இப்படி இருந்தா life bore அடிச்சிறாதா..🤔 | Neeya Naana | Episode Preview

[@Live_and_Let_Live6270]

For those saying DINK is lack of responsility, Our grandparents had 8 to 16 kids. This generation had only one or two. avangalala 10 12 kolanthaingala valaka mudinjathu na apo nengalum 10 pethukalame. If you have reasons to not have 10 kids, we have our own reasons to not have any kid. Infact we re not hurting or disturbing anybody. Its our individual decision. I dont understand the problen with that.

[@beawarehelp6029]

Live and let live ... Nice

[@pvmuzic]

@@Live_and_Let_Live6270 May be the backlash is due to the fact that the idea is exactly opposite to the very socio economic system which we built for decades if not centuries. . Of course people’s mindset will change over the course and it does takes it own sweet time. isn’t it :) ✌️

[@pvmuzic]

@@Live_and_Let_Live6270 and to your above example, Back in those days our ancestors faced 100s of problems . 10 kuzhandhaila 7 or 8 dhan pizhaikum. 14 la women will get married(men will be atleast 10 -12 years elder to them) by 18 they will have 3 kids . Add Famine, hunger, pox , cholera, poor health, child birth and labor difficulties to that. In hundreds and thousands of cases mothers died during labor. Ore veetla ammavum ammavoda mudhal ponnum pregnant ah irundha kadhaigal ellam iruku. Modern science taught us about safe spaces between child births , and due to govt policies we shifted to 1 and 2 kids with woman’s married age set at 21. If you take US, you will easily find 6 out of 10 homes with more than 3 , 4 kids. . And govt provide more assistance/ aids to parents with kids. Since us Indians are conditioned to one or 2 kids due to policy regulations we had back in 70s and 80s , we unconsciously stick to that number. That’s it.

[@sruthimeena3782]

Exactly, even I don't know. Maybe it's new to society and they can't do it. That's why😂

[@pavithravasudevan9636]

we dont see a decision here we just see people escaping from life and life responsibility in the name of my choice my life if people are like this not having anything to look forward just simple eat sleep work lifetsyle

[@velayuthamkolanji4954]

இவர்களுக்கு போதிக்கும் போது புரியாது பாதிக்கும் போதுதான் தெரியும் காலம் உங்களுக்கு பாடம் சொல்லித்தரும் வாழ்த்துகள்

[@rosh266]

The root of suffering is attachment -Bhuddha To understand this need more wisdom

[@jenk7728]

I am not saying life should not be without moral restrictions. At the same time, forcing your ideals on someone's family is quite awkward. Wanting to have children should be a choice made by the couple. For health reasons and for circumstantial reasons, women hesitate to have kids. This is very personal. Given the population and number of orphans without parents, we can rest assured that their choices wouldn't have serious consequences for society.

[@rammigreen]

Not all couples need kids. If they dont want to have them and have a relaxed life its absolutely their choice.

[@murugananthamangamuthu7643]

Wrong choice kids is important in life

[@rammigreen]

@murugananthamangamuthu7643 not for everyone.

[@The-min800]

Apom unga family ungaloda mudichitha oru thalaimurai gali idhu dhan nature ​@@rammigreen

[@rammigreen]

@@The-min800 I have nothing special , average looking, average studies, avenger earning. Why would I want my DNA to continue

[@skstudios2915]

Intha blue saree akka show telecast ku apram semma adi vanga pothu

[@sunsun2799]

Un manaivi ah ava....mooditu po

[@Frank-wf9qx]

True

[@Arvind_MGTOW]

It’s individual choice. We can’t question them. Nowadays raising a kid is really expensive and stressful.

[@murugananthamangamuthu7643]

Very wrong having kids is blessing in life ippo ellame stressful than aana kids than namakku happiness

[@Rajubhai-rs3nf]

Ungala yaru expensive ah valaka solra...enaku therinchi nalla earn panrvaga tha kolanthai pethuka kudathu u yosikraga...middle class low class family kuda irkra salary vachu atleast they are raising one kid...intha IT sectors peoples are thinking they are enjoying their life nu oru mask ah potu suthraga...reality athu ilaa...

[@Anon582]

​@@murugananthamangamuthu7643bro in abroad no problem but in India they have problem

[@vigneshramesh7691]

It can be an individual choice.. but it should not influence anyone and should not affect the future society. These people are only living in the present. It should be futuristic. If you are feeling taking responsibility as a burden, then your should change your mind. One day you will be suffer

[@vigneshramesh7691]

​@@Rajubhai-rs3nfcompletely agree..

[@vijayvirat562]

It's just their choice. What is marriage according to your book? Having kids and raising them? Maybe according to them marriage is moral support between two people who share the same ideology. For them marriage is not about having kids. Don't impose your thoughts on others

[@vijayvirat562]

@Artisticsigma-b8m atha neeinga eppadinga sollalam, Kids illana divorce pannikuvanga nu??? Generalize pannathinga. Everyone has different stories. Avangala ungaloda definition of marriage ku vazha sollathinga, ungalukku vennnum na neeinga marriage panni ungaloda definition of marriage ku irrunga. Why are you so bothered about what they do in their marriage life? You're not going to do anything to them, so why bother them?

[@vijayvirat562]

@Artisticsigma-b8m athu Ungalukku bro, neeinga vaazhunga. If someone asks you not to have babies then that's a problem, why do you want to force someone who doesn't want to have babies to have a baby? And what's your problem if they're married or not? Avunga marriage pannurathuku munnadiye pesirupanga itha pathi ellam. Avuggaloda choice ah neeinga yen thappu nu solluringa? Everyone grows up in different environments though everyone is Tamil. Avuggaluku vendam nu thoonuthu because of some factors and it's not a crime to not have a baby, then what's your point of argument here?

[@Rajubhai-rs3nf]

​@@vijayvirat562Crct tha neega solrathu....but ithu Neeya Naana show...Inga debate tha concept ....Inga vanthu pesna opposite la irkravanga atha convince panra points vaika tha seivamga....thanipata yarukitayum poi yen kolantah pethuklannu que kekrathu thapu...their choice....💯💯but show la avanga avanga points vaikratha naama thappu solla kudathu

[@beawarehelp6029]

​@@Rajubhai-rs3nfipdi oru topic la show panradhe thappu thaan nga.. Gopinath is clearly in the stand kolandhai pethukanum nu solravanga side.. so at last, andha side tha correct.. samoogam kumudham nu solli mudichiruvanga

[@sunsun2799]

​@Artisticsigma-b8m future la women kalayanam pana matanga.....apo Ena kadarvengalo😂

[@mohankumar-ec9ms]

Dink முந்திய நிலை நான், கல்யாணமே ஆகல 😂😂😂😂

[@harinid3]

Live and let live❤

[@manikandarajanr1491]

இதெல்லாம் ஒரு வாழ்க்கை 😢😢😢😢

[@ramuthaiguru3337]

குழந்தை இல்லாத வாழ்க்கை வாழ்கையாகவே நினைக்க முடியல.ஆனா இவங்க இப்படி பேசுறாங்க 😮😮😮

[@Lola-ec4zd]

@@ramuthaiguru3337 then you have kids. Why are you forcing your opinion on others?

[@dhesikan.v]

இவர்களுடைய % in தமிழ் நாடு 2%only

[@divraj73]

Vijay TV did not do justice in this episode. The participants supporting dink did not actually had any verbal fluency except for two people in the entire group. Whereas the opposite group were given enormous opportunity and also gobinath did not do justice in this episode as he himself was in favour of the team against to dink concept.

[@limboslim4296]

That's because DINK is a concept like you said, not a reality.

[@hemalathaa100]

Kuzhandai valarppu enbathu stress illa, athu varam, ithu kooda puriyala, kuzhandathai vendum endru pala varudam thavam irukkum jodigalai kelungal puriyum athan thevai.

[@abiramiravishankar3941]

Makkal thogai konjam koraiyattum... nallathu than udunga pa....

[@sarasperikavin5555]

திருமண வாழ்வு என்பது கூடுதல் பொறுப்புகளின் தொகுப்பு. இந்த பொறுப்புகள் துவங்கும் நாள்தான் திருமண நாள். துவங்கும் நிகழ்வுதான் திருமணம். இந்த நபா்கள், திருமணத்தைச் செய்துவிட்டு, அந்த வாழ்வுக்கான பொறுப்புகளை தட்டிக்கழிக்கப் பாா்க்கிறாா்கள். இதற்கு, இவா்கள் திருமணம் செய்யாமலேயே இருந்திருக்கலாம்.

[@beawarehelp6029]

​@Artisticsigma-b8madha keka neenga yaaru

[@Lucky.-23]

​@Artisticsigma-b8mungaluku yen ivlo kadupu😂. Athu avanga vaalka. Kozhantha petha neengala vantha valrpinga. I think nenga mattum kasta padringa kozhantha pethu so avanga jolly ya enjoy pandratha pathu romba kadupu Aaguringa nu thonuthu. Ungala maari aalunga aala than kozhantha illathavanga romba stress aaranga.

[@ChillVibeGoddess]

​@Artisticsigma-b8morphanage la kolaintha iruku nenga thathu eduthu atahium valakalamey

[@TEJ11]

​@@Lucky.-23😂😂😂

[@Lola-ec4zd]

There's nothing wrong in this. The world is an ugly place why bring an innocent soul into this to suffer.

[@padminig3867]

1000% true

[@ss-xb4uq]

In ulgy place what ur doing

[@Lola-ec4zd]

@ I have to live life cause it's been given to me. I have no choice do I? But some people don't want to put that burden on another sould and it is understandable.

[@ManjuNaren-ir9zk]

💯💯👏

[@vijipasupathy9244]

இன்னும் 2-3 வருடங்களில் இவர்களுக்கு vacation போறதே போர் அடிச்சிடும். அப்புறமா 24 hrs ம் depression க்கு போயிடுவாங்க. அதற்கப்புறமாக இவர்களுக்கு இவங்க கணவன் மனைவியே போரா (bore) போயிடும். அதற்கப்புறம் divorce and depression தான். வாழ்க்கை முழுவதும் depression தான். இதே நபர்களை இன்னும் 5 வருடங்கள் கழித்து நீயா நானாவிற்கு அழைத்தால் யாருமே வரமாட்டார்கள். அவ்வளவு பேரும் depression இல் இருப்பார்கள். முடிந்தால், இன்னும் 5 வருடங்களில் இவர்கள் நீயா நானாவில் வந்து கலந்து கொள்ளட்டும் பார்க்கலாம்.

[@Lola-ec4zd]

Adhu vandha avanga paathupanga. Avanga sarba neenga pesa vendam.

[@imaiyaa]

சரிங்க உங்க கருத்துக்கே வாரன் இப்போ ஒரு தம்பதி இருக்காங்க அவங்களுக்கு குழந்தை பெத்துக்க ஆசை ஆனா அவங்களுக்கு நடக்கைலை அவங்க பல வருசம் சேர்ந்து வாழ்வதில்லையா, அவங்கள இந்த சமுதாயம் நல்லாவ நடத்துது நீங்க சொன்ன depression ah அவங்களுக்கு இந்த சமுதாயம் தானே குடுக்குது நான் இவங்களுக்கு support பண்ணலை but எனக்கு ஒரு விசயம் சந்தோசத்தை குடுக்குதுனா அதே விசயம் அடுத்தவங்களுக்கும் அதே சந்தோசத்தை குடுக்கும்னு சொல்ல முடியாது

[@vijipasupathy9244]

@@imaiyaa குழந்தை பிறக்காத பல தம்பதிகளுக்கு பல ஆலோசனைகளையும் இந்த சமுதாயம் கொடுத்துக் கொண்டுதானே இருக்கிறது. யாராவது ஒரு தம்பதியினராவது தமக்கு யாரும் ஆலோசனை தரவில்லை என்று கூறட்டும் பார்க்கலாம். அவர்கள் சிலபேர் கொடுக்கும் அவமானங்களை குழந்தை இல்லாத தம்பதியினர் சந்திக்கக்கூடாது என்பதற்காக இந்த சமுதாயம் அவர்களுக்குப் பல விடயங்களைக் கொடுத்துக் கொண்டுதான் இருக்கிறது. இவ்வாறானவர்கள் பெருகுவது சமுதாயத்திற்கு நல்லதல்ல என்பதால்தான் பலர் அறிவுரை கூறி வருகிறார்கள்.

[@beawarehelp6029]

Neeya naana ivlo kevalama poga venam..... Interfering in others very personal always

[@The-min800]

Adhu alredy kevalam sirilavu kalacharama tha poitu irukhu nangalam apove sonnom

[@fahimasafrin6830]

Actually boomer cringe nu solliu irukuravanga dhan romba lazy person avanga andha words ah mathavangaluku use pannikiranga avanga laziness ah hide panna...it's their choice nu yen solrenga? Nalaki society ku nega ena vitutu porenga? Kids kandipa venumnu yaru force panna matanga ok adhu god's gift yethana per adhukaga yenguranga theriyuma..kids irundha nea solra safacaion pressure la irukadhu apdy irundhalum adhu azhaganadha irukum..ungala madhiri unga parent's think pannirdha nega evlo azhaga inga ukkandhu pesirka mudiyuma? Nalla society venum women empowerment adhu idhunh solrenga aana nega oru nalla society nalla environment kudukura madhiri kids ah grow pannalam la ipo indha world la yaraum chane panna mudiyadhu aana kandipa oru nalla kozhandhaya vazhathu indha world ah namba change pannalam adhuku nega unga life ah sacrifice pannanum nu la illa adha first purinjikonga

[@nalinim8617]

Hi Dhivya akka I am Ramya's friend. Nalini ,Nandhi sister

[@balajiraj-d4g]

DINK COUPLES ARE THOSE WHO ARE ADDICTED TO TEMPORARY PLEASURES ,THEIR MIND SET IS THIS HOUR , THIS MINUTE I JUST WANTED TO BE HAPPY , AND ARE NOT EVEN GETTING READY TO FACE CHALLENGES IN LIFE , THEY JUST NOT READY TO DO ANY ROLES AND RESPONSIBILITIES IN LIFE , THEY ARE JUST LIKE A AIR CAN GO ANYWHERE , ANY TIME , ANY PLACE , AFTER SOME YRS THEY JUST DONT HAVE ADDRESS TO IDENTIFY .

[@manimekalar6338]

One peythukittu cellam koduthu keyduthu vaikaradhuku Idu evlowvo better. Yaarukum thollai illa.

[@shobana667]

You must run even to lead your own life

[@prathikshap3075]

Ma pathuka aalu iruntha jollya pethukonga ma. Ilana commitment athigama irukatha seiyum. Kolanthana apdithan for some years

[@pvmuzic]

This approach may be self satisfying for individuals for now but as a society this is huge set back. One of India’s biggest strength in global climate is its 18-35 years old manforce . Dinking might potentially create catastrophic societal collapse with respect to economic development in the future. In simple words, Aale iladha kadaiyila yaruku man tea aathuva situation.

[@Lola-ec4zd]

This is true. But we have to face that reality because we have created economic systems that leech the welfare of the common man.

[@Live_and_Let_Live6270]

Not everybody is going to become DINK in one single day and stop having kids. With current environmental conditions, lack of employment etc., at least a few people have to stop having kids. If not the population is only going to catastrophically explode.

[@pvmuzic]

@@Live_and_Let_Live6270 I understand and All I’m stating is Like any other lifestyles this too has its own pros and cons and before diving into it it’s better to be aware of what we are committing to.

[@ro8jhraja]

சரிடா. மொத்தத்துல நான் கல்யாணம் பண்ணவா வேணாமா..

[@Karthikadavi-b1v]

Vendam😂

[@kosaladevi3159]

Venam nóoooooooooooooo

[@Arvind_MGTOW]

Ungaluku oru companion venum na pannuga Ilana panna vendam. Don't get influence from others bro

[@divraj73]

Dink concept should be spoken by people who are really fluent in delivering speech. The people who participated here did not do justice as in why they chose dink. Im a married girl and i have chosen dink lifestyle. I feel this epsiode just did not wNt to promote dink concept.

[@harinid3]

Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child. Life ngra indha cruel aana rat race la naa oduradhe podhum en pasangalum odanum kadasi verikum oru wage slave ah irukanum nu enakku ishtame illa. India is already overpopulated. Inga irukravangale vela illama, thangarathuku idam illama, saapaduku vazhi illama kashta padranga. Already irukravanga neraiya peru sandhosama illadhapo why should I subject innocent souls into this harsh world??

[@vijayvirat562]

Well said

[@User-m1-l6l]

Very sensible comment. I hope some of the younger generation have this philosophical understanding instead of procreating just for peer pressure. I know a very close friend of mine who has the same mindset but not able to find a life partner.

[@fahimasafrin6830]

Crct dhan but we want to change this situvation right? Yellarum idhae mindset la irundha aprm yarukum yarum iruka matanga innu thappu panravanga thappu pannitu irupanga keka yarum iruka matanga

[@prabhap4389]

Boomer aunti ,edhuku avangalai compel panreenga

[@rahanthuva]

😂😂 30 years munadi ponnuga ipadi tha dress podanum nu sonnaga ipo sonna boomer same inthe matter 30 years ku aparom boomer aakirum 😂😂 vanthu pessura yarum young girls illa ellam boomer auntys a irukkaga😂 avaga life avaga life style ungaluku enna ??

[@ramyaselvi8629]

Dress uh baby pethukurathurum onnah😂... Ipdithan avanga life... But young ah healthy ah irukura varah jolly ah irukalam.. But after 50 age v2 la children iruntha than.. Loneliness irukathu... Manusanga anbukaga eangum... So athunala than ellarum advise panranga..

[@rahanthuva]

@@ramyaselvi8629 ama onnu tha 🤣🤣 inga context a tha pakkanum 🤣 ovoru thalaimuraikum ovonnu chance aakum munnadi irunthavagaluku ponnuga saree chudii a thavira vera potta thappa therijum kelvi keppaga ipo apadi ketta boomer munnadi join family ya vittu poona kudumbatha pidichudaga nu sonnaga ipo thani kudithanam sagajam aakidu same ipo ivaga kelvi kekkuraga 30 year aparom ellam sagajam aakirum and avaga partner kuda tha irukkaga aparom epadi loneliness varum ?? 🤣 logic a pessuga avaga well grown adults avagaluku therijum avaga valkai ya pathuka athu avaga istam oru ponnu dress eathu podanum nu solla urimai illajoo athu mathuri oru ponnu pullai pethukanum nu sollura urimaijum illa athu avga life 🤣

[@ramyaselvi8629]

@@rahanthuva well grown adults dhan nga.... But endha responsibilities uh ilama iruntha life ey veruthurum... 3 hrs movie kae hero ku villan venum.. Ups and downs irukanum... Sadness aprm happiness varum pothu hope kidaikum.. Oru movie kae avlo irukum pothu.. Namma life ipdilam iruntha thane nalla irukum nu opinion... Thats why I said..

[@rahanthuva]

@@ramyaselvi8629 kulanthai illa na responsibility illa nu yaru sonna ?? 🤣 boomer mathuri pessama kelambuga kalyanam pannanum pullaiya pethukanum avaga padippu avaga kalyanam avaga kolantha nu oodikiteee irukanum ma ?? 🤣 athu ellam antha kaalam ithu gen Z kaalam munnadi love na oruthara tha pannuvaga ipo eathana love nalum pannalam benching situationship one night stand nu 🤣 ulagam engajoo poidu irukku ipo vanthu boomer mathuri pessikidu 🤣 sarii apadi paththa kulanthai illathavaga ellam happy ya illa ya illa avagaluku responsibility illa ya ?? Avagaluku vera niraiya responsibility irukku 🤣🤦‍♂️ apadijeee 40 age ku aparom loneliness a iruntha pullaiya adopt pannika poraga exactly western country mathuri 😅 western culture mattum vennum ana western thoughtss la pessina naaga puriyama pessuram ma ?? 😅 mobile use pannurathala birds ellam saaguthu athuka pannamala irukkiga 😅 boomer aunty mathuri pesaama go and study 😅🤣

[@Rya852]

That’s her choice 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️what’s your problem 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@s.vijayarani1812]

I do have problem.. They live in society.. Not in individual island.. Life is a circle and its connected with one another. They can do anything without jeopardize the existing system.. They are representing the irresponsible, selfish people..

[@Unknownja1307]

​@@s.vijayarani1812 this is nothing to do with the society just you people can't digest their decision which is different from yours

[@Rya852]

@ @s.vijayarani1812 if you have problem mean, please visit clinical psychiatrist. You need help madam.

[@Rya852]

@@s.vijayarani1812 @ if you have problem mean please please visit clinical psychiatrist. You need help madam.

[@Live_and_Let_Live6270]

​@Artisticsigma-b8mdo you seriously think they marry someone without discussing about not wanting kids 🥴

[@MohammedShayan-g8l]

ஆளுக்கு 2. 2 கொரானா ஊசி போட்டா சரியா வந்துரும்😂😂

[@Karthikeyan43002]

❤❤

[@guruthai9456]

இவங்கள ஒரு 10வருஷத்துக்கு அப்புறம் விஜய் டிவில காமீங்க

[@roshannavamanidavid1679]

Then why marriage, enjoy the life with single, it's more convenient than this 🎉

[@SEAL1208]

Pregnancy n giving birth is a project?😮😮😮

[@keerthyramalingam4306]

Selfish ha erukaravagaluku baby vendam

[@Lola-ec4zd]

Yes that's why they don't want

[@theicon2132]

Spot on But that's their wish Idhu Epo namaku prachanai aahudhu na avanga agenda va mathavanga mela thinikum bodhu😊

[@StockmarketNews87]

Decenta living together solunga 😂

[@Lola-ec4zd]

They're married da thevidiya mavane

[@nikithageorge441]

Decent ah avanga adults avanga kalyanum pannirkanga avanga ishtum

[@theicon2132]

​@@nikithageorge441 Adhe maathiri thaan pethukuradhum avanga avanga ishtam Avanga agenda va mathavanga mela thinika koodadhu😊

[@kamalakannan39]

Apo ena responsibility than neenga intha life la eduthukuvinga. Tour porathu, thungurathu.

[@vijayvirat562]

Appadi responsibility eduthu neeinga enna panna poringa?

[@Arvind_MGTOW]

Responsibility lam oru society construct panna vishayam. Athu edhukurathu oruthanga choice.

[@Lola-ec4zd]

They pay their taxes and follow the rules of the law. Adhukku mela avanga veetla epdi irundha ungalluku enna?

[@dinakaranelumalai3918]

@@Lola-ec4zd Lola Darling let them put their comments...be calm

[@mahilakannan7232]

​@@dinakaranelumalai3918but what she saying is correct 😊

[@paruvathavardhinijaganatha3096]

Stupid, they just come here thinking they have learnt so much. I don't know if she is aware of population cycle and how it impacts the country. She must learn the current situation of Japan and why they have three days holiday in the weekend.

[@r.ganeshm7336]

Kalyanam mattum ethuku

[@Lola-ec4zd]

Kalyanam kolandha pethuka thaana? Evlo per kolandha illa ma irukanga, avanga life ellam enna waste ah? Apdi ellam onnum illa.

[@nikithageorge441]

Kalyanum kolandha pethaka dhana apo. Companionship lam ilaya. Apo husband erandhuta ponnu enna pannanum sethuranuma

[@shadesofshashi7454]

Earlier things were different parents support was there to take care of child , financially it was not too hard to raise a child These days the bars are high school is so expensive, the man income alone is not enough Women is asked to work n take care of the child which is huge huge responsibility Again these GeN kids the expectations are so damm high it's kicks alot of stress