Is My Toddler Going Through the 2 Year Sleep Regression?

[@jenp2066]

I am relieved to found this video!! My son has started sleep regression/sleep anxiety out of NOWHERE. Thank you!

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

Thank you! Hope you found these tips helpful and that your LO will get back to sleeping great again. Get back to me & let me know how it went!

[@marissaferrante4610]

My daughter is 20 months and has never had separation anxiety until recently...now all of a sudden she's starting to wake multiple times in the night (not every night). She naps every day for 2 to 2 1/2 hours. Her speech is finally starting to develop as well on top of us just moving..so there's A LOT going on. I'm so glad to find videos like this to reassure me that what she's going through is totally normal so I'm not a basket case trying to figure out what's going on. Stay strong parents! We got this!

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

It is very normal, especially when our little ones are practicing new skills and having rapid speech growth. You've got this mama! Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

[@louievill84]

Oh my god I work nights so I’m always leaving work

[@fabulousfati4s678]

Going through the same thing, I’m exhausted . I feel your pain, I’m scared because i have another baby coming and I want to make sure my toddler sleeps before the next baby comes.

[@Jaylade]

Why can't you just say "Almost 2 years old"

[@laurfein]

Amazing. I love the idea of saying the milk is going to sleep. And just giving a sip of water if she wakes up. she will get over that one real quick. Thanks for the tips

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

So happy you like it, can't wait to hear how it goes! Artemis, BSMS Support Team

[@care4animals114]

Parting, bottle, singing ,prayers, reassuring, done everything! Our 2 yr old has stripped off 3 times between 9pm and now it's 3 am!!! No dreaming just wants me to stay in there

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

We're happy to help you via a private consultation to get you guys sleeping better, here's the link: programs.babysleepmadesimple.com/30-minutes-private-consultation-checkout/ Good luck! Artemis, BSMS Support Team

[@fillmoorejake-5610]

My 2 year old used to go to sleep just fine and slept through the night. These days he screams endlessly as soon as we put him to bed. Is this regression? How long will this last? It’s been about a week now.

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

Hello Marshall, This definitely sounds like the 2 year regression. Regressions can often last up to 2 weeks. The best thing you can do is be super consistent with your routines and timings because the regression WILL pass. Hang in there! Check out this guide for more helpful tips! Alyssa, BSMS Support Team www.babysleepmadesimple.com/2-year-old-sleep-problems-solutions

[@robinluich6626]

Sounds just like my grandson. I had 6 children and never seen such regression. Mine slept like clock work 9:00-9:00

[@atashabrodley6090]

Thank you so much you have help me understand sleep aggression I’m currently going through it right now but listen to you has help me for the past two years continue blessing each and every person that has watch your channel God bless you and your family

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

Thank you so much, Atasha! So happy you like it.

[@mymy22able]

Wooo this was so comforting to know that it is a phase, my son is a good sleeper but lately only bed time he doesn't want to sleep in bed, he screams you would think he has hurt himself. Once he is on my bed he is fine. So it will stop right? Thank you so much.

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

It can be a phase for many kiddos! However, if you notice this phase seems to never end, it could be that your LO needs some gentle training to form positive sleep skills. Definitely check out our website for more helpful guides and programs! www.babysleepmadesimple.com We would love to help!

[@emilybrinkley4437]

My 2 year old is screaming and jumping out of her cot at bedtimes. Can’t do anything to settle her. She wants me close by. Tried for 3 hours to get her back to sleep at 1am and it caused more screaming and jumping from the cot. She ended up in our bed. Do you have any advice please? We can’t leave her to cry it out as she jumps from the cot.

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

If she is climbing out of the cot it is probably time to transition to a toddler bed as it is no longer safe in the cot. Or you can try a method of sleep training her where you are present, like the chair method. Clare, BSMS Support Team

[@brendahowell5946]

WHAT HELP THANKS

[@RandomGRK]

What if your little one was always the model sleeper. Right into her sack, a few songs and lights out. Now suddenly she started screaming at the top of her lungs, extremely distressed for bed time and waking up in the middle of the night and finally waking up at 5:30am. The only way to get her down is to either cuddle her for 30 mins in her chair or bring her to my bed. Sleep regression?

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

Hi, Sorry to hear! Yes, it could be the 2 year regression if your little one recently turned two. If it's been several weeks, though, it could be time for a sleep training "tune up"! This can be common as our babies turn into toddlers. My big kid sleep course includes advice for separating at bedtime, keeping your little one in their bed all night, stopping bedtime battles, get them waking later in the morning, effective calming strategies and lots more. You can find out more about it here: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/big-kid-sleep-training

[@EATLIFTRUN]

Help! lol My daughter is 32 months BUT with her sleeping patters she always seemed a bit delayed. She recently just started having I'm guessing separation anxiety. We took away her pacifier 2 months ago and since then she'd ask for her paci or tell us it was missing and that was the end of it. Now as of 2 weeks she's been waking up in the middle of the night and cries to the top of her lungs and tries to hop over her crib not wanting me or my husband to let her go. Because she was attempting to hop over we changed her the crib to the convertible bed. And she didn't seem to mind the bed but same behavior. We'd do our routine and say night night and as soon as we closed the door the crying and walking to the door to bang on it and try to open begins. I admit I ended up staying next to her bed 1st night till she doze off luckily it was for a few mins since she skipped her nap but woke up again at 2am and I ended up sleeping on the floor next to her bed. Now Day 2 she immediately said mama night night she wants me to stay in her room sleeping with her. I did do that second night cause I am just so exhausted but still noticed she would wake up middle of the night crying. I did the shhh mom's here and she knocked out. On top of this the night light is introduced since she's never had one. I followed all your advice on sleeping training since she was 4 months and it's all worked. Just a new phase where I feel completely clueless since now she can move around if she's on a bed or try to hop over if she's on the crib. Don't know what to do. On another day we just left her bedroom door open and got the house dark hubby and I went to do our work since we work from home. She didn't nap she just sat on her crib occasionally calling out for me. She finally dozed off and I went in to lay her down and I said mama needs to go to work I'll be back and she was so tired she fell asleep door still left open but now it's been over an hour and 3pm and she's napping. Which will push her bedtime further out. Feel hopeless :(

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

Hi Jenn, Sorry to hear about the sleep issues you've been having. Our Big Kid course addresses each of these in detail: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/big-kid-sleep-training I highly recommend you get it with support so we can chat with you via messaging Monday-Friday AND talk to you on zoom 2 times/week. We'd love to work with you and get your toddler sleeping amazingly! Artemis, BSMS Support Team

[@wendyrau4318]

What should I do when my 2 year old daughter keeps leaving her bed? She used to sleep soooooo good, and out of nowhere she started leaving the bed, being difficult to go to sleep, she’s being very stubborn. Any advice? Thanks!

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

This stage can be SO tough (and exhausting). We provide step by step guides and tutorials to walk families through this process in our Big Kid course. CLICK BELOW to learn more-->www.babysleepmadesimple.com/big-kid-sleep-training We hope to support your family! Best, Alyssa, BSMS Client Support Manager

[@jennperez689]

My little girl is 20 months old and she’s transitioning to a big girl bed first few days were fine (btw she’s sleep trained and has been sleeping on her crib the whole night with no problem waking up at 8:00 o’clock) but now she’s waking up at 7:30 and waking up at night should I go back to the crib ? As I’m writing this is 2:08 o’clock and she fell asleep finally ..... is it a sleep regression or it’s just something else going on ! If so what should I do ?

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

Hello Jenn, Was your daughter trying to climb out of the crib? If she was, then for safety reasons we recommend moving into a toddler bed. But if she wasn't trying to climb out and was sleeping great, I would really recommend keeping her in the crib. Toddlers younger than 2.5 years old will sleep better with physical boundaries. Ideally, it's great to try and get our little ones to sleep in the crib until closer to 3. I am attaching our toddler bed article below! www.babysleepmadesimple.com/how-to-transition-toddler-from-crib-to-bed Let me know if you have any questions! Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

[@garymackenzie2378]

My son is coming up for 3 and never slept all night once tried everything watched countless videos he falls asleep himself usually about 8pm but after 2 am he starts shouting for no reason and this goes on and of the rest of the night till about 7am till we go and get him up for the day

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

Hello, Thank you so much for reaching out to us! It can be so exhausting when our LO's aren't sleeping well! Preschoolers are busy little bees and it can be so exhausting when they are battling bedtime or daytime naps. The great news is that your child is the perfect age to learn how to fall asleep independently and sleep peacefully all night long! I would definitely recommend checking out our Big Kid program. It is a gentle and comprehensive online course designed to help you teach your child independent sleep habits. The program includes a child personality assessment so you can discover how your kiddo’s unique personality affects their ability to sleep well and adapt to new routines. The truth is that having a child who sleeps great is a game changer for the entire family! Definitely click on the link below to learn all about our DIY package and Support package. Our support is amazing! You will gain a month's access to our private Kajabi community with a jam-packed FAQ video library AND 2 live group Zoom calls per week. You will always get the support you need every step of the way. www.babysleepmadesimple.com/big-kid-sleep-training Please do not hesitate to reach out if you have any questions about our program. We hope to get the opportunity to support your family! Sincerely, Alyssa, BSMS Client Support Manager

[@YoungJD2012]

I’m girlfriends little girl doesn’t take naps and runs and plays all day long and never set down. She sleeps for maybe a hour then up and down walking all night and wanting to drink juice in the middle of the night. She gets love and attention a lot. I just do know what to do to help…

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

Thanks for reaching out. We've got great free resources on our website: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/ You can also encourage her to join our program below, and get her daughter sleeping amazingly: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/baby-sleep-consultant Stay in touch, Artemis, BSMS Support Team

[@amandaconte6350]

I haven’t slept in theee weeks my two year old won’t sleep and my four year old wakes up every single night...I’m exhausted

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

It is so difficult when you aren't getting sleep. Is your 2 year old still in a crib? If so then our program can help get your 2 year old sleeping through the night: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/21-days-to-peace-quiet-program Clare, BSMS Support Team

[@mrmansy]

You are not the only one my 2 years old fuss and cry every time we try to put him to sleep for at least 30 minutes screaming and crying we don’t sleep good anymore

[@MariferLifestyle]

The separation anxiety is happening so much with my son, he is about to be 2 in 2 weeks, and with his dad he has no issue getting tucked into his crib, but with me he panics & cries & physically fights me from going into the crib.😭😭 bad thing is my husband got a new schedule and will be getting out a little later, which is already too late for my son to go to bed. Any tips?

[@MariferLifestyle]

Also, he started waking up at 7-7:30am & only takes 45mins-1hr naps during the day. When he used to nap 2 full hours just about a week ago. 😭 is that enough nap time?

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

Hi D'yana, Separation anxiety can be SO challenging. The best thing you can do is try and spend lots of quality 1-1 time in the evening with your son and use lots of eye contact during the bedtime routine so he feels extra connection. He also is close to the 2 year sleep regression and this can disrupt sleep for 1-2 weeks. If he was previously falling asleep independently, but has just gotten sidetracked, definitely look into booking a private consultation with me. I would love to comb over his schedule and make some changes to help improve sleep. programs.babysleepmadesimple.com/30-minutes-private-consultation-checkout/ If he still needs to learn how to fall asleep independently, then definitely look into our sleep program! www.babysleepmadesimple.com/baby-sleep-consultant 2 YR SLEEP GUIDE: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/2-year-old-sleep-problems-solutions We hope we get the opportunity to help your family! Sincerely, Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

[@jewel2647]

I will try this starting tonight, thanks

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

Good luck!! :) Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

[@ishitakumra7397]

i recently weaned off...and he is helpless about it and not able to sleep whole day and night long and is irritated to the core😑I am helpless too and he doesn't take any top feed...

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

That sounds exhausting for you both. Was your little one previously falling asleep whilst feeding. If so our program can help to teach your little one how to fall asleep independently: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/get-help-now/ Clare, BSMS Support Team

[@johnnystrong7275]

There were allegations concerning grandma and her boyfriend. I gained custody of my daughters at 2 years old. She dreams of her grandmother now grandmas boyfriend, literally every single night for the last two-and-a-half years. What does that mean?

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

Hello, Thank you for your post. I would really recommend chatting with your LO's pediatrician They may recommend therapy for your daughter to discuss any dreams or underlying concerns! Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

[@mihaelamarcu5990]

I don't know what to believe about my 2.5yo son. He used to have a 30 mins nap at lunch and then 11 hours night sleep without waking up. But lately he talks more and takes a bit longer to go to bed, he asks for things like water, popo, car...and then he wakes up during the night, sometimes once, sometimes twice and very early in the morning, like 4.40 or 5 o'clock. It's exhausting for everyone. He wakes up screaming for me or for daddy, although im sleeping in the same room with him. Is it a 2 year old regression or a 3 year old one? Is it gonna get better cos it's lasting for a few month now. Thanks

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

Hello! This can be super exhausting behavior. These bedtime battles are very normal at this age, but can really make you feel like you are in the newborn phase all over again. We often have to teach independent sleep skills to our toddlers in a toddler friendly way. Definitely check out our Big Kid program! www.babysleepmadesimple.com/big-kid-sleep-training We can help you step by step! Best, Alyssa, BSMS Client Support Manager

[@ednaohanian9247]

What if my toddler is crying and doesn’t want to go to bed and its 3 am and im working in the morning

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

Then do whatever you can to help them fall asleep! That's all you can do in the moment if you haven't sleep trained. To get your toddler sleeping trough the night long-term, sleep training is the best option. If your little one is younger than 2.5 yrs old and is a crib sleeper, get our program here: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/baby-sleep-consultant If your little one is older than 2.5 yrs old, get a private consultation with one of our sleep consultants: programs.babysleepmadesimple.com/30-minutes-private-consultation-checkout/ Good luck Edna, hoping to be in touch with you soon. Artemis, BSMS Support Team

[@brendahowell5946]

Mine 2 yr don’t sleep! Don’t nap! Same schedule every night,nothing changed, up 2to 3 times a night gets up in bed HELP

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

Hello Brenda, Check out these resources for helpful tips!! www.babysleepmadesimple.com/2-year-old-sleep-problems-solutions www.babysleepmadesimple.com/how-to-get-toddler-to-nap Best, Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

[@ankitajain2037]

My toddler is 2.5 yr old she naps 3-4 hrs a day . Which disturb her night sleep routine . She stays awake till late night. I am having difficulty to set her sleep schedule

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

Hi there Ankita. Thank you for your message. You should definitely limit your LO's nap time at this age. This is our 2 year old sleep guide here --> www.babysleepmadesimple.com/2-year-old-sleep-problems-solutions This will help you understand what to expect from your LO's sleep at this age, plus it's got many tips on how to get them sleeping better at night. Try implementing these tips for a few days and then let us know how things work out. Good luck. Panagiota, BSMS Support Team

[@georginajohnson8282]

I recently stopped my 2 1/2 year old son breastfeeding as I had my little girl and he started sleeping through the night perfectly but now wakes 3 or 4 times and I am completely sleep deprived from newborn wakes up let alone my little boy waking and hes started getting in my bed which I really don't want but have no other idea how to stop him screaming for ages and waking his sister...any advice would be amazing!!

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

Oh man not what you need when you have a newborn as well. Congratulations by the way. I assume your eldest is in a toddler bed if he is able to come into your bed. If this was a recent transition and you can put him back into a crib this can definitely help to make this process smoother for you all. My eldest is 29 months and my youngest 6 months and I have them both in cribs. Having them both contained definitely helps. Our program 21 days to Peace and Quiet can help teach your eldest to sleep independently in a crib: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/21-days-to-peace-quiet-program If it is not possible to put him back in a crib then here is our guide on getting your toddler to stay in their bed all night: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/toddler-getting-out-of-bed-repeatedly-2 Let us know if there is anything else we can help with, Clare, BSMS Support Team

[@npm1421]

My 2 year old not taking his nap this is second time in a week is he ready for stop napping

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

Hi! Thanks for your message! Jilly has a great guide on this subject with all the tips. www.babysleepmadesimple.com/transition-to-one-nap-when-how Hope it helps! / Leena, BSMS Support Team

[@marybrewer3824]

I have a 23 month old daughter who is definitely going through regression \seperation anxiety right now. It has been going on for a week or so and I just dont know what to do. I had her sleep trained and she napped and slept through the night like a champ until now. Every day, after I do our routine of readig a book and rockig her ursing her for 10 minutes and then laying her down in her crib, all she does is scream. I usually just ignore her (i know. Its terrible!) But she refuses to go to sleep. So most days since this started, she just doesnt nap. The only way she will is if I hold her the entire time or put her in my bed and lay beside her. But i know those are both bad habits and I dont want to continue that every day and conpletely ruin my hard work of sleep training her. What do i do?? Please help!!

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

Hi Mary, It's so tough when your great sleeper regresses!! Here's my new guide on common 2 year old sleep problems and how you can get your LO sleeping great again: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/2-year-old-sleep-problems-solutions It's a normal phase of development that calls for a bit more comforting and attention, and that's ok. Give it a few more days, then you can take active steps to get her sleeping well again. The guide will show you how. Good luck, Jilly

[@marybrewer3824]

@@Babysleepmadesimple i read everything but im still not sure how i can still get her to nap without causig bad habits like holding her or layig in bed with her. Yesterday i did our routine and she fell asleep or was atleast half asleep in my arms after nursing and i went to put her in the crib and she freaks out and starts screaming. So i told her im not going anywhere and then i tried laying in the floor next to the crib but she still just screams until i pick her up. 😭

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

@@marybrewer3824 I would talk to her during the day when she's awake and happy. EXPLAIN your expectations ("You'll go into your crib & cuddle your teddy & fall asleep there.") And also remind her that you're always nearby watching over her ("And mommy will sit next to your crib while you fall asleep.") Let her know what you expect of her, while also providing loving reassurance. You can hold her hand or stroke her hand through the crib bars while she learns to fall asleep in the crib again. Each few days you can move your chair a few feet away from the crib, toward the bedroom door. Toddlers need to know what's going on, communication is essential. And, of course, we parents have to stick to what we say. This method WILL work if you stay consistent. Good luck.

[@adisonb6748]

@@Babysleepmadesimple I have a very similar problem to this. My son is two next week and does not yet have alot of words. I'm confused by what you are saying here and buy your articles. I can talk to him about it during the day, and not take him out at night at all, but I have no idea how to calm him with out letting him out of the crib or room. He just cries. This morning I let him cry from 5am to 7am in his crib. I went in and told him to lay down, offered water, tried to hold his hand, rubbed his back...everything but take him out. But he just cried. He used to sleep 9-7:15 with out waking. Now its 10-5 if we are lucky. It's been over 2 weeks now, and it is really showing in his daytime mood. (And ours) Do I just keep doing these things until he sleeps until 7...even if he is crying the whole time?

[@nancymedina9233]

My daughter is 24 months and she yells and cries. She can last up to 4 hrs. She gets so desperate that she had fallen from her crib 3 times. I don’t know what else to do. I’m afraid she’s gonna keep falling. She was a great sleeper.

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

Hi Nancy, The 2 year old regression is tough, but it is the last one and it WILL pass! Hang in there! Try and stay consistent with all of your routines since regressions normally pass in a couple weeks. Check out this resource for additional tips :) Alyssa, BSMS Support Team www.babysleepmadesimple.com/2-year-old-sleep-problems-solutions

[@oceandreams97]

Currently in this situation...horrible HORRIBLE last 3 weeks of trying to get sleep. Along with family stuff going, my and my fiances anxiety levels are through the roof. She just cries and throws everything out of her bed. She's fine when we are in there, but we share a room with her so both of us are so so so desperate for sleep! He works and is gone all day, he sometimes doesn't even get to see her before bed. And obviously momma here hasn't had the best sleep since she was born almost 2 years ago. We are lost for words.

[@smack_dab]

I'm suffering. My wife still breast feeds at 2 years old and he still sleeps in our bed. Now sleep regression is happening and she won't change a thing. He needs to start sleeping in his bed and needs to start weaning. Am I wrong? Seriously, you can't tell her NOTHING!

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

We would love to help you get your toddler sleeping in his own bed! Definitely check out our website for more helpful guides and programs! www.babysleepmadesimple.com

[@jewel2647]

I will try this starting tonight, thanks

[@Babysleepmadesimple]

Good luck!! :) Alyssa, BSMS Support Team