Interracial Marriage | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 28 | Season 2

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Relebogile Mabotja

Relebogile Mabotja

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They say age is nothing but just a number, our guests share their love story and how they've made their multi-racial relationship work.
Studio Guests: Nthabiseng & Tommy Hartvig
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@Joandoe23328
@Joandoe23328 3 жыл бұрын
I find it refreshing that, in a culture so obsessed with celebrities, you unpack the stories of ordinary people. (Unless it's me who doesn't know the peeps 🏃🏾‍♀️)
@sandulelamjana
@sandulelamjana 3 жыл бұрын
Your 100% Right, Shes bringing ordinary people and not celebs
@faithsdollsville2662
@faithsdollsville2662 3 жыл бұрын
I also love that. Even if she brings a celebrity on her shows, her questions brings out the people in them. She gets them to open up a side they’ve never before and this makes me personally connect with them cos I’m not into celebs. I love people stories.❤️
@awalubundi4093
@awalubundi4093 3 жыл бұрын
Interviewer is really the stereo type, repeatedly and unnecessarily bringing up the the age factor even when the two had said it was never at any point an issue to them. Like trying to drive into in-between the two so that they begin to see themselves that way.? Really very insensitive. Or maliciously and in a weired way trying to draw the guy"s attention to herself cos she looks older for the both? Spoilt it somehow cos of that approach. Girl and guy make a great couple. Congrats to them.
@banyana6515
@banyana6515 3 жыл бұрын
The word 'unpack' needs to die. For real.
@qhawenxele8032
@qhawenxele8032 3 жыл бұрын
@@awalubundi4093 Would you feel the same way if it was an African man with that age gap?
@missethio7394
@missethio7394 3 жыл бұрын
I love seing black women happy. Doesn't matter who they are with as long as they are happy.
@lou-hellenphiri-eggers5299
@lou-hellenphiri-eggers5299 10 ай бұрын
💜
@paul_elago
@paul_elago 3 жыл бұрын
Relebogile is one of the best interviewers out there, I totally love her.
@cecilemuntu5401
@cecilemuntu5401 3 жыл бұрын
Totally agree 👍👏
@Enhle
@Enhle 3 жыл бұрын
No lies detected here.
@MorotolaK
@MorotolaK 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely
@lungisanjila1689
@lungisanjila1689 3 жыл бұрын
Her ,Anele and Mac G 😊❤️
@noxolosakang6547
@noxolosakang6547 3 жыл бұрын
She's the next Oprah
@joshuaslokum36
@joshuaslokum36 3 жыл бұрын
Awesome 👏🏼 I’m a Canadian (white) married to a Zimbabwean.... My wife sent me this link.😁
@pulengntsiapane2286
@pulengntsiapane2286 Жыл бұрын
Where are your cousins 😅🙈🥰
@PhenduK
@PhenduK 11 ай бұрын
​@@pulengntsiapane2286🤣🤣 you asking for cousins
@kamogelontsewa58
@kamogelontsewa58 3 жыл бұрын
“Do you, the world will adjust.” And that’s on Periodt! 👏🏾
@wewemhlaba7593
@wewemhlaba7593 3 жыл бұрын
Kamogelo💝
@lebom2456
@lebom2456 3 жыл бұрын
What a delight 👌🏽
@TJ-my9nh
@TJ-my9nh 3 жыл бұрын
I like how genuine this guy is. He is not trying to create a certain impression of himself
@lebom2456
@lebom2456 3 жыл бұрын
He's so secure 👌🏽
@tsoanelohsu
@tsoanelohsu 3 жыл бұрын
I relate to this a lot. I am in an interracial marriage myself. My husband is Asian and he is from Taiwan. We met in University in 2015. We get stares a lot when we are out in public but we honestly love how people love our kids.
@92Kandee
@92Kandee 3 жыл бұрын
Oh that's great! Do people ever say racial stereotypes to your husband or it's just stares? I'm in a relationship with a Korean man (we live in Korea) & I kinda worry about how some black people will (mis)treat him or do the eyes things. Idk.. just thoughts that cross my mind.
@tsoanelohsu
@tsoanelohsu 3 жыл бұрын
@@92Kandee Black people do say and do a lot of racial stereotypes and we honestly find that really annoying. We usually ignore them but they do not sit well with us at all.
@zinhlesibeko4627
@zinhlesibeko4627 3 жыл бұрын
Does he have a brother😁
@tsoanelohsu
@tsoanelohsu 3 жыл бұрын
@@zinhlesibeko4627 😂😂 unfortunately, he doesn't
@nomasabisasizani1564
@nomasabisasizani1564 3 жыл бұрын
@zinhle I also wanted to ask😩😭 give us his friends ke
@athandilenodada8906
@athandilenodada8906 3 жыл бұрын
I cannot wait for the day when my fellow South Africans can fully embrace interracial couples ❤️
@madelinemogale2256
@madelinemogale2256 3 жыл бұрын
That will never change is the mindset.
@KnockknockNox
@KnockknockNox 3 жыл бұрын
Many of us do. Especially those of us who went to school with people of all races and interact with people of all races on a daily basis. The problem is that black people (usually) think of people of other races as special magical unicorns and thus trophies (when dating) instead of seeing them as real people just like them. Siyafana
@atlee.M
@atlee.M 3 жыл бұрын
Me too, interracial relationships must be acknowledged as it a union of two races and cultures etc.
@tshepisomorobi659
@tshepisomorobi659 3 жыл бұрын
@@KnockknockNox and white people think that when our black sisters date white men they're after their monies not love.
@justinamusyoka4986
@justinamusyoka4986 3 жыл бұрын
Is the race war over ?
@faithsdollsville2662
@faithsdollsville2662 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful love story. I must say Nthabiseng is indeed matured for her age. I love how she speaks about their marriage and how they built everything together. She is also good at speaking into her husband’s masculinity. She is a real suitable helpmate as the Bible tells us to be. She is so humble. They are such a well-matched couple. 🙌🏽❤️
@faithsdollsville2662
@faithsdollsville2662 3 жыл бұрын
Oohhh this woman is phenomenal. I could treasure her as a friend or sister. Relebogile she sounds as intelligent as you. Okare your baby sister.
@jessii7642
@jessii7642 3 жыл бұрын
Relebogile always looks stunning.
@patienceikombele9161
@patienceikombele9161 3 жыл бұрын
And the makeup 👌👌Always on point. Love her so much
@rebajardine9544
@rebajardine9544 3 жыл бұрын
Woow the accuracy in this video... The black people stare out of admiration, and white out of disgust... 🤞🤞
@dollyboshielo892
@dollyboshielo892 Жыл бұрын
They met October and started negotiating Lobola around June the following year. This is what we call a serious relationship.
@mandimg_1804
@mandimg_1804 3 жыл бұрын
Every time I come to this channel I look at the number of subscribers. It makes me very happy to see that number growing!
@ambrosiasegomotsomoeng8364
@ambrosiasegomotsomoeng8364 3 жыл бұрын
Ke na le wena ❤️❤️❤️Exponential growth!
@relebogilemabotja215
@relebogilemabotja215 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! You’ve made it possible
@ms_kedi8345
@ms_kedi8345 3 жыл бұрын
Me too, if I had superpowers I would make at least 1M subscribers!
@lynashborne8634
@lynashborne8634 3 жыл бұрын
I love how she says they grew together they basically started from the bottom and pushed each other to do better ❤️
@compton8301
@compton8301 3 жыл бұрын
He was 39 though- fully grown! Of course she grew, I mean she was 18 when they started the whole thing.
@tonylynch8668
@tonylynch8668 3 жыл бұрын
I'm white she is Xhosa and we have been together since 2007, the big thing is we stay ekasi Mdantsane.
@bonikoneti7123
@bonikoneti7123 3 жыл бұрын
It’s when he says “my wife…” beautiful couple 💕💕💕🌸🌸🌸🙏🙏🙏😇😇😇
@Celebbabies2022
@Celebbabies2022 3 жыл бұрын
I wonder what all of you who are saying "so refreshing" were going to say if it was a 51 year old black divorcee man with a 28 year old or worse back then when she was 18yrs and he's 39 🙄🙄🙄🙄 double standard much 🤔
@dkmolebatsi5387
@dkmolebatsi5387 Жыл бұрын
Humble and loving couple .May God bless this beautiful Union
@wot4922
@wot4922 3 жыл бұрын
I'm White married to an Indian woman. She's Hindu, I'm Roman Catholic. We celebrate what's important to us and our children join in if they want to. No biggy. Never shoving our cultures, race or religion down their throats. We're focussing on bringing up well adjusted individuals. Its working great because we're married for 21 years and our children have the most amazing assortment of friends.
@relebogilemabotja215
@relebogilemabotja215 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, that’s so beautiful
@wot4922
@wot4922 3 жыл бұрын
@@relebogilemabotja215 Thank you👍🏼
@zainabinti5170
@zainabinti5170 3 жыл бұрын
His intentions were clear. How many women dated men of their age group and ended up single mother.!!! Well done to this couple.
@gamejunkie6519
@gamejunkie6519 3 жыл бұрын
You can also look at it as, how many little impressionable young women did he lie to that he will marry them before meeting this woman? Not all relations need to end in marriage, with or without an age gap
@faraimusakuro9090
@faraimusakuro9090 3 жыл бұрын
A lot.of us aren't happy wt same age men...she's lucky
@noxxie1496
@noxxie1496 3 жыл бұрын
Interracial relationships are so beautiful. They remind us that LOVE is a universal language and it knows no colour.. Thank Sis Relebogile for having this couple. This interview was so insightful.
@justinamusyoka4986
@justinamusyoka4986 3 жыл бұрын
Its forbidden especially when it comes to the dark race,the original people. The enemy tried to destroy our melanin,our spiritual antennae in many ways.
@mwimwimwewa6282
@mwimwimwewa6282 Жыл бұрын
True I always wish one day I will meet a white man
@thembisaodendaal
@thembisaodendaal 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful couple..my husband is 26 years older than me white afrikaans love him forever
@sharonhatzenbuehler4591
@sharonhatzenbuehler4591 3 жыл бұрын
You go girl…glad you got a good husband regardless of colour, age etc
@vivimash4133
@vivimash4133 3 жыл бұрын
I’m happy for u hun..May ur marriage fourish
@thatsreality1177
@thatsreality1177 3 жыл бұрын
I assume you from Free state cz that where I've seen lots of interracial relationships.
@thembisaodendaal
@thembisaodendaal 3 жыл бұрын
@@thatsreality1177 I'm from cape town my husband from aliwal north
@thatsreality1177
@thatsreality1177 3 жыл бұрын
@@thembisaodendaal oohk love
@stellamooibedi9027
@stellamooibedi9027 3 жыл бұрын
This couple is calm it warms my heart, I sense so much love and respect between them 🤗
@Lebogang_Mathe
@Lebogang_Mathe 3 жыл бұрын
Wooow just finished the fraud story they uploaded again love this Chanel
@fukutwatable
@fukutwatable 3 жыл бұрын
😂 😂 ME too
@sisanakay
@sisanakay 3 жыл бұрын
I don't appreciate how Relebogile kept focusing on the negatives, felt personal as though she's against or thinking in her mind that she'll never date a guy this old. Her facial expressions, so many awkward moments. Lovely couple❤️
@juliasephaka8033
@juliasephaka8033 3 жыл бұрын
Awkward😀😀
@nompumelolo
@nompumelolo 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe it was because he groomed her tbh
@jaydee6178
@jaydee6178 3 жыл бұрын
Lol especially the part where the white guy's friend put her hand in his hand 😅😅😅😅
@Aya_a153
@Aya_a153 3 жыл бұрын
True, I have picked that and where Nthabiseng commented about her ring that laugh it was fake, but she is a best interviewer I just thinking this one she was not comfortable
@S.phiwokuhle
@S.phiwokuhle 3 жыл бұрын
As an interviewer she had to ask questions that people were too afraid to ask. I don't think that was negative at all because typically these are the things people want to know and as negative as they are it doesn't mean that Relebogile is negative she was just doing her best.
@renniekufakunesu6254
@renniekufakunesu6254 3 жыл бұрын
Please remind nthabiseng of how beautiful she is😭😭😭
@khetimthembu8465
@khetimthembu8465 3 жыл бұрын
This girl is really pretty❤️
@andilemagodla5926
@andilemagodla5926 3 жыл бұрын
She's a muffin ❤️
@stellamooibedi9027
@stellamooibedi9027 3 жыл бұрын
She is 😊
@thabisamathabatha6997
@thabisamathabatha6997 3 жыл бұрын
Too much😍
@boitumelomothibedi4231
@boitumelomothibedi4231 3 жыл бұрын
"Do you and the world will adjust" this is what I am taking 😊
@moonrock72
@moonrock72 3 жыл бұрын
When she mentions the stares, it reminds me of the the flight I took last week where there was a a couple (old white man and a young black woman) who were lovey dovey. On their right, there was a white woman who kept starring in disgust at the lovely couple and she almost looked uncomfortable. It was a weird thing to witness. To the lovely couple, you both look amazing and I wish you nothing but the best.
@thulehzondi5494
@thulehzondi5494 3 жыл бұрын
With the chaos that happened this week the “disgusted stares” will be a norm ☠️
@compton8301
@compton8301 3 жыл бұрын
White people stare with disgust. Black people stare with wonder and excitement as if you've achieved a huge milestone.
@Auntie134
@Auntie134 3 жыл бұрын
I love this couple despite their age difference. Love wins💕
@Amahle361
@Amahle361 3 жыл бұрын
I respect both of them. I like them. There is just something beautiful about their relationship.
@mathebulatman
@mathebulatman 3 жыл бұрын
Im in a beautiful same sex interacial relationship, he is 51 and im 31 ....we have a lot in common, we get along so we've been together for two years now......we do get people starring a lot but we don't really pay attention to it ,but we see it ..... we happy thats all that matters ......the moment you stop living your life to please other people thats when you find the true happiness of living your own truth.
@vintontm
@vintontm 3 жыл бұрын
My friend (in a interracial relationship) just recently moved to France with his husband. They are a beautiful couple😍❤️ So glad you have found your love and you are happy in your relationship.
@kaleahcollins4567
@kaleahcollins4567 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe because he's old
@zafikasimelane7525
@zafikasimelane7525 3 жыл бұрын
thank you for creating evolution! i pray your relationship lasts forever😘
@mbalikhumalo7111
@mbalikhumalo7111 3 жыл бұрын
Love knows no boundaries guys!! If we can fully grasp and understand that then we will be able to get a glimpse of understanding of the love God has for us
@koliswaqutywa3717
@koliswaqutywa3717 3 жыл бұрын
I fully agree with you Mbali. Love knows no boundaries.
@pointa2b388
@pointa2b388 3 жыл бұрын
I like Nthabiseng, girls we have to work for ourselves, make our own money
@Traveler-rf8ye
@Traveler-rf8ye 2 жыл бұрын
I agree
@lou-hellenphiri-eggers5299
@lou-hellenphiri-eggers5299 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing , loved the questions Relebogile was asking. I am married to a comfortable loving German man. Met online and after our first meeting, spend a week together and lobola was paid and we got married. Years later we are just as happy as when we first met.
@user-xx5hy7nj8o
@user-xx5hy7nj8o 3 жыл бұрын
Recently discovered this channel about a week ago. I love how I can watch the shows with my partner. It’s really eye opening topics and very educating..
@moitshepisparkles
@moitshepisparkles 3 жыл бұрын
All I see here, is love and its beautiful to witness. I wish them only the best ❤️.
@joycenonhlanhlavilakati7161
@joycenonhlanhlavilakati7161 3 жыл бұрын
Kudos to the couple for living authentically and not giving a hoot what gossips think.
@nompumelolo
@nompumelolo 3 жыл бұрын
Lovely couple but a 39 year old man getting into a relationship with an 18 year old should NEVER be normalised. You know what else should not be normalised? Telling fat girls they look older for their age. I was fat as a child and literal men hit on me and said I looked womanly when I was TWELVE!!! Can it just stop
@moe_ramz
@moe_ramz 3 жыл бұрын
I wrote something similar, my post was deleted. Large age gaps have a 10% success rate for a reason. The first two decades are great, but eventually the age thing becomes problematic.
@Mabskbl
@Mabskbl 3 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏 “18 is an adult” is a loophole for predators.
@moe_ramz
@moe_ramz 3 жыл бұрын
@@Mabskbl True, there’s no way she was matured at that age. She said it herself, she was a rebel. That doesn’t mean she wasn’t a child. The adult brain is fully developed by age 25, so her reasoning, rational and understanding capacity wasn’t fully developed.
@kzeetha
@kzeetha 3 жыл бұрын
@@Mabskbl true! "She looks older coz she's bigger" is another loophole for predators 🤢
@Mbalings
@Mbalings 3 жыл бұрын
I feel you.
@moitshepisparkles
@moitshepisparkles 3 жыл бұрын
The part where she said, "black people stare because of admiration and white people, out of disgust" iyohh haai i think thats actually sad, I wonder if we will ever be united 🤔 and fully embrace and hopefully accept the diversity that comes with each race.
@zimkithareikeras7577
@zimkithareikeras7577 3 жыл бұрын
It’s so sad because as the couple you forget that you have different skin colors.
@stellamooibedi9027
@stellamooibedi9027 3 жыл бұрын
In a world where they still think by dating a black person is a "downgrade " go boketenyana I think we as black people are the only ones looking for change not them
@mosalethoba5267
@mosalethoba5267 3 жыл бұрын
Not all of us stare in admiration by the way truth be told .
@awalubundi4093
@awalubundi4093 3 жыл бұрын
Samantha, l am with you. She was actually the rotten part of the whole video. Interviewer , you chock! Downright offal and uncouth. Everyone travels their own route and turn own corners. Don't try to rub in your encounters into being those of everyone else you meet walking the same direction you did. She is cute and cool. You probably lost it from such challenges you visibly carry.
@compton8301
@compton8301 3 жыл бұрын
In white, indian & coloured circles, dating black is seen as a downgrade. My question is, why do we as black people admire other races so much??? We're all human beings, no race is "more" special.
@Bo7bbsie
@Bo7bbsie 3 жыл бұрын
@25:03 “Those poor white people from Springs” tense 😬 The East Rand is wild 💔😂
@lindiwe_cwele
@lindiwe_cwele 3 жыл бұрын
Bruh!! I laughed so hard when I heard that part😂😂😂😂.
@nompumelolo
@nompumelolo 3 жыл бұрын
I laughed 😂😂
@Gloryfied
@Gloryfied 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 fyny right.
@atlehangledwaba4764
@atlehangledwaba4764 3 жыл бұрын
Lmfaooo 😭
@nomxhosapekani7966
@nomxhosapekani7966 3 жыл бұрын
We like to make fun of Eastrand people, but most famous South Africans comes there.
@cc35506
@cc35506 3 жыл бұрын
At first when he kept on saying he's only into black women I just assumed it's a fetish thing. But Im now Im impressed. What a well balanced couple. They just get each other. True soulmates. More love to them.
@khutjodiphofe2245
@khutjodiphofe2245 3 жыл бұрын
I'm actually curious where and how do we distinguish a fetish and non-fetish because I too cringed a little bit when he spoke of the 'typical black woman' features.
@bellam7546
@bellam7546 3 жыл бұрын
@@khutjodiphofe2245 He does have a fetish because black women come in different shapes and sizes so why is he only attracted to the big lips and bums?
@LkeaFeather
@LkeaFeather 2 жыл бұрын
@@khutjodiphofe2245 Yeah, the way he described the features sounded fetishist to me, but I also think this is a grey area. I guess the attraction is what it is as long as he treats her like a normal human being and doesn't expect her to do anything he wouldn't ask of a white woman.
@AfricanUSA-th9ov
@AfricanUSA-th9ov Жыл бұрын
There Is Nothing Wrong In A White Men That Are Saying That They Are Into Only Black's. That Is Not Ferish When He Is Happily Married To A Black Woman.
@yandiswasiwisa8865
@yandiswasiwisa8865 3 жыл бұрын
There is nothing more beautiful than love and love is what I see from this couple. May the Lord Almighty bless your union🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤...."Age ain't nothing but a number" I know that saying and I lived it. My late husband was 17yrs older than me.
@mandisazulu8426
@mandisazulu8426 3 жыл бұрын
Rele is amazing! Her listening skills are out of this world and she asks all the right questions you would have as a viewer. I'm obsessed.
@busiswambana3189
@busiswambana3189 3 жыл бұрын
Sabathandi now I think the Hartvig can have their TV show🤗🤗🥰🥰🥰🥰
@zimkithareikeras7577
@zimkithareikeras7577 3 жыл бұрын
Scandinavian man 🙌🏿🙌🏿, We experienced a lot of stares and weird comments (especially ngabantwana bethu 🙆🏻‍♀️🙆🏻‍♀️) when we stayed in SA with my Scandinavian hubby.Beautiful love story 💜
@nomasabisasizani1564
@nomasabisasizani1564 3 жыл бұрын
Khandiphe iBrother inlaw yakho 😩
@zimkithareikeras7577
@zimkithareikeras7577 3 жыл бұрын
@@nomasabisasizani1564 he’s married sthandwa sam 💜
@monicaabrams8378
@monicaabrams8378 3 жыл бұрын
It is refreshing to see interracial couples talk about their relationship it makes me more curious every day and I like that they get along so beautifully in their marriages
@wewemhlaba7593
@wewemhlaba7593 3 жыл бұрын
I'm obsessed with Relebogiles interview skills I'll always say this😍Great conversion I just learnt a lot
@amandamgobhoza2882
@amandamgobhoza2882 3 жыл бұрын
Im 31 yrs old my husband is 49 years we are happily married with 2 beautiful and healthy kids.been together for 13 years.it feels like we were just made for each other
@fukutwatable
@fukutwatable 3 жыл бұрын
LET US SHOW GRATITUDE TO LEBO FOR THE GOOD SHOW BY ATLEAST WATCHING ALL HER ADVERTS PLEASE 🙏
@yondontlahla
@yondontlahla 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful love story. I still don't understand people who judge love. This is a happy couple who are inlove.
@Introvert_Fi
@Introvert_Fi 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful couple,wishing you much more blessed and happy years...watching from Ireland🇮🇪
@gladysnqiwa9152
@gladysnqiwa9152 2 жыл бұрын
Please bring back an Irish husband 😊
@nontobekokhumalo8782
@nontobekokhumalo8782 2 жыл бұрын
This lady is older than her age. You can hear they way she talks...very matured 💞💕
@karies6895
@karies6895 3 жыл бұрын
Aww this was lovely to watch! I think the genuinity is what did it for me. Love does indeed win in the end.
@OscarineMlisana
@OscarineMlisana 3 жыл бұрын
This is what I always say, do you, because you do bad or good people talk, enjoy your marriage lovely 💏 watching from the UK, 🇬🇧🇬🇧
@marshamabasha8777
@marshamabasha8777 3 жыл бұрын
It's the consistency for me
@eyethumfazwe
@eyethumfazwe 3 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this interview. Sis Relebogile, you have impeccable interviewing skills. The perspective of this couple is heart warming and they're a breath of fresh air.
@tisetsomankgeru1307
@tisetsomankgeru1307 3 жыл бұрын
This is a working couple as in it works. I want a relationship like this, love, understanding and pure
@balekisathobakgale1911
@balekisathobakgale1911 3 жыл бұрын
Woooow!! This is fascinating indeed. I also want this kind of a relationship, the love, understanding we black women lacks. Keep it girl, and fight for your good life
@khetimthembu8465
@khetimthembu8465 3 жыл бұрын
I love how open this couple is heyy😊🔥❤️
@I_am_Faku
@I_am_Faku 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful and very sound couple. One of the best interviews I've watched in a while
@iamaconqueror4597
@iamaconqueror4597 Жыл бұрын
This is so beautiful!! It actually made me jealous in a good way! This is AMAZING 🥰
@Hopecomethinthemorning
@Hopecomethinthemorning Жыл бұрын
I love the authenticity of these interviews.
@sandulelamjana
@sandulelamjana 3 жыл бұрын
"Do You, The World will adjust" .. Love that!!♥
@Mbalings
@Mbalings 3 жыл бұрын
So much emphasis on the age issue but honestly I get it, 18 and 39 is just extreme. Weight doesn’t age your mind and behavior.
@ntenekabelo428
@ntenekabelo428 3 жыл бұрын
😎 I hope you would be next, wait until you meet that person share or having of the same intrest 💞
@awalubundi4093
@awalubundi4093 3 жыл бұрын
You are right. Especially from the interviewer. Did he'll lot of bidding to bring it as an issue on the table. Just glad that both sort of brushed her drive away, telling her on several times that they were and had never been interested about that
@dolckineonyango3168
@dolckineonyango3168 2 жыл бұрын
she's so mature for her age, and i love that. The guy also seems cool and composed....... they truely compliment each other
@sharonhatzenbuehler4591
@sharonhatzenbuehler4591 3 жыл бұрын
This was a lovely interview…great couple, I wish them all the best
@erniemntolo
@erniemntolo 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful love story! It works because you share the same values, especially when it comes to money and prosperity! I wish you both a long and healthy life. The values which our parents instill in us as kids go a long way in determining our success or failures when we are adults. I once had a partner who wasted food and only wore designer clothes because other clothes were not good enough for her. It was not her fault but the way her parents had raised her. Needless to say that we did not prosper and the relationship fell apart because of all the arguments about wasted, money and the lack of putting a value on anything.
@tebohopakkies6611
@tebohopakkies6611 3 жыл бұрын
I love this couple. They powerful and a very sober couple
@nkule2493
@nkule2493 3 жыл бұрын
This was refreshing to watch. Beautiful.
@nataliendwe7869
@nataliendwe7869 10 ай бұрын
Oh guys so nice to watch you all the best to your mirage God bless you❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
@kodwat2134
@kodwat2134 Жыл бұрын
Nthabiseng seems like a grounded woman, I like her.
@caramelcomplected
@caramelcomplected 3 жыл бұрын
Tommy was like my ex. Scandinavian, preference for black women, knew what he wanted...but he was terrible when it came to honesty and execution. Anyhow, bless their union. It's nice to see.
@lungisanjila1689
@lungisanjila1689 3 жыл бұрын
I must give the show a chance, alot of good content I have been seeing❣️❣️
@wespeakthetruthhere7413
@wespeakthetruthhere7413 3 жыл бұрын
So refreshing, thoroughly enjoyed this. You can tell they rarely fight.
@tashatee1389
@tashatee1389 3 жыл бұрын
Well said " do you, the world will adjust." 👌😘
@nadinevoegt1643
@nadinevoegt1643 Жыл бұрын
Wow I can relate to this, my mom is black (Venda) and my father is mixed with ( Coloured and white). My dad is 25 years older than my mom, Seeing that there are other couples like that out there makes me happy, I do not feel alone. And when they met they had both been in failed marriages but they stayed together for approximately 22 years until my dad died last year, he even stayed with us in a village in Limpopo and they had 3 children from their marriage, now my point is age is just a number and mulitiracial families are beautiful.
@keneilwemohlabane1288
@keneilwemohlabane1288 11 ай бұрын
This couple has really warmed my heart. May the Lord keep increasing your blessings and grant you many more joyful years together. Thank you Relebogile for asking some difficult questions that helped extract the authenticity of this amazing couple. Keep up the fantastic hosting dear. You are all great 👏👏👏👏👏👌🙏
@mrsboingotlopolitebucksch4682
@mrsboingotlopolitebucksch4682 3 жыл бұрын
We are 19 years apart and we enjoy our marriage to the maximum!He is german and am from botswana and all eyes are always on us esp that germany still have racists but we bother them not coz we love each other but i believe one day this racism will be no more coz it irritates.Love is blind and gut no color more so that we bleed the same so it shouldnt be a big deal. Miss my Africans so bad hope germany will take me well.All the best to those marriages wish the Lord could bless us with a kid Stay blessed and away from corona stay home and quit uneccessary trips for your health's sake Tschüs 😘🤝🏿🇩🇪🇧🇼
@stanceynkgowe2709
@stanceynkgowe2709 3 жыл бұрын
I have dated a German man before you are so lucky they are full of love. Le nna ke motswana
@patienceikombele9161
@patienceikombele9161 3 жыл бұрын
Love always win. People will always stare. You marry a non black African society will stare. My uncle declined to sit a my lobola negotiations just because I'm marrying a Congolese man. We are 15 years in our marriage we are going strong. I love him because he didn't do what he was not comfortable doing he was being himself. So do you
@jaiyaalexandra144
@jaiyaalexandra144 3 жыл бұрын
As a Malome he was supposed to support you because your blood ties should supercede your decisions. Marriage is marriage, regardless of who you marry. I'm with a half - Congolese guy but anybody who does not support us should forget about having access to us and my daughter.
@stellamooibedi9027
@stellamooibedi9027 3 жыл бұрын
I always say love is what you make it out to be and if you are happy with it then go for it
@lindiwetoheed7466
@lindiwetoheed7466 3 жыл бұрын
May God continue to bless your union. Ameen
@MMAnderson47
@MMAnderson47 3 жыл бұрын
We are 1 Race, different ethnicities.
@elle_l808l
@elle_l808l 3 жыл бұрын
I like the dynamic of their relationship, it seems so healthy
@charlesseakamela6212
@charlesseakamela6212 2 ай бұрын
Nthabiseng is a great speaker. I enjoy her insightful sharing
@pulane2651
@pulane2651 10 ай бұрын
Love the interview 🙌
@nombusoshozi6346
@nombusoshozi6346 3 жыл бұрын
I love this interview, they have broken many stereotypes, I am sure many people had they own ideas and Tommy and Nthabiseng proved us wrong
@irenethamahane4376
@irenethamahane4376 3 жыл бұрын
I used to follow her on Facebook😍😍 such a lovely soul
@benedictpharoe9430
@benedictpharoe9430 3 жыл бұрын
I love them! Coming into marriage with expectation from the is another factor that leads to marriage FAILURE
@prudencesihlangu5297
@prudencesihlangu5297 3 жыл бұрын
I have enjoyed watching this interview. Great one once more 🙌. Beautiful couple indeed.
@amandathomas7825
@amandathomas7825 3 жыл бұрын
So in love with this couple, it’s all about them not about other people’s opinions.
@blessingmguni3178
@blessingmguni3178 2 жыл бұрын
These are two smart and articulate people.
@khanyomaubert7188
@khanyomaubert7188 3 жыл бұрын
Enjoyed this interview very much, authentically nice couple
@Miranda-hf5hu
@Miranda-hf5hu 3 жыл бұрын
Interracial relationships are very interesting ❤️❤️❤️
@katlegonhlapo4040
@katlegonhlapo4040 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@chantellmotsienyane9041
@chantellmotsienyane9041 3 жыл бұрын
am literally hooked to this channel Lebo is really thee best big up girl❤
@teem5945
@teem5945 3 жыл бұрын
I made it up my mind from a young age that I will love all races. I have the boldness for it.
@TembisoHurungwe
@TembisoHurungwe 10 ай бұрын
Love wins no matter colour or age that was an excellent love story very genuine
@seipatimotshwane
@seipatimotshwane 9 ай бұрын
First of all, thank you Relebogile for this beautiful topic. I want to share this with you and everyone out there. In our day ( that is in 70s and 80s) if you were seen walking or talking to a white man you'd certainly be called names such as prostitute and W.h.r.) even if the guy happens to be gay . We had it tough back then and the stigma still stands. I'm happy for young people that are in interracial relationships ❤.
@JackMcCabeFL-USA
@JackMcCabeFL-USA 8 ай бұрын
Regardless of our ages, languages, and accents, we are all the same. My story of love and marriage is crazy too.
@pearllukwago-mugerwa2333
@pearllukwago-mugerwa2333 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 56 yrs old and have no issues eith inter racial marriages. Almost forgetting the lovey dovey things of marriage but I can sense the electric connection between these two. Respect and deep love for one another. Lovely couple and wishing the well
@Zulu_Cheese
@Zulu_Cheese 3 жыл бұрын
❤️😁 binge watching all the episodes I didn’t get time to watch. I’m the biggest Fan
@relebogilemabotja215
@relebogilemabotja215 3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🥳
@zukindevu4297
@zukindevu4297 3 жыл бұрын
That's me right now
@rhonda5056
@rhonda5056 2 жыл бұрын
Love wins. The interviewer is excellent.
@OdopaFoods
@OdopaFoods 3 жыл бұрын
this girl speak very maturely and doesn't look anything 28 years old. this is a marriage made in heaven.
@Gloryfied
@Gloryfied 3 жыл бұрын
Oh wow it was a great show to watch and learn about interracial couple. And age group. I now, no longer disputes age difference thing anymore. Cos I'm might find myself in it as well.
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