Is She "Stuck" On Another Guy? How to Beat Out Your Competition

[@stevethompson9615]

I am a recovering Nice Guy. Your videos have helped me immeasurably on my road to recovery!

[@Invertmini1212]

Guys need to realize abundance mindset is everything… If she doesn’t like you that’s alright, theres another girl out there just as pretty that you will find.

[@skykendry3411]

U on point

[@benfranklin9156]

Yep

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Instead of just competing with the other guy, focus on building a connection based on shared values and interests. Share experiences that align with her passions, and let your personality shine. Authenticity can often win over someone’s heart more than competition!*

[@Chris-ey7zy]

It’s not that he didn’t like her, it’s that he didn’t take her BS.

[@Gee_goods]

I Love all the content. Here’s my experience conclusion, the person who wins in all of this is the person who truly doesn’t care. Learn to accept ppl for who they are and not who you want them to be.

[@chris-sixty]

I would also say that it's the person who CARES A LOT, but can still go slow, show self-control and calmly walk away if necessary that's MOST attractive

[@willzdemy]

​@@chris-sixty say that again the people behind didn't hear that 😂

[@Yourpetstories]

“And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won’t even be sure, whether the storm is really over. But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.” ― Haruki Murakami, Kafka on the Shore

[@erniet]

Great video guys!!! The last point has been the most powerful in my experience. Do not accept disrespect and be willing to walk away. 🔥🔥

[@erniet]

@@jonduga6315 Sorry Jon!! Don’t ever go back to an ex. I never have, never will. When I’m done it’s forever. Peace 🙏🏿

[@GuardianAngel..]

Here’s another point that I would like to add when she comes to realization that the “other guy” is a manipulator who is only wasting her time he’s done and when that happens she will have no choice but to start pursuing You the guy who genuinely wants to grow and build with her and seeing that the whole time she was going back and fourth with the “other guy” you challenged her and didn’t come across as needy she will even see you as more valuable.

[@clevelandwilliams5922]

You never compete for a V, you be a natural. Being competitive means you need to manipulate, control & react to circumstances. Except those circumstances and evolve or even adapt to those conditions. Guys you become the challenge and she is in her natural element. When she out of her designed purpose of chasing, she sees you as below her. Therefore she cuts that man out of her life. A V can be ruthless, but look at her rejection as a learning curve. End up with another V and she can be replaced. Once she realised in the end you as a man become the prize, she realised in the end you are now better than her.

[@morelions4014]

I feel like I can never compete with the bad boys that women seem to be so attracted to. I can only be myself.

[@danielernst007]

That's all you need to be. Next...

[@StephenKershaw1]

What age group are you talking about and define “bad boy”

[@I-Am-Wonderful]

If you can only be yourself as you say, then improve yourself in all areas man.

[@IntegraDIY]

The “bad boy” she wants but doesn’t want her already has her imprinted.. if you know anything about woman who have imprints of another man is that she’ll never let him go no matter what, and even if you win her over, she will run back for a quick smash behind the new guys back. This is why I don’t mess with any girl who has a strong male imprint.. it’s game over for them unless something went terribly bad between them and she hates him. But this is rare.. the “bad boy” who imprinted her has her for life.

[@chris-sixty]

most women have never been given a "positive challenge" by the guy who REALLY likes them. Women with high self esteem (the ones you want) will chose a positive challenge (he likes me but I can't tame him) over a negative one (he just doesn't like me)

[@lukeArmstrong524]

My gf is a promiscuous women.she Smashed her ex i believe behind my back. She still chases me. Ive never chased her. I am always willing to walk away.

[@ssap3717]

@@chris-sixty what is a positive challenge?

[@chris-sixty]

@@ssap3717 Hey S Sap. The motto of the positive challenge is... I like you... BUT. As in, I like you but you can't tame me, I like you but I'm not going to be "serious", I like you but I can say NO when appropriate. The negative challenge just doesn't like her (or worse). The WIMP says... I like you SO. I like you SO I will do anything. I like you SO I will never walk away. Thanks for your comment

[@Chris-ey7zy]

Daddy issues. No way

[@hajinezhad3]

Folks, be careful with this "challenge" concept. If a woman is not physically and or emotionally attracted to you, not only does she not care if you walk away, she will be like thank God! Women chase men who they find attractive, and playing hard to get only works if she actually wants to get you. The act of walking alone isn't going to do the trick.

[@leealex24]

I only hope women respond if she really have interest in the guy. It is okay if we take it slow but respond at least

[@amradzinovic4086]

You're actually much smarter than almost everybody here. 👍👍😁

[@Barbatos885]

It’s kind of funny if she isn’t attracted to you why would you want to stay 🤣

[@davidmulhern5877]

Yes but the problem is that a lot of guys chase anyway. A lot of times guys will chase girls that they’re better off walking away. That’s why they preach it. And I actually kind of disagree with you because many women test you. They will make distance and if you chase them they think, somethings wrong with this guy, and they lose interest because he chased. Many of times playing hard to get and not pursuing builds interest from the female. And physical attraction only goes so far. Women fall in love with your personality and how you play with their emotions.

[@torduc22]

@@davidmulhern5877 yep agreed with what you wrote here - sure, it's important for you to have some initial rapport and attraction from the woman, but like you said, i rather just test these things out early and see if there's a path forward by her coming back and making some progress vs. being needy af and then having her drop me permanently. Like the OP said, sure, you walking away might make her think "thank god!", then so be it - at least I was done on my terms. That's the final piece: when you walk away, whether to "test" her or whatever your intention is, you have to be okay with the possibility of that door never opening again because you are closing it as you walk away. And that's fine - we gotta keep the abundance mindset. Remember, we were fine before we met them, and we will be fine after leaving them.

[@ivorpersonal]

You were a bad boy. Oooo, that's so cool. It adds so much to the content when you kompliment each other. The trason why we ate doong all this is to get more clients.

[@morelions4014]

I always like women that never feel the same way back.

[@joeyestrada9071]

Same, every fucking time 😥

[@morelions4014]

Simple you don't compete. At the end of the day she likes who she likes and if it's the other guys more than you, there's nothing you can do about it. You just have to move on until hopefully one day you do meet the right woman.

[@ildskimi]

lol. Any girl who is attractive it is very likely she has many guys into her.

[@StephenKershaw1]

@@ildskimi doesn’t matter who’s into her… it only matters who she’s into.

[@TubeDeviant]

Wrong, like it was mentioned, if she's attractive and just as importantly, a good woman, there will be many guys and she'll obviously have her eyes on one of them.. You're competing in every aspect in your life. I used to think "Don't compete with others", but that's wrong.. Don't COMPARE yourself, but you are literally competing with every other guy out there.

[@I-Am-Wonderful]

OK, to help with this debate, don't compete, BUT always be the best you can by learning and improving in all areas of your life so that she chooses you.

[@mrnice7570]

Compete against mortals 😂 aye ok, I will continue striding above them as a demi god

[@neildmonte8585]

You are both GENIUSES!

[@NeerajSharma033]

This video has so much information damn. Thanyou guys

[@stefanross8129]

whoa! Great material. You guys really know your stuff. Bravo!!

[@brandonmohammed3738]

GREAT POINTS GUYS... THATS A WINNER.AND YOU KNOW WHAT??? I AM GOING TO USE THOSE METHODS

[@josephmunyao6639]

I've been seeing this girl lately and I hope this video is gonna be super helpful for me. Thanks guys

[@paulcolin9071]

I can't be bothered making too much effort. Certainly no chasing

[@stephensekyi837]

Great performance, we appreciate it

[@sunmfune]

Am just going through the same situation as well

[@autumnwind1216]

If theyre fixated on somebody else than f em. Move on. None of them are worth the headache or drama. You do you.

[@Thompsdan]

Chris and Bobby need to get a room … with themselves!

[@eulalioestevez3404]

You Tube is still erasing many comments even in this chat! I am troubled by that

[@sneeker21]

Why didn't I came across you guys in my 20s 🤦🏼‍♂️

[@sunmfune]

Excellent love this🔥👏🏼❤

[@josphatmuiruri3271]

I love the two combination of Bobby and Chris though I do miss Rob too

[@BobbyRio]

rob is still around, we'll have some new stuff together soon...

[@larryhurley2314]

Here's one for you. What if THAT GUY is her late husband who died 4 years ago ? And she seems to not be able to let him go ?

[@josequintanilla6864]

Hell nah, you better cancel that run.

[@dionne681]

When a girl is late i order food and tell her: "1st or 2nd round of drinks are on her.

[@dysnomia-anarchia]

What you don't know is women are notoriously unfaithful. Trying to hold onto one is liek trying to hold on to a handful of air. It can be done, but as you remove your constant effort and open your hand, she is gone...

[@dionne681]

My dilemma is this: When do you apply these challenges? As a guy typically were initiating the conversation to take her out 99.0% of the time because were already attracted so how can we challenge her if we havent had a 1st date yet and she doesnt even know if shes attracted to me yet or even likes me at all? How do we increase her interest so we can apply this method?

[@Chris-ey7zy]

Dude just talk to the girl like she’s not hot.

[@G.sh0ts]

Never compete

[@derekagard]

Timely video lol...keep it up Bobby

[@CochoAntonio]

What a video! Five stars 👌🏻

[@shreyakhaire883]

What to do when she is still sleeping with that guy?

[@iskzaberomega2922]

😂😂

[@Dr0wden]

"only shining star in a shitty sky" lol

[@sories.fornah1941]

Great experience sharing 👍

[@teddyvlogs5374]

Okay I get it a emerald is so expensive because it is hard to find and obtain

[@matthewwiatrowski2040]

Good stuff.

[@james4438jk]

This video really helped me out

[@BobbyRio]

glad it helped.

[@chrisfornaro9034]

This is my gf, she has a fire fighter,. She talks about him from time to time. He calls her and she'll me that and it starts over again

[@George-Chris]

Suggestion: hello Bobby and Chris! I'm new to your channels and I appreciate your work. One problem that I don't know how to deal with and would appreciate a response or video if you do, is about: what do we do if we approached a girl (especially if it's online), and we made a bad joke about her, or we tried to make a little playful fun/challenge (teasing that most girls would get but she got highly offended) and doesn't respect us anymore? Cause in these cases I can't seem to be able to build attraction unless I get her respect back. Flirting doesn't work, neither being mysterious etc cause she still thinks bad of that joke/tease we did. Neither saying sorry didn't seem to work. What do we do?

[@emadmamlouki7973]

I'm not an expert and l could be wrong but l think l know how to deal with it. lt happened to me once and l understood that her attraction dropped early on after l texted her and made a too playful comment before making a strong bond. l gave her some space...then l opened another door started a totally different conversation after a couple of days without having to apologizing and l made it look like l didn't even notice that she did not appreciate my earlier message. later on in the relationship l brought that message up again and explained that l did not mean to be rude and what my intentions were for making that comment and l didn't even apologize then and she was cool with it.

[@dougcoates4283]

@@emadmamlouki7973 Dont make her the joke

[@emadmamlouki7973]

@@dougcoates4283 Do you think l mistreated her?

[@thebeast-xg8uu]

I think man should never look for online relationship at any cost

[@thebeast-xg8uu]

Online girls are looking for validation and attention not for relationship these days

[@venturini09]

Honest question.....I couldn’t help but notice that neither of these dudes have a wedding ring on so what exactly do they see as the end game for this advice given that neither appear to actually used their own advice to get married? Seems like the blind leading the blind.

[@johnsnowkumar359]

In America guys hardly die in wars. So most girls born in America already have a boyfriend or two who had earlier befriended them. This is the solution from Bobby Rio and company.

[@iskzaberomega2922]

Am confused😢

[@StrangeTamer178]

Not gonna waste my time competing with another dude

[@gregshanor669]

Right now I'm talking to a girl I had a tried to have a relationship a few years ago. She has said that I'm the same way I was before " I would talk about me and my issues" then. Now I when I have said stuff I'm doing through out my day. Just stuff here and there " she say "whenever I explain to her my day". She reverts back to. It's a all bout me ". & I'm not listen to her...... I am try to listen to her, trying to find ways to open her up to try and know her more etc I understand correctly that this if it works out is going to be a challenge going forward because of how see seen my past behavior+ we also live hours apart currently. Because of that I've given her space etc So how can I give her the idea that idea of moving forward. Like what ur talking about etc. I give an example: I was out after the gym this morning, did some errands & it was a really nice day & sunny she was inside today working etc. I mentioned to her I ran into a friend who owns a Sheperd mentioned I wanted to get a service dog was thinking about a Shepherd. she mentioned that she likes Huskies , I said that s Kool I like them too but since I'm looking for a service dog I wanted Shepherds because they're a better service dog: better temperament and not as highly strung as a husky would be a She said I turned it back on me again because even though I agreed I like them. But since I said Huskies won't be the best breed for me as a service dog and Y for the needs I have. She said I flipped it back on me Saying I'm not listening to her & I talking about my needs again I said No I agreed with her in wanting that dog. I agreed with her listening to her needs, even though I stated her choice of a dog wouldn't be my choice for my service dog. Then I ask her to help me to understand more of her needs between us. How I can. Be a better quality person for her. Like I sad to her if I'm talking about my day. I'm not saying I'm ignoring her or her feeling or thought s it's I'm trying to share my life etc without overwhelming her etc or pushing her like what you guys talk about. That's what I told her before I said to her I'll talk to her more later enjoy the rest of her night since she had to work tomorrow etc

[@doyourbest7655]

Sounds like she hears the word “I” and thinks she is being excluded. That psychology is on her. However sales people avoid personal reference experience by describing features in the third person, like some people use Shepard dogs as service dogs because... Sounds like you are both working on the problem. Good luck

[@rp-wb6xn]

How did this work out? Sounds like too much headache for me.

[@gregshanor669]

@@rp-wb6xn it didn't, between I had to take care of a situation involving my kids mom( due to a medical emergency and procedure), realized that I was starting to understand her game etc and me knowing her having to many other guys she wanted etc. So she walked away etc

[@youruniverce4667]

After realising the "other guy" was watching the video.

[@TheHannibalTV]

👍

[@johnsnowkumar359]

If she daydreams about her first love all the time, her grades in college will suffer. She will flunk all her tests.

[@lastbull575]

Bobby I broke no contact by mistake damn. I was sending message to someone. I mistakenly sent it to her what should I do start no contact again or continue?

[@lukeArmstrong524]

No contact bro. Ghost her...

[@lastbull575]

@olaniyi serah no problem so I will make sure he is able to scam me I really appreciate

[@givdb5513]

you're only competing with yourself

[@TheGrondar]

jo Bobby, mind to answer me a question: I think I screwed things up with this girl (i kinda confessed... you know) though she isn't ignoring me, i feel like she avoids me since. How do I "sneak" back to, at least, friendship terms with her?

[@s.beccari4678]

If you want more than friend zone, than don't ask her for friends...

[@TheKid-ej1es]

Is it possible or how is it, to win a girl back come on Bobby I’ll buy the vid

[@linsildiedar]

What if the guy died? Boyfriend passed away a year ago. What do you do to get her??? HELP

[@tahiraabdul1701]

Atleast give her 3 months to mourn then you can marry her

[@davywilliams8048]

Is Chris available for one on one coaching

[@BobbyRio]

hi, yes, here is the info: bobbyriotraining.com/coachingwithchris/

[@alexflips393]

What’s your 2nd best product Bobby?

[@BobbyRio]

hi, it all depends on what you're looking to achieve or work on, a lot of programs are specific to certain skills, like Bionic Verbal Game for "what to say", Self Confidence Blueprint for confidence, ect.

[@alexflips393]

Thanks

[@timsci21]

What if the guy she's stuck on is Leonardo DiCaprio?

[@ssap3717]

Every guy has a flaw. Universe doesn’t allow anyone to be perfect. Entertainment sector is the biggest fraud happening if you know the secrets behind it. Once you know them, you will feel being a plumber is more honorable than being Leonardo Decaprio. A good actor should feel this way by knowing industry secrets. If she is trying to marry only a celebrity, she is not marriage material imo. Believe in equality.

[@torduc22]

just wait til she turns 26

[@yark618]

Just don’t be the guy paying for advice on single moms

[@petergar2451]

The girl I'm stuck on is a walking redflag. I know better but she is so much fun lol.

[@pmbarro]

Bro!! Please answer me. I'm dealing with the same. How is it going now? Any update? Back story?

[@petergar2451]

I've since moved on from the red flag. Happened to meet up with someone a lot healthier and things are going great.

[@pmbarro]

@@petergar2451 I love that! Gives me hope.

[@erikab2359]

Yeah just beat it .

[@dob1133]

PLEASE HELP!!!!!! So I dated a girl for about 2 years. They dynamic was amazing, truly like no other woman i have dated. But... I got tired of her attitude. Gas lighting, at times a little narcissistic. We didn't talk for a couple of weeks and so she got over me (So she says). It's now been about 3 months since we dated and she has gone on a date with a guy. It wasn't good so I'm not worried about another guy. She did make a smart ass comment about how there's a few others in her DM's. I kinda sorta ignored it but she could tell it pissed me off. We are still very much good friends. Talk pretty regularly and have even mentioned trying again. But in the same breathe she will say "Once im done im done so I only want friendship" But then she will question where i am at, what am i doing etc. Ignoring her and making her think works for sure, but it's a very fine line because she is stubborn and will not text me if she feels that vibe. Texting goodnight and good morning has always been the norm. Yesterday I text her good morning. She didn't text back until lunch time and said sorry I was busy this morning and didn't have time to text back. So i waited about 3 or 4 hours before responding. I said hey no worries we all get busy. I didn't text her goodnight and I didn't text her good morning today. It's now almost 1pm and I still haven't heard a word. Do i keep ignoring her? or do i say screw it and text. I won't address why she has been ignoring me, I will just say Hey hope your day is going good. What do you think?

[@junaidahmed6486]

Walk away

[@IntegraDIY]

YES!!!!! I’ll put my 100% effort in and show her I’m a chill person who can put a huge smile on her face, if the intersection effort isn’t 50/50 I’m gone!!!

[@Chris-ey7zy]

This is ridiculous. These girls are lame. Guys who don’t chase women don’t because they get sick of these games

[@brandonmohammed3738]

ALL YOU 2 GUYS ARE CORRECT.BUT WRONG WITH ONETHAT YOU GUYS SAID .WE MEN DINT NEED OR WANT SINGLE MOMS... WE DONT WANT TO BE HIGH VALUED WITH SINGLE MOMS... ADMIT YOU ARE WRONG

[@pecoguy]

If you need that with a woman, she is not wife material.

[@JesseNewhart]

So that guy got chin implants right?

[@danielernst007]

Are these dudes related

[@josephmunyao6639]

They are best buddies

[@mikefudala1997]

My EX broke up with me after a few dates because she gave me head( a BJ) and i said "OMG i love you for doing that for me" and then she broke up with me.:( i think she misunderstood me and thought i said " OMG i love you" how can i rekindle interest/ get her back? she is fanominal women, who i've done 1 thing with which i have never done before with any women(sober or drunk) and thats talk for nearly 5 hours straight in her car on a date.

[@Chris-ey7zy]

You walk away. Let her come to you

[@mikefudala1997]

@@Chris-ey7zy it's Thanksgiving, and I tried to msg her but I think she may have blocked my number. As I'm not getting a 'read' rec reoeipt or a 'delivered'

[@Chris-ey7zy]

@@mikefudala1997 see that’s a weak ass move. You should have waited and not leave her any messages. See if she leaves you a message. You got to be a man and let her come to you. You aren’t any different then every other man she’s dealt with who shows emotional weakness and won’t give her space. Trust me I was thinking about this girl I did no contact with today. But I hold back and will hold back until she makes the decision to come to me. You got to let her think it’s her idea or else you are forcing things and not respecting the situation. You also got to work on yourself. It’s freaking hard I know but when you keep trying to chase a woman when you are still in same place as when you broke off she won’t feel impressed or same issues will come up again. Love is complex and hard. Because you will want what you love. But I’m order to be loved , you have to respect yourself and not contact and obsessed over her. Yeah you might think of her every minute but that’s abandonment issues. You must be strong and not contact her while dealing with your abandonment issues. I used to cry, beg, bitch them out and try to reason with women. It doesn’t work. Women are not reasonable and whatever you think will work won’t. Only thing I honestly thinks works is if you show you are dominant. Like a father. Not like another suitor. A father doesn’t let her get away with her shit. Believes it’s her loss if she doesn’t correct herself. You got to show dominant behavior because that’s what attracts women to men. Guys who are alpha don’t beg or call the girl on holidays. They wait and when they call you can talk and set a date to get together and act cool about it. A girl I saw on bus approached me and I had to act cool and ask for her number. And it was an intense attraction for me as well as for her. But she had to feel it and compelled to come to me. You got to make this girl miss you by being missing. Being social. Look like she don’t matter. It sounds crazy but be strong enough to let go and move on. Watch videos about moving on

[@mikefudala1997]

@@Chris-ey7zy you're abso-fuckin-luteley right about it being hard. What should I do even if it's a holiday. Example 'Christmas ' 🎄

[@Chris-ey7zy]

@@mikefudala1997 forget about her. Focus on your family. Your mom dad brothers sisters nephew nieces. They’ve been there for you since you’ve been alive. Girls come and go. You got to go back to being you again. You gave up a lot of yourself to this person. I can tell. Sometimes you can lose your identity with a girl. You must give yourself a gift. And that gift is to not depend on her presence or approval to make you happy or complete. You get to complete who you are whatever that might mean and someone new will fill that vacuum she left. But it takes time. She’s just an addiction. You have to become stronger than the addiction and move on. You must become a better man who isn’t terrified when a woman decides you aren’t the one for her. Because that’s not something you can control. Or fix or undo. No stupid phone calls. No stupid emails or text or IMs. F this girl. Find yourself. Do your own thing. Focus on what you are doing now. Meet new women and stop comparing then to her.

[@tj3988]

I'm 39 and i don't have time for this shit

[@StephenKershaw1]

This is mostly nonsense and manipulative… if any of this were true, people wouldn’t be in relationships or coupled.

[@BarrieMcKokiner7229]

Is it really worth it loool