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It is incredible to me how often I am asked and see this discussion so I thought I would sum it up for you and give you the ultimate test. Here it is...
' Full Proof ' I know I know. The surgery I had did that to me and I cannot see it. I do not get it but no excuses. Fucktard. lol - Marty
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*** Great comment from a long time viewer and I think it is really worthy of a top notch mention. It really says things in a way that is clear and without my voice:
"Before I knew what an INFJ was, I hated being me, then the INFJ label explained why I suffer. So then, I was okay wit it and think it’s cool, and I can learn about why as an INFJ that I behave the way I do. From there, I’ve made some changes and things are better. If I became another type, I don’t have another complete lifetime to master it. So no, at this point, I’ll keep my my INFJness." - Walter

[@Chris.888]

For me its not the INFJ label that matters, it’s understanding myself more.

[@marty_glenn]

Hey Chris. Then you are miles ahead of 99% of those who are stuck on a label and get it! TYWC - Marty

[@ashlazdanovich8396]

Same here. I don’t like a lot of things about being an INFJ but I am actively learning more about myself to better myself as well as my own relationships ect.

[@occupiedaustralia9952]

couldn't agree more Chris.

[@Mientjie1976]

Same

[@cronelilith2830]

Same. If im not then well ok.. What am I? 🤪 I like how i am and it amuses me now to see how others have to adjust now that im ok with it

[@soulfulspec]

As an infj, the fact that you took so long to get to the point was driving me nuts, but I agree with your points once u eventually made them 😂

[@marty_glenn]

Hi Eliza. I know. I am sorry. Everything is a big topic. I get it. I am trying. I promise. lol TYWC - Marty

[@soulfulspec]

@@marty_glenn don't be sorry. You're doing well :)

[@raven32041]

Yes I do agree with you on all the above but at the same time I could help but laugh with you Marty

[@gracierollins5581]

GAWWWWWWWWWWWWDDDDDDDD 😂 😂 😂

[@taffetaobrien6324]

SAAAAMEE OMGG

[@bethwaller1789]

Being an INFJ is incredibly painful and I can't imagine anyone actually wanting to be one.

[@marty_glenn]

Hi Elizabeth.. I get it but wait for a video I am going to do tonight. K I think you will really like it. TYWC - Marty

[@charlesertel1324]

That's the same way that I feel, Elizabeth. I believe that anyone that isn't an INFJ and was to feel what we go through, on a daily basis, would feel that we're cursed more than we are blessed. I'm in my 60's now and I have to tell you that I feel much better, as the years go by, than I did when I was younger. When I was younger I wanted to be understood and accepted for who I was but now that I'm older I realize more and more that as long as I'm satisfied with myself, then I don't care what anyone else thinks about me.

[@MarLyn07]

They want to be like us because they find us unique and interesting for the videos what they watch and for the information that link to us, without knowing how hard it is at first when you don't know how to handle or know that you're an INFJ. Before, when I didn't know that I'm an INFJ, I'm having alots of burden, troubles in understanding why I'm like this and I'm often being depressed, but knowing someone like us make me curious to research about personality until I found out that I belong to the rarest personality. That's why as INFJ knowing your personality is a big to understand yourself and why people found you intimidating, but I guess we're really not. And because of the facts of the traits that we have others finds our personality interesting that's why they want to be like us. But in reality, they find us intimidating, weird and KJ. They don't like the way we think because it's out of there line. That's what I noticed to the people around, and understand them now. They just want to be like us without knowing that in reality they don't like the way we are.

[@5thElement347]

@@charlesertel1324 I love what you wrote. I feel similar!

[@moonwaker01]

I think they just want to be unique. It would be an interesting experiment to have these people live in our minds for a day

[@user-ho1jq4wq4v]

Before I knew what an INFJ was, I hated being me, then the INFJ label explained why I suffer. So then, I was okay wit it and think it’s cool, and I can learn about why as an INFJ that I behave the way I do. From there, I’ve made some changes and things are better. If I became another type, I don’t have another complete lifetime to master it. So no, at this point, I’ll keep my my INFJness.

[@marty_glenn]

Walter... Very well said and this made it to the video description. TYWC - Marty

[@gavinlubyk313]

I completely understand this. But it’s so hard to not wanna be something else while also resonating so well with what it means to be an INFJ. It feels like a trap. Like life gave me a cookie when I was born but didn’t tell me it was cursed. Haha. So long as we can become the best versions of ourselves. Thankfully other types like us enough that we can get some pretty solid role models and supporters.

[@Zay_Lo]

Yeah exactly. It feels better knowing I'm not the only person who definitely didn't like their selves all that much. Now that I understand why and how others see me I feel like I finally understand why I'm like this and how I feel I'm starting to accept myself more than I ever have before.

[@hongsonnguyen8204]

same

[@catalinatamayo5335]

I thought exactly that when the video finalized. (Sorry if there are any mistake, I'm native spanish).

[@charleywalton7802]

Well, the language here is kind of tricky. I would not like to be an INFJ, but as long as I AM an INFJ, I am happier knowing that I am than not knowing, since it does relieve some of the self-hatred to know why I'm the way I am.

[@marty_glenn]

Charley. Go read the video description and the comment I posted. I think that will clear it up for you and place us back on the same page. ;) - Marty

[@mstanley97]

Same. Well said.

[@susangirl1613]

That's exactly how I felt 8/3/2020! I don't feel alone anymore, at least not in my suffering.

[@ezstaples6653]

Yes!

[@markoselendic9633]

Yes exactly!

[@Maydenne]

A common phrase uttered in my world: "I would never wish this feeling on anyone right now."

[@marty_glenn]

That is the4 basis for every time I say something about being an INFJ. TYWC - Marty

[@NubalanceDNAcDc]

I would never wish it upon another..yet I delight in the uncanny Joys of it..though.. Trust Your Intuition.. You become better at it in time.

[@haleydoe2279]

Or "I wish someone could sit with mind for just a minute and FEEL this".

[@ajninforvideo]

“I'd never join a club that would allow a person like me to become a member.” ― Woody Allen

[@marty_glenn]

HaHa. That is funny. TYWC - Marty

[@sanoj92]

"I'm not trying to be right here" One minute later: "I don't care what you say - I'm right end of story" 😂

[@marty_glenn]

You know Jonas, I LOVE it when I am called out in a nice IQ and professional way like you did. So please keep it coming. What I was trying to say is this: " I am not always trying to be right, because I am not, but what I am saying is that if you are truly an INFJ you do not want to be and it is because it is a painful way of living. There is no escaping that point even if you like parts of the INFJ traits. " I hope that clarifies but, yes, thank you for calling me out and laughing. TYWC - Marty

[@marty_glenn]

That is exactly what I am doing. Glad we are playing the same game and it better be football (soccer) TYWC - Marty

[@INDAREVISH]

INFJ stuff contradicting ourselves in record speed

[@marty_glenn]

;) - M

[@888biblestudy]

@@marty_glenn I learned about HSP before I knew what an INFJ was. A penpal told me she thought I was HSP based on the long letters we wrote to each other. It was not until I read Elaine Aaron's book that I realised I am normal. I always wondered what was wrong with me until then. I always thought others were the same as me (which freaked me out because I thought they could see into my soul) yet I also always felt different (in an awkward and confusing way) Then I learned about INFJ and it seemed to explain more from the starting point of HSP. I would say it is the most confusing and painful thing I have ever been thru and I honestly don't know where I would be today without Elaine's book. At least, now I know why I am different and that different, for me, is normal. Just found your channel. My boyfriend took the MBTI test once and got INFP. Do you discuss INFJ relationships with other personality types.

[@yoongoongi4349]

I wish I wasn't an INFJ because it feels like with people I'm always giving my 200% all and no one ever bothers to even give me 50% in return. So when relationships end, it's ALWAYS the other person's fault and so I feel like I have no control over any of my relationships because I'm always the one getting hurt and then I'm the one that feels like a dick cuz I shut off to people and end up not being able to forgive them. This always makes me feel guilty cuz I know where they're coming from and I understand why they are the way they are. Other people always seem to think that they'll have me forever once we get along, but I'm always the one that has "it could end at any moment" in the back of my mind, and usually end up finding those reasons why it'll end when the other person never even saw it coming. So when people promise me forever, I don't believe them and they get hurt when I tell them something along the lines of "well, that'd be great... but nothing good lasts forever." Some people also seem sorta terrified of me because they know if they hurt me I won't let them get away with it, I'll tell them how they hurt me and if they don't make an effort to fix it, I'll just get away from them and so then they start babying me or walking on eggshells and when I sense that insincerity it makes me hate them for thinking I can't handle the real them. Yes, I AM sensitive, but I would much rather cry and get over it than be lied to or given less than someone's all. I'm aware that I hold people to really high standards. But what I don't understand is, if it's possible for me to treat you the best way I know how, why does it seem so impossible for everyone else to keep up when it's so easy for me? It's actually harder for me to purposely hurt someone than it would ever be for me to give someone basic respect or help. BUT... all that being said, I really do love myself, INFJ-ness and all. I just wish other people understood me, were more patient with me or appreciative of me and, most of all, more REAL with me. I'd rather eat an ugly truth than a pretty lie any day, and even when I say this, people don't seem to believe me. That's my pointless internet rant for the year! lol Bye!~

[@marty_glenn]

So true and exact. Well said. All of it. TYWC - Marty

[@yoongoongi4349]

@@marty_glenn Thank you. I'm really glad I found your channel. (:

[@miriamgarcia7163]

@@yoongoongi4349 ufff... 😥 That's me on those words above.

[@the144ooothdarklight]

this is me to a tee. how wonderful and complex we are

[@x1987knights1]

Wow...you’ve literally put it all in words I couldn’t get my point across to others 😭🥺 thank you!

[@SawyerScribbles]

Am I the only one completely bothered by “full” proof?

[@marty_glenn]

Hi Kate. Nope, Me too! ;) - M

[@mommified]

So bothered

[@lindavidler433]

Me too

[@kimharris7862]

Fool Proof ... it is our personality that “saw” it!😂

[@toneblanco880]

Seen it in the thumbnail before I clicked the video. Actually clicked the video to look at the comments 😂

[@hgaucevy]

I’m still not sure if I’m an INFJ or not. Let me tell you how I found out I was an INFJ, if you’re interested: I first found out about INFJs few months ago. I saw a video on my KZbin recommendations, the name was something like “10 signs you’re an INFJ, the rarest personality type in the world” and I literally said “how can i be rare? There are a bunch of people who have the similar likings and disliking as me!” and I didn’t even watched that video. After a few weeks I found out i was an INFJ and I didn’t cared about it because I forgot that it was the”rarest personality type”, when I remembered, i still didn’t cared that much because for me it was like one of those “Which character of Avenger are you?” quiz. But after i researched a bit about the INFJ world, I realized that I do a lot of things in real life that are mentioned in the video/website (not all of the personality traits mentioned in those videos describe me, but most of them does, if that makes sense). I found out what are the pros and cons of being an INFJ. So after you asked if I’ll be happy knowing that I’m not an INFJ, i said “Yes, I’ll be happy” since I want to be an ESFJ or an ENFP or an INTJ, but there was a part of me that refused because INFJs has some abilities that makes me actually like them. So it’s confusing... It’s my very first time telling someone (if anyone’s even reading this) such a long story... I’m sorry if I disturbed you 😣

[@marty_glenn]

Sounds to me like you got the message of the video perfectly. Well said and I think many will read this and hear you. TYWC - Marty

[@mayadamaher4969]

I can relate. I don’t like being myself most of the time. But I’ve learned the hard way (rejection i mean) to accept myself and pay a little more attention to the things i like about myself.

[@Redhaart]

This is the same video that came in my recommendation today and is as the same and I saw tons of video coz I could not belive I was an INFJ but I realised why I feel like that and all but this is exactly how I found out to..

[@Linzach7862]

I just totally can relate and felt the same.

[@stainedglock4528]

I feel exactly the same.... it's fucked up.It really is😣

[@Lorezion]

INFJ male here. I wouldn't say I don't like being an INFJ, yes it's hard sometimes because nobody around you can relate to you as much as you can to them. But, it's a great thought to be unique and have these gifts of understanding people beyond the average sense. I do accept who I am, and I will continue to. Now a lot of us have issues with leaving our past mistakes behind (it haunts us), but I'm trying to look forward. I used to be very depressed, but I have come to learn to not be depressed anymore. I still siphon people's depression when talking about they're sad life, it affects me for about a day or more, but it goes away. I feel that INFJ's are here for a purpose, and I want to know that purpose, I feel that every personality is here for a purpose, all for a very good reason.

[@derrencewashington2668]

I think it depends on the state of the INFJ, for me, if I’d found out about this 10 years ago then yeah maybe I’d agree, but having come to this INFJ/MBTI stuff after a good amount of spiritual awakening and finding that I wasn’t so alone after all, I’d be disappointed. Coming to these understandings after some major internal work and coming to accept who I am without labels and loving myself regardless of any external or internal expressions I find it neat and cool to listen to people I can relate to and honestly it’s a breath of fresh air to hear why I work the way I work. Before it was just self criticism, feeling hard done by, feeling cursed, wishing I could just be someone else, but not anymore. So maybe I’m not an INFJ but I feel I am. Anywho I like your vids. You’re funny.

[@marty_glenn]

Hi Derrence. You said it well and I think you have it right and I have learned from this comment. Thank you. TYWC - Marty

[@cronelilith2830]

At 60 i always struggled with this and i blamed myself for their issues with me. Now i am glad to be called obstinate stubborn and to feel like a complete alien. Im really ok with me

[@raphaelbenasa8305]

Keeping it simple, yes. I like it. Other videos I watched just kept bombarding you with information. Looking forward to watching other videos you have.

[@marty_glenn]

Thank you. Honest and Transparent. TYWC - Marty

[@sarahc.6886]

Honestly I dont mind being an INFJ and honestly I'm happy that I am because this is the way I was born. The only thing I do mind is that I dont know how to handle being an infj. This 'handling the infj' part is what makes being an infj so hard, because we are complex individuals. However, I do disagree with you on the 'test' Marty, because I believe in seeing the positive side of everything and being an infj has so many benefits! :) Have a good day!

[@marty_glenn]

Hi N. S. You will enjoy the next 3 videos about being an INFJ being uploaded now. Enjoy. And thank you. You have a nice day too. TYWC - Marty

[@stephaniagriffith6329]

( not an INFJ) 😂... If your happy and you know it raise your hand because you my friend are not what this man is speaking of. If you havent for a length of time felt in so much emotional turmoil that you feel as if the devil himself has your soul and it is on fire as he whispers all of your insecurities in your ear as you burn you know nothing of what you speak about. Such intense pain you would almost stick a knife through your own heart to stop the inner voice in your head that tells you to hate your self while you still want others to be happy and go above and beyond for someone else with that burning self hatred you will never know the mental exhaustion a true INFJ feels. I pray that's the case for you, because to me I'll take an physically pain over that emotional pain any day of the week. That's just the surface of one aspect. I feel like people like to say they are INFJ as if it's a trend. It doesn't make you cool. The only reason I even learned what its called is for the desire to put a name on what the heck I was dealing with in my own mind. Not because " I'm so happy and look at the bright things". No I wish I could just "be happy" when you wake up and with in 20 minutes of being awake you are exhausted at the back and forth in your mind of how you aren't good enough and somehow if you take care of everyone else's needs and wants it will somehow help you find peace. Sometimes it will bring a moment of silence from that inner voice but sooner than later that voice comes back. Anyone who has been through this even if happy will know exactly what this video is about and won't feel the need to disagree!

[@jamaalharmon6305]

@@stephaniagriffith6329 wtf are u saying

[@Ice.muffin]

Couldn't agree more. I'm just sick of any kind of melodrama at this point in my life.

[@CrunchyGreenWater]

N. S., I agree. And I think figuring out how to handle it comes with age, maturity, and personal experience. It's rough. Some of us won't make it, unfortunately.

[@cymbol73]

Omg! That was amazing. You got a subscription. You see this in forums constantly. I would also say, when an INFJ first hears their MBTI, it speaks to them at such a deep level, to finally feel like they were understood, that is an amazing moment, and I think why so many INFJ''s get into MBTI compared to other types. When you hear other types question which type they are, you wonder why because for us hearing our type, it was a wonder to be understood.

[@marty_glenn]

Hi Cymbol... I believe this: The INFJ is the only type that is unique in that the message within this video cannot be applied to any other type. I believe this 100% and I do not know anything about MBTI. TYWC - Marty

[@jodiegrech3711]

I actually cried when I read my INFJ type, for the first in my life I felt understood..

[@taanyahleecat8090]

Does the brain ever stop? Like with all I try to learn, will my brain stop bullying me? It's a storm in here.

[@marty_glenn]

No. I self medicate. I have to. It is the only way and one day I will take my last breath and the mind will stop and then and only then will I get a good night sleep. TYWC - Marty

[@sonyvalencia]

I love naps I look forward to not having to deal with my thoughts.

[@mirsaes]

Honestly, I feel overwhelmed most days, especially now after having a family. It's hard to have time to do anything for myself anymore, everyone needs someone to listen and understand them. Being understood seems a millenia away. If I could be anyone else I would be an extrovert. Everyone likes to be around the extraverts and they are more highly regarded in this society anyway.

[@doubleambition5211]

The way you composed this test was completely accurate, I heard a subtle voice answering no to your first question, about being okay with normal, and I said what I said because I have done so much on myself, that I don't want to be someone else because I wouldn't have it any other way now, back then my answer would be yes. Wanting to be an INFJ; is around the concept of wanting to feel special and rare, when in fact it is true that no one will ever be the same as you are. That is why your questions provide so much clarification, thank you. Being an INFJ; is not something that I see as a a curse anymore, but hating myself, pushing myself and my own well being to the ground for all of my teenage years is enough for me to tell people that being INFJ, is something that might possibly be bestowed on you, and extremely hard. I have no idea how we were chosen for these types, but the sacrifice, the grit, the pressure and anguish that we place in ourselves is truly disastrous, and yet here we stand against it all...with it all. I only want people to be who they are, not someone else they desire to be. I looked for years to be anything BUT the INFJ...but now I feel calm within myself. Fighting constantly...but myself, I don't have to reason or fight with myself about who I am internally as much.

[@marty_glenn]

HI Double... Perfectly said and this comment, with others, is exactly the point. PERFECT! I do not understand why any INFJ would disagree with my video and if so why they would not say what you have. How does an INFJ just say " I disagree with this video. " ...say nothing more? Spot on. TYWC - Marty

[@susangirl1613]

Thank you, I am hopeful.

[@73N5H1]

Is it enjoyable being an INFJ? No, but I am content being who I am in spite of that. It's less about being an INFJ and more about everyone else not being one and not understanding your mentality or intentions as an INFJ. The frustration of having pure intent and others misunderstanding and not seeing it/thinking there is a catch or ulterior motive. To me, being an INFJ is to be dead center of the spectrum on everything. Being simultaneously intellectual and feeling, being introverted and extroverted. The defining factor for me is that of being able to shift your perspective to that of anyone and understand them, even when they contradict, with the curse being that no one can do that for you. That literally everyone else can only see one side or the other, so you always feel on the outside. That's why we're so contradictory in nature and why we can relate to anyone, because we possess the ability to shift our perspectives at will. So am I happy to be an INFJ? Yes, I just wish everyone else was as well if that makes sense.

[@marty_glenn]

I understand and this makes perfect sense but this comment is an overview and not an in depth personal account. It does touch on it but; I am being overly critical I think. Good advice. TYWC - Marty

[@virginiaelwell8584]

Hi Marty. This is the first time I’ve seen your video. I couldn’t have said it better. Your absolutely right. I love that I have compassion, but the depths in which I feel not only for others, but to actually agonize as if it were my own pain….which of course is only a portion of what goes on inside my mind and heart… I’ve often wished I didn’t feel or know certain things. Thanks so much

[@katief1870]

This made me cry. I knew what you were going to ask. And my immediate answer was yes. I’ve taken, and retaken tests. Getting the same INFJ. I like that I feel understood and can learn about myself, but I don’t like knowing I’m as different as I feel. I’m an oncology Social Worker turned program director of team that works to house the homeless. I do this very well, from my quiet, organized home office. And of course I have plans in my head about how to keep doing more. Ugh. Thank you for your insight.

[@marty_glenn]

Not sure how you do it. Strong. TYWC - Marty

[@pmvids739]

When you asked this question, I paused the video and immediately said yes. Then I started thinking. Lots of times I am saying that I don't want to be an INFJ. But at one point you have to accept your identity and live with it. Of course, it hurts to be an INFJ. It takes time to admit it. But now I can accept who I am and I'm trying to be strong. Just wanted to share it with you and tell you that I understand you at 100%. And something very annoying is that lots of people don't understand how painful it is to be an INFJ. About the question... My answer is yes, but I am an INFJ and that's it. If I have to be totally honest, I can't imagine not being an INFJ after being one. Probably everything would be different. If you think about it, you can't say 100% yes, because the INFJs are different and you know that part of you cannot imagine being like the other people. But yes, I would live easier and happier if I was not an INFJ. But I am an INFJ and this is who I am. I hope you can understand what I am trying to say.

[@marty_glenn]

Yes, I do and you got the message of the video. Well said. TYWC - Marty

[@emilemouannes2236]

Same here. Always hated it until the age of 29. I finally came to terms with it after I promised myself to be a better friend to myself. Fast forward, I cannot see myself being something else. I deeply resent it and don’t wish it to any one else, but I also love it because on a good day being an INFJ is bliss.

[@Kimbro731]

After finding your channel earlier today, I’ve binge watched your content and couldn’t help but respect your depth to all of this. I’m an infj-a male at 21 and discovered it about two years ago. Life has been of course, hard but it’s truly a relief knowing others exist and my thought process isn’t freaky

[@marty_glenn]

;) - TYWC - Marty

[@carrietolson923]

This is so accurate. I’ve never seen any of your videos before but I subscribed. i don’t know how many times I have said that I would choose any of the other types before mine.

[@marty_glenn]

Thank you and glad you found it helpful. Appreciate the kind words. TYWC - Marty

[@davidblake9079]

Carrie, just found this video today. To Mary i would say: Spot on sir. Nailed it. I grew up thinking i had autism and somehow grew out of the worst of it. "Ignorance is Bliss." I would rather be anyone else. Then I could finally get some sleep and stop wondering why i bring my own destruction to the table, with my experience, whenever i walk into a conversation.

[@tasenova2717]

I mean to be real man. Who really sat here and said. "oh yay I'm special" what? no. Its a burden, to feel so alone. so misunderstood. I looked at that small percentage and I see hopelessness. That I'm not like anyone else. That...I'll never relate. I already knew what you were going to say too. Isn't that crazy? best part is, is that even if you meet another INFJ. you both are clueless as to who you are to one another edit: I realize this sounds unhealthy. But I promise. I don't always think like this. I just prefer to be honest. Darkly honest

[@marty_glenn]

Brilliant: "you both are clueless as to who you are to one another" - Marty Seriously. :)

[@Prettydee90]

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[@marty_glenn]

Hi D... I added your comment to the video description. Thanks for that. ;) TYWC - Marty

[@Prettydee90]

Marty Glenn your welcome keep up the great job and stay positive ☺️

[@marty_glenn]

Thanks - Marty

[@charlesmorris8601]

Marty, I've watched several of your videos. Your presentation method is interesting, at the least and provocative at most. I have spent most of my life asking myself: "Why don't I fit in?"; Why do I do the things I do?'; "Why am I so different?". At the same time people like me very much, I am very successful in my sales career, people tell me I'm special and unique. Only after I found out that I'm an INFJ did I fully understand why these things were true. Being an INFJ is a special privilege and the sooner in life one can find this out the more fulfilling one's life is. We are special. As you pointed out in another video, we are "outer worldly" and that is unique and special. If you are an INFJ, don't fight it, embrace it. Join in but don't join, be a part of it, but don't lose who you are. Most of the world are Sensors (S), be glad you're not. Know that you are special and use that for the good of the world. BTW, I say "I don't know" a lot because I'm sure the person I say that to wouldn't understand my explanation. Thanks

[@marty_glenn]

I appreciate this comment and so will many others. Thanks. I am on it. TYWC - Marty

[@smartguygiyo]

I don't care, i DON'T care if i am an INFJ or not. But i love the last two years when i found out that i am an INFJ. It helped me find myself, become confident in my abilities, become comfortable defining myself to myself and others. It is not the label. It is the wisdom that is being unearthed with it when we find out that we are an INFJ. I love to be an INFJ for a little while more until i am comfortable being an INFJ. Once i am comfortable being an INFJ i would probably never tell myself that i am an INFJ. Finding out that i was an INFJ uncomplicated a lot of stuff. Without finding out that i am an INFJ it would have taken me a few more years. The TEST actually only sped up the time taken for the journey,the soul search. I know this would resonate with all INFJs. What Marty really meant was that, we INFJs, the realy INFJs would not be clingy to the label but all INFJs would want to taste the wisdom that comes with finding out that you are an INFJ.

[@marty_glenn]

You get it and the video message. TYWC - Marty

[@dareokoski8158]

take care everyone. and remember even if the test don't work for you. your still a gem in my book. keep your head high and believe in yourself. you don't need to be labeled as one thing or another to be special. you are already one of a kind.

[@marty_glenn]

;) - Marty

[@duni8759]

When you said to ask my gut if I truly wanted to be an Infj, I was so overwhelmed with the strength of thinking the word no that I burst into tears. It was like a sudden mix of emotions that overcame me, like sadness, anger, disappointment. I don’t like my complex character and I would wish to understand myself better and naturally, but it is great to know that this is who I am. I literally tried to write a motivational sentence about how great our mind is, even though it hinders us from letting go but I rewrote it too many times haha. So, I just want to tell my fellow Infjs, there’s something special about caring too damn much.

[@marty_glenn]

Learning and surrendering to the facts and basics of you when dealing with others. Did that make sense? lol TYWC - Marty

[@lenethel9854]

Marty, I didn't know which one of your videos I should post this on but this was the most impactful one to me, I could use your help with a problem I've been struggling with. First off, I love what you do here: I think providing a community for these misfit, misunderstood, and struggling minorities is a broad empathatic goal that I share with you. That is why I think you're the perfect person to help me with this problem I'm facing. A term: "well". This refers to the pursuit at which infjs (as you said in a separate video) empathize and solve a problem. In my case, I have a well in individuals and a broader well for a community. I've got grand ambition to really help refugees by finding them a suitable groundwater source that is cheap and efficient enough to build a literal well. That is my life goal, however, at time I've been faced with the decision to sever relationships I would've otherwise provided for. At what point do you sacrifice a microscopic well to help a macroscopic one?? You focus on how we often get hurt by being misunderstood or in some cases above another. It's a pain we and many others (outside of infjs) must bear. The pain breaks me but I mend from each fault with the solutions I provide; I can't decide in which pain I must mend: the one for the people I know are physically suffering or for the one who lies right in front of me? Sorry for the long message, but your intro was long, lol, so now we're even.

[@marty_glenn]

lol - With the intro gone... If you are not doing what you love and what burns inside you and surrounded by those who appreciate you and allow you to be you and without shame then you are sadly not living and are sadly living for those who take the life from you. I hope that gives you a clear view from my view. TYWC - Marty

[@a.marvellehoneyman4560]

I enjoy 😉 watching/listening to your videos, thank you. This is helpful. I’m an INTJ, but this is interesting 🧐. Thank you

[@champmorgan7166]

Well done. Sir. Being an INFJ, is a gift and a curse, however it is more of a Curse, I could do with out!

[@marty_glenn]

Hey champ. Thanks and always glad to see you commenting. TYWC - Marty

[@occupiedaustralia9952]

It's a chore , I near drank myself to death , before it started to make sense .

[@marty_glenn]

Hi K. Well just don't drink and drive and always have fun while doing it and be safe. Other then that, have some for me too. Thank you. ;)) - M

[@occupiedaustralia9952]

@@marty_glenn I mean I was an alcoholic most of my life , I knew something wasn't right , it was easy giving up once I did cognitive behavioural therapy , I had been judging myself so hard over so many years, I'm a healthy INFJ now , we are late bloomers though. When I realised I was an INFJ, 10 years after I gave up drinking , and then it was "oh now it makes " yeah it is good to know now , had I known back then I may of realised where my strengths were and taken a different life course . I think things do happen for a reason however .

[@marty_glenn]

Kieran. I get it. Self medicated is a common problem and I do not think many of us escape it. I do not. Sad but true. Happy you are healthy and on a better path. Good stuff... ;) TYWC - Marty

[@smac72bigz]

This was such a relief to me. You have no idea. I was mandated to take an MBTI and do a retreat at work just a few years ago. I dreaded it. I hated it. I had no idea what MBTI was but a personality test sounded completely invasive and intrusive, and it was all a very LOUD extrovert’s idea. At any rate, afterward I finally could partly explain to my now husband why I have felt so exhausted for so much of my life. Why more than once I had been called “spooky, it’s just weird how would you know these things” which was so hurtful when you are just trying so hard to help someone. Why sometimes a person walks past me, and I feel my skin crawl because I know they are a bad person. Or why sometimes I see a person for 20 seconds and I cry because I know they are sad, or they are so humble, or they are so extraordinary. But, he still will never understand. I just want to be happy. I want to have a 1 minute small talk conversation with a stranger in the grocery store and walk away and never think about it. I want to go to a dinner party and visit friends and not have every single person tell me everything about their life that I’ve already figured out anyway and want advice that they won’t follow. I don’t want to know what that 9 year old little girl’s life is gonna be like when she’s 15 because of that one little behavior I just observed. It. Is. Exhausting. And it is a burden. And I just want a day every once in awhile to be easier. I found your channel today. And I am glad.

[@marty_glenn]

Here...catch... ( The marker is yours ) - Marty

[@yoshiperspectives4880]

The first video i watched of yours, being the one before this one, i thought you were an INFJ because of the way your passion is held back by wisdom in explaining details, the way you side track to hit another angle, and are straight forward and technical. And because the way your eyes look when you explain, like you are feeling it from experience and much thought, and pulling out all the information from a However old you are reservoir.

[@marty_glenn]

That is a very good comment and one I have not read before. Thank you. I do not care my type as long as I am getting it right but I like what you said. Unique and different. Spot on; Thank you for the comment. TYWC - Marty

[@RommyFallas]

Such a simple-and-to-the-point video. I loved it🙏🙏👌👌✌✌🖤🖤❤❤💐

[@marty_glenn]

I think so too. :) TYWC - Marty

[@alyssaisnotdoneyet]

I think I can understand the spirit of your statement so in that sense I agree with you. I have always wondered why I'm the way I am, why I never fit in, why I seem to be an alien on earth and why wherever I go ppl seem to realise I'm different and treat me as such. It's been very difficult and I have often wished I was different. HOWEVER, since learning about the INFJ type and watching and reading info about INFJs I've finally come to understand a bit about my personality and when I watch them and hear that other ppl somewhere out there in the world feel and act and are labelled the way I do/am sometimes it gives me comfort. In that sense to find out that I'm not an INFJ would really upset me. Actually no. It wouldn't because nobody can convince me now that I'm not. I'm finally starting to feel less like a complete alien because of the research I've done. If you're asking whether I think it's a great burden to be me then yes absolutely. I have wished I didn't feel so strongly about things while at the same time being very reserved. I have wished that I was less concerned about how others feel even to my own detriment. I would rather not say the thing that I know would hurt someone's feelings even when they are deliberately saying things to hurt mine. It sucks. It really does sometimes but I'm glad that at least I know. The good part is that I'm happy when ppl share their concerns with me because they trust me to listen and offer a reasonable opinion. It has its perks. Idk...I often wonder why God made us like this. It's difficult.

[@marty_glenn]

Well said. You did a great job and I read and heard you. TYWC - Marty

[@troyfitzsimmons]

This is how I feel bud

[@troyfitzsimmons]

Nice answer can I qsk Witch faith are you from why you mentioned god

[@AurielArts]

The fact that i tuned in and said no and started tearing up. It confirmed it. It has been utterly lonely.

[@marty_glenn]

Yep. I get it. TYWC - Marty

[@firstnamelastname7990]

This helped me so much. Thank you.

[@marty_glenn]

You are welcome. Glad the video helped. TYWC - Marty

[@interestingfamilyorigin3574]

Excellent video love that you are passionate the bruaterly onest in your videos it makes a change a great deal of respect from another INFJ keep up the good work stay safe and well Godbless to you, myself and all the other good decent people

[@marty_glenn]

Thank you. Appreciate the support and kind words. TYWC - Marty

[@queenb1551]

“Would I be happy if I weren’t an INFJ” - No “Do I want to be an INFJ” - No So I’m a bit confused..my answer to the first question indicates I am “not” a true INFJ but my answer to the second question indicates I am an INFJ. 😶

[@marty_glenn]

Hi Queen B. You are exactly right. Well put. ;) TYWC - Marty

[@exadoorrising1239]

Queen B...I have the same dilemma. My answers were the same as your’s. I have taken the Briggs-Myer test (more than once, to be sure) and every single time...INFJ. It definitely answers so many questions, feeling different, feeling misunderstood, feeling not quite in the right place (no matter where I am).

[@Maracifer]

@@exadoorrising1239 Go watch CPT video "why so many people think they're INFJ" - 16 personalities and similar test have NOTHING to do with cognitive functions

[@jord1703]

Marty why are you laughing randomly? I do the same exact thing, but I'm curious if you see the same thing I see. When I laugh like that, I usually get a glimpse of myself through the lense of the "big picture" I've created in my head, which leads to me bursting out laughing to something only I can see. Is this the same for you?

[@marty_glenn]

Yes. - M

[@7racker]

It's not random. He's laughing because of a thought that we popped into his mind

[@TheJacobLisle]

On point description of why we look mental, we've already told the stories and made the jokes in our head, so we laugh before they even leave our mind

[@thevoiceofheart8933]

Very well said😊, whenever I watching you speak I had smile in my face and telling my self.. no wonder majority of the people hates me, this is how they saw in me when I speak straightforward.. a rude, sarcastic, and cold person😅...,

[@marty_glenn]

Yep and pretty is another bad thing against you. TYWC _ Marty

[@shariturner2747]

Brava! It's so hard explaining this to anyone else!

[@marty_glenn]

Yep. Glad you liked the information. TYWC - Marty

[@desireecublan1147]

Hi, I'm from Philippines and I'm 15 and just recently discovered mbti. I don't know, but I just wanted to share this to get things straight. I had taken a test on a site about this and it says I'm an INFP. When I had read the description about it, there are some things that I could really really relate too such as daydreaming and not. I watched KZbin videos about INFP since I'd believed that I am. And then, I saw a video about comparing an INFP and an INFJ, for some reason, there are things that I could relate of being an INFJ and even while reading all those comments above, I could understand some of those struggles since for some reason I had been through of it or probably feels likes. Back to the video, that I'd watched. Since, the test says I'm an INFP, I didn't give a single attention about being an INFJ and just stick to being an INFP. And then one night, while browsing KZbin I saw a video about being mistyped. So I took another test on different sites and I had received INFJ and ISFJ... It somehow frustrates me, because all this time I'm living with all this lies about myself. Since I wanted a clear answer about myself, I tried to confirmed things first. Um you know...just like what you have mentioned in the video about, things of being an INFJ blah blah blah...signs etc. I have watched some of those videos and yeah, in a scale of 10 there are 8/10 things that I could relate too. At first, I couldn't accept it. Like there is still this side of me that, don't want to be an INFJ because I got really engrossed being an INFP. So I watched another video again, comparing INFP and INFJ... And yeah, maybe there's this possibility that I am an INFJ, so slowly I started to believe it. I tried to check being an ISFJ but...sorry I can't relate that much. I don't pay attention that much on my surroundings and I'm always stuck in my head. And then I found this video, about being INFJ and since I wanted things to be straight, I watched it. There is still this side of me that I wanted to be an INFJ because I can't understand myself anymore and I don't know where to fit in. And there is this side of myself who don't want to be an INFJ or thinking that maybe I'm not an INFJ..... This video asked If ever I get mad or upset at you...or any negative emotion. Actually I got angry and frustrated not at you but for myself. How I wished, I didn't saw that video about being mistyped and remain believing I'm an INFP. Maybe I could be spared of all of this confusion I'm experiencing right now.....I know it might be stupid, but I would probably okay with that than this. I love this video by the way, and I almost went nuts about those long introduction. But I agree with this, (even if I'm still not sure I'm an INFJ or not). I could even relate to your talking behavior, like there is this phrase you're saying and then another phrase would come out and then you would continue the phrase you're talking first and then back to the another phrase and so on... Until you get to your point that. Most people wouldn't understand that or would get confused (base on my experience, and I got no choice but to say what I said,*though I know it's obvious from their face they only get half of what I'm talking to)....Anyways I love your video and sorry if I talked to much( I have no one to talked too because I'm afraid I would freak my friends out) that's all... I'm sorry again

[@marty_glenn]

Keep doing what you are doing and stay on the path. It is a good path and one day you will know for sure. As for my video, forget the rare part of the INFJ and treat it like any other type. That is the best way to stay mentally healthy while you research MBTI and your best fitted type. TYWC - Marty

[@annayudin290]

I learned a long time ago that I'm obviously meant to suffer in this world, so now I just go with it and see where it takes me. It's made me the strong person that I am today, it's also made me a kind person and someone capable of so much love and I would never want to be anyone else

[@MeBe35]

What a profound thought. You get a rose🌹

[@fmn128]

Thank you. I have a lump in my throat, because yes how did you do it?! Ever since I knew I was INFJ I have been trying very very hard to type myself into an INFP and lately an ISFJ. Anything but an INFJ. And when you asked that question I tapped into my inner child. The years of isolation and being misunderstood that my brain wanted to delete so bad. It just clicked I don’t want to be an INFJ. I never wanted anyone to be left out as a child, because I felt left out. And now I do my best to understand others (which comes to me naturally) just to make sure that they don’t suffer from being misunderstood. This is a curse but also a blessing. You just made me put down my happy-bubbly mask that I have put on for some time now due to being heavenly bullied in school and wanting others to like me since then. Thank you for giving me a moment of integrity with myself. How did you do it?!

[@marty_glenn]

Sometimes the simple path is the right path; life does not have to be so difficult and maybe we make it that way for a reason. Only you know. Happy you found the video message worthy of your time. TYWC - Marty

[@myelectronichut]

Wow ! This is the test ! Amazing . Thank you

[@marty_glenn]

Well go easy on that okay. It is a test on the rare part and the reality of being an INFJ and not associated with any REAL or TRUE MBTI testing. Read the comments and you will see exactly what I mean. TYWC- Marty

[@frahohen]

I had the worst drama and trauma ever and made this personality test like for years, but it always said INFJ. I personally think with the growth I currently have, that I feel like having superpowers. I still suffer, but I learned this "Your pain will teach you until you overcome it". This helped me to love myself everyday again even if I feel alone and therefore I try to say "I am proud to be an INFJ". Yes it sucks, but to know that you are special makes you a cameleon in this world. I sometimes feel like a spy that was send to this earth to understand and change it for good.

[@davide.schiaffino]

I would've agreed 100% with this, my emotional life has been hell since I have memory, but during these last years I've been getting close to true tranquility. Life is not perfect, I have several issues like anxiety and transient depressions every now and then and I become extremely sensitive, paranoid or overreactive some times. But I would definitely not change myself for anything. I am proud of myself. I don't particularly like being an INFJ because it made me feel so bad until these last years, but I don't dislike it either, because now that I'm beginning to know myself and learning to actually evolve as a person, I've actually been starting to make peace with my life. But yes. These issues that we have, I have them, and I wish I didn't have them. But I just can't wish to not be me. Maybe this video declares the difference between A's and T's?

[@marty_glenn]

Well said. How could anybody argue or debate. Great comment. TYWC - Marty

[@SierraSimone11]

as soon as you said trauma and self-inflicted abuse, I broke. I just started crying. I haven't watched many videos about this, I don't even know what it really is. There are a lot of things I still don't understand about myself. I just want to say I understand, deeply, and I just hope the grass begins to grow greener with every step facing forward.

[@sweetvue1716]

Thank you for making this video.

[@marty_glenn]

You are welcome. I have so many and so many to do. I am trying. TYWC - Marty

[@TheEyeSeesAll]

He is accurate. However, spiritual ascension has allowed me to accept many parts of me I wouldn’t have been able to before including my sexuality. Factors such as this do make a difference in ones answer... but it still rings true that it is quite a challenge for me to live my life as an INFJ. Exhausting most of the time.

[@marty_glenn]

Hey TD. You said: me to accept many parts of me I wouldn’t have been able to before including my sexuality. Me: What do you mean by this? TYWC - Marty

[@TreasureSeasons]

I haven't at all studied mbti type, I took the test once. It resonated at that moment. I've tried to deny or escape it. I don't care if people tell others or myself declared Infj, I've seen some of my contacts here be sliced publicly for not being an infj to their standards. It's sickening really whether we need to believe we are or not. It's only comforting for the moment.

[@marty_glenn]

Hi T. Yep. I get it and for me the basics: " If you want something and it is for a reason, then maybe you are not going to be clear about it and honest. " Just my two pennies. TYWC - Marty

[@jaycross7131]

Finally some one that gets how I really feel. no truer words have ever been said. To my ears.

[@syedtariqafandi4077]

My man actually predicted the exact same thing as I did and what are the right questions to ask as I did for the wannabees before I even watched this video. Thank you, brother. I can understand you and your little laughs along the video. It really makes me connect.

[@marty_glenn]

Great comment and kind words. Thank you. TYWC - Marty

[@marshalmashiat]

Man, this man is so clear. LOL now i am an INFJ. it happened what i had feared. INFJ

[@marty_glenn]

Have to keep things simple. ;) TYWC - Marty

[@naveechaiyasang6021]

i liked when he laughed at himself at the beginning of the video. it reminds me when i do with myself. its good to see his authenticity.

[@marty_glenn]

Thank you. TYWC - Marty

[@rileyvehec2115]

I just recently started learning about the 16 personality types, and its truly put my mind at ease. My entire life has been a series of struggles between loneliness, yet wanting to be alone, amongst all the other issues an INFJ has to face. I understand now that I’m not defective, it’s just my personality. I couldn’t care less about the “rare percentage.” It’s just a relief to finally understand who I am. Thank you and great point!

[@marty_glenn]

Great. Always doing my best. TYWC - Marty

[@devoted_bastion4411]

I appreciate the total honesty of these videos. These ultimatums give people little choice. It truly is gut reaction. I hate myself intensely, I don't seek these videos because I want validation of my feelings. I seek them for truth, self-discovery, and honesty within myself. Thank you for making this, my feelings were not hurt in the making of this video... Conviction was.

[@jodiegrech3711]

I feel like it’s a constant battle between my head and my heart it’s excruciating.. The internal struggle is real.. I don’t enjoy it, it’s not easy to live with, I have considered what I would be like to be someone else and how much easier it would be but in the same breath I wouldn’t want to be anyone else but me..

[@marty_glenn]

And there you have it.... - Marty

[@teliramirez3914]

The whole time I was hoping that by the end of the video I would be like “oh great I’m not an INFJ”

[@marty_glenn]

Sorry. TYWC - Marty

[@TheNutCollector]

As an INFJ I have rarely never been 100% sure about any fact, but I do know that this video doesn't jive with me. The whole concept of this video goes against everything in my being. A grouping of four letters does not make me who I am, it describes traits that I possess and helps me investigate facets of my personality. I am who I am, and even if I wanted to give up all the experiences that helped shape who I am(half of personality comes from environment) it is not possible to switch into a completely different personality(half of it is genetic.) We are all given a set of circumstances and must do the best we can with what we have. The grass is always greener, but at least as an INFJ I can see how crappy it can be on the other side. I am grateful to be me.

[@AmberGemnia]

During the long explanation in the beginning, I was stressing out as to whether or not I was going to pass the test or not. Ever since I was given a "test" two months ago, I hated the answer that I was the "rarest". To me, that just seemed more lonely. All I wanted was to fit in with other people, even though I never did. And this just proves how much I really am an INFJ. As much as I hate the answer, I'm glad that the search is over and that the question can rest. You really put my mind at ease so, thank you for this video.

[@marty_glenn]

I think you get the point of the video and yet you think about rare and worry. Be honest with yourself and you cannot go wrong regardless of anything I say. I am just one person. TYWC - Marty

[@darlinkhate9254]

At 3:40 I started laughing because I know where this is going and yes, I would be happy NOT to be an INFJ but since I am, I will take it upon myself to be burdened by this gift/curse because that's what we do. Great video! p.s to be honest I'm still in denial that I'm an INFJ, I just wanna be an INTJ or sumn but the facts said nah.

[@marty_glenn]

Hi Darlin. Yep. That is how it goes. TYWC - Marty

[@johnking2740]

I have mentioned on many peoples comments section that I would not even wish the INFJ on even my worst enemy, it would be like sending them after the White rabbit while wearing kaleidoscope glasses - straight to a Sanitorium without chances of medical leave. We have had our whole lives to try and make sense of it, yet we are still learning.

[@marty_glenn]

Hey john. Very well said. Very! TYWC - Marty

[@toecutterjones]

Holy shit, you are seriously my new favorite person.. I've been saying this for so long. Thank you.

[@marty_glenn]

You are welcome and this comment makes all the hate I took for doing the video really a lot easier to handle. TYWC - Marty

[@Luke-mj8eu]

Hello Marty. I've watched this video weeks ago. And I've been thinking. I'm ready to say something, and I think it is necessary to do so. I took tests, watched videos about INFJs, talked to a professional, and when I knew for sure that I'm an INFJ, it was like a black hole was sucking me in. It took me days to observe myself that I've been a victim to my human condition of being primarily pessimistic. When I realised that, I thought every MBTI's type has the same coin with two sides. Its up to me which side I choose to keep upwards; or focus upon. And I realised, INFJs (like other types) have some really cool features! And they are unique to me (us) and totally mind blowing! That detonated that black hole for good; with much more energy than that "black hole". So I can smile now, again. Thanks for your gift of invigorating me. I will remember you, and place you with all the teachers in my life. 🙏🏻💐

[@marty_glenn]

Very well said. One of the best comments I have read; received. Not because I believe what you said or even give a shit. But… The thought, care and honesty, depth of you, that you are giving to me and others you have never even met. Thank you and well done. You have it right and I will remember your words. - M

[@EricSanchez]

Although I understand the points you’re trying to make and I agree to a certain extent, I think this is a much more case-by-case situation. A healthy INFJ who has done a lot of emotional healing and learned to love and accept themselves may indeed love being an INFJ- not because they have the label but because it’s a part of who they are and they’ve learned to love every aspect of themselves. We can’t necessarily decide that ONE person sets the standard of what it means to love yourself. Also, you then have to get into what someone’s definition of “love” actually is... this can be quite subjective. Some people may feel free of a lot of their trauma / misunderstanding once they figure out that their brain works differently than most. So they may learn to appreciate the INFJ title in their journey of self “love”. I don’t agree with the “its this way or no way” mentality. Humans - especially INFJs - are very complex. But I agree that a HEALTHY INFJ does not have an attachment to the title. I just think that many people haven’t reached that level of self love and maturity yet.

[@marty_glenn]

You have it right Eric. TYWC - Marty

[@thissunchild]

Exactly

[@kimmari1300]

Me: as an INFJ, I can converse with you casually but if you triggered my inner core I can talk to you as if I knew every speck of dust in this universe.

[@marty_glenn]

That is true and does that come around when you get pissed? or just slightly annoyed? TYWC - Marty

[@TheImmaterialGarden]

The moment you started laughing I knew you were going to be on point! Sometimes I'm actually embarrassed to be INFJ. Partly because of the assumption of attention seeking, partly because I don't want to have to fight through the positive or negative bias/judgement to "prove" myself. It's not that I don't care what others think but probably that (in the past especially) I can care TOO much and then I start to censor myself (mostly) to "protect feelings" or "not sound like a lunatic so I don't sabotage my future credibility" 😅. In many cases, it can be both the polite and prudent thing to do. BUT it's also a slippery slope because the more I hold back the darker my thoughts/mood/anxiety and I can feel the familiar and epic struggle between the Cynic and the Idealist within. 😂 I laughed with you a few times during the lead up because it reminded me how INFJ Intuition + Thinking often lead to conclusions that people won't like hearing (that the INFJ probably doesn't even like hearing 🤣). Deciding If/how to share can be hell but sometimes the revelation is so deliciously poignant but concise (simple, complete, elegant) that it's worth any and all flack. I don't know if that's how you felt in the video but I enjoyed speculating. Gratitude ✌️✨

[@marty_glenn]

What about me? I have it on my hand. lol It still serves me well; very well mentally. TYWC - Marty

[@vibhuagnihotri1726]

Mr Glenn. This video. This is something that people who hate on INFJ's need to see, also people who think it's the best most awesome thing. I've been told time and again "Be happy your an INFJ! That's like the rarest thing and INFJ's are so kind and helpful" and all sorts of shit. Well. I have also been told you are too young to have a type. I think 19 is not too young. Becuse the stuff that goes in my head. I need not say more. I love your videos becuse they help so much. So much. I know now what to and what not to do. I am trying to implement your advice. Thank you so much. I mean....... I can say more. But it will then just be a rant to the universe.

[@marty_glenn]

Mr. Glenn? Who is that? Marty, please. ;) Thank you and you are right. The best part of your comment is that you get it unlike some who do not and hate on it. Well done. TYWC - Marty

[@carldelgado9980]

Being an INFJ has its challenges. I firmly believe that if I was not an INFJ then I wouldn’t have gone through the trauma that I went through when I was unhealthy. But to answer your question, I wouldn’t have it any other other way. Being an INFJ gave me insight on how to be truly happy. If your a real INFJ and you’re not happy about it. Then that could only mean that somewhere in your life, someone is making you feel miserable. Protect your peace and make it your highest priority and watch the magic unfold.

[@marty_glenn]

I have other thoughts on this comment but I think its value is there. Well said. TYWC - Marty

[@catherinedavidson7145]

Who WOULD want this? To quote Beast in Black: "Emotional self-slaughter" (from the song Sweet, True Lies). What I would say is, being typed has helped me begin to make sense of myself, to myself. Thank you for your videos.

[@marty_glenn]

Hi Catherine. I guess a lot of people, hence the video and the topic. Right? TYWC - Marty

[@RueYoo]

Hey Marty, Interesting video that got me to understand more what it means to be an INFJ. I saw you asked the question of Whether or not you would like to be another type, so I wondered what type you would like to be if you were not an INFJ. Thank you.

[@nicoletanhl249]

Wow, I was looking for a person to say that & it’s you Sir... how I wish it can be undone by a switch. Thank you for saying it to the world.

[@marty_glenn]

Hi Nicole... My pleasure but something tells me that I am saying it. You are hearing it and with a smile. I am the one taking arrows out of my face. lol TYWC - Marty

[@RommyFallas]

When you break out in a laugh the way you do says you are an INFJ lol 😂😂

[@marty_glenn]

Ya so I have heard. TYWC - Marty

[@quiynatolbert47]

This man had the audacity to sit there and tell INFJs how they’re supposed to feel and if you’re not okay with being submissive then, “yOuR nOt aN iNfJ”. MLK jr. was an INFJ, was he submissive? Hell naw. Honestly I wouldn’t even have a problem with not being and INFJ. When I first heard about mbti, I didn’t analyze the personality types and pick which one was most suitable. You pay attention to your everyday thought process and decisions. Have people who are close to you help analyze your decision making process if you can’t do it on your own. Not just pick and go like a fast food restaurant. From a feelers perspective it’s rude to not give people the opportunity to think for themselves if they don’t agree with you.

[@marty_glenn]

Hi Quiyna. You said: "This man had the audacity to sit there and tell INFJs how they’re supposed to feel and if you’re not okay with being submissive then, “yOuR nOt aN iNfJ”." Me: That is NOT at all what I said or did. OMG. Are you serious with that? Only a true INFJ is going to understand the greatness and the worst of being an INFJ. In the end an INFJ will always choose not to be one. Always! 99% of the time. 99% to me = 'Always' If you are in the 1% then congratulations to you. If you are, can you please come and help me? because that 1% is ruining my life. I need help with that 1%. You said: "MLK jr. was an INFJ, was he submissive? .... I cannot even believe you took Martin Luther King Jr. and reduced him to this example, used this as a point to make against me, within your debate with me: "MLK jr. was an INFJ, was he submissive? ...." You talk of this: From a feelers perspective it’s rude to not give people the opportunity to think for themselves if they don’t agree with you. Me: Oh my fucking shit, are you serious with this bullshit!?! You must be, you wrote it. So with that said, ( Don't watch me anymore but before you go, please read this and learn something ) this is what I have to say about that... MARTIN LUTHER KING JR. WAS A GREAT MAN. Not because he was black. Not because he was fighting the White or green or purple. He was a GREAT MAN because he believed in himself and wanted all those around him to have the same self esteem. - ' BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND HAVE DREAMS. IF YOU DO...YOU CAN ACCOMPLISH THEM. NO MATTER WHAT COLOR YOU ARE OR WHO YOU ARE OR WHERE YOU COME! ' Go buy this book: "What the mind of a man or woman can conceive and believe he or she can achieve with a positive mental attitude " - Napoleon Hill ( Think and grow Rich! ) If you do you will understand inside the mind of Martin Luther King Jr. He wrote all about this same message. Go read what Martin Luther King Jr. Wrote. Have you even read what he stood for or do you just know that he was an INFJ. For fuck sake! Color did not write this book. GREAT MEN and WOMEN WROTE THESE WORDS AND THEY NEVER CHANGE. NEVER. Great men and woman continue to echo these words and they will for eternity. Color does not know these words... Great 'BEINGS' inside this universe understand, know and live their lives by these words. He was not FIGHTING anti slavery or for the black or African American. He was not FIGHTING the white man. He was fighting for EVERYONE to have this: " TO BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND HAVE A DREAM. TO DREAM OF GREATNESS. " HE WAS A GREAT MAN BECAUSE HE WAS A DREAMER. HE WAS A LEADER. A MAN WITH A DREAM WHO IS ALSO A LEADER IS VERY DANGEROUS PERSON TO THOSE IN POWER.!!! He was ASSASSINATED because he was a MAN WITH A DREAM. He was ASSASSINATED because he was LOVED for his MESSAGE and feared by those who know what his message can do for the world. That is why he was assassinated. That is why! And what a tragedy it was. What a fucking tragedy! Go read YOUR FUCKING USA HISTORY from 1850 - 1920. Holy fucking shit! Really. Dammit! Why do I feel compelled to write all this and say all this. Oh ya, that is a part of the 1% that makes being an INFJ so hard to live with and THAT was the point of this video. A point you completely missed. I am glad you are a part of the rare INFJ MBTI type. How the fuck do I get out? Can you help me with that, please? I want out and away from people who think like you do. Serious. Can you help me get out! TYWC - Marty P.S. Please do not ever insult Martin Luther King Jr. with a 3 letter acronym, spell his fucking name out, and please do not ever reduce his message or character or what he stood for by using this statement: "MLK jr. was an INFJ, was he submissive? ...." to debate a nobody like ME, as it I compare to Martin Luther King Jr.. What the fuck is wrong with you? I am so sad that I had to write this and slam you this hard. I am so sad! But you deserve it. To bring Martin Luther King Jr. and LOWER HIM TO ME and TO THIS DEBATE / TOPIC. To even associate his name.!?! What the fuck is wrong with you?

[@alextorres990]

Honestly, I don't think anything you said was necessarily wrong. My husband is INTJ and he pretty much said something similar. But that's because most INFJ think in big ideas and with our feelings/beliefs. We don't (usually) look at things like this video and think about the details, just the overall way it made us feel and relate. We tend to see strait through the heart of things/messages without needing much detail. My husband who is an INTJ saw this and picked it apart details by detail. He needed more evidence, more data, he needed to look into other INFJ and compare it to what was being said and use that data collection to find the flaws/ consistency. He heard: "You're wrong I'm right." I heard: " Being an INFJ isn't easy. You'd trade all your 'rareness' and 'uniqueness' for a moment of peace." INTJ's first instinct (usually) when they see a tree is to get up close and look at the:bark, the bugs, and the leaves. Ask themselves: what kind of tree bark is this? It looks like it was damaged by a fire, how long ago was it damaged? What kind of bugs are living on this tree and what does that say about its type? The leaves seem to be growing just fine, I wonder if the damage wasn't as bad as I originally thought. Then they will step back and see the entire tree. INFJ's first instinct (usually) is to step back and look at the entire tree, notice how the leaves are a beautiful shade of green and it makes us happy, look at it's trunk and see how it's slightly black from a forest fire that took place years ago, how that makes us feel kind of sad yet it also makes us feel hopeful because it's healing just fine. We might even relate the tree to the human condition. Then we will step closer and start looking at the bark, the bugs and the leaves, to see even more of the things that make it beautiful, yet also the things that make us feel it's pain. Not sure that makes sense and maybe it's not an accurate analogy lol

[@angelacarleton9575]

Quiyna, I agree with your comment on this man that assumes to tell us how to feel and does "NOTHING but to say negative comments about INFJ. I may question certain facts about my INFJ but not because I am one but because of the gift I have with being an INFJ. I could read people and sense what their true motivation is. It is with the experience I learned to embrace who I am and will not consider changing any part of who I am.

[@marty_glenn]

Angela... Did you read my comment to this viewer. You basically said the same thing so do us both a favor and comment back to me and not the original commenter and say the same thing. That is not productive and will end getting you banned from my channel's comment section. TYWC - Marty

[@meagiesmuse2334]

I love this video and totally agree with you. What type would you like to be if you could choose to be any of the others?

[@marty_glenn]

That is a great question and here is a question for your answer... When you are an INFJ you cannot feel the other types, so I wonder how to even answer the question??? TYWC - Marty

[@meagiesmuse2334]

@@marty_glenn Lol, so true! Still, I like to fantasize about being an INTJ, so I could ruthlessly go after whatever I want w/o caring about the effect it has on others, like the INTJ who broke my heart in pieces. Or, I imagine myself as an INTP genius, so involved in important work that I don't ever get my heart broken. Fantasizing and daydreaming are a way of working through things for this me, though maybe not as much as they would be for an INFP. Can any of the other types feel any of the other types? I would imagine INTJ and ENTJ have even less of a clue than we do as to what others are feeling.

[@stovemedia]

Wow, Thank you Marty for your condensed wisdom. I've always tried to formulate an explanation of being the the most rare type to everyone else, so far i got not that much.. However your test for sure explains INFJ to an INFJ like nothing else can. Thank you again for your wisdom. I am 41, found out about being INFJ one year ago. I think its funny that the people with most rare type is SO identical to one another on the topic of not wanting to be it. Cheers!

[@marty_glenn]

How funny is that? How is it that you believe the ' not wanting to be one ' yet others do not. It makes you wonder about yourself and others. Who is the INFJ? TYWC - Marty

[@stovemedia]

@@marty_glenn i gotta tell you that before i found out about INFJ i felt like i was the only person in the world, and i found my coping mechanisms for that. Now, knowing that i am actually typical (in some ways) makes me feel very happy that i am not alone no matter if we are just 0.5% of population.

[@ezstaples6653]

You are right! But now that I know that I am "something" and not alone, it gives me a fresh perspective and I don't feel like a total freak. I understand myself better knowing what my dominant functions are. The INFJ type is rare but the community IS INFJ strong. 🙏

[@marty_glenn]

It really is and I hope I have a hand in that. TYWC - Marty

[@daniellegiavonni]

Honestly, I’m just glad I’m not alone. Other people make me feel like I’m crazy or weird. Yet I feel like I have this higher level of ...commonsense? I think the only positive things that come from being a INFJ is being able to read someone almost instantly and thanks to the constant over thinking , typically making the right decisions. The rest is nothing but anxiety, over thinking everything, loneliness, feeling doomed (might just be me lol), and etc.

[@marty_glenn]

I agree 100% TYWC - Marty

[@violet18]

Commonsense lol agreed

[@CindaLeAnn4]

Spot on. Sometimes I get emotional watching videos from other INFJ’s because I have spent so long feeling as if no one understands me, only to find out the only people who could ever fully understand me are those people who are INFJ’s as well. It’s sad in some ways but also feels as if a weight has been lifted. I understand the reason why now and that brings some comfort.

[@marty_glenn]

Very good. Small things matter especially when it deals with 'us'. TYWC - Marty

[@coriinakouns8529]

I'm just blown away with how much I can relate and identify with the overwhelming feeling of listening to someone who not only gets it, but can articulate it in such a way that I'm mentally saying " Finally someone else is like this!" If I can give this life as an INFJ-T Virgo is .... Debilitating. It's exhausting and I would totally be any other mbti type. Thank you for your time and effort. It is appreciated.

[@stargloss3077]

i only like to be infj because i finally feel like im in a place where i can finally understand myself and all of my thoughts. no one ever understands what i explain so many times 😭

[@marty_glenn]

All true. Even though negative sometimes comes out in depth; there is happy. ;) TYWC - Marty

[@TheRabbitpaws]

I would have to disagree regarding a "true" infj would never want to hope/or want to be an "INFJ" The reason, is that knowing that you are an INFJ would be a RELIEF because it validates who you were, why you are and how you will be in the future. In other words, INFJ people would find solace in understanding there is a reason for why the are the way they are and that it's not simply an issue of being broke/child hood trauma or anything. Being and INFJ myself I can without a doubt prefer to KNOW I am an INFJ so that I wouldn't be depressed that there are other things going wrong that i don't understand why i act or behave the way I do. Think of it this way, We all created unique. so why do we try so hard to fit in? A TRUET INFJ would never try fitting in or be concerned about fitting in although it is good to understand WHY it is that we don't feel we fit in.

[@marty_glenn]

You got the video message. Well said. TYWC - Marty

[@YORKEROCK.DA-VINCI]

YOU ARE GOOD ....THANK YOU FOR THE TIP

[@Redhotrussian1]

Already knew where you were going 😂 Ohhhhh! Sent that INFJ meme to you on IG that I mentioned in other video comment

[@marty_glenn]

Hi Red... Let me look... TYWC - Marty

[@MithraSemiramis]

you are saying that having a victim mentality is inherent to being an INFJ. I'm sorry for your pain and that of everyone who can relate to this. I'm also sorry for my own which is exactly why I don't allow myself to indulge such destructive self pity (or instinctively feel it). I don't see how someone with dominant Ni could even truly entertain this question. It's completely meaningless and goes against the way Ni makes connections of meaning in it's assessment of reality. I'm don't intend this as an attack, I am honestly struggling to see how this is relevant to the Ni world view, regardless of my personal opinion regarding how psychologically unhealthy this is. I think this is disrespectful to INFJs, quite frankly. I'm surprised to see one applying such a subjective sense of meaning to other people, that's not what we do. it's destructive and inaccurate. I'm really trying to give you a chance and I do sympathize with your sense of pain. it kind of seems like you're using the negative INFJ stereotypes to validate your unhealthy defense mechanisms. idk, I rarely form decisive judgements of people without a more complete understanding of them so I won't do that here. I have to be honest though, because I'm concerned about how unhealthy this appears.

[@marty_glenn]

Mithra. I am going to help you. Now I can only do so much. What I want you to do is take a look at all my videos and look at the pictures and the titles. Now I want you to just read some of the comments on other videos. I respond to every comment. I actually read every word and comment. Do you see that? Do you see that I listen to each and every person that comes to my channel. Can you imagine what a depth of understanding I have on so many people. Take a look at the number of comments and know that on each video... half are mine. Now for my response... I SO appreciate your comment and understand why you would say what you did but... " It is YOU that you should be concerned about as it relates to healthy vs unhealthy. " - M ...And here is why: Read that paragraph again and know that you are not talking to some hack or someone who does not get mental health and healing. You did not hate on me. You used IQ and a professional approach with your comment which tells me that you thought it through. Please do not be sad for me, for I am sad for you. So here is my final thought: If you disagree with me, that is ok, but I do not want you watching me and I would appreciate it if you would not come back. okay. But before you go please read the comments of other viewers and know that my goal for the channel was to have a comment section that was better then anything on KZbin and that starts with me, followed by the viewers. The comment section is where the gold is. I hope you see how see how much it shines; my videos cannot even be seen. I wish you the very best in health and happiness. TYWC - Marty

[@angelacarleton9575]

Mithra, thank you for your comment. I get concerned when people start to subject a particular subject and put a lot of emphasis on the negative of INFJ. I am an INFJ but I never go on about all the negative parts of it but see the positive as well. So, someone, to generalize about INFJ I find offensive and is destructive to those that will be sensitive to his hear or listen to this video about INFJ? I believe INFJ that is sensitive to nature and its surroundings can help human nature stay positive about this world of us and not surrender to the negative things in life. After all "LIFE" is a challenge and should be welcome by all.

[@marty_glenn]

You do realize that you are not the police of the INFJ community and I am not the voice of it. People are allowed to have an opinion and to state without fear that a person, such as you, re just going to hate on me for it. What about all the comments regarding how nice it is to know that a person is NOT alone and others feel the same. Is that not comforting and good as a person walks the path of life you speak. I suggest you watch your fucking mouth Angela on my channel and in my comment section. You are close to getting banned. TYWC - Marty

[@josuerocha1728]

I got everything right except for the part of not wanting to be an infj, I'm truly happy and proud of being and infj, and it is weird to know that that means that I am not one. I will say that I am an A type infj (Assertive) and that might have something to do with it, but I don't know maybe I'm just not one, I don't relate with most people one the comments of infj videos like these, because of this same reason, they claim to be infj but yet seem so deppresed and emotionally unstable, can there truly not be an infj who is emotionally smart and stable? I'm no expert but I do think there must be many factors that lead the infj to feel a certain way about himself, I personally have my purpose in life and I'm decide to follow it through, maybe the rest of infj's haven't found their purpose? I mean I would definetely feel bad about myself if I didn't have the goals and clearness I have. Then again maybe I'm not an infj, although since we are being completely honest, I highly doubt it.

[@marty_glenn]

Nope. You are good. Keep on your path of self discovery. The video is about the rare part of the INFJ. I am sure you get it. But over all I think your comment says it all and is right. Keep on and the path is a good one. If you only are afraid that you won’t be rare if your not an INFJ is wrong and is also shutting all over the other types. See the point? TYWC - Marty

[@ililililili5968]

@@marty_glenn I also got a bit confused. I have been practising meditation for two years, and a core idea of meditation is to accept oneself. So when I heard your question, I genuinely thought, “why would my identity bother me?” Another important aspect of meditation is bringing mind and body together to be in the present. I’ve heard that Ni minds tend to drift into the future, and I do say I’ve had a lot of problems with daydreaming, but I can generally stay present now. My, I don’t believe I could survive these university years if it hadn’t been for meditation; I could barely get any homework done in middle school and high school. I think I have INFJ traits, but honestly I don’t know what type I am. I have taken tests, but I can’t bring myself to fully trust their results, because meditation has changed me so much... the tests don’t take that into account. Anyway, thank you for the video, sir! I felt like your honesty was almost breaking out of the screen, and that made me laugh! It surely is a unique and fun video :D

[@marty_glenn]

Perfect. Do not worry about it for what you are doing is spot on. Just keep doing what you are and keep looking at all the types and one day, as it did for me, it will just click and life will take on another level or view. I am INFJ today but tomorrow or 10 years from now? Who knows and who cares, as long as I am happier and my life is better and happier for those around me. TYWC - Marty

[@GENX-ec7yp]

Thank you for your insights. It sucks having ppl despise me for just being myself. Now that I'm older I just don't care what others think of me but it hurt my feelings when I was younger.

[@marty_glenn]

Yep. happened a lot to me as well and I understand. At times it was very hard and drove into more isolation. TYWC - Marty

[@supersolomob422]

I can't say I'm happy to be an Infj, but I feel like I've come to terms with the idea. Obviously I can't accurately imagine what it's like to be another types besides who I am, so by makinga decision that fast, yes or no, is jarring . I tend to mute my odd tendencies, like to trail off into rants and unrelated things so people don't feel confused by me at first. I can’t tell if you meant "Would you be happy not to be special and rare like the infj?", if so, the answer is I'd be happy either way. The label doesn't affect my happiness, but knowing it, does give me some self respect that I may need. But if you meant "Would you be happy not beating yourself down into a pulp, sabotaging yourself and your future like an infj" then the answer is yes. I already touched on how I tend to suppress any odd or confusing trailing off, and I will always act very differently depending on who I'm with. Acting like someone you're not easily means that you aren't happy with who you are, like me. I honestly fought for months with myself to know if I was infj or not, I never wanted to commit to being sure of it because it was too real, and too big. But honestly, even if you weren't right, you still couldn't change my mind because my mind beat the hell out of me until I finally accepted that I'm infj. I'm not gonna let a random old guy (no offense) tell me otherwise. And that's the cheap reality and future I have ahead of me But I may be more open minded than you, because I believe MBTI or any other personality typing is not an exact science, and no one fits perfectly into a box. So it may be that infjs don't have to beat themselves up or hate being an infj, but I say this knowing only one infj, me. Criticism is another thing, we are described as sensitive to criticism. Will that may be the case, since I make art I am subject to quite a bit of it, and I've learned to take it easier because it's not focused on me, it's on my art. If one criticizes my values and morals then I can't handle it unless I try to be mindful and improve myself Still not 100% sure I'm an infj, so tell me what impression I gave you. What type do you think i am? so I can explore more possibilities without someone strictly telling who I am, I will need to decide for myself

[@snowsandflakes]

was looking for a comment like this!!! exactly

[@stephenmurata]

This relies on the premise that one has accurate knowledge of what it means to be INFJ, in order to not want to be an INFJ

[@marty_glenn]

Correct. That would be one part of the foundation of the videos message. INFJ or not; you get it and that is what is important. At least someone is using their fucking brain. Well said. TYWC - Marty

[@TheJustcauz]

I wasn’t even going to watch this , but I was hoping if I took this test it was going to say I wasn’t an infj , but in the end I’m still me nothing has changed 🤷‍♀️

[@marty_glenn]

Yes. 100% Truth. TYWC - Marty

[@jjk5851]

your logic is interesting as it directly challenges the notion of "how cool, I am an INFJ, that makes me so special that I'm just one of 1%". If that's where you are coming from (or aiming at ;) I am completely with you. I am not sure though about the two simple questions you pose as I believe the answer depends largely on the maturity of self-assessment the INFJ (just as any other type) has been able to achieve. I have struggled with a lot of my personality traits all my life and worked a lot on self-awareness and development, just to get stuck over and over again. It was only after my 50th birthday that a friend mentioned that I might be an INFJ and pointed me to the first material about it. I have since taken tests, read tons of books, watched hours of videos (incl. yours!), talked to people... and without really caring for the label, the characteristics of the INFJ are an almost magic fit and have been the missing puzzle pieces in my struggle for life. Do I like being an INFJ? You know what? I don't really care about the label! I like and enjoy that in the last two years or so I have been able to finally understand that part of my personality and mind that had been so well covered before, I have reached a level of personal maturity now that gives me confidence and allows me to be much more open and vulnerable to people, because I understand my insecurities now. Do I like my insecurities? Fuck no! I doubt anyone does that. Are those insecurities linked to being an INFJ? Probably so, but does that mean I want to be something else than an INFJ? No, because than I would have just different insecurities to deal with... I really don't care about the label, but I don't want to be anyone else than who I am, it took me all my life to understand this guy and now that I do, I think he's a decent man. Does it give me anything that I am "special" and just one of just 1%? Hell no, because I don't think I am thst special, but it is good to understand why over all these years most people might have had trouble getting me...

[@marty_glenn]

Hey JJ K. I would watch the video again if I was not clear and come back and tell me. Kidding. Yes you are correct with regards to the rare comment and I plan on bringing things to another entirely. I am going to tie in Cluster B and also help men and woman and all those in between figure out their relationships and how to make them work. I see the problem. I can shine a light on it and I plan on doing and soon and disrupting this space. So yes, being rare will not be a part of anything important. TYWC - Marty

[@hellspitt75eso93]

I not only knew the question you were gonna ask but of course answered it. When I heard it manifest I began to cry. I new to this. This whole thing . I dont what I am or what my problem is but I know that I dont like it and I wish I were normal.

[@marty_glenn]

Yep and the user name I get it. :) TYWC - Marty

[@hellspitt75eso93]

@@marty_glenn I believe you do. I havent been able to watch most the videos but I'm going to. Again, I dont know if this is my personality type, I do know that much of what you say im saying to myself seconds ahead of you and that much of it resonates with me. Yet there are a few things that seem not to match up or at least manifest differently. I own a body piercing and tattoo shop so I'll mark a piercing a dozen times to have only moved it a 1/4 of a mm. Yet the numbers thing isnt so much an issue. Beyound that I see much correlation between what you Express and what I deal with daily. Anyway, thanks for replying and for the info in the videos as it does(on a very small scale) seem to give a bit of ease to not being the only person having these "issues".

[@stillatit5085]

Its truly hard, to say I dont wanna be who I am, when I, am all I've known . When I looked back over my life, and saw the infj behavior even at the elementary school level, high school, young adult, and up to now, I like the serenity, the dislike of conflict, the need for conversation of substance, etc. Being who we are, as infjs, the blessings, FAR outweighs the curse. 😊😊😊

[@marty_glenn]

Hi Still... I get it and I have an idea about this very topic. Wait for the video... TYWC - Marty

[@stillatit5085]

@@marty_glenn Cant wait. I've been binge watching.😊😊😊

[@WildflowerAnn]

So, if you took away the INFJ “label”, I still have the same traits. My life, my suffering, my misery, my aloneness doesn’t change.

[@marty_glenn]

Yep. You got the video's message. TYWC - Marty

[@erikknudsen4034]

I appreciate the fact that I'm an infj and like to remind myself of strengths and weaknesses (especially as I grow my business) , but honestly can't imagine wanting to be one. I liked your video, didn't even mind you taking a while to get to the questions since I knew they were coming at 3:43. 😁

[@marty_glenn]

Sorry about that. I take too long. I know. I am trying to do better. TYWC - Marty

[@rabnat33]

Just came across you Marty and got to say this is 100% on point. I knew myself years before I took the test (and all the insane contradiction conflicts I lived through) and i took it, just to put the label on the product! I've never met a true INFJ who didn't LIVE the pain of wishing they were not an INFJ and thinking for years as I did that It was a curse and not a blessing. I was in tears when I finally met another INFJ and realised I was not the only person in a 9 billion population ball called earth. I found my calling years ago and am at peace with myself now knowng why I was created this way.

[@marty_glenn]

Very well said. Good. Not easy at all but always worth the effort. TYWC - Marty