International Bride’s Phone Bill Cost a Fortune! | Part 2

[@Lefeurouge]

"Your parents are not your responsibility!" Asians everywhere just dropped their teacups in shock.

[@StrawberryJam806]

They are the worst

[@naomidoss1837]

It is a typical response from an American. That is their culture. The rest of the world don't agree with some of USA cultural aspects

[@uranne]

Yes, it is cultural. I understand her perfectly since I am Filipino too.

[@JoaTheOfficeGal]

It depends on which Asian country you’re referring to. In many Asian countries, children are expected to help their parents, but most parents have a livelihood and primarily expect their children to take care of them when they grow old. On the other hand, Filipino families often go beyond this, with children being expected to support their siblings and even extended family members, sometimes to the point where they become financial leeches. It has always been the case. Pathetic

[@Izinaima]

The reason why she did this in the first place..

[@purplelove3666]

Before you marry someone outside of your culture,learn their culture and see if you can deal with it

[@melluques8475]

Exactly what I said to my sons wife😔🕊🙏🏻✝️

[@Mr2ktony]

Yeah goes both ways she agreed to marry as well 😂

[@erepsekahs]

That is the only sensible remark I have seen here. Excellent. Well said.

[@ChozoBrain]

Doesn't that also apply to her?

[@amberr1241]

💯🎯👏👏👏👏

[@HeyCoachBarbara]

This happened a lot in the military where they go overseas and get a bride and then treat her like she’s their servant. I wonder where’s she at now

[@brianboeing9799]

Love, honor, obey thats what is said during Ceremony

[@70mustang302]

@@brianboeing9799The feminists took out the word "obey" 😑

[@shergirl92]

So he has to payyyyy

[@mr.m2545]

@@brianboeing9799 - the man says this, too.

[@brianboeing9799]

@@70mustang302 oh man 😪😪

[@StedeBonnetsCravat]

He's disgusting. JJ calling her a child bride and sticking it to the him was 🎯.

[@stripedrajang3571]

I don't get what is so disgusting? They are still adults. Two consensual adults.

[@trekgirl65]

Because child brides and mail order brides has been around for over 150 years.

[@jessicap5010]

@@stripedrajang3571then he shouldn’t complain because these are normal things for her age

[@stripedrajang3571]

@@jessicap5010, I agree. That just makes him stupid. It's the "disgusting" factor from the original commenter that is getting under my skin.

[@lukerinderknecht2982]

It's obvious why women who live in abject poverty are desperate enough to do this. But for him, it's just pathetic.

[@bajafire]

Love JJ. #1. “Even on your smartest day, you’re not as smart as I am on my dumbest day.”

[@JamesDavy2009]

"While I'm sleeping!"

[@katesweeney9101]

Plaintiff thought he could buy a young, pretty bride. When it cost him more than he bargained for, he sued her. He's gross.

[@CrystalsTrips1]

I think we call this human trafficking, what does she means that he didn't give her any money from her paycheck? And she would have to pay him back, forever

[@HeyCoachBarbara]

I was thinking that too.

[@jworth7203]

100%

[@LilShmerp]

Not only that, her "friend" posted the initial ad he found her on.

[@DIDYOUSEETHAT172]

Don't be ridiculous. He said, she said. She is young and naive. He is saying he was willing to pay for her school and did not have to pay him back, and that her mother demanded she not go to school because she wanted her to keep sending money home. She is saying she was supposed to pay him back. She is a defendant, she will say anything to make him look bad. You have no concept of human trafficking. They don't marry the victims, they bring them to the US, set them up in apartments in as many bunk beds as they can cram into a bedroom 6 people to a room, tell them they have to pay for their passage, food, rent, and indenture them for life, putting them to work at a couple bucks and hour, cleaning houses, washing dishes. They don't marry them, and they sure as hell don't risk exposure by suing a victim.

[@AerynSB]

@@DIDYOUSEETHAT172 i know you suffer every time you check out the you tube comment section now. If its not filled with mouth breathers with no common sense, its AI that's attempting replicate the same shallow mindedness. And if you dare to show ANY aggression towards the ignorance, your comment is quickly removed.

[@e.d.h.5605]

This clown is a 10/10 on the creep factor!!! Ugh...

[@stripedrajang3571]

Who? The girl?

[@e.d.h.5605]

@stripedrajang3571 No... The creepy guy, obviously!!!

[@stripedrajang3571]

@@e.d.h.5605, how is he a creep? She was the one using him to get a visa. Smh.

[@e.d.h.5605]

@stripedrajang3571 Exactly!!! That makes him even more creepy... Anyone who looks like him will NEVER find anyone who loves him... FACT!!!

[@stripedrajang3571]

@@e.d.h.5605, okay? But that still makes her a creep, not him. Just because he is unattractive doesn't change the fact that she married him and scammed him to get money for her and her family without loving him. That's evil.

[@8213apice]

He thought since she wasn’t an American, she wouldn’t know he was broke.

[@WWambition]

Lol

[@jaydendavis8751]

Naw. People who are gonna move to Brentwood ain't broke

[@lemardyc]

Unjustified conclusion

[@susanstribe4914]

Facts

[@TheTwoBeauties]

Cherry Blossom “correspondence service …” how disgusting.

[@debmccafferty1007]

😮😢

[@Longcloud]

The judge doesn’t understand how it works when you marry a girl from the Philippines,you not only marry her but a whole family /village that depends on her🤔

[@JoaTheOfficeGal]

Pathetic

[@PartyOf8Please]

3:11 But that is NOT Filipino culture. She’s following her culture, not American culture.

[@jennifer_mertens]

In many other parts of the world, sending support to family is expected and not something you can comfortably say no to. I've seen more recent cases where JJ seems to understand that more and commends the litigant, instead of trying to tell them, "it's not your responsibility". She obviously learned from cases like this one.

[@Palmstreet-u7x]

Throughout Africa its the same, the oldest sibling is responsible for the younger siblings, so stupid mindset

[@L.Spencer]

Really good comment!

[@waddellcarissa]

It’s not stupid.. other countries aren’t as well off as we are in America.

[@aorg9793]

Remitly ads all the time!

[@nycmamii]

I mean, JJ wasn’t wrong. Your children don’t ask to be brown…. So having them and forcing them to be responsible for siblings that, again, they didn’t ask for….. seems like a miserable weight to carry as a child & throughout life.

[@ftgjt21]

"You're child bride called her mother a lot" Well JJ just came out and said it

[@edwardranno7119]

She looks 12 years old

[@StrawberryJam806]

She called a psychic 😂 I’m 💀

[@Xdasilvamx]

I couldn’t be a judge because I would have ruled in the defendant’s favour based on the fact he’s a creep and preyed on a young foreign girl.👀🥴🥴🥴#casedismisseddddd

[@stripedrajang3571]

Huh? She is the one that is taking advantage of him!

[@StrawberryJam806]

What?? She definitely knew what she was doing. She and her whole useless family thought she was gonna get a green card and get rich.

[@sharonrobinson3186]

She did that to come to America

[@stripedrajang3571]

@sharonrobinson3186 , I agree. I'm just having an issue with the original commenter making it seem like the defendant is a saint, when she is worse than the plaintiff!!

[@brt5273]

Yeah it's a good thing you're not a judge because you'd have to adhere to the ACTUAL law rather than your "feelings". The young woman is a WOMAN of legal age. You can dream up that she's a child but she's legally an adult. If you don't like that then you need to lead a campaign to change the age of legal adulthood, not expect that the law can be bent to suit your personal sensibilities.

[@kbrown3760]

I hope she’s doing well now. ❤

[@MikeEnjoysThisStuff]

300 million plus people in the US and he goes overseas for a wife...somethings not adding up😮

[@01denese]

They want a maid and not an educated female who won't be a doormat.

[@StedeBonnetsCravat]

They don't want wives. They want bang maids.

[@onetruepatriot6718]

No intelligent man would marry a modern feminist, if you want a real woman you need to go overseas.

[@Xdasilvamx]

He’s a creep

[@DianaPrince777]

Because most American women won't take a man's crap so they look for a young bride overseas that they think they can control. My husband had a friend who did this more than once.

[@BritPaun]

The problem here isn’t just age (fucking sick) but also culture. Eastern cultures are rooted in respect and taking care of your family - your ENTIRE family - no matter the cost.

[@KiwiNana1]

When I was on a cruise around South Pacific quite a few years ago, mostly all the steward crew were Philipinos, all working hard to send money back to their families. Sometimes they hadn't seen their families for years.

[@Sara.Rose.]

Eastern culture? Yeah right! Didn’t her eastern family decide to send her off to this unknown creepy stranger for money?

[@millier.206]

No you’re wrong. It’s a son’s responsibility. Not the daughters!

[@trinity72gp]

This is uncomfortable to watch 🙈

[@0kamaria]

JJ is being a bit obtuse in this part. Most cultures the older siblings do have the responsibility to pick up the slack , so to speak. I'm from the Caribbean and we do the same thing

[@amberr1241]

I agree

[@michaelgillis9420]

They are both using each other - like every Green Card marriage ever.

[@Palmstreet-u7x]

same as 90 days to wed scam to get a green card

[@rogertaylor7433]

Yes, but she gave up a whole lot more than he did... and he was exploiting her too much.

[@MYB4LB]

Clearly Judy didn’t take a college course on cultural differences. 🤦‍♀️

[@StrawberryJam806]

Why should she?? She’s in the US now, no one cares about anyone’s culture. That doesn’t get a person special treatment.

[@brt5273]

Maybe you should take the course, because cultural differences are legally irrelevant.

[@MYB4LB]

@@brt5273 Is it legally irrelevant if she’s asking questions pertaining to it? She makes it relevant by asking questions during a legal process that has direct relevance to cultural differences. So STFU and go read a book.

[@8213apice]

Broke bandit. Has no money to provide for her or any woman. She came her for a better life. Not to work a minimum wage job.

[@charr2250]

So u want us to believe u would pay 38,000 for student loans but not for phone calls…

[@melluques8475]

People will never understand what’s it’s like coming from a poor country.😔🕊🙏🏻✝️

[@katesweeney9101]

Exactly. And in the Philippines, all anyone needs to know about is OFWs to understand that there isn't enough money to be made there for everyone. It's a beautiful country, but the people sacrifice so much to make a good life for themselves.

[@skye2211]

Took advantage of a young, poor woman looking for a better life and a way to help her family. He turned her into free labor for his business and called the petty money he did give her an “allowance”…gross. She had no one in the United States and wanted to call her family and send some money. HE SHOULD HAVE KNOWN THAT!

[@Julie-sl8ul]

Asian culture takes care of their elders. JJ is way out of line here

[@BadgerCheese94]

That doesnt mean its your responsibility ESP if you arent in the same household

[@garrickhebdon7408]

This is absolutely normal for south east asia

[@deborahasher176]

I can't decide who took whom for a ride.

[@gtsound12]

Both did

[@Palmstreet-u7x]

she took him, look at 90 days to wed, all a green card scheme, men don thinkh with their brain, they think with their head, lol,

[@brt5273]

Probaly the plan for both but he dumped her before she received and lasting benefit.

[@daviddaniels100]

This is quite common with marring a Filipino. You marry the whole family. My ex- brother-in-law is currently doing this.

[@sailesteele4372]

JJ has no idea how Asian society (including South Asia) works. You stay tethered to the parents and siblings forever.

[@ChrisCosat]

So happy it isn't like that here!

[@genarosalazar2818]

She's in dream America 🇺🇲 now

[@vickylynn2432]

She's from a different country, different culture, different way of life. She does what she's use to.

[@JozzyJah111]

90 day fiance started way back i see.

[@Palmstreet-u7x]

lol yes, all a green card scam, to send money back home,

[@Esther-lm6pm]

JJ shouldn't be disrespecting other people's cultures. It's quite common for kids to come over to the states work and send money home. It's been going on for centuries.

[@01denese]

It needs to stop.

[@bellalegendre2644]

Especially in Asian culture. My children's stepmother is South Korean and my bestie is Chinese-Japanese. I don't think JJ was trying to be disrespectful but she has to understand that different people from different cultures and/or countries move and think differently.

[@brt5273]

If they don't want that sort of cultural aspect disrespected, they should stay in their own country where it's actually relevant, because they can't really survive here while trying to honor those sorts of cultural aspects.

[@katesweeney9101]

@@01denese Why?

[@spoonb16acrx2003]

Sorry, JJ doesn't understand the asian family dynamics and responsibilities.

[@RoseAve-re7yq]

They used each other to get benefits. When either side overused, the bond break.

[@RhondaCady]

This sounds almost like indentured servitude

[@fancynancymacy]

In the United States back in the 1940s my father was still expected to pay for his whole family, his mother and his two sisters and his brother and they’re all American white people So it’s not just the Asians that pressured their children to pay for the whole family once they have some money

[@pitch-darkpositivity]

American culture is dog eat dog. In my house we care for each other and we don’t keep track of who owes what.

[@sharib6422]

Judge Judy's funny as hell. That's that girl's culture. That's how it is. You can't tell her she shouldnt take care of her sister and her family back home lol

[@brt5273]

Well you'd have to be a complete and utter MORON to think that a person with zero skills to earn above minimum wage can survive here while supporting a family back home.

[@enjoystraveling]

That man is so cheap he didn’t want to pay her phone bills when he’s the one who chose to took her out of her country

[@ThyroidPatient]

If you have helped in family then go if you dont have say sorry

[@annaesmaili4867]

Shocking the age difference. Poor girl she just wanted to better her life . Wish her well

[@01denese]

Poor kid. She's really been brainwashed by her evil momma.

[@erepsekahs]

I hope judge Judy is not going to try to impose her morals on this perfectly legal friendship and union.

[@midnighttheumbreon8857]

Wow I’m literally here 24 seconds after it posted

[@bopeep007]

🍪

[@MikeEnjoysThisStuff]

And that means......

[@0LadyV0]

Sound like he was acting like her father. Yuck

[@bellalegendre2644]

I get what Judge Judy is trying to tell the defendant in regards to it not being her responsibility to financially support her family of origin. However in Asian culture its not uncommon for people to still provide for their parents, siblings, and other relatives even if they're married and have kids of their own. My children's stepmom is South Korean and she sends a lot of money back home to her mom and sister.

[@katesweeney9101]

And in the Philippines, it is VERY common to bring in money from other countries to support the family. OFWs bring in about 10% of the country's GDP.

[@meganmoon6197]

Asian culture is not the same

[@yolandascholten2012]

But it is her responsibility, that’s how this works.

[@billmoran3219]

It’s no wonder that these unions seldom work out ! Face it guy your monetary losses are the F in you get for the F in you got !

[@SxCense]

That’s a strong looking 45.

[@NathBentleyYT]

I gave her money every week 🤢

[@iLoveBoysandBerries]

She also had three of his kids

[@TionaTalks]

Omg really? That’s gross

[@kathyschlenker6231]

JJ should know better when it comes to different cultures but if the girl is staying in America, she will learn but still feel the responsibility to her family cause that’s how it is. Her family won’t hear it any other way

[@gloriaramirez1109]

JJ clearly doesn't understand other cultures.

[@asiashipp2625]

That's the culture difference. Most countries have this but Americans don't. The eldest sends money or works for the entire family.

[@johnbaldock6353]

This is what happens when you Marry a "Mail Order Bride".

[@mikeyh0]

I think the alphabet people need to add another letter.

[@stripedrajang3571]

Why? What letter?

[@aorg9793]

People love to rag on the plaintiff, but to think the defendant and their people don't know the score is to be a bigot of low expectations. The Filipinos are totally savvy to the mail-order bride scenario and how to take advantage of the situation.

[@ziskabrits618]

🤦‍♀️

[@DaijaMonroe]

Sounds like he wanted a servant he could control and fulfill wifely duties. So glad this woman found a way out. I don’t think these mail order situations are beneficial for the women involved

[@jaydendavis8751]

She's a little cutie!!!

[@cheryljohnson1632]

That’s a black culture 2, the oldest take care of younger, I had 3, I had to do all for, my mom worked 3:30 pm -12 :30 0:06 am, got home 1:15 am , daily , other cultures are like that 2..

[@caliinthevalley24681]

This is just so cringe.

[@thetaekwondoe3887]

I don't know what the cultural family rules are in the Phillippines, but clearly JJ is clueless to these cultural differences.

[@ThyroidPatient]

Ganon tlaga pag asaww ay abroad need you helped the family

[@marieanthony4097]

Scams on both sides

[@Laura-ks1hi]

Love Judge Judy but she's very out of touch here. Doesn't understand the cultural differences. Also, the defendant married that man for financial gain and would have received approval from her parents on the basis that she share her wealth (would be considered wealthy compared to her fanily back home) with them. The husband likely knew this was part of the arrangement.

[@RocLobo358]

I visited my extended family in law in Africa one time and it was assumed I had to give them money for 10 years. I have been asked to pay for the schooling of children I've never seen! In the US, it's not your responsibility. Other places, it is for some reason.

[@lemardyc]

in Africa! Damn

[@JReed7560]

Dude looks like a young Greg Morton lol

[@davidtangen8189]

How is that relationship legel

[@brt5273]

Because they are both legally adulrs. Is it really that difficult to comprehend???

[@rocco...]

These days the Flips bankrupt their hubbies here behind their backs.

[@mmkn2009]

I believe filipinos are very strong on family and responsibility to them. I think Judge Judy is not understanding Filipino culture here.

[@harryrob8221]

Lol JJ is trying to impact Western family culture on someone who grew up with a different culture

[@YoshiBugatti]

Nah she’s stopping creepazoids like the plaintiff 🤡

[@j.daniels1548]

That’s because the marriage is in the United States, which is Western. It would be different if he got married in the Philippines, and he was living in the Philippines. They live in America so you have to go by Western family culture and laws. I’m really surprised there are so many people in the comment section who are struggling with this basic fact.

[@Bohdi1234]

This young lady reminds me of my ex-wife from the Philippines. Young lovely the mind and maturity of a 5-year-old. The family wanted to cash in on the marriage he wouldn't play ball.

[@katesweeney9101]

And this old man reminds me of aging creeps who want to buy their way into bed with young women, and they know the easiest way to do so is through a magazine.

[@bobscratchett5346]

@@katesweeney9101who keeps records of money given to their wive?

[@candynickel]

Judge Judy would take care of her family just like this woman tried to. Its just that this woman had to get married TO TAKE CARE OF HER FAMILY. Judge Judy understands the cultural differences, and she also understands loyalty to family. She is just being inappropriately prejudiced, as she is wont to do....

[@connannbarbarin3033]

Fool! You never take her to the West.

[@jaydentate6080]

Ting tong

[@lukerinderknecht2982]

Just like Melania Trump.

[@69misst1]

This is a cultural difference. In the Asians cultures, the kids help look after the family.