Introvert goes to the club ALONE | What I Learned

[@Ilyas_moos]

Honestly bro 24yo never been to a club. Always wanted to go but don’t have the courage too or anyone to go with. Respect to you bro

[@ReyArty]

make it your goal in 2025 to get out of your comfort zone!! you got this

[@Ilyas_moos]

@ thank you

[@Zonked123]

Just seen this vid in my recommended, and as someone who has gone clubbing alone and still does for me I love it. Even when I go with friends I constantly break off from them because I love meeting new people. You really just gotta talk to everyone make jokes and dance and vibe, you don’t want to come across awkward because for both guys and girls it just makes it hard to want to keep interacting. Just go in with the intent to have fun, compliment people ask for names dance. Confidence really is key. This was probably explained really badly but Yh, you should honestly try and go again. It’s better to not rely on friends

[@ReyArty]

I agree, confidence truly goes a long way. Having those friendly and extroverted social skills is also key for these type of settings. Like you said it's all about truly enjoying yourself there, I might try again in the future. I'm trying to try to do all the things people are scared to do alone to get myself out of my comfort zone

[@isaacagha9230]

This guy has serious balls tho,respect.

[@rulingmute]

Yeah, this is why I never go anywhere. I'm like a person on the outside watching everybody do things. I suppose the key is to get more involved and not just be an observer. Kind of difficult to do when you don't know anybody, but I guess the thing would be to interact and get to know people.

[@ExternalEclips305]

The people who tend to say “you don’t go outside that much bro that’s the issue” are the same ones that didn’t have courage to do what you did in this video. Most likely either already had friends growing up with a push or had friends that met other friends. OR maybe they did have the courage but the odds of that are low I just doubt it. I’m not saying that’s necessarily a BAD thing if anything I appreciate people like that it’s just a very bad translation like …. Anything else we learn from the internet. I got lucky I have a friend group because I got a push but it is what it is 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@cordeiro101]

Hey bro just started watching your video, im 30s in, i just wanna say you are not alone, i found your video because this next weekend im about to do the same thing. It really is hard when people just dont view us as a priority and the worst part is when those people are all you have, well at least for me. Im just friends with some in a group setting, i guess they dont really view me as a friend, and maybe its my fault too. But hey im tired of missing things because they dont wanna come fuck them, imma have some drinks to be more relaxed and i will have a good fucking night.

[@ReyArty]

Always put yourself first bro, live life how you want to live it. The right people will join you along the journey, you have to take that first step of doing what you really want whether it's alone or with others. I hope you had a good time:)

[@saraieatsstirfry5537]

My cousin came back to his hometown (Vegas) and recently took me out to multiple clubs with his group of friends. I don’t have that many friends as I’m an introvert that plays video games and goes fishing a lot and works a lot. From my experience, I wouldn’t go alone. Most people I’ve seen, go with one person or more. Yes you can make friends and easily get digits/socials but they’re just there for the night. If you plan on drinking a lot, never go alone. If you’re a girl reading this, expect guys to hit on you a lot.😂

[@ReyArty]

Yes agreed most people you meet there will only be your friend for the night lol and never get too drunk if you don't have a buddy with you (but i can't lie a few drinks do help to get into the social state flow lmao)

[@angel-kv3iv]

I go solo sometimes and talk to ppl, but gang I see you just sitting there and that’s it, it is a numbers game in general some huzz n nibbas won’t fw u but that’s okay just go to the next that’s how it’s done mannn go watch coach Kyle

[@itamar3800]

How you doing bro I really think about the feeling of going to the club alone cus i feel embarrassed in my life that i dont have anyone to go to a club with and its really effecting my life and making me feel bad, do you feel like that going there alone fulfilled that feeling?

[@ReyArty]

It only did for a very temporary moment since i didn't really click with anybody there. To be honest i think the best way to find genuine connections with likeminded people is to regularly do an activity such as joining a sports team or frequently going to a same place such as the gym or bookstore and socializing there. But you can still give the club a try, just enjoy yourself and try to befriend people that are open to talk and hang out with you. I get that loneliness can have a big impact on one's mood but life is unexpected and make sure you feel comfortable enjoying life by yourself:)

[@Ibrahimehinda]

I'm from Morocco 🇲🇦. My advice for enjoy your time alone in the club is necessary take mdma. Try it 😅