Inside the Mind of a Narcissist: Understand Their Feelings for You

[@lindatallon9217]

People need to be educated on how many of them are out there.....society is INFESTED with these demons....

[@WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd]

They will kick you while you're down. They gain great pleasure in watching those they envy struggling, and enduring pain. They will disappear and become ghosts when you need them the most.

[@sabrinapetersen5358]

A narcissist is concerned about one person who is like this himself or herself! Certainly not you or anybody else!

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

Narcs are sadistic and get a thrill from others pain and suffering. They sleep well at night. Otherwise, they don't

[@taylorpresley4604]

Yep

[@exitingthematrix6302]

Absolutely 💯

[@mickmaphari6606]

You really don't want that kinda person creeping round your campfire. They'll not bring their pound of sausages to share but will try to steal or poison yours!

[@glenbateman5960]

Every Narcissist I have ever known loathes me. I've gone out of my way to make sure of it. Oddly, I no longer have any Nacissists in my life. Probably just a coincidence, but I'm not proud. I'll take it as a gift, all the same.👍

[@WendySwinford]

It's all petty aggressive bs

[@racebannon96]

Sooner or later, the narcissist will reveal what they are through their bad or destructive behavior. Narcissists love drama and chaos. Don't be too surprise when they try to pick a fight with you. Leave quietly, hope they get bored and leave you alone.

[@greta3315]

I have always wondered why they do not do normal! I’m learning

[@peterknyk1942]

They always, at some point or another, expose themselves…. and it can be literally painful to see, especially when love is part of the equation.

[@m998hmmwv7]

They love it until you direct it at them. Humiliation and giving them total disrespect is what they enjoy lol 😂

[@stardustdreams234]

​@@peterknyk1942exactly. I've already seen her true colors more than once, but my feelings fir her had me messed up. Well today I've had enough of her crap.

[@MB-tr8sq]

We That is the TRUTH !! Keep your distance, do not get involve in ANY WAY whatsoever...you will live to regret it!

[@m998hmmwv7]

The only thing I regret is not figuring them out sooner. 😂

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

​@m998hmmwv7 unfortunately, narcs don't always give their victims the luxury of seeing who they are in the beginning. They know they have to act in order to hold on to their victims

[@lisaz4411]

@@m998hmmwv7 Same❤

[@bretthorrell619]

While my narc has a multitude of characteristics typical of narcs, the one that best describes her is "CHAOS". The way she "reasons" or does things is inexplicable; and when questioned how she came to a certain conclusion, or why she did something, or why she did something a certain way, she looks at me blankly and can offer no explanation. Maybe I'm obsessive and critical, but sometimes I'm left completely dumbfounded!

[@dennisbyrne8706]

I just wished my narcissist would finally leave me alone. My narcissist finally stopped when this loser finally died.

[@SiateFeliciRealty]

NOT ALL COME BACK. MY EX WILL NEVER COME BACK, AND THANK GOD FOR THAT. HE IS FULL OF HATE AND ENVY.

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

You're lucky

[@JoelLeDon]

All good advice, but the problem is: A narcissists doesn't walk around with a sign on their forehead "Beware I'm a Narcissists". You only find out who they are during the last 2 stages you described, and by then it's too late.

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

The love-bombing stage is very telling as well. And there are ways to test a person in the early stages to alert you of the toxicity of an individual such as this one kzbin.info/www/bejne/hmfCZ2uJaKqqfdk

[@m998hmmwv7]

I ask people the question if they could make one change to themselves what would it be? The narcissist always replies none because they think they are perfect..

[@Lexi_gem]

You can see it the first two weeks lucky I only dealt with this hater a few months ago. He was jealous the whole time . He hates bubbly charming people he’s beyond jealous of everyone EVERYONE ! Least they are kissing his ass

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

That's true. Narcs are chameleons that's why

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

​@@m998hmmwv7it's arrogance, and they want others to go along with it

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

Narcs become bored easily and the thrill wears off

[@stephencharles1398]

I must have the exception to the rule

[@abbz23]

@@stephencharles1398 whst do u mean

[@stephencharles1398]

@@abbz23 don't belong says they become bored easily....ours shows a great deal of interest in making our lives a misery and spends a great deal of time plotting and planning how and when to do it.

[@kky.x]

@@stephencharles1398Sounds like another demon from hell. Mine thinks he can punish me by stonewalling but the jokes on him cause i get some fucking peace and quiet for once

[@stephencharles1398]

Evil things narcissists, we've had one on our backs for several years and wont leave us alone. The trouble it has caused is unbelievable. We used to be part of a close knit family but now we are on our own and subject to regular abuse, intimidation and threats of violence. I am amazed at the amount of time and energy this thing puts into place to make our lives a misery but shows no signs of stopping.

[@Lisa-t1n7l]

They're very vindictive. These people are hate-filled.

[@elizabethf9096]

They have evil spirits for sure

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

I'm not shocked because narcs are persistent

[@Lisa-t1n7l]

@@dontbelongherefromanother They hold grudges like no one's business. And accuse others of holding grudges, of course. My father did this to me constantly. Pure projection. Anyhow, they're good at holding grudges and blaming the wrong person.

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

​​@user-dn5bi4si5w of course narcs do, and you're correct that they project their issues onto others. They don't want to own them and projecting is a way for them to remove it.It's okay for the narc to hold grudges but they feel others shouldn't, particularly if it means cutting them off and ignoring them. What narcs term as holding grudges, is self-preservation and protection for their victims from exploitation, manipulation, harassment, gaslighting and abuse from the narc. Narcs make it appear as though their victims are coldhearted, hateful, bitter, and callous for choosing not to excuse their behavior and removing themselves from hostile situations. Narcs will also use biblical verses as a weapon to coerce and bully their victims to forgive and forget and give them more chances to screw them over, to no avail

[@shenequademeritte7654]

Went through all of this! It is sick!

[@cherrieguitar]

Me too

[@peterknyk1942]

It’s still making me sick and I’ve been doing it for a few years now so you’re not alone!

[@getrudemwaura946]

Surely having a Narc around anyone untoxic can be a nightmare. I dont need thiese Narcs anywhere around me. I have had enough of them. Having married one without knowing or having this info eventually got out . Now healing myself.🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕

[@a.williams9]

All so true, Clarice 💯. At this point I don't care what narcissists think about me, it's only projection of their own BS and that's their problem. Thank you for all your helpful content 🙏🏻💜

[@janettillman6486]

Love the information you provide, it is all so very true.

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

Thanks for watching!

[@puremaledark8305]

Keep them as far away as possible from people that matter to you. Provide no information. You hit the nail on the head.

[@Zidane9ful]

Phenomenal video . 🙏🏽🧡💛💯

[@peterknyk1942]

Unfortunately, to me, it still matters! She has done so much to try to break my self-esteem down and been so cruel… although I don’t think she will ever do anything kind ever again….(a part of me longs for that once upon a time connection….) it sometimes feels like I’m living the ramifications of the Stockholm syndrome…I’ve tried to have positive dialogue with my inner child, but it doesn’t seem to be enough….

[@destinylovetv2937]

I understand, been there, but that's because when the relationship starts, they see something they want, so they give you exactly what you need and want to get you in the position to use you. I know, you can't believe that what she showed you and how she treated you at first WAS NOT REAL. You will get through this. It may take some time, but you have to remember that who that person presented themselves to be was for selfish gain.

[@yvetteandjorgenlarsen9753]

​​@@destinylovetv2937100% true. I just went through this while not knowing what was happening, just that things seemed too good to be true, then a bit off, then started getting really hateful. I lost 18 lbs in 3 months from the stress. He started with love bombing and married me 2 months later, then started the destructive phase almost a month after our ceremony. By God's grace, there was mold in his house, which I was extremely allergic to, and it put me in the hospital-- so I had to leave! God rescued me! and while I was healing, I was talking about my experiences to a girlfriend and she mentioned narcissism, which I'd never heard of, so I looked it up. Then my KZbin feed picked up my Google search and popped up some videos explaining a lot of things about narcissism-- all of which I realized I'd just been subjected to. Thank God for this, also! So now I'm in the process of annulment, as it turned out Mr. Covert Narcissist was impotent... you can't make this stuff up. NOTE: I'm not talking about my sweet husband Jorgen whose name is part of my handle, as he is deceased.

[@JH-td4mn]

If you are able to go completely no contact then do so, because it will kickstart your healing. The cognitive dissonance will dissipate and you will be able to see the relationship for what it really was, grieve and move forward. Lots of self care and spending time with loving family and friends you trust but also with yourself, building your self esteem back up. Give yourself time.

[@theclown2393]

Honestly dude, get out of that situation quickly!!! You'll never find that right person for you as long as your stuck in that cycle. Go no contact and vet very carefully

[@elcee7800]

Hey, Peterk, we meet again! Remember me, your pen pal, elcee. 😃 As we cross paths and I read your comments I can tell you must have truly loved your woman and having her in your life. It’s so nice to hear a man open up about his feelings. It’s a shame she didn’t know what she had based on that alone, and worked with you on it. (Wished mine had your traits.) If she’s ‘fixable,’ you can always leave it up to hope and faith. It’s a paradox, we don’t know if we block all available options. I’m glad you’re still in the loop, nice to see and nice to hear from you! 🙂

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

For some narcs it doesn't take long, but others it may take longer for them to show you who they are. The ones who take longer catch you off guard, leaving you in shock. By that time, narc victims are deeply invested in the narc, making it more difficult to leave

[@LooseCan88]

well said

[@WendySwinford]

Pray 4 them then ,haters don't accomplish nothing but more blind evil

[@WendySwinford]

Doi

[@merigoribilli564]

We want to see Proven things. We dont believe in just words. Thanks

[@margaretvenson7595]

Thank you for a brilliant insights into this topic. This really resonate with me so much.

[@JoseDiaz-q4h4f]

Thank you so much, wow this is mine blowing inside, were learning, peace blessings and Respect 👊🎉🫂🙏

[@johndehaan2764]

Clear concise and very useful advise. Many videos on this topic indulge too much commentary on micro behaviours that anyone can have, but you discuss the core behavioural traits, which has allowed me to take steps to get out of my situation and minimise the anxiety and stress which I would be experiencing, whilst giving me the confidence to engage the other person effectively.

[@nerifterafrnam4682]

Clarice I find your expertise highly useful in filling the gaps from my past. This knowledge acquiring makes a mentality like carved out of wood

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

Wonderful! Thanks for listening.

[@greta3315]

Many thanks for this, Clarice. I needed this to help me deal with an extremely toxic narc “friend” You have helped me so much. You are an answer to prayer ❤

[@lencolgan987]

I always push back hard when I deal with then.

[@oesypum]

I married one, so what you say is true, case of been there, done that, and I have been happily divorced for nearly thirty years, however I find that I am having to deal with another, the club meets several times a month, at a number of these monthly meetings conversation is carried on in another language, other than English, many of the members are graduates, with degrees ranging from BA, to PhD, and in one case Habilitation. She attempts to dominate the conversation, invariably with a hard luck story, and views herself as superior to all present, most now ignore her, and she confines herself to engaging with the few, who will give her the time of day, this small pool of 'playthings' is dwindling, as they become wise to her, no one takes pity on her, despite her interminable efforts to engender the same, she will still be invited to join the conversation in the other language, forcing her to admit she hasn't understood what was said, this clearly she loathes, as she obviously finds it demeaning, and deservedly so, as it exposes her for the liar she is, but true to nature she cannot admit to being at fault, it's everyone else.

[@Dee-mj3pu]

Thank you! Appreciate your content!

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

My pleasure! Thanks for listening.

[@6time686]

More pure gold. Thank you Ms. Clarice.

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

Thanks for listening.

[@6time686]

@@ExposingtheNarcissist Yes ma'am. I have listened to all of them.

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

@@6time686

[@Just_Curious_Bae]

Thank you.

[@getrudemwaura946]

Thank You🌹🌹🌹🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕

[@sherylhunter4040]

I rarely got gifts from him. He used me. Allways said he’s Broke He wax married 5 times. Had 6 girlfriends. That I know of. He Spits in my face. Knocked me down on the porch. Burns my important things. Took a hammer 🔨 smashed everything I had. Pictures. Anything. I got health problems excruciating pain constantly anxiety stress depression PTSD. NOW. NIGHTMARE.

[@TavistockLiesBrainwashing]

Women love strong confident psychopaths 😅

[@OptimisticSaturnPlanet-yz8mc]

Your not alone.🙏🏾💜

[@lynnschaeferle-zh4go]

I had the bad luck to be with a covert malignant. He didn’t move on because he preferred pornography and the strip club. But he was angry because he was sick of me so he decided to alienate my kids. He didn’t like them loving me, and he knew nothing would hurt me more. He was right. And that was why I finally divorced. Too late to care about anything, including my lawyer ripping me off

[@michaelhollander]

You are a gem!

[@sism3028]

TRUE!

[@GuardianAngel..]

Present

[@charleshall3372]

Starts at 2:05

[@Mel-os3ld]

Ppls thought patterns can change.. can someone who has traits?

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

Yes a few traits can be adjusted you just need to put in the work and be surrounded by the right people.

[@tims9434]

Your words are too true Clarice. Its upsetting thinking about it

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

I appreciate your honesty and reflection on the topic. Peace and Blessings.

[@dawnmann4878]

I won!😂

[@operationgetthugs232]

No it doesn't.

[@markmervinpalmer1801]

✝️🤲❤️🇵🇰

[@PimplesZittie]

Not really just clicked bored he is a pos any ways

[@merletyler2233]

Hahaha

[@vanessamorey3812]

I love the discard!! The garbage took itself out!!! @_@!!! Yay!! 👏 👍 😂🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 🥂 🍻 WOOHOOO!!!

[@Ozymandias1111]

Thank you

[@ExposingtheNarcissist]

Thanks for listening!