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[@brimichelle6271]

Interesting... my brother has his Sun, Saturn, Ketu, and Mars all in the same sign (Aries). It's not an exaggeration to say that he's one of the most mean-spirited people I know. When I started getting into astrology, I was confused as to why we clashed so much as children (constant physical altercations.. I learned how to fight because of him, lol) and even nowadays (I'm 19, he's 17... he's calmed down a lot with age, but he's still an asshole), because our charts are actually pretty compatible. But after seeing this, everything makes sense. He's not good with women, either. This has told me everything I need to know, lol.

[@Phantomago]

Lol

[@lolabunny6364]

Knowing what you know about his chart, maybe you can try and help him by showing him the flaws in his chart.

[@LadaDuncheva]

yes but a bit later in life for a serious marriage like relationship, as such a powerful exalted Saturn in the 10th always delays the good fruits of life :)

[@LadaDuncheva]

yes it is not a website done for phones, but for a pc, laptop. One day I will make a phone version I hope

[@LadaDuncheva]

Hi I use western astrology too: but I use a whole sign house system, where one sign=one house, starting from the ascendant. Both systems work but with a slight change: the whole sign system shows the relationship of these things to you and how good they are for you, while the unequal house systems show the thing itself..it is a subtle difference

[@LadaDuncheva]

different factors affect males and females--for example even in a gay couple one is the more dominant figure and one the more receptive. In personal relationships between same sex couples this can also be the case--a woman taking the male role and reverse, but the problem is that then the flow is not natural and such relationships have more difficulties to overcome. Like a woman who keep providing for the family for years will stop feeling appreciated and loved if the man never makes an effort

[@efv6]

Hello and thank you for very detailed insights yet my rahu is in fourth house and ketu is in ten. I have also mars in gemini in the tenth house. What is perplexing is that I have Jupiter and Venus in the first house which is in virgo. I do not really know what I am at the moment.

[@whitneyb.2889]

Negative Aspects Sun with Rahu Sun with Saturn Sun with Ketu Sun 10th from Mars or Sun with Mars

[@jackpotwinner1260]

Are you saying Sun in 10th house is bad???

[@newjustice1]

I have the forth one with Mars I have been divorce dum dummmm

[@Zjfnvintage]

That's actually because you are young men with that in their chart have more luck after 40-50 after they have learned to work in them selves. I don't think you would be calling anyone dum dum if you had grown up and learned from your mistakes and worked in your own flaws that led to your own divorce. Its your chart.

[@LadaDuncheva]

you will still feel insecurities which come from Ketu Sun and be a perfectionist, but you will be able to overcome this really well, so it is not a big problem for you due to empowering influences. Sun its own sign with Ketu will turn out really well in career too!

[@LadaDuncheva]

settling down into married life can be a challenge to you, but with desire and awareness and especially age, this can be overcome! And having Sun in the 7th house, you will indeed have the desire to make relationships work, because you will find your self through them

[@LadaDuncheva]

indeed, I use tropical though, helps me predict much better small details in personal readings, like colors, countries, etc,

[@LadaDuncheva]

It does make it much better for the self confidence of the man! Moon and Mars are not as malefic as Ketu, but thankfully Venus balances ketu out by half. But Ketu with the Sun will still be visible especially in the early part of life when the man can be less assured, more ambivalent about goals and direction, etc

[@LadaDuncheva]

You are good-you are more positive influences to your Sun and 10th house than difficult ones. Saturn goes into your Moon sign from October and will be there for 2.5 years, so you will have a new symbolic start and you might pass through an emotional and life low first, so you can start moving onwards after. Jupiter is passing in your 7th house now which is good for partnerships, business, relationships.

[@LadaDuncheva]

you will feel the node in the 10th house from Sun and Ascendant but Mercury gives you also positive qualities which compensate for some of the harder ones from the Node. You will feel both

[@LadaDuncheva]

just being aware of these will help him and you understand him better so you are more tolerant and supportive in such moments but ultimately it is his personal responsibility to learn to handle these

[@LadaDuncheva]

the old books are using this technique with whole sign house system: but I have seen that if one the planets is close to MC it will give the same result as the 10th sign from Ascendant--even if MC is in the 9th or 11th sign from Ascendant

[@LadaDuncheva]

I would not consider Venus opposition Jupiter bad. Saturn in the 7th will be bad if it is in a bad dignitity--like in Aries or Cancer or Leo, but in the rest sign it is ok: it can just delay marriage or give age difference in the couple

[@LadaDuncheva]

hi I use tropical zodiac, based on the seasons and the relationship of the earth towards the sun. This is western astrology zodiac, while in India they use the constellations, so they have a different zodiac.

[@LadaDuncheva]

he would tend to get into more complex relationships, but that is only 1/3 of the whole process of judgement for how datable the male is(important 1/3, but not the full picture) which is reveled in the Relationship capacity report

[@LadaDuncheva]

I will make videos on Rahu with the different planets. I am working on these now

[@LadaDuncheva]

you might have some gentle, benfic planet with the sun too or in the 10th sign from Ascendant or Sun or near the Midheaven, which can balance this out! If you have desire for relationship you should never give up the idea, unless you are very dedicated to spiritual or other important puruits

[@LadaDuncheva]

I have not seen it to give problems in being in relationships-it is overstated. It just makes the person more involved when in a relationship--trying to tell the other what to do, so they are best with a partner who is also similar--and they need more space in relationships-like having own rooms and more independence, but it does not ruin relationships

[@LadaDuncheva]

For women watch the Moon and the 4th sign from it or from Ascendant

[@tinalilith]

This knowledge helps people with difficult relationship aspects start working on themselves, rather than putting themselves and their partners through pain. It also gives people a sense of timing, which will be a favor to everybody: they won't waste their life and someone else's life establishing relationships they are not ready for, yet. They learn to wait, without losing hope. I see nothing wrong with that, and I wish this knowledge was more mainstream.

[@LadaDuncheva]

that is not a problem

[@CGMG-nr7wi]

Well, that's quite accurate . For myself i have SU+Rahu in the same sign ( virgo), with virgo ascendant. I also have saturn ( 12th house) in virgo, conjuct with the sun. And yes, i' ve had some problems in my youth, commiting to one relationship. But as l' m 35 now, i 'm feeling much more comfortable and goal oriented. And much more confident with the idea of having a long term relationship. But, on the + side, i have also venus and mercury , conjuct with the sun, in the same house ( 1st). And my sun, mercury and venus are well aspected with the moon ( sextile). So it's fairly balanced, but it certainly takes time, and YES, it DOES get better through time. Nothing's irreversible.

[@jackpotwinner1260]

Im Virgo ASC Sun Moon Rahu Pluto married at 20 stayed 34 yrs but he was abusive took me long time to get free.

[@bobahun123]

Mars in 10th(from Sun) square to Jupiter, Chiron, Neptune, and Saturn.

[@ivangranatir5094]

Sun and Jupiter in 7th house in Pisces, Rahu in 4th house in Sagittarius (10th from sun!) and Ketu in 10th house in Gemini (Yes, very shy as a kid) ... soon I am turning 40 years, so I hope things to change :D

[@LadaDuncheva]

hi, indeed combust venus-it is an agitated Venus-so is the love life, but still it makes the person kinder

[@MST82]

I have Mercury & Venus in the same sign with the Sun. Yet, even if this is Saturn transit influence talking, I'm too drained to hope. 6 planets in Libra make crave love, but my Aries Moon has had enough waiting! Thanks for the reply and the time-saving info, Lada. Be blessed.

[@Radheshyam97563]

the last part when lada says "oh thats y he was an asshole but i m so lucky" damn best part 😂😂😍✌

[@jeritawalsh]

Wow, this is highly useful. I recently met a guy who has the same sun & moon as myself. However, his mercury, venus and jupiter is ruled by our same sun signs. We're experiencing alot of synchronicities that we've never had with others. It's amazing! I have never been so impressed by anyone such as this! Thank you for your info on sharing the number of degrees if the moons are the same, his is lower degrees than mine. I feel blessed!!!!

[@MST82]

Rahu is 10 signs from my Ascendant. Saturn and my Sun are in the same sign. This confirms it. I'm not made for love albeit craving it for the past 29 years. I'm gonna nip it in the bud now, instead of waiting for things to improve at 40. Thank you for validating my recent suspicions, Lada. xox

[@DonnyLim]

Hmmm, my boss has Sun + Ketu in 10th house in Capricorn. He's with someone for 5 years now and I now can see the ambivalent underlying qualities now when he says "Yeah, we'll get married next few years ..." from the beginning. Self-doubts and self-doubts. Perhaps they'll never get to the altar altogether.

[@LadaDuncheva]

if it is next to the mc it will definitely affect your career choices and actions in life. I have my uranus there too-I used to change jobs all the time and had nothing stable till I started something as unusual, radical and different(Uranus) as astrology in which I have been able to stay put and enjoy it. Uranus in with MC will not allow too long in a career which is not following your authentic abilities and mission

[@LadaDuncheva]

there are but I am just giving the easiest ones to find, for others my Male Relationship Capacity report can find these and explain what they mean and how to over come these

[@LadaDuncheva]

still some people are more hard work than others: is it not good for them to be aware of this, and once they are aware of the twists of their weakeness they can work on overcoming these-my reports also have advice on how to do this and when it starts to relax in life

[@candyDREAMER]

@astrolada My last partner had Rahu sitting on his Leo Ascendant (which I heard is similar to being conjunct the sun), Sun conjunct Chiron in the 10th house. His 11th house had Mars-Merc and Jup, while venus was placed on his 12th house cusp. Oh yea-- Neptune in his 5th: The most magnetic, seductive narcissist you'll ever meet. I should've known when he was sharing a story about one of his former partners accusing him of being crass, a trait he hid from me as our interlude was brief and full of too much evasiveness and secrecy for me to desire more (Saturn on my Ascendant).

[@LadaDuncheva]

u cant know the house without time of birth, but if the sun is with Rahu it is sth to be aware of and know how it plays out

[@LadaDuncheva]

it can be in the 10th from Ascendant, which the other place to check for this technique :)

[@alinatee6726]

And a friend of mine has sun in libra 22:38 and mars 17:15 in libra, that is also the hard aspect you mentioned, right?

[@MrNitin360]

No difficult positions... Sun Venus Same Sign.. Jupiter and mercury in 10th house.. wow nice

[@LadaDuncheva]

I tend to use these on all videos: but I always check the MC it is a very sensitive degree for career

[@LadaDuncheva]

then it will be a mixed influence: some good qualities and some not so

[@jennifershelley6938]

My fiance has nothing in his 10th house. No bad Ketu or Rahu significators. He has sun in 7th house - along with Mercury, Jupiter and Venus! So he looks great on paper too! Now I'm off to find out if I'm a good catch. Wish me luck!

[@chemistryforcompetition3873]

I have this sun rahu conjunction but my goal is consistent .

[@LadaDuncheva]

it can be only with the Sun--which is good for the capacity for relationship for a male. So does the sun

[@LadaDuncheva]

yep

[@StrifeHighwind]

I have Sun + Mars + Venus + Mercury conjunction in Leo ascendant

[@alinatee6726]

If he has venus sun in 21:28 Virgo and Ketu in Gemini at 26:24, that is the painful aspect as you mentioned right? With a lot o self doubt and being perfectionist? Since it is 10 signs from sun, right? I'm not sure of his ascendant so I cant check that...

[@LadaDuncheva]

see which planet is closer to the Sun-Rahu orr Mercury--it will have the stronger effect, or look which planet is closer to the Midheaven

[@Tds6636]

Your mobile version only shows half of the page on the link so you can't get your whole transit in full. When you click desk top version you lose everything. Once you get to desk top version on your phone I couldn't figure out where to go to get the same page from the mobile. ;(

[@drlufly]

is there anyway to improve one's relationship capacity?

[@LadaDuncheva]

Not a problem--actually it means that you were probably siblings or very good friends in a past life

[@JayeMallard619]

He has his Sun with Ketu, Moon, Mercury and Venus. He was completely incapable of making a move and coming to me at first (in fact it took 3 years for us to get together because of his initial lack of confidence and plain disbelief that he could have me). Now that we are together, he definitely is a very gentle, considerate lover and we communicate very well.. so he was definitely worth the long wait. :) (Then again, having my Venus in Taurus, I knew that all along.. ;) )

[@vdoubleu-o4u]

From what I understand wherever Rahu is it will amplify that area. So I guess your Sag sign in asc is more dominant than normal but I could be wrong lol.

[@pampurba200]

My husb, has Rahu and Sun Conjunct in Cap, huge EGO....

[@sushmitasutradhar4880]

you are so right about sun rahu conjunction

[@pampurba200]

Yeup!!!

[@punsized2296]

Darn. I have Rahu 10th from my Ascendent 😐....

[@iambloopy]

When your crush has all of the negative aspects 😳

[@TheAlwayspondering]

My ex has his Ketu in the 10th house from his Sun. Everything you mentioned about this position is so true for him.

[@christopherellis2663]

23:20 mercury in the tenth sign from the sun.....?

[@AlienB78]

MC in Scorpio; (Mercury in Aquarius) conjunct (Sun in Aquarius) conjunct (Venus in Pisces) all in the first house. Many thanks :)

[@AlienB78]

Thank you Lada :) Some of my planets don't stay in the same house when I change from one system to another. That's why I asked what system you were using.

[@caoyudong]

Thanks for your video. I was really worried watching your first part because I have Rahul in the 10th and Ketu in the 4th sign. You're right in that growing up I always feel being trapped in bad relationships and having a hard time deciding on what to do next. But then I saw your second part and realized that I have both Venus and Mercury together with my Sun and I have Jupiter together with my Ascendent. So 2 downs and 3 ups. Does that place me in the "dateble" zone?

[@Cacaomama]

My husband has Ketu with the sun and moon in Aries and he has these issues that you talk about. Is there anything I can do to support and help him over come this or transcend it somehow? Thanks Lada, I enjoy listening to all of your lectures here on KZbin.

[@mandipadhikari2959]

I got sun (28:45 deg), venus (10:00), ketu (7:12) and jupiter (00:48) in 11th house in Leo. Libra ascendent. 10th from sun is Mars (25:05) in Taurus. 10th from ascendent is cancer. Moon (18:14) is in 12th house in Virgo conjuct with mercury (23:01). Am I marriage? lol. Its bit confusion because i got sun, venus, ketu, jupiter all in Leo and mars is 10th from sun.

[@dwijadasbhattacharjee4306]

Rahu in Ascendent Taurus 4°, Saturn 25°+Mars7°in Cancer, Sun7°+venus 3° Mercury 15°in Virgo, Jupiter 0•5°+,ketu 4°in Scorpio, Moon 10°22' in sagittarius.

[@Sage1821]

I have sun mercury and ketu in the same sign in the tenth house. My saturn is 10 signs from the Sun's sign. I hope this means there is some balance there!

[@ConstantlyCurvyxo]

10th house from the sun is libra rahu is in pisces. sun in cancer. Is that good?

[@ConstantlyCurvyxo]

rising - sagittarius

[@LadaDuncheva]

Angelic Wisdom 4 u isnt ketu in the 10th house cusp?

[@ConstantlyCurvyxo]

his ketu is in virgo. and i think so ith libra:)

[@sweetlou8657]

My estranged husband has Sun, Venus and Mercury in 4th house - we are contemplating getting a divorce :(

[@amitprakash461]

I have Sun (29 degrees), Saturn (9 degrees) and Jupiter (4 degrees) all conjunct in 10th house in Virgo.

[@elainesoni7847]

I am really confused : I have sun, ve, me, pl in the 12th in Vedic but they're in the 11th in Western astrology. I wonder if the Vedic calculator takes into consideration the fact that it was 9:37 am Eastern Daylight Time (not the Eastern standard time)

[@LadaDuncheva]

This is who signs house system, there are different house systems. For this technique you should use the whole sign

[@stank510]

I have the Sun in the sign of Leo in the 10th house along with Ketu and Mercury. You said if you count 10 from the ascendent or ifKetu is with the sun it can be bad, but I have both of those situations going on. Should I worry? Haha

[@mfgreg]

Just a question, if astrology is always growing why do we keep hearing only male/female when interpreting relationships? I'm just curious, the world isn't only straight people and I've even heard vedic astrologers talk about sexuality in the birth chart. Really confusing, I need relationship advice too :D

[@Apizzaslice]

Also, how disasterous is it for me to have Ketu in the same sign as a Female's Mercury?

[@Trecesolotienesdos]

I have Venus conjunct my Sun and Jupiter (all in Leo), though the North Node is in Leo also. The thing is, I don't have much luck in relationships, even with these positive factors...what gives? lol.. I don't really get it...

[@bellefilleayisien]

You say Ketu is one of the worst signs to have with the moon and you said Venus is one of the best to be with the Sun. How about if both are with the Sun?? Does that just balance everything? 10 houses away from the sun is Moon and Mars....

[@Warpestra]

Well. I’ve got Rahu in Aquarius in the 1st house, Aquarius rising. Sun in Capricorn in the 12th house square Moon in Libra in the 8th house, Venus in Sagittarius in the 10th. I’ve never been married, nor any children. Sigh....

[@VriendaGanguly]

2:30 16:14 what about ketu with 🌙? 20:50

[@DyerDrums]

The Vedic chart and the western charts are not the same. They're different by 23 degrees.

[@jackpotwinner1260]

What if he has VENUS and KETU in the 10 house with his SUN in PIECES??? anyone know? In our Synastry l bring MARS into his 10th but hes a sweet heart.

[@JamesLloyd1992]

love that my sun is in the 4th house, pretty much showed everything for me lol

[@Richard_DS]

Great! Good bad news for me. I'm 48 this year, that's the good news. I have the first three, of the four Bad combinations; that's the bad news. 5:00 Birth Chart promo. ( used it to see my chart) 7:30 My Sun is in the Fourth house, just like that. 8:27 RA in my Tenth from Asc (12:05) - I've changed careers many times, and will unlikely marry my girlfriend 12:55 Saturn is my Tenth from Asc (13:50) - I do things big, when there is no roadblocks. 16:10 Ke is in my fourth house together with my Sun "Most Painful" (17:00) - I don't know what to do with that. :/ lol 19:37 Mars is in my third house. Phew, a bit of mercy ;) I love your presentations Lada Duncheva. Thank You for Sharing.

[@LadaDuncheva]

it is not so difficult for a woman-this will not affect your relationship capacity, but will affect your character

[@Dsout504]

i have ketu in my 10th house in my saptamsa chart and i thought about having kids one day but im hesitant becuz things have to b ideal. i cant have kids with just anybody

[@icebrow]

Are you aware of the 23 degree difference between the tropical(western)and sidereal(vedic) system?

[@indyscribable]

I pretty much have all of the things you mentioned except for venus. Plus my sun is in 7th house. Im starting to feel sad ):

[@nosniborceda]

Another question. I've read that Mars in detriment or fall in the 8th house cancels out the negative. Mine is in Cancer. Thoughts?

[@LadaDuncheva]

a weak planet is a weak planet, also 8th house is the faulty house so a planet in it is already more possible to be damaged. Mars rules the red blood cells, the nervous system and muscles so these can be more susceptible to damage.

[@jackpotwinner1260]

I have RA Sun im female and its in my first house and none of that stuff is even true about me this is why many times its very difficult to believe in this science.

[@jackpotwinner1260]

@@PinkPeach888 Yes thank u.

[@Apizzaslice]

That's awesome! :D But will Saturn and Jupiter clash or anything?Because it would be both a great time and a difficult time wouldn't it?

[@andi4704]

what if a man has mars and venus and mercury in the same house with the sun?

[@LadaDuncheva]

he can be very charming and have sexy appeal too, I think leonardo Di Caprio has this combo...but he might vascilate between kindness/sweetness and roughness, anger

[@ThanhLe-qq3os]

if he has sun with ketu in the D9 chart but not D1, does that mean as he gets older after his 40s-50s, he will become more difficult as a partner?

[@LadaDuncheva]

Loos at the birth chart

[@nosniborceda]

I'm surprised you didn't mention the Mangal Dosha. Do you not think it that important? I have it with mars in 8th house.

[@Apizzaslice]

I have my sun in the same sign as mercury and Venus, and I have Jupiter in the 10th sign from my ascendant. But I also have Saturn in the 10th house from the sun. I also have Saturn going through my moon sign (Scorpio) and Jupiter going through my ascendant (Sagittarius). How good/bad is all of this?

[@loonmaya1042]

My ex-boyfriend had Saturn, Mars and Ketu in the 10th house, at what age will it get better for him, I care for him still but was hard to date.

[@HFTLMate]

ahhhhhhh I wish I could understand all this in one day!

[@LadaDuncheva]

towards mid 40-ties

[@AlienB78]

I have Uranus conjunct MC in Scorpio. My Uranus is in the 11th house (Whole Signs) and in the 9th house (Placidus). Thank you once again :)

[@ides1red]

What if Rahu and Sun are in the same house, but not in the same sign? (sun in aqaurius, rahu in pisces, both in 6th house)

[@vgylsen]

So if the guy has two of the bad ones and none of the good ones you mentioned, does it mean he wouldn't generaly make a good partner for anyone at all, or does it improve with age or are there some partners that they can work well with?