Irene's relationship with her mother

[@berryyrreb1946]

Guys stop saying she is strong because she isnt crying or holding her tears Crying doesn’t make a person weak,nor, not crying makes you strong Irene is a strong lady regardless of crying or not

[@nskfsr]

Crying in front of others is a sign of weak self-control.

[@1ia802]

@@nskfsr or its just bc u feel comortable expressing yourself

[@bunnydarlin]

@@nskfsr Not really

[@godischungha4599]

@@nskfsr it’s really not..

[@mayrasolis2239]

@@nskfsr definitely not....

[@mellorocks]

thanks for posting, irene is a private person and she rarely cries in front of us but she's so sincere. being honest and open about things like this isn't easy and takes humility. i respect her so much, truly the best woman of this generation 💗💛💙💚💜

[@ZaNC4847]

Right. Strong person bears more. I would like her to show more of her vulnerable side bcoz she don't hv to put a strong upfront everytime. But I think that in her current position, it's very hard to do so. As a leader, she must've received more pressure from their uppers and showing weakness will mean that she would be taken advantage of.

[@princehabibe3168]

Mm. M

[@coconat5359]

@@ZaNC4847 some people including myself just really hate showing their weak vulnerable side unless it’s someone I’m really really close to so I don’t think it’s just about her being the leader she just doesn’t want to show that side of her to a bunch of strangers and on cameras ( hope that doesn’t sound mean) id feel the same as an introvert and shy person just like she is too we just have to accept and respect that

[@Trung_ww]

You mean introvert?

[@misterwacky3186]

To be open with your feelings is one of the classiest things anyone can do. It ain’t easy for people like her, but feelings are important to human health. The fight against feelings and empathy is ridiculous.

[@reveoncelink6133]

Irene controlling her tears proves that she is strong!😭❤️

[@kael9924]

i hope she doesnt bottle up her feelings too much that its unhealthy tho:(

[@reveoncelink6133]

@@kael9924 Yeah... She will loose now as Wendy is back now!❤️😁

[@ceeceeb9213]

controlling your tears is not being strong. you need to cry when you feel down, it’s not healthy to keep your tears

[@cyndixx]

Crying doesn’t make you weak though

[@reveoncelink6133]

@@cyndixx That's NOT what I meant.... You know... Some people don't cry in front of people because they want them to be strong and Irene not crying was giving hope to Reveluvs that Wendy will be okay!👍

[@Araff43]

SHE IS THE TYPE TO NEVER LET HER TEARS JUMP OUT , NOT EVEN ONCE SHE WOULD DO ANYTHING TO HOLD THEM BACK . BUT TALKING ABOUT HER MOM SHE JUST TEARS UP RIGHT AWAY PEOPLE ALWAYS TAKE HER FOR A COLD PERSON , SHE ISN'T COLD SHE IS JUST STRONG AND ALSO HAS A HER SOFT SPOTS . SHE IS AN AMAZING PERSON

[@ellayami3419]

So if you cry or are emotional easily you’re weak?

[@himinhi]

@@ellayami3419 that’s not what they meant. Nowhere do they say “not crying” equals strong You just want to read what you want to read. I think they mean that Irene is often misunderstood as a cold person bc she rarely shows emotion. But in reality she is just good in hiding them -which can be really really hard sometimes- and that’s why they are praising her as a strong woman. That’s all

[@ellayami3419]

@@himinhi I know that

[@welcomebacktoanotherepisod8542]

The comment and the vide: Irene has a soft spot🥺🥺✨ Also Irene: Yells at thy stylist for 12 minutes🙏🏽🤩🙈😹🤬such a bad day

[@ivysii8874]

@@welcomebacktoanotherepisod8542 Move on its over

[@Nameless_mixes]

I’m sure that no matter how much they argue, Irene’s mom will always love Irene and be proud of her! And we all know that Irene will be a great mom too some day! She already has 4 daughters and 23 sons 😂❤️

[@roastedpeanuts1994]

oh my god, 23 sons lol no wonder Irene is trying to adopt more daughters from other girl groups 🤣

[@exokon4bfast120]

pls open up 🥺 .. 23 sons means nct right? did her mom openly said that she likes the bois?

[@jjyviolette9177]

@@exokon4bfast120 Irene has 4 daughters and 23 sons, yes it's her members and nct, she took care of them as a mom, Irene is the eldest among rvxnct and the rest are like siblings to each other

[@Nameless_mixes]

@@exokon4bfast120 Haha Exactly! Irene is the de facto mother of both Red Velvet and NCT! And idk if Irene’s mom likes the NCT members. I’d assume so because I can’t think of any reason why she wouldn’t💕

[@chaeroii]

But why you forget about aespa

[@emilyt6116]

I feel like it's true. First-born daughters will almost always clash with their moms and Irene wanting to find a solution to it to mitigate or lessen the bickering shows she really cares. Some parents and daughters just accept their dynamics as it is, but she's looking for ways to improve her relationship with her mom. What a great role model.

[@ehpuessi]

2:25 I agree, sometimes we don’t notice the love those nearest to us give us bc we expect them to always be there for us in the end. It’s not easy but after realizing it you’ll be more careful and thankful towards your family

[@gilmoreinth]

yes that was such a good advice tho

[@roselamoure]

I think Irene is someone who is short tempered and when she is stressed or when things don’t go well she lets her anger maybe out on others without intention! I don’t think she ever wants to hurt anyone and the situation with the stylist came to my mind because that might have been the case there as well! She might have felt a lot of regret. Being an idol is not easy and I thinks it‘s so nice of her how honest she is! She just maybe has to control her anger but nobody is perfect and we all sometimes let our anger out on someone. Some more, some less but it‘s only human. I‘m glad Irene didn’t sugarcoat her relationship with her Mom but was so open and honest! You can really feel that she felt hopeless and wants to change. She is a good person ❤️

[@irinimyeon2520]

Honestly, when people ask me, why I like Irene, my answer is she teach me about life.

[@AnVo-wd6nh]

She rarely acts weak in front of many people ... but when it comes to her family, she becomes emotional and wants to cry.Irene ah don't hold back your emotions but show it all 🥺

[@orangenade3707]

Crying is not weak everyone cries its worse to hold back your emotions you probably feel worse

[@meinbow]

@@orangenade3707 Crying isn't strong either, holding tears isn't a sign of being strong but repressing your feelings. Irene is a strong person because she is the leader of her group and she represents stability for them.

[@orangenade3707]

@@meinbow ik i never said its strong but its normal and not weak

[@musicforlife5503]

I hope she get to spend some more time with her family because this is very heartbreaking 💔

[@jjrmmrrja4535]

The thing about mother-daughter relationships that I noticed: when a daughter is young, they fight with their moms, and may sometimes think that they hate her. But as the daughter grows older, she realizes that the one thing she would like the most is to be exactly like her mother.

[@ellayami3419]

Not me and I’m adult

[@meowlinae1480]

I hate her when I'm with her we quarrel quite often but now when I can't see her much I love her and miss her 💖

[@AKRose-nm1zs]

Not when theyre just straight up abusive, in fact now that i have my own kids i hate her even more, remembering all the things she did to me cos i could never do those things to my kids

[@Ireneisbae]

I think it differs from case to case. My mothers mom was never around for the duration of her life and when she did come along (when my mom was 20ish) it was awkward and she never calls her “mom” or any of those names. So my mom has always strived to be the complete opposite of her mom and be there for me and my siblings and give us a life where we don’t have to worry and grow up fast the way she did

[@ApatheticRobot]

Your statement isn't accurate, it really depends. My mom wasn't amazing at being a mom lol (but I still love her) so I don't want to be exactly like her...

[@lyaamkh]

people only care about her ' cold ' appearance, but they rarely care about irene soft side like where she always hold up her tears and showing a "not care" look to a man, that's bcs she had to look strong, she know there's other 4 people that she need to protect from this cruel industry, best leader indeed she deserve all love 🥺💗

[@momo7337]

She's the strongest person i'ved ever know

[@joys1986]

I relate to her on a metaphysical level. The advice is good, we know our mom will never leave us

[@irene_bae1991]

*Yeah, not being with my mom really cause some misunderstandings and quarrel but in the end she's always there and always have been there for me. Even though she's living abroad she's still there for me, no matter what happens.*

[@salwasalsabilal.2140]

just like me and my mom.. unfortunately i couldnt say sorry and i love u as much as we quarrel until the day that she's gone

[@ptt2176]

She has a big and warm heart, I love her

[@biswajitmaiti8596]

It breaks my heart when Irene tries to control her tears. She is so sweet. 😘 - Sana

[@mia.j26]

Irene is the reason why I able to learn so much important things in life. I used to be very ignorance but Irene inspire me to be a better person ❣️

[@sansaastafara6736]

This kind of video must be seen by a lot of people to show them how soft irene is. She may be look cold outside, but very warm inside.

[@orangenade3707]

Ikr and people are gonna use that scandal while irene makes mistakes to and they didnt even let irene explain herself

[@waynemackinnon3918]

The problem, I think, is mostly the fans putting idols up on unrealistic pedestals(calling them angels or gods) and when the idol makes a very human mistake(not talking about idols that have actually done very bad things), then they are the worst person in the world, with zero percent chance at any kind of redemption.

[@trollsneedbrainnotinternet8597]

Irene Eonnie, be strong, no matter how much people don't understand you.... Luvies are always with you.... Luvies, red velvet and your family are always there.... Please take care of yourself... ❤️ Love from India 🥺❤️

[@auisthia5003]

Happy Mother's Day to Joohyun’s mom and to Velvet girls mom.. And to all mothers out there!❤️

[@kkyftr2345]

Irene is a strong woman, everyone admits it. she always holds back her tears in front of people. ah one day the man who will accompany Irene will be very lucky🥺❤️

[@aisyahfilm123]

ah that guy is very lucky to have irene someday,why im crying😭❤️

[@jojorene6176]

She's so sweet

[@aariachaudhary6143]

Irene reminds me of myself...quarell with my mom and then regret..i don't know why us Aries are like that

[@aespakarinaisakillervisual2572]

Dude .a recent day I quarrelled with my mom and next day had to suffer from a neck cramp which lasted for a week..karma is sometimes so quickly to act. Regrets are applied in that manners too. But my mom is a really sweet loving sensitive person..Can't think why I always end up being so mean sometimes..problem is me as i guess.😐

[@aariachaudhary6143]

@@aespakarinaisakillervisual2572 sometimes we take our parents for granted

[@aespakarinaisakillervisual2572]

@@aariachaudhary6143 hmm.😔

[@mudiqayaseen3226]

I am aries too

[@jumbly4746]

Doesnt really matter what sign u are. It depends on u as a person. Its even harder when u try to change but they dont notice n when u make 1 mistake again they say u dont change.... like ma i am changing why dont u notice that n only notice the mistake 😢

[@zeldanunc]

woah this is the first time i've seen irene cry- its so wholesome haha

[@highskies4739]

It's like she was struggling to maintain her aura for a sec so cute 😭

[@tingle2323]

I can relate with Irene in this thing, idk but as my mom and me are totally opposite. Both are good but our ways are different, our giving message are different, our ways of showing love is different. Sometimes i dont know what to do as there is alwys misunderstanding there.. But this is what family is.. They don't leave you in half

[@Darrihen]

Its amazing how she literally refuse to cry... Is the only idol i never seen a fully crying video, She is strong AF.

[@marianssi9843]

The way I can relate. I argue a lot with her but what would I do without her. Aries things

[@carrieyau6868]

Irene is honest with her feeling....fighting💪💪Condition will become better and better

[@viaabiii3786]

Irene 💓💓🥰

[@WJen8]

Awww this is 1 of only 3 times I ever saw Irene tear up 🥺💗

[@ZaNC4847]

The feeling of being spoiled with that one person mean you regard them very close to your heart for trusting them to be able to accept you even if the side you currently show is ugly. That's a deep live I guess.

[@JuanRamos-tz6tm]

???

[@jumbly4746]

True, i sometimes am like that with my close friends we argue but we never hate each other for it cus we know it shouldnt be taken to heart. Of course family is different tho and change comes slow but if u truly try u will be able to do it whether it takes weeks months or years.

[@ynatot]

as an aries like her, i really understand why she always or sometimes may quarrel to her mom. whenever my mom and I fight on some petty things, clashes are really hard to handle and always end with both heavy heart. but I'm loyal to my mom and so is her, we both know it, deeply and when we join forces together we are stronger. I'm happy when she is happy.

[@eunwoovrs1715]

FR LMAOAOAOAO 😭😭😭😭😭

[@jumbly4746]

Signs have nothing to do with this 😭😭 i aint an aries and i connect with her situation 1000% its literally like seeing myself.

[@therese8406]

She'll always be a baby to her mom ❤️ I just love this very pure and kindhearted woman 💕 I also want a big sister like Irene.. she takes good care of each of her sibs by blood or not.. I'm sure she'll be a good mom someday too

[@limwolfgang5141]

First time I see Irene cry. 💔

[@powbobs]

Such a wonderful person, and she has the best laugh.

[@taerenevrene1807]

We love you Irene 💖💕💞

[@happywithmyfamily5341]

Irene baby you are strong please come back I hope you are strong we love you soo much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😘❤️❤️ god bless you you deserve lots of love #reveluvs love you soo much ......

[@aisyahfilm123]

Irene,we love you❤️

[@bbokay2585]

The advice they gave in the second clip is actually very very good

[@qc-bsn4-2guevarramariliajo69]

I think Irene is someone who gets offended very easily and often acts on it impulsively and regret on her actions afterwards.

[@trollsneedbrainnotinternet8597]

I don't think so... With mom it's common with all daughters...

[@SI-gq6dg]

I don't think so.. Conflicts or misunderstandings occurred in everyone's life. It's just whether you regret, realize, and the determination to change is the most important. Seeing Irene regretted it, and had communication with her mom afterwards, and asking for ways to change, I think she's growing up. Keep in mind these videos are from years ago.

[@jumbly4746]

U want advice? Dont think 😂 just realised this may be misunderstood. I mean dont think about what people’s personality is like. I have petty arguments/fights with my mum. N argue with my close friends but i dont with strangers and everyone else. So no, u cant think about the way someone acts towards everyone just because of her relationship with the people close to her, literally her mother😂. U can be impulsive with family but not with others and I believe it so to be with irene since we saw more evidence to prove this

[@qc-bsn4-2guevarramariliajo69]

I never said she is a bad daughter or a bad person now or ever but she's a human being capable of emotions. I'm a Reveluv but that doesn't mean I worship Red Velvet and see them as perfect beings without flaws. Being sensitive or getting offended very easily doesn't make a person bad but may make it problematic to them or to others but they always have a choice to think before they act on it, to deal with it or not, in a good or bad way.

[@magicbrownies]

@@qc-bsn4-2guevarramariliajo69 i agree with you. It’s hard to see idols as anything other than “perfect”, since their perfect image is the only image we’re exposed to, therefore we consider it as truth. It’s not hate to recognise they can make mistakes and act impulsively. That’s just human nature. We can only hope she and other people struggling with similar situations develop healthier behaviours.

[@multi_stanp1699]

SHES THE SOFTEST AND ON STAGE SHES SO DIFFERENT I LOVE HERRR

[@rosiesposies2137]

irene most beautiful 💗

[@meow-xn8mt]

first time i see her cry front of us :( love you irene

[@donewithyournonesense5632]

Not evrybody can be sickeningly sweet all the time ❤️❤️ my girl has a good heart

[@taerenevrene1807]

Stay strong my girl 💖💕

[@jle7636]

Resisting crying is tougher than crying himself. Sorry Irene cause I can't protect you but I know I always will be beside you

[@befine5353]

That's absolutely true 😢😢

[@babsgrayson8432]

Happy mother's day to all mother figures out there.

[@DawnBreaker5]

Poor Irene!!! I hope she and her mom were able to bond during her break! 🙏💗

[@irenel7905]

I LOVE YOU IRENE, COMEBACK SOON!! 😘❤❤

[@son_son1419]

Irene best woman of the generation 😭💖💖

[@Rythaga]

Really wish laundry day would last longer than just 12ep (and Irene only appeared for 10ep) :( Not only she being the maknae mc but also a show that allowed her to talk about her concerns :(

[@mariaautentico4894]

All daughters can relate, in like this with my mom.

[@cheez6161]

I see myself. I am a very opinionated woman that sometimes me and my mom misunderstood each other, but in the end, I know I love my mom all my life and she loves me too.

[@taerenevrene1807]

We love you baby💖💕

[@chwiller]

well at least she have the gut to say sorry ...its really hard to say sorry when you re more viewed as a villain

[@exostanx2675]

I understand her cuz i have that kind of relation with my mother we loved eachother more than anything but still we argue...and after that i always feel guilty even though i hate myself for that but it happes again. I love her alot but I can't express my feelings to her

[@ddudduduro9506]

Duh, zodiac sign has nothing to do with personalities!!! PS. Irene has this cold aura thing but we all know she's soft inside.

[@bread2951]

I am sick of these Aeires or whoever is bring up these zodiacs.

[@jojorene6176]

Irene💞

[@mohamadrafie2873]

irene so cute

[@Yeriprotectsquad]

The love of my life really irene i love uuuuu

[@jisooenthusiast7154]

Is it me or do most idols start tearing up when they talk about their mom's

[@yoongigum]

was needing to see something like that, it's good advice anyway.

[@marthaariadneerezacastro2117]

Watching this is relatable 100%

[@michellegutierrez894]

Irene so strong

[@blckvlvt7437]

Is it she speaks in Daegu here?

[@velvetscake4816]

it was filmed in seoul and she was supposed to send her mother a video message because she’s in daegu

[@reetanjalisingh978]

I can relate cuz I also fight with my mum for small things and we forget it after 5 mins 😂😂 I too regret saying harsh word to my mom.

[@lalalili7555]

I know about the first clip through articles, but this is my first time seeing it. Did something bad happen to her and her mom?

[@jes3087]

She's just emotinal since she lives far away from her family

[@Fatima-ud6if]

You guys have to see that Irene is human and she can have those days when she's not feeling well like for example she's not energetic and the littlest things can make her upset and, you guys have to stop acting like it's not normal for Irene to have some type of argument with her mom and even if it weren't she apologizes to her mom and some of you guys probably don't even apologize to your mother's when you guys have an argument or when you guys become upset, all I'm saying is what her and her mom's relationship is like it's pretty normal and don't hate her for it please understand her too, and no matter how much they argue I'm sure they love each other and care for each other just like you and your mom

[@aquaaria3489]

Mother-Daughter relationships are really special, at least for me it is... Both of my parents have done things that I didn't like and that I wish I could forget, but for some reason I'm way more comfortable with my mother. I love my dad, but I'm not as friendly and energetic with him as I am with mum 😂😂😂

[@gay_irene_knockmydoor]

Irene said, she can't see her mom face but she can video call with her

[@ngoclanchinguyen3889]

Her mom must be so pretty

[@ken_zaire]

i cried when she cried on knowing brothers T _ T

[@daphy9498]

I always go this with my mom but not always ok?but I always feel guilty or regret after if we quarrel with my mom if we are arguing,so I always make a letter after or maybe for few hrs I say sorry then we're fine also her she'll say ok and tease me or just have those pouty faces and yeah also God bless keep safe 😁❤️

[@taerenevrene1807]

Você é tão forte meu anjinho 🥺💕

[@begum.c7025]

Uwu dont be shy💖

[@girlasian5945]

0:40 😭😭😭😭

[@evelynlizettpalosalatorre1099]

Nmms llore, imagínense como se a de sentir ella

[@FlecheDeFer]

Baeby

[@mariacrisantatresvalles3054]

Thanks for posting! What show was this two clip from?

[@leeea605]

The first clip was from " Let's eat dinner together " the second one is i don't know hehe

[@camelliagiri4899]

The second one is laundry day I believe. Idk as well but at the back, there's laundry day and the hangul say leondeuri dei. So i concluded it as really laundry day hahahha..

[@carpetfluff35]

Sounds like she should facetime...

[@nrmeeyn8271]

💗💗💗💗💗💗🌚

[@Antifakepeople]

🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@alaabasem2460]

💗💗

[@dishamukherjee5939]

O amma😭

[@jaesardea9859]

😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@disgusting2669]

My 16 year old Brain...Why it looks so similar !!

[@ryusungi4569]

hello! where did you find the second clip?

[@redvelvetitzymamamootwicew4644]

Who cut onion here omg

[@techicalharsh9688]

1st clip of irene Which episode.?

[@zamanabed2006]

I don t like irene but i can feel her..

[@venchi7933]

Which show was the first clip from?

[@oshbjhldh6361]

Jtbc let’s eat dinner together

[@gay_irene_knockmydoor]

Being a k-pop idols isn't easy. You obviously become famous but you've to leave the family

[@myrady3475]

What program is this? ☹️

[@baechuhyun-ah6815]

laundry day

[@mar1nn998]

Yeah true

[@Ma-qu4fb]

Excuse me but what happened with her mom? .•́ _ʖ •̀.

[@laramiaizz]

What's curt?

[@lifesshitgetusedtoit8859]

it means marked by rude or peremptory shortness

[@azukarzuchastux8066]

John 3:16 “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.