INSANE Incel On The Street Interviews (Ft. Austin Show)

[@flamegrant47]

That black guy was like "sounds like a skill issue"

[@5PYZ3R]

"sounds like user error" lmao

[@Chloe-dv9ns]

"sounds like a personal problem"

[@Rikaaj]

Lmao so accurate

[@gatfatf]

"Have you tried not being so factually a loser?"

[@FMDedits]

Perfectly worded lmaooo

[@Mezelenja]

The interviewer literally radiates bitter entitlement and wonders why women don't wanna fw him. Literally his own worse enemy.

[@mainao3443]

The guy has a wife lol

[@PiLLO360]

Cockblocks himself

[@anx7223]

@@mainao3443 imagine marrying such a pathetic man lmao

[@honeybrew5722]

@@mainao3443 Having a wife and women being comfortable to be around you is two different things. Even married men can have toxic behaviors, cheat, and lie.

[@mainao3443]

@@honeybrew5722 they agreed to answer questions, they get uncomfortable because they know their answers make them look bad

[@nevar5232]

The black guy being interviewed is the guy I strive to be. He’s confident in himself by not taking things (like sex) too seriously

[@TheBlackSun21]

You're right but he's also drunk

[@saintpena8800]

@@TheBlackSun21 so? He’s an adult and he can drink, the only effect it has on the questions is that he’s having fun with it

[@Saaaaaanji]

@@TheBlackSun21 if anything it’s making him even more honest and open😂

[@CommanderWar64]

Bro if that’s him drunk, then he must be cool as shit sober

[@URFTBOUND4LIFE]

@@TheBlackSun21 He makes more sense than the guy interviewing him so that's still saying something

[@hugo6535]

This dude is so mad about women being able to say no to sex lol

[@tonyonaperky2128]

No. We were being very clear of our intentions. If you read the FUKING description, the questions we asked weren't of our own beliefs. We wanted women to be more clear in depth.

[@hugo6535]

@@tonyonaperky2128 That's just a cop-out, pretty much the entire video felt like an incel projecting

[@abi._.russell]

@@tonyonaperky2128 some men can ask a women on a date thinking him taking her on a date means he gets to have sex with her in return for the gesture. most woman accepting a date from a guy do not inherently think them saying yes to the date means there will also be sex included because if its a date you should be asking them on that date to get to know them and see if the relationship can evolve into more not just a meaningless hookup once where they'll never see each other again unless the man tells the woman that they also want sex later after the "date".

[@tonyonaperky2128]

@@hugo6535 No. It literally isn't a cop out. It's literally what was STATED, my friend. You watch hasan for facts and evidence when the evidence was right in your face. You're believing you're own truth vs what is the truth. And that leads to becoming Andrew Tate

[@hugo6535]

@@tonyonaperky2128 Something being a cop out and something being stated are not mutually exclusive, I'm saying that they claimed that in the start of the video to get away with it and avoid blame, i.e a cop out. "You watch hasan for facts and evidence when the evidence was right in your face. You're believing you're own truth vs what is the truth. And that leads to becoming Andrew Tate" That part came way out of left field lol. What does thar have to do with anything? Also, I watch Hasan for entertainment and his political opinions. I'm starting to doubt if you are serious or not, it feels like bait from a troll lmao

[@ghostsyynx]

That black dude seems like a legitimately awesome guy

[@URFTBOUND4LIFE]

He's good looking, confident, has a good head on his shoulders and while he enjoys sex with women, he doesn't make sex the end all to be all... Every incel's worst nightmare.

[@onemore4567]

fr lmao

[@tatiana4050]

Plot twist: this was secretly just advertisement to get that dude more girls.

[@Burn3r10]

@@tatiana4050 7D chess up in here

[@Yararar]

And very attractive, so confident without being cocky, personality goes such a long way

[@melaniejanko2675]

“I am offended when a woman offers to pay” but also “why do women expect men to pay for everything”

[@mandisamoonz]

!!!!!!!!

[@Random-sk6hm]

frrrrrr

[@jb1996]

best advice i’ve gotten: honesty without tact is cruelty.

[@realityandnaturepill]

If you add anything to "honesty" or "justice" then the new form is a lesser one. There is nothing to add to honesty and justice, there is no such thing as being 'completely honest' or 'too honest'. A great example is saying that "I am sure you will find someone"...you are not sure of that at all, you are saying that to make yourself look like a good person but it is the total opposite of honesty.

[@mistercarousel1872]

@@realityandnaturepill nah man, thats literally just you projecting.

[@realityandnaturepill]

@@mistercarousel1872 You are right, I should not use common sense which is a form of projecting if you don't agree with it, I appreciate the advice.

[@comandantethorn9929]

@@realityandnaturepill or maybe i genuinely believe that the person im talking to is perfectly capable of finding someone else since im not like fucking god or anything and while i know my worth i know that there are other people out there who could be way better with them, you are indeed projecting and no, its not about being more or less honest, because as the girls in the video said, if you say "youre extremely unattractive to me and im not interested" its the same as saying "im sorry im not really into you like that" youre getting the same message across but one is blunt and mean while the other is thoughtful and leaves the door open for friendship anyways, theyre both honest but one doesnt go at the other persons throat for no reason

[@realityandnaturepill]

@@comandantethorn9929 Translation: "if you are not honest you can still make friends with a man and get something out of it." Saying "you will find someone else" is similar to saying "it will be okay" or "you will succeed". If you think these are examples of honesty or even just empathy...think again or pick a dictionary before making a comment. This is not honesty, it is a tactful half-truth. Also; since when is saying the most basic truths a form of coping? A coping mechanism would typically be a falsehood, not a truth.

[@lukewarmape603]

The only actual "Female Privilege" I can think of is assumption of innocence. Generally speaking you don't see women as a threat so you always assume innocence. This is amplified in the legal system as well. This is brought on by patriarchal concepts.

[@BBoPPo88]

I think that's so interesting because its actually still stripping away women's humanity but in a different way by putting their "woman-ness" above their human-ness because they generalize women to "can't' be capable of hurting someone" or "being evil". In this case, it often works in our favor but it's still very patriarchal. Super convoluted right?

[@kurogikuzuzuki9790]

@@BBoPPo88 lmfao bro why did u put “can’t’

[@BBoPPo88]

​@@kurogikuzuzuki9790 it's just a typo, no need to make a big deal out of it.

[@kurogikuzuzuki9790]

@@BBoPPo88 not making a big deal i just found it funny at the time. brains do that sometimes

[@JoeyisDREADful]

Yuuuup. Paternalistic Misogyny is hugely the cause of sentencing differences between men and women, the gap actually closes when you only look at cases with female judges. But most judges are male and male judges are way more likely to give women leniant sentences.

[@sturdybutter]

“Lift the homies up without putting down the ladies!” That should be talked about way more. I feel like wording it that way will appeal to men and possibly even incels more than anything. Talk about male positivity without putting down other genders. It’s like fucking political ads, stop just attacking the other side. It helps no one.

[@rudytabooty8640]

I thought it was common sense

[@URFTBOUND4LIFE]

The problem is most dudes are too macho for that and will call it "geh" . And we wonder why so many men have depression and anger issues...

[@vojislavl6665]

Unfortunately those type of political ads work, hence why they use it. Fear tactics is a powerful motivator.

[@lilnotmaster6094]

@@URFTBOUND4LIFE Your statement is false. Most men do that already, as its women and other people of society that makes it gay. Sebastian Stan and Anthony Macki got cancelled because they didnt follow up on that shit. Literally said it was okay to have hetero friendship between 2 men... and they pissed at it

[@lilnotmaster6094]

@@URFTBOUND4LIFE Alos, women have a huge part to play in men's mental health issues as well. They just hide behind "I dont have power to oppress you" despite having a lot to do with mental health. Women will talk about how short men are pathetic and should KTS but somehow mention how fat women deserve love. Also its funny that men get burned, electrocuted in power plants, die doing construction, take bullets for people, especially women, then they go out n say how much they hate men and that we are literally useless.. then somehow say "Men are depressed and have mental health issues because of other men" This is an accountability issues that "women" have.

[@bingusboop3829]

That body language "no stop" thing makes me really really uncomfortable because I've been followed before and have had random weird men put me in really dangerous positions and I've had to act polite and giggly and small with a big smile while saying no so that these guys don't feel like I've "got an attitude" or are "being disrespected" and lash out at me so that I can get away as quickly and as safely as possible. I am mad and I am filled with rage but I don't wanna end up like so many of my friends

[@hellyee4250]

Then carry a gun or pepper spray and be more assertive. Unfortunate but it's the reality of this shitty world.

[@cuppiesaur]

THIS!!!! ^^^

[@versatilefox8496]

Wait, many of your friends?😨

[@ghxsty_]

@@versatilefox8496 unfortunately for many women, even if we haven’t personally been sexually assaulted, we know at least one person who has been

[@80s_graffiti]

I hate the fake smile I put on so fucking much. It's' infuriating. But also just natural, because it IS the safest course to take. It's so, so fucked up. These inconsiderate motherfuckers don't deserve the kindness we show in defense.

[@artespeck8091]

Literally all his questions are “its always justified to disrespect women, right?”

[@artespeck8091]

“How is it a mans world when women are treated like the only value they bring to any relationship they have with a man (be it platonic, professional, or romantic) is sex?”

[@artespeck8091]

This man has never met a woman and has been on too many incel forums 💀

[@artespeck8091]

Women: pay us more Men: no Women: ok then pay for our dates Men: THATS NOT FAIR

[@artespeck8091]

If women arent asking you on a date then they are not interested in going on a date with you 😭

[@realityandnaturepill]

@@artespeck8091 You can't seriously believe in the gender wage gap in 2022, this has to be sarcastic. The whole notion of this gap is that as a national average a man has a higher income than a woman, it doesn't take any factor into account, it's simply a myth created by lazy non-science. Don't get me wrong; I like that it exists as it filters out individuals who have a poor sense of reality or understanding in discussions.

[@frickinfrick8488]

The man in the first clip is so delightfully normal and well adjusted throughout the video as the interviewer asks his weirdo questions. Love him

[@noahsamsen]

Alright that’s it I’m dming you to come on stream

[@themaskedmagic1783]

W

[@MadeInHistory]

You can't beat this alliance

[@asdpuff]

get your royalties

[@not-oskee]

yass

[@noahsamsen]

@@kidkangaroo5213 reacts help everyone lol don’t be a freak

[@under-._.-score]

The sad part is this dude has the confidence to approach to complete strangers so he’s already got that part down. It’s now learning what you “bring to the table” in terms of conversation and attitude. Those gals at least seemed somewhat impressed by his approach but then he immediately shot himself in the foot with all those dumbass questions and insinuations.

[@bringurownvibe]

Lmao, he'll never get laid if he hates women. I think these type of people just need to see what it feels like batting for the other team

[@mainao3443]

The guy is literally married he doesn't want to be with these ho es lol

[@under-._.-score]

@@bringurownvibe that’s so true. To me, it’s not even about these dudes getting laid. It’s recognizing you can actually just be friends with women and the benefits of having that honest relationship. It’s sad seeing dudes get influenced by every perspective other than a woman’s.

[@rakkatytam]

The mic and camera give him a lot of false confidence though

[@tonyonaperky2128]

Shot himself in the foot with dumbass questions.. that made sense

[@kendrickjenkins96]

Nah his response of “Why not, isn’t that honest?” to the two girls about honesty and sex is EXTREMELY telling. Bro genuinely thinks that just because you’re honest and tell a woman you want to have sex with her that she HAS to have sex with you. That little response there shows that his issue is actually just women having the ability to consent or not, and he’s masquerading it as “Oh see?! Women don’t like honest guys!”

[@SomeKata]

He thinks consent is 'bargained' for. His fear is literally spending money then getting rejected, or to be cucked.

[@calvinware7957]

"I was honest honesty is a good character trait I'm a good guy if you don't have sex with me youre not into good guys"

[@inflorire]

Bing! Also, who wants someone who just walks up and starts asking for sex? That’s not even fun. Unless you’re really horny, usually you want to have sex with someone cool so you get to know them a little, enjoy your time and enjoy getting to the point where you’re both like, “YES! I LIKE THIS HUMAN!”Trying to get around that juicy emotional journey tells me the sex wouldn’t be any good either so what’s the point?

[@emyyyxx]

we like& deserve honesty and transparency because it gives us the chance to know your true intentions and either accept/decline your advances. being honest does not entitle you to sex

[@tonyonaperky2128]

Your statement is wrong dude.. he doesn't think that at all. It's a series of questions that we don't believe ourselves. We want to hear what the people had to say?

[@michaelmitchell6092]

As a guy, no always means no. Either no actually means no, and it was the right move, or her no means playful yes, in which case I want none of that cryptic shit

[@dark_nightwing_xl2797]

Some alpha shit

[@ZafeHaven]

It's difference with a relationship but if it's your first time with the woman yes

[@lambfatale]

except... playful nos arent a thing

[@nerdloser9987]

Based

[@AxlefublrMain]

good! w man

[@mart4144]

This guy just projects his insecurities on everyone lmao

[@xp7575]

TL,DR: drug addict blames his drug dealer In reference to this vid, not your comment

[@chhsihdhdi6831]

He had a good point tho Like when he asked them if they prefer honest men then seconds later contradict themselves Don’t get me wrong tho it’s incelK for life

[@CheeseuMoi_]

@@chhsihdhdi6831 The thing with that is that people, not only woman, want honest people who search or want the same as them. If I'm searching for a posible relationship or even sex with someone who sees me as something more than my genitals it's totally valid to not want to be around someone who are equally honest but has a totally different world view. If you just want pussy(or dick) it's okay I guess but most people don't want to be seen as just that. Sorry if I have misspellings, I'm not fluent in english.

[@karaso0]

@@chhsihdhdi6831 You could be honest without being a socially awkward weirdo lol. I'm very straightforward and never had this issue with women. Like they said, if you dont get why walking up to someone and asking them to fuck isnt abnormal vs honest you suffer from a lack of regular human interaction. I mean if a girl walked up to you and asked to peg you would you be an asshole for saying naw?🤣

[@fleecejohnson9813]

@@chhsihdhdi6831 It was a shit point. All she said was that they would prefer honesty over dishonesty, not that honesty is the ONLY requirement for interactions. And his idea of "honesty" was going out of his way to be hurtful thinking he's delivering a "harsh truth", which is what the woman's next point was about regarding bluntness. Honesty is good but Jesus Christ read the situation.

[@BBoPPo88]

It's so difficult for me to comprehend why sex is such a big deal to men. You die without water, oxygen and food, it's ridiculous to put sex on the same page as that. You won't die if you don't have sex. It's called "sexual desire" because it's a desire and a want. Seems like lack of self-control is the bigger issue. Really fucking annoying to be constantly reduced to "pussy" as a living, breathing person with thoughts.

[@jbone877]

Unfortunately, our brains can't always tell the difference between needs and wants. As a drug addict, now with more than two years sober, I can tell you that there have been times in my life that things I knew were detrimental to my life experience seemed like greater needs than things which were actually needs. There was a time, too, in my life that sex felt like a need. Less so, going into my late twenties and early thirties, where natural testosterone production tends to drop sharply, in males, than in my late teens, and early twenties. It now feels like other wants, rather than a compulsory act. However, the cultural norms surrounding male sexuality are definitely toxic, and greater emphasis on equality, and, especially, empathy, need to be instilled in growing men, IMO. Granted, I am neurodivergent, and my life experience has been pretty far outside what is typical, so take what I say, with a grain of salt. Have a great day, to anyone reading this! 😃

[@tubblestop414]

Any lasting relationship requires sex. If that want isn't being met, he has little to reason to be with any female. Sex is a form of mental and physical intimacy. Sex itself is a big deal to females as well. Women don't have sex with a male unless she is emotionally invested in that male. females and males both value sex but in different ways and they definitely make a big enough deal out of it that it's enough to make a relationship end and that's just the truth. Having, friends, family, a place to live, etc. Those aren't needs, you most definitely can live without those. However, people make a big deal about the stuff and some may treat it as a need. You're oversimplifying the significance of specific things for others. Don't even get me started on the fact that is WAY MORE HARDER for a guy to get sex than a woman and incels are proof of that.

[@BBoPPo88]

@@tubblestop414 The fact that you call people male and female like animals tells me all i need to know. You're completely discounting asexual people here with your argument as well. "If that want isn't being met, he has little to reason to be with any female." For companionship? The same reason you talk to friends and family right? God forbid you actually like her. What if she becomes disabled sometime down the line? Are you going to just leave her because you can't fuck her? You're degrading a woman to just being an object of sex not a real person whom you could actually genuinely connect with but you're not even realizing what you're doing. That's the entire point of my initial comment we're not your fuck-holes we're actual real people just like you not some mystical creatures of a different race made for your pleasure.

[@commugoth]

@@tubblestop414 bro you’re crazy

[@tubblestop414]

@@commugoth Dispute it bro.

[@JStack]

03:45 lmfao homie conflates “being honest,” with “if I tell you what I want you have to comply.”

[@asdfghjkl-qo8bp]

Exactly!!! Dude is messed up

[@Jacobwlane]

Gotta love how the interviewer in the video conveniently forgets that partaking in so-called "pussy power" is a legitimate choice whereas male privilege/the patriarchy is literally something women have no choice but to partake in because it's an ingrained part of our society. Their participation is mandatory out of sheer existence, participation in "pussy power" just isn't

[@swagcreated9147]

wdym male privelege

[@muertesdulces]

no literally. and what was their definition of "pussy power" exactly? it seemed like it was literally just consent lmao. i didnt know the ability to say no to sex was apparently an inherent power to these losers. or do they mean the ability to monetize sex? which men can absolutely also do and already do and actually created the industry for. it just seems like a giant ass hissy fit about how women are learning to navigate a male privileged and patriarchal society to be able to make these slight advancements in autonomy.

[@johnwilliams655]

Male privilege is an invisible, non observable, undefinable, immeasurable force that somehow justifies all misandry.

[@tonyonaperky2128]

@@swagcreated9147 It doesn't exist. And patriarchy is a natural response to nature. Matriarchy wouldn't have worked in the past but now wmn are comfortable

[@christinaluo9758]

@@tonyonaperky2128 patriarchal governance is not “nature,” matriarchal societies are also found in nature

[@Kelema86]

I’m gonna need men to understand that honesty doesn’t mean women HAVE to agree with sex with you. And you are not entitled to lie and deceive women in order to get them to have sex with you. Him asking that woman if she prefers complete honesty and then thought it was a gotcha moment because she admitted she wouldn’t want to go out with a guy if he told her he only wanted to go out with her to fuck her. Like sir, that’s just her standard. She wants to date men who want what she wants. She is entitled to reject a man who just want to use her for sex. That doesn’t mean she doesn’t really like honesty. Just because a man was honest and didn’t get what he wanted in the end doesn’t negate that women do want honesty. We love honesty. That doesn’t mean your honesty should always be rewarded with sex, you damn sociopath.

[@Haiphong778]

Please leave the rest of us out of whatever category of freaks that guy in the video belongs in. That's not a man thing, he has problems and so does everyone who thinks like him.

[@anderson-gb8rp]

If you're good looking you can literally say and do whatever you want, she would still hit on you, so that's that.

[@strawberrymilkshake3]

@@anderson-gb8rp anw who hurt you?

[@Fhalei]

@@anderson-gb8rp Good looking people, male and female, are given the benefit of the doubt more than folks who aren't traditionally attractive, but to suggest women give carte blanche to good looking man is the definition of a bitter man's fantasy. A hot guy with a repellent personality or motives can only get so far, bruh.

[@Kelema86]

@@strawberrymilkshake3 many, it seems.

[@violetvalentine999]

it's very relieving to see big internet personalities actually criticizing this garbage for what it really is instead of encouraging or tacitly approving it. the bar is subterranean

[@tonyonaperky2128]

Is it garbage because we talk about big female double standards? Cuz if you watch our other videos we ask women other series of questions. Why do they think of themselves as a prize while a man is a wallet? I don't see how that's garbage in the slightest

[@GregXHunterz]

Hasan said regarding "no means yes" but the way he framed it. "Chat, don't listen to this advice because you most likely can't read the room well." But we're taught that "no means no we can't assume anything." These girls are literally saying that "no means yes, you just gotta read the room." So basically they're telling us to ignore a verbal no (cuz it's said in a certain way) and continue doing it. But a firm no means stop. I'm sorry, what? Unless this is a rape or BDSM fantasy (which should be communicated long before the act is enacted even if you have to read it non-verbally.) we can't interpret one 'no' as a 'yes' cuz if we read that situation wrong, there's a lot that can go wrong. I'm honestly surprised Hasan didn't take that into consideration. Maybe it's just me. Communication is very important to me. If I hear no once, idc how you say it, I'm taking it at face value. It's not gonna be my fault if they feel sexually frustrated afterwords. Edit: I just watched the part where the girls said "no means yes" both Austin and Hasan cringed when they said that.

[@lesliwilliams6684]

@@GregXHunterz I feel like this is because a lot of men are lacking in empathy. You can't communicate well or gauge reactions. If a woman seems uncomfortable in front of you, then you should probably stop whatever it is you're doing. And not just 'taking things how she said it' because she's not okay. She's not comfortable. Move away!

[@Sarahi_Drawz]

@@tonyonaperky2128 imagine liking your own comment lmao

[@tonyonaperky2128]

@@Sarahi_Drawz I didn't. But imagine having a point with that as yo profile picture

[@biz0unc3]

These are the same people that love to remind everyone how nothing is fair, there are no guarantees, and that you're not owed anything.

[@Cheezeblade]

Sad part is most therapists will tell you those patients don’t believe it. They do believe they are owed something but because they don’t get it they tell everyone else that the world doesn’t owe anyone anything. What they really wanna say is “you deserve the same nothing that I got”

[@JoeyJoeJoeJr.Shabadoo]

@@Cheezeblade well said.

[@JayIngemar]

I’m not sure if I understand your comment. The world is unfair. You don’t decide where you’re born, who you’re born to or what prerequisites that gives you. But most of us want the world to be as fair as possible. The sad thing is that there is no way to fix it because our planet doesn’t have the resources for 9 billion people to live a middle class lifestyle. Humanity is a steadily growing cancer that can only survive if we kill off at least 80% of the world’s population. A necessary evil if you will. Also some are born more attractive than others and that sparks jealousy and hatred. Nature in itself is unfair!

[@postmodernmarxistnihilist4282]

@@Cheezeblade that's a sad existence.

[@dark_nightwing_xl2797]

@@Cheezeblade tf?

[@kathrynschultes9315]

The irony of asking a man wearing a thick sparkly chain about a gender spend gap is so funny

[@jewellry]

youre smoking if you cant tell those are zircs

[@KT-pu3gn]

@@jewellry and how do they compare to womens jewelry money wise?

[@tonyonaperky2128]

For every man wearing a big chain there is a woman spending on a bigger chain. And that's not irony at all

[@KT-pu3gn]

@@tonyonaperky2128 so you see women with bigger chains?

[@tonyonaperky2128]

@@KT-pu3gn I lived in Miami for 8 years, not only did I see bigger chains, bigger everything. Thing is, a lot of it wasn't their money. It was the child support money. Or their husband or one of their side niggas money

[@Heeroneko]

I don't think this guy realized that a lot of the ppl he's interviewing are drunk n think he's jus doin meme shit.

[@tonyonaperky2128]

I don't think you realize that these everyday people are the majority

[@Heeroneko]

@@tonyonaperky2128 Yes and they're drunk and/or high as fuck. lol That said, yes a lot of average everyday ppl do fall into this kind of mindset for real unfortunately.

[@SomeKata]

@@Heeroneko tony is a incel editor for this video, and crying that everyone is in incel, he wasn't agreeing with you in the same capacity at all.

[@Heeroneko]

@@SomeKata I know, but I find responding this way confuses ppl into thinking more.

[@SomeKata]

@@Heeroneko lmao

[@CandlelitScares]

Speaking to women has always been incredibly nerve-racking for me because I'm pretty behind when it comes to social development due to a speech impediment that only recently started being managed. I can really only do it if I'm obliterated off alcohol otherwise my anxiety personality sticks out like a sore thumb and my stutter gets way way worse. Like a debilitating stutter not the regular nervous stutter people get. Thankfully I never fell down the PUA/incel/manosphere stuff but I really hope one day I have enough self confidence to speak to women without having to be intoxicated

[@em.415]

As a woman just be kind to yourself. Maybe there are treatments/counseling to help. Remember women also deal with social anxiety, speech impediments and neuro-divergent issues too. Even the hot ones. Women are just humans like you.

[@mark-gj4mb]

If you never fall into those dark pits and stay honest, friends and relationships will come naturally my boy

[@hlnolvrgo_c]

my advice is to try to make female friends first, and then try to go to the romantic route when you can finally comfortably talk to women (they dont need to be the friends u made, make friends w/ them for reasons other than dating)

[@flowersinawasteland]

any askers?

[@melanievictoria2541]

I feel you so much. For me it's always been nerve-wracking to talk to men because I was and still am incredibly anxious.

[@sorchara9119]

he literally has the confidence to talk to strangers the only thing in his way is his ego, entitlement, attitude, and compulsive hatred

[@scifirealism5943]

Lol.

[@rodgergold5473]

You do realize that these questions are society based questions and not his right?

[@sorchara9119]

@@rodgergold5473 do you genuinely believe that lmao

[@rodgergold5473]

@@sorchara9119 1.He LITERALLY states in his comments that these are society based questions 2.If you even go outside these are obviously society based questions you incel

[@minaberric4069]

@@rodgergold5473 there are endless societal questions being asked and the ones he decided to choose for his video were garbage and bordering harassing people on the street and grocery store in order to provoke stress and emotional responses

[@ashmac4924]

The difference between being too blunt vs. being honest is how you communicate your intentions behind what “truth” you are sharing. Are you sharing it in a kind way? Are you sharing it in a sensitive way?

[@tonyonaperky2128]

Seems like women can't tell the difference anymore

[@johnnyray9107]

@@tonyonaperky2128 I don't think it's an "all women" problem if you and your buddies can't communicate your intentions without scaring women off.

[@tonyonaperky2128]

@@johnnyray9107 Problem is, is that women have become paranoid because of Tv, movies, commercials, and feminist ran organizations

[@tonyonaperky2128]

@@johnnyray9107 Men are very clear of their intentions.. however.. women aren't.

[@johnnyray9107]

@@tonyonaperky2128 Women are paranoid because of the very real amount of violence that happens to them. I don't like to talk about all women or all men in such broad terms because I don't always find it useful to most contexts but women as a group are subject to a lot of violence from men. They should be cautious as long as there is a possibility they could be hurt or killed.

[@Heeroneko]

As a neurodivergent person, no will always mean no unless we're doin some roleplay n we got a safeword.

[@Stannis221B]

Same

[@inflorire]

We love to hear it

[@GregXHunterz]

Yes this!

[@tatiana4050]

And silence doesn't mean yes. And often no, no, no, no, no, OK fine. Is actually a no.

[@alexjohnson9798]

what does being neurodivergent have to do with it?

[@KonkeyVG]

Some dudes literally just need friends who are women. Hasan jokes about assigning sexual partners, but unironically assigning a female friend would be great for some guys. Boys are raised with the idea that girls are completely different and imperceptible, having an platonic woman friend completely demystifies that conditioning.

[@KooKlee_Unlocked]

thats not how it goes, if you are friends with a woman who is good looking and you are not then you will wanna fuck her but she wont let you, if yo uare attractive and she is not, she will wanna fuck you and you wont let her, if you are both attractive then youll fuck, if you are both unattractive then youll fuck, there are no platonic relationships between men and women, the only "friendships" between men and women are threw bussiness, if the girl is a friend of your girlfriend and stuff liek that, if you dont accept that then you are lying to urself

[@corbin_fleshman8786]

100% we need to get these men out of the mindset that females are an entirely different species because they will treat them as such. One of the best things I learned from female friends is that they are literally just humans too and they want to be treated that way, typically they don’t want you to view them as another species and put them on a pedestal or put them down. They’re just a person they could be nervous too, but importantly they want to be loved like the rest of us, treat them as such.

[@johnwilliams655]

The differences are generally too drastic. Some homeless guy from the hood is going to have an easier time relating to Prince Harry than he would trying to relate to a hood girl (and of course Harry would be able to relate to a hood hobo more than he could ever relate to Megan or Kate).

[@KonkeyVG]

@@johnwilliams655 This is exactly what I mean about demystifying. I used to think something similar, before I had normal platonic friendships with women.

[@kali7055]

@@johnwilliams655 That makes no sense? Go find a girl to be friends with, who has similar interests, since not all girls are the same. There are so many women with more “masculine” interests, who share those interests with male friends. I play video games and go drinking with the homies. Some of my female friends go skateboarding or hiking with male friends. In my mixed gender friend group we’ve watched football games or “nerdy” movies together. Women are just people bro, once you are close to one as a friend, you’ll realize she isn’t much different than your male friends.

[@JStack]

06:00 I have Autism and many books recommend a similar tactic. Best Kind Practices, be upfront with your situation, and ask questions. Neurotypical people typically ask “am I going too far?” Or something similar while actually being ready to get upset if you say yes. When I ask if I’m being unenjoyable, asking inappropriate questions, oversharing, etc. it’s because I’m actively trying to be considerate and learn how you prefer to converse. The limits of my language mean the limits of my world. - Wittgenstein Part of that involves clarifying what “language,” is to whom you’re speaking with

[@readingtips2690]

Let's be Honest We knew it kzbin.info/www/bejne/omnXnWShapWIl8U

[@zg6253]

Could I get the names of the books I’d love to read them

[@veenoir1991]

The worst part is for me is I start to feel like I'm being annoying or I think that people think I'm stupid because I'm asking seemingly obvious questions lol

[@JStack]

@@zg6253 Autism in adults is the most recent one I read. I remember some of the tips but not the title from when I was a teen but I believe it was along the lines of “understanding if your teen has Asperger’s” or something along those lines, it was 10 years ago now and I couldn’t find it with a quick Google

[@JStack]

@@veenoir1991 I have been there. I coped by assigning a level of bad to different social situations. For instance it feels bad to ask a question about how you’re behaving to have it be treated as obvious, so I gave it a 3. The level of bad from not asking and creating a really awkward situation was like 6 or 7, and potentially losing a friend over the fear of not asking was the worst case at 10. This is entirely anecdotal and up to you, but it helped me greatly when it came to the “smaller,” social misques

[@unovasfinest2623]

*normal well-adjusted man casually owns incel without knowing what's going on* 😂

[@hmhart89]

"when is the last time a girl asked a guy on a date" is the best self own I've heard in a while.

[@alexjohnson9798]

90% of men have never been asked on a date by a woman. What are you talking about?

[@cernkoc]

@@alexjohnson9798 well you livin under a rock or something then

[@christiancastro7516]

@@alexjohnson9798 bro is telling on himself 💀 you've never once had a friend who was a girl ask to go to get coffee? See a movie? Hang out? Jesus 90%? Really?💀

[@jahoytodiesforahoy4615]

@@alexjohnson9798 pfft a simple Google search actually shows that through dating apps (which is currently the easiest way to poll this stuff) despite roughly 80% of the user base being male, 65% of men are asked out by women. Women are finally picking who they want instead of a waiting for some shitty suitor to come and buy her, if a girl doesn't ask you out it's probably because you need to work on yourself.

[@alexjohnson9798]

@@jahoytodiesforahoy4615 lol this kind of rhetoric is literally killing men. "You've never been asked out by a girl? That's so weird. It's probably because you're a shitty person. The stats say that you're a loser"

[@aaronbonita2042]

Couldn't open a bank account until the late 20th century, but can say no so they're privileged.

[@tonyonaperky2128]

When a woman hits a man and he fights back he gets arrested. Not him. When a woman makes a claim, he is arrested with no evidence. Even when innocent he is still wrecked with a record. A woman doesn't have to work in a relationship and is still entitled to the children and the house.

[@onemore4567]

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 oh lawrd

[@liamk2]

@@onemore4567 saw u now under 3 or so comments happy to know there are more lurkers like me that just scroll thru comments

[@onemore4567]

@@liamk2 I'd love to relate to you as well unless you're one of them incel lurkers 💀 then we're on completely different pages

[@liamk2]

@@onemore4567 nono 😭I'm sorry if it came off that way I just meant scrolling through comments lurking around

[@catamscott]

the other side of that "pussy privilege" (which i don't even really agree with anyways) is dealing with near constant objectification. my partner tells me she's constantly stared at and checked out, which sometimes escalates to catcalling and harassment. who would even want that kind of attention?

[@johnwilliams655]

She considers casual glances objectification because most of the guys doing it aren’t attractive. Even if the catcalling is a real thing and girls can’t go outside without guys trying to hit on them (which contradicts the narrative that guys don’t go for average girls), it still beats being death stared and sneered at. Keanue Reeves can’t go anywhere without people asking for photos and autographs, I’m sure it’s tedious at times but it beats being a regular person.

[@xJackDarkStonex]

@@johnwilliams655 you changed "stared at" with casual glances bc you're being dishonest. Staring is different than glances. About the attraction thing btw, I've been stared at by people i think are ugly and don't feel harassed, and I've also been made extremely uncomfortable and sexually harassed by someone i thought was actually really hot. But he was being too forward and it scared me. It's about how you do it, wake up.

[@catamscott]

@@johnwilliams655 like the other person commented, it's all about how you do it. she's had traditionally handsome guys stare at her or violate her space and push her boundaries and none of it is okay or acceptable because they are traditionally attractive. she recently had someone she didn't find attractive ask her out after having a conversation about a mutual interest, and she wasn't offended at all because he was really respectful and didn't make her feel uncomfortable or threatened. i see you mentioning incel talking points and also want to say, as someone who has gone down that rabbit hole a bit in the past, that it's only making your pain, anxiety and unhappiness even worse. i used to feel really angry towards people who were outgoing and attractive and had healthy social lives, because i struggled with really bad social anxiety and self-esteem issues and felt like the irredeemably ugly, unloveable and unfixable person you might also feel like. the reality is that there's no clear cut ugly and attractive groupings of people, and that if you identify and address the feelings that your anger is masking then you can finally let go of it and move forward with your life. for me, my anger was masking my feelings of intense loneliness, hopelessness, and body image issues. it's easy to stay stuck in that mindset because it's comfortable and doesn't make you acknowledge the terribly painful feelings you have, but it's so necessary to truly begin to be happy. it's not your fault that you have you those painful feelings or that anger, but the unfair truth is you're the only one who can do anything about them. so, if any of that rings true for you, try and love yourself, positively challenge yourself and let go of the anger and you'll do just fine.

[@dark_nightwing_xl2797]

@@catamscott you need to chill

[@wellheck1377]

@@dark_nightwing_xl2797 ? they seem pretty chill. no yelling in that comment.

[@ThungStudios]

Stuff like this is a good example of why we need more education on what "privilege" actually is, along with the concept of intersectionality.

[@muertesdulces]

the editor to the incels video is in these comments fighting with everyone and saying these views do not express their own although it seems like he's fighting incredibly hard to defend their questions. i did ask him for a definition of what the hell "pussy privilege" was and an example of how women use their vaginas as "means of control" like he responded to another commenter and he refused to answer it lmaooo. these incels don't even have a definite answer to the bullshit they say, they evolved a quarter of a critical thought and then ran the rest of the way with their hatred towards women. they aren't interested in actually making people think critically or even intelligently, notice how most of the time after asking a question he answers his own for them with "because ____ right?" they're just trying to find people who are easy to pursuade like the two idiots who didn't answer any question for themselves and just said MANNNNNN THATS TRUUUUE after everything he would say. they speak like it's fact and pose it like the only correct way is to agree with them. men like this aren't interested at all about learning what privilege actually is and laugh at the concept of intersectionality because "i get no pussy and it's their fault" >:|

[@alexjohnson9798]

no thanks

[@DanzelGlovington]

Yes please

[@Soulraven2735]

The famous RoachDoggJr is based, confirmed?!?!?!

[@jb1996]

why do these incels think we want them to spend money on us? we just want a healthy emotional connection. jesus.

[@Blank85289]

I’m gonna say it “not all women” there is women out there that use men for money, so guys tend to get defensive about it.

[@hlogilehlogonolo5438]

Majority of women except for you if you are one will never pay on the first date

[@jb1996]

@@hlogilehlogonolo5438 i’m a woman, yep. it comes down to everyone’s personal value systems and cultural expectations. i lay out the framework before a date (where should we go, what’s the vibe, are we going dutch etc). it’s a foolproof way to make sure the person you’re going on a date with has similar values, and that you’ll both have a good time! and hey, one of us might insist on paying for the other at the end of the date, but that’s a good segway into “i’ll get the next one.” instant second date without the awkwardness, woohoo!

[@jb1996]

@@Blank85289 sure, there’s always going to be people out there that use other people for their own gain. i’ve dated some men that have used me for sex and then ghosted me. it hurts for a while but you live, you learn, wise up through experience and develop a clear idea of your expectations through those interactions. building resilience is a byproduct of giving things a go.

[@andrejpejcic2070]

Because you do want that that's why.

[@TrentonF505]

These people are just trying to have fun in Vegas and he’s killing the mood lmao

[@lennycrew3]

The talking point tree observation and her explanation of the difference between being too blunt and being honest was 🔥

[@scottpeugh7066]

I’m old, below average looking and neurodivergent but I like and respect women. I’ve never been alone more than a few months at a time. What’s wrong with these dudes? Rage isn’t sexy fellas.

[@onemore4567]

the difference between you and the guys is that you probably treat women like people and respect us, and therefore, women around you reciprocate that energy and get in relationships with you. These guys cant relate to seeing wonen as equal human beings

[@seekchristwithin4464]

@@onemore4567 Stupid lying comment. Lots of men respect women and cant get anyone due to poor looks/status. I know many men who hate women, find them annoying and disrespect them but still get a lot due to good looks/status/money.

[@gh0stcup]

I'm below average looking, neurodivergent, bisexual and alone. Teach me your ways!

[@tonyonaperky2128]

@@onemore4567 Your problem is that thinking people ate gonna respect you despite hardly giving off respect yourselves. Which is what this channel is. You don't want to be treated like humans, you want to be treated as though you're never wrong. As though every word you say is smart and intelligent.

[@tonyonaperky2128]

@@onemore4567 "These guys cant relate to seeing women as human beeings" we can. We just expose a lot of stupidity. Which is why women hate it. You believe that to call a woman out on stupidity, it's disrespectful. As though you're never wrong. You're statement is false. We can treat women like human beings. We just aren't going to say and do things that always make women feel good. Which is ultimately what you want. Your idea of reciprocate is really to let women spew bullshit and you'll be rewarded with something. No one feels entitled to sex.

[@AdamantiosKuphos]

If the offer of dinner and good behaviour is being used in a strictly transactional manner in exchange for sex, then you're not trying to have a connection with someone, you're just trying to buy sex, and unless you're a sex worker, most people aren't selling.

[@NateTheGreat2399]

Love that you chose Kaitlin Bennett as a tradwife for that edit because this entire video felt like a Liberty Hangout spinoff

[@dontlookatmyname5439]

20:35 i really thought "why do women spend more on housing?" and the next second the image of the tv stand, tv, bare mattress on the floor and the subtext "all a man needs" fucking flashed into my mind

[@LordDarkur]

if they're income is lower then they'd have less to spend on the other things increasing the overall percentage of housing.

[@realityandnaturepill]

Which was the whole point the interviewer was making, Hasan made a strawman argument. The point being made was not so much who spends more but rather why they spend as much. A man doesn't need all that much to be content but would spend a lot more if that may help him in dating life (getting the pussy), for example the man with the chains in the video.

[@banquetoftheleviathan1404]

I would imagine it's more to live in "safer areas.

[@petitechiroptera1347]

I can’t with “pussy privilege” 😭 It’s literally just a roundabout way of saying you lack self discipline and you’re a slave to the flesh.

[@blake..-]

:( this makes me so sad. I’m sorry that men think this is normal

[@tonyonaperky2128]

No one said it's normal

[@stormoscar2628]

Men don’t think this is normal, this dude and some other losers on 4chan/discord do. This happens with women too hating men and making them some evil assault machines, the internet is isolating people and social media is bringing people into these harmful echo chambers.

[@RAm-gv4vw]

@@tonyonaperky2128 no shit, Blake is obv talking about a certain group of people in our society think it’s normal, obviously it’s not normal in a society as a whole

[@yurilopes420]

really isn't all men tho this is honestly embarrassing and we're aggressively regressing with giving these fucking troglodyte degenerate morons a platform, but whatever. at least the girls were there to put him. in his place

[@patchybeardopinions9340]

What exactly do we think is normal?

[@drguthrie7621]

Yes women want men to be honest but that doesn't mean you can be a creep, being a creep and doing weirdo incel behavior at girls overrides the honesty because you are just demeaning them usually

[@drguthrie7621]

It is at a point where I feel like schools should have like empathy classes or something, because the number one thing you can do to have fulfilling relationships, any kind of relationship, is be kind

[@kylemendoza8860]

The biggest thing that red pilled me. Was when I found out how much of a creepyard depends on how hot you are.

[@kylemendoza8860]

@@jl2280 Funny story. A more heavy set woman was all over me at the bar. Kissing, touched my butt. Put her boobs in my face. Her friends and my laughed it off. But anyways. There is nothing wrong with women being attracted to certain men. There's nothing wrong with women having a type. Say when I coworker buys a flowers to cheer you up. If he's hot is it good gesture. If you don't find him attractive. It's creepy. That's a problem. If you have attitude because I don't find you attractive how dare you even speak to me. That's some narcissism that needs to be stamped out.

[@kylemendoza8860]

@@jl2280 By the way men are socially criticized for rejected women all the time.

[@scifirealism5943]

I've asked women if they want to take my virginity. Somehow, I'm creepy.

[@CarlyonProduction]

Those two women did a fantastic job explaining the intricacies of interpersonal relations. There is a lot of nuance that the left and right completely erase.

[@NidorinoAlliance]

I think the left can do this. With things like “affirmative consent”. Where constantly asking “Am I going too far? Are you okay with going forward? Is this uncomfortable?”, while well-meaning and preferable to not asking for any kind of consent, can in fact kill the mood. Or ruin some positive moment for the both of you. I do think asking direct questions and answers is best practice though, if you truly do feel lost or uncomfortable. It’s good for growing those social skills.

[@malerieglasser5276]

20:39 "Dudes will literally be out here like, 'women be shopping' and then spend $350 on a fucking SHOE they waited three hours in line for" 😂

[@tonyonaperky2128]

And you spend $600 of OUR money on a purse 🤣

[@guellaliguemra2321]

​@tonyonaperky2128 You mean to say that women don't work and make money and buy their own sruff? You mean to say there are no broke men living off their female partners? You know, the same broke men you tell women to choose better than them? But I thought you were about the facts 😑 Incel logic.

[@johnnyray9107]

"Would you rather men be truthful or tell you what you want to hear" does not imply that women will agree with whatever you have to say truthfully. If I say I think the interviewer is on some Intel shit, he doesn't have to agree just because I'm being honest.

[@duqial]

How is having an ability to bare a child (not the most beneficial for one's body) and have period(often painful experience) and sometimes be able to say no and notoriously get disrespected, because oh you take it called a privilege? lmao

[@charlesm.2604]

Because in their twisted minds they are constantly being told by griefters in their eho chambers that "pussy power" is a real thing. As a guy you also set the rules, it's a biderectional concept. That's how human beings create healthy relationship dynamics, by creating bounderies. You have to be so desperate and down bad to accept whatever a girl is requiring you to do just so you can get your dick wet. In the real world, if a girl asks you to do shit you don't want to do, you don't do it. Same goes for her.

[@tonyonaperky2128]

No, it's a privilage to use it as a means of control. That's what he meant

[@livinglux9107]

@@tonyonaperky2128 and yet WHO GIVES IT CONTROL buddy lmfao

[@charlesm.2604]

@@tonyonaperky2128 What control ? Refuse you Pepega

[@tonyonaperky2128]

@@livinglux9107 It's not given. But it can't be taken away. If we take it away that would result in r4p1ng people.

[@jonathancangelosi2439]

“Hey, I think you’re attractive and I’d like to hook up with you” is honest, but most people are going to refuse because of a few reasons. 1) You’re revealing your intentions so quickly that there’s no way for interest to build over time. 2) It suggests that you only want to use their body for sexual pleasure, which is a turn off for most people. 3) It comes on way too strong and may signal desperation or laziness because you’re not putting any real effort into getting to know the person, you’re just trying to speedrun getting laid. None of this is to say that you have to lie or hide your intentions, but there are ways to convey sexual interest that don’t have these issues.

[@thelegalsystem]

Just a minute in and Austin and Hasan are cradling their head in their hands. That's content baby.

[@snuffmeister6720]

tbf thats the only acceptable reaction right there, like a natural bodily reaction to high level cringe

[@thelegalsystem]

@@snuffmeister6720 that's what I'm saying. Good (insane) content makes good (funny) content.

[@snuffmeister6720]

@@thelegalsystem very true,also kinda sad

[@villadavid164]

You're doing the "lord's" work. Hopefully this will help a lot of guys who feel like they don't know how to approach woman. Also, men should keep expectations in check. The part about a pussy speed run basically nails it.

[@logicandemma8474]

Why is lord in queatition mark

[@Jorge-np3tq]

What about the ones that actually don't know? People need training.

[@noonecares3627]

@@logicandemma8474 Probably not religious

[@veenoir1991]

@@logicandemma8474 wtf is a queatition mark? Lol jk

[@vexify3357]

atheist btw Xd

[@Liz-kj2jj]

It is genuinely heartwarming to hear how much you guys get it - that attraction isn’t transactional or fixed, and that no one is entitled to anything from a date. Should be a pretty simple concept but unfortunately not for an alarming amount of people

[@flowersinawasteland]

incels outside? impossible.

[@rando3939]

Recon teams sent to the surface to gather incel intel

[@IFlowState]

@@rando3939 that sounds nice on the tongue “incel intel”

[@jaydenlee9431]

@@rando3939 LOL the "Inceltute", like from fallout 4.

[@havefaith4382]

i thought your pfp was faith from mirror's edge i was about to call u cultured

[@fnord3125]

"Does it get any more priveleged than that? Being approached?" seriously, guy? you think literally THE MOST PRIVILEGED you can be is that society expects that men ask women on dates???

[@fnord3125]

i'm not even sure i would called that privileged AT ALL, let alone THE MOST privileged. a lot of women probably feel like they can't approach a guy they like but have to wait and hope that he approaches them. that sucks. plus they probably get approached by guys they don't like all the time, which at best is awkward, at worst dangerous. it's such an incel-y point of view to think "being approached" is the height of privilege.

[@allisons6910]

being approached by the #1 cause of women's death to boot, but never approached for what matters like upper management/leadership roles/promotions - unless it's to fill a diversity quota

[@TheHestya]

@@allisons6910 YES!

[@justwannabehappy6735]

Well, I wouldn't say it's the most privileged, but I sure whish I would be approached by women. It would certainly boost my neurodivergent self-esteem. But yeah, I wouldn't call that a material privilege

[@reaverkai]

Take a shy/smiley/giggly "no" or "stooop" as straight up no. A harsh no is tough to say if the reaction to rejection can be dangerous. Even with men who you know will listen, confrontation is hard, we are socialised to be pleasant and it's a continuous effort to go against those self preserving instincts of not making men angry

[@msbanshee2979]

In a world where men think; women wear make up for them, go to the gym for them, show any amount of skin is for them, just existing in a social space is for them. But us saying no is a privilege? Oh, OK. 😌

[@hlogilehlogonolo5438]

Why do women wear makeup

[@msbanshee2979]

@@hlogilehlogonolo5438 for literally everyone but men, was that not clear?

[@yungmetr0135]

@@msbanshee2979 if you go on a date with a guy you're putting make up on for other women?

[@therealdeal2278]

@@yungmetr0135 you’re putting it on for yourself, because it makes you feel better about yourself. Anything else is a nice bonus, but not the reason you do it.

[@yungmetr0135]

@@therealdeal2278 do you wear makeup inside the house

[@LJStability]

I love how every incel thinks that every interaction has to be about sex. No man. Sometimes, I just want to hang out and spend time together. Not everything is about doing your duty to get the booty brother. Just chill

[@tonyonaperky2128]

Than why is it that females always say "You don't get any bitches" or in other Hasan comments, people say "You sound like you've never had sex". Yall literally the most hypocritical people of all timen

[@IAmContemporary]

Just because the women said they preferred honesty doesn't automatically mean that being honest will make them give you what you want. I want you to be honest, doesn't mean I'll agree with you when you are. Honesty isn't transactional. "I''ll only be honest if you promise me that..." That's like a kid setting the cat on fire and then starting off with the "Okay I'll admit it but you have to promise you aren't gonna get mad".

[@kris.........]

Everything for these people is transactional.

[@ohno4435]

There's a difference between being completely honest and being way too honest all at once.

[@scifirealism5943]

Yes. You gotta have boundaries.

[@edithputhy4948]

it's called tact, there's no excuse to be a total fµcking as$hole under the guise of "brutal honesty"

[@Mienarrr]

I absolutely love the first dude they interviewed. Didnt take the interviewers weird question and just shut him down lmao „Personally I dont need to lie to get laid“ King

[@razor8191]

I don’t know why anyone would create an entire KZbin channel dedicated to broadcasting their insecurities and thinly veiled misogyny. These kinds of dudes need a real hobby.

[@Phalanx167]

Let's be real. Good D comes with privilege too. I've seen how some guys control women because of how badly said woman desired the man sexually. It can and does happen. Men can be sexual manipulators too.

[@xxranger7]

Yes!

[@Vindicador01]

yes but thats very very rare women have inmense power

[@Phalanx167]

@Vin01 If you only pay attention to the 8/10+ women, like most of pop culture it may seem that way, but that's also the definition of myopic. Watch the 8/10+ men and you will see much of the same behavior.

[@Vindicador01]

@@Phalanx167 maybe but that type of men are very rare compared to women also a 6/10 woman have more power in that regard that a 6/10 men also compare a regular 20 yo male to a 20 yo woman and you will see a very big difference.

[@Ursmoov]

Dudes like him are just upset women have the power to say no to insecure men like him.

[@dark_nightwing_xl2797]

So what lol? Everyone can have power

[@havefaith4382]

@@dark_nightwing_xl2797 wat

[@Vindicador01]

The power is more than that is a difference in interest and sexual drive remember that the worth of a man in society is how much attractive he is to women is so insane that guys have to left hobbys like anime and stuff because majority of women dont like that.

[@htown11465]

"the gender spend gap" - my experience is that women are expected to spend more on makeup, haircuts, health products (tampons, birth control), as well as clothes, etc. Yeah there is a gender spend gap, but it doesn't work the way these incels think it does. If anything, that is a reason why women should be paid more than men.

[@muertesdulces]

yes. it's an expectation and critique of women who dont upkeep their "femininity" by maintaining those things (how men have historically thought they should). also i do wonder if basic household items like toiletries and towels count into this because 9.9/10 it's a woman purchasing these things for the entire household.

[@hangukhiphop]

I agree on the biological functions part because nature was super unfair in that regard, but on looking your best that's your own prerogative.

[@johnwilliams655]

Birth control is as health related as cocaine or cigars. No man has ever expected or encouraged the purchase and use of makeup. When you’re only interested in dating 10/10 male model guys, there’s a false sense of competition when 100% of women are fighting over 10% of men, hence fakeup is “needed” to deal with the competition. Without any makeup or even showering, most girls could have a male partner for life within hours if they were prepared to settle for a guy merely 10-30% more attractive than themselves.

[@htown11465]

@@johnwilliams655 how is birth control as related to health as cocaine or cigars? Doctors prescribe birth control don't they - to both men and women now? If doctors prescribe birth control, why is it unrelated o health? Do doctors prescribe cocaine or cigars? Firstly, when did I say men expected the purchase or use of makeup? I didn't mention the gender of the people creating the expectation at all, did I? But secondly, NO man has ever expected the use of makeup? NO MAN? In the history of the world, you genuinely think that NOT A SINGLE MAN has ever expected a girl wear makeup? Do you really think that? Why do you talk about a woman getting a male partner for life? What has that got to do with wearing makeup? You don't think the reason women put on makeup is to find a partner do you? So you think a woman who puts on makeup before work is doing that, not so she feels like she looks good at work, but to find a partner? please, please, please let me know your answers to these questions. I am so intrigued by your point of view.

[@tonyonaperky2128]

@@muertesdulces Oh for fks sake, nobody expecting shit. Most men get the bottom of the barrel wmn but wmn still expecting the most out of men

[@CharlieApples]

The sock in the jeans question had me rolling on the floor, oh my goddd 😂 He ACTUALLY thinks that women would be attracted to that, he really thinks he’s figured it all out

[@444gothicgirl]

Honesty is good. That doesn’t mean it’s the only thing that matters. If someone very honestly tells me that they killed somebody. I’m not going to hang out with them.

[@inflorire]

Actually you have to have sex with them or you’re a hypocrite 🤓

[@Rcprobot]

This reminds me of a kid asking questions to a grown man when he’s talking to the black guy.

[@melammutumultus4654]

I'm so glad you are so supportive 💗 it sucks just to be approached on fuckability and not because of who you are as a person or your accomplishments. Never understood why it was ok to do the most intimate of acts right off and to abandon getting to know and appreciate who you were with because you are off to the next. Dude, you are literally sharing bodily fluids! So demented.

[@faery8826]

Asking “does no always mean no” is such a self report

[@7th808s]

incel content never gets old

[@seano1194]

24:00 this is not really true anymore, most women will pursue you and be direct if they're really into you. If you're always asking girls out and never getting asked out its probably bc they dont find u attractive

[@treekritter7522]

Yeah, fr. I feel like most of the time I'm intentionally very direct with men I'm interested in. Including also asking them on dates, planning dates, giving them the right signals, etc.

[@hangukhiphop]

That's just not true. Even the hottest guys who are the most successful with women admit that they're the ones who approach like 90% of the time rather than vice versa. There's been some change but not at the same pace as other changes because it's one of the few convenient feminine roles.

[@seano1194]

@@hangukhiphop they’re not really that hot then 💀

[@hangukhiphop]

@@seano1194 then no man is hot lmao women are shy af who are you trying to kid?

[@xxranger7]

@@hangukhiphop Women get slutshamed for approaching men.

[@StormTroy]

This shit is simultaneously so funny and so infuriating, because he acts like women never approach men that they're interested in, meanwhile, my current relationship and a majority of my prior relationships (at least the ones that lasted a significant length of time) came about because I was approached. Before we started officially dating my current girlfriend invited me out drinking with her and her friends and bought me plenty of drinks on those nights. It's almost as though women (and people in general) will like you if you're fun and pleasant to be around, and it's really not that hard to not be a bitter and angry and insufferable.

[@scifirealism5943]

His problem is he feels entitled to women he has no desire to be intimate with women

[@Vindicador01]

you are very lucky but regular men dont have that experience bro i thing you have very good looks

[@tigerfist341]

"It's almost as though women (and people in general) will like you if you're fun and pleasant to be around, and it's really not that hard to not be a bitter and angry and insufferable." I've never been approached by women in that way. And I've always had an easy time making friends, including with women. So yeah, can't agree there buddy, I get really tired of having to always initiate, lead and guess what the person is feeling about me.

[@tokebibi2555]

this man thinks the best thing to happen to a woman is being asked on a date wtf

[@Vindicador01]

is the best thing that could happen to men so he project that in fucking souless women

[@Ducklemon885]

No always means no. Unless you have prior agreements and conversations with that partner.

[@CamDollar]

I am not sure why this man thinks that because it's better for men to be honest about their intentions equals women having to consent to him as long as he's honest. It's the entire point of being honest, so that you avoid people who wouldn't consent to your true intentions. Plenty of women are down, others aren't, that's their choice for their body. The point is to avoid confusion. If a woman says she doesn't want to have sex with you, but get to know you and you agree to go on a date, but then you keep trying to get her to sleep with you that night, there is a huge chance that woman will think you're a creep and situations of coercion can occur. The point is to avoid situations like this all together. Yes, you're a creep if you are dishonest and play relationship just to get into specific women's pants. A really big one is also not lying about sleeping with other people, because to consent properly people need to know the risk involved in sleeping with you. Whether that risk is emotional risk or sexual health, that should be a very transparent thing in any sexual relationship so that people can properly consent to what could happen to their body if you're sleeping with lots of different people. If someone you're trying to have a sexual relationship asks you questions that could impact their consent to be sexual with you, you NEED to be honest, or else you're a creep. Being a lying cheater, if you're with a woman long term and you go cheat, then come back to your long term relationship like nothing happened, that person is not longer consenting to you because you're withholding information from them that you know would change their choice to consent to you, they also are not able to consent to their sexual health being at risk BY YOU because they don't know you're been with other people recently. This is a MORAL discussion, it doesn't always equal legal. Sure you won't go to jail over this sort of consent blunder, but are you a bad person with low morals? YEP. It isn't being a player, you're being a creep purposefully blurring consent lines where you feel most women would stop talking to you.

[@tonyonaperky2128]

Neither of us think that. We specifically stated in the disclaimer our questions do not reflect our beliefs

[@tonyonaperky2128]

@@WagieWagieGetInTheCagie Impossible how?

[@tonyonaperky2128]

@@WagieWagieGetInTheCagie Anytime I hear "women have been condition" he only thing that comes to my system.. is bullshit.. cuz women were programmed to be submissive. Women were programmed to be family oriented, women were programmed to be respectful. All that.. and wiped their ass with it. So when it comes to conditioning. That's a major set off to my bullshit sensor

[@mattsipple3000]

Absolutely amazing points. Will follow

[@keith7261]

It was weird for me because in high school, I was always the person who would just ask my partner, but then one person would get annoyed with me asking so I was just like confused on how I should even be in ‘intimate’ social interactions. But if you’re younger, people are gonna be odd and different since younger people are just trying to figure out their identity. Just be nice, and genuine, and if it doesn’t work out thats fine, things will work out eventually if you keep that same attitude. The whole “nice guys finish last” isn’t really a thing, because being nice to people will always lend positive results since you aren’t sacrificing integrity. That being said, there is a difference between being nice, and letting people walk all over you. Try to be considerate and trustworthy, and if you communicate with a partner about each other’s boundaries it should be alright. At the same time, work on yourself, and your own insecurities, and it will help you with maintaining fruitful and trustworthy relationships.

[@BoringTroublemaker]

As a woman who has dated many men and has been married to one for the last 15 years - I agree with this comment 100%. Everything you mentioned here is absolutely on point.

[@sydneywatkins3318]

I watch these red pill reactions and it just seems like the dudes not only feel entitled to women but they don't even treat them like human beings they refer to them like stock options or some shit its fucking psycho shit and its sad this is where our society is at

[@Vindicador01]

thats because women determine the worth of a man

[@christinecole6565]

I lost it with the "gender spend cap"! 😂 Some ppl are just tone deaf & cannot or choose not to read everyday social cues!

[@Christionem]

I feel bad for guys like this. They are victims in a way. Media hyper-focuses on sex and these guys attach their value of as person to it. It sad that every nice thing they ever do for a woman is (in their mind) payment for sex. They never get to enjoy the moment fully present.

[@Idolikethis]

Finally. This type of speech is coming out of a gay man and a straight man..I've never thought I'd see the day. I've been through a lot in this short life of mine.

[@joaorufino4952]

I believe that at this point these interviewees are so tired of this bullshit that they're just being sarcastic and making fun of this dude

[@ktsb1563]

"i feel like they can tell through body language and tone" i am here to tell you they cannot

[@oBlackIceo]

“Look, these people under the influence can’t form complete thoughts”

[@alieninthecaribbean]

The incel asked the women if they PREFERRED if a man was honest. He did not ask if they want to be sex workers, which is what exchanging sex for money, food, and favors is.

[@Lunar.Eclipsia]

*Why do you think some men feel the need to lie to women..?* Black dude: *"IDK man, sounds like a skill issue to me."*

[@dliap98]

i appreciate that girl explaining the difference between honesty in a kind way and honesty in a hurtful way. im so tired of "brutal honestly". can we not just collectively accept that being mean for no reason isn't cool and move on

[@emmafrididj5744]

How do these men not understand that just cause your being completely honest doesn’t guarantee anything . You can be completely honest and still say and suggest something people don’t want

[@nnicollan]

Thank you for educating the internet

[@sennataylor592]

10:31 this part made me laugh, Austin was so pissed by his answer he had to grab the keyboard and pause the vid

[@amoistyplow]

10:25 lol I love when you have Austin around. such a great duo

[@dliap98]

austin's face at 10:27 kills me. i love how mad he gets

[@macaronigrill9867]

Daily dose of great editing

[@Chillnote]

I honestly thought this video would be horrible but it turned out to be very informational

[@Nola1222Piano]

Thanks for the funny content Hasan, this made my day!

[@readingtips2690]

Let's be Honest We knew it kzbin.info/www/bejne/omnXnWShapWIl8Wd

[@andrejpejcic2070]

You must really have some shit days then.

[@starimari9971]

The ONLY time no doesn't mean no, is when another safeword has been established.

[@morbidmouse2]

Love how these street interviewers are like, "I'ma go out and have important topical debates and conversations with drunk people" and they get so proud when they dunk on feminism. 😂

[@dorothyknosby5648]

When you mentioned that a lot of the problem stems to interpersonal communication I 100% agree. That’s why I feel taking courses in linguistics or just learning about linguistics from anywhere (library, scholarly articles, etc.) is such a valuable thing. I’m in an English MFA program and a couple of courses I have taken already delve deep into how communication, in all forms, shapes the world around you. It will never make everything 100% clear, but it provides a good base of knowledge and understanding about discourse. It should really be put into higher importance in general education.

[@Bethannny]

What really pissed me off was the “pussy privilege” conversation. Pussy privilege is literally just another way of saying “women are only privileged and valued for sex”. Like men will treat women so nice and make the woman feel so loved when in reality all he wants is sex. That’s not privilege if anything it’s heartbreaking for so many women to realise the man you loved has just been using you.

[@b.w.6535]

Men like this think that if anything, no matter how small it is, benefits women then it completely negates the massively overwhelming number of times that things benefit men. It's like being pissed off that a poor person can afford to buy a used bike, as you drive to your custom-built 6 bedroom mansion in your Masarati.