INFP Problems That Make No Sense Unless You’re One

[@whiterabbitforaday5582]

"Looking attentive whilst daydreaming about being a pirate"🤣 This is way too relatable

[@abhtv13]

helllaaaq accurate lol😂

[@jessicamoore5690]

Every summer I spend two weeks doing a thousand person pirate cosplay larp camping potluck cookout thing... keep dreaming, don't actually do it, It Is Exhausting. ESTJ husband loves it more than anything and the friends are great but there is no peace lol 😂😂😂

[@Stayengenemoacaratsetter]

😂

[@fnstephanie7243]

This is super accurate for me 😅 tho instead of being a pirate, its dreaming about a pirate @.@

[@heatherrogers548]

True😊

[@Firos81]

Observing people from distance Imagine there life

[@jsosl]

Exactly, but people think it's weird or creepy, but there is meaning in everything

[@pragati0807tri._]

I even wrote a poem on this

[@W.D_Joshua]

Exactly like life but is fun to do right

[@W.D_Joshua]

​@@jsoslye like they don't understand

[@madi_bhj]

you guys do that too😢❤ Sometimes I do it without any conscious efforts and without realizing that I am doing it, and suddenly I feel heavy as if I am experiencing all the hardship that this stranger is going through.

[@deppies]

I think it's really funny and very INFP that none of us has hundreds of likes on their comment, while I'm sure that we were all scrolling throughout the video 😂😂

[@FantasyStarBlack]

Called out 😂😭

[@yoshinori.is.precious]

how can you know?!

[@maheenimran9882]

Lmao i am you, you are me-

[@deppies]

@@maheenimran9882 😂🙈

[@13plus3plus1]

Omg 😂

[@melgm002]

I do go outside once the day is almost done, then I wish I'd left earlier

[@sylvia470]

Ooh same, and then I think, oh no once more Sunday wasted.

[@melgm002]

@@sylvia470 the struggle is real!

[@Supertrot1904]

I want to go outside, with my dog. But then i just don't do it. In the end of the day, i wished i had. EVER FCKING DAY

[@nadechyu9608]

that is very very true.

[@purrrrrrrple]

Fr I'm only 1 min into the video and leaving because wth I love being outside, it can spark so much creativity

[@dragonmummy1]

I laughed all the way through. An embarrassed, self conscious laugh.

[@basils_fan616]

same

[@ankeart]

same 😂

[@Obsidian-fn7wj]

Our excuse for not socializing should be 'I AM emotions'

[@EntropyAndSingularity]

YES

[@sarapalo2524]

Fr😭

[@capt.cloudsworth4924]

Absolutely! I was going to write that being with one or two close friends/soulmates is nice even when I'm not really in a good mood. But then I remembered that they understand I need time to prosess, so most of the time we're simply ok with meeting at a later date in stead 😊 And that's not really "socializing" 😅

[@nobody-yy8fc]

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[@sandrafrancis3631]

Pretty close to the bone. However i can tell you as an older INFP things get easier and better when you're older. INFP are late starters, and often have a rocky time when young, but if you make it to middle age you will have a better grip on real life by then. You will feel more comfortable about who you are and have learnt how to deal with relationships and life in general. You might find yourself giving others advice and help, because you've been there done that! So don't despair young INFP'S the best is yet to come!😅!

[@brettsteinbook5370]

49 and I don't feel any of this. Maybe you just got lucky?

[@sandrafrancis3631]

@@brettsteinbook5370 you're still young!!😅

[@2users828]

What’s the ideal career?

[@sandrafrancis3631]

@2users828 Arts, music, writer,...working with people in a therapy type role. Anything where you use imagination and intuition, jobs with variety, not routine jobs, not office work, being self-employed where you have a lot of freedom can be a good choice. Take your pick? What's your strongest talent or skill? It's common if you're some kind of artist you might have to do a boring job, and your art in your spare time? In which case some kind of self-employment, where you can work when you want or need to, works best..? Also, working with animals, INFP'S often love animals. So working as a pet/ house sitter would be a good job. IMO?

[@denisesiddon7241]

I'm 48 and now can keep a routine as long as it doesn't take over the entire day. Life gets easier for us. Only just started to get a grip on emotions. That was the difficult part of life for me. Unintentionally pushed a lot away over this over time.

[@Anybess]

Finally! I don’t feel like I’m the only “weirdo” alive.

[@Chris.R.]

„The boundless creativity“ and working on 17 unfinished projects..that’s so accurate…😂

[@Samara_Melo]

Sometimes I feel like getting rid of a few, but which? What if I regret giving up? No! Better do it half than not doing at all

[@oxiras8898]

The what you want to become when growing up - Age 38 and recently started studying to become a teacher, which will be my fourth profession.

[@aiiiia9971]

So real.

[@Ananalias]

What were the others?

[@oxiras8898]

@@Ananalias Carpenter, chimney sweeper and store clerk.

[@stressbytheidiotsaroundme9045]

Lol same i did stenography, I did law, i did agriculture study and I'm doing masters in psychology and still don't know what to do with life i feel so confuse but get excited every time to pick up something new I'm getting older I need a job 💀

[@SatumainenOlento]

​@@oxiras8898😅😂😂😂 Quite a nice spread 😅

[@jennymora9454]

I don't know whether to laugh or cry

[@Cuteemogirl94]

Try to look at it from a neutral perspective ~a INFP

[@iRouRoui]

laugh

[@kurehanzo]

I've never felt so understood in my entire life 😂

[@thequietlife1152]

I wrote a song to my dying plant, then it started living again. To this day, I’m not sure if it was the song or the water I realized it needed that revived it. True story. I have become a green thumb because of this experience, talking and singing to all the plants.

[@gaggleesyt]

Oh my god same-

[@paulinelol3930]

Those sounds like Disney princess behavior lmao

[@thequietlife1152]

@@paulinelol3930 Thank you! Now I know what I’m going to be when I grow up! I’m so excited!

[@annadine860]

I talk to my plants all the time. I have got a house full of orchids. I even sing tot them😂. Some of them are twenty years old and still bloom every spring and every autumn.❤

[@paulinelol3930]

@@annadine860 I imagine alot ofc as an infp, and bc of this I know I'm gonna talk to my plants if I ever get one. Like I fricking talk to objects to not move of course I'm gonna talk to my plant

[@carol20020]

“Obscure documentaries at 3am…“ I feel attacked :,)

[@filecompilationist]

"effots don't have to be perfect to be valuable" - hits me GHDSIGHDIGHSIOGS

[@crumbcake8344]

Fr and like every time we see a mistake on an art piece we r like 'omg this makes it look so beautiful' and then go off on a rant about how it makes it look amazing. But when WE do it we're like "but it could be BETTER!"

[@jarmoliebrand2005]

I have so many periods where I started writing consistently and then there’s this one little bump in the road, this one imperfection that’s perfectly fine to survive a first draft, and my morale starts tumbling off a cliff.

[@maio0077]

When you go to make a call to a pizzeria, it's okay and you're already used to doing that, you're a perfectly capable adult, you're confident, but then every time you're hyper-aware of what you're doing every second, every movement and every little sound during this phone call. I ended up remembering these moments.

[@T.J...]

I feel this in my soul 😭

[@kazeryu17]

I have legitimately ordered a pizza I didn't want just to end the social interaction. 😭😭😭

[@blueapple5274]

Literally😭😭 Like in a certain moment I am really confident and do something but when I later think about it, I start being embarrassed on the small things

[@yuchou2563]

The daily dose of existential crisis is incredibly on point 👉🏻 👈🏻

[@MissFrogify]

"Never apologize for being a dreamer" *eyes got teary*

[@shitimfuckedup4667]

Damn, the fact that as a kid I decided to never dream about being someone I wish I could be again until I get what I want in life is still affecting me, I think my imagination really got ruined by that. So, as a fellow INFP, I agree! Being a dreamer shouldn't be a flaw, but an advantage!

[@somnathsahoo2609]

Why is this so accurate are you calling me out?

[@SylverPfeil]

Cheers and love to all my INFP siblings, coming from an INFJ. May the world never find out about so many secrets that we share but instead learn to respect the superpower of emotions. And thank whatever supernatural being for the invention of apps for ordering pizza!

[@candiedpandie]

Seconded (particularly the thing about apps for ordering.)🤝

[@Blablablahx3]

"But the plans is just staring at the wall while listening to the same sad song on repeat" feels like a targeted attack Also "the societal implications of sock puppetry" 😭💀😭💀😭💀

[@askittenlove13]

I have a special bag for lost socks. Every once awhile I find the other one, and all is right in the world.

[@puszduszek]

i have a box for lost or the ones that lost their significant other due to the ragged shape

[@Chris.R.]

Yeah! Same here!

[@c.m.3329]

Still looking for my other one

[@vvquoh]

as an infp, that's so cute. i find them so silly but thats's me as well!

[@kazeryu17]

I think the socks might be insulating my walls or something. I buy a brand new pack, and a couple of weeks later, im down to two pairs.

[@rl5ln]

As an ENFJ, I gotta say , I love INFPs 💖

[@immaSTAY8]

As an infp..we lv enfjs too💙

[@aiiiia9971]

Thank chu

[@Moonface9004]

INFP's : We love you too. 👉🏾👈🏾

[@jarmoliebrand2005]

ENFJs are really nice. Or at least the only one I’ve met… My psychologist.

[@77eternalsunshine]

My late husband was an ENFJ, and I am an INFP.

[@charlottelam1805]

I def found my people here, thanks Ben! You make me realised being an INFP is not that bad at all 👽

[@arina_lovely]

My room is covered in fake plants and my window blinds are never open. I feel called out

[@ankeart]

Feeling judged by my miserable house plant clinging on to dear life as I'm typing... 😅

[@AutumnAwoke]

"Their ideal nature walk involves staying inside" well that might explain why I love walking simulator games

[@augustineosterbek6277]

Hahaha, love it, so accurate. Never understood, why plants die in my home, always. Now I know.

[@lovedaisy_0728]

I love you. As an INFP, this is so comforting and loving. Thank you

[@anastasiaevans4884]

I can't stand this video because EVERY LITTLE THING IS JUST ABSOLUTE ULTIMATE TRUTH!!!

[@giayeshavillaren4274]

stranger's smiles that brings back faith in humanity🥺😂

[@elizabethl6187]

“ eight oh five: remember an embarrassing moment from third grade - existential crisis begins” How are you stalking me??

[@NadaRafat-se4ws]

every time i doubt that i’m an infp i watch your videos and then my doubts fade away:)

[@limehmh]

Totally agree with the "I still don't know what I want to be" I'm 36. 😂 Anyway, It'll be cool to have a video on INFJ too... Thanks! ❤

[@hyunjae798]

well,I come here to get personally attacked and I definitely get what I wanted. For the whole 8:58 minutes :).

[@rubafayiez4454]

Omg the feel guilty cuz u excited abt food was real 😂😂

[@sunhythen]

When you relate so deeply, it becomes comedy😂😂 This video made my day😂

[@mushfiqahasan2263]

Every single thing is so hilariously accurate. .😂😂. Its good that i really am trying my best to change those issues with my self... Like taking action and not just dreaming,, Throwing myself out there,, out of my very own comfort zone,,speaking and dealing with people im not interested in but still doing it, sometimes it does feels exhausting, i shut off. I tell myself i dont have to be so energetic and chatty always...and there are people with whom i just get naturally communicative ..it astonishes me whether im really an introvert or not..cuz someday im so animated and the next day im down and fed up with everything ,.then i engulf myself in silent world of imagination..full of fantadu,,insights, thoughts of my study of science, and other random things..but they r useful, as it involves my self improvement too...overall,i love it, i enjoy it,, being quiet and just absorbing everything around me.

[@melaniesmith2917]

Yep, tbe nature thing is accurate. I LOVE nature, but maybe for about 10-15mins tops. Then its time to go back to my sofa and watch a fav movie. Or read a good ❤ book. Oh and good job with the animations, if you did them

[@BenjaminSpicy]

Thanks, I asked my wife to do the animations 😂

[@nyushinebae]

I dont know whether this video consoled my heart or made me question my life even more 💀 (probably both)

[@yustinussetyoyuniarto4816]

Huhf, i see infp as osmosis in the desert. True living angel. - intp.

[@Rose-vc3fk]

The schedule DESTROYED ME 😂 😭

[@teresamarie8347]

I love nature so much!!! They don’t just have feelings, they Are feelings 😢

[@nyaly-pj5zn]

When we 're hundreds and hundreds of people here and we're all like "so accurate it describes me perfectly "..feels strange to see that so much people are like me xD

[@rainiminiatures2184]

i feel so called out but comforted at the same time

[@naddelsGR]

How is this sooooooooooooo accurate??? Wow, thanks for this 😂

[@irinaxdbg7969]

As an INFP myself, I can say that this relate to me a 100℅.

[@just_a_Leg]

The plant thing is SOOOO accurate

[@hutaosimp3307]

OK bro STOP EXPOSING ME, Its like you are describing a character sketch of me from a book or smthin

[@isobelyoung8591]

I agree with all of this especially the wanting to grow up to be a namer of clouds!😊 I was disheartened to learn that meteorology wasnt quite as simple as that.

[@possesed_beans]

Didn't expect this video to be SO ACCURATE??? I knew the personality grouping was a basis of personalities, but I was not prepared to be called out like this: the daydreaming of an alternate life, the sudden urge to contemplating everything about life, no exact idea of what I wanna do when I grow up/as a career, the random emotional roller coaster and conflicting emotions, and the idealist ideas but reminding myself I need to be realistic. I'm not as practical as I'd like to be, but I'm great at coming up with ideas.

[@ved5243]

the world feels very chaotic...

[@heatherrogers548]

I’m a 50 year old Pet sitter. Walking in the woods with a dog is the best. Staying cozied up in someone’s home with their pets on a Friday night is bliss. 😊

[@heatherrogers548]

Obscure documentaries at 3 AM you betcha! It started every night looking for ASMR stories

[@littlefiddlechick1513]

My INFJ Mom INFJ Brother ENFJ Brother helped we with a lot of this.❤❤❤ I even managed to publish a book and now working on the second one!

[@heatherhafer3333]

I managed to publish a book, too!! Congratulations to you, fellow INFP! And I'm working on the 2nd one. It is historical fiction with Christian principles. It's incredibly challenging, but I already have a fan base waiting for my productivity to manifest.

[@heatherhafer3333]

How blessed to be surrounded by INFJs and ENFJ.

[@littlefiddlechick1513]

@@heatherhafer3333 What is the name of your book? My book is called "Mr. Fix It and Miss Sue."

[@heatherhafer3333]

@@littlefiddlechick1513 Sweet name!! Thanks for sharing! My book is called "Beyond the Woods." How is your second one progressing?

[@riskichannel8663]

​@@littlefiddlechick1513is your book a novel?

[@paulakrumin8]

There are two times I like nature: kayaking on a lake. Cross country skiing down a hill. These conditions occur in my life about once a year, each. Some years.

[@akellojanepher7407]

LIFE IS A BEAUTIFUL TERRIBLE MESS.❤ The best description of life I have been looking for all my life but just couldn't find the right words😂

[@Shortyjored88]

This is crazy because I can relate to most things in this video.

[@Mrs.NeYoAnderson]

Oh the accuracy is painfully precise, completely relatable and refreshingly acceptable😂

[@BellaRigelOrion]

That was likely the most painfully accurate breakdown of the INFP condition I have heard-and I have watched many videos on it over the years. Well done.

[@anniechinaski4744]

I feel so called out 😅 i'm a 42 pet sitter and i work with kids in arts workshops during holidays lol, because adult people are exhausting. Thank you for your videos, i felt very down lately, your kind words gave warmth to my little heart i cried lol

[@THEONLYGOODMOOD]

10/10 video, the cat was cute. Huh? Oh yeah, it was relatable too.

[@MotaChuza]

I feel so exposed...how can people have such similarities..these videos always leave me amazed

[@c.m.3329]

Wow, it makes me feel a lot better. Hope it lasts😂 And congrats to me for finishing my sewing project.

[@RouaHmd]

I finally find myself understood You described me so accurately 😲

[@QuotesArticles]

Well, nice to see your video after a long time, Benjamin! But why did you have to do this to us! Hahaha! And thanks for doing this to us!!! Enjoyed the video but I'm definitely improving a LOT! Someone that I love and respect a lot told me to improve and so in the quest, though I feel drained as I do things that don't come naturally to me, I feel like I'm improving drastically for the better! Hoping and I'm sure greater things will continue happening more and more!

[@Dreamer-sz9cu]

I can't believe this video just read me like a book.

[@hellraiser1306]

It's been 7 years my mbti test never change. Still INFP 😂

[@kingdoctor2734]

So... if you're an introvert with agoraphobia, general social anxiety, and ADHD who likes plants but can't keep them alive, you're an INFP?

[@Cuteemogirl94]

As the most authentic version of myself and a INFP that is healthy, overcame a depression, past trauma (for the most part) I can tell you we are capable of way more actually. Our biggest power is that people do trust us. We need to let go of our egos and actually using the tipps from ENTJs for us to achive our goals, setting huge goals but working on them concintend, we need to learn to controll our emotions (yes it is possible) also we need to stop seeking outside validation. I'm actually a natural born leader, but I lead with love and I act more like a mentor to other people. I'm spiritual and full of life advice, especially for younger people. Realise that we can't help everyone but we can change the world for the better because we care so much. We also need to learn to say no and stop carring what people think, we can continue to not hurt over peoples feelings most of the time but we need to stop giving a fuck about their judgements. I also love dancing by the way. When I'm at a party I feel more like a ESFP when there is music, People always look at me. One last but very important tip is don't be afraid to shine, you are allowed to outshine other people, most INFPs are actually just scared of their own true potential. I also go outside a lot and at 29 I have way more energie than ever before. It's also important to face your fears. I have 2 children and I'm married to a healthy ENTP, we are a great team. Don't give up, you got this INFPs 🤗.

[@kokopuffey]

you got me at the going out part, im subbing

[@terrylovescoffee]

The last part of beautiful chaos reminded me that I always say "there's peace on the chaos, you just gotta find it" That just described it pretty well! (EVERYTHING in this video described me so well😭)

[@StandAloneSoul]

This is beautiful, heartwarming, soul-soothing and inspiring. Honestly, thank you so much for making this. I will happily show this to my boyfriend who is an INFP. :)

[@ranamert7645]

Now I'm proud to be an INFP. Thank you 🥺

[@Anushkaa16]

I CANT ON HOW ACCURATE THIS IS-

[@hollylanevintagetreasures]

Both my dad and I are INFPs. He is the writer/reader where I am not. And I took the test three times so I definitely am an INFP. 😄 I, however, do not fall into the stereotype of the reading writing infp. I can't stand to do either. I wrote in journals a lot as a teen. I did the plant thing, then was overwhelmed by having to many. Now I have a few. It's true not every infp is the same, but I'm definitely not the crying reader writer (my dad isn't overly emotional either) so why are infps constantly portrayed as such? (Not referring to this video. This video did a good job portraying the variety of emotions and the roller coaster it truly is)

[@SatumainenOlento]

I also did the test multiple times. Before I did get INFJ a few times. But then I grew up and now it is INFP eveytime.

[@brettsteinbook5370]

having an internal emotional rollercoaster has nothing to do with outward displays of emotion. I think you might be confusing the two. most people have no idea how i feel because i don't express them. That doesn't mean i don't have them. reading and writing are just common solitary pursuits, if you like other solitary activities, just substitute them in. If you don't like doing anything alone, you might not be an introvert at all.

[@sellursoul]

I’d like to say I relate but I’ve never been able to tell if I’m an INFP or an INTP… And the advice the MBTI community gives to try to help figure out is something I find very ambiguous. They usually say: *“Well, INTP chooses rationality over emotion, and INFP does the opposite thing”* But it’s still unclear to me, cause in my mind every decision I make is rational and then I say *“Oh okay maybe I’m an INTP”* and then I think *“But doesn’t everyone feels like they make rational decisions?”* Also, the thing of rationality over emotion or emotion over rationality makes people think that INTP’s can’t be emotional and INFP’s can’t be rational, which is a lie.

[@jessicamoore5690]

ok.... do u operate more from imagined morals or from experience? I also am very I, very N, very P, but border on T/F. I fall slightly more F but very slightly. Anyway if you operate more based on past experience, supposedly that's INTP but if you operate more on a sense of Always Having To Do The "Right" Thing (even if it's really impractical) then INFP may be the better fit. Or basically are you more Millsian or Kantian in your moral code since INTP's aren't less moral necessarily, they're just less obsessed with HAVING to be ^.^ Hope any of that made sense lol

[@sellursoul]

@@jessicamoore5690 Recently I’ve seen another video which made me realise that I am in fact an INTP and not an INFP exactly because of what you say, for INFP values and morals are unquestionable, for the INTP it might depend on the context, so we can say that for INTP the end justifies the means but for INFP no end justifies the means.

[@YotaQuebill]

do you relate to this video almost everyday or just for once in a while? infp do these almost everday , have you learned cognitive functions? or finally maybe you are so unique that you are untypical

[@Wuffee]

This was really validating, thank you for summing up our struggles whilst ending everything off in a positive note- I think I needed it

[@rosebyun5331]

Now, take that "not being able to finish projects" and add ADHD to it, and you expect me to not question my existence every other minute????

[@2users828]

Same here. I’m almost 30 years old and still don’t have a career! I Only have ideas on my mind… that are very IMPOSSIBLE because I’m very idealistic! 😅

[@ardellolnes5663]

Ive missed your infp videos! Thank you!

[@Kaziro_myoshi]

12yo wanted to be a veterinarian, 15yo wanted to be doctor, 18yo wanted to be psychologist, 21yo wanted to be a philanthropist Am currently 22yo and am thinking of becoming a superhero.😅

[@FrancescoLatini-ie8sl]

Here's to the feeling of being truly, deeply understood.. Thank you so much!!

[@missmysterious13]

This video just made me cry I loved it so much. I literally scared my pets screaming "omg yes!" out loud like an insane person. And the end was so touching and endearing and actually warmed my cold dead heart which I thought was impossible. Thank you 💕

[@jamilegrazielle2344]

3:15 I ALREDY DID THIS ON PURPOSE ONCE BYE

[@MagicSylveonAnimeArt]

No but that’s me

[@staerfish]

When I read the title, my first thought was “I’m not one so Ima scroll” but then ended up clicking it anyway just to comment this. then I end up watching the video.

[@alexcerny5881]

XNTP here You think ENTP and INTP types are lost in their own worlds? INFPs can’t escape theirs if they tried

[@fnstephanie7243]

I feel this to my bones

[@shengxue6698]

"Find profound meaning in falling leaves" That's so true😭 I can write a whole heartbreaking love poem of cross star lover just from looking at the rain falling at night.

[@heyjude9895_]

“The bed chimes in” 😭😭😭😭 I’ve never felt more see

[@Charlotte-pk5mb]

By all these videos and experiences about INFPs I am convinced that at this point "I'm and INFP," is just another, more fun way of saying "I have undiagnosed ADHD"

[@thatsroughbuddy_]

I started this thinking how generic I am lol, and finished it crying realizing how special is to be an INFP. Thank you for the kind words

[@momochen4454]

I used to think i was crazy for feeling the way I do about life but finding this video and reading the comments was just so comforting ☺

[@BiaNouman]

the besttttt post ive found about my mbti till now😭😭😭

[@frecklix]

I've never laughed so hard these past few weeks, it's freaking accurate

[@zahirasahar9491]

Literally every sentence in this video felt like a personal attack LMAO

[@roor6846]

This is very accurate. I'm an ambivert but I'm slightly more introverted than extroverted. In the right setting, my social battery is great, but if one person in a group is too much for me it depletes my battery too fast and I need to avoid people for a day to recover.

[@blessinguggah2347]

Wonderful explanation 🤗🤗🤗 and so relatable 😅😅😅

[@pimladac7939]

Very true. I love pets at parties AND food when I can look at people without guilt because my mouth is full and the most I have to interact is smile. Also I’m almost 30, who refused to define my occupation by the two jobs and countless projects I’m trying to do, and still complaining of the inability to find my place in the world.

[@gabrielaribeiro6155]

I too resonated with the pet bit, be it a cat, a dog or whatever else - one of the most socially acceptable ways of not talking to people. And the animals are so cute

[@gabrielaribeiro6155]

I once asked my mom if at her age (she was 48 then) she had herself, her life or this world figured out. She said she had no clue and was just as lost as anyone else. At the time I was in my late tweens and my two sisters were already fully grown up decent women, all three of us raised by my mom. Her words gave me a great sense of comfort - if she had no clue and managed to take proper care of three children, then surely I'll be fine too

[@pimladac7939]

@@gabrielaribeiro6155 I really admired people who found themselves early on and have their life planned out but your mum sounds so great too! I wish I could accomplish as much given I have no clue what I’m doing with my life too 😣

[@stzlch]

Imagine you're an INFP but also got ADHD, wow you're perfect soooo perfectly imperfect 😂😂😂😭🤧

[@elainevaughn218]

I’m an INFP. Your video is awesome! I feel so seen! 🙂❤

[@shakiraelle113]

You just explained my entire life better than I can. But this still made me laugh, thank you.