Incels Made A Dating Profile Of A Criminal & Women Still Liked It

[@michaelryan3818]

I changed my height to 6' and got more matches in the first week than the previous year. Dating apps are insane.

[@fischersfritz468]

Really? As a tall man 1.96m, (about 6'5) that had no real effect on the likes. They were still at 0

[@scott8934]

@@fischersfritz468same. None. 6’2”

[@moderngoblin]

Dating apps are powerful technology with huge potential, it’s the women that are the problem.

[@whythefuckineedhandle]

@@fischersfritz468 Sweet spot is about 6-6'1. Anything taller is kinda scary for most of women. There is just comically small window of 'that guy', and those ones just farming free sex from dating apps.

[@colingraham1585]

Women need to only be able to view a small number of profiles a day like on hinge for dating apps to work, and they must be demonetized or unduopolized.

[@BGS22202]

Most men and women focus on looks/photos. The difference is that men admit it while women claim (publicly) that looks don’t matter that much to them.

[@johnmilius3031]

Looks = "Personality" to women. Never mind what women say, just look at what they do. They're shallow and judgemental.

[@liptongtr]

Was about to say the same thing. While I agree that women's standards are higher than they should be these days, most of these men when presented with either a 250 lb 0 body count "femine" women or a 10/10 woman that has a higher body count, I suspect they choose the woman thats hotter because thats what humans care about. Also these same men will comment on one video women only one to date Chad and in the next breath that women only care about your wallet. The cognitive dissonance is amazing.

[@StarsDie88]

Not only do they claim this, they are vehement and damn near vile in their denunciations of anyone that doubts them on this. They are vicious scornful sociopaths in how they act towards people who try to say that 2+2=4.

[@bigz5262]

Next time you go somewhere, spend some time people watching. There are ugly dudes with attractive women all the time. And vice versa. They probably didn’t meet on a dating app though

[@Scotty_Bo0m]

@@bigz5262 youre wrong or lying on purpose. A women who wieghs over 2 bills isnt attractive

[@jaxonwoods8181]

First time I've ever disliked a CR vid. A stunning lack of empathy and understanding for what we as guys go through. If a man gets 800 likes in TWO DAYS, while 99.9% of men never reach 20, that shows what women value. The woman in the TikTok had it right honestly. It's all about looks, and not just online either.

[@babygrill01]

The behaviors that lead to online decisions are influenced by real life and vice versa. They co-exist interchangably.

[@chadsmith1200]

There is a Tinder video where a guy put a male model's picture in on a Tinder profile and put that he is a sex offender and made sure the women that matched with him read his profile and the majority of the women couldn't care less.

[@urgamecshk]

I remember seeing that back in the day

[@AverageYoutuber6615]

it's crazy because I seen this woman's tinder Profile and she Literally put I don't care about Bios I think there Stupid and a waste of time its like have we really reduced ourselves to this ? we can be so much better than this !! dating apps can be so much better

[@TripleGhey]

One girl said "I'll let you SA me" or something along those lines. Absolutely disgusting.

[@Kevin-qf2hs]

There's so many experiments like this that it's hard to be skeptical. Courtney is simply offering other possible explanations because she probably feels attacked that it's her gender. The truth is women care far more about looks that they would be willing to overlook any redflags in a guy. Many are even attracted to narcissistics and there's peer reviewed studies on this.

[@PrinceOfTheCity1]

@@Kevin-qf2hsit’s because women truly have zero standards. Incredibly shallow people ( not all)

[@Recluse616]

"Not all women are into that" yeah MOST women are. 😂😂

[@MyLilTony93]

Man or bear? Women: “Is he hot?”

[@DDD11239]

Will choose a bear, but will sleep with strange men.

[@KevvoLightswift]

Yes, he is a hot bear.

[@enderlionheart4497]

@@DDD11239 That's actually a pretty solid follow-up; "Would you rather be alone in the middle of the woods with a bear or a man?" "Bear." "And how many different men have you slept with this year?"

[@ronhughes5894]

ROFL! Facts bruv, facts! lol

[@cseptember6562]

They only pick bear for average/ugly men. If the guys hot they will pick the man

[@Giovannix51]

Respect your videos a lot, disappointed with this reaction. “I don’t want to make excuses…”, proceeds to make excuses. Hold these women accountable.

[@andersnielsen6044]

It is simple. She is also attracted to the guy in question - then everything is justified..

[@THeN9nEefFeCT]

The whole video is her making excuses for the behavior. It’s hilarious.

[@bane6724]

Yesterday I saw a video of a former mobster called Michael Franzese about why women fall in love with serial killers, even he was flabbergasted.

[@anthonynelson4015]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@TKO_AMO]

Imma watch it

[@corystovall3544]

Michael is a real one. Still friends with "Donnie Brasco" to this day.

[@devilsadvocacy]

Franzese was "only" a caporegime in the Colombo family, and relatively speaking, a piker compared to your typical serial killer. He wasn't nearly as vicious

[@RobertTaylor-gz2fu]

Imprisoned serial killers receive a great deal of fan mail from female strangers.

[@MrShadowThief]

In the age of villainizing men it's refreshing to see a woman define the word "incel" correctly.

[@x-man5056]

Every man without a mate who's not a monk is an Incel. What is the word for women?

[@AverageYoutuber6615]

it's crazy because I seen this woman's tinder account and she Literally put I don't care about Bios I think there Stupid and a waste of time its like have we really reduced ourselves to this ? we can be so much better than this !! dating apps can be so much better

[@x-man5056]

@NewBloodSinking It literally is short for "Involuntarily Celibate". Astronomical? What other possible definition is there?

[@x-man5056]

@NewBloodSinking It's definitely used as insult, no question. But any phrase you invented that meant the same thing would still be used as insult. That's the only reason it's in the lexicon.

[@michaelwarren202]

Isn't all men who are single while looking for a women endlessly. Isn't that "incel"?

[@JaySmith-pv2mw]

Serial killers have girlfriends. One of the many reasons I've just given up.

[@AverageYoutuber6615]

it's crazy because I seen this woman's tinder account and she Literally put I don't care about Bios I think there Stupid and a waste of time its like have we really reduced ourselves to this ? we can be so much better than this !! dating apps can be so much better

[@jasongates-]

Exactly. I gave up, too. I don't get why the group you mentioned so quickly and easily get girlfriends, but those of us who are good guys who contribute to society, we can't even get ladies to say "hi." I just don't get it. No wonder you and I both gave up. It makes no sense. But, that saved you and me from trouble. Like how Courtney said she wants that one type of guy to stay away from her, I want the ladies who chose serial k illers to stay away from ME.

[@jasonbooberry8363]

Serial killers get help from the fact they're famous, for bad reasons but still famous. Americans love fame. Those killers are dressed up in the courtroom. They're in a suit & tie, not jeans & a t-shirt. Pre-internet women only had local boys and TV to see men. Ted Bundy and Richard Ramierez benefited in the 70's and 80's in this. Ramirez had rotten teeth but can't see on court TV so goth girls showed up in droves wanting to have his babies.

[@secondone3249]

That's because the said serial killers you speak of are objectively good looking (Like, model-tier levels of good looking). One doesn't need to have rated over a hundred faces online (most of the ones I've rated are from YT and truerateme) to see that.

[@DDD11239]

​@@secondone3249 Which is why they're able to fool stupid women into trusting them.

[@Foxtrox15]

+800 matches is a clear choose , enough of excuses, accept your accountability

[@jaxonwoods8181]

FR. Haven't even hit 10 matches despite being on OLD for over ten years...

[@michaeljjt1976]

Ego tells everyone "They won't do it to me, I'll be special, I'll be their one"

[@ilefthemfree2jizz]

Which is really weird because I instruct men and women when they see their significant other treating someone else like trash, that as soon as the butterflies goes away they'll direct that behavior towards you

[@michaeljjt1976]

@@ilefthemfree2jizz Of course. Completely agree with this. But unfortunately that's not how the ego works

[@CatGamer-wc2ij]

@@ilefthemfree2jizz Butterflies are very bad. It is the body's fear response. Listen to the body.

[@tittat9351]

Well it's actually their sexuality that does this. The theories about ladies wanting to fix the man is usually bonk. It's a silly copout and a way to have some plausible deniability so to speak so ladies can keep on getting away with being wreckless little children. If we actually cared about it, we woudlnt let vvomen be prisonguards at all in male prisons at least where they constantly sleeps with inmates and ive even seen an article with one prison where they actually had a scheme going on with multiple ladies in on it.

[@DDD11239]

Ted Bundy's courtroom footage proves that women care about looks. Watch the interviews, and look up the woman who wanted to marry him. Hopefully none of them reproduced.

[@mattc1830]

Same with Richard Ramirez the serial killer, pedophile and serial rapist had tons of woman when he was prison ask to marry him.

[@IronmanV5]

I have bad news for you, he has a daughter named Rose who was conceived after his conviction

[@andresgraziano7475]

Chris Watts, Wade Wilson, Richard Ramirez!!!

[@omeravsar97]

@@IronmanV5insane

[@boethius1812]

Most likely, all did.

[@cMaXeJIJIo]

Relax, guys: not ALL women are like this. Just MOST women! 😂

[@angelrogo]

Just almost all

[@abel4776]

99% is, technically, “not all”.

[@albertandguitars]

But even most is a lot bro! 😂😂 Even one is too many. This generation of dating really needs a reset button.

[@cezarypruszkowski9523]

😂

[@Hannib4lBarca]

Men are just as bad.

[@stonelord100]

You missed they published the comments sent by those 800+ matches. Most highlighted they read the profile and didn't care.

[@Semaj2326]

How do we find it?

[@stonelord100]

@Semaj2326 I don't remember, bro. I Prolly saw it on X. The women were mad thirsty talking about getting choked & shit.

[@garden_dork]

"How superficial society is" Oh how convenient! When women do something wrong it's all of societies fault???

[@mickeypopa]

At this point I'm only watching her videos to see how low she will stoop in her attempts to gaslight men to believe it's everyone's fault for the current state and behavior of wmn. Considering the fact that wmn have always been the ones to control whether a romantic/s3xual encounter takes place to begin with (It's ladies' choice, as they used to say), it's perfectly clear that men have merely been reacting to how wmn have been acting so far. In other words, men are perfectly within their rights to feel disgusted by and resentful towards wmn for their way of rewarding the most vile of male behaviors with attention & s3x, when they should be doing the opposite. And then they call all men "toxic" when it's them who are attracted to such behaviors and are encouraging them!

[@solo1014]

What women say they want and what they respond to are, frequently, different things.

[@Julius_Gold_Dollar_Caesar]

Always do the opposite of what women say, and always watch what they do. Greeting.

[@BloodyHeck]

She mentioned that modern dating is frustrating for both men and women. Maybe so but it’s for completely different reasons. Women are complaining that they can’t find a man but that usually means she can’t find her 6’2” millionaire Prince Charming. She might have 100 men who just messaged her but she’s going to reject almost all of them. Men have trouble dating because they can send out 100 messages and they’re hoping even one woman will respond.

[@Doberman_6773]

2 customers at a restaurant; one can't get the waitstaff's attention for a glass of water, the other keeps sending their steak back because it's cooked medium instead of medium-rare.

[@theodorlager4024]

This is definetely true for hookups, but for a high quality long term relationship/marriage i think women likely struggle.

[@BloodyHeck]

@@theodorlager4024 Yes, they struggle with finding the high quality man they want, but that's because so many have unrealistic expectations. Many women believe the average height for a man is 6' (it's about 5'9") and average income is $100K (it's under 50K). That's why so many wonder why they can't find just an average, normal guy. Meanwhile, average men can't find any woman because so many see a man who is 5'10" and earning $60k as being too short and too poor.

[@joesmith9483]

one out of 100 is very good these days. It's more like one in 5000.

[@mindgames4389]

@@theodorlager4024lmao they struggle to find “high quality” relationships where men struggle to get noticed. You just proved the OP’s point without realizing it.

[@yev_da_man1868]

Excuses, women don't care about morality if the guy is hot. Only women go after men in jail, not men.

[@hamilton7750]

"I'm George. I'm unemployed and I live with my parents."

[@chadsmith1200]

I'm Victoria hi.

[@didamnesia3575]

​@@chadsmith1200 Chad Smith is a catfish 😆 🤣

[@dgwaters]

Just saying that you live with your parents is a guaranteed turn off for women. I've learned that many, many times over the years

[@AverageYoutuber6615]

t's crazy because I seen this woman's tinder account and she Literally put I don't care about Bios I think there Stupid and a waste of time its like have we really reduced ourselves to this ? we can be so much better than this !! dating apps can be so much better

[@KyleReeseCel2029]

That was such a classic line

[@yankee291]

A lot of excuse making from Courtney here

[@cseptember6562]

Not suprising at all lol

[@middleagedcrazy5297]

I must admit it was surprising when it really shouldn’t have been. But that’s my fault for forgetting regardless of all her other videos , she’s still just within the sisterhood and their natural inclination is to defend it no matter what.

[@happysuperhappy2091]

She isn't interested in helping men she is just trying to make a buck catering to people that don't know how women work.

[@Cee_Eff]

Many women took it as as sign of being "Alpha", and being able to create instant "high chemistry"🤣

[@Jumpyman_thegamerYT]

You wouldn’t believe how many love letters that criminals on trial receive, all from young desperate women.

[@michaelshelton5488]

Including serial killers

[@mikesteelheart]

OMG he's like so interesting... LOL.

[@salvadorlopez-ur8yv]

Young insecure and don’t think they deserve better it’s sad.

[@AverageYoutuber6615]

t's crazy because I seen this woman's tinder account and she Literally put I don't care about Bios I think there Stupid and a waste of time its like have we really reduced ourselves to this ? we can be so much better than this !! dating apps can be so much better

[@TripleGhey]

Even Ted Bundy...look what he did to women. These women must have serious issues to find men like that attractive.

[@671shades]

My friend recently came out of prison after 15 years. And women flop to him after he mentions he went to prison for 15 years. It make me so jelous how much sex he is having just from going to prison. Women reward this type of stuff is fucked up

[@identifesAsHelicopta]

my brother went to prison and he gets more girls than me - i have a bachelor and master degree in IT and he has literally nothin but fucks many girls. Its just unbelievable if i didnt see this shit at first hand. This shit makes me rly resentful agains women

[@joezakarya7293]

@@identifesAsHelicoptawomen are attracted to dark traits not IT degree. They might sleep with ex felons but they wont stay with them, unless they got money somehow. Just like us men being attracted to a nice body and not her education.

[@671shades]

@identifesAsHelicopta yep. Same. Girls will fuck the same guy knowingly with other girls before choosing the good guy. It's like back when kings where a thing they got to hog all the beautiful ladies and gold, and there's was nothing you could do about it

[@mdhazeldine]

Sex is NOT worth 15 years in prison. I would not be jealous.

[@skleetbeast]

'Women' my guy you don't want to marry these girls

[@wolnylach7194]

Courtney is trying hard to hit her pay points and maintain the delicate balance between honesty and illusion that keeps the droves of her male viewers watching and listening to her. Let me simplify it: looks. It’s your looks that matter exponentially more than everything else and that are an essential prerequisite before anything else can even be taken into consideration by women. Not your charisma, not your style, not your confidence, not your money, not your status - your phenotype. Everything else (potentially) comes afterwards. If you are only meant to be a plough horse - they can be significantly overlooked. If she is looking for good times, then they most certainly will NOT be overlooked.

[@hallorwalahfrid6074]

Seeing all these videos and having some experience, I can definitely say that managing dating life as a man is really hard nowadays. At the end of the day, the best option is to just chase your goals and stay on your path to success. I also suggest reading those two books: 1. "Mastering The First Impression: The path to seven dates a month" 2. "First Date Playbook: A step by step guide to a great start"

[@feinberg4625]

Jordan Peterson often talks about an analysis of women's porn searches done by google engineers which basically showed that women are aroused by dark-triad traits in men. For me the moral of the story is that how attractive a man is to women has no bearing on his character or his worth as a human being.

[@Blaser614]

True. JBP also says the rejection rate for men is 98%. So if I ask out 100 girls, chances are 2 will be successful. Wild time to be alive, boys.

[@DDD11239]

​@@Blaser614 Out of 4 billion on Earth? Yes. I think at least 1 will like you

[@jadenkrosis3087]

Billionaires, pirates, werewolves, vampires, surgeons. Thats what they fantasize about and gravitate to according to a study where they looked at the types of romance novels that women most gravitated towards. In Western culture BTW. It`s different elsewhere in the world.

[@EdgarM-xo7ef]

Incels? More like logical/reasonable people made this to showcase evidence.

[@XxIsolationistxX]

i think the "incel" assumption is based on the spirit in which the experiment was done, which is to prove that women will overlook red flags on a conditional basis but hold people who are not attractive to a different standard

[@timocruz510]

The two things can coexist

[@andersnielsen6044]

@@timocruz510 No.

[@timocruz510]

@@andersnielsen6044 The incel term is just dudes who can't get laid that are actively trying. Could be the nicest, rational and most moral dude in the world and still not get laid. That's just the definition idrc about this whole vid tbh

[@andersnielsen6044]

@@timocruz510 a member of an online community of young men who consider themselves unable to attract women sexually - Self-identified incels use the internet to find anonymous support. The entire MAGA and red+black pill community IS the incels. Useless men with no education, no future and no purpose..

[@bronzemv4440]

Women care more about looks than men.

[@petter3995]

No, Men and women equally care about looks, it's just that most women are not attracted to most men.

[@father5946]

You incels are this chicks target audience. Y'all really don't realize that her vids are making fun of you.

[@MrGameWithFame]

This is cope. In the video the women respond to his bio and don’t care. Has nothing to do with them not reading it

[@BryJovi17]

Courtney, many men are just sharing what their real life experience has been for the past roughly 15-20 years 🤷🏼‍♂️ I was born in 1988 and still never had a girlfriend. I was the last generation to grow up in a time before the internet existed, yet all the girls who would've probably been great compatible matches for me are all largely in happy relationships. What is leftover are those women who have been single the entire time (which then makes me ask why, when all a woman has to do is breathe and appear in public in order to get the chance of having a boyfriend) or women with an incredible amount of baggage (whether that's traumatic past relationships with awful guys, or having children in tow and having her time and energy utterly devoured by them that her own self has been sacrificed somewhat so she's no longer the peak woman she was before having kids). In terms of dating apps, men swipe right on women 50% of the time, whereas women only swipe right on men 5% of the time. The number of matches a woman has is 10 times that of a man and it's opposite extremes. Women have choice paralysis whereas for men it is a baron desert where they are desperately not trying to screw up the once in a blue moon decent match that they get. If the man doesn't act quick enough, or say the right thing or simply outpace and outdo any of the male matches that woman has, then it's over for him. With a woman with 50 matches to work through, she's obviously not going to have the time in her day to build up rapport and message all of them to get to know them, so immediately she's going to cut that down to around 5, or maybe 3, men to message. Naturally, these will be the best looking men in her eyes and the rest get completely ignored/ghosted. I have tried dating in real life, through my college and university years as well as dating apps and nothing has worked. I only had a handful of girls interested in me at school (3 in total) and the one was the school bike and I knew she'd been with most guys in our year group. College again was only like 1-3 girls max and university was even worse as I lived from home to save costs and only really got to know the girls in my course, all of which had boyfriends 🤷🏼‍♂️ No girls at my workplace of 14 years have liked me enough to pursue extensive conversations with me or want to see me voluntarily outside of work and in terms of cold approaching, I've managed maybe a small selection of girl's numbers over the years, but the vast majority (90%) have either not even replied to my initial contact with them or they've flaked after only a small amount of conversation. Others I've spoken to on the phone, one of them told me she had a heart condition and that she absolutely cannot have kids and that was weird for me to hear, another I was jokingly making fun at her singing on the phone and she got offended and put the phone down on me and the only ones who put in effort to keep in contact were ALL single moms! 3 single Moms I either had their phone numbers and/or added them on Facebook but still nothing really materialised. The fact that I'm now 36 years old and haven't felt what love, romance or sex is like is astronomically depressing and I'm sorry but it's not ENTIRELY my fault at all. Because in every other aspect of my life I'm actually doing really great! My career is brilliant. In finance and now a top 10% salary earner in the UK. Got great social circles of family and friends. The only thing that sucks in my life is DATING and trying to get a relationship. And for that the only common denominator is women! I don't find men attractive because I'm straight and because I'm able to make friends with people easily enough, because sex is never on the table, then ultimately what this does boil down to is looks and attractiveness because in order to have a romantic and sexual relationship with a girl the girl has got to find me attractive enough to have sex with. Clearly I'm just not making the cut for the vast majority, 99.5% or more, of women out there. Prove me wrong.

[@StarsDie88]

I'm the same age as you. I think my experiences are somewhat similar. I think there has been more attraction towards me from girls than what you may have experienced -- however the issue with me was always that I sensed the girls "liked" me, but that I was CLEARLY just 1 of many options, and thus there was always this kind of subtle challenge that they would signal for me; that I had to "prove my worth" to them in order to win them over whatever other potential suitors they may have had. This meant that they would put in ZERO effort into courtship whatsoever, and every step of it down to the miniscule would have to be initiated and asserted and led by me and only me. This kind of thing irritated the piss out of me because of how little experience I had and how much experience they had. Honestly I just thought of it as kind of disrespectful but at the time I didn't understand my own internal frustrations over it. I ended up getting with a 'single mom' like the ones you mentioned in your story that seemed a bit more receptive to you. A lot of it simply because she didn't disrespect me the same way that the women my age did. She actually would take a moderate amount of initiative in the courtship process. Still I had to 'lead' (which is fair being as I am the man). But not every single aspect of it required me to do everything. I've been with her for 13 years. Most guys aren't going to do what I did because it will lead to very non-traditional situations. I just know I found a good friend that I can spend time with and I'm glad that I'm not "available" anymore. I don't want to be available. I don't want to be appealing to women. I largely want to leave them alone and for them to leave me alone in the sexual marketplace. This allows for me to do that.

[@TrillN22]

No one is trying to read all this shit bruh

[@BryJovi17]

@@StarsDie88 well at the end of your reply you still have a positive result/outcome. You've been with her since age 23... Absolutely nothing for me 🥳 2011 I was only in my first year of work and still living at my Mom's house. The prospect of having girls round then, even how extremely unlikely it was, was just not something that was possible really

[@israelcastro8478]

Attraction is something you gotta work at big dawg, get your testosterone checked and get on some trt. Hit the gym. Get a face tattoo and trust me, they will come. Be a better man.

[@BryJovi17]

@@TrillN22 people that aren't selfish narcissists will try

[@casteel765]

Ive known several women who only get with men who beat them.

[@gk_zone4274]

It can be more of a psychological issue in that case. Abuse can cause more than just physical harm.

[@AverageYoutuber6615]

it's crazy because I seen this woman's tinder account and she Literally put I don't care about Bios I think there Stupid and a waste of time its like have we really reduced ourselves to this ? we can be so much better than this !! dating apps can be so much better

[@Jesse_E5150]

​@@gk_zone4274 it's stupid. That's what it is.

[@todorcagoroski3102]

Those women are traumatized and need help

[@realistrick]

Idk why society maligns incels...or why the person who made this fake profile was labeled as one...

[@kc270352]

because they're a bunch of losers, thats why

[@BD-1-And-Only]

It’s not so much the fact they’re incels but the things they say. Being an incel on its own is fine but a lot of them are hateful so it’s what they’ve become associated with.

[@gracethroughfaith2462]

Kind of cruel huh?

[@CatGamer-wc2ij]

@@BD-1-And-Only So if we maligned say black people with slurs against them for the things they say, identical to this incel thing, that would be fine? Your point is invalid.

[@ethanjoe7]

@@BD-1-And-Only okay but why are only they demonized for the things they say and not women. feminists are the opposite side of the spectrum meaning they talk negative and are hateful towards men, just like the incels do for women. yet a woman who makes an anti-man statement is glorified and gets positive affirmation while a man is made fun of. it's a double standard that I think OP is trying to make. If a men makes bad comment the world will make sure to hold them accountable for what they said meanwhile women can say anything and there will be no repercussions. They have to do something really bad like be a murderer or a predator for society to shame them

[@KyleReeseCel2029]

Yea guys just ignore all the data because it makes women look bad.

[@d3r4g45]

Women make poor choices video: 1. She insults the messenger (incels) 2. She insults all men as well 😂 Female accountability in a nutshell

[@U4ia28]

Sorry Courtney but your definitely making excuses here. If you look into the actual original vid the guy who made the profile showed text exchanges proving that these women did read and disregarded the profile. 800 matches in TWO DAYS is damning evidence. Imagine how many matches he would get in a week? Or a month? It’s not about whether we should want to be with a woman who would choose such a man. It’s about the PERCENTAGE of women who choose these types of men. 63% of men are single for a reason and it’s not just because of reasons centered on the men.

[@nathanspiers9559]

I think a big thing plaguing the dating market is this “Grass is always greener” syndrome. Dating apps and social media make it seem like you have infinitely more options than you really do.

[@BWater-yq3jx]

Another guy used a model photo, but said he was a literal child molester (!) He made his profile progressively worse and worse, with no drop in matches. Total disillusionment. But I did also wonder whether women weren't reading it or taking it seriously.

[@DarkPrince784]

To be fair, if those women don’t have children of their own then his history of child-molestation doesn’t really affect them.

[@karuns9500]

I remember watching the show 'You' on Netflix that shows the POV of a psycho serial killer that falls in love with different women. There would be very morbid scenes of how he would kill people. Used to be shocked at how many women were still cheering for the guy because he was "good-looking". I'm not so shocked these days.

[@OneFreeMan17]

Exactly. We need more of this. An honest reflection on women that exist today.

[@ajtaylor8750]

This reminds me of the "Prison Bae" craze that hit the Internet back in the 2010s. That photo went viral, and Jeremy Meeks became a professional model despite having a criminal record.

[@MidwestWind]

Pretty sure he ended up dating a female billionaire

[@devilsadvocacy]

Jeremy Meeks became a famous model because of, not despite, his criminal history

[@DDD11239]

​@@MidwestWind He was a lucky bastard.

[@hitmanmonaghan6633]

Didn’t he beat a 15 year old half to death?

[@MidwestWind]

@@hitmanmonaghan6633 “But he hawt tho. Make pretty babies”

[@Recluse616]

This just proves the black pill 😂😂

[@jeremyferguson5588]

Told y'all women only care about height and looks..it's not rage bait it's the truth

[@shryque]

Lmao, women once again trying to obfuscate REAL women. A man covered in tattoo LITERALLY "deleted" two women and thousands of women tried to get him a reduced sentence.

[@whysohard4103]

women are so shameless im starting to see the point of islam

[@phenomenal-xv4ey]

You do not have to be a model or super attractive to get a partner or married. But men, understand you are not her first choice because if you are not 6ft, muscular, have resources, a good head of hair, or blue eyes. Her hypergamy will still be in effect after you get married. At any time she will exercise her hypergamy if a tall Chad/Tyrone approaches her in Starbucks or in the club.

[@DispleasedSub5cel]

It's a good thing I'm 6ft, packed on a bit of muscle, and have blue eyes. I can enjoy them in a bit of solitude since I've been called ugly by a lot of people (even online) even with them.

[@PCGamer77]

I couldn't disagree more with you, Courtney. As a highly rational male, I think we need access to ALL of the facts, no matter how much they might upset us. If allegedly criminal men (or women) do well in dating apps or matchmaking services, then we should know that and talk about why this is. We should NOT suppress this kind of content or shame people into keeping these things to themselves.

[@sleazybtd]

I don't remember her saying anything about suppressing any information.

[@PCGamer77]

@@sleazybtd Her whole thesis was that this sort of "incel" content is misleading and should not be posted or viewed online. That's suppressing information about the realities of the current dating scene. If that was NOT Courtney's intended thesis, then she should clarify (or revise) her point.

[@sleazybtd]

@@PCGamer77 Her point is not to take the conclusion at face value. She pointed out possible ways where it could be misinterpreted. She never said that this information should not be posted, only that WE as the consumer should get more information before jumping to conclusions.

[@PCGamer77]

@@sleazybtd She called it rage bait content and said it does NOTHING but deepen the divide betwen men and women. Nothing of value there in Courtney's book. She clearly doesn't want people putting this kind of stuff out there, much less anybody reading it. Stop parsing her statements to death to try to prove, in vain, that I'm wrong.

[@sleazybtd]

@@PCGamer77 Criticizing something is not the same as wanting something banned. For example, I criticize astrology all the time, but I would never support any kind of ban on it even though I believe it adds nothing of value to anyone. Courtney is doing the exact same thing; she's criticizing but never advocated for any kind of ban. She's pointing out ways in which the information given could have been misinterpreted. You sound like one of those idiots who see everything in black and white with no nuance of any kind. Yes, you're wrong. Your conclusion is based on assumptions and filling in the blanks with your own beliefs about people, which is exactly the type of thing she's advocating against doing.

[@shaman43230]

They did one a long while back where the "guy" admitted he molested children and still got a ton of match requests.

[@CatotheE]

Not just one. They’ve done at least two or three with the same results.

[@ClassicEdge]

WTAF

[@danielstocks3271]

Jheez, further proof that i will die alone lol

[@dgwaters]

Same here.

[@StillAwesome21]

Women love bad boys, I couldn't tell you how shocked I am. I really couldn't!

[@faith-manages]

Honestly Courtney your videos have been the primary influence on my decision to NEVER use a dating app.

[@Hannib4lBarca]

Long time ago, back when dating apps used to publish their data, it was shown that what people write in their profile had a minuscule impact on how many matches a person would receive (if I recall there was a 7% impact between the best and worst written profiles). People just don't read profiles. How good looking you are, and how well you can take a photo of yourself, is all that matters when it comes to getting matches online. Best thing is to meet people in real life.

[@CatGamer-wc2ij]

Except they did here, and responded to it in the replies of the matches. Yes, they do. Even men do--after the like.

[@Kevin-qf2hs]

Exactly, I also remember the same data from dating apps saying Race and height played the greatest impact in predicting men's matches. I've actually tested this out with many profiles and confirmed this.

[@MrOdaddy2011]

Meeting people in real life makes no difference in an online world

[@Hannib4lBarca]

@@Kevin-qf2hs it plays an impact, but it wasn't the largest predictor. Looks are the main factor.

[@Hannib4lBarca]

@@MrOdaddy2011 your point? It makes a difference in that your chances of finding a partner are significantly better in real life.

[@kevinbradshaw6127]

My ex girlfriend, her sister hooked up with every " bad boy" in the town. Every Monday she'd be at the kitchen table crying over something they did over the weekend. I gave up having sympathy for her .

[@joshuarosenwald6490]

How dare you...she is a victim! U need to simp over her terrible decisions! Lol

[@sudalaimuthu3312]

Proof locks matter but women never agree

[@TCR2025]

Goes to show that nice and good isn’t attractive, it’s boring. They like the excitement until they hit their mid30s and want a family. It’s predictable behavior

[@gracethroughfaith2462]

Damage control much...

[@StefIsCold]

1:10 fashionably late per usual 😂

[@shootermcgavin4999]

I'm 40. Inc3l pretty much. 6 figures. 6ft. A tad overweight but I gave up trying a long time ago. Juice aint worth the squeeze with the quality of women that are out there. Enjoying being alone. No drama. Do what I want.

[@DispleasedSub5cel]

R u a sub5 like me? (Wheat Waffles gave me a 3/10 rating + amiugly didn't even gaslight me into thinking I wasn't unattractive when I posted my face there)

[@Sez___]

Courtney, stop trying to be nice. Be straight up with us. We need to hit the gym. we need to get in shape. You give us advice about things men can do to be more attractive because you Know that is the number 1 factor. And with the work life balance of today and the social norm of wanting to meet people on apps instead of strangers in public we have to use these apps. Which means we have to be physically attractive. Yes, not all women care about that, but the amount that don't and are so rare it would be delusional to think you're going to find that person. It's like women wanting a guy 6 foot, to make at least a million, not be obese, and everything

[@marisolascencio937]

I feel like that's all the advice she gives (dressing, grooming, hygiene). But she did touch in some good points here. Not consuming so much hateful online content. I think she's been watching the news lately.

[@fredrikbergquist5734]

My father that was an expert in people once said ”a man that beat up other men will end up beating his gf”.

[@perpetualprocrastinator]

8:00 Courtney , men can't afford to be naive. Men are already on a tight rope , putting finances at risk when they get married. Is it fair to ask for more latitude from men??

[@Mancer1980]

Smart men don’t marry. In TODAY’S day and age you’re begging for problems.

[@jayy5903]

Not all women, but most will over look a lot of sh!t if the dude is hot. Let’s stop pretending that looks don’t matter to women. Gentlemen just get off the dating apps and stop simping.

[@somaspecialist]

No bro its ALL WOMEN

[@charlesyoung9980]

You need to understand and be able to accept one thing................ A person will ALWAYS take into account one's physical appearance before anything else. There are ZERO exceptions to this. Regardless of what people might say, speculate or even state as "fact", this is the absolute truth!!!

[@andersnielsen6044]

True. ;)

[@polvwfdgfdgfssfsf]

Wow women like hot guys, no way

[@MrOdaddy2011]

*only. Fixed it for you

[@Shawn-oh5yq]

This isn't surprising at all. Plenty of women will walk through piles of broken glass to get with a guy that's hot/tall enough regardless of how shitty they might be as a person.

[@JohnnyinCLE]

So... This "experiment" kind of rings true IRL... There are a lot of folks who emphasize mostly on the looks of a person, and may even ignore the possibility that someone might be hazardous for their health. Frankly, the notion that someone might be "joking" about their bio, whereas indicating domestic violence issues, is a concern to me. And while the "bad boy/girl" image may have some appeal to some of us? It will perplex me to no end. Take it from a guy who used to be a "bad boy": It's not worth the pursuit, ladies. It's when a guy (or girl) changes for the better, that will help you not "spin your wheels".

[@Hvelcar]

You start by saying "I'm not taking parts..." and legit started by saying "yeah, you are wrong, this study does not show that, women don't like bad boys and they aren't superficial by just looking the pictures, it's just how society is right now 😭😭😭" and then started justifying the women that did it 😂😂😂

[@cakedupkevin]

There are millions of bots on the dating apps. They could have also swiped on this account.

[@asdax8311]

This is amongst the biggest issues I have dating women: INCONSISTENCY. Saying they want a nice guy while dating bad boy. Planning to meet up days or weeks ahead of time and then cancel last minute with little to no warning. Having PFPc that say something similar to "be kind" or "love is love" while posting things that would've otherwise gotten men banned if the roles were reversed. This is why I have trust issues whrn it comes to dating.

[@Pikawarps]

Never believe a woman when she tells you “what she’s looking for” they lie every time

[@Andrew--S]

Making plans weeks ahead of time is insane. If she wants to meet you she will meet you as soon as possible.

[@Kevin-qf2hs]

This is why I stopped listening to what women say, I judge only by their actual choices/behaviors.

[@bagman147]

they did this yrs ago with a convicted child molester. a woman with 2 young daughters was begging him to come over

[@kryptonianguest1903]

I remember that. Didn't one of the women say something along the lines of, "Lucky girls."?

[@TripleGhey]

Revolting.

[@shootingbricks8554]

I would stay away from a woman who abuses children. I don't care how attractive she is.

[@mattc1830]

I believe there is a collapse of cultural norms in our society for having healthy relationships. Over thirty years ago a woman who had lots of partners, didn’t want to actually get married until they were in their thirties due to their careers and partying would be seen as somebody most people didn’t want. Now it seems like the norm. I’m not letting men off the hook. Men and women aren’t built to have lots of options in dating through social media and the internet in the last 20 years. It has really destroyed our society.

[@man_of_iron]

A lot of men don't really have the luxury of choice, so they take what they can get. It's only recently where men are openly avoiding marriage/ long-term relationships en masse.

[@squali1930]

The equivalent of this to men would not be a hot women with a record of domestic violence, most dudes would literally ignore that and dare her to try and hit them. The equivalent would be "I divorced my last husband and let with half his stuff." THAT would be the real test.

[@genericname4168]

This just proves dating apps are only about how hot your profile picture is

[@bumpercoach]

"I can fix him" is typical plus multiplied by the pill... It's good for decent men to remember not to settle for what most gals offer

[@user-my6ss4mz4l]

And this "experiment" only continues to point out the shallowness of most modern women which is why so many men are done with them and dating. Yet this is somehow seen as misogyny 🙄

[@metaller4ever]

The reason she is avoiding admitting the profile got so many matches due to looks is that her channel relies on deluding her viewers of the opposite. Looks don't matter that much, here are tips on how to get the girl, keep watching my videos for the ad revenue, but actually looks matter but in these ways that I show you in my videos which you can change so keep watching etc. Also it's partially a sisterhood thing - collective gaslighting plus a giant shit test. Convincing chads they're not actually shallow and deluding simps who trust in their words even when they have proof of the opposite so they can get filtered out. As with most things that women discuss about their and other women's nature, there is a multidimensional approach to deceit. It's actually smart and unironically healthy if a woman does that - considering their biology, I'd be worried if a woman spoke 100% with truth about these sensitive topics. I'm not passing moral judgement on it, just describing what I've observed.

[@SnookisInfant-gt8xu]

These dumb ass excuses Courtney is making for women is beyond hilarious 😂😂😂

[@sirg-had8821]

Women always protect women.

[@CatGamer-wc2ij]

She tries to play the Devil's advocate...but she only benefits the devil mostly.

[@Julius_Gold_Dollar_Caesar]

Hypocrisy.

[@tittat9351]

She's just trying to placate to potential raging ladies in commentsection that doesn't like being exposed. That's the diplomatic take

[@mindgames4389]

It’s time for our favourite blue pill content creator Courtney Ryan. Let’s IMPROOOVE so that girls finally give us a chance!

[@paulkramer9666]

Nobody's even dating anymore, so who cares?

[@cseptember6562]

Men arent. Women are though

[@miquearre1776]

This is why I don't do dating apps.

[@phoenix-l4i]

One thing nobody's talking about including the manosphere that you have a bunch of women who had so many partners that they actually bored of sex settling down with men who had 1 or 2 partners if theyre luck and havent had a chance to explore much of anything. Somebody's not going to get their needs met. I think keeping things casual is the only good solution at this point because men shouldn't have to give up their freedom for partners that just want someone they can take for granted. For the record I actually had a partner that said she was bored of sex and had 200 previous partners, fortunately neither of us had put anything serious on the table but she still wanted some kind of intellectual stimulation I couldn't deliver.

[@PappaBear_1234]

She’s gotta roast these people for doing that

[@maxwillson]

The best strategy for dating apps is to swipe right on looks and then look at the bio after matching. I do this. I'm sure women do this as well. It's the most efficient way to use the apps. There is literally no reason to read the bio if you don't match. You can't contact the other person if you don't match so there is zero reason to read the bio. There are times when I match with a "woman," read the bio and realize it's a transwoman. That happens once in awhile. That doesn't mean I'm going to pursue that person, it just means that I didn't have time to read the bio when I was swiping.

[@man_of_iron]

It makes sense if you have reasonable expectations and can also be honest about where you lie on your sex's attractiveness level. Otherwise, you end up with people who are much lower in the attractiveness scale wanting the kind of outcomes that the handsome/beautiful/successful people of the world have.

[@kinnymonster]

Totally believable. Don't believe it, just try it for yourself.

[@Nick.Brough]

So I guess the answer is to get a haircut, wear a crisp white shirt with a few buttons undone and have a picture taken on a rooftop bar?

[@pace1195]

Provided your face doesn't look like it got hit by a warm waffle iron.

[@questprotector]

who knew that it was that easy?! 😂

[@timocruz510]

Yes

[@1bosstv]

Add a Ferrari to the fit!

[@snoopy6867]

Not making excuses while making excuses. So none of these matches ready the profile?? Okay.

[@eikichionizuka2206]

Damn this comment section is full of simps

[@Sorakingdom4]

This is part of the reason why I don’t take the internet seriously, FB, Insta, Twitter, etc.

[@vsalukir7019]

She just spent an entire video trying to rationalize away perfectly good data, about who women are, that was too hard to swallow.

[@PrinceOfTheCity1]

It’s because it’s literally subconscious it’s inside their dna so when there is a bit of cognitive dissonance it creates an issue Its called hypergamy and it can be as simple as just physical attractiveness

[@andersnielsen6044]

If the person you look at attracts you - you are almost willing to accept anything in the bio or what is behind the surface. It has been like that since forever and it will never change. That is how we function as human beings.

[@WarcraftPrince]

How do you know he's an incel?🤣

[@cavetroll666]

Well they wonder why we all have walked away

[@EricMoore790]

People are attracted to toxic things. Men and women. Nice people don't get treated very well.

[@DisfattBidge-i2x]

Men are NOT attracted to toxic women

[@CatGamer-wc2ij]

Simply because men have to tolerate toxic, does not mean they like it.

[@DDD11239]

​@@DisfattBidge-i2x OF is successful for a reason.

[@secondone3249]

Unattractive nice people don't get treated very well you mean

[@andersnielsen6044]

@@DisfattBidge-i2x They are enmasse..

[@Mau365PP]

Bro incels are right 😢

[@Herozonex200]

Wait. So people that do creates a fake account to do tests are incels? Nah

[@uomodonore245]

Thanks for the video Courtney.

[@DirtnapJack]

I sense you are trying to be positive here so this is not a personal attack. “We hope women don’t generalize all men based on the actions of a few.” Lol. Hasn’t that been the overall approach of a LOT of women for the last 50 years or so? I laugh more given the collective freakout of women the last 10 days. I found the fact that Wade Wilson, the man sent to death row in FL for killing not one but two women getting almost 4000 messages from women lusting over him far more disturbing. I don’t think the original bio was messed with there.

[@sman14GTA]

Real life: If you're rich, attractive and valuable enough as a man, then being nice or civil is _completely optional_ . To twist more; if you have to actually accommodate for attraction as a man, you might need to get your money, power and looks up to gain leverage. Not only for dating, but for many factors of life.

[@12Messenger]

Some women are immature as fuck and make mature women look bad. These women are the type to know a guy is bad for them but he's attractive to her. She knows she's not gonna marry her but he makes her feel emotions and toxic feelings. Women definitely know what they're doing. They're not children.

[@malienation]

Actor Joe Pantoliano was already somewhat famous when cast as Ralph Cifaretto in The Sopranos. In an interview, the short and otherwise nondescript actor stated that when he was out in public he was never hit on, even after being recognized. However, he noted that all changed after a very specific episode of The Sopranos. Which one? The one in which his character flew into a rage and beat a stripper to death. After that, he had women falling all over him.