Grown Woman vs Grown Girl

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[@mscassama]

All the grown women say "Present! " ✋🏾

[@YasminsSofa]

Jenny Cassama 🤚🏾 present!

[@northernroots6807]

Present

[@IshanaeS]

Present

[@coachnatishamommatish185]

Present 👑💃🙌

[@stephaniemensah1858]

Present sis!!

[@sanjeshnidevi982]

A grown woman will NOT take shortcuts for the sake of her “biological clock”.

[@ruchellebarrett]

Well said!

[@faviolafikir2181]

Say it for the people in the back!

[@toniemillsap8910]

Amen

[@CatChannelWithEntertainment]

Worddddd!!!

[@chriscooks5437]

Thanks

[@meliachanel8062]

these girl voices have me absolutely on the floor. THE RANGE THOUGH 😭

[@TimesSignsofThe]

He cracks me up 😂🤣

[@KK-bq3ns]

Yes!! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@theace8483]

Right! I was taken aback 😂

[@AyooFreshie]

Once I hear that, "Oohhh!!" 😩😭😭 I know he's very serious about what he just said. To give an example with such emphasis, and then when he gives them eyes 👀 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭 Be very bless Tony🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Swear if I had you as teacher, I would make sure i pass!

[@nikkinicole625]

😂😂😂

[@marishalewis484]

Tony said his wife was with him when he only had CIA. c=character, i= integrity, a=ambition. That’s why he gives her everything he can afford & washes her in love. Bless y’all!

[@mariewalton7079]

I agree with you 200%.

[@tameekaharris6425]

Absolutely his character was his currency 💖

[@lucrecepatrick9234]

Please. I know a lot of elder women who did this exact thing. Bit the men weren't so loving or it wasn't rewarding for them. So it's really unsure

[@firesign4297]

🙏🥰😪👏👏👏🥰🙏🤗

[@MsBdoll87]

Lucrèce you have to get God’s approval. If you’re trying to choose a man without God, it may or may not work. It’s a gamble. With God, it’s a gain!

[@shanikablessed6396]

I am in my healing process after my husband is having an affair and had a baby on me while I was 8 months pregnant with our second child. Grown women move on and never settle for anything less of her

[@mimisjourney3688]

Stay strong 🙏🏾

[@womanofgod2948]

May God strengthen you during this time, my sister

[@starridiamond]

Stay strong & blessed sis 🙏 you will heal. God got you 😇

[@angelicagabrieli7169]

You're an amazing and strong woman! May Lord Jesus Christ Bless Profoundly You and Your baby IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST!

[@sequoia4631]

May the Lord bless and keep you and your children 💖

[@singlemotherfoundation_]

Ladies let’s be honest we ALL had experienced some Grown Girl tendencies ✨

[@kaitlynchavarria8864]

😂😂I came in this chat guilty as hell im like oh no the truth hurts 😭😭

[@kindacuter]

Such as STILL listening to Hannah Montana at darn near 23.

[@samonecharisma3043]

Yep!

[@crystalbarbee9110]

Most definitely so

[@victoriadent1128]

That hurts lol

[@larhondalivelife]

This honestly made me appreciate the woman I’ve become even more. The one I’ve developed myself into.

[@jessicabaker7749]

I feel you on that God fearing and you onmy want an equal half not someone to do it cause you done hold it all down and you done worked you out ...sister that is something to be proud of and thankful for God has favored you there ain't many people men or women that develop themselves into this kind of person

[@libbymills4432]

Doesn't it feel great, to take your Power back?! Continue to Shine...

[@Jules_TX]

Yes, I agree! This video helped me see myself in a new light! Thank you Jesus for healing me and breaking strongholds in my life.

[@jdel2272]

Same girl glad to hear theres girls still striving for a better mindset and becoming amazing women 💜😌

[@adelineproverbs3139]

Amen. I am proud of you sis!!!🙏🏾❤

[@Itsdannib]

When I was younger (23) I definitely had SOME grown girl characteristics but I thank God now being 34 I have evolved and I am emotionally and spiritually mature and winning! 😊

[@lovelylove6193]

Much Love Queen💯❣❣

[@LolaSemone]

You’re beautiful. If you watching these videos too then we all doomed lol

[@BigAHNEE]

Shhh I’m 23 right now definitely have some grown girl tendencies I’m so happy I seen this because I’m trying to become a better women . Grown women ❤️🙏🏾

[@Itsdannib]

@@BigAHNEE and you WILL!! 🙏🏽❤️

[@crystalpoole1836]

Yes mam me too Grown woman here all day 💯💯

[@Newladyn09]

Anyone complaining about Coach T praising and bragging about his wife and family, is Jealous and Insecure. You need to open your mind and listen.

[@Famous423]

I love the examples he give about his wife, because you can learn something from those examples.

[@nurabell913]

Coach Shantele we live in a world... with people who jus smile for others

[@kailkalia521]

He seems to be a wonderful man and husband. His wife is gorgeous!! 🖤 Yahweh bless their union and their experience with providing advisement to others ✊🏿🙌🏿

[@Smartgirl1O1]

Tony has worked very hard to get to where he is at, and has been a blessing to many women including myself. He deserves to brag about his success, family, and beautiful wife!

[@ainisharatcliff871]

I truly hope no one is on here being that petty! I love hearing good examples of how a man is supposed to treat his woman. The hope he gives that good men are still out there!

[@StephaniesWorld7]

“A relationship should complement me not complete me” “A grown girl is looking for financial security, the grown women wants emotional security” 🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@firesign4297]

👏👏👏

[@hoyigi7112]

Complement not compliment :)

[@StephaniesWorld7]

Ho Yi Gi I fixed it. Thank you

[@claudine5386]

So pretty much: Grown Girl= A Liability. Grown Woman=An Asset.

[@tiffanys.4250]

Yep!

[@tarahbruno3793]

And 2+2 =4!

[@lanaib_]

Yes

[@bootylicious0802]

Unfortunately some men leave the woman who helped them build their vision once they become wealthy for a younger and prettier woman.

[@farrowife9230]

They leave a grown woman for a grown girl.

[@crystalbell6174]

Woooooow they sure do!

[@sanjeshnidevi982]

@ Inana_rose In my opinion that’s a result when a woman devotes herself to “building” a man and the man doesn’t reciprocate “building” the woman, in return. Tony said in his previous videos that the man and woman are like “teammates” on the same team. Therefore, they both OUGHT to “BUILD” each other. If a woman helped a man to build him financially, then she needs to ask herself in what areas did the man help her to “build”? Does he help in building the woman in areas such as emotionally, intellectually, spiritually, or even financially? It has to be a HEALTHY exchange of helping ONE ANOTHER to grow, build and work towards a purposeful goal together.

[@bootylicious0802]

@@sanjeshnidevi982 I just witnessed this kind of situation several time where a married couple were evolving together for many years and the husband had the nerve to leave just to see if the grass was greener somewhere else.🧐 The women I watched were not devoted to their husband they were normal hard working women.

[@bootylicious0802]

@@farrowife9230 lol

[@pat4eva09]

OMG, I've been a grown girl before, except I never gave a man a child or asked for financial security, but I have played house. Thank God for newfound wisdom and favor! And Tony's knowledge!!!!

[@kaicigavin5050]

Wish I could love this ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@christinepatterson1193]

Yes! I’ve been a grown girl, too, playing house and what not. Not looking for financial security from anyone else but myself. I never processed or understood what emotional security was and that I needed it, until recently. I’m 43 years old and experiencing an awakening. The full grown woman thought I was is shook. I now realize that my grown woman attracts grown boys and I then regress.

[@keychabudgets]

Peaches Girl you ain’t by yourself!!!!! But you know what, we are learning and growing because when you know better you do better. We know better now!!!! 🤩

[@XavianneNailz]

Me too I’ve been a grown girl before in the category of the ideal of love and playing house. But after watching this video .... I know what I need to work on.

[@shamellesmith8134]

I want my future husband to talk about me the same way Tony talks about his wife!!! He is truly a God fearing man who knows how to present life situations so that we can all learn something if we are open to it. Thank you so much. You have truly been a blessing to my life since listening to your videos. God Bless!❤

[@constancereynolds3110]

A GROWN woman is what the Bible describes in Proverbs 31:10-31

[@corey5454]

Constance Reynolds about to look this one up, thanks!

[@victoriamomina8022]

Yesssss 🙌🏼

[@ericajones1861]

yes exactly a virtuous women !!

[@jaimealexander2505]

Amen

[@anteriamilner8434]

Can I be honest for a second? 6 mins into this video and I’m not afraid to admit I’ve been being a Grown Girl. Wow. He really just broke down my logic and perspective. So I’ve been looking at this wrong the whole entire time. The man that I am currently dealing with ( who is a really great man) has been basically telling and showing me that I am a grown girl. But I haven’t been understanding him. He didn’t break it down like this. Thank you for breaking it down like that. You just changed my whole perspective. And possibly help me with the guy that I am currently dating.

[@GerriWritesAbit]

Tony got the language right.😊

[@DynamicallyDC]

A Grown woman wants respect, displays emotional intelligence, doesn't play victim & loves like she's never been hurt before. 🙌🏾 Grown girls want attention and weaponize their insecurities. ✔

[@coachnatishamommatish185]

@ Demetria Amen sis👑💃🙌🙌🙌

[@DynamicallyDC]

@@coachnatishamommatish185 Hey Sis. 🙋🏽🙌🏾👑

[@marishalewis484]

Ðemetria Ͼalvin 💙 this!!

[@DynamicallyDC]

@@marishalewis484 ❤🙋🏽

[@brick_housedee6711]

Amen!!!

[@MacshaddyMarie]

I have grown girl tendencies. Time to change and evolve into a grown woman! Thank you for this video

[@lynnjones7695]

Yup, I can take care of myself & my kids! I can’t be with a man for money, I need to be able to bounce if I disagree on how he treat me. God always got my back!!!

[@e113jelly6]

Yeah This is how it should be for a women’s protection

[@curli-lettey4319]

The handclaps had me laughing too hard! HIV👏 CHLAMYD👏 HERPES👏. 😂😂😂😂

[@cherh]

Just because you're grown don't mean some things about you don't need changing. Let it marinate. Happy Friyay! 🌸💖

[@coachnatishamommatish185]

@ Cher HeyA, Sugas🤗❤ Happy FriYay sis!!!👑💃

[@Glamrocs]

💥 Bestie get em Cher

[@Glamrocs]

Momma Tish1 Hey Boo

[@Glamrocs]

By the way Im starting on my book in the next week

[@cherh]

@@coachnatishamommatish185 hey sis! 💗😊

[@fah232]

Never ask someone for what you can't give.

[@diamondunicorn2421]

F.A. H. Amazing jewels of a sentence. 🙏🏽 namaste.

[@rjefferson3966]

Say thank again ❤️💯

[@ashleyhenderson3856]

Tony and these voices I can’t stop laughing now 😂😂😂😂!!!!!

[@KeyisGodsdaughter]

I’ve had my flaws but I remember when I took my paychecks to pay off backed up bills so my husband and I could start getting on track to buy a home. He got mad and said I didn’t buy him anything and I told him it’s time to start being financially responsible. He said I’m selfish and I also should have given the money to him instead.... Not all men like grown women. Some want grown girls... !

[@AyooFreshie]

I'm so glad you done this video... Because I think people forget the other sex, when it comes to like you mentioning grown boys. Women can be "Grown Girls" too 😌

[@kenyaanderson9782]

I love how Tony admires his wife! I pray one day the man that God chooses for me will admire and brag on me! That’s love and adoration right there💕

[@samonecharisma3043]

I was definitely a grown girl in my last relationship. I was not emotionally intelligent, attention seeking, and had known idea what love was. I can appreciate this topic because sometimes women cause relationship to end as well...Tony thank you for discussing this. I’m in the healing process and learning the type of woman I am and want to be. I can say I’m closer to becoming a grown women

[@michelleglaspie3443]

Samone, I definitely was. I was reactionary most of all. I'm also in the process of healing and I'm NOW definitely learning to become a Grown woman!!!😊

[@malaikaedwards477]

Hey Tony! I am a 22 year old woman and I just have to say I appreciate all of your videos ! ! I am proud to say that I am definitely approaching grown women tendencies and with still more growing to do 😇

[@firesign4297]

🙏🤗👏👏👏👍👍🤗

[@BigAHNEE]

Yessssss🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@Coilygirl1]

The fact that you said growing❤️ Keep being self aware.

[@TheAllenFamily719]

Same I'm learning day by day I'm 22 as well

[@mscassama]

Hearing this gives me even more confirmation that I am a grown woman and doing what's needs to be done out of love. No self doubt!

[@RocSkater09]

My brotha Tony said "Financial security is a lie from the pit of hell" ✊ Brotha your videos really encouraging and are blessing. The fruits of the spirit are apparent. True man of God.

[@JASMINEELLE]

You better talk about your wife! She sounds like an amazing women. I’m here because I’m trying to be a better woman myself. Love it 🤍🤍

[@sandras7856]

I think finding a man with a good career is reasonable, if that is your standards. Not all women want to be "bob-the-builders". A man with a good career can also have a good character. Men look and want good looking women, so why is it wrong for women to look and want affluent men.

[@teejayeemcneal2]

My thoughts exactly. Men do not build with us at all. You hypergamous too?

[@julietjohnsonclarke3941]

@@teejayeemcneal2 Agreed, TG was saying financial security should be the obsession. Plus paying for your lifestyle belongs in a marriage no in dating relation ship

[@simplybeautiful9885]

@@teejayeemcneal2 I'm hypergamous. I am not barbara the builder for any man.

[@beautymellz5600]

100

[@megamaamatv9158]

@@julietjohnsonclarke3941 How will you know he can do it the marriage, if he doesn't do it while dating?

[@anesunyaradzo]

Lol he said Atlanta come up wives. im done for today y’all 😂

[@ysmithriley]

@Anesu Tony's new title for the show is more accurate! 😆

[@neekyneekk]

The man is to provide...what is “dating” ..when a man is dating with a purpose and understands what the role of the man is he’s going to be just that for the woman because he want to be the man and not a “grown boy” .. feminine queens deserve a king..although she is able to survive on her own and provide for herself..a man shouldn’t look for a women if they are not ready.

[@neekyneekk]

rob j I’m saying he shouldn’t be dating at all if he’s not sure about having that girl as a wife...I feel it’s best to keep her as a friend and get to know her until he knows that’s who he want to pursue and in that case no he shouldn’t be acting as a husband

[@Justdenise5]

Neeky Neek idk, just cause he is able to provide doesn’t mean he has to while dating... well at least for this grown women... I want a grown man that gives his heart, that understands his role via GOD’s plan. With that in place the provisions are inevitable...therefore during the dating stage while we’re still figuring each other it’s not a necessity that he buys my meals cause him buying a couple of meals doesn’t necessarily proves he’s a provider🤔 Hell, grown boys can buy meals and pay occasional bills

[@neekyneekk]

Justdenise5 your right. men are not expected to pay every meal the “dating “ phase is basically still getting to know each other...it’s safe to call them friends during that time ..But understanding GOD’s plan further down the line, if they decide to go further with one another more is expected...In the pass I’ve had no problem paying for myself on dates because I knew our place.

[@pinkishdiamondz]

@@robj8194 that's the problem, if you don't see a wife all over the women you're interested in... Leave her where she's at. If y'all not having sex and you don't go to her house then find. But if you're getting sex, grabbing remote controls, and taking showers.... You gotta pay a bill. Forget whatever you heard. And I'm well able to take care of my bills but you're not gonna use the fact that we're "dating" as an excuse to do NOTHING.

[@vendettauzumaki]

@@neekyneekk we got to understand too no one owes you anything other than you're husband and wife that's where vows come in. You don't give boyfriends husband treatment and gfs wifey treatment until they are wifey. Marriage minded yes along with this bc this is the most secure way of knowing it's not superficial. That's why it's taught to not have sex before Marriage. You be there for your gf and bf and even more so when yall married. Certain titles should have certain expectations.

[@ShirahGodsSong]

Be blessed I made it. Good knowledge. The sad part is grown girls most of the time get a grown man and will hurt and ruin him.....and grown boys always seek to deceive grown women. Grown boys and grown girls should seek each. And leave the grown men and grown women alone so we can find each.

[@genevasanders1883]

Grown women are independent and can handle her own. She takes care of herself and don't need a man to do it for her. That's what attracts a man. Grown girls are needy , insecure and looks for men to take care of them . BE BLESSED 🙏🙏🙏

[@nijaelinflorida]

Geneva Sanders it’s more about character than money and independence

[@Fancypolkadots]

@@nijaelinflorida Exactly. If that's the case, then most of our grandparents and modern day housewives are grown girls. It's definitely more to being a grown woman than bringing finances to the table. That just makes a business partner.

[@brick_housedee6711]

Amen!

[@brick_housedee6711]

A grown woman ain't got time for game's.

[@nijaelinflorida]

FANCYPOLKADOTS exactly!!!

[@seraphinasb988]

You have got to be the funniest life coach on KZbin. I crack up everyday now lol. Very encouraging I pray for the brothers out there looking for a grown woman looking to build an empire with. I pray that all the grown boys and girls grow up!

[@Dr.Elaine1]

Men: “You have to help a woman heal her heart, so you can have her heart.” Women: But, you gotta be trying to help you,”. TG

[@diehardtats6510]

A men helped to heal my broken hart. Even though he perhaps did not know. I left him as he was co fused dealing with his own past. So i left him to himself just sent him gift in form of book to helphim overcome his pain.

[@michellebattle6356]

AMEN🙏

[@michellelucius7973]

I took a man off his Character and ambition and I was the only one working and he was bringing in illegal money and when I told him no!!!! You need to get a job. After 9 years of married nothing changed. Now I’m Divorce and can pay all my bills on my own!! So being there for a man don’t always work.

[@angelmoon2106]

If he bringing in illegal money then clearly he didn’t have the character of a “good man”.

[@ebonyflowers7599]

To answer your question Tony...I’m 31 and I haven’t met that man you speak of in the video and I run in professional circles and usually the men with money are VERY immature and want to control you.

[@whit9560]

slightly disagree .. a grown women wants a financially stable man also, I dont see anything wrong with wants to be taken care of by a man to a certain point but not trying to take advantage of him financially.. .. the women that your describing is a INDEPENDENT WOMEN .. a man needs a little bit of both...good character and a stable income with ambition and goals to do better @tonygaskins but the other stuff on point

[@Nekole1]

I agree.

[@eps5605]

Whit I think he means if money is the primary focus over character, money and status is what drives you, if you would pick a sorry man with money over a man who can is maintaining an average living (place to live, car, wise with money but just does have 6 figures) but treats you well and has good character, then that female is a grown girl.

[@nijaelinflorida]

Elleecia Washington yes exactly ❤️

[@missmarymack3457]

Elleecia Washington I agree

[@VoyageHER]

I am so impressed! I saw someone ask this question on live last night and you already have a video up! You're truly an inspiration and your work is making a difference in so many lives. I'm personally amazed by the story of you and Sheri. I've read A Woman's Influence and I even watch videos of yours that don't even apply to me. I've never been in a relationship before, but I truly believe that I'll be fully prepared when I finally step out into the dating world (after this 19 :D) thanks to the wisdom that you give freely. Thanks again

[@KrystleLaughter]

Go ahead and brag Brother Tony. Don't mind them haters

[@destinedlacole5407]

THE FAMILY MEMBER STORY TOOK ME OOOOOUUUUUUUTTTT…His impression reminded me of Maury 🤣🤣🤣

[@Charisewilson]

This man said... “you want me to take my BLESSED money, and sow onto bad ground?” Lord, Jesus... 🙌

[@dezinnavlog4218]

"I give my wife EVERYTHING, EVERYTHING I can afford to get her Spiritually, Emotionally, Physically, Financially, Socially, Espressially, Specially, Spokenly. Every kind of -ly out there." LMAOOOO I LOVE IT!

[@hhhoneycomb]

THISSSS

[@ashleyhenderson3856]

Grown woman over here!!!!!🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️❤️❤️❤️💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

[@pg3185]

"I don't know why you sent your son Jesus to die for this envelope"😂😂😂Tony you so crazy

[@bridgettedaye7610]

OMG!!! I just can't. This is too funny!!!🤣🤣🤣

[@takeauthority30]

That's the real prayer tho like Father God help me

[@durbansaladyinaccra2173]

....start crying when u c d envelope ...lol

[@deena3003]

Absolutely. I was working hard when I met my husband. My husband was in college full-time. Once we married and the children came along i was working but transition to stay at home mom. My husband been sole provider. Now,, I am working towards a PHD and my husband career has soared. Everything your saying is so true.

[@coachstephaniedionnegreen1053]

Excellent video Nephew Tony. I just need to tell you , it ain't bragging if it's true! I am a grown woman, but I married a grown boy. He just started his practice when we met. I always had his back,when we got married 3 years later I gave him the downpayment for our first home. We had our 1st child 3 years later. I still worked only 1 day a week. 2 years later had our 2nd child. His practice started growing . We moved into a much bigger home. He started changing. I still worked a little, but our babies came first so I had to sacrifice. I had to always be there for them, as a result my daughter got into 15 college's, 35,000 academic scholarship a year going into her junior year. My son is graduating from high school this year he got into 6 college's. He's going to school on the west coast we live on the east coast. My son is a director he made his 1st movie at 11. I say this to say because I married a grown boy, we are divorced after 21 years of marriage and 24 years together. All he can say is you're an excellent mother. I will take character any day of the week. I did believe I had a man of character. Obviously not! God bless Tony and your family. SDG

[@missfavoured]

Sorry to read this. You should write a blog or book. You have a testimony to share. God bless you in being found by your desired husband!

[@foodieqt4258]

Esther had the mans head cut off, Ruth might have been going to drop it like it’s hot at the foot of the bed 😂😂

[@whatsnextsis2904]

Sarah E lol he took me out w/that. I’m like Tony just reference the proverbs 31 woman.. that’s who you tryna think of! 😆🙌🏾

[@takeauthority30]

I fell out

[@MsBdoll87]

😂😂😂😂

[@gapeach14]

😂😂😂😂

[@darlenecarruthers-shelton837]

If he has God he has Everything!!! Amen Tony!!!

[@thatgirlcocoa]

God bless his laptop 💻... you know his heart. He trying to get this Word out to the people.

[@benjamincrooms5041]

Be blessed I made it. Thanks for another awesome message to the fellas!! Full of wisdom and encouragement, I’m putting in work thanks again!!

[@brianicole181]

I can already tell from the title that my toes bout to get stepped ONNNNNNN! Send help 😂

[@MissEdie1973]

I have met mostly imposters who brag and boast about what they claim to have just to try and impress certain partners, which is why I've chosen to just be still and work on myself.

[@annettesolomon1347]

Be blessed... You told the truth about this and I know you hurt a lot of feelings today with this raw video today. Hearing this is just more confirmation that I'm a grown woman.

[@Musicfreaklolduh]

Tony for some reason your videos have started speaking to me on another level. I think I'm ready to level up my life. No more distractions just me healing me.

[@niyavernice]

Be blessed!!!! I loved these two videos “Grown Boy vs Grown Man” and “Grown Girl vs Grown Woman”. Your material is so authentic and helpful! I am 23 y/o and I am a young “grown” woman! Still growing but I’m happy that God has been building new into a grown woman ❤️🙏🏾

[@marcycane1793]

This is heavy and humbling. Needed. Thank you.

[@jojo-coach6927]

Emotional intelligence is the awareness of your feelings and being able to place them where they need to go in a way that doesn't cause destruction or severe negative impact.. It's also about being aware of who you are and how you move and not allowing people or situations in your space that can disrupt that awareness in a negative way. & like Tony said it's seeking to understand others' feelings so that you can have the ability to adjust your own reactions. He talks about it all the time in many different videos even when not using the word emotional intelligence.

[@samonecharisma3043]

I love this definition

[@michelleglaspie3443]

I love this...I use my emotions to guide me to the right decisions. Then I think about how to convey that emotion so that its not a reactionary, but thoughtful. I immediately about when I've said something incorrect AND I've learned to recognize deflection from a man.....I'm continuing to do the work...

[@michelleglaspie3443]

Admit

[@iloveangelmonroe4864]

I was waiting patiently for the word today! After reading my bible of course.... I am hungry for growth!!! Ty TG 🙏🏾💙

[@coachnatishamommatish185]

@ Mommianna 👑💃Amen, sis!!! That's a blessing, Great blessing to you on your journey hun!!!🙌🙌🙌

[@iloveangelmonroe4864]

Momma Tish1 thank you, yesterday I had a sad moment as I reflect but as long as I push through!!! Everyday is different

[@Thechakrabox]

I would say too...Women, be careful dealing with men that bring those "Things" to surface...As a grown woman, I've had men squeeze triggers to things that I have worked through, forgave and gotten away from...Seeing those red flags ahead of time is where you Win...But, if you end up with a man that throws you in that grown girl whirlwind, knowing damn well, you have OVERCAME that era in your life... Result back to your Emotional Intelligence, straighten Your Crown...and go on about your Grown Woman Business. Don't let nobody take you back to a place you worked so hard to get away from...As for me, I let him know Clearly Who he was dealing with... and as I walked away...showed them how those "Things" made me to be the Grown Woman I am. THEN...I reaccessed MYSELF and found the loop hole that kept bringing selfish/ narcissistic men in my life.

[@SB-ht8uo]

Just looking at the title I know I'm about to hear somethings that make me uncomfortable, things I know I do and maybe made excuses for them in the past. I am forever thankful for finding you Tony. My life will soon be on a new path with all the things you have taught me. Keep doing your work, this is truly your purpose.

[@shaunabee]

So ready for this!

[@Newladyn09]

Hey Coach T and the Blessed Tribe

[@tybullocks8903]

Be blessed I made it! Thank you for this video. As hard the pill to swallow. I’m slowly growing.

[@TF-oy6gu]

I almost cried towards the end of this video, God bless your wife. And notes taken, thanks Tony!

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

I am tuned Innnnnn 👂🏾👂🏾. This is going to be good. Have to make some herbal tea to listen to this here video

[@TropicsFever]

This video just stepped on a lot of yall faves toes lmao

[@haquino]

Bria Lynn lmaoooo!

[@marshaholmes8412]

Whelp! I hope this video sizzles in their spirit and marinates their mind🤯. Leveling up should never cost anybody their soul and integrity.

[@nadiasideqi7782]

Every time you upload a video, I HAVE to put time aside to fully watch your videos! I love your content and message. You’re the man with a good message that no other wiser person has taught me! Thank you! 👍🏼

[@christinambuyi8169]

Be blessed, I made it. This was one of my favorite videos by you. First, the message was so powerful and necessary for me to hear. Second the voices and scenarios had me weakkkkkk. Thank you Tony Gaskins.

[@BF-ix9nn]

Thank you for helping me recognizing my transitions in life. For reminding me that being single in a season is to heal from all my hurt so that I can continue to be a grown women. I can definitely say that I’ve grown and still growing to grown women. I’m closer than I’ve ever been before. Thanks for your wisdom and your gift.

[@mingtoiisaac4623]

Be Blessed. Great message. Especially grateful to you sharing your story about you and Sheri. I see where I was an unaware grown girl. So proud and thankful to God, I'm a grown woman now, and emotionally more intelligent and make a conscious effort to walk and talk from a place of love. Loving myself more by putting in the work, learning and getting wisdoms from other grown men teachers. No more toxic relationships for this queen. Im progressing.

[@evasccl7846]

Be blessed! Tony... i got very emotional when you were recalling those times hard but rich when your wife stood by you all the way and how you grew together... God bless you both and the boys 🌻🌻

[@lovelylady715]

I’m a grown woman.... I Would never treat new person as if he were my ex. I wouldn’t want him to treat me that way either. I would be very unfair on either side. No one would know about him until we’re married.

[@motherp5291]

Good afternoon Tony. Yes I know a good God fearing older gentleman that believes that marriage before anything else is important. This man exemplifies Godly Character and lives it daily.

[@farrowife9230]

I know a place where a bunch of those men have moved and they all still virgins right now. They make good money. They moved to the country to be away from all the nonsense going on. One found a real grown woman. They have a music studio and meet all the stars because they write many beats for them. That have a trucking company, they working the stock market, they trade gold and much more. They all do bodybuilding and body rebuilding health repair. I heard Beyonce came into the studio thinking she was about to get their attention but was sick that they were strictly business with her. lol One if them was raised by my King and me at our non profit organization and when he left my home he said he seen heaven in my home and wanted to build a heaven on earth where he can keep virgins safe also. I can not do it anymore so he took over. It was kids I found crying or about to kill themselves in my neighborhood who was about to be messed over by a dad or brother in their home and their moms and grandmothers would not listen. So we took them from their parents and told them we dont need their money or food stamps, nor will we tell on them if they dont tell that we took their child. The child will come visit them once a week. I talked to the women and my King talked to the men they had problems with. I dont know what he said but I know they trembled whenever they seen him. We could not register as a nonprofit in order to get help because of what the organization was. We had to use the money from our trucking company. Our minds are still like children, we dont know what to do with money. So we use it on children who needs help. Now that we have retired one of our GOE babies is keeping it going. He is asking us to come there and help them with the organization. I told him that we have to rebuild our body first. I do not whan his people to see anyone that is not worthy to live among them. Not even us. It is not just about caring enough to follow The Most Highs Laws, it is about taking care of the body he gave us so we look like we happy to follow his Laws, which we are happy. We just stop taking care of our body because of what jealous fools did to my King. When they jumped him and could not win, they snuck up behind him and hit him in the head with a crowbar. He has been mentally ill for a long time now, but I can see he is coming back now that he sees young brothers like Tony standing up. We made it young man, be blessed. Thank you so much.

[@tiffanyg5465]

I admire the love you have for your wife. It's refreshing to see a man happy to be married. God bless🙂

[@coachalexiseanes5505]

Be blessed I made it! Another great one Tony. Everyday when I spend my time with God I thank him for allowing me to come across you. My life has changed so much for the best.

[@pamelaglick2584]

" Ruth tryna drop it like it hot for Boaz "🤣💃😂🤸‍♀️ Tony gaskins kmsl🤪Thanks

[@yw6502]

Russel Wilson, married to Ciara and Steph Curry, I think waited until marriage and are God fearing.

[@lovingme1st973]

Ciara and Russell Wilson waited. Steph Curry and his wife didn't wait until marriage.

[@shutit4024]

LovingMe1st yeah but who cares really he treats her right and don’t cheat I’m happy for both couples and I really wish Ciara didn’t have a baby with future that could have been avoided he was already 3 baby mommas in before her

[@whiterabbitempress]

Your perspective of a grown girl got me crackin up! 😂 I feel damn good about the woman I am becoming and these videos prove my growth game strong! Thank you Tony!

[@nadiiphoo13]

His videos are everything 🙌🏾 he be having me cracking up 🤣

[@silversmith7430]

This man is HILARIOUS!!!!!!! This is my 5th video!!! Yes I have been watching him for HOURS doing my braids and learning!! He is too funny and country AF!! Love him and how he delivers his message!

[@pat4eva09]

By the title alone...I'm about to hear that fire!! Thanks Tony!

[@u4riacy]

This was the REALEST VIDEO!!!! I know this was for the men, but seriously Mr. Gaskins.... THANK YOU! Be Blessed

[@122106watson]

Be blessed I made it. Thank you for reminding us who we are and continue to be. Thank you

[@johannees622]

Be blessed! I made it! I’ve grown so much. I’m a grown woman but still have grown girl’s tendencies. I’m a work in progress. I think therapy is the next step. Thanks so much for this video. Feel really blessed by it.

[@gapeach14]

“Tahiti see ya tomorrow!!!”...This man a trip lol😂😂😂😩😩

[@coachtee7]

BLESS YOU TONY! I AM SO GLAD I VIRTUAL MET YOU! This video made me emotional. I don't know why. Just so much to reflect on. Thank you for helping the men. Be Blessed. I made it. Blessed Tribe Coach Tanai (MyMentor.life) Imperfect Grown Woman

[@terryf.9322]

“BE BLESSED “ Thanks for all you do Tony. God bless you and your family! Happy Father’s Day to you! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@steph_steph876]

Be blessed.... I MADE IT!!! I absolutely loved this. Valuable lessons with pockets of laughter. Thank you Tony for being you.

[@analeahh]

Tony's anxiety attack tho!😭😅🤣

[@deborahdouglas3988]

Tony, based on your description of a "grown woman", both my daughters are definitely grown. Both are self-supporting, educated, and beautiful, but also single. At 34 and 32 years old, however, I would love a grandchild or two. So I shared your videos, "How to date correctly", and "How to read a man's character". I think this is a good start on the Tony Gaskin train. I've recommended you highly. Thanks for all you do.

[@helenjohnston9517]

There are so many videos and so much content thank you for always keeping the messages coming regularly! Currently reading a woman's influence

[@juliaclayton1248]

Be Blessed, I Made It And Glad I Did!!! 🙌

[@Insightful_Locs]

Watching this made me realize I do have some grown girl traits..😭

[@thezulubutterfly901]

Knowledge is power! Thank you for your words. This is definitely going to help me through this road block I’ve hit. I’m 24 years old I have recently came across my first gown man. He cares about how I’m feeling, provides me with knowledge, gives me his time , is God fearing ,comes through financially, makes me smile a whole lot, and is just as sweet as can be. Me on the other hand hasn’t healed from past f boys and I vowed to myself to not let that ruin this. From this video I’ve gained a better understanding on how to push through this transition.

[@leighannamahoney1451]

Be Blessed! I made it!!! Happy to see & know that I have some grown woman traits. Glory to God! I'm single and working on myself. A friend introduced me to your videos and I'm grateful. Thank you for all that you do.

[@dorothysambucci9468]

Be Blessed! I made it! I love this one! It’s so powerful and means so much! Thank you Tony for your words of wisdom and your knowledge! God bless you and your family! 😇😇😇