Is he genuine or ???

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Tony Gaskins

Tony Gaskins

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@powerbelochka
@powerbelochka 4 жыл бұрын
A video a day keeps the Grownboy away
@keelaw6749
@keelaw6749 4 жыл бұрын
Charlotte Edn. I love this!!! 😂
@andreamagyar7776
@andreamagyar7776 4 жыл бұрын
Lol 😃
@LadyAngela678
@LadyAngela678 4 жыл бұрын
Charlotte Edn. 👌🏽
@shereses.3298
@shereses.3298 4 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@ginad8238
@ginad8238 4 жыл бұрын
Yes!!
@ebonyflowers7599
@ebonyflowers7599 4 жыл бұрын
“I’m a stranger and I’m giving you an hour.” That really hit me. 👏🏾
@kikikiki3216
@kikikiki3216 4 жыл бұрын
Home truth
@CaramelKissez
@CaramelKissez 4 жыл бұрын
💯
@nardosayele7296
@nardosayele7296 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@tasha1206100
@tasha1206100 4 жыл бұрын
I’m dating and I notice the guys my age (late twenties, early thirties) love to text! They are not use to actually having to talk to a woman. Idk I’m dating a guy right now (only 3 months in) and I let him know from the beginning what type of person I am. He makes an effort to call me, spend time, etc. but he let me know the women he dated in the past didn’t care either way. These young ladies are settling for less and it’s NOT HELPING US!
@AuNaturale2012
@AuNaturale2012 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t think it’s settling, some ppl prefer certain things. I prefer to text unless I really have something to say and want a quick response. I LOVE texting in general tbh lol
@noone3496
@noone3496 4 жыл бұрын
AuNaturale2012 yeah same here
@tasha1206100
@tasha1206100 4 жыл бұрын
AuNaturale2012 I can understand that. Idk maybe I’m just different but certain things shouldn’t be texted. When you’re getting to know a person text messages can be misconstrued or misinterpreted. That’s the problem. Communication and time are very important things to me in a relationship. Honestly I think it’s the old school in me because people our age text everything.
@lebradavis8447
@lebradavis8447 4 жыл бұрын
@@AuNaturale2012 I'm 40 and I still love texting unless its important.
@Unapologeticallyme89
@Unapologeticallyme89 4 жыл бұрын
Yep, I totally agree with you, I absolutely cannot take any man serious that only texts, especially those “WYD” texts. Luckily my man now loves to talk on the phone especially video calls since we in a long distance relationship. Unfortunately some women are settling just to keep any man. Patience is really key, whats for you will surely come and stay with you.
@odb613
@odb613 4 жыл бұрын
“Whenever you play mind games, everybody loses.” SO true!
@VJ-zw7xz
@VJ-zw7xz 4 жыл бұрын
Beyond true
@disnalee
@disnalee 3 жыл бұрын
When he plays mindset games, walk away.
@Rachel-rt6yd
@Rachel-rt6yd 4 жыл бұрын
That's why it's so important to pray when meeting a new person. That's why it's so important to not have intercourse before marriage. To me it's just easier to know the difference when your mind and heart is clear and you listen to your spirit. This message was convicting.I used to stay on the phone and try to study or do other things but couldn't focus because I was distracted and didn't realize it until it was too late. Thank you for this revelation, it hurt but it's necessary to grow.
@MsBdoll87
@MsBdoll87 4 жыл бұрын
Yesss!!
@valgal36
@valgal36 4 жыл бұрын
So many females won’t close their legs, they’re so afraid of losing the man. Get on their back and then wonder why he got ghost soon after. Come back to you crying and bad mouthing the man. Yet won’t see it was because of their loose booty behavior.
@Rachel-rt6yd
@Rachel-rt6yd 4 жыл бұрын
@@valgal36 it may take some women a little longer to understand their worth. I agree that it's the fear of losing a man that will cause a lot of women to give in and lower their standards. I know because I went through it years ago with my ex-husband. If I held tight to my beliefs and knew I deserved better, it would have saved me a lot of time and tears but you live and you learn.
@RealLadi228
@RealLadi228 4 жыл бұрын
My days of praying out of some mess are over...im definitely praying before hand if this is God..this way I dont have to waste my time or his....sex is not even on the table. Good stuff
@Restyoursoul287
@Restyoursoul287 4 жыл бұрын
Tony is lowkey a comedian. 💀
@sphinxkitty4951
@sphinxkitty4951 4 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooo honestly it’s great
@Cee0215
@Cee0215 4 жыл бұрын
For sure!
@MazalsCool
@MazalsCool 4 жыл бұрын
It definitely softens the blow from the truth 😂😂😂
@nycetalk5312
@nycetalk5312 4 жыл бұрын
Angelique B. He is a comedian LoL
@lindsaya2816
@lindsaya2816 4 жыл бұрын
Yoooo... i thought it was just me lol
@leasasimmons1393
@leasasimmons1393 4 жыл бұрын
That’s a good point. “An hour is not a lot of time.” -Tony Gaskins
@jes-e-kah
@jes-e-kah 4 жыл бұрын
"Recognize crazy early"🙌🏾 ...Once you recognize it, CUT IT OFF.
@mariadelagarza0928
@mariadelagarza0928 4 жыл бұрын
Lol AMEN!!!
@KitoKamiliMusic
@KitoKamiliMusic 4 жыл бұрын
Quick, fast, and in a hurry🙂
@marishalewis484
@marishalewis484 4 жыл бұрын
Jessica that’s real!
@marjoriejohnson7498
@marjoriejohnson7498 4 жыл бұрын
You need to let him go
@nancycortez1231
@nancycortez1231 4 жыл бұрын
Yes he can look so genuine But got me tracking tro a cellphone i cut him off and blocked him So becarful
@DynamicallyDC
@DynamicallyDC 4 жыл бұрын
Give yourself at least a 3 to 6 month timeline to begin seeing a man's real intent. 🔝The man with bad intentions can look like the man with good intentions. He's serious about you when his attention to you is genuine & healthy. He's toxic when his attention becomes a distraction and a hindrance to you. 💎
@lindasmillie6105
@lindasmillie6105 4 жыл бұрын
So true...but why is that? for example if a guy likes you but his attention is full on...if he is a little insecure does that mean his intentions are bad ? Ie when he quizzes you to where you are ect I know they should not do this but does this come from a place of bad intentions ?
@lindasmillie6105
@lindasmillie6105 4 жыл бұрын
Ie what are his bad intentions in this scenario?
@DynamicallyDC
@DynamicallyDC 4 жыл бұрын
@@lindasmillie6105 I don't believe a person has bad intentions because they're insecure but it becomes unhealthy if he projects his insecurities onto you. It's healthy when he is taking action ( i.e. counseling/self care) to improve/ change what he's insecure about and not making you responsible or the scapegoat for whatever he struggles with or lacks. If you're a trustworthy person and he is always questioning your loyalty/integrity then that's a red flag. If he's quizzing you on your whereabouts that's a ⛳. The attention a man gives you should be rational, supportive, genuine, and consistent. It shouldn't control or restrict you whatsoever from being your best self. The attention that man gives you should bring peace and not conflict.
@lindasmillie6105
@lindasmillie6105 4 жыл бұрын
@@DynamicallyDCthanks so much for your reply and yeah I totally get what you are saying unfortunately mines is the latter...I was this person a while back so I understand this insecurity but you are right it dosnt make for a good Relations hip if you are constantly quizzing someone ect on things like you don't trust them esp if they are innocent. My current partner some would describe as controlling he has issues he gets angry if he loses a game /bet ?? I don't understand that ? I mean surely if you are putting a bet on you know before hand it can go either way...it's a risk you take ...so why get mad...?? I don't get that one. My partner was full on at first which i didn't mind but now I am beginning to see the downfall of all this attention as he has trust issues he isn't really working on it atm but is supposed to be seeing a counsellor due to anger but can't due to lock down...this only came about because he was caught being aggressive on streets and police caught him..(.he has anger issues when he has alot to drink )...that's what I don't get also why is he so angry when he is drunk ?? Why do some guys get like this ? Anyway I am in lock down with dad so am not been exposed to it as such but we keep in touch ...just alot if things don't make sense...
@lindasmillie6105
@lindasmillie6105 4 жыл бұрын
Ps I know you will prob say I shouldn't have to make sense of this and you are right but I do feel a bit sorry for him ..just not sure what is triggering his anger ? Would really like to know whether we are together or not...he dosnt seem to know himself...
@KCoopp9
@KCoopp9 4 жыл бұрын
Why are women having to do all the emotional work in relationships?
@TonyGaskins
@TonyGaskins 4 жыл бұрын
You probably can't explain why you're here and he's not. I can't either. So I speak to who is listening. Don't worry about why others aren't doing their work, and just do yours because at the end of the day, you have to take care of you regardless of what a man is doing with his life.
@brenaicooper4754
@brenaicooper4754 4 жыл бұрын
I be feeling the same way... it really is a lot of work being the one that has to be emotionally mature.
@jjskid14
@jjskid14 4 жыл бұрын
Thank You! Short to the point.
@Mirror_My_Ambition
@Mirror_My_Ambition 4 жыл бұрын
The question I would ask is why wouldn't I put in ALL the work to prepare and protect myself from being mentally, emotionally, spiritually, physically and financially ruined. We put on sunscreen to keep from getting burned and cancer, bug repellent to keep from getting bit and we freeze our credit to keep our identity safe. JS
@deannas2279
@deannas2279 4 жыл бұрын
I cleared my mind and prayed for what I needed and put faith on the table. Then went about my business and goals. God's work appeared in a subtle gentle way when he presented his choice and his is better than I asked for. We try to hard to make things happen our way and fails.
@miajesq
@miajesq 4 жыл бұрын
"I wanna hear you breathe" took me out 😂🤣😂 Great and informative video!
@naomiwaeni4310
@naomiwaeni4310 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@brandiejones_
@brandiejones_ 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@kaoshi_kutie
@kaoshi_kutie 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@reneeedmonds8685
@reneeedmonds8685 4 жыл бұрын
Jamia Davis wasn’t all puppy love like that. Never want to hang up.
@miajesq
@miajesq 4 жыл бұрын
@Renee Edmonds Yup sure was!!
@RubyRoxxie
@RubyRoxxie 4 жыл бұрын
“Get the paprika on there, you know it don’t do nothin but it look good.” Where. Is. The. Lie!?! 🤣💯 Thank you, Tony!!! So many of us are so READY!! We done went to Tony’s dating school!!! They better not try us! 🙌🏽
@RubyRoxxie
@RubyRoxxie 4 жыл бұрын
TIFFANY LANE 🤣
@marishalewis484
@marishalewis484 4 жыл бұрын
Ruby L 🤣😂
@robbyefulghum2038
@robbyefulghum2038 4 жыл бұрын
Ruby L That's Right... Don't play with us...😊
@KalimahSBICeo
@KalimahSBICeo 4 жыл бұрын
That part😂
@Beautifullybyg
@Beautifullybyg 4 жыл бұрын
Paprika don't do a thing. 🤣🤣🤣
@ladennayoung2939
@ladennayoung2939 4 жыл бұрын
Ladies try to focus on what your gut/ the holy spirit is telling you. Try not to be fearful, but try to be very cautious. My ex is a narcissist. I didn't know much about it until recently. But you will know the difference. If you take your time, and you observe them. They will not be able to hide behind the facade for long. Either way everyone be blessed.
@inajones7823
@inajones7823 4 жыл бұрын
He been showing you he was crazy....rolling. I've had this experience and ignored the signs it's so true
@queenofplantbasedvegan
@queenofplantbasedvegan 2 жыл бұрын
So true. In the future I am going to take so much time. I definitely fell fast for my narc exhusband. Their masks can only stay on but for so long.
@honeys.9579
@honeys.9579 4 жыл бұрын
I like that you said "if you playing mind games, then you deserve whatever comes to you" never been a fan of the games.
@trishmccollum1263
@trishmccollum1263 4 жыл бұрын
@bigjayking24 4×the only bike
@amandarobinson3604
@amandarobinson3604 4 жыл бұрын
You're amazing! Went through a divorce, started listening to you a year ago. Have a good man now. We're both single parents. Probably only get to see one another like every two weeks, but there is an absolute respect level that I learned from you . He calls me every night when he gets off work and we get our time in and see one another when we can. Thank you for giving me the confidence I'm sure your other comments are insane right now because everyone is going through something, but I appreciate you coming into my life when you did
@AshleyLu92
@AshleyLu92 4 жыл бұрын
I think a lot of women “playing mind games” really stems from us really trying to be optimistic but instead we end up IGNORING true red flags and we unconsciously manipulate reality. I’m guilty of asking the same questions just in a different way just hoping you might say something that I WANT you to say but it’s not like that. You gotta call a spade, A SPADE! Nothing else no lope holes straight for what it is! Thanks for confirmation this morning! I definitely needed to hear this Tony!
@deannas2279
@deannas2279 4 жыл бұрын
Your totally correct on the crazy shows the signs I've had several. I have a non-crazy now for 3 months now dating.. total comfortable transparency and no games only positive goals and actions going with words. Emotionally mature man glows with Gods blessings.
@MrsMiller22
@MrsMiller22 4 жыл бұрын
I am unable to afford to talk to you Tony but let me tell you, your videos are helping me through one of the hardest times in my break up right now. Please keep posting for us who aren’t able to reach out to you 💔 when I feel like I can’t take it, I watch your videos. Sometimes more than once to help me. Thank you.
@adelafirme
@adelafirme 3 жыл бұрын
I hope your in a better place today Much luv🙏🏼❤
@t.l1357
@t.l1357 4 жыл бұрын
Tony is getting sick of the comment warriors. Stop arguing with the messenger. If something triggers us we should first seek to understand and look within. Thanks again Tony! I watch your vids every day. Great reminders and another perspective!
@stelliumX5
@stelliumX5 4 жыл бұрын
Grown girl games... so glad I’m healing and growing 🦋🦋
@Gonegonegonee
@Gonegonegonee 4 жыл бұрын
I cried laughing when you rolled around in that chair BRUH ! 🤣🤣🤣😂😂
@alexiselmore7502
@alexiselmore7502 4 жыл бұрын
I live for the chair rolls 🤣🤣
@songbirdnESQUIRE
@songbirdnESQUIRE 4 жыл бұрын
And another dude could still be hiding 'in the closet' while you spinning in the FaceTime session. Smh
@samanthaa1584
@samanthaa1584 4 жыл бұрын
ZijaiGo 😂😂😂
@wavyblkqueen
@wavyblkqueen 4 жыл бұрын
@@alexiselmore7502 same lol
@ericajoneswallace7671
@ericajoneswallace7671 4 жыл бұрын
Me too😂😂😂 TG is so hilarious seriously 😂
@lekeshial418
@lekeshial418 4 жыл бұрын
"Recognize crazy early "🙌🏽🙏🏽 Applied discernment cuts through the "presentation ".
@MsBdoll87
@MsBdoll87 4 жыл бұрын
Lmbo at “the spirit just left me!” 😂😂 “if you want this to be an hr, watch it 2 more times!” Weakkkkk 😂😂😂
@MsBdoll87
@MsBdoll87 4 жыл бұрын
L.S. Saaame!! 😂
@mayaries3524
@mayaries3524 4 жыл бұрын
Hahaha!
@marishalewis484
@marishalewis484 4 жыл бұрын
MsBdoll87 😂😂😂 the spirit left & he said ✌🏾🤣🤣
@MsBdoll87
@MsBdoll87 4 жыл бұрын
Marisha Lewis point.blank.PERIOD! *in his voice*
@DsCompilations
@DsCompilations 4 жыл бұрын
right? he's so funny 😂😂😂😂😂 which is why I had to make a dedication video!
@bre_s9164
@bre_s9164 4 жыл бұрын
My last relationship was like that. He would jump down my throat b/c of my lost service. Lol He was literally the best thing I’ve never had. So glad I let him go...... NOTICE the signs ladies and gentlemen because trust me, they ARE THERE! ❤️
@stopmediabias4772
@stopmediabias4772 4 жыл бұрын
As a smart woman, I can’t believe I fell for a Narcissist. So it’s the lovebombing that makes it hard to trust other men’s intentions moving forward.. Tony please do more videos on Narcissism, it’s a REAL, HUGE problem out here!! However the most empowering thing to defeat a Narcissist, is INFORMATION🙏🙏🙏
@binspired3117
@binspired3117 4 жыл бұрын
Go look at Dr. Ramani Video on Narcs
@queenofplantbasedvegan
@queenofplantbasedvegan 2 жыл бұрын
I feel the exact same way. He seemed so amazing…pretty much everything I wanted in a man. I divorced him 3 months ago & have been educating myself on narcissism…I had no idea what I was dealing with. It is so crazy! How are you doing now????
@christineporter9914
@christineporter9914 4 жыл бұрын
Yes Lord help me in the future to recognize a healthy relationship and also craziness in the beginning. God bless you Bro Tony
@ashleyhenderson3856
@ashleyhenderson3856 4 жыл бұрын
Tony made my day a whole better today I needed the laughter and the lesson too thank you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙂🙂🙂🙂❤️❤️❤️!!!!!!
@gaylebranch487
@gaylebranch487 4 жыл бұрын
Ashley Henderson On time word and yes I definitely needed both as well lesson with some laughter GOD BLESS YOU ALL
@sheshez4christr301
@sheshez4christr301 4 жыл бұрын
😁🤣casually 😏dropping the truth though 🙏
@Moonpiebye
@Moonpiebye 4 жыл бұрын
😂 listen LADIES he clearly gave the list on the crazy guy tactics..hit the rewind and let it burn In Your brain ..pay attention to the signs..stay off ya back ✌️
@LovelyCeee
@LovelyCeee 4 жыл бұрын
It_isWhat_it_is True ...aka “bike” 😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯
@alisiasaffore9461
@alisiasaffore9461 4 жыл бұрын
Luvly Cee 🤣🤣🤣
@missmarymack3457
@missmarymack3457 4 жыл бұрын
“If you want this to be an hour, watch or listen to this two more times”. Tony Gaskins!! I love it
@brownsugarglamour
@brownsugarglamour 4 жыл бұрын
“If you want this to be an hour, watch it two more times” 😩😭😭😭😭💀
@marishalewis484
@marishalewis484 4 жыл бұрын
brownsugarglamour 🤣🤣😂😂
@missmarymack3457
@missmarymack3457 4 жыл бұрын
I died lol
@naomiwaeni4310
@naomiwaeni4310 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@tosheacollier2039
@tosheacollier2039 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@angelicagabrieli7169
@angelicagabrieli7169 4 жыл бұрын
"if you playing mind games, then you deserve whatever comes to you" such a wise message! Thank you Tony for your another great video! We all appreciate your time and effort putting into every single video you've made for us!
@parisyvonne
@parisyvonne 4 жыл бұрын
Men do that too. Looking at the phone when they’re mad smh so annoying
@ew0711
@ew0711 4 жыл бұрын
Have you ever called one and they don't answer, but will call you back as soon as you hang up? And you sitting there thinking 🤔 so were you just looking at the phone
@chaseback5102
@chaseback5102 4 жыл бұрын
E White or they text you right after you hang up like “ Did you just call me?” Lol Fool, doesn’t your phone have caller I.D. ????
@alexiselmore7502
@alexiselmore7502 4 жыл бұрын
Tony, thank you so much!! You are preparing me for my next relationship! And THANK YOU for the laughs 🤣 I know my neighbors think I’m crazy! I feel so much better after your videos! God bless you Bro!!
@stay_blessed23
@stay_blessed23 4 жыл бұрын
I was always that person that would cut someone off but also gave too many chances to begin with when I should've cut it off early. At one point I thought I was the problem because every person I been with would be my husband but then they'll have these same red flags. I was the problem because I didn't love myself and thought if I do ABC in that order it would keep a man but it never did. Now I know my worth and I'll wait as long if I had to while handling my business until the right one comes along.
@emiiheaven
@emiiheaven 4 жыл бұрын
Micromial chronolisms hahah u making a nursing student chuckle here love u tony u crack me up
@gigibrown_wright
@gigibrown_wright 4 жыл бұрын
Emerald Carlos right I was like microbial wha?? 😂😂😂
@natashapatterson452
@natashapatterson452 4 жыл бұрын
Me too! I loved it
@Cee0215
@Cee0215 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@jsamuels3085
@jsamuels3085 4 жыл бұрын
Tony said "heee's crazy! "Remove that 5G before it blows off her head,"😂🤣😆😁OMG. LMBO... hilarious BUT True
@zoelynn69
@zoelynn69 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Mr. Tony this was much needed. This pandemic has really shown who's there for you and where you stand in someone's life. I don't regret walking away after 1 year. Not bitter, better.
@patriciawilliams5519
@patriciawilliams5519 4 жыл бұрын
1 year is far better than waisted yearsss!! Be blessed. I'm listening to many online! I have a certified narcissist as a husband. Yes, I overlooked the crazy text messages and questions about where I'm coming from! Lord have mercy!! Glad to know though sooner than later though I'm beginning to heal. The mask is off😇⚓
@quishia
@quishia 3 жыл бұрын
Great video!! Healthy man will definitely be understanding and this will be shown through not only his WORDS but also through his ACTIONS versus a grown boy who won’t even have those align with each other. By their fruits you know them.
@lieselannmaul7091
@lieselannmaul7091 4 жыл бұрын
THIS IS ONE OF YOUR BEST WORD YET TONY AS ALWAYS BE BLESSED
@kimberly0717
@kimberly0717 4 жыл бұрын
There’s definitely some clues ppl can give you of their crazy early on, but often times sadly, many women don’t “really” see the crazy until you try to break up with the man.
@BeautyGraphicDesigner
@BeautyGraphicDesigner 4 жыл бұрын
Who else busted out laughing when he mentioned that 5G comment! 🤣😭😆 Tony always comes with the truth + the laughs!!!
@Coco-hl8vg
@Coco-hl8vg 4 жыл бұрын
The 5g comment caught me by surprise 🤣😂
@valgal36
@valgal36 4 жыл бұрын
Jack in the box Crazy!! 😂😂 I’m hollering over here. Rev. Tony, you too funny today!!
@aliciawoods8925
@aliciawoods8925 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 he be tripping 😆
@brandiejones_
@brandiejones_ 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony! This is so true! Manipulators can seem genuine especially in the beginning with lovebombing.. I fell for the “nice guy” and am trying to pull myself out of what turned into a 2 year situationship atm .. I fell for him and wanted a relationship he broke my heart and is now on the next woman like a predator after new prey but would still be fine with him and I seeing each other 🤦🏻‍♀️ the ghetto 🙄 I’ve been watching your videos for the past 6 months you are giving me so much strength! I refuse to allow this to happen again! Thank you Tony!! 🙏🏻
@AshleyOra
@AshleyOra 4 жыл бұрын
I have never seen it an issue when me and the guy sleep while the phone is on. I thought that was cute 😂😂😂. Tony aint lying. These men I've been sleeping on the phone with both of them were insecure men. I will no longer do that again.
@LoveMiea36
@LoveMiea36 4 жыл бұрын
A Narcissist is devil/demon in the human form pretending to be normal
@ashleymadden7922
@ashleymadden7922 4 жыл бұрын
Can you please do a Tell all video on cheating including excuses used and signs to look for that may be present when a man is cheating?
@MrsLC-tp8oj
@MrsLC-tp8oj 4 жыл бұрын
6yr situation chaos lying then begging to be back around to come back to be even more inconsistent playing games I’m working on moving the videos help a lot Thank you 🙏🏽 so much TG
@intentionalgreatness
@intentionalgreatness 4 жыл бұрын
Love yourself more..that will help you to keep moving and not look back
@meechi26
@meechi26 4 жыл бұрын
I did 7 years only to discover he has kids and bm drama I had nightmares loss weight when they say god will let them hurt you enough if you hold on the pain will make you have to let go . I’m healing but it hurt so bad . And even worst I know he doesn’t care at all smh 🤦🏽‍♀️ I pray you peace as I’m searching for it as well
@MrsLC-tp8oj
@MrsLC-tp8oj 4 жыл бұрын
Meechi B. Peace to u as well
@rosettajones1161
@rosettajones1161 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Tony Gaskins you are the most engaging and wonderful coach I have watched on KZbin. I am a senior citizen and have found your teaching and what you convey to be totally on deck. Your experiences even as a young man is paramount and so very useful for many women and men alike. After being married for 22 years to a wonderful and godly husband, I became a widow unfortunately. My late husband was so good to me and we respected and loved one another dearly. To this marriage union we had a son and a daughter and I am blessed to this day. On that note, keep bringing such great topics, teaching and coaching to this huge platform. Most importantly, keep being an example of a good husband to your beautiful wife! God bless You and your family.
@turklatasha191
@turklatasha191 4 жыл бұрын
Very true. Sometimes you get punished for what the previous person did even if you've done nothing to them but try love them show them you love them. Lesson learned: love yourself cause it's not your fault they don't love themselves. Be blessed y'all!
@aunttonyaboveriaandrassy5663
@aunttonyaboveriaandrassy5663 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my Tony you have hit the nail on the head, I was just on a call last night where he ask to face time and I knew off the top what he was doing... omg
@Best-ThingYouNeverHad
@Best-ThingYouNeverHad 4 жыл бұрын
Do that math! 😀👌💪 &💯% accurate. Back when we were in high school we use to talk on the phone for hours. So I don't find it hard to believe what you're saying. An hour is not a lot of time to spend with the person you potentially want to spent the rest of your life with! 🅿
@StephaniesWorld7
@StephaniesWorld7 4 жыл бұрын
Be Blessed 🙏🏽 “Recognize crazy early” forreal
@naomiwaeni4310
@naomiwaeni4310 4 жыл бұрын
"....caveats and nuances...."😂😂😂 I hear you Tony!
@brenaicooper4754
@brenaicooper4754 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad you did this ! My guy seems to really really like me and is willing to put the work in to build a solid foundation. He’s talking about babies and marriage already. I kinda freaked out like... is this a fatal attraction!?? My therapist couldn’t even tell what the differences are. Crazy and love looks very similar
@Dr.Elaine1
@Dr.Elaine1 4 жыл бұрын
Brenai Cooper Yes. Maybe in the 1st 30 days; less likely after180 days.
@lindasmillie6105
@lindasmillie6105 4 жыл бұрын
Be careful in the first few months this is the "honeymoon stage" and men can spout so much things you want to hear...how long you been together...? Has he got it together ? Ie has a job owns his own house ect...? Does he look like he is at that stage to settle down ? Is he still hitting it up with home boys at all clubbing ect ? Just a few questions as guys can say alot of things but not follow through...he might be saying things because he thinks that's what you want to hear and has other short term intentions with you..be careful...but on the other hand if he seems settled in his life and has been seeing you a while he could be serious but I would take Tonys advice and wait a bit to assess him in all situations...take your time don't let him rush you...I hope he is the real deal and it works out for you..much love xxx
@lindasmillie6105
@lindasmillie6105 4 жыл бұрын
Ps as long as your happy and he ain't rushing you...listens to all Tonys advice his videos on my opinion are spot on..good luck!
@missycolson4137
@missycolson4137 2 жыл бұрын
He said straight like that . I feel it though we gotta keep it real. And yes a real man gonna like a woman that busy I was raised to stay productive but obviously make time for people
@Best-ThingYouNeverHad
@Best-ThingYouNeverHad 4 жыл бұрын
I paused & rewind so many times. I kept replaying the 21 min mark that was so real. I could feel it. Thank you Tony for the scenarios & demonstrations they really bring the point of your message home!
@samanthaadkins5551
@samanthaadkins5551 4 жыл бұрын
I had an ex who would take my phone, call my phone to see if I was on the phone if I was out of his view. He called by the time I was to the end of my driveway, ask for videos, questioned me. He would find nothing, but was COMPLETELY CRAZY! I did 360 for him in a 1 months time. He paced the floors, get mad over nothing, always accusing me of something & yes, silent treatment! Check them at the door, don't do it! I feel it changed me forever & alot of work on myself, take it from me just don't ignore the red flags & allowing this behavior!
@eyesaidit5195
@eyesaidit5195 4 жыл бұрын
This is what happened to me years ago, because I knew nothing about the things Bro Tony tells us😫😭 I ended up in a 4 year toxic relationship. 😣😣😣
@wambuimwania
@wambuimwania 4 жыл бұрын
God will redeem that time ❤️
@roshandawilson8313
@roshandawilson8313 4 жыл бұрын
A man listening to you sleep on the phone is equivalent to a man staring at you while you're sleep= CRAZY!
@tempestrichardson999
@tempestrichardson999 4 жыл бұрын
I listen to you every day. God has truly blessed you with a gift. Thank you for doing Gods work
@KalimahSBICeo
@KalimahSBICeo 4 жыл бұрын
One of my best videos I've seen... Thanks for being genuine Mr Gaskins💜
@reneejacobs8183
@reneejacobs8183 4 жыл бұрын
You said a mouthful in those 23 minutes! Real talk! Good stuff!🙏🏽❤️
@carmensanchez8857
@carmensanchez8857 4 жыл бұрын
God sent me a message to deliver to you and your wife Tony Gaskins...He said that he blessed you with the talent of the hustle. And that the wife that you were blessed with helped you apply that talent into a way that serves God. Relationships form the basis of society and your teachings help to bring back the traditional ways of love in relationships in a way that glorifies our Lord and Saviour. Thank you Tony for dedicating your time and thank you Sheri for your support. Tony, your ability to recognize who your God-sent wife was and willingness to please her has led you and your beautiful family to the blessings you have received and will continue to receive. Be blessed!
@jasminewise7098
@jasminewise7098 4 жыл бұрын
Yes I acknowledged that as soon as I began listening to you. I told myself here is this man giving us all this valuable advice and he doesn't know us.
@shaunabee
@shaunabee 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Tony, Hey Blessed Tribe 🙋🏾‍♀️
@coachnatishamommatish144
@coachnatishamommatish144 4 жыл бұрын
Good morning Gourgous😘
@kimmourino3051
@kimmourino3051 4 жыл бұрын
Or a man could work 8 hrs & @ lunch be between the sheets and be home regular time at 5:45
@christinewarren8134
@christinewarren8134 4 жыл бұрын
Seen that before
@khloe38
@khloe38 4 жыл бұрын
Yup. Those long lunches. And sheets not needed....only a car 😂
@tamekabest425
@tamekabest425 4 жыл бұрын
That's right!!!!!!!@Kim Mourino
@riorio-88
@riorio-88 4 жыл бұрын
Wow
@lynettejohnson7067
@lynettejohnson7067 4 жыл бұрын
Wow so true my ex was exactly like this it took me a long time to realize it but I learned after 11 yrs I finally had the strength to leave him and never looked back
@AnalystAyi
@AnalystAyi 4 жыл бұрын
Lol you missed your calling of comedian lol!!!!! He said 59seconds .... okay I gotta go lol Hahahha Common Sense ain’t so common huh
@eet6067
@eet6067 4 жыл бұрын
This had me dying laughing!
@kittime3807
@kittime3807 4 жыл бұрын
Tony you spot on described the EXACT signs of the crazy in the guy I dated for 2 months every single sign you mentioned occurred within those 2 months and thank god even before finding you on youtube I gathered the sense to leave.
@debrakenney2340
@debrakenney2340 4 жыл бұрын
This man is funny how he do them skits but love it cause it’s so true I experience that
@monaebethea2389
@monaebethea2389 3 жыл бұрын
So damn funny 🤣🤣
@itsDriasWay
@itsDriasWay 4 жыл бұрын
Tony the GOAT ! POINT BLANK PEE-REE-OD! The knowledge and free game that he gives is LIFE SAVING! God bless
@melindapear4798
@melindapear4798 4 жыл бұрын
Tony I wish I knew this 5 years old ago before I met this guy.
@akua171
@akua171 4 жыл бұрын
Dang! That truth really hit different... thank you for the time you give to us Mr G.
@wavyblkqueen
@wavyblkqueen 4 жыл бұрын
Everything in this video is truth! But the chair spin is sending me 😭💀😪
@bellebeauty7480
@bellebeauty7480 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Coach! I'm working on being happily single. This is helping me become prepared; I'm learning and growing! I'm greatful I found the Blessed Tribe!💯💪🏾💝
@willieee292
@willieee292 4 жыл бұрын
"Add a little paparika eventhough it don't do nothing, it just look good" I see no lies looool
@mitz1919
@mitz1919 4 жыл бұрын
Mr Tony , I love how in each video you bring discussion about the caveats and nuances about relationships (order my shirt too)! Just when I think u cover every topic you still bring light and knowledge with each video! Thanks for teaching us
@songbirdnESQUIRE
@songbirdnESQUIRE 4 жыл бұрын
"A lot of women out there suckin' their thumbs waiting for a man to rescue them." #flatlined
@KitoKamiliMusic
@KitoKamiliMusic 4 жыл бұрын
That got me, too🤣🤣🤣
@ZawadiBirya
@ZawadiBirya 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂💀
@songbirdnESQUIRE
@songbirdnESQUIRE 4 жыл бұрын
@Heraura333 I always tell guys that Jesus is my Savior, not you.
@didiwedi3095
@didiwedi3095 4 жыл бұрын
Hi uncle Tony from South Africa
@Erica-et4ye
@Erica-et4ye 4 жыл бұрын
These role play scenarios are hilarious! thank you Tony for the teaching & the laughs...be blessed 🙏🏾
@debral9651
@debral9651 4 жыл бұрын
What's really difficult is that it takes about 5 years to really know someone completely. As in they can be great in that time and then..
@ronettasweeney5972
@ronettasweeney5972 4 жыл бұрын
Tony, Thank you for the video, this message was just in time. I'll be sure to listen again, as I was trying to listen to your message and work at the same time. May God continue to bless you and your family!
@shirleywebber8843
@shirleywebber8843 4 жыл бұрын
Haskins is the truth period.Thanks for your Generosity and pure knowledge. It’s is definitely helping in my dating journey!
@MzCynt08
@MzCynt08 4 жыл бұрын
Thank Tony for great insight. No apologies for being too short. Greatly appreciated.
@GracedForDance
@GracedForDance 4 жыл бұрын
Tony your videos have me laughing so hard! I really enjoy them!. When you said " the spirit just left me". I hollered!!😂😂😂
@tamfx2138
@tamfx2138 4 жыл бұрын
I just love the advice, you so know this game and how people conduct themselves. You break it down
@marrriiee
@marrriiee 4 жыл бұрын
i be learning everyday. it’s crazy how my old flame gave me mixed feelings too. some days he was calm when i was doing my thing and other days he will call me and i be doing the spinning 😂 showing him where i am and who i’m with and shit. man tfffff! i’m only 21 lord
@wandasanders6885
@wandasanders6885 4 жыл бұрын
“If you want this to be an hour, watch it two more times.” I’m too through! Lol 😆😂🤣
@minstreldeboorah
@minstreldeboorah 4 жыл бұрын
Be blessed Tony!!! U’re a blessing to this generation
@angelicagabrieli7169
@angelicagabrieli7169 4 жыл бұрын
May Lord Bless You Tony and Your Family members in all areas of your lives!!! You're a blessing to all of us!
@kenyaflores228
@kenyaflores228 4 жыл бұрын
I love your hour long videos keep doing what your doing tony we are grateful.
@Sugarput1
@Sugarput1 2 жыл бұрын
God Bless you & yours Tony!!! 😇😇😇🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️
@KitoKamiliMusic
@KitoKamiliMusic 4 жыл бұрын
So much in this resonates with what I know is true. Very much appreciated❤
@MF-ov7kk
@MF-ov7kk 4 жыл бұрын
OMG THANK YOU TONY!!! I have been thinking about this and you just posted a video about it.... God bless you!
@kaoshi_kutie
@kaoshi_kutie 4 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥 message again Tony, bruh these impressions got me weak. "He crazy" 😂🤣😂
@pat-rice125
@pat-rice125 4 жыл бұрын
Sucking they thumb though!!! I cant with you!! LOL Best advice ever, cant count how many times I missed something and watched the movie or video again and picked up something new.
@yeseniamora2091
@yeseniamora2091 4 жыл бұрын
Omg I am dying laughing through the whole video. You made my day.
@toliver0711
@toliver0711 4 жыл бұрын
Tony, your videos be cracking me up!! We as women are so literal sometimes. 😂
@katrinadodd9015
@katrinadodd9015 4 жыл бұрын
Tony, thank you so much for all that you do. Your videos are engaging and informative and make me laugh all at the same time. God Bless You! The Blessed Tribe.
@NinaRoseTreasures777
@NinaRoseTreasures777 4 жыл бұрын
Mr. Gaskins I love your style! You are seriously hilarious with the facts...So amazing truly a God send 🗣
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