Xoli man ❤ we are all learning about being the best version of ourselves from youu❤
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
🥺🤍
@that.tatiana7 ай бұрын
No because honestly hey, thank you so much Aunty. I love and appreciate you more after every upload.❤️
@simplytinkyyy7 ай бұрын
The Bob, the makeup, the outfit and the quality of this video...hayi sana 4+4= ate❤ 🔥 🔥 🔥
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
Thank you! 🤗
@tendaisithole58687 ай бұрын
The SKIN…she looks AMAZING
@mphonyatlo7 ай бұрын
Agreed 😊
@thobekamsomi42177 ай бұрын
❤🔥🔥
@Thulizinto7 ай бұрын
It brings me to tears seeing people come to Christ and be bold about it to thousands of their followers. I love this for you❤
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
❤❤
@robyn_witha_yyy7 ай бұрын
I’m 33, I couldn’t wait to turn 30. I loooove being in my 30’s. I don’t get offended if someone thinks that’s old that’s cool. I’m more confident in myself and I wish I would have had this confidence in myself on my 20’s. Cheers for turning 30. It’s beautiful 🙏
@ChuchiMakhubele7 ай бұрын
I am with you there on deciding to be celibate. I chose this in 2023 and it definitely brought me closer to God and the plans He has for my life. It’s difficult in the beginning but you get to a point where you just focus and aren’t distracted by anyone who wants to take you out of this. You are going to make it and tbh, you’ll see so much improvement in your life while in the process 🤞🏾✨ Here’s to turning 30 🥂
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
❤❤
@happinessmabuza12317 ай бұрын
Also started my celibacy journey this year, and I'm at peace. Sex is spiritual and I wish I was told that before I lost my purity, but Jesus cleanses. Glory to Jesus
@ashleysaunyama29727 ай бұрын
I love you so much. Thank you for being resilient in your pursuit of your best self. Thank you for sharing your journey with us, its a privilege i don't take lightly, simply because its not easy to be authentic in a world that celebrates "fake for clout". You're valued and appreciated.❤
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
❤❤
@lisaa.myeki_7 ай бұрын
this bob looks so cuteeeeee
@kamo_leslie7 ай бұрын
So heavy on wallowing in sadness cause that also leads to complaining & and sharing then over sharing 😭😭🤚🏽we’re no longer victims of our circumstances no, we’re done👍🏽this video was so necessary thanks Xoli🤍
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
You welcome my love ❤❤
@Elizabeth-vu1tb7 ай бұрын
Welcome to the celibate society. It will be my first FULL year soon and trust you me; it’s such a TESTING PERIOD of any woman’s life. Your like a walking aphrodisiac ; those men you always wanted but never got or that ex you love that did you dirty, he will be ACTING RIGHT 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the devil works overtime when you choose to do right. But we conquer in Jesus name.
@MissOndela7 ай бұрын
Congratulations babe!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉Sis!!!when Xoli said saving is addictive I was like girl wait until you decide to be celibate!!!I’ve been celibate for 15 months and chileee I’m not just gonna give in been tested few times and I didn’t give in…
@ipfinetshidzivhani47217 ай бұрын
How do you do it??are you single??
@Elizabeth-vu1tb7 ай бұрын
@@ipfinetshidzivhani4721 Yes; I even stopped going on dates etc.. because I felt that I was just putting myself in a position to be tempted. And until I actually feel like I’m ready, maybe I’ll get back out there. For now I’m strictly single.
@Elizabeth-vu1tb7 ай бұрын
@@MissOndela Very true.. your doing amazing too; 15 months is no joke.
@ItsMissLeesa7 ай бұрын
30:48 our reality is that of the birds of the sky and the lilies of the field. They don’t worry about their needs because God provides. Our reality is that of the lilies and the birds 👏🏼👏🏼
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
Exactly !! ❤
@neliswamamfokolo75327 ай бұрын
On the sex part, i read 1st Corinthians 6 and Paul says when we do sex outside marriage is committing a sin against our body, because our body is a temple of the holy spirit.. So by having sex ungcolisa the temple and the holy spirit end up not having a place to stay in your life
@LumkaJwara7 ай бұрын
I can relate to this, 2024 just feels different and I just have so much energy to be the best version of myself
@thandikekana83767 ай бұрын
Darlin you’re so right, saving can be so addictive. I’m in that very same boat and I’m so proud of myself. I started as soon as I started working years ago and it has been a habit ever since ❤.
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@venetiakampher63387 ай бұрын
My Goal this year financially buying my 3rd house. I love love saving myself!!!!
@-Lerato-Moleko-7 ай бұрын
Nooooooot you dragging me for filth! I literally was telling my friends today that I want to stop complaining and to return back to a gratitude mindset💛 This year is going to be amazing! So will the 30s✨🙏🏾
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
Exactly !!
@elizabethjamuine16677 ай бұрын
Ever since I started watching aunty Xo my life has been different. I started valuing my worth and just seeing life differently. I love you so much and thank you for teaching us so much 😊❤. Xoxo
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
Wow, thank you my love
@zeebucie18757 ай бұрын
You look stunning Xoli and thank you for this beautiful vid. Cheers to us turning 30 this year.i wish you nothing but a wonderful and blessed year♥️
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@ThandiLeche7 ай бұрын
I don’t know why you once said you don’t like bob because you look scrumptious 😍😍😍🔥🔥 painting and Travelling more will be great Auntie. I also struggle with overthinking I pray that one day iphele shame. Thank you for the video ❤
@lolomkhombe7 ай бұрын
Oh Xoli, I love you so much. “Do the things of God in order to attain the things of God” I felt that! Surely when you get busy with the things of God He will definitely get busy with your things ❤
@nomkhosicele227 ай бұрын
Change is beautiful, to start new things and bettering our lives. You look gorgeous, thanks for the motivation ❤
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
You are so welcome 🤗
@siphelelengcawana53666 ай бұрын
Truly a blessing to always watch and learn from you. I feel like this video was the last push I needed to literally push me to be the best me. Stay Blessed Xoli, I may not comment all the time on your videos but I'm taking notes all the time of what you preach and I always respond in my heart to you. You are a true auntie that has done it all and have come to let us know of what we can do to change our lives now for a better and a more peaceful future. I don't take your words for granted at all, they always hit hard and kinda makes one emotional but thanks again for the beautiful words. You'll foreveerrr be famous ❤❤
@_tapiiwa6 ай бұрын
This content is wholesome! And you are gorgeous!!! It’s really beautiful witnessing the growth and intentionality in your journey with God. It’s inspiring ♥️
@Xolile_Gcabashe6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@Boipelo_37 ай бұрын
Xoli is such a wise beautiful woman with a soft heart . She deserves the best . May God continue to teach and speak to us through this gorgeous woman ! 🎉❤
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
Wow, thank you mama
@blessingmotsa7 ай бұрын
The bob is bob marleyin please!! 🙌🏼🔥 You look absolutely gorge! ❤
@thando_mayisela7 ай бұрын
We working 3times harder this year ❤❤❤😊
@kgalalelo27 ай бұрын
Please I love it here okay!🥹😭😭❤️the bob looks good on you ma’am🥹😍
@NgwetjiyaDinare7 ай бұрын
That bob is giving me WOW ! Wow ! Yho am in love
@VividM7 ай бұрын
Bobiana😍🔥🔥🔥❤ The wallowing in sadness and being worrisome, this one hit me especially because im a type of person that rarely ask for help, & that can be dangerous it even affects you physically, you become sick,have suicidal thoughts, you curse yourself unknowingly cause your mind is on a negative tip..bathi the tongue speaks what the heart harbors.. so u gotta snap out of it.. pray for strength, healing, calmness, discernment so that when you move forward you only hear Gods voice and not your situation. We really need to take care of ourselves as women do whatever to feel whole& be confident in that🩷Thank you for sharing Aunty❤
@pinkhappynesslady53317 ай бұрын
Really loving the idea of exploring other things,I'm also taking tips for myself as a girl in her early 30s. Love it❤
@Lelo_Centia7 ай бұрын
If Maturity was a person wow ... I genuinely Love you Xoli❤this sit down proper👌♥️
@mmakosatshegofatso38566 ай бұрын
The bob and that facebeat❤❤❤ate✨✨
@dineomametja32777 ай бұрын
Love this for you Xoli, especially the celibacy path you are taking. The Lord says,be holy for I am holy. The Lord is going to work mightily in you and through your channel.
@palesakhunong54407 ай бұрын
I've Always Said This "You A Big Sister We Needed In Our Lives"❤ Like Growing Up With Such An Influence In Life Makes One A Better , High Valued Woman❤ 😊 I Appreciate Such Content Because It Grooms Me So Well In My Early 20s❤❤
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
❤❤
@jesss80607 ай бұрын
Girl this look?! I say wow!!! 😍😭
@ngatuptjipueja51076 ай бұрын
This was beautiful to watch, I can relate with so much especially the part where we tend to lean on our own understanding...good luck on this journey Dhaling!!
@celineshabalala7 ай бұрын
I couldn’t stop staring at your face ma. You look teeew good. That bob suits you 🫦
@Warona_N7 ай бұрын
Bona ate everything left no crumbs !🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Aunt Darls!
@rumallenfrancis7 ай бұрын
She is evolving each and every day love it for her 🙌🏽❤️🥹..!!!!!
@Dipalesa_Ogwang7 ай бұрын
You taking real time to a whole new level 🤞step aside it's Xoli real time Gcabashe ladies and gentlemen
@wendyjantjies87666 ай бұрын
God really does know us from the core. Ma’am you are preaching coz you just made me have an Aha moment. Your break up which was painful brought you closer to God, for me it was different. 2023 has been the best year of my life, I achieved so many things and my wildest dreams came true to a point where I said it can only be God. There was no way I did that myself. My point is, God knows us sooo well that he knows what will bring us closer to him, for you it was heartache, for me it was success. This only brought me closer to God coz I have had a lot of failures prior to 2023 to a point I was doubting if God really exists. Now I am closer to him than I have ever been and I am still seeking him.
@nqobilegabela83827 ай бұрын
Awww man i love how God is working in you to do what pleases Him! Love this!! ❤️🥺
@vetavizamurangi10887 ай бұрын
Thank you for this, Auntie I personally didn't know how to start of this year, everything was so all over the place and I'm beyond grateful that i came across this video 🥺 I'm so motivated to get back on track with regards to my relationship with God, my school and talking about those "Ins and Outs" ???? Wow you such a blessing. Remain blessed Ma🥰❤️🫂
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
You are so welcome my love
@makhaukana7 ай бұрын
What a perfect way to end the day🥺❤️💐
@tshidy_makwele7 ай бұрын
This bob is the highlight of it all ❤️❤️❤️💯
@queenethnare23807 ай бұрын
This entire look is so ICONIC ❤ you look expensive
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@sindiswasegwane12147 ай бұрын
Ye Mkhaya thank you for that verse really awoken me in how God operates not in our understanding but his own mind at his own time.Damm really want to read my bible . I'm already trying new hobbies and activites joined tennis and love it in sense of fun doesn't have to only involve alcohol. Thank cc we love and appreciate your content .
@pearlshirindza67646 ай бұрын
Loving someone from who they were, to them becoming the better version of themselves.... And you fall in love more❤❤❤ God bless you more, you have just comfirmed so much things that God has been bringing to my attention. I love watching people that can always take me back to God no matter what.
@Xolile_Gcabashe6 ай бұрын
Wow, thank you mama 🤍
@valashiya_siyambonga7 ай бұрын
The Q.U.A.L.I.T.Y!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 You are beautiful Mama❤
@luciandwakule76487 ай бұрын
You're so intentional with your finances. I absolutely love it, I'm inspired to do the same this year ✨️ ❤️ Thank you
@mbalitshabalala76407 ай бұрын
I love the woman you are. So inspiring.
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
❤❤
@noluthandoradebe81687 ай бұрын
I love your transition and elevation!!!🥰❣🌹God is doing wonders with you, in you and through you! May He bless and strengthen you. I'm also celibate- like 4 months in now. I love it for us- best decision I ever made.
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@tivamilemasilela39637 ай бұрын
It’s doable Sis,,🥺❤️ trust me, one thing about celibacy, it makes you purely sober in every sphere of your life 🙊🙌. You tend to be more & more closer to God, he even grants you self control! I’ve been in this journey for three years now. Try it, God does wonders ke sis😍😍☺️. Celibacy will make you to re-discover yourself on a daily basis and wow, you’ll love it!!!♥️
@innowlelaka19136 ай бұрын
39:40 🙋♀🙋♀🙋♀😱😱😱😱 I've never came across that verse before!! I say wow❤🔥
@mbalimichelle56506 ай бұрын
Ohh Aunty, I went through the same transition, it was so lonely. My relationship with God got deeper and I lost a lot of friends that were no longer aligning with the path God had for me. I dropped everything and everyone, to start all over. I found my perfect match, I asked God exactly for the kind of man I needed, a man after God's heart, a true gentleman convicted by the Holy Spirit. And life has been so beautiful, no lies, no cheating, we both don't drink and party, our life is fully immersed in God and its sooooo great! Please hold on and trust God, I promise you, He will give way better than you've imagined for yourself.
@Xolile_Gcabashe6 ай бұрын
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@cordelinebaloi10977 ай бұрын
I suffer so much from oversharing I hope to do better this year 😫
@lulufierce017 ай бұрын
Same😩 I hate it
@lesegomaodii7 ай бұрын
The Bob looks stunning on you my darlin , I love the new look ❤
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@sharonradebe7 ай бұрын
Usually don’t comment on your blogs but I’m soo glad and heaven rejoices that you have Jesus in your life. May you be blessed and run a good race ❤️❤️❤️
@tshepisomoloi396 ай бұрын
Am so motivated man❤️Especially spiritually. Tell you this, God is using you to touch many lives💯You actually are compelling others to follow Christ and that our mission 🥰God bless you Xoli
@Xolile_Gcabashe6 ай бұрын
I appreciate that🤍🤍
@Ziqelekaziiii7 ай бұрын
It's soo beautiful to see you evolving. You are very strong for being vulnerable in front of the camera.. I honestly wish you all the best with your wishes❤❤
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@Miss_Lifero7 ай бұрын
Definitely the year of consistency and I’m here for all of it ❤
@ReanetseNyapotse7 ай бұрын
I made a wish because you are wearing a Bob 🥹😍 You look beautiful Auntie❤️ This year I am learning to stop oversharing, and yesterday I was thinking of being celibate and no alcohol for me this year, I am definitely doing them. Thank you for this video❤️
@joalanengokoane47566 ай бұрын
Xoli you opened my eyes... been glued to my screen since ❤❤
@zintlea23797 ай бұрын
I am sooo excited about the fact that you are intentionally planning on taking on new activities and hobbies, 🎉❤❤🎉😊😊
@loratok39437 ай бұрын
You've decided to surpass the celibacy route and live in purity sis 💞
@karabostewbeef61616 ай бұрын
Big sis I am so happy for this elevated version of you. It's evident in the way you speak that God has always resided within us but we didn't cater for him. I am glad you are leaning on him and adorns you my angel ❤
@shereenmika7 ай бұрын
The Bob looks really good on you and the make-up stunning ❤❤. Thank you so so much for the inspiration I felt like God was sending me the message through you 🥹 thank you aunty darling, love you so much kesana.
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@zamazwane7897 ай бұрын
I still overthink everytime someone goes quiet and end up getting anxiety attacks
@banoh_m7 ай бұрын
The way aunty is giving out iContent ngathi uyazi ukuthi this is what I've been waiting for eversince the year started. Thank you gorgeous ❤
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
You are most welcome
@Mainly._Loverette7 ай бұрын
i need a 2 hour vlog everyday
@nontsindisonzimande97746 ай бұрын
When you have Christ you glow different, love this era for you. #Growth ❤
@missvee68506 ай бұрын
So grateful to be living in this life and knowing that you exist ❤❤❤
@yandieyayambekile7 ай бұрын
Amen, what a perfect way to end my day. PS: that bob was made for you, absolutely gorgeous ❤
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
❤❤
@CindieSunflower7 ай бұрын
Ms Xo you have my heart at this point 😭😭😭😭❤️❤️🙌🏽
@eruditeebullient63886 ай бұрын
This bob 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 ❤the scripture is directly for me 😢 thank you sis
@Xolile_Gcabashe6 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@GaliNyama7 ай бұрын
Xoli in a bob??!😰😨😨You look absolutely gorgeous😍😍WOW!!!!
@lesegomphoeng62107 ай бұрын
16:08 "i just want to be thick and paid", and that's on P!❤
@nompumelelozulu89517 ай бұрын
Thank you aunty for sharing I've been struggling with procrastination too and pushing back the things I wanna do, but I think this video helped open up ways on how to do it. We are very blessed to have you in our lifes.
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@tendaisithole58687 ай бұрын
I love how much u are in such a good space rite now. This is ur time. Everything is aligned. You have grown so much. You are so ready for all the good coming this year. FYI…the bobiana is the one. You look so beautiful ❤❤❤
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@user-ll3vn8vr2p6 ай бұрын
I don't know when last did I watch a youtube video from start to finish. Thank you
@ntombizondi3507 ай бұрын
The one and only aunty darlin…😍 u r standing on business ma. Love that for u and everything u said was speaking to me the procrastination,the overthinking,being lazy and not saving I really need to work on those. Thanks so much for sharing stay blessed ❤❤❤❤
@diiiiiiiiiiii117 ай бұрын
You are not wrong Aunty, coz the Bible says sex is the greatest sin against the body. 1Cor6:18 Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.
@phumelelag1337 ай бұрын
Your grown Godly woman version of you looks so good ❤I pray God continues this journey with till the wheels fall of and eternity actually cause our spirits belong to him ❤😊 Thank you for being the Darlin you are ,sifunda kuwe ezinye izinto zobomi ❤
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@loratok39437 ай бұрын
I'm screaming in celebration of you Xoli, I'm so happy for you sis❣❣
@klairegardner86457 ай бұрын
Perfect way to end my day. My love that bob is everything 😍😍
@nokuthulamsibi41077 ай бұрын
love that you’re preparing for the 3rd floor, honestly 3rd floor is where it’s at !
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
Yes! Thank you!
@NOKWANDA_NDEBELE7 ай бұрын
OMG this bob looks good on you😍😍😍😍
@LumkaJwara7 ай бұрын
😂😂 Every concept you spoke about here is so profound because I’m on the same journey .. from Celibacy to dating 😂😂 you articulated it so well. I needed to see this video
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
You got this!
@letlotloRamatsa7 ай бұрын
I am Enjoying these chit chats from you so MUCHHH. I believe this year is your transformation Year into The version God intended you to be. I am loving this for you and I am glad you’re taking us along on this journey ❤ ❤😊
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
❤❤
@Sanelisiwe.Songelwa7 ай бұрын
I haven’t even watched the video but I know vim gonna love it . I can’t get over how you post in real time !! I just reaacted to your post on IG a few hours ago with this bob and here you are again !! If you don’t love Xoli then inkinga nguwe!
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@thithimlotshwa99397 ай бұрын
This Bob looks so good on you,,, like I always say,, I love it here❤❤❤
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much ☺️
@MizzAP47 ай бұрын
This was such a lovely video. Thank you for sharing. I'm definitely taking 1/2 points from your list & applying them in my own life.💕💕
@trynessmarita50657 ай бұрын
Please you look beautiful ❤ loving the hair keep on trying new thing mummy 🤩
@kayisebhembe7 ай бұрын
Ephesians 3: 20 Now unto him that is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think ... You, I and everyone else who watched the video, God will do exceedingly above all that we may think. 2024 what a way to start with an aunty darling like you.❤
@ThaboDibakoane-xj6he7 ай бұрын
Thank you babe for reminding us to save I'm definitely saving this... thank you so much for taking your time and reminding us as women to save ❣️
@Dizzy123467 ай бұрын
😭😭😭😭 Chopping them onions right there ke sana 🙌💕
@mokoenamapaseka22687 ай бұрын
i want change in my life this year. so with your god and your guide. i have hope and faith that ill change this year. i thank god for you. ♥
@kuhlembedu7 ай бұрын
The way I showed my best friend the pics you posted on IG with this Bob. It's gorgeous and we were hyping you up 😂❤
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
You're the best!
@finance-talk6 ай бұрын
Gosh! You're mad gorgeous ❤. I cannot get over watching you. You look amazing
@Xolile_Gcabashe6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@lulufierce017 ай бұрын
You look like an angel mama. You are the best thing to ever happen on these KZbin streets.
@Xolile_Gcabashe7 ай бұрын
❤❤
@Sarbiie_7 ай бұрын
Love seeing young women focusing on God❤️. Love that for us🥹❤.
@babalwaapril45516 ай бұрын
I’m quite certain that you don’t know how much of a blessing you are to someone of us. There’s just something about you Xoli. Your wisdom is beyond comprehension. I pray for your protection on daily basis so we can have more of these days. Wow 🥺🥺🥺🤭…… 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏