They forget to actually teach they child how to live especially menatally. We are not birthed to live out their dreams. Live you own lives kings and queens✅
@Savieduhh Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately this is the reality of most Black “fathers”. It’s giving he’s jealous of the child and going to make them as miserable as he is. When you bring a child into this world, it is your responsibility as a parent to provide them a future, teach them how to navigate through this thing called life. A CHILD WAS NEVER ASKED TO BE HERE. And then say the child could’ve swallowed his tongue or committed suicide is crazy. You should never want your child to go through the same bs that you went through. This boy (blue hat, wouldn’t even call them a man), needs to seek help. I hope like hell that boy never procreated. And if he did shame on the woman.
@iammonet6543 Жыл бұрын
Men don’t give life women do😂😂😕
@romefeeds Жыл бұрын
@@iammonet6543 they both do ms lady it takes both to give life
@lizzy228 Жыл бұрын
@@romefeeds not really but go awf
@cityboi360 Жыл бұрын
@@lizzy228 why not really…go tf on!
@waypoet2609 Жыл бұрын
Parents like blue hat 🧢 is why I left my mothers house at 13 . And I said left now got kicked out . Someone smack some sense into him
@bremass851 Жыл бұрын
Yeah he tripping
@alexusgreene9688 Жыл бұрын
I would hate to be blue hat child… he one of those DO AS I SAY NOT AS I DO PEOPLE…
@clarapond5859 Жыл бұрын
Blue hat really doesn’t understand how to be a WHOLE parent. You can be strict and expect chores to be done and expect to be respected but if I’m a teenager mowing the lawn..$5. I clean the car, you do my trash chore for me. Parenting is about give and take. You can’t expect a child to give and give and give when you don’t give them anything to take. I genuinely fear for his children’s mental health..because I know how they feel..disrespected, not valued, and not taken seriously. Your child is another human that YOU decided to bring into this world. You at least, at the bare minimum owe them by showing them compassion and knowledge and understanding.
@bremass851 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you He was saying total nonsense especially when he said you choose to be here wow he shouldn't have kids smdh.
@G.Ray.Music1 Жыл бұрын
I understand that man in the blue. Although, that is a toxic mindset and relationship. Children have never been asked to come into this world. Now it’s your fault as a parent if that man or woman is still living in your home with comfortabilities.
@stooptv7993 Жыл бұрын
Just shows he doesn't actually love his kids and views them as slaves.
@jrush9096 Жыл бұрын
if blue hat was my dad, folks would have a one way trip to Shady Palms Retirement home … have fun during arts & craft bucko
@Skullfire56 Жыл бұрын
Silver Spoon an insult😭?
@lolmicah143 Жыл бұрын
This what be wrong with our community and why we’ll never unite in this mindset.. lowkey goes back to the “house and field n***a” shit in a way. Sliver spoon is supposed to be an insult? So bc his parents did what they had to do and created a safe somewhat struggle free living environment for their child and he got to grow up in that that’s a insult? Like we don’t want our community and our children and families to not be in that struggle and mindset? What do we always equate how black and tough we are to the amount of struggle and fucked up shit we been through? It’s like we do conditioned we can’t really see our conditions and what we’re been through makes us think things like our children owe us bc we give them the basic necessities they need as a parent raising a child.
@G.Ray.Music1 Жыл бұрын
Cuz in the blue hat ain’t making no sense
@tay9289 Жыл бұрын
Dude really asked why he didn’t commit as a newborn like lmao
@K_Marie21 Жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥
@Anonymous-sv9yd Жыл бұрын
So because this guys mom messed up her own life, and doesn’t have a husband to take care of her. She took advantage of her son, now he holds resentment about it but takes it out in his own family.
@corincampbell2510 Жыл бұрын
Blue hat sound like the biggest deadbeat😂😂😂😂
@iammonet6543 Жыл бұрын
Men don’t give life to kids they are not the womb holder😂😂
@rkstoney3872 Жыл бұрын
Blue hat aint say nothing good ☠️
@yamolfedi2775 Жыл бұрын
5:37😂NO
@birdieculture-2Ай бұрын
1:44 the guy in blue hat: "u (kids) have a choice, why didn't u off yourself" I find it totally absurd, that every single damn time, the kids are to blame for the parent's choice of having kids. And if they don't like being alive, THEY should be the one to off themselves. May I ask dude, did u have a choice to have kids? Why didn't you, instead of telling kids to unalive themselves, put on a rubber? Did you not have a choice to use rubbers? And btw, u putting on rubbers don't hurt, kids offing themselves however, absolutely hurts, and hurts big time. Stop being a serious arsehole for your personal decision to have kids.