of God will not come to seduce you. If someone is acting all coy and he cannot try with respect first being as friends ….then he will be just trying you out like a shoes. Your husband will come with peace not with lies. Your experiencing gave you maturity for the real love that God has prepared. Looks doesn’t last but a good heart will last!

[@kingdomseeds]

Wow! I hadn't watched her in a year and didn't even recognize her.

[@1WomeninWisdom]

I didn't know this is what I needed to hear until now thank you for your obedience, your blog post touched my heart and will continue to inspire more women like myself

[@BrittneyNovelly]

Ok but where’d you get that shirt sis?? That color is perfect on you 🫶🏼

[@MrSa458]

Yeah you know what sis Dyani I just want to tell you that I've been there before like getting in relationships that don't mean me any good because all I want is to find my God ordained spouse but I don't want to jump the gun with you and think that you're my God ordained spouse when I don't even know you sis but you know that I'm basically a homebody too and I listen to music all the time I'm a psalmist even though daddy tells me I can't sing I'm worshiper So anyways, God bless sis Dyani and just keep up with what you're doing for the kingdom of Heaven with the encouraging words that you're giving right now 🙌🏾🫗✨️🔥🪽✝️

[@MattAbbott-ut7sg]

Only been on a couple of dates my whole life they never end well!!

[@dramatheropy]

Thank you for your obedience

[@CGA40]

Important to remember James 1:12-15 when dealing with temptation. Yes we will endure trials but it is essential to discern trials from temptation because temptation is NOT from God and it is not His method of producing fruit (although withstanding can produce fruit of The Spirit).

[@JesusIsLordLasVegas]

Gorgeous.

[@firstjohn3123]

Big hugs ❤ little one...

[@alissakain9302]

Why is all this literally giving South Carolina😂 Between the spirits of manipulation/leviathan/anger in men and the cities with high std rates (I think the state as a whole is top 10 in the country now), I went “Hold on, this is South Carolina!”😭 South Carolinian or not, the men here in SC are scary tbh🫢

[@sweetsunshinejoy]

oh my gosh yes!! I live in South Carolina (but I’m not from here.) I want to move and the men here are scary. I pray that I don’t even meet my husband here if I’m being honest

[@c.m.8776]

Been waiting for a while. I’m so tired of being lonely. I just want to meet my husband.

[@monib4458]

I know easier said then done but don’t get tired. The enemy will send a counterfeit of the GOD sent so fast. He will sense you’re tired and that’s the perfect time for him to send the counterfeit. He is coming in GODs time. Make sure you have done your work. Keep holding on sis I totally get it ❤ Praying it won’t be too much longer for you.

[@77mgmd]

God is a jealous God 😢especially if you are a believer in Jesus CHRIST. the devil is a liar! If Jesus CHRIST is your Lord and saviour you should receive Him as your Lord and saviour and husband ❤. There's no lack to the children of God who never leaves you and will never forsake you ❤. THE HOLY SPIRIT IS GIVEN TO COMFORT YOU AND WILL LEAD YOU INTO THE PERFECT WILL OF GOD ALMIGHTY. THE HOLY SPIRIT IN YOU WILL BE A FORCEFIELD AROUND YOU TO PROTECT YOUR HEART FROM FALSE spirits of light sent to defile you 😢and the Holy spirit will quicken your heart ❤to know if or when He chooses to manifest himself in an through a helpmate for His Glory to be fulfilled through you both As ONE ❤IN JESUS CHRIST

[@nancylakot8139]

And u will. But first love u more. That way u won't be taken advantage of. That's what this journey is about - self discovery & self love

[@RitaDoran-p4v]

You look lovely

[@FavHerofGodMinistry]

You look so beautiful 😍

[@favouradis]

Dyani you are hilarious 😂❤💚

[@bungaraya8436]

Off topic but you look so gorgeous💜

[@IamMelChristina]

God used you forgetting your wallet to show you his true self

[@mollysantanaAMV]

The irony that one of your videos I watched about an hour ago, led me to a series of events that is going to lead to arguably the best date of my life, is proof of God’s unimaginable power.

[@somayab3380]

I would love to hear more about your edibles story as someone who struggles with that and wonders the spiritual implications of it I would love to hear more

[@Brianaire_the_messenger]

I love you you’re my favorite

[@Oneeeofoneee]

Gorgeousssssss

[@KayWarrior5417]

YOU LOOK INCREDIBLE ❤❤❤

[@GabrielV-AZ]

🔥🔥🔥

[@GCservantofGOD]

Praise GOD JESUS. To bad we’re not in the same state

[@PrincessZindzi]

I’m laughing so hard…the struggle!!!😄

[@anthonyryans8395]

❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@abbasgirl8153]

Meet for coffee and never leave with them! That girl that met that guy and went back to his house & he killed her and spread her body parts all-over the state.

[@dspenderella9671]

17:41 Omg @Dyani Neves, you were in Ft. Hood (now Ft. Cavasas)! That was a dead giveaway! And why did I hang out w/ someone who tried the same thing when I was single and new there; a friend back then was telling me the same experience that this military guy had her over and got mad b/c she told him she didn't come for that when he started kissing on her neck... I tell you buddy got mad at me in my experience b/c I don't Netflix and chill like that- we were on the couch tho b/c I wouldn't go in his bedroom, and he was mad about that. I told him I needed to get something out my car and peeled... Blocked him everywhere he tried to message me after that. Nope- when I tell you it's not going down and don't even try, but you try anyway, then that's the first and last time you disrespect me. It was too much going on there. The army men really are used to chicks giving them some the first night, hence why there's so many diseases there. I was so glad when we were stationed out of there.

[@colinrefine]

whattaburger with a sigh

[@dspenderella9671]

7:13 Wait... It's "taking advantage" of him if he pays for your meal on a date? No wonder other women think I'm spoiled too 😂. I think men just always knew they had to pay with me...A man has never expected me to pay. What the heck...I guess they can just tell I have old school values and I expect a gentleman. This is so weird to me (the culture today). I guess this started with other millennials, but I don't relate to my generation and definitely not the younger generations who many don't believe in genders let alone gender roles... Even younger men who have asked me out on dates before just knew better. Wish one would've tried me like that...Ugh

[@mk3489]

❤🙏

[@TheFifthArrow]

I love whataburger

[@ReneéChristian7774]

30:05 Different than what we received prior?

[@ReneéChristian7774]

God is not a man that He should lie. I’m confused. Why would Hod tell you something to tease you? Are you saying He would promise you something and take it back to test if you’ll idolize it?

[@inaydrusa]

Abraham’s heart was tested concerning the sacrifice of his one and only son, Isaac. He received “something different than what he received prior” when God instructed him not to sacrifice Isaac because his heart was deemed faithful to the Lord, and there was a ram in the bush as replacement (which really, was the intended sacrifice all along). Just because we don’t understand the fullness of what God is doing, doesn’t mean He is taking something back for the purpose of teasing us or being insensitive. He is sovereign, and I want to encourage you to pray into this while in the secret place. God bless 🙏🏾

[@ReneéChristian7774]

@ Thank you so much, Diani🙏🏻💕🕊️

[@nondscript1751]

His loss

[@nashayaimmanuel7175]

🙏

[@Greenrivers14]

Woah not whattaburger lol

[@noneya703]

The look of disgust on your face in the thumb nail and the title of the video = a little funny not gonna lie lol. Stay strong sister in Christ your God ordained spouse will find you.

[@tobuku23]

At least you had a date lol smh… Plus the devil knows what we like MOST HIGH does…

[@Naiki29]

When you give your life back to Jesus, it’s like men who are not of Him will give you the ick. The literal ick. And maybe that’s the two spirits of righteousness and unrighteousness clashing. But men will irritate your spirit who don’t love the Lord Jesus or even consider our Savior.

[@veryvanity6958]

Gorg🤍

[@abdousankare1835]

I INVITED YOU TO MY PLACE AFRICA BUT PREFERRED TO IGNORE ME SO

[@wandaday3778]

Unfortunately, Dyani… your behavior at that time was not unlike that of so many other young ladies today. Sadly, they allow themselves to be manipulated and they find themselves used because they lack self esteem and self-control. The aftermath is so degrading for them, they sink to lower standards for themselves and the men they choose. I believe these are the reasons we see many abortions, abuse and absentee relationships. An even bigger tragedy I’m noticing is this new movement Black women are joining that condemns ALL Black men. There is a pact to pretty much “write them off” because they failed to support Kamala Harris. That is not true and I think it is the wrong approach for women to take. We just need to make wise decisions when it comes to personal relationships.

[@bigboston4ever]

You speak a lot of wisdom and you can tell you are wise sound like something I actually went through 🫂🌹

[@LoveYallLoveGod]

🙏