Dear Claris all your video are very helpful and many thanks 🙏 ❤❤

The narcissist went to a family funeral and a baby shower. I didn't go to either gathering. He thought I would attend. He also sent a flying monkey to tell me he's not doing well. I blocked the FM, which is my uncle.

When they call themselves a God. That is scary

Erm. Yeah. Probably put your slippers on and walk away.

Spot on video, Clarice. Their manipulative tactics prove that they're fully aware of what they are doing. Thank you 💯

I think their are more reason to sleep deprivation of narcissist u just covered primary part I think it's their genes and some other reason.

What if your married to them

My Ex Husband did everthing that you listed except the Social Media. (He wasnt on Social Media) for the last 3 years that we were together, a Majority of the time, he would block my Phone Number, so that my Phone calls wouldnt get through to him. He used the excuae that it was something wrong with his Phone for the entire three Years, even after he had gotten a New Phone. The final year we were together, I almost stopped calling him completely, unless it was something really important.

It is my absolute belief that narcissism is a desperate defense mechanism against the underlying reality that the person has an underlying BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER

Helpppp, we have one heading to the white house in 1/20/2025. The Orange Menace strikes again!!

You are so right. I ended a relationship with a narcissist in 2012. It ended badly and I took strong measures to go no contact. I moved and changed my phone number. One day he saw me walking down the street. He pulls his car over jumps out of his car and becomes extremely confrontational on a public street. He demanded an apology from me and I got frightened. I told him that I was sorry that he felt hurt and then he let me go. He was very angry and I was very frightened. I had had enough and I sent him a registered letter telling him to not confront me on the street like that again and that I no longer wanted anything to do with him and that if he didn't respect these boundaries that I was going to seek legal action to set the boundaries. This was in 2012. Two days ago, 11/20/24, I was at work checking the voicemail and there was a message on my boss's voicemail for me from him. He said that I had told him that when he was ready to forgive me for him to call me. He then goes on to command me to call him back because he has a few things that he needs to talk to me about. I was SHOCKED and horrified that he hoovered me after 12 years of no contact. I didn't call him back nor do I plan to. I'm just going to ignore the calls. We have caller ID so I will just let it go to voicemail. The only reason why he has my work number is because he got me the job in 2002 and he knows my boss. My plan is to simply ignore him and not respond. If he forces me to respond then I will file a restraining order. He's out of my life and he's going to STAY OUT OF MY LIFE 😡

Thank you

WOW, BRILLIANT

Right on

Whatever my boss takes a day off he calls his secretary 14 to 15 times to see if everything is okay😂🤡

Started healing by listening to Clarice years ago I went into Beast mode and called out and abandoned all the toxic AHs most Narcs. The boundary gets crossed twice max. The 2nd is the dealbreaker and permanent. works wonders in quality of life.

Great content, Clarice! As a self-aware diagnosed narcissist, I do speak on this on my channel. The only thing I would add is that we know we hurt you, but so often because of our lack of empathy we don't know how much. I have a video on my channel that talks about this very subject actually, I would say it's 50/50, we know and we also don't know, we can't see things from other people's point of views, because of our low empathy. Sad but it's true, but they will do everything to avoid their lies being questioned, challenged or exposed. Thanks for all your helpful content.

Your usage of the terms, truth and reality are backwards. Reality is infinite, truth is subjective and fictional.

Going no contact and not allowing them to say what they wantna say they don't like it😂

No contact no matter what🎯

I cannot survive that I have an handicap that makes it me impossible to walk away 😢

No contact is the greatest healer and the greatest revenge and with most people it is the only answer 🙏

I refuse to agree AM is a narc. If I wanted I could have utilized him for my virtual pleasure but that’s not what I am looking for! I set him free and in return wants him to respect my space.

At 51,I finally realized that my mother is dangerous narcissistic person. This spring I am literally removing myself from the same state. I'm leaving literally everything I've done and built,to just have a chance of happiness before I die.

My nex was absolutely highly narky. She couldn’t care less. Already has new doormat They don’t care

They can't sleep unless they are in control of you If they are not in control they fly into rages

Look back or return back and turn to salt !

Do not call out their lies. It is a complete waste of time that brings you closer to being upset and reactive abuse happening. Stay away from these people if at all possible. Let them live on their planet. You are here on planet healthy with us! Stay strong everyone! Everything else in this video is spot on

Great video, Clarice. They will do everything to avoid their lies being questioned, challenged or exposed. Thanks for all your helpful content 👍🏻💯

this is truuuuuuue. My husband ddint talk to me for 2 months just sayung hi/hello cos he said he is mad. Until he said, "I dont need you anymore. I will take holiday without you cos I wanna punish you"😅 What I did? No answer and do the same!😋

They just keep talking over you, and they only talk about themselves. Some of them gossip too much and talk to their flying monkeys. Just don't entertain them at all.

I was lifelong friends with a narcissist who hooked up and married a sociopath. The sociopath did not want to marry her but like all sociopaths he was a parasite so without her money and her home, he had nowhere to stay except with mom and dad. She said marry me or you’re out so of course he said, yes. She went on Facebook and told the world that he was hiding the ring in the house For her to find. There was no ring. She made the ring from a necklace she had. It’s so pathetic. I’m embarrassed to be typing the story. My narcissistic ex friend had an alternate reality that she lived in. The sociopath would abuse her and treat her like dirt but the narcissistic friend cared more about her image and what people in her community thought of her so while he was abusing her she’d post on Facebook how happy they were. it was beyond twisted. She would literally call me crying and raging about how he had just done something awful and then I would hear for another friend of mine that she was posting how happy they were. I’m not on Facebook so I never was able to confront it that way, so I did it in person and over the phone. She said she felt people lived vicariously through her life. Oh my gosh, I can’t believe I didn’t end the friendship at that time, but I felt bad for her. I participated in that shared fantasy if you wanna call it that. The only way I could remain her friend was to go along with her delusions that they were happily married. I couldn’t pretend any longer and she knew it so she dumped me. She was more afraid of the truth getting out than she was of trying to heal and pick a better marriage option. I really believe now though that karma is real and he is her karma for the horrible way she treats people. Now he treats her the way she’s treated everyone else and I wonder if she’ll ever see that.

This describes my mom perfectly. It really messed me up so much. My life has been hell. Children of narcissists are at such a disadvantage.

Always insightful! Thanks for sharing.

Ironically, I knew subliminally that those points should be challenged, but with the exception of showing empathy to others, they could not be challenged without igniting an uprising.