Female Relationship Capacity or Is She Marriage Material? (astrology)

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[@astroligion]

Breakups are tough and though you never completely get over someone you’ve loved, you are able to pick up the pieces and start anew.

[@misshoneymac]

i wish i would have heard this in my twenties!

[@Ineverwantedahandle]

"I have this position, I am a pain in the ass" sums it up right there Lada! You have me pinned down. Yes, I'm very reactionary. My moon and Rahu are ouchie.

[@LadaDuncheva]

this will not influence your ability to be happy in a relationship, but it can make you more intense emotionally-with deep understanding of undercurrents in relationships and more penetrating insight into people's motives and hidden side. Sometimes more obsessive than healthy :)

[@LadaDuncheva]

u born on an eclipse or close to one! that is rare! U can reach really prominent position in life, but usually fist there some serious inner demons to overcome especially emotionally(Moon is hurt by 2 cruel planets) and then the rewards come later in life! You need to focus on finding and following your true passions and mission in this life and then relationships will become good!

[@LadaDuncheva]

8 house is the house of changes and transformations, so your life might be full of these, constantly transforming yourself. Moon is the home so you might be changing this more often that others. Emotions can sometimes run very deep and heavy, and you will often experience catharsis in your emotional world. 8th house if the house of occult arts like astrology, tarot: you can have a talent with these. Also psychological work and detoxing, overcoming ones compulsions and addictions and fears

[@LadaDuncheva]

Venus with Rahu delays relationship success and gives a fair share of these, because you are here to learn about relationships in this life(Venus with rahu) but initially you will be making more wrong choices in that area of life till you get it right

[@sushmitasutradhar4880]

Lada Duncheva what if rahu conjunct venus in D9 and D30 chart only?

[@sushmitasutradhar4880]

Lada Duncheva saturn moon conjunction in D9 only!

[@XoXoDanaDAstrology]

I'm surprised you didn't mention moon in relationship with Pluto. I have this aspect and from my personal experience and research this is the most painful moon aspect. However as you mentioned after age 36-36 maturity has kicked in and I'm much better explaining and understanding the world of emotions.

[@mftcuaresma]

Me before video: full of hope 💕💝 Me after video: the only thing that made me keep some hope is being in my 30s 😂😂😂 But this is still very educational despite being painful to hear. Still grateful for the info, even though I watched it a bit late (my bad). Thank you Lada, many hugs and love 🌟💕💕

[@LadaDuncheva]

that is a good one! Really makes one more emotionally tolerant and open minded and loving. But Jupiter in capricorn is more difficult only because Jupiter becomes a more malefic influence in Capricorn

[@LadaDuncheva]

no is totally doomed! No one comes with tasks they cannot accomplish, though it might take more hard work than others, but can still attract what you want eventually

[@LadaDuncheva]

dont worry, I have that too, and I always need relationships even though I am not good at them--I trust age will change that. Also in case you have a great d7 or d9 chart you can have good marriages and relationships, this lessons only gives part of the picture as I said,the paid report on Capacity gives the whole picture

[@Astronumerology]

If someone is born with Saturn conjunct the moon, this means they were born in Sade sati. I have moon conjunct Saturn by 1 degree in scorpio in the 5th house. The moon receives a full opposition aspect from Venus in Taurus and the moon is the ruler of my chart so the debilitation is cancelled for me and turns into neecha bhanga. In any case, on the upside this moon Saturn conjunction gives one a tremendous store of resilience, both inner and outer and it is said that only old souls are born in it. In addition transiting Saturn is sitting right on my moon right now so I'm in the heat of Sade sati, although I can say I'm not feeling much different from how I normally feel even though this is supposed to be a dreadful time traditionally. There have been some outer challenges but on the inside I feel strong and optimistic. In addition, Saturn on the moon can give discipline, persistence and a hardworking nature, one who is willing to put in the time to achieve what she wants to.

[@tamraaah6572]

I have moon conjunct Saturn 13 degrees. I've always been told that I'm an old soul and I've always felt that within myself. This aspect is very challenging at time but even I'm surprised at how optimistic I am despite all my hardships. When it comes to relationships, I have trust issues.

[@TheSF1986]

Halle Berry has RA in the first house with MO, ME and SUN in the 4th sign.

[@tamraaah6572]

I have a triple whammy.. Ugh! Saturn, moon in my 1st house and Rahu 4 houses from my moon. What Lada said about these positions is sooo true! It's very hard for me to accept love and I tend to think negatively when someone genuinely tries to love. This sucks :(

[@kpuchot]

i have ketu 4 signs from my moon and i always bottle my emotions and focus on them inside..i was just saying "I'm so much in my head"....spot on.

[@LadaDuncheva]

oh not at all, if you have 2 or 3 of these factors then it is advisable to first be more mature and know and control yourself and reactions better, but love can come at any time. Usually for a delays marriage you need to have delaying factors like Saturn or Rahu in the 7th or Aspecting its ruler.

[@trudoll]

Lada, how about a video on motherhood?

[@LadaDuncheva]

their character will be influenced too, but not to the extend to decide their relationship capacity--for men the Sun and 10th house is more important when it comes to relationship capcity

[@LadaDuncheva]

This is not an afflicted venus: Venus is afflicted if it is with rahu(most painful-a woman has a weak self worth and distorted values-it is called the porn star combination) or combust(usually gives less happiness in marriage or makes one more agitated in relationships and more relationships before settling) or with Saturn(then you are starved in love relationships and for affecting) with Mars you tend to suffer some abuse or more pushy bossy partners

[@lovelylass12]

hello, I was wondering you've discussed all of the difficult placements but what if your moon is with Jupiter in the same house?

[@LadaDuncheva]

Venus will help a bit for the emotional states especially if it is strong: like being in Pisces,Taurus, Libra, Gemini. But if in Virgo it will be almost virtually helpless. Check also which aspect is closer: the Venus to Moon or Moon to Saturn. It will have more strong effect

[@greyelable]

Yup. Moon, Ketu (therefore Rahu in 7th), and Mars all in 1st House! That explains a lot...... mostly my inability to even imagine being in a relationship. Good thing I've not screwed any man over. :P

[@LadaDuncheva]

it will much stronger, than if there was distance, but often energies which are in your face and overpowering, tend to demand a lot of out consciousness and awareness so we work harder at them and such a position being usually quite painful, will make the person mature faster due to the pain and become more responsible in life. Saturn heals with age-after 30-35, you cannot fully get happiness/easy flow with it, but you can get satisfaction due to well done job, discipline and hard work

[@MrNicMachiavelli]

If a mates date of birth is relevant to whether you date them then refrain from dating and mature more first.

[@blendmaz4535]

hi , what if moon(19:58) conjunct with jupiter(5:16) & mars(18:26) in 10th house (gemni) venus(21:58) conjuct with sun(20:33) & mercury(27:02) in 8th house (aries) sat (13:47) in 5th house (capri) ketu in 1st(virgo) & rahu in 7th (pisces) -03:47 as i m scared to enter in ny relationship.. m 25 n m unable to trust ny1 :(

[@LadaDuncheva]

Ketu and Rahu on the axis of 1st and 7th are always tough for relationships(20)% of humans have this and are very sensitive in interpersonal relationships--relationships are more karmic for them--Rahu in 7th has not done relationships in past lives much--they have focused on self and other things hence fear of commitment in this life(fear of the unknown), but you have a good capacity for relationships overall so you should start trying. Rahu in 7th needs to try its hand at relationships because it is the fastest path for growth for you in this life time, even if it might not be the easiest. You will do better with foreign partners or such who are somehow different culturally or status wise than you. Rahu in 7th house gives better relationships from 35 onwards when the person has tried a few relationships and has learnt how to do these.

[@LadaDuncheva]

Saturn and Mars in the 7th is hard, delays the marriage, gives more problematic partners, but the old books say that Saturn and Mars in Cancer in the 7th give a great marriage, but not so in other signs. But if you a have good 9th divisional chart(the marriage chart) you will manage to marry

[@LadaDuncheva]

Saturn is stronger in Virgo than Jupiter so its influence will be more pronounced but still Jupiter compensates a bit and does not leave you so sore emotionally, though you might feel starved sometimes emotionally.

[@jennifershelley6938]

I have Moon in 8th house. All by itself. Nothing in 12th house. Soooo, can I assume that this is a good thing?

[@LadaDuncheva]

you will have a bit of both but be able to overcome the hard ones eventually. Moon with Rahu is a bit of a bummer, but makes a woman very desirable, because he femininity is very externalized and men love that initially at least :)

[@romansworld8891]

Just found this video..lada calling me out!!🤣

[@LadaDuncheva]

In this case Rahu and Ketu do not affect your relationships, but Saturn will, thankfully you also have a very strong Venus there so Saturn's rigidity and hard lessons are softened by the affectionate and comforting Venus! It is not so bad!

[@LadaDuncheva]

it creates a special yoga for longevity, but delays the success a best achievemnts in life till after 35 onwards, the older you get the better you will do, while in earlier age it can be more demanding and hard work. You will have good self discipline and will success due to own efforts and sheer persistence

[@user-ul4re5zo6j]

i dont have neither of the bad nor the good aspects

[@LadaDuncheva]

I Use traditional astrology techniques, which do not include the planets after Saturn. But if you have a close conjunction between Moon/Neptune it is not bad for relationships: Neptune is a gentle planet and help you selfless and very devoted in love: it can sometimes make you want to merge with another person too much, but that is not bad

[@LadaDuncheva]

Rahu will matter if it is in the 4th from Moon or in the 4th house from Ascendant only-when it comes to relationship capacity of course only. To know the meaning of Rahu in 8th, house watch the video: spiritual mission North node in 8th house or Scorpio

[@LadaDuncheva]

this gives you a plus: more gentle and loving emotional reactions, kinder sweeter personality, unless you have Rahu,Ketu, Saturn or Mars in the 4th house from Ascendant to offset that somewhat

[@LadaDuncheva]

this will still give some emotional ups and downs, because having Rahu in the emotional center of your horoscope(4th from Moon) can make the emotions pretty intense and extreme sometimes. Thankfully venus will balance this out a bit, but relationships in general in be a more complex theme in your life due to Venus being with Rahu, it is best to marry and settle later in life, once you are emotionally more mature

[@Skyv111]

Hi Lada, what about Chiron? I have Moon at 13.54 and Chiron at 7.02 in Cancer in the 10th house. Also, I have Mercury in Libra (4 signs after) squaring the Moon so, how would it be? ... I mean, I'm 25 and haven't had any real relationship so far. I was scared of making any of them become something else and really had trouble communicating my feelings.... I got to shove relationships completely wanting more a kinda monastic life... but lately, I finally let someone in but... I kinda sabotage it and... ufff it was so painful. =( As they say that Chiron's wound never heals or it takes so long... what would you recommend? ^^

[@LadaDuncheva]

any planets close to Venus? Like Saturn aspect or Rahu or Rahu in the 7th or in angles?

[@Skyv111]

That Chiron is in a grand square, opposing Neptune, Saturn and Uranus in the 4th, and squaring Venus in the 1st and Mars in the 7th. So... Venus and Mars are opposing each other and squaring the guys in 4th too. In here, the Moon just opposes Neptune.

[@singthroughyourguitar]

My Moon and Mars are in the same house, which makes it difficult for me to follow a man, or listen. I have to really respect their opinions for me to follow them. I am very strong still and I am in my 50s, but hopefully will start to mellow.

[@LadaDuncheva]

you have to do more emotional healing and detox than other people, when you consciously work on your self and reactions so they are so pained and personal everything is possible, the happier loves just might be delayed

[@LadaDuncheva]

Yes it does: age and awareness cures and loosens all these positions

[@yteu7198]

Omg I have moon conjuct Saturn and the same sign of Mars .... I learned a lot in my past relationships, and now at my 35 ages, i think i knew me a lot

[@Xycopixie]

lol. I have both venus and mercury within 2 degrees of my moon in Pisces. This helps since I just went through a break-up

[@LadaDuncheva]

if Rahu is on the cups of the 4th then it will affect your emotional reactions, make you more extreme in these.

[@erintbd4709]

Wow Lada... I've been following your videos recently more than ever, and we have a lot of the same aspects or energy themes lol. So true about Moon and Rahu. I have this in an exact square. I rarely communicate my emotions unless forced to do so, because I feel like no one cares or it serves no purpose. The world feels like a cold, cruel place that will continue turning (Saturn also squares my Moon & conjuncts Rahu) whether or not I stop to express myself. Interestingly though I also have Moon in exact trine to Mercury which is supposed to be a booster card for me lol... Unfortunately this tends to manifest the most when I explode with anger (Aries Moon) after I've suppressed my emotions so much!

[@LadaDuncheva]

what I say about Rahu in the 4th from Moon will still be valid has to be worked on, but Jupiter will make things better, as it give you generous, kind and optimistic and more forgive slant to the character and make it easier to deal with the Rahu issues

[@LadaDuncheva]

he will help you develop the affairs of the house Rahu falls in your horoscope, and you will help him develop the affairs of the house his Rahu is in. I will do videos for this very soon

[@LadaDuncheva]

you have to work on emotional honesty--sharing and expressing your real first emotions rather than reacting with the second more pained ones like anger, frustration. Learn to be receptive and calm your emotions-through whatever means-then you can speed up the process

[@LadaDuncheva]

sorry about that! Dont worry, all these positions get better with age so time is on your side!

[@MizoletteTV]

Thank you Lada! I appreciate what you said about Rahu in the 4th house from the Moon. I have this aspect. I'm a Libra Sun, Cancer Ascendant, and Gemini Moon. My Moon is in the 12th and Rahu in the 3rd. I have had such a hard time in relationships all my life! I do get very sensitive when I feel hurt! I am 32 y/o and intuitively, I have been feeling like a better relationship will come after I turn 35! I always go for the wrong guys, and recently one really broke my heart...Thanks Lada!

[@Dee23557]

Hi I watched lots of your videos recently.. found out Rahu, Moon, and Saturn in the 10th house very enlightening and helpful

[@LadaDuncheva]

Hi Rahu is another name for the North nore, while Ketu is another name for the South node of the Moon. I am indeed talking for Rahu and Ketu being in the same sign as the Moon or being in the 4th sign from the Moon, or Rahu or Ketu being in the 1st house or 4th house from the Ascendant; all these are combinations for delays of happiness in relationships

[@LadaDuncheva]

so you are datable and not a pained woman, but then it is maybe the partners in your life which are the difficult ones, but for this we look at different things in the horoscope: for example Jupiter for the husband has to be in good dignity and for best results not with the Sun Rahu or Saturn, your 7th house should be strong also to give good choice in partnerships and good partners.

[@LadaDuncheva]

with Mars and Saturn--two nharsher planets, in the 1st house of self and body, you might come up as more harsh sometimes-a no nonsense person, which can stress relationships somehow, but it is not as bad as having the Moon afflicted or the 4th house, so you will be ok for relationships

[@LadaDuncheva]

hi, it is not relevant -Rahu is not an embodied planet so its retrogradation does not have the same effect as a real planet--it is invisible point as it is.

[@LadaDuncheva]

it is best to wait after your 20-ties till your emotional world settles in, but you have a good strong Saturn which is not harming the Moon as it is exalted, but the Rahu positition to the moon is more painful and needs time

[@sindhurapillai3836]

Lada, u r right. People call me drama queen for no bizarre reason.

[@LadaDuncheva]

it describes the mother and the potential wife

[@hisharls]

I have Venus n rahu together(Leo), in the 4th sign from moon(Taurus). I’m having a crazy time in relationships for a while now. Is it going to get better after age 35?

[@sevenstaramat]

I´m having almost all the malefic indicators: Moon-Pluto Conjunction, Rahu in the same sign (Virgo) Saturn 4 Houses further, Mars 4 houses further. My relationships have been a catastrophy. I am still confident that things will work out one (late) day. I know that my mature years will be beneficial. I am Aquarius sun and Jupiter is conjuncting my Sagg Ascendent

[@sushmitasutradhar4880]

if moon saturn(being darakaraka) conjunct in aries in D9 chart?

[@MermaidRam]

For me, Saturn & moon are in the 4th house (Scorpio) 15 degrees apart from each other; Saturn is retrograde. Rahu is 7 houses away from Moon in 10th house (Aries). Mars is 6 houses away from Moon in 9th house (Pisces). Ketu is also with Saturn & moon. I'm a Leo ascendant. Basically, I won't be happy in love until I'm too old to even enjoy it. If my Mr. Right doesn't show up until after I'm 35, then the wait wouldn't be worth it. Good things don't always come to those who wait.

[@LadaDuncheva]

Then Just watch the sign the Moon is in: if there are good or bad planets there and the 4th sign from the Moon.

[@chesterfieldsl44]

Thank you Lada for this video. My Mo and Sa are in Capricorn, in the 2nd house, now everything makes more sense.

[@TracyAmor]

Moon + Mars (4H fr the moon). ASC 1ST H w/ Saturn & Ketu (+ Pl + Mer) in Scorpio. But what about Moon + Uranus?

[@momof3plusdsg]

3rd house Moon with Sun and Mercury. Moon 9,48 degrees, Sun 0,04 degrees, Mercury 20,06 degrees. SN and Jupiter in 7th. So true what you said about SN 4 signs from Moon. I don't know if guys would prefer that I'm hysterical because this has made me appear intimidating in past relationships. Husband just rolls with it and doesn't think too deeply.lol! I've never tried to change a partner, my husband isn't my project. Oh, my comment storm...

[@LadaDuncheva]

Hi, I have no opinion on Chiron, I do not use it as this technique is based on the 7 visible planets only which are the paramount ones

[@8elladonna]

Здравей Лада! Това е информативно видео! Мерси! :-)

[@LadaDuncheva]

wow it makes you pure as the ancients used to say! This is rare to see You do not have these even from the Ascendant?

[@LadaDuncheva]

Oh thank you for letting me know! My IT guy has sorted it out today: it was from some picture I picked up from the internet!

[@amandria1]

loved the video. I was aware that saturn and the moon weren't great but loved your explainations as to why. I have the moon square saturn, and I have north node in same sign as moon but wide margin moon at 7 degree while north node is at 21 degree's. Thanks again for your informative video!

[@JayeMallard619]

I have my Moon in the 9th and Mercury and Venus in the 12th, though Rahu in the 1st. I've always had it very easy with relationships of all kinds, but often I feel that others attach themselves to me more than I do them. Maybe some of it is Rahu.. although I do have my Moon in Aquarius as well, so very detached by nature.. Thank you for the video. :)

[@seysisland]

Hey Lada! As always, thank you for your videos! They are so informative and hit exactly what I'm interested in. If I have Rahu and Venus in the same house (both in Taurus), what does that mean?!

[@KarrenV]

thank you so much for this insight, Lada! it's been very helpful to me, because i've been always wondering why i face problems when it comes to giving and receiving love, and consequently, why all my relationships have been unsuccessful and disappointing i have moon 0 degrees conjunct saturn in scorpio, and ketu at about 7 degrees distance from them, also in scorpio, and what you said about these aspects totally applies to me (except for the fact that did receive love from both of my parents). i was never able to open to someone completely, and could never get rid of some kind of susceptibility towards anyone i met - the guys that i liked, even though they seemed to like me at first, gave it up and decided to leave the relationship without any apparent reason. anyway, now that i'm 30, maybe things will change for the better, and i'll manage to gain the confidence that i need :) a big hug to you and thank you for all your videos!

[@yubin_jo]

Don’t have any of the negative aspects, still arguing everyday with my man 😓

[@whitneyb.2889]

Arian Leo True 😂. It’s what females do thoughhhh 🤷🏾‍♀️.

[@cRAZIEKIZIE]

Maybe your are not the problem

[@LadaDuncheva]

lol, don't! I have many of these -but at least age will bring us better relationships--these positions show that we will not be settling happily at 19 but have to work on some self acceptance and some self love first! 80 % of ppl have at least of of these positions!

[@mdlstechno]

no really! Just makes one more controlled in expressing their emotions

[@hugthemouse]

Incredible as always... love hearing your thoughts and insights.. THANKS!

[@LadaDuncheva]

ah good then, as long as you are clear about what you want and what you are like you will find the right person

[@denitsadobreva2020]

What if the moon is unaspected in Capricorn, 7th house?

[@dontstalkmedude]

Your videos are very informative, thanks.

[@bobahun123]

Moon in Capricorn, it's almost the same as having moon conjunction Saturn ?

[@LadaDuncheva]

much easier than having Moon conj Saturn. the conjunction is super hard

[@sushmitasutradhar4880]

Shall we count this conjunction in D9 too?

[@LadaDuncheva]

Actually it might take even up to 42 to 48 to get these women to finally mellow and calm down

[@78zvoncica]

Hi Lada! Great video again! Would you be so kind as to explain how we can calculate if we will have children with our partner and when is the best time for children. Thank you very much!

[@Sunshine-ny1qx]

Thanks so much for sharing this science god bless you

[@asterianspirit1917]

what if I have Moon rahu venus and jupiter in conjunction with each other

[@uaeheroine]

your channel is like astrology school on youtube.. I wish you can make more videos like this , I am watching your channel since a year and never get bored, sometimes I'll watch one video over and over again. please pretty please make more informational videos like these..Thank you sweet Lada and have a nice day.

[@LadaDuncheva]

oh thank you so much! I am preparing now so many videos, but they will be whole big astrology themes--like Astrology of relationships--like 40 videos on this--but they will be sold as Astrology lessons. Hopefully once I finish this big project I will have time again to do such one, I am sure I will keep doing them as this is what makes me feel alive and happy!

[@uaeheroine]

much love to you Lada , if you will do lessons I'll surly join!

[@LadaDuncheva]

Hi, this system uses just the 7 visible planets: so i teach as the ancient Vedas have given it. VEnus and Mars both: one good one cruel influence: they kinda even themseleves out

[@mellojeevas1058]

I am twenty years old. In relationship right now. Having Moon and Saturn both in Aries. Sometimes it creates problems for me but I am working on it

[@ana102285]

What about when you have a good aspect and a bad one? I have jupiter in the same sign as the moon but I have RA in the 4th house after moon. is the negative aspect stronger?

[@ksieznamusic]

Lada please tell me what to do when You have Saturn & Moon conjuntrion in Navamsha in 9 house? :( Does it mean in relationship Im afraid of recieving love or nurturing. What to do to open up and allow yourself for recieving goodness. Im a female

[@13theartist]

.... I don't have any if these, not the bad or good ones what does that make me? My moon is in Libra so is it bad?

[@sungoh01]

Very interesting infor! :-) So RA (South node) is same sign into moon, and KE (North Node) is same sign into moon WILL have negaive effect for happy relationship potential? (Sometimes you mention that RA sounds like north node while you explain it's effect..) So any way the RA and KE same sign into moon sign will be negative effect!? Just want to sure those effects w/ the moon.. Thanks!

[@sunflower-bp6np]

what about the oppositions?

[@AsantasIYA]

Very interesting!!! Thank you! And what about venus (with mars but no conjunction) in 4th house from the moon? At the end of the video you tell about difficult planets in 1st house, but you say nothing about pluto... Isn't it difficult as well???

[@misshoneymac]

moon and mars in the 6th...so this is why i have always found it difficult to act like the sweet southern bell! LOL thanks, Lada! this really helped me: )

[@tinalilith]

What if Saturn and Jupiter sitting together (both in 15th degree of Virgo) both are in the 4th house from Moon?

[@ArchiesBhanushali]

your site showing wrong positions and nakshatra for me please fix it

[@bestaramya3042]

Tiger Shroff r u the real hero or just a fan of him

[@khyatisudi2268]

Venus in the 4th house from moon ...and no negative planets !!!

[@NM-bo5td]

Love Lada. xx