Is There Kindness in Love? If We Are Not Kind Enough EP77

Is There Kindness in Love? If We Are Not Kind Enough EP77 - We Are Not Kind Enough

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The best director + screenwriter of all time, Xu Yu Ting in the library!
Her romantic dramas always make you reflect on your own feelings.
The list of her works on Wikipedia is extensive.
We grew up watching her romantic dramas!
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I once had an interesting conversation with H. He said that those who are good at writing wife-control stories are usually very strict with their wives.
What about those who are good at writing romance dramas?
After the airing of "I May Not Love You", all my friends are discussing whether they are good at writing romance dramas.
After the airing of "I Might Not Love You", all my friends are discussing whether there is a Lee Da Ren living in their hearts.
My best friend took her mother to the cinema to watch "Who Loved Him First".
After the movie, he and his mother were walking home.
He thought about what he wanted to say to his mother in his mind for dozens of times, and before he could say it, he choked up.
He choked and cried before he could say anything.
His mother took him by the hand and said, "It's okay, as long as you take care of yourself.
After more than 40 years, he finally came out of the closet with his mother.
I was so happy for him that I cried.
There are always a few TV dramas or movies in our lives that hold a place in our hearts.
We love to talk to the director and screenwriter.
We love to talk to the director or scriptwriter and understand her life story through each character or story that she has created.
Through each of her characters or stories, we can understand her life story and her thoughts.
It's true that life is like a play and the play is like life.
I love the honesty of Honorine in the library.
I love how Honorine was so honest in the library.
Even after chatting all night, I still felt like I hadn't finished.
This time, she has a new drama, "We Are Not Good Enough".
As a Generation X human.
As someone who grew up watching her dramas.
After watching two episodes of the pilot
I can't help but feel like I've grown up with her.
Starting from 4/6, every Saturday at 9pm on PBS Channel 13;
Available at 10pm on MyVideo & LoveQiYi International;
Starting from 4/7, every Sunday at 8pm on 8 Drama Channel.
Overseas:
Starting 4/6, Saturdays at 10pm, on Viu
Starting from 4/14, Sundays at 10:15pm on Astro QJ】.
00:00:00 Kindness is not flawless.
00:19:59 Love and self-understanding: a never-ending journey of practice
00:38:39 Loneliness, a lonely journey to the self
00:48:09 Gains and losses on the road of emotions: Learning to let go, living in the present moment
00:51:47 Crossing the self-imposed limitations and courageously pursuing inner desires
01:04:03 Breaking the framework and embracing your true self
01:18:35 Love is a choice and realization.
01:30:02 The power of love: healing and growth
01:43:41 Finding meaning in life: listening to the voice within
01:55:34 Believing you are worthy of love: a sincere confession
In this conversation, Xu Yuting and her hosts explore the deeper issues of love, life and self-knowledge. Xu Yu Ting shares her rich and unique emotional experiences and how she has learned to grow from them. The conversation reveals that in the pursuit of love, everyone inevitably experiences confusion, hurt and growth. Xu Yuting bravely breaks the mold and learns to embrace her imperfections and live her true self. Her insights inspire us to reflect on the nature of love, learn to love ourselves, accept the flaws in our lives, and believe in the power of love. This is a conversation full of wisdom and warmth, bringing the listener a new perspective on self and love.
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@ArialTsai 2 ай бұрын

「我覺得一個人他其實就是一本書，真的要閱讀到最後，你才會知道這個人的全貌」

@lego20700 2 ай бұрын

但, 代價好大喲, 要看到最後一頁....人生中有多少人跟我們有交集, 要花多少時間讀到最後

@user-lp5jf2pj2e 2 ай бұрын

但是要吸引到最後才能有那一天

@gnemijian31 Ай бұрын

沒錯@@lego20700

@Ariel_H07 2 ай бұрын

很喜歡這集，當聽到“因為善良，才看得見不善良的地方” 覺得被聽見，被共鳴了...

@zorahuang7160 2 ай бұрын

"生活不能永遠都那麼豐富，不然就不豐富了" 這句話給了我一個出口

@user-bw3pd8dy7o 2 ай бұрын

我們不敢在別人面前承認自己的缺點，卻都期待別人來理解我們的缺點，進而包容我們，可是當我們看到自己的缺點而接受自己就是這樣的人，包納了自己，那別人的想法就無所謂了。

@DustShining Ай бұрын

我覺得整集就是一句詩：「舉杯邀明月，對飲成三人。」我敬我自己的好，我也敬我眼前身邊，所有的美好。

@ClairChung 2 ай бұрын

看完之後完全被譽庭圈粉了😍 覺得他好真誠❤❤❤

@wuwu8860 2 ай бұрын

我也是！

@user-yl1nm6dp4v 2 ай бұрын

😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

@tanboonguan1412 2 ай бұрын

@@user-yl1nm6dp4v❤

@user-fp4lw8sw7g 2 ай бұрын

🤝🤝🤝我也是

@user-hz5dl1ov9q 2 ай бұрын

我一直是😍

@fong1206 2 ай бұрын

很多人說自私的人是懂愛自己的！我相信⋯ 但自私且不傷害別人是做人的品質！

@NewUniverse_Mermaid 2 ай бұрын

譽庭姐來我抱一下。我想跟你說你並不是害怕愛你的原廠設定天生陽姓力量就偏多所以妳30歲前被安排去體驗瘋狂的愛可能有開心也有痛苦但那並不代表現在的你對於愛的不再需要是因為你害怕它你相信什麼你就是什麼！希望能再看到你一直很熱血的作品接下來不知道能不能看你寫除了愛情之外的戲劇很期待～

@Emily-xw9ii 2 ай бұрын

不要害怕受傷，愛本來就是一邊掉眼淚一邊鍛鍊心裡肌肉！活得靠近自己一點，你就能在愛裡體驗一花一世界，一霎那即是永恆！

@1ovePeggyj 2 ай бұрын

超開心看到徐譽庭上這節目。一直都很愛她的戲，特別喜歡聽她說話會一直想聽下去。她的戲都在探討人性很好看～～～～

@baubaulin2902 2 ай бұрын

譽庭姐她那不可思議的靈魂真的令我感到震撼！請收下我的膝蓋，超級崇拜受用無窮❤🙏🏻

@user-pd8cs3xr5c 2 ай бұрын

對於原生家庭不那麼幸福的人，相信愛是此生課題，因為不幸福真的會遺傳😢

@kawaireborn Ай бұрын

不過，我相信譽庭下輩子一定好好的，因為她活到現在真的愈來愈不缺愛。另外，原生家庭，我相信自己這一代可以改變了，斷除家族業力。你也可以的❤

@Chill-C-Lunc 2 ай бұрын

35:40 你跟真實的自己離得很遠這句話真的詮釋的好棒闡述憂鬱

@user-di6hq8tm5k 2 ай бұрын

其實妳已經找到答案了，因為你不用很努力追求愛或是很努力付你就擁有愛了，那就是愛! ❤

@user-pb9gq6lc1f 2 ай бұрын

譽庭姐，你若不是很有才華，那就沒有人有才華了。

@dangelahuang9495 Ай бұрын

每個人都有自己的故事，看到就很想和徐導分享是人之常情，還好我先看到這一集，要不然我也會變成想去跟徐導分享自己故事的人，只是我比較幸運的是，自己的故事自己寫好了，40歲的我和十多歲到二十歲的我和解了，因為我從該給我答案的人口中得到了答案。😂😂😂 從不夠善良的我們訪談，看到徐導說話時很有魅力，所以找到這一集，感覺更認識徐導，也因為同是文字創作者，對文字比較敏感，所以感受到她的迷人之處，也成為了她的文字粉絲。

@qicai3682 Ай бұрын

真的非常感谢这一集，听了三遍。这一阵子非常忧郁，做什么事情都没什么动力，感觉人生不能更糟了。听完发现，对自己这些情绪释怀了，也能试着去理解，我们只是人，有七情六欲。或许把身边的每个人都想成很邪恶，那些偶尔的善良，才显得更珍贵。

@user-ye2rm5ir9i Ай бұрын

😂接續著聽，那個無縫接軌我笑到不行！哈哈徐導有夠可愛

@9annnnne 2 ай бұрын

我們只是愛的載體，愛透過我們在流淌。

@rt0925 2 ай бұрын

這集好好聽。聽完podcast 又來在看影音版。聽不膩😊很多人生啟示。完全懂50歲回頭看40歲的愛情人生的概念。現在40回頭想30的自己真的是沒走到盡頭都不知道自己的全貌

@angelamommy100 Ай бұрын

導演好real, 也很有內容，聽這集訪談聽得好過癮

@j0198923 2 ай бұрын

結尾『想要愛又害怕愛』，不敢勇敢愛？不相信自己會幸福.......，有觸動到我的心，我也是很久沒愛過了，也許從來沒真正愛過，因為根本不懂愛...，『不夠善良的我們』超好看的，謝謝徐譽庭導演，挖掘出內心深刻的一面，也許這就是答案。

@laumaggie7351 2 ай бұрын

看完這篇訪問很有力量，人與人相處絕不是偶然，一定有它的道理存在，一定會學懂及了解更多的自己

@sumry13 2 ай бұрын

驚為天人的一集，徐譽庭小姐不愧是編劇，形容事情的準確度與譬喻彷彿在寫書一般精準，好像找到寶藏。Ting也是感受力好驚人。

@Hellen1026 2 ай бұрын

聽完這集好有趣好感動🥹原來徐譽庭導演內心怎麼豐富，這集真的超好聽🥹

@altina3101 2 ай бұрын

很喜歡這部劇，就追到導演/編劇的採訪，結果挖到寶，聽了一集充滿哲理趣味、火花四濺的深度對話，好久沒這麼過癮了😋

@gueifuuuu928 2 ай бұрын

一直都喜歡徐譽庭導演的劇，看到婷婷跟導演的共同點這麼多，突然好希望看到婷婷出書

@user-us2jo6pg4o 2 ай бұрын

這是我目前聽完最喜歡的帶入感好深看完內心很感動

@user-ex2tc4ce2m 2 ай бұрын

誉庭老师说快乐不是所有的情绪，太戳中我了，我也一直这样认为！感谢徐老师让我看到这么棒的电视剧！

@ria_hxhxm 2 ай бұрын

好愛這集，喜歡裡面的每一句話、每一個字、每一份情緒、每一個標點符號。謝謝你們！！！

@h.h.c.4583 Ай бұрын

謝謝徐導, 寫了那麼好的劇, 找了那麼好的演員來演這齣劇, 給我們看, 讓我們邊看邊治療與反思自己的人生.

@gavinchiang9835 2 ай бұрын

個人感覺，付出愛更快樂這句話值得思考，要看場景或時間跟環境，假設是在不對的時間付出，只是被當工具人，對方也只是不搓破，默默拿取，人性的貪婪只為自己著想，即時停損超級重要

@ethanyu 2 ай бұрын

愛的時候無怨尤不愛的時候就會變工具人不見得每個人都看得開

@gavinchiang9835 2 ай бұрын

@@ethanyu 認同你說的，有愛過就好，回憶放著，人生無法避免的事情很多，以不傷害彼此為前提，加上去年開大刀，對方也沒來探病或送禮關心，頓時更確定自己是工具人，所以才打這些話，值得省思，謝謝你發表🙂

@ethanyu 2 ай бұрын

@@gavinchiang9835 其實我自己也體驗過年輕的時候曾經有段時間我以為自己可以幫對方壯大後來才知道他在他朋友面前說要不是某些資源他才懶得花時間在我身上頓時晴天霹靂不過慶幸自己不再跟他糾纏也謝謝他給我這段過去後來的我過得好多了

@jkwang9614 2 ай бұрын

自我陶醉和犧牲能力越大但現實接地氣裡總是搞笑的人都要後知後覺才學會珍惜沒人是天生的

@jeanh6603 14 күн бұрын

付出愛更快樂必須建立在無所求上面，否則應該會招致更多痛苦吧～

@user-yc1rm3gx2x 2 ай бұрын

真心、坦然的面對自己時常自我察覺，去體會愛、付出愛感謝這一集

@missmessi0624 Ай бұрын

真的很喜歡有深度內容且能夠讓我們在事後有省思的對話節目, 要一直做下去喔!!!

@hankyang4032 2 ай бұрын

好喜歡你們的節目。聽了好多集，每次節目到了最後，那種深刻和深入交流，可以讓外面車水馬龍的喧囂都不見了。你們和來賓的訪談餘韻都會留在我心頭好久好久。(我聽很多集了，第一次用YT聽，有種不留言不行的感覺)

@chentina51 Ай бұрын

❤❤❤🎉🎉非常有深度有意義的這個分享也讓人去思考我們人要學會獨處享受寂寞懂得放下人生會更悠然自得懂得感恩，善良是什麼？我覺得善良就是會懂得為對方去著想願意付出的人，我也相信自己從小到大都是一個善良孝順的女生，這部電視劇應該蠻好看的有看過電影介紹❤❤

@tattoohelpyou 11 күн бұрын

好喜欢这一集！好生动的灵魂，徐导所感与我所感总有相似，当她说到40岁时常想自己为什么总是一个人的时候，仿佛能看到未来的自己在发问。

@hahahahaha4810 2 ай бұрын

看到最后，说徐老师是非常勇敢同时又非常胆小的人，我甚至能感受到她微笑嘴角背后的心疼。人就是这么复杂，坚强又脆弱，勇敢又胆小…希望每个人都可以自洽，得到真正的幸福

@gshiner Ай бұрын

剛看完不夠善良搜尋到這集完全被徐譽庭圈粉了本來就很喜歡他的那場沒談過的戀愛等作品這集透過聊天的內容更覺得太棒了很真誠探索中也能有清楚的表達及階段性的具體體悟分享讓人有所獲得雖然有2小時之久還意猶未盡真的很真很棒!

@ellenchou9082 2 ай бұрын

每一段對話都令我眼眶泛淚

@naohido Ай бұрын

這部真的每個演員都到位，台劇越來越精彩，越來越有意思。

@user-ze9em9nh7v 2 ай бұрын

感動!

@user-yanujctalk 2 ай бұрын

好喜歡這集，充滿了生命的體會與哲思。

@user-mt7yl9el7u Ай бұрын

上頂樓後愛情又開始了，我笑到不行吔，在三更半夜裡😂😂😂😂😂😂

@PUFFY823 Ай бұрын

我開高速公路聽到這段笑到感覺會被攔下來盤查

@user-og6qc2zz5y 2 ай бұрын

我很喜歡你們節目也喜歡徐譽庭導演的戲❤ 同意Hank對徐導說的：你超值得被愛～真心希望徐導能找到屬於她自己的幸福～曾經在海寧格家族排列看到許多個案對父母的效忠，因而走上跟父母一樣婚姻不幸的路，這時老師會引導個案對父母深深的一鞠躬感謝他們，並對他們說我的幸福婚姻長得跟你們不一樣～這樣個案就輕鬆了😊不會因為盲目的愛而走上跟父母相同的道路⋯⋯

@baohsu4775 2 ай бұрын

每次能夠聽到那麼有趣的故事都覺得人生真是太美妙了

@yannie9889 2 ай бұрын

最喜歡的一集❤

@user-jy5jh9iy4w 2 ай бұрын

愛或許就是付出與欣賞😊

@leexiaoping7113 Ай бұрын

人世間的愛恨情愁皆留在劇本角色裡了 😅謝謝分享❤

@yrli7501 2 ай бұрын

这期好棒，喜欢这个嘉宾，才意识到已经看过她几部剧

@user-uc6fn8jy1z 2 ай бұрын

每次看到影片時長有一個半小時，我就知道肯定火花不斷。聊天聊很開心，觀眾肯定也會聽開心。感謝☺️

@Chuchu11150 2 ай бұрын

好喜歡看完這集馬上去看不夠善良的我們喜歡這段愛你是我一個人的事情❤

@user-ye2rm5ir9i 2 ай бұрын

😂😂我快笑死！人的不像公主，但公主病🤣🤣🤣。轉頭的時候要帥我真的在自己房間笑超大聲！但我滿理解婷婷和徐導我真的也是個比較個性率性的女生，當了媽也是這樣，而且我真的就像徐導說的有時候真的太硬，過不去會自己撞一陣子，真的覺得幹嘛自己撞成這樣！有時候都覺得別人明明就很輕鬆！自己也慢慢的在練習學著輕鬆點😊😊

@ethanyu 2 ай бұрын

最後那段真的很打動我我們都要善用自己七情六慾的精隨去給自己更寬廣的一條路這段訪談有很多很值得細細品味的地方謝謝譽庭姊

@SecretChenCity 2 ай бұрын

這集是個很有深度的對談，很棒!!!謝謝你們🥰

@chenvvvvv 2 ай бұрын

邊看邊哭是正常的吧😭😭 好愛徐譽庭老師🫶🏼🫶🏼

@tina1993821027 2 ай бұрын

好好聽❤

@user-jw5og5fp1z 2 ай бұрын

輕巧型的那段形容很有感。

@user-lp5jf2pj2e 2 ай бұрын

人生勝利組

@xueyang6243 Ай бұрын

导演对男女关系的有很深的思索，但她都用非常易懂的情节和故事让观众思考。

@007maison 2 ай бұрын

01:51:03 最近也是再相遇了以前欣賞的對象並決定要一起走下去,重逢之前我們各自也是感情路上喀喀碰碰,但都有共識現在的我們都是調整成為了更好的自己

@berhanerashmi9104 Ай бұрын

非常勇敢的人，同時間是膽小的人

@chichienchen7542 2 ай бұрын

好喜歡這集！好多共鳴！

@fangkaren2197 2 ай бұрын

很喜歡這集跟徐譽庭老師

@odinegillian 2 ай бұрын

真是非常棒的一集啊！

@yoyoTaliwu 2 ай бұрын

週五深夜無法去睡，因為愛徐譽庭說故事❤愛三個人說故事。

@user-oz8iw9nw6q 2 ай бұрын

第1次看你們的頻道並訂閱，居然一股作氣完全從頭到尾看完。我也沒讀大學，在譽庭姐身上看到自己的影子，尤其是認識自己理解自己的過程。也因為覺得自己對談話內容有百分之90以上的通透感受讓自己無法停下來，太棒的談話內容❤❤❤

@maxjape Ай бұрын

謝謝徐導演～（感謝因你的善良生成而帶來的作品）

@zmxn159 Ай бұрын

好愛這集！

@lp43simon 2 ай бұрын

超喜歡這一集！

@a8871amy 2 ай бұрын

我超愛這集，認同感滿滿滿❤

@artemis127 2 ай бұрын

好精彩😀

@abclimlim Ай бұрын

譽庭姐說話真的好有趣！好喜歡。

@user-gs4bf6xp9t 2 ай бұрын

好讚~可以一起探索人生！原來我最愛的戲都是導演拍出來的❤❤ 老莊其實可以很好解釋“愛” 老子說“道”說不明，看不到，但可以感覺的到，所以才會很難解釋~ 如果“道”是0，“愛”就是1 愛是產生建造萬物的起點~ “愛”是顯化的“道”！愛可以產生“情” 情是“時間”“點數”，情是時間條，時間越久情越濃~情需要感受對方的存在才能產生。 “緣”是空間，緣就是“情”的連接物，產生“情”待在地方。 1是愛，2是情，3是緣。符合老子說的一生二，二生三，三生萬物~~~~~