Exactly what C J Jung said, "to be uncertain is a large part of therapy and a large part of life...one has to be comfortable not know...and to be allies in the venture. I really enjoy Yalom's work, can be so forthright that it is shocking, Loves Executioner is a good audio book but then again I've enjoyed most of his novels
@barrieevans97193 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed his memoir, "Becoming Myself" and I know it would be good for me to read "Love's Executioner," too. Thanks for repeating the recommendation.
@christinachang21209 жыл бұрын
being comfortable with not knowing!
@rul45224 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of being a teacher in a nursing school - the best contact i had with students was when they saw my vulnerability talking about the liss of my own parents. (They said afterwards that this was what they expected to learn in class.) Never forgot!
@thcollegestudent5 жыл бұрын
It's an interesting exploration of the ideas of "disclosure" in session. A lot more broad disclosure then I'm used to hearing about, but if the results speak then that's what counts.
@goodnightmoonoo5 жыл бұрын
It's funny to read that Irvin Yalom, MD, underwritten: Love's executioner.
@rusudaniela22826 жыл бұрын
dr. yalom revolutionized the field of psychotherapy starting from a simple commonsense ideea: the disclosure of self is more complete and efficient in a relation between equals. it is true
@rossanaechevarria78583 жыл бұрын
Beautiful Thank you!!
@BambiOnIce193 жыл бұрын
I cannot stand uncertainty. It makes me highly anxious, and i go into OCD mode. I absolutely hate uncertanty, and do everything I can do avoid it. Does that make me a control freak? Not sure. Does it make me human though? It certainly does.
@barneswriter10 жыл бұрын
Love's Executioner is a brilliant book so honest.....
@RobWax9 жыл бұрын
david lloyd Reading that at the minute ... highly recommended
@Doniedaff9 жыл бұрын
+david lloyd So is gift of therapy. Most of his books are winner to be honest. For me, the man is a genius as a therapist and I would definitely hope to take a lot of inspiration from his style in my future practice. I've ordered creatures of a day, I can't wait to read it.
@helen952510 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@MatthewSutton112 жыл бұрын
everyone is an expert here. just listen. we may learn
@spkasim12 жыл бұрын
Well, is existential fear not the basis of humanity? Is civilisation not the product of creative use of existential fear? Is the beauty of life not a matter of perception, i.e. a matter of how each human being puts existential fear to work? I answer yeah on all counts.
@Depression2Faith6 жыл бұрын
Spyros Kasimatis you are correct, Spyro!
@lauraelizabeth44443 жыл бұрын
Agree!
@Luciannaminx12 жыл бұрын
Why would he need eye contact here? This is not a therapeutic session! I adore Yalom, he is so wise and 'real'!
@rybuchna113 жыл бұрын
wise man!
@ceacatop13 жыл бұрын
¿do you know if there are some dvd with subtitules in spanish?
@hmvargo11 жыл бұрын
Brilliant!
@elegantblue195 жыл бұрын
Phenomenology 💡
@vietanhnguyen3825 жыл бұрын
Dr, may you help me !
@CHANNELONE111 жыл бұрын
in the land of the blind the one-eyed man is king
@TheMrsliferette8 жыл бұрын
Wondering why he does not have stronger eye contact...
@jamesclark69496 жыл бұрын
He's only human
@thcollegestudent5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes when people are trying to organize their thoughts they will stare at an imagined point distant from them, as sort of a focusing exercise, I find I do it a lot when writing or when trying to absorb in lecture.
@SeekersofUnity5 жыл бұрын
Yalom and Mishlove, what a marriage 😍
@birddogfreemann12 жыл бұрын
what kind of name is 'mishlove'?
@kerimalpaltuncu976 жыл бұрын
do you ever mishlove?
@jimporter47993 жыл бұрын
A mash-up
@manthasagittarius112 жыл бұрын
A great deal more powerful and focused than Yalom. With Becker I don't think you get that self-reflective wheel spinning that Yalom gets himself stuck in sometimes -- Becker, whether he's being playful or very urgent, is always outwardly directed. Yalom likes to listen to himself for size a little too much.
@luckymirixox13 жыл бұрын
@TheJussyhussy AGREED!.. Especially fat lady chap was hilarious..lol
@craigrobertson83645 жыл бұрын
Two heads are better than one and two hearts
@birddogfreemann11 жыл бұрын
Check out images of Vladimir Lenin. You may reconsider your observations.
@Jenlettautherapies12 жыл бұрын
Yalom has contributed hugely to the human race with his novels which reach the day to day individuals and connect them with the world of psychotherapy. He has also been a profound role model for many therapists. However, i find him slightly cold, aloof and would never consider his model for my own work both as an individual and group therapist.
@birddogfreemann11 жыл бұрын
Well, he actually looks more like Lenin
@rybuchna113 жыл бұрын
broad minded psychoterapist! almost revolutionary!
@boooringlearning Жыл бұрын
woww
@MatthewSutton112 жыл бұрын
the man
@cadmantheaviator4 жыл бұрын
Informed consent. Thinking of therapy.... have a look at “When Therapists Attack.”
@zzizek7 жыл бұрын
He looks like Ice Man, the serial killer.
@7685ray11 жыл бұрын
"patient?"
@LindaLucia178 жыл бұрын
Yalom is a medical doctor.
@lynnyessle5 жыл бұрын
He's a psychiatrist. He has patients.
@ardontenthusiast13 жыл бұрын
Nice eye contact..................lol
@combatsambonyc11 жыл бұрын
3:37 just for you ;/)
@SimsenDK113 жыл бұрын
:)
@baconlatte8 жыл бұрын
Such serious and earnest talk for such a sketchy and ultimately spurious practice (therapy).
@Chris-qc8ow8 жыл бұрын
such snarky and dismissive trolling for such a puerile and ultimately ignorant poster (baconlatte).
@baconlatte8 жыл бұрын
Nice ad hominem.
@Chris-qc8ow8 жыл бұрын
Nice ad hominem
@baconlatte7 жыл бұрын
LOL. Therapy critics are always attacked on a personal level, because a reasoned defense of therapy is impossible.
@fslubin6 жыл бұрын
Jokers who say therapy is spurious, or "I don't believe in therapy" don't really know what they're revealing about themselves. Do they think that people don't have problems? That depression, for example, is merely a bad attitude that you can clear up by force of will? Or are they saying that people do have problems, but that there is no help other than, possibly, the "chemical lobotomy" (Breggin) of psych drugs? What I am certain they are saying is that they are wounded people who were not helped when they most needed it -- childhood -- and are now too afraid to open themselves up to the bond that heals (or at least helps).