What To Look For In A Wife - Shaykh Hamza Yusuf | Part 1

[@SaintNektarios]

I am a Catholic who deeply admires Hamza Yusuf.

[@smilepti]

Traditional Puritan peace and blessing be upon you !

[@yasinrahmati7750]

Respect! May Allah guide you and all of us.

[@dondandan1687]

May allah guid us all to the goodness of this life and the hereafter inshalla.. :-)

[@halfhuman2.0]

Welcome to you

[@danh4435]

Accept islam so you attain peace in this world and the next

[@briank8697]

I have learned more about islam from KZbin than actually living in a muslim country

[@rizvvan21]

Because on youtube..your intentions was to learn. And intentions define the path.

[@ayhamshaheed7740]

worfoz you didn’t even understand his comment lol. I assume you’re right wing?

[@ayhamshaheed7740]

worfoz Id say I do. But I don’t think you understood what his comment meant, judging by your little rant up there (which by the way, makes you look arrogant, offensive, massively ignorant, and is obviously offensive)

[@sadiqali6116]

May Allah bless you with Islam

[@anwarbey5428]

in reality there is no muslim country in the world right now

[@fawziyah4713]

Great video Shukran katheer .Lets not forget to send blessings to our Beloved Rasuulullaah (SAW) as its Friday today . Peace be upon you all

[@aosaleh97]

Bamber Banbury you got issues and no life to be trolling this channel. May allah guide you to the right path

[@worfoz]

Muslims you got issues and no life to be trolling this internet. And also islam is a sect and muslims worship muhammed and his idea allah. No muslim can prove allah is something else than a thought of muhammed. So stop polluting internet with your offensive idea that a warlord can be a prophet, and that everyone must obey the laws made up by some filthy child rapist. Without any proof that is.

@@worfoz you will be held accountable for your words..please provide all the evidence for your vile statements...you r just a parrot who most likely has ailments such as adhd and probably of prescription medication (anti depressants) i wont even waste my breath praying for you

[@worfoz]

@ why do you ask me to tell you about YOUR lies, my friend? why do you ask, can't you read yourself? YOU can not prove anything, because YOU only have your child rapists lies, so back up YOUR claims instead of accusing ME falsely. So you lie about medication, like all muhamedans you make up lies because that's all you bastards can do, so childish. muhamed was a child rapist, we all know that, and your messed up corrupt quran orders you to use terror and leis to defend that child rapist reputation. I asked you to give proof, you answered with lies and insults,and yes,you WILL be held accountable for defending child rape, terror and lies, we WILL come for you, expect us. We know your sect and your books, you worship a child rapist who lied that earth is flat, and you can not proof any of muhameds stupid lies. You even deny and lie about this: sunnah.com/bukhari/67/70 so read the quran and those fake ahadith, my ignorant friend, and stop parroting that child raping bastard muhamed, because he was a pagan fraud

[@worfoz]

@ please understand that this proves that your fake prophet was nothing but a child raping bastard terrorist: sunnah.com/bukhari/67/70 sunnah.com/bukhari/67/93 sunnah.com/abudawud/12/76 sunnah.com/nasai/26/60 sunnah.com/bukhari/63/122 sunnah.com/muslim/16/82 sunnah.com/nasai/26/61 sunnah.com/muslim/16/84 sunnah.com/urn/1261940 sunnah.com/muslim/16/81 and alla is NOT the God of Abram, Isaac and Jacob, the God of the true prophets demon alla is the idol of slaves, descendants of unmarried slave Hagar and her bastard son Ismael, who was expelled from Abrams house and lineage and do NOT talk about books you never read check the lies you are forced to believe in, one by one: there is not ONE single truth in your corrupt books but there is a lot of terror, rape and crimes your quran promotes and glorifies you really should try and read it, my most arrogant and ignorant parrot

[@siyamahmed9907]

I love how is clam and explains in detail for those of us that were not born in to islam family and converted and is seeking islam

[@BruvahSulaiman]

It seems simple enough, but many ppl don't understand this. If you marry someone for a superficial reason (every reason other than for the sake of Allah) then you may be stuck with liking nothing about them other than that 1 thing, or that one thing (could be wealth or beauty) may go away after 6 months, a year, 6 years, etc, and then you'll be stuck with someone you don't like who no longer has the only thing you liked about them.

[@hayinka7691]

it's really so hard to find someone who is fully oriented to Akhira at this time and age!

[@why4818]

some guy I think it may be your perception of what you think orientated to the akhira is, it doesn't have to be someone who wears niqaab and prays all night, as long as they DESIRE to get close to Allah and will work on achieving that, surely that should be enough for you, sometimes you have to look at yourself and realise you have defects too so you may never find what you're looking for until you change your perception, for me anyone who DESIRES to get closer to Allah is enough as long as they're willing to take steps to get closer to Allah that's enough for me because we're all sinners and we can help each other get there it will be easier accepting someone has defects once you look at your sins and defects :)

[@hayinka7691]

WHY I completely Agree, but as the shaykh put it, I want some who truly understands the NATURE OF THIS WORLD, and of course no one is perfect we all did somethings we are not proud of, but you should be willing to get better instead stubbornly insisting it. All what i meant was the people who hold such way of thinking are rare bread nowadays

[@neosomaliana]

WHY That's quite an introspective point. One that would be lost on most unfortunately because of their lack of self-awareness

[@EliteRowmaster]

The outward world is a reflection of that which is within. Work on yourself and you'll become like the great imams who could not find fault in those who tortured them.

[@tagourramt5082]

Are you talking about yourself?

[@thehumblecompanions2703]

I adore you sheikh.... You speak with intelligence May Allah bless you and grant you the loftiest heights in Jannatul firdaus. Ameen

[@syedtahmad3021]

I adore him too!

[@Amin-bx5ge]

"Like" even before watching the video. Sheikh Hamza Yusuf truly is a jem and inspiration for this Ummah. May Allah give him a long life and reward ink of knowledge for uploading these videos

[@rw9325]

Ameen

[@ajmalvks]

May Allah bless the people behind this channel and my fav. Shykh Hamza Yousuf.💖

[@faiz8569]

Marry for: 1. Wealth - can be lost 2. Honour - Ancestors 3. Lineage - person might not be nice 4. Beauty - Fades 5. Deen - afterlife oriented - Lasts

[@inkofknowledge]

Please don't for get to Like and Share this whole series with family and friends! Jazak'Allah Khair.

[@jamaacatulkheyr5567]

inkofknowledge insha allah

[@untouchableali]

inkofknowledge Salam, just a kind humble request, please refrain from adding the aaaaahhhh vocals, it really retracts from the lecture. I've seen many people raise this issue on many videos. May Allah reward you. Wassalam

[@Mohamedabdi-bb9lh]

Wow Ma Sha Allah first time I heard talk About Somalia. I'm Somalian been Following Him for Years!!!

[@rtimitarelgha611]

marriage can only work out with love and deen, other than that, no guarantee but uncertainty. no guarantee for wealth, lineages, covetnenouss, and status. may Allah guide us all to the reality

[@mikeandrozy]

Wow Hamza Yousef is a gift to our times

[@basitseraj5191]

Guys we should make dua for him in'sha ALLAH

[@jsidsid8434]

We believe nowadays character good habits healthy life style strong character strong family background is very important

[@mdkhan3928]

Comparability is essential - then beauty/Deen. Simplz.😎

[@PeaceGod8904]

Thanks so much for this lessons. They are very éducative.

[@issasuwedi8082]

analytical, well articulated~

[@maq739]

Ink of Knowledge must have a Telegram channel. May Allah (SWT) preserve Shaykh Hamza Yusuf (Damat Barakatuhum) for the guidance of Ummah. Ameen

[@camelsellam9061]

I wish I had listened to this video before I got married .

[@oldschool5707]

Why lol?

[@thefriend.353]

😂😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♂️

[@halfhuman2.0]

Oh no, i want to listen to the story, i love stories

[@MyMoshi123]

@@oldschool5707 u

[@omarkhan9515]

y?

[@zapy422]

Al hamdoulilah Jazzakhala Khairan 1. Wealth 2. Lineage 3. Beauty 4. Deen. aware of the nature of the world. Hayira oriented people. Choose the one with Deen and you will be successful. The first tree are all ephemeral reasons. They are not a guarantee for success. Get them angry and see how they react. May Allah grants us great wives and husbands.

[@soccer90tem80]

Why every islamic video has this background voice its time to stop!

[@jyotivyas9286]

Love from Bharat🇮🇳🕉️🇮🇳🔥🕉️🇮🇳🔥🕉️To Dear Shaikh Hamza Yusuf jee!! Namaskaaram 🙏🏵️

[@shoaibislam1573]

Respect from Bangladesh

[@sukainabanu5870]

Yep, V. True Mary a person whch last frever is the deen in the marriages😍😍👌👌👍👍🙏jazakllh

[@1234abcd12344]

Great lecture but terrible background music/sound.

[@ahmedelgamal5785]

Great content, the background music needs to gooooo

[@quantumo2099]

SubhanaAllah!

[@mohamedchaleh]

i love hamza yusef..but realy hate the background noise..

[@NotTooTechnicalPlease]

Mohamed Chaleh i too dislike it when religious videos are edited this way. Having that vocals don’t add anything at all!

[@96i97]

Assalamu alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh!

[@fawziyah4713]

Walaykum As salaam warahmatullaahi Wabarakaatuh

[@ibrahimabdul-jalil827]

Foziya Mohamed

[@palebluedot285]

Masha ALLAH

[@meyranwarfaa4618]

Did he say calamity? Clans marry each other , however its a preference to do within ones clan but never a calamity. Subhanallah

[@omarkhan9515]

Please pray for me I'm looking for a wife and it is very confusing, lots of options but then gets even more confusing.

[@inkofknowledge]

May Allah make it easy for you, brother!

[@X152535]

I wish there was a way to turn off the background noise

[@X152535]

@@worfoz This is not your channel, you're only trying to get people to unsubscribe. Clever but petty.

[@sareerahmadmir811]

Jaza ka Allah shaykh

[@lostintranslation286]

Please upload without background!

[@jyotivyas9286]

The days are not bad.. people change... Not days,and time. Matter of Energy associating with Time & Space! ! This is The Great Secret I Acknowledged and faced and Encountered. . As Tought By My Great Almighty Master Osho .. ..🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹👍👍👍✌️✌️✌️🙌🙌🙌🌴🌴🌴

[@abdulhakeembinmoosa]

May Allah Almighty bless me to marry and make me a good husband.🤗

[@dhulkiflmcknight2275]

Allaah Akbar..

[@alayafarah1200]

Please I want to see the original video of this lecture .. can anyone please give me the link to this lecture . Thanks in advance.

[@TruthfulAndHumble]

I am Somali that is not true cuz it's okay for Somalis to marry other Somalis from different clans but usually the Somalis don't favor it .

[@haye702]

Nasrudin Ahmed I'm somali too and the sheikh speaks the truth..whenever someone's about to marry the first question is always what clan or tribe is she from..stop being so defensive akhi..there are in some rare cases where ppl abroad don't do but it's there..caadi iska dhig sxb

[@TruthfulAndHumble]

haye ma Yeah brother but usually people ask this question to know more about your background not if you're gonna marry them or not . For example my father and mother are from different clans but they married due to the family relationship that my father had with her family. I don't why you think that way but I am sure that how people marry in somalia but sometimes people are crazy man. You maybe right according to your experience. Have nice day brother !

[@MB-tb6jy]

in my culture it's considered bad to marry within ones clan

[@redrabbit253]

Alhamduillah.

[@taylorahmed3356]

How can I judge if a person is pious in an arranged marriage

[@abubakarsiddiquishaiks2nda653]

Subhanallah.

[@SuperSK73]

Asalam o Alikum, As Shaykh said we have to look for Deen but what about personality match isn't it Important that both should have complementing nature?

[@haye702]

SK Niazi brother if anyone got deen it means they're in the best personality ever and they do their rights of husbands..look at up

[@rizvvan21]

I think when you are with someone who has same personality like yours. Rather than affection ... competitive nature of human overtakes. May be I am wrong but that was my observation.

[@Bettereveryday003]

Lol I love how accurately our sheik pronounced Somali. You would think he is Somali

[@MB-tb6jy]

Bamber Banbury astaghfirullah! who are you to spread racism and talk Ill of other Muslims on an Islamic channel? these are among the things that are recorded.

[@mehmedi9406]

Martin Hemligt Lol! Read again until you get the message

[@yasminenazarine1629]

White beauty white western eccent 😘

[@FarsanaNijas-yw2ey]

Iam looking for a wife...pls pray for me...

[@h3941]

This depressed me, the first one being wealth. Its harder for a woman to be wealthier than a man or a Muslim woman. I dont have any of the things in this hadith to a really high degree. All is either average or belowike wealth lineage or looks nome of those for me are mega mega amazing.. Guess ill just continue to stay single then.

[@adnanmehmood.constantprogr5019]

What stops you to top in deen ,i mean find real meaning of your being, find your God. Get closer to Allah genuinely ( obviously He knows your intentions) you will get answered

[@worfoz]

@@adnanmehmood.constantprogr5019 in islam the meaning of a childs life is being a sex toy to your fake prophet sunnah.com/bukhari/67/70 sunnah.com/bukhari/67/93 sunnah.com/abudawud/12/76 sunnah.com/nasai/26/60 sunnah.com/bukhari/63/122 sunnah.com/muslim/16/82 sunnah.com/nasai/26/61 sunnah.com/muslim/16/84 sunnah.com/urn/1261940 sunnah.com/muslim/16/81 and alla is NOT the God of Abram, Isaac and Jacob, the God of the true prophets demon alla is the idol of slaves, descendants of unmarried slave Hagar and her bastard son Ismael, who was expelled from Abrams house and lineage did alla understand the intentions of fraud bastard muhamed? or did muhamed simply create demon alla as his associate? muhamed clearly hated women, and according to muhamed himself, alla never disagreed with your rapist: sunnah.com/bukhari/6/9 muflihun.com/bukhari/6/301 So he abused many women as if they were cattle, "deficient in intelligence and religion", abused like they are beasts. That's why Aisha, why became a widow at 18, never married another man ever again, never got children: she was never allowed to be a woman. Muhamed destroyed her life and body.

[@ghafranhaque7161]

Life is a test, is about to better ourselves up...we don't do this for the sake of getting married but for the sake of coming closer to Allah. Just focus in that relationship, and the rest leave it to Allah.

[@latifsharifi3551]

the last portion is about religion please remember Muslims men can marry Christians girls and Jewish girls so Muslim women are better to marry

[@ramlami1767]

No,today christianity and judaism deviated from ISLAMic views,they are not obeying bible or Torra.So man can't marry them.This is not my view.A christian who accepted ISLAM and said his view on marrying christian.

[@cathyb2967]

Ramla Mi Im a Christian and l was with a Muslim Man .he didnt mind my teligion .he was very satisfied with me .l took care of all his needs ..he loved the way l look ..blonde and white and l gave myself to him whenever he had needs .Even things that are harem for Muslims .

[@ramlami1767]

@@cathyb2967 There Is No Compulsion In Religion;Truly The Right Way Has Become Clearly Distinct From Error *Quran **2:25**6* Its his choice to be with the girl he wants.What he wants to do(anything). Everything is btw him and his creator *ALLAH* and he will return to *ALLAH.* Can I give you a good advice? Pls don't live your life for satisfaction of people around you more than the satisfaction of your *creator.* We are believing the same *GOD* who created us and loved us more than anything else.But we *MUSLIMS* don't believe that *JESUS pbuh* is the son of *GOD.* He is a *great PROPHET.*

[@cathyb2967]

Ramla Mi I dont believe we follow the same God . I think muhommed was a false prophet .

[@princessfizzarizvi]

What does deen really means. What to look for

[@fahziahameed3612]

What do women do and men it’s fashionable to be separated or challenging each other’s gender which one is wearing the trousers but there are modest women who suffer sacrifice and piously get on with it when my partner left my eldest son has always been there and we made a pact that he would always take care of her as long as I don’t bring another man in the house because people don’t care like a real father would and I know it’s terrible to think like that but it’s definitely done me no harm and anyway I have everything my children there health and my independence not to be independent on any one I am happy I just wish that things would not be so black and white but in this world it is ❤

[@neowolfe1244]

do a video the reason to marry in islam beside a partner that help you to please Allah

[@rizvvan21]

Sexual need !!!! Islam balances everything thing. And yes ...like hunger sexual desires are also one of the basic need of human. So instead of doing Zina ...Islam tells us to satisfy you urge in halal way

[@toobad9295]

what if you don’t care for sex? then marrying isn’t necessary?

[@rizvvan21]

@@toobad9295 yes. Marriage is not compulsory in Islam..but it's sunnat deed. Means if you do then you have more rewards. But sex without marriage and mastrubation is prohibited strictly.

[@MuhammadKamranAzeem]

Please remove the annoying crying in the background. It takes away focus from what the sheikh is saying.

[@taabostore]

that was an old idea! Somalis can marry from any clan and no one will consider it as a calamity! that was very old!!

[@0engima0]

The real question is how to find her

[@tagourramt5082]

The real question should be are you worthy

[@Connect_with_Yourself]

+Ashad Saleem yes the best advice is be and have characteristics u want in wife and vise versa

[@yasminmont.6067]

Pray Allah to help you find her...

[@barbarossiangamebred1287]

Be worthy and Allah will give you without asking.

[@majidhussain1166]

But can't a person lose their deen too?

[@MrSuperman957]

yes, but that's why you have to be sure that deen is engrained in her. and besides, there's a reason why divorce is not haram. you do get exceptions

[@muhammadalijauhar3553]

♥️♥️

[@محمودحسن-غ1ك1ث]

Aslamoalkum sheikh u said "4 reasons " but u only said .wealth beauty and deen

[@inkofknowledge]

Wa alaikum salam, 'status' is also one of the 4 reasons

[@mohammadadilkhan4194]

محمود حvhfuonسن i

[@ghafranhaque7161]

He also mentione manners at the end, well carachter. Sorry i don't know how to spell the arabic but he said that in Arabic

[@arsalanmirza3411]

👍👏

[@JaleelBeig]

Can you not use that annoying background choir

[@abuyusufsherakhmatov]

Assalomu alaykum! Conclusion: Inshaalloh i will marry Saliha who is great at deen and character and minimum+ level attraction towards her!

[@BAFREMAUXSOORMALLY]

the sane background shit again!

[@JaanKashmiri]

What if her deen is on point but you just dont find her attractive even a little bit ?

[@utubeho24]

JaanKashmiri looks will fade with time, someone’s deen and outlook on life will remain. Essentially, you want to also marry someone who will be your best friend InshAllah.

[@muhammadbinyusof9415]

I'll nvr find my other half :'(

[@inkofknowledge]

Yes, you will. Have hope in Allah, and Allah will grant you your wish :)

[@crismartinus]

With all due respect, if we all were to marry someone for the deen, that is, the accumulation of good actions, we'd probably be extinct as a race by now.

[@camelsellam9061]

cristian martinus if we were all to marry for Deen it shouldn't be a problem because there so few of us "good muslim" that follow to the letter the teaching of our beloved prophet pbuh . That really it is not going to change much and it will make you happy . So don't worry about extinction .

[@mohamedespace5031]

Shalll we modifie lightly our muslim religion as did the protestants (ancien crétins), the german soldiers ?

[@bilallamrini1449]

no look at how they ar now. This deen has been sent down for all of mankind and for all tims until the day of judgement.

[@marktwain380]

Well you are not recommending anything to me that I haven't already learned through Christianity and I may add through my own observations! Love, respect, understanding and forgiveness for your fellow human being, particularly your spouse = deen.It is lack of love and understanding of our own selves that motivate us to make bad choices about who we marry, and even after a period of marriage bad decisions can be made. Relationships take on their own dynamic and are vulnerable to internal and external factors; nature of both man and wife, family, culture, past history, health, interests, finance, and and and so what can start out heavenly can become hell, what is sour in the beginning can be sweetened; when the euphoria of first love is over then the real relationship begins to evolve and we need to take an honest look at ourselves before we blame the spouse or make him or her responsible for unpleasant togetherness. Love is and always will be of free will, one should never expect to find the perfect partner, how utterly futile this would be. No one is alike. He who has a famous successful relative should not rely on that to win admiration, that is false achievement...we are here in our mortal guise once only and we should strive to make use of our own lives in a worthy, humane and creative way. Yes and beauty is skin deep, but oh so wonderful, seize the day and look after you mind and body! Women be honest with yourselves and you will choose the right man. Men be honest with yourselves and love the woman that is right for you!

[@MWisknight]

Tracy Hettler you missed the whole point .

[@Xcoming2]

A wife that won't steal your wallet

[@trevorpanno5371]

What I want in a wife - has blue eyes, great legs, sense of humor, likes massages, romantic walks on the beach, skinny dipping, slow dancing, bubble baths, can sleep naked, clean the house, cook dinner, go out to dinner, shower together, plan vacations/trips in advance, cuddling, watching movies, play CDs in the car, bowling, bingo and going to baseball games.

[@khadijafulan8308]

Good luck, in return this woman will also be superficial. Don’t be mad if she’s A gold digger..

[@ghafranhaque7161]

Sounds like a woman who will run from you as soon as you face any difficulties in life. A good wife will be one who is patient and intelligent and hard work in case you lose your job or your health. You didn't even mention anything about her suitability to be a mum...boy you are set to disaster.

[@4th_Disciple]

​@@ghafranhaque7161 too many muslim women and men seem to do this now, no concern for what kind of parent the other person will be. sallam alaikum

[@Malik.R74]

A girl who is halal and the streets and haram in the sheets

[@Whichofthefavors]

Malik don't say such an obscene thing 😒

[@MrFoggyG]

Malik nah that's not suitable to say

[@MB-tb6jy]

Malik totally inappropriate here.

[@worfoz]

Most muslim girls are the opposite way tho.

[@jaysmith6013]

Calm down everyone it’s just a joke...