Interracial Marriage | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 28 | Season 2

[@missethio7394]

I love seing black women happy. Doesn't matter who they are with as long as they are happy.

[@lou-hellenphiri-eggers5299]

💜

[@kamogelontsewa58]

“Do you, the world will adjust.” And that’s on Periodt! 👏🏾

[@wewemhlaba7593]

Kamogelo💝

[@lebom2456]

What a delight 👌🏽

[@paulelago9453]

Relebogile is one of the best interviewers out there, I totally love her.

[@cecilemuntu5401]

Totally agree 👍👏

[@Enhle]

No lies detected here.

[@MorotolaK]

Definitely

[@lungisanjila1689]

Her ,Anele and Mac G 😊❤️

[@noxolosakang6547]

She's the next Oprah

[@TJ-my9nh]

I like how genuine this guy is. He is not trying to create a certain impression of himself

[@lebom2456]

He's so secure 👌🏽

[@joshuaslokum36]

Awesome 👏🏼 I’m a Canadian (white) married to a Zimbabwean.... My wife sent me this link.😁

[@pulengntsiapane2286]

Where are your cousins 😅🙈🥰

[@PhenduK]

​@@pulengntsiapane2286🤣🤣 you asking for cousins

[@tsoanelohsu]

I relate to this a lot. I am in an interracial marriage myself. My husband is Asian and he is from Taiwan. We met in University in 2015. We get stares a lot when we are out in public but we honestly love how people love our kids.

[@92Kandee]

Oh that's great! Do people ever say racial stereotypes to your husband or it's just stares? I'm in a relationship with a Korean man (we live in Korea) & I kinda worry about how some black people will (mis)treat him or do the eyes things. Idk.. just thoughts that cross my mind.

[@tsoanelohsu]

@@92Kandee Black people do say and do a lot of racial stereotypes and we honestly find that really annoying. We usually ignore them but they do not sit well with us at all.

[@zinhlesibeko4627]

Does he have a brother😁

[@tsoanelohsu]

@@zinhlesibeko4627 😂😂 unfortunately, he doesn't

[@nomasabisasizani1564]

@zinhle I also wanted to ask😩😭 give us his friends ke

[@faithsdollsville2662]

Beautiful love story. I must say Nthabiseng is indeed matured for her age. I love how she speaks about their marriage and how they built everything together. She is also good at speaking into her husband’s masculinity. She is a real suitable helpmate as the Bible tells us to be. She is so humble. They are such a well-matched couple. 🙌🏽❤️

[@faithsdollsville2662]

Oohhh this woman is phenomenal. I could treasure her as a friend or sister. Relebogile she sounds as intelligent as you. Okare your baby sister.

[@athandilenodada8906]

I cannot wait for the day when my fellow South Africans can fully embrace interracial couples ❤️

[@madelinemogale2256]

That will never change is the mindset.

[@KnockknockNox]

Many of us do. Especially those of us who went to school with people of all races and interact with people of all races on a daily basis. The problem is that black people (usually) think of people of other races as special magical unicorns and thus trophies (when dating) instead of seeing them as real people just like them. Siyafana

[@atlee.M]

Me too, interracial relationships must be acknowledged as it a union of two races and cultures etc.

[@tshepisomorobi659]

@@KnockknockNox and white people think that when our black sisters date white men they're after their monies not love.

[@justinamusyoka4986]

Is the race war over ?

[@mandimg_1804]

Every time I come to this channel I look at the number of subscribers. It makes me very happy to see that number growing!

[@ambrosiasegomotsomoeng8364]

Ke na le wena ❤️❤️❤️Exponential growth!

[@relebogilemabotja215]

Thank you! You’ve made it possible

[@ms_kedi8345]

Me too, if I had superpowers I would make at least 1M subscribers!

[@jessii7642]

Relebogile always looks stunning.

[@patienceikombele9161]

And the makeup 👌👌Always on point. Love her so much

[@lynashborne8634]

I love how she says they grew together they basically started from the bottom and pushed each other to do better ❤️

[@compton8301]

He was 39 though- fully grown! Of course she grew, I mean she was 18 when they started the whole thing.

[@tonylynch8668]

I'm white she is Xhosa and we have been together since 2007, the big thing is we stay ekasi Mdantsane.

[@rebajardine9544]

Woow the accuracy in this video... The black people stare out of admiration, and white out of disgust... 🤞🤞

[@noxxie1496]

Interracial relationships are so beautiful. They remind us that LOVE is a universal language and it knows no colour.. Thank Sis Relebogile for having this couple. This interview was so insightful.

[@justinamusyoka4986]

Its forbidden especially when it comes to the dark race,the original people. The enemy tried to destroy our melanin,our spiritual antennae in many ways.

[@mwimwimwewa6282]

True I always wish one day I will meet a white man

[@dollyboshielo892]

They met October and started negotiating Lobola around June the following year. This is what we call a serious relationship.

[@stellamooibedi9027]

This couple is calm it warms my heart, I sense so much love and respect between them 🤗

[@bonikoneti7123]

It’s when he says “my wife…” beautiful couple 💕💕💕🌸🌸🌸🙏🙏🙏😇😇😇

[@Celebbabies2022]

I wonder what all of you who are saying "so refreshing" were going to say if it was a 51 year old black divorcee man with a 28 year old or worse back then when she was 18yrs and he's 39 🙄🙄🙄🙄 double standard much 🤔

[@thembisaodendaal]

Beautiful couple..my husband is 26 years older than me white afrikaans love him forever

[@sharonhatzenbuehler4591]

You go girl…glad you got a good husband regardless of colour, age etc

[@vivimash4133]

I’m happy for u hun..May ur marriage fourish

[@thatsreality1177]

I assume you from Free state cz that where I've seen lots of interracial relationships.

[@thembisaodendaal]

@@thatsreality1177 I'm from cape town my husband from aliwal north

[@thatsreality1177]

@@thembisaodendaal oohk love

[@zainabinti5170]

His intentions were clear. How many women dated men of their age group and ended up single mother.!!! Well done to this couple.

[@gamejunkie6519]

You can also look at it as, how many little impressionable young women did he lie to that he will marry them before meeting this woman? Not all relations need to end in marriage, with or without an age gap

[@faraimusakuro9090]

A lot.of us aren't happy wt same age men...she's lucky

[@moitshepisparkles]

The part where she said, "black people stare because of admiration and white people, out of disgust" iyohh haai i think thats actually sad, I wonder if we will ever be united 🤔 and fully embrace and hopefully accept the diversity that comes with each race.

[@zimkithareikeras7577]

It’s so sad because as the couple you forget that you have different skin colors.

[@stellamooibedi9027]

In a world where they still think by dating a black person is a "downgrade " go boketenyana I think we as black people are the only ones looking for change not them

[@mosalethoba5267]

Not all of us stare in admiration by the way truth be told .

[@awalubundi4093]

Samantha, l am with you. She was actually the rotten part of the whole video. Interviewer , you chock! Downright offal and uncouth. Everyone travels their own route and turn own corners. Don't try to rub in your encounters into being those of everyone else you meet walking the same direction you did. She is cute and cool. You probably lost it from such challenges you visibly carry.

[@compton8301]

In white, indian & coloured circles, dating black is seen as a downgrade. My question is, why do we as black people admire other races so much??? We're all human beings, no race is "more" special.

[@moitshepisparkles]

All I see here, is love and its beautiful to witness. I wish them only the best ❤️.

[@Amahle361]

I respect both of them. I like them. There is just something beautiful about their relationship.

[@mathebulatman]

Im in a beautiful same sex interacial relationship, he is 51 and im 31 ....we have a lot in common, we get along so we've been together for two years now......we do get people starring a lot but we don't really pay attention to it ,but we see it ..... we happy thats all that matters ......the moment you stop living your life to please other people thats when you find the true happiness of living your own truth.

[@vintontm]

My friend (in a interracial relationship) just recently moved to France with his husband. They are a beautiful couple😍❤️ So glad you have found your love and you are happy in your relationship.

[@kaleahcollins4567]

Maybe because he's old

[@zafikasimelane7525]

thank you for creating evolution! i pray your relationship lasts forever😘

[@dkmolebatsi5387]

Humble and loving couple .May God bless this beautiful Union

[@khetimthembu8465]

This girl is really pretty❤️

[@andilemagodla5926]

She's a muffin ❤️

[@stellamooibedi9027]

She is 😊

[@thabisamathabatha6997]

Too much😍

[@Auntie134]

I love this couple despite their age difference. Love wins💕

[@renniekufakunesu6254]

Please remind nthabiseng of how beautiful she is😭😭😭

[@wot4922]

I'm White married to an Indian woman. She's Hindu, I'm Roman Catholic. We celebrate what's important to us and our children join in if they want to. No biggy. Never shoving our cultures, race or religion down their throats. We're focussing on bringing up well adjusted individuals. Its working great because we're married for 21 years and our children have the most amazing assortment of friends.

[@relebogilemabotja215]

Wow, that’s so beautiful

[@wot4922]

@@relebogilemabotja215 Thank you👍🏼

[@mbalikhumalo7111]

Love knows no boundaries guys!! If we can fully grasp and understand that then we will be able to get a glimpse of understanding of the love God has for us

[@koliswaqutywa3717]

I fully agree with you Mbali. Love knows no boundaries.

[@Lebogang_Mathe]

Wooow just finished the fraud story they uploaded again love this Chanel

[@fukutwatable]

😂 😂 ME too

[@boitumelomothibedi4231]

"Do you and the world will adjust" this is what I am taking 😊

[@user-xx5hy7nj8o]

Recently discovered this channel about a week ago. I love how I can watch the shows with my partner. It’s really eye opening topics and very educating..

[@moonrock72]

When she mentions the stares, it reminds me of the the flight I took last week where there was a a couple (old white man and a young black woman) who were lovey dovey. On their right, there was a white woman who kept starring in disgust at the lovely couple and she almost looked uncomfortable. It was a weird thing to witness. To the lovely couple, you both look amazing and I wish you nothing but the best.

[@thulehzondi5494]

With the chaos that happened this week the “disgusted stares” will be a norm ☠️

[@compton8301]

White people stare with disgust. Black people stare with wonder and excitement as if you've achieved a huge milestone.

[@sisanakay]

I don't appreciate how Relebogile kept focusing on the negatives, felt personal as though she's against or thinking in her mind that she'll never date a guy this old. Her facial expressions, so many awkward moments. Lovely couple❤️

[@juliasephaka8033]

Awkward😀😀

[@nompumelolo]

Maybe it was because he groomed her tbh

[@jaydee6178]

Lol especially the part where the white guy's friend put her hand in his hand 😅😅😅😅

[@Aya_a153]

True, I have picked that and where Nthabiseng commented about her ring that laugh it was fake, but she is a best interviewer I just thinking this one she was not comfortable

[@S.phiwokuhle]

As an interviewer she had to ask questions that people were too afraid to ask. I don't think that was negative at all because typically these are the things people want to know and as negative as they are it doesn't mean that Relebogile is negative she was just doing her best.

[@yandiswasiwisa8865]

There is nothing more beautiful than love and love is what I see from this couple. May the Lord Almighty bless your union🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤...."Age ain't nothing but a number" I know that saying and I lived it. My late husband was 17yrs older than me.

[@mandisazulu8426]

Rele is amazing! Her listening skills are out of this world and she asks all the right questions you would have as a viewer. I'm obsessed.

[@joycenonhlanhlavilakati7161]

Kudos to the couple for living authentically and not giving a hoot what gossips think.

[@pointa2b388]

I like Nthabiseng, girls we have to work for ourselves, make our own money

[@Traveler-rf8ye]

I agree

[@fukutwatable]

LET US SHOW GRATITUDE TO LEBO FOR THE GOOD SHOW BY ATLEAST WATCHING ALL HER ADVERTS PLEASE 🙏

[@Mbalings]

So much emphasis on the age issue but honestly I get it, 18 and 39 is just extreme. Weight doesn’t age your mind and behavior.

[@ntenekabelo428]

😎 I hope you would be next, wait until you meet that person share or having of the same intrest 💞

[@awalubundi4093]

You are right. Especially from the interviewer. Did he'll lot of bidding to bring it as an issue on the table. Just glad that both sort of brushed her drive away, telling her on several times that they were and had never been interested about that

[@patienceikombele9161]

Love always win. People will always stare. You marry a non black African society will stare. My uncle declined to sit a my lobola negotiations just because I'm marrying a Congolese man. We are 15 years in our marriage we are going strong. I love him because he didn't do what he was not comfortable doing he was being himself. So do you

[@jaiyaalexandra144]

As a Malome he was supposed to support you because your blood ties should supercede your decisions. Marriage is marriage, regardless of who you marry. I'm with a half - Congolese guy but anybody who does not support us should forget about having access to us and my daughter.

[@stellamooibedi9027]

I always say love is what you make it out to be and if you are happy with it then go for it

[@lindiwetoheed7466]

May God continue to bless your union. Ameen

[@amandamgobhoza2882]

Im 31 yrs old my husband is 49 years we are happily married with 2 beautiful and healthy kids.been together for 13 years.it feels like we were just made for each other

[@lou-hellenphiri-eggers5299]

Thank you for sharing , loved the questions Relebogile was asking. I am married to a comfortable loving German man. Met online and after our first meeting, spend a week together and lobola was paid and we got married. Years later we are just as happy as when we first met.

[@nompumelolo]

Lovely couple but a 39 year old man getting into a relationship with an 18 year old should NEVER be normalised. You know what else should not be normalised? Telling fat girls they look older for their age. I was fat as a child and literal men hit on me and said I looked womanly when I was TWELVE!!! Can it just stop

[@moe_ramz]

I wrote something similar, my post was deleted. Large age gaps have a 10% success rate for a reason. The first two decades are great, but eventually the age thing becomes problematic.

[@Mabsknows]

Amen 🙏 “18 is an adult” is a loophole for predators.

[@moe_ramz]

@@Mabsknows True, there’s no way she was matured at that age. She said it herself, she was a rebel. That doesn’t mean she wasn’t a child. The adult brain is fully developed by age 25, so her reasoning, rational and understanding capacity wasn’t fully developed.

[@kzeetha]

@@Mabsknows true! "She looks older coz she's bigger" is another loophole for predators 🤢

[@Mbalings]

I feel you.

[@OscarineMlisana]

This is what I always say, do you, because you do bad or good people talk, enjoy your marriage lovely 💏 watching from the UK, 🇬🇧🇬🇧

[@monicaabrams8378]

It is refreshing to see interracial couples talk about their relationship it makes me more curious every day and I like that they get along so beautifully in their marriages

[@yondontlahla]

Beautiful love story. I still don't understand people who judge love. This is a happy couple who are inlove.

[@cc35506]

At first when he kept on saying he's only into black women I just assumed it's a fetish thing. But Im now Im impressed. What a well balanced couple. They just get each other. True soulmates. More love to them.

[@khutjodiphofe2245]

I'm actually curious where and how do we distinguish a fetish and non-fetish because I too cringed a little bit when he spoke of the 'typical black woman' features.

[@bellam7546]

@@khutjodiphofe2245 He does have a fetish because black women come in different shapes and sizes so why is he only attracted to the big lips and bums?

[@LkeaFeather]

@@khutjodiphofe2245 Yeah, the way he described the features sounded fetishist to me, but I also think this is a grey area. I guess the attraction is what it is as long as he treats her like a normal human being and doesn't expect her to do anything he wouldn't ask of a white woman.

[@AfricanUSA-th9ov]

There Is Nothing Wrong In A White Men That Are Saying That They Are Into Only Black's. That Is Not Ferish When He Is Happily Married To A Black Woman.

[@wewemhlaba7593]

I'm obsessed with Relebogiles interview skills I'll always say this😍Great conversion I just learnt a lot

[@khetimthembu8465]

I love how open this couple is heyy😊🔥❤️

[@zimkithareikeras7577]

Scandinavian man 🙌🏿🙌🏿, We experienced a lot of stares and weird comments (especially ngabantwana bethu 🙆🏻‍♀️🙆🏻‍♀️) when we stayed in SA with my Scandinavian hubby.Beautiful love story 💜

[@nomasabisasizani1564]

Khandiphe iBrother inlaw yakho 😩

[@zimkithareikeras7577]

@@nomasabisasizani1564 he’s married sthandwa sam 💜

[@karies6895]

Aww this was lovely to watch! I think the genuinity is what did it for me. Love does indeed win in the end.

[@marshamabasha8777]

It's the consistency for me

[@busiswambana3189]

Sabathandi now I think the Hartvig can have their TV show🤗🤗🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@Bo7bbsie]

@25:03 “Those poor white people from Springs” tense 😬 The East Rand is wild 💔😂

[@lindiwe_cwele]

Bruh!! I laughed so hard when I heard that part😂😂😂😂.

[@nompumelolo]

I laughed 😂😂

[@Gloryfied]

😂😂😂😂 fyny right.

[@atlehangledwaba4764]

Lmfaooo 😭

[@nomxhosapekani7966]

We like to make fun of Eastrand people, but most famous South Africans comes there.

[@Introvert_Fi]

Beautiful couple,wishing you much more blessed and happy years...watching from Ireland🇮🇪

[@gladysnqiwa9152]

Please bring back an Irish husband 😊

[@tebohopakkies6611]

I love this couple. They powerful and a very sober couple

[@nontobekokhumalo8782]

This lady is older than her age. You can hear they way she talks...very matured 💞💕

[@nkule2493]

This was refreshing to watch. Beautiful.

[@I_am_Faku]

Beautiful and very sound couple. One of the best interviews I've watched in a while

[@eyethumfazwe]

I enjoyed this interview. Sis Relebogile, you have impeccable interviewing skills. The perspective of this couple is heart warming and they're a breath of fresh air.

[@tisetsomankgeru1307]

This is a working couple as in it works. I want a relationship like this, love, understanding and pure

[@balekisathobakgale1911]

Woooow!! This is fascinating indeed. I also want this kind of a relationship, the love, understanding we black women lacks. Keep it girl, and fight for your good life

[@sandulelamjana]

"Do You, The World will adjust" .. Love that!!♥

[@sharonhatzenbuehler4591]

This was a lovely interview…great couple, I wish them all the best

[@MMAnderson47]

We are 1 Race, different ethnicities.

[@ernestmfakudze]

Beautiful love story! It works because you share the same values, especially when it comes to money and prosperity! I wish you both a long and healthy life. The values which our parents instill in us as kids go a long way in determining our success or failures when we are adults. I once had a partner who wasted food and only wore designer clothes because other clothes were not good enough for her. It was not her fault but the way her parents had raised her. Needless to say that we did not prosper and the relationship fell apart because of all the arguments about wasted, money and the lack of putting a value on anything.

[@iamaconqueror4597]

This is so beautiful!! It actually made me jealous in a good way! This is AMAZING 🥰

[@dolckineonyango3168]

she's so mature for her age, and i love that. The guy also seems cool and composed....... they truely compliment each other

[@wespeakthetruthhere7413]

So refreshing, thoroughly enjoyed this. You can tell they rarely fight.

[@irenethamahane4376]

I used to follow her on Facebook😍😍 such a lovely soul

[@tashatee1389]

Well said " do you, the world will adjust." 👌😘

[@kodwat2134]

Nthabiseng seems like a grounded woman, I like her.

[@Hopecomethinthemorning]

I love the authenticity of these interviews.

[@caramelcomplected]

Tommy was like my ex. Scandinavian, preference for black women, knew what he wanted...but he was terrible when it came to honesty and execution. Anyhow, bless their union. It's nice to see.

[@92Kandee]

I think it'd be cool if Relebogile could get Siya Kolisi & his wife on the show for an episode, to hear their experiences as an IR. I've realized black women will stare in "admiration" at fellow black women dating white men but are quick to judge & get mad at black men like Siya, when they marry white women. I've seen it esp happen on the American socials & a little in SA.. Just an interesting observation...

[@92Kandee]

Or any BMWW couple, for that matter...

[@yuletide863]

I think that it's colorist black men who say that "white women are better than black women" or that "white women are more beautiful" who ruin it for some BMWW relationships. However, it is sad that we base the terrible ideologies that some men have on on the entire dynamic.

[@yuletide863]

And in America it's even more so because colorism a lot worse there.

[@92Kandee]

@@yuletide863 you're very right. I've realized some American content is very toxic (to me) & I've made it a point to watch less content/videos from The States. It can sometimes mess with our minds & we end up doing the same thing in SA.

[@banyana6515]

We should not watch black American TV, it's toxic to global black relations. I think Rachel Kolisi is cool, at least that's how she comes across. Here in Botswana our first president married an English woman, Batswana had zero issues with it.

[@briellab3864]

They look good together please don’t push the age difference thing. The lady is happy with his age and has no issues with that

[@lungisanjila1689]

I must give the show a chance, alot of good content I have been seeing❣️❣️

[@velilemsomi8353]

I feel like Relebogile is Judging her, emphasis on the age differences. You can tell that she's really uncomfortable.

[@sindisondou8768]

True, I also think so too, she's been emphasising on the age gap and race. It looks like she also doesn't believe in this kind of love.

[@jessii7642]

The age gap seems very predatory though. 39-40 year olds should not be dating anyone who is 18.

[@futhimkhatshwa4603]

Me too i wasnt happy with the questions too

[@velilemsomi8855]

Relebogile is also relating to her failed relationship with her white boyfriend. Her comments and questions made me so uncomfortable.

[@velilemsomi8855]

Relebogile is also relating to her failed relationship with her white boyfriend. Her comments and questions made me so uncomfortable.

[@khanyomaubert7188]

Enjoyed this interview very much, authentically nice couple

[@nombusoshozi6346]

I love this interview, they have broken many stereotypes, I am sure many people had they own ideas and Tommy and Nthabiseng proved us wrong

[@nadinevoegt1643]

Wow I can relate to this, my mom is black (Venda) and my father is mixed with ( Coloured and white). My dad is 25 years older than my mom, Seeing that there are other couples like that out there makes me happy, I do not feel alone. And when they met they had both been in failed marriages but they stayed together for approximately 22 years until my dad died last year, he even stayed with us in a village in Limpopo and they had 3 children from their marriage, now my point is age is just a number and mulitiracial families are beautiful.

[@Gloryfied]

Oh wow it was a great show to watch and learn about interracial couple. And age group. I now, no longer disputes age difference thing anymore. Cos I'm might find myself in it as well.

[@prudencesihlangu5297]

I have enjoyed watching this interview. Great one once more 🙌. Beautiful couple indeed.

[@elle_l808l]

I like the dynamic of their relationship, it seems so healthy

[@mrsnoma1422]

Love always wins... Love sees no gender,age or race...

[@Edi_Moyo]

"Those poor White people from Springs" 😂🙆🏽‍♀️

[@zizilemdakane]

This was insightful and beautiful to watch

[@tshegotshegow2299]

what a beautiful couple, you can tell its love...... I really love their story

[@JeanetteMoseneke]

Here first 💃...my new favorite KZbin channel

[@amandathomas7825]

So in love with this couple, it’s all about them not about other people’s opinions.

[@benedictpharoe9430]

I love them! Coming into marriage with expectation from the is another factor that leads to marriage FAILURE

[@mrsboingotlopolitebucksch4682]

We are 19 years apart and we enjoy our marriage to the maximum!He is german and am from botswana and all eyes are always on us esp that germany still have racists but we bother them not coz we love each other but i believe one day this racism will be no more coz it irritates.Love is blind and gut no color more so that we bleed the same so it shouldnt be a big deal. Miss my Africans so bad hope germany will take me well.All the best to those marriages wish the Lord could bless us with a kid Stay blessed and away from corona stay home and quit uneccessary trips for your health's sake Tschüs 😘🤝🏿🇩🇪🇧🇼

[@stanceynkgowe2709]

I have dated a German man before you are so lucky they are full of love. Le nna ke motswana

[@keneilwemohlabane1288]

This couple has really warmed my heart. May the Lord keep increasing your blessings and grant you many more joyful years together. Thank you Relebogile for asking some difficult questions that helped extract the authenticity of this amazing couple. Keep up the fantastic hosting dear. You are all great 👏👏👏👏👏👌🙏

[@Miranda-hf5hu]

Interracial relationships are very interesting ❤️❤️❤️

[@katlegonhlapo4040]

Lol

[@luceebee5001]

Love this, for a change we get to see a + size African woman in an interracial relationship in SA

[@KnockknockNox]

People are just people so I'm not all that interested in the fact that they come from different races BUT he was 39 and she was 18 when they met???? I'm glad they're happily married and everything but I can't help but think he's a predator. I'm 31, which is not old at all but I still think of 18yr old's as children and as thus would never date one. Plus the whole "I've always dated black women" thing. Fetish much? Gross.... I honestly can't watch this because the whole situation is making my skin crawl. Call me a hater but we shouldn't be normalizing children being taken advantage of.

[@nompumelolo]

THANK YOU

[@rigbyrigbone5407]

@N. R. Njokwana , you do you I guess, but as Africans we were doing much worse than that from a cultural perspective. 18 is the age of consent i.e. by that age you're an adult so there is no child involved here. As for the age difference, it ain't nothing but a number.

[@tisetsomankgeru1307]

I understand your point. That's all I have to say.

[@moe_ramz]

They won’t see him as a predator because black women glamorise marrying or dating white men. What then when he’s older 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@mohauwamorena]

Yeey!! Lemme get comfortable and enjoy😊

[@blessingmguni3178]

These are two smart and articulate people.

[@chantellmotsienyane9041]

am literally hooked to this channel Lebo is really thee best big up girl❤

[@zeemaj6853]

Beautiful love story. Wish them the best. Thanks for bringing us this story. It’s taught me to be more accommodating of my children’s choices.