When The Devil Wears A Suit: The Truth About Hypergamy And Relationships

[@hiyori2846]

I’m so glad you made this video Dyani because upon watching this I feel like I was starting to get deeper into that type of content but it was moreso centered around a woman knowing her self worth and not allowing men to low ball you and not take you seriously, and to not be afraid to expect a man to pay and take care of you financially when you’re married. I came from a background of male worship and male vaildation, when I was in the world I was operating out of a spirit of seduction as early as elementary school, I used my body and looks to get male vaildation but then when God saved me and I came out of that it was still the same way in Christianity because I was taught that I had to be everything for a man and waiting on him hand and foot, doing everything they say because it’s submission, and modesty became about them, I was taught that I should basically expect a man to lust and in order to keep him from lusting I had to always be sexually readily available to him, not to mention financies never truly mattered, just take what you can get, go to Bible studies with him, and I feel like all of that teaching made me go to the other end where I started watching content about how a man should have this and that. I never had a father growing up, in fact he was very abusive to me and my mom, I think that’s where all of my insecurities stem from and I still cry til this day about how my heart craves a dad…I feel like every man in my life has failed me, down to my dad and my brothers because with all of them I have felt unsafe at times, disrespected and walked all over. I pray that God heals me of this because I genuinely want to get some self esteem, love myself and God and don’t accept less than but I feel like I’m lowkey afraid and not trusting God to give me His best out of a man because I’ve seen lots of testimonies of women saying God told them to marry a certain man and then he’d cheat, and then he’d be really mean to her, and then he’ll be dismissive of her feelings even lusting after other women and women are just taught to only get on your knees and pray and pray and be the bigger person. I just want to be with someone who’s going to love me, respect me, and lead me more to God, and who doesn’t have their nose turned up at the thought of having to provide for me financially, who doesn’t have a lack mindset, who actually enjoys taking care of his family. I don’t want to be the one who’s constantly trying to make the relationship work anymore and crying and begging for love. I’m scared because I just don’t want to end up with a narcissist and being the strong one all of the time.

[@OlkensAvril-u9q]

It's crazy how people are looking for providers not knowing that the Most High is the only provider.

[@6renaa]

Do not be deceived, the man is the head of the wife and shall love his wife as Christ loves the Church. We are not equals and mens have responsibility towards us women. As Christ provide for us, men have to provide for us. It’s the Word. The only problem is when you submit to any men, not a man of God.

[@OlkensAvril-u9q]

Who provides men with strengths,skills, health, and opportunities to work and feed his family without those the head of the family dont mean Jack

[@TheFifthArrow]

I think rebellion is directly related to not fully trusting in the fulfillment of Gods promises, or better said, not believing God and that his will is perfect for my life. For example if I pursue something that I shouldn’t, a relationship or a desire of the flesh, I’ve already decided in my mind that I’ve been waiting on God too long or that he has forgotten me . Basically like you said in the video, not willing to wait on God. Anyways I thank God for His grace because He has been infinitely patient with me while I have veered off course time after time in my life. But in retrospect I can look back at those circumstances and see that God was even trying to block the path of my sin, essentially protecting me from myself. What an amazing kind and loving God who knows us so well and loves us enough to not only protect us from physical harm and danger, but from our own sinful desires. This is why it’s so important to pray continually. That’s been my prayer lately, Lord deliver me from evil, protect me from the enemy, the influence of the world, and from my own flesh 😢

[@PoshwithPurpose]

20:21 YES DYANI - you got it absolutely right. The lord sat me down and explained this to me. These women are teaching jezebel behavior. They are ultimately teaching these women how to attract predators. I am praying for all of the women who are following these false teachers teaching this false doctrine, it is such a slippery slope and very easy to fall victim to if you aren’t in your word.

[@faithoverfearministries8675]

I came across that “I married a monster” video and skimmed through it but wasn’t really interested in watching it all the way through..I’m glad to see you doing well, Be blessed Sis 😇💕

[@stinathesaturnian]

I literally asked God earlier this morning for you to drop a video. just off the title I feel it will resonate, thank you!

[@nabilaaiuba2171]

This message is so important. Especially in this time🙌🏾

[@JanelKLauren]

This is my favorite topic of conversation! Thank you for covering it❤

[@godson8817]

Another Dyani Vid-Woop! Woop!

[@ShawnRoberts-h6o]

This is a powerful teaching maam. As a christian father I feel this needs to go viral. I am going to share this now on my social media and with my 21 year old daughter. God bless you. I enjoy your videos. Keep up the good work. May Christmas bring you happiness. Good health and favor from God.

[@paulmacdonnell2720]

Needed to see this.

[@The_Opa_Way]

You look sooooo beautiful siss!!!

[@Greenrivers14]

Another great video, I'm gonna need a makeup tutorial.

[@tiffle4051]

This is a On Time Word from God. Thank Holy Spirit. Thank you for being a vessel to the kingdom and being obedient Dyani.

[@chilechi1846]

Thank you, Dyani.

[@jojobear9833]

God bless you Dyani🪻what a timely word.

[@wayneelijahjohnson8924]

Thank you, Dyani for the fresh revelation knowledge. Merry Christmas to you and yours & I also noticed your pretty clear nails it’s a good look on you. 😇☃️

[@ChosenQueen_316]

Wow, “I showed her” J E S U S 🙏🏾😮😢

[@gisellestephen9754]

My word ❤

[@shadessaknighton9857]

I completely agree, these harmful teachings must be stopped

[@its-just-alia]

Unfortunately in the video she stated that he raped her the first couple months of their marriage but due to her childhood trauma she felt that this is what she had to put up with for the lifestyle

[@haleycamille]

This word is so on time

[@godson8817]

God will give you a man of Great Social Standing IN ADDITION to sound character if you TRUST in Him

[@JonQuanBell]

God Bless U 🙏🏽

[@valenciawalker6498]

Amen🙏🏽✝️

[@AkilahFranklin]

🔥🔥🔥

[@nondscript1751]

😊lovely olive 💐💐 God endlessly produces beauty, what a great role model for my daughter when she's ready.

[@Diamsraven]

You look so beautiful 😍

[@BrandonDeon-uz7ty]

👍🏾💯💯🔥🔥🔥👀👍🏾

[@chairtymay_BlessedbyGod5023]

Confirmation in Jesus name Amen 🙏

[@RitaDoran-p4v]

Well said slither in like a snake great lesson put God first and you look lovely

[@sarairuiz1377]

❤

[@IamMelChristina]

Come on with the correction

[@IWillBeSaved]

Omg

[@MrSa458]

Yeah I understand where you're coming from I had to repent because I was idolizing marriage over God and I know that he's a jealous God so I just repented for holding an idol over God but I just believe that if I'm ready for marriage I just believe that he's preparing a wife for me even though I don't cheat anymore because I had came to the realization that I'm a man of God now I actually know better than to go around throwing my dick around at women even though I do have some lust that I'm working on I can honestly say that I've stopped masternaiting, but the luat is still there and I know that I'm human and I just want to be loved the right way and not just for my body So anyways, God bless you, prophetess Dyani, and just keep up with what you're doing for the kingdom of Heaven with the encouraging words that you're giving right now 🙌🏿✨️🪽🔥✝️🫗

[@nicolesnow3467]

Very well said. This is 1000% in alignment with what The Holy Spirit confirmed to me last year. 🤍