What Happened to Andy? A message from his Wife.

Hello, thank you for all the support you have all shown for Andy.
This is just a quick video to clear up the misinformation on Andy's passing and to say thank you to the community for all the lovely messages.
I'm sorry it has taking a while to make and post this video, i just needed to find the right time and what felt right to me.
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Hello indie people, I'm Andy and I have Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). I make videos on autism from the perspective of an autistic adult. Sharing my autism experiences to help other autistic people and autism families to improve their understanding of autism.
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[@fawnajohnson6130]

Just wanted to emphasize the point that Andy is still helping people, even if he is no longer here. Truely noteworthy people continue to impact the world even when they're gone

[@northernworld]

Thank you ❤

[@jeremywilliams1664]

I’m so sorry for your loss. He was such a great asset to the autistic community. He is greatly missed. Prayers for you and your family.

[@philipdalton1000s]

Take a look at my KZbin channel if you're interested, there's a bit on there about Asperger's Syndrome, which I have been diagnosed with.

[@cupidsaro]

@@philipdalton1000s Not the right time.

[@lilacscentedfushias1852]

@@cupidsaro I was thinking the same thing! It’s downright rude to say that

[@burkhardniggemeier6593]

If you wanna find Andy Hafell, look for AI Andy

[@keshavsharma20026]

Which Andy she's talking about? Andy Hafel youtuber who teaches How to make money on KZbin?

[@sethzard]

I thought he was taking a long break, I hadn't heard he had died. I'm so sorry for your loss. He made wonderful and informative videos and was a huge asset to the autistic community.

[@Joshdifferent]

💯❤️🙏🏽

[@YoSamdySam]

Andy was such a gem. A really lovely, genuine guy. Every so often a video of his gets recommended to me and I get this wave of sadness. He certainly be missed by so many of his followers.

[@AutisticBrain]

@Yo samdy sam me too love his videos and Always will.

[@kathleengrady-thompson9132]

I am a teacher in Ottawa, Canada. Our class just watched a couple of his videos today, as it is Autism Awareness Month here. We just wanted to say that we learned a lot from his videos. And we encourage everyone to learn as much as they can about autism. Thank you, and we hope that Andy's legacy continues forever.

[@TEAM_ALASTOR_4_PRESIDENT]

I just found this channel, so this news is shocking. Even a year after his passing, his videos have helped me with my recent ASD diagnosis. His legacy lives on.

[@AlexiaHausmannLexi]

I just got diagnosed today and found this channel today and went to see the most recent video and found this. i am so incredibly sorry for the loss of andy and i hope you all find peace in knowing he is in a better place.

[@duchessofdark]

@@AlexiaHausmannLexiMe too, just now. Tragic. He was charismatic and I’m sorry to all who loved and lost him. 😔

[@TheAspieWorld]

Sending my love to you. So sad thank you for the video ❤️. Hit me up anytime if you need anything Nicola xx

[@AutisticBrain]

I miss Andy and his videos they were so informational.

[@livmarlin4259]

I need a new car!

[@genericname8727]

I’m so sorry for your loss. Even though his life was too short, he’s added a lot of good and positivity to the world. May he rest in peace.

[@LordSethize]

My deepest condolences to you and the rest of his family and friends. What Andy created has helped people and continues to inspire. Thank you, Andy, and may you rest in peace.

[@MattSaysHello]

Really sorry to hear this. Can’t even imagine how difficult this time is for you ❤️

[@JackT21]

Hi I don't have time to watch the video what happened?

[@MattSaysHello]

@@JackT21 dude, the video is six minutes.

[@catherinelevison3310]

Andy is very missed by his KZbin viewers. He was a great advocate for autism. Thank you for updating everyone.

[@whitneymason406]

Thank you Nicola for sharing this message. His life may have been short but he made a huge impact! ❤

[@robertwarbrick7560]

IndieAndy and The Aspie World were the two in the community that inspired me to get my ASD diagnosis. I have joined Orion Kelly and Mom on the Spectrum as a result. He has started a ripple effect and brought people into a supportive and connected network.

[@SquirrelMonkeyCom]

Sorry for your loss. He helped so many people. :( We will never forget him.

[@elicarlson7682]

I was your 69th like 😔

[@Rowan_nawoR]

@@elicarlson7682not the time dude

[@winterroses2020]

@@elicarlson7682not an appropriate comment on a video like this

[@elicarlson7682]

@@winterroses2020 thus the “😔” What do you not understand?

[@beelzebubbles6031]

Both you and Andy never deserved this, I hope you can find all the good Andy has left behind ❤️

[@MezMcG]

He was a great guy. He's cited in my PhD thesis. Stunned to find out he's gone. Don't know what to say. xxxxx

[@ellenday2155]

I’m genuinely shocked. I truly had no idea he died. He seemed like such a sweet, friendly guy. I’m so, so sorry.

[@SezFrancis1]

Nicola, you have been so brave for uploading your video on Andy’s channel. If you always need a chat, I’m here at anytime. And yes, Andy was a great friend with a heart of gold. Life is unfair but honestly, all of Andy’s family and friends and Nicola as well were very lucky to have him part of our lives. He will always be remembered and loved 💙💙💙💙💙

[@Tazer_Silverscar]

Really sad that people are being this way. Still missing Andy, and I don't understand why people would put rumours out like that. He was brilliant!

[@artwolf5447]

Last week I finally got my autism diagnosis at 25 and I couldn’t help thinking about Andy. I watched his videos for years and ultimately it was because of him that I decided to seek an official diagnosis. Thank you Andy. It was such a shock when you died. He did so much good for the community and he continues to do so even now

[@HanChap2]

Oh my goodness! I am so so sorry. I didn't even know, I just figured he was on another break for a while. Sending huge hugs to you all, I feel heartbroken for you especially as you only recently got married and he did that lovely video saying how excited and happy he was. Thinking of you all. Andy's legacy will live on, he has helped so many people 💔🫂

[@mandlin4602]

I’m so sorry, he was such a lovely guy a great loss for the autistic community. He was so open minded and kind.

[@jackandfamshorts]

Im so sorry for your loss im 10yr old and have autisum ADHD Dyspraxia And PDA my name is jack

[@Nicholas1066]

I'm so sorry.

[@jazzdevil]

I discovered Andy's channel only a few days ago and I immediately felt that he was a wonderful human being. Last night I discovered he was no longer with us. I am so sorry for that, my condolences to his family and to Nicola. I am so pleased that you have left his channel up, his legacy is that he continues to help people, and that is incredibly valuable.

[@amymartin6271]

It is April 2023, I found Andie's videos a couple of weeks ago. I'm in the US, and my 15 yr old son was diagnosed at the end of February 2023. I just want to say, Andie's message is still circulating and helping people like myself and my son find our way! This is a year and three months late, but, my deepest sympathies! Thank you for keeping his content online!

[@kathryncollins8708]

So sorry for your loss. Just found his channel. Will probably still watch some of his old videos. God bless you. Thank you for the video. ♥️♥️

[@oliviamartin1423]

I'm so sorry for your loss, i only just found Andy's videos this week. His legacy on the internet has clearly helped so many and i know that his kindness and education on youtube will be able to help more in the future. May he rest in peace

[@dodger664]

I’m so sorry for your loss, I went to Newcastle College with Andy and followed his videos on here. He was such a wonderful and kind chap and clearly made a big difference with his online presence. He will be sorely missed and I’m sure his videos will live on and be a fitting tribute to the man. Take care x

[@johnathanfiske14]

My Dad died for the same reason. It is tough because it comes suddenly. You are a wonderful person and I thank you for this video.

[@northernworld]

I'm sorry to hear about your dad, thank you for your message, its truly appreciated ❤

[@endorolfgreenwolf5265]

I’m sorry for your loss. Thank you for heading these rumours off at the pass. People don’t realize what damage they are doing when they spread rumours.

[@LearnSpanishWorld]

I watched a few of his videos in the past and I was subscribed. I noticed he hadn't uploaded in a while... I just found out the sad news.... I am completely dumbfounded...I'm so, so sorry for your loss. He was such a great guy. May he R.IP I will keep you, him, his family in my prayers. Sending you lots of love ♥

[@portraitoftheautist]

So sorry for your loss. He seemed like a lovely person, who did so much good through his channel. Very best - j

[@thehermitscove7942]

Omg...Andy....my condolences are with you in your time of need. The Autism community will always remember him for all his work and his kindness.

[@DVDandFilmBloke]

I'm still gutted he's gone and will always be, he didn't deserve to go this young and at such an eventful point in his life. I know this probably isn't the most sensitive part of the comment but thank you for the closure. Hopefully KZbin keeps his account open and I think after this point the account should remain frozen in time, as a repository to help others and honour his memory. I will remain subscribed to the channel out of respect. Take care, stay you, stay indie.

[@CrystallizedCoyote]

Man... I just found this channel and started to get curious due to having autism myself... I'm sorry for your loss... Hugs. R.I.P. Andy.

[@pernilladomander7648]

Same.

[@tajik4276]

I have a son who is autistic and did a quick search for cats with autistic kids and found his video and was just about to check his videos until I came to this video. I want to say my prayers are with his loved ones. I am absolutely positive he is in a much much better world. He seemed like a great personality , May God rest his soul !

[@hoxie_x5221]

I can't imagine how tough that must have been. I haven't watched his videos in a long time and finding out about this now is really saddening.

[@ryanb7186]

Sorry for your loss. I just watched his Rain Man review 15 minutes ago, and I appreciated his honest take.

[@philsophkenny]

I'm so sorry to hear that. My Condolences.

[@kaylaklover]

This still breaks my heart ❤

[@lozyoung4776]

Sending you lots of love. Andy was the most genuine and nice guy i ever met and probably ever will meet. I know there isn't much I can do but I will try and help get to that 20,000 subscribers xxx

[@eve_joleen_joli5630]

I am so sorry. Andy was such a beautiful soul. I am just so sorry. This crushed my heart, this world is such a cruel place. I was so happy for him that he found someone like you who really loves him. I am just so sorry. ♥️💔

[@ilhamtlam5250]

i can't believe, I learned a lot from him ❤ good person RIP

[@a.mlockhart9759]

Hi sweetheart ❤️ I just came across Andy's videos as we found ot our youngest is ASD I just wanted to understand stims more Thank you to Andy for sharing can I say I know who his mum and dad feel our oldest was killed with his family I know it must be hard as his wife to do this but thank you for sharing I send you and his family much love As a greving parent can I point you to god and to daddy's with angles greving mother's UK Please keep the KZbin video up Maybe one of Andy's ASD Friends might want to help keep it going don't give up

[@klaustrophobic3643]

I wish you all the best.... it is unfair and cruel indeed. its really sad to hear. I liked what he had to say, wanted to hear a lot more.

[@CongenitalArtDefect]

I know almost too well how sad it is when someone you're close to dies. It can alter your life forever. RIP Andy. Sending love and support to his loved ones. 💛

[@tracy7488]

So sorry for your loss. Andy will be greatly missed! ♥

[@StephanieBethany]

I wish I could reach through this screen and give you a hug, Nicola 💛 Thank you for allowing his videos to stay online and for sharing information that was very difficult to talk about. I hope his channel and videos continue to reach people and change lives. He was genuinely one of the most amazing people and the best kind of friend. I keep thinking that I should go tell Andy about this crazy or funny or weird thing that happened during my day and then I remember that I can't really do that. I can't imagine what you're going through. If you ever want to connect at any time, always feel free to message me. Much love 💛

[@TwinklingAurora]

I just found one of his videos and really like it. I went the channel and found this video. I had a hemorrhage when I was 15 and am so thankful I made it out without any complications. I’m so sorry for your loss and just know that his videos are continuing to help others. 💗

[@OliviaHops]

I'm so very sorry for your loss. I first discovered Andy in 2018 when someone first mentioned to me that I should look into Autism. Watching his videos helped me find my answer to "why" I have always been different and helped make my entire life make sense. For that, I am eternally grateful. He inspired me to start my own channel in hopes that I could help others just like he helped me. Praying for you and your family. God Bless.

[@grumpyinbrooklyn6347]

Andie was one of the nicest KZbinrs I have ever followed and was an amazing, positive influence within the autistic community! Thank you for this update, I feel it helps all of us that looked up to him a bit of a sense of closure. May his memory be a blessing!

[@jillpierce7230]

Sorry for your loss.

[@gaylemcclelland7002]

Nicola you are an amazing and strong individual. Andy will be with you always.

[@cristinaimaguire]

We'll truly miss Andy. What a fantastic ally and wonderful human being. We are very sorry for your loss.

[@modfather1964]

only found this channel yesterday. love to you, so sorry. John. x

[@rachelelf3000]

this is so shocking, and i am so sorry for your loss ❤

[@gemmarenwick9995]

I'm so sorry for your loss, I never knew that this happened untill I clicked on the video section. I'm 14 and I just got diognosed with asd. his videos have helped me get through some tough times. he truly was such a lovely person with a heart of gold.

[@Lady_Tism]

I’m so sorry for your loss. I love his videos. He was an amazing person.

[@cortmadril2142]

I’m very sorry for your loss. Andy was a bright young man and he helped many people who are autistic by sharing his experiences. He helped me understand myself much better after I was officially diagnosed. He will be missed by his fellow KZbinrs and subscribers.

[@crazycatlady1292]

I came across Andy’s videos not too long ago where he was mentioning his stuffed llamas and how much he loved them. It’s so sad and heartbreaking to hear of Andy’s passing. May he Rest In Peace and my heart goes out to his family and all of his loved ones. ❤🕊

[@theautisticpage]

Thank You, I know this was Difficult. Best Wishes. Andy helped encourage me to do my own thing on TikTok.

[@seaglasscolor]

I am so sorry for your loss. Andy was a beautiful person.

[@lifesymbiont5769]

I am really, really sorry. He was a great guy. A true legend to the autistic community and a great human being. A lot of strength and hope to you and both families.

[@tbb4023]

Just saw his videos for the first time yesterday. So sorry to hear he passed. Take care.

[@FPVEvilMunkey]

Sorry for your loss. He was a really nice guy.

[@Daniel-do4hg]

Andy is a strong man and I'm really sorry to hear that 😢

[@mikesanchez1017]

Best wishes to you and the family. Sorry for your loss. Andy was loved by so many and will be missed.

[@xsansthecomic1x]

No! Andy helped me with my autism so much with his videos and now he's gone, I'm so sorry for your loss, rip Andy we'll miss you so much 🥺🥺

[@gabrielraphael8084]

Love to you all. So easy to forget how quickly a precious life can be lost.

[@andypandy3736]

Nicola you are very brave Ive only just starting watching Andy's Videos and think he is an amazing person my thoughts are with you and your family

[@EUPHORICALIMBALANCE]

I’m so sorry that had happen and may he rest in peace, he has helped me understand a little bit more of the autism spectrum and I only started watching him now. I only watched him for the past day? Or few minutes. Andy we love you I hope you see this from above, ❤️ and again I’m so sorry for your loss.. he is okay. ❤️

[@Garrison_the_Barbarian]

Probably my favorite videos that Andy posted were the ones where he talked about autism burnout. In the 2020’s, that topic has become even more relevant with the pandemic and constant bombardment of world news. Everyone is so tired. So, so tired. Andy is brave for being vulnerable about that topic and what it means to him. It certainly put a lot of things into perspective for me and many others. Rest in peace, Andy. I got teary eyed right before writing this comment.

[@alexphipps4912]

Just remembered about this channel again. Really tragic that this is how it had to be. My deepest condolences

[@ChilliusVGM]

Im late, but I can not believe Andy passed away, he was an absolute legend and really helped and motivated me with autism and explained so much and helped me explain so much. He will never be forgotten and will always be remembered as a legend, R.I.P.

[@truantverreaux5483]

im so sorry for your loss and i just found out about his channel and was really sad to see that he has passed away...

[@typicalcookies8123]

I'm so sorry for your loss. He helped with my self discovery and acceptance so much. Needless to say he helped many people and saved lives. His spirit will live throughout everyone he has inspired. Thankyou for everything andy rest well 💕 if anyone he knew irl see this. Look after yourselves.

[@BjorkBrex]

I got a notification, that Andy had uploaded a video. I thought I was dreaming. Andy was my hero and one of the reasons I got my autism diagnosis. I'm so sorry for your loss 🥺💔

[@AutisticBrain]

I recently switched KZbin account's and forgot to re-subscribe to indieandy but now subscribed i really am missing his voice and enthusiasm. #restinpeaceindieandy

[@tomaterjuice5095]

I was just watching his echolalia video and got so happy to comment and read his response. I'm so sad.

[@Bekka85]

I'm so sorry for your loss❤💔❤ may Andy rest easy, until you meet again❤❤❤ he made an impact on people all over the world. I really appreciated him sharing so generously about his experiences, and his humorous take on things. He helped a lot of people, and he will be missed❤

[@valerieh5400]

I’m so sorry for your loss. I was hoping to learn more from him today. I’m sending you love and a hug.

[@ReisIle-fn4dc]

I am sorry for your loss miss .I also have autism i felt his struggle .stay strong

[@Bekamorphosis]

I literally just watched one of Andy’s videos and thought wow what a lovely, vibrant guy, I need to watch more of his videos because he’s got this great energy about him. So I was shocked to see this update, I’m really sorry for your loss, hope all of his family and friends are doing okay.

[@akara8793]

A good man taken too early. He touched so many people's lives. He helped me answer so many questions about myslef. Sorry for your loss. He will be missed. RIP Andy.

[@jamiereel2578]

💙💙 I'm so very sorry. I looked forward to his videos. Feel like I lost a friend... Odd, ik... Huge hugs to his wife, family and friends. He will not be forgotten, always will be treasured💙💙

[@mysterionz]

I’m sorry for your loss. May he fly high

[@JamieHumeCreative]

Deep condolences... thank you for sharing.

[@NathanielPiscian]

I am so sorry for you lost 😭

[@sylvia9290]

May he rest in peace. Sending love to you and your family. He helped a lot of people.

[@arabellasterwerf7980]

Oh my god, I'm so sorry for your loss! As an Autistic person, seeing Andy's videos helped me feel seen. He was such an amazing voice in the Autistic community. I'm so sorry that he had such a short life. My condolences for your loss. Thank you for sharing this information with us! ❤

[@rev.jesseabelchristianlife6693]

Thank you so much & much love and support. Andy was a wonderful person and he helped me so very much. I am level one Autistic. I spoke with him a few times. So many of us truly loved him as a friend. I send love to the entire family. I cried when I heard the news of his passing. May comfort, healing and peace be with you all. My condolences and deepest sympathy. ✝️ 🙏❤🙏

[@elennapointer701]

God, I hadn't heard any of this. I thought maybe he was just taking some time off to catch up with things. My deepest condolences to you and the family. I'm so sorry.

[@kendallwhite4492]

I’m so sorry for your loss :( Andy made such a lasting impact and helped me accept my autism and learn so much. Rest In Peace Andy

[@riannaali6630]

So sorry for your loss. He was a great soul. He will truly be missed.

[@beanbeanster7219]

Hi Nicola, I'm so sorry to hear of Andy's passing. You're very brave for coming on and doing this video. I have just started watching Andy's channel in the last week. I like how he presented his videos and I'd like you and Andy's other family members and friends know that he's still educating people. Thank you Nicola and God bless you and your family.

[@BilliesCraftRoom]

Sending you and the family, so much love. Thank you for leaving the channel up, Andy is still helping people, with his knowledge, experience and his videos. That's an impressive legacy Donna. Holding safe space for you and the family. 🙏 🕯

[@hiimchuckiewannaplay]

I was really wondering where he had gone as I am a fairly new subscriber. This is heartbreaking. I hope you are getting the support you need right now. I have lost a partner before and I wouldn’t wish that pain on anyone. Thank you for posting this and for being there for Andy. You’re an amazing wife and human. We are all so sorry for this massive loss

[@RosheenQuynh]

This probably doesn't mean much but he's commented on a couple of my comments so I've definitely interacted with him a little bit so... wow. 😩😞💔 Loss is very hard. I lost my dad nearly a decade ago.

[@thegracklepeck]

I'm so sorry to hear that he's passed :( My condolences to you and your family 🌷

[@khalidbinwaleed5072]

Respect to you for being a supporting and loving wife

[@kieranhurley3027]

I am truly sorry to hear this news. May he rest in peace. Take good care of yourself. Kieran