Is This Woman RIGHT ?! - Michael Knowles REACTION

Is This Woman RIGHT ?! - Michael Knowles REACTION #shorts #viral #michaelknowles

[@maggiewakefield875]

It is funny how life works… I met my husband once I was happy being alone. He added so much to my life I can’t begin to tell you. I didn’t “need a man”… I needed THIS man.

[@novadino2]

True❤

[@donteviousclayborn9561]

You the type of woman that’s gonna sabotage it

[@chriswooten7693]

You need to be that for him too.

[@michellemarshall8199]

I like that !!🤨!!

[@bspoonire35214]

Ok, you are letting the intrusive thoughts win against love and companionship. So some TikTok "influencer" speaks a well versed delusion, that it's worth allowing it to become contagious? Um and you can't be your own best man...

[@johnsojka8168]

We all need a partner that adds value. Not one that detracts or pulls you down.

[@poly9998]

Does she add value?

[@queent3343]

@@poly9998 You only see a 1-minute snippet, so you don't really know.

[@elhalia5290]

You're right but missed the point... The point is that if a women is alone/single everyone around her is stressing her out... why are you still single, when are you marrying, when do you have children,...? So we women are chosing men for not beeing alone. Not for bettering our lifes. Not happening to a men. If a men is alone/single everyone is telling them to live their best life before setteling...

[@perkalov]

She isn't describing that. She is describing how she is not looking for the right characteristics.

[@dakenny1282]

​@poly9998 she may not. And if not, she still did what's best. That's I belive the point... no matter what, she made a good call even if it seems like she's an ass for why/ how it happened.

[@MiasReview]

Of course shee is right that is the type of friends and partner everyone needs period

[@_metal.queen_]

*”You need to be happy and content in your own company, and only then you will be ready to find a partner to SHARE that happiness, while still having your own life outside of the relationship.”* This is how you can be in a relationship AND still independent at the same time.🥰💛

[@matthall2923]

Yeah independent of a man.. I'll bet you're single

[@garyg79]

If your partner brings out the stress in you and not the best in you, you should not be with them.

[@matildamiller3233]

The reverse is just as true. When you have a good partner and good relationship, you both strive to be the best you are for that person that you love so much.

[@dadillac420]

My ex-wife made me feel so good at the beginning of our relationship that it made me want to better myself as a man for her in all aspects of my life. Sad to think I wasn't good enough for her to want to better herself for me.

[@lorireed8046]

​@@dadillac420 She wasn't good enough as you raised up. Sad to see you didn't understand she was the reason you leveled up.

[@kriztoppa]

Women confuse peace with boredom.

[@lorireed8046]

@@kriztoppa That's not even a thing. What?

[@Raven777777777777777]

Its not just about him adding to her life, its also about her adding to his life. Every coin has 2 sides.

[@Goofyfan32]

Maybe he wasn't adding anything or as much.

[@tigre9271]

Isn't it obvious that EVERYONE should have this mentality? People are responsible for taking care of themselves. People are not going on a date thinking "What can I do to make YOUR life better?" lol! You're triggered and there's a reason for that.

[@Goofyfan32]

@@tigre9271 You'll be surprised

[@Victoria-_]

Exactly

[@key14ful]

Exactly. You should be adding to one another's lives and helping each other be the best versions of yourselves you can.

[@lenny2939]

She's 1000000% right. Good on her for finding this nugget of wisdom many of us don't learn until we're in our 40s.

[@MissyZilla]

I’m 44 and took me a very long time to figure this out. With my partner now I want to be my best self when I’m with him and he is of the like mind. We’re there to help and support each other, not to drag each other down. And complacent isn’t much better!

[@mistyjordan7147]

Be your own competition, love and respect yourself, and be loyal and your best from within for yourself.

[@saustin87151]

She's right as long as she understands it goes both ways

[@laurahewitt5451]

Who wants to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t think you add to their life, though?

[@parkservice6293]

She doesn't though.

[@maxjohnson1758]

I'm pretty sure they don't understand that. At all.

[@kimmcginn9948]

Both ways. She chose herself, there's no more, both ways

[@saustin87151]

@@kimmcginn9948 I meant she needs to understand she's had to do the same thing for a guy she's dating

[@michaelfraser4396]

She realized that she is the only one who can make her happy, not some man. She is taking accountability for her life and her own well being. Now, she can make a choice based on having a relationship where they each add value to the other's life, not what can you do to make me happy.

[@-_oOtianaOo_-]

You explained that so beautifully.

[@michaelfraser4396]

@@-_oOtianaOo_- Thank you.

[@buck_neezy6458]

She literally said she wants to be her best man meaning she wants to be masculine

[@queent3343]

@@buck_neezy6458 No she didn't.

[@sardomarcrowe5723]

She makes no mention of adding to his life though. She 100% half right. She needs to be happy enough alone. Most men are, and approach relationships this way. They also are expected to improve her life. She is missing the element of adding to his.

[@user-qu6lf9ny3e]

I think the problem is that people her age is afraid to be alone. Alone, you make your decision by yourself and have to face the results.

[@JellyBean-lo4sl]

You take the best care of you. Once you know you can do it on your own, it boosts your confidence. No reason to settle for less. Good for her! I've lived the same way and love every minute of it.

[@pauladickerson9303]

I believe is that you don’t look for someone who COMPLETES your life, but who COMPLIMENTS your life. Two complete individuals adding to the enrichment of each others lives.

[@peggyseabrun4829]

Complements, you don't want someone who just pays lip service

[@kellysong2256]

She is correct. Both men and women should be thinking this way

[@BrokenGlass2024]

Yet that's not she was thinking.

[@rockytopsebrights606]

Incorrect

[@parkservice6293]

​@@BrokenGlass2024💯

[@cbh2409]

Yep. I usually give give give to the guy and get nothing back. In every way, I'm doing all the work. This is great advice of hers.

[@Dee-so3by]

@cbh2409, that's because you attract losers, that's why.

[@cbh2409]

@Dee-so3by at my age, I'm leaning the vast vast majority of men are jerks. Testosterone is the hormone of selfishness. I may be single, but in nearly 50 years, I've yet to meet a woman I'm jealous of. At some point of learning about their relationship, I find I'm glad I'm not her because I'd never put up with the crop she puts up with. The difference between single women and women in a relationship, is that single women don't put up with jerks!

[@austinholman255]

What do you mean by usually? Might I suggest that you take the time to find out what the next the guy you date. What area in his life he is needing help in a give him help in that area making yourself indispensable to him.

[@cbh2409]

@@austinholman255 no. He should be an adult with the ability to take care of himself.

[@austinholman255]

@@cbh2409 Shouldn't your statement be directed to the the women who give them their body and time? They are the one's who pick them. There was something to be said when parents use to pick their child spouse's. At least they could see an recognize the short comings that could occur in relationships from their experiences.

[@user-yr1wi4ed5f]

Not only he is not adding, but he is also shitting in it in most cases

[@Papabull23]

A good woman makes a bad man make himself better. Maybe you’re the problem

[@mewmew1591]

​@@Papabull23As a man, I would not allow any woman to carry the responsibility of making me better, nor would I put up with anyone who wanted me to make her better...we can make someone else's life better, and we should, but the responsibility of improving as people It's just ours

[@Papabull23]

@@mewmew1591 wrong. This proves your not a man or haven’t lived any kind of real life. I don’t need an incels perspective thanks. I’m a real man

[@Papabull23]

@@mewmew1591 such a stpd thing to say 🤡🤡🤡 you thought you did something. We’re made in pairs for a reason dim wit

[@Papabull23]

@@mewmew1591 mew mew? Sounds like a 15 year olds online name🤡 don’t try and educate people when you don’t have a clue child

[@armadillotoe]

If a woman does not make your life better, more peaceful, happier, and more comfortable, why would you consider marriage?

[@stevepest4143]

And vice versa.

[@itsgettingold]

"...adding onto my life..." People aren't accessories to one's self-oriented desires. As an old geezer with no idea why this popped up in the feed, I can tell you that the self is a dead-end. When both people understand that and always put the loved one before themselves, a life of deep love & joy results. That's the voice of 50 plus years of happiness in marriage.

[@evos469]

​@@itsgettingoldold tymer the flaring problem aren't the majority of the mans side of the coin.

[@RR-gv2dj]

​@@evos469 LOL so true

[@megazw7740]

Replace woman with man and you've stumbled on the worldwide 4b movement. Hint, women aren't complaining of a loneliness crisis.

[@zavoz1456]

If you take what she says at face value she isnt wrong, her boyfriend should be adding to her life , just like she should be adding to his

[@RobotsandMonsters]

Simp.

[@christycipriano261]

​@@RobotsandMonsterswtf? He's right.

[@RobotsandMonsters]

@@christycipriano261 on principle any man agreeing with a woman posting tiktok selfie cringe is a simp by default.

[@christycipriano261]

@@RobotsandMonsters lol that's your opinion. I disagree

[@orionefx]

​@@RobotsandMonsters dude listen to his last statement. He's not supporting her completely. He's actually raising a question : "what value did she add to his life ?"

[@user-xb6if3bt1b]

I phrase it as that husband helped me be the best version of myself.

[@PerezTagoe-ix7ur]

The words from her says it all "MY OWN BEST MAN"😂 No wonder we're where we are

[@Thirrin73]

There's a lot of comments here that seem to misunderstand what she means. By her former partner not 'adding' to her life, she doesn't mean money or physical items or much of anything tangible. Its about whether him being in her life makes her happier than she would be if he wasn't there. It may not even be in regards to him DOING anything. If his presence doesn't make her happier or bring more joy/enjoyment to her life, then their relationship isn't right. I think its a really healthy mindset to have. A lot of people will stay in relationships where they're not actually happy, just because their partner is theoretically the ideal partner. Someone could be wealthy or extremely attractive or have a great education and be basically a perfect partner, but if you're not actually *happy* in the relationship and they don't bring more joy to your life, then there's nothing wrong with breaking it off. She's not looking for someone to add more money or more stuff to her life or make her life easier - she's not looking for the BEST anymore. She's literally just turning her attention to her happiness now and to find someone who makes her life more fullfilling, just by having them there with her.

[@hufinnpuff3068]

You are assuming that's what she thinks while saying what you think.

[@saltycat662]

@@hufinnpuff3068 She told us what she thinks in the video. Did you not understand what she was saying?

[@FrancisLeos]

people don't understand difference between: to be happy with yourself and be happy alone.

[@tracim3080]

I think you’ve diluted yourself into thinking there is a difference if you can’t be happy alone, you can’t possibly really be happy with yourself

[@FrancisLeos]

@@tracim3080 🤣 where did you see i wrote this? you look very diluted.

[@pamelladstreling6903]

​@@tracim3080I think you meant deluded, not diluted.

[@tracim3080]

@@pamelladstreling6903 actually, both work. To dilute yourself would be that you are weakening yourself, and you would need to weaken yourself to believe that.

[@cherict3400]

I spent most of my life in fear of being alone. It wasn't until after a failed marriage and many failed relationships, that I realized I have to be able to be happy alone to be happy with me! But anyway - I think it is important that we tell our kids that it is ok to be alone, you can be happy in or out of a relationship, and you can be happy with you in either place. I'm not sure that make sense...LOL!!!

[@naomiphillips8858]

You go girl!!!!!!be your own best friends and best person 🎉

[@tlwilsey]

And she also needs to ask herself if she is making his life better also. You work together on a relationship to make each other better

[@coulorfully]

>>After

[@user-zw3hi6sh4m]

Yes and that's also his job to ask himself that question

[@lorireed8046]

She acknowledged her own worth and level ... Guys; it goes both ways. Also guys: I want her at home with zero job but, leveling up at the same time. Y'all are ridiculous.

[@jarmonsolutions4662]

Women like that usually expect the guy to take care of her, not the other way around. Therefore she needs to make his life better. She will be alone.

[@damieo8139]

She is right. Relationships should make you better. Someone that would help you eun faster, climb higher and reach farther.

[@Cheffe919]

The problem is, she doesn't loon like someone who wants that, she wants the perfect guy that does everything for her. She wants a guy who makes her life better she didn't say she's looking for a partnership where both add value, just him.

[@ValnettaVale]

@@Cheffe919she never said she wants the perfect guy to do everything for her 💀💀

[@saltycat662]

@@ValnettaVale These men are reaching. They just want to reason to bash women who have wised up.

[@Alexander-rg2wb]

​@@saltycat662You think you wise enough? You married yet?

[@icoleman150]

I think the main part of the TikTok she saw was being comfortable with BEING alone until you find a partner that will improve your life in some way (I don’t just mean financially btw). It’s a message I support. Rather than being afraid to be alone, you should be more selective.

[@usmc03]

Guaranteed she's about that chocolite life😂

[@criscastro6684]

Amen sister!!! It’s not about what a man can do for you, but rather can he vibe with you? When I came to this to this conclusion about love, my life changed radically. Kinda went from nearly homeless, 6yrs and counting. We bought a house and work very hard. However, there’s our alone time that - I see that certain smile. Keeps me going. Keep preaching!!!

[@Sublime_37]

Sounds like he dodged a bullet. 👍🏽👍🏽

[@Firestarter078]

She says that she realized that she needed to be her own best man before she could hope to find her other half and that's true! Broken people who enter relationships often pick other broken people and two broken glasses still can't hold water! If you're broken by your past you can't see others for who they are because you can't see yourself for who you are nor do you know what you need or what you're offering. You may think you're giving others what they need but in your brokenness you think it's them that is failing when it can be you or both of you! So the wisest thing she can do is step back and figure herself out!

[@anthonylove5275]

Facts....I agree.

[@ladyriot9620]

If someone doesn't bring positivity, friendship, love, support etc. to fill your cup, then they are draining it.

[@JessicaCoy5]

SCREAM IT LOUD GIRLY!! Teach the young… be your own competition and make sure people add not subtract from you!

[@angelmacas1774]

She would wear me out!

[@badguys960]

My man is always ready to help whenever he can, and I'm in love with my handsome provider, my real man❤

[@joykind4258]

I believe in a win win. If you improve each other's life, thats a good reason to be together. Love alone isnt enough if the other person drags you down.

[@margaretcole3244]

No one else can make you happy. It's a choice. No matter what you're going through you decide on your attitude. Good or bad. Life is hard get through it with joy.

[@muthergoose4084]

hey former guy dodged a big time bullet. Be strong Kings.

[@jacryan2004]

Every partner SHOULD add value - respect and safety add value. She is right

[@user-sf3ih2ns2d]

She'll "End Up" An Old Cat Lady With 50 Cats"...!!!

[@Alexander-rg2wb]

The F you know about respect and value? You know jack!

[@ashleygarcia3354]

I think both partners should add value to each other's lives, Partnership

[@rosella0555]

At 40 ... I gave up on romantic love Now at 62 ... Never regretted.... I bought my own house, my own career 🎉 Did better than a duo fighting for needs

[@lalee864]

It's not about fighting for needs. It about giving your all to your relationship. If it is good wonderful but the right person can make it over the top super wonderful to share together with someone you love. PS I was in an abusive relationship for 10 yrs and never believed that someone wonderful ever existed. I have been with the most amazing man ever for 28 yrs. Glad I gave him a chance. 😊

[@Papabull23]

We owned our house at 30 and always have eachother to confide in. You can lie to yourself but not the rest of us who know better

[@rosella0555]

@@lalee864 Happy to hear it is possible I simply cannot see it for me Disabled Tough for me Tough for everyone around me So I do it alone Thank you dearly for your kindness and sharing such a beautiful story

[@rosella0555]

@@Papabull23 Happy you found each other It is beautiful when it works 60% of American marriages do not Be blessed 🙏😇🙏

[@donaldlacasse1465]

The hair alone just screams RUN

[@davewinch7677]

So do the claws on her fingers.

[@johnbutera5805]

Hahahaha 😆

[@notyourtypicalwatchreview2563]

Yup!

[@Alexander-rg2wb]

I thought no one notice that😂

[@ruirodtube]

Never once crossed her mind how she would add value to the man’s life

[@-KMA-]

They were both obviously settling.

[@cheriway8601]

She said nothing that would give the impression she does not try to add onto the life of the guys she dates.

[@chinto50]

@@cheriway8601 she said nothing to suggest she is anything but the main focus of the relationship.. remember she stated "a light bulb went off.. he's not adding to my life.." so she left. I suggest she didnt give a crap aboiut him to start outside of what she was getting out of the relationship.

[@extraslipperywhenwet]

Woman = me me me

[@parkservice6293]

​@-KMA- both? Because she's being solopsistic? Where tf did you get the input from the man? Or are you assuming like all women do that it's the man's fault?

[@oldheadplayhou5e]

In a world where everyone has convinced themselves they are so awesome.😂

[@tabitha8808]

She’s not wrong. You should always be the best version of yourself and anyone you share your life with should be the icing on the cake. When you settle for less than the best you that person will want to be the best version of themselves as well. Good luck to her and be happy ❤

[@Alexander-rg2wb]

What is best version of yourself?? How the hell you can even think "oh this is my best version of myself" you so deeply dellusional and self manipulated. And you think this kind of mentality can attract high value man to marry you? PERFECT dellusional

[@simon8864]

She's exhausting 😂

[@onendfan525]

Facts. Crazy eyes. Either stop doing the nose candy blow or switch to Decaf.

[@M1dn1ght_0n_p4ws]

Pov: "alpha" males

[@phoenixrising-sv8pk]

It’s okay Sparky, you’re not built for this truth

[@annph6135]

The best man for you won't have any competition.

[@hashbrown4278]

With her mindset they will

[@Alexander-rg2wb]

What competition in the first place? Is her kind has that option?

[@user-tz5tx4nz7d]

Yep! When I finally decided to stop looking and it was okay to be alone. I found the perfect guy for me. He uplifted me in every way... I am a better person because of him.

[@megharvey176]

She saw that tik tok at exactly the moment she needed it. And props to her for listening to the universe and not passing by the advice.

[@mmmf311]

That's how I was raised.I've been married for twenty years. You just have to make sure you pick the man that adds to your life. Nobody should settle. Man or woman.

[@jrroper3515]

So she flipped the switch between being overly critical of others (men) to narcissistically focused on herself and what more she can get. How about focus on being a good person and you will attract a good man. Theres too much tik tok in this girl - brain rot.

[@stevepest4143]

Nope. She's reflecting what guys say. Fairly. Why should she choose you? How di you make her life better. Just like you say why should you choose her. How does she make your life better?

[@Goblin_Hands]

​@@stevepest4143That's a good question. How would she make your life better? Most guys are already making women's lives better by paying for them, providing, etc.

[@abigailsmith5279]

She's saying that your partner should make you happier and not sadder than if you were alone. And that having a partner does not always = happiness over being alone. Wanting a patner that makes you happy is not narcistic.

[@Loyaltyy_iss_key]

​@@Goblin_HandsPaying for a women is no longer a flex. We live in a society where women spend way more money on ourselves than a man. Your money is now invalid and this is why men are so far behind in the dating game because yall haven't realized this yet.

[@tracim3080]

Because she realized that she should be dating people that make her happy, not just people that she hast to make happy?

[@chantal6718]

When you meet the right man he will add value without you even realizing it. My husband has been my strength and I’m his ❤

[@victoriah.2083]

A man will NEVER jump higher than the bar you set. The worst men will want to convert the high jump to LIMBO. So, SET THE BAR WHERE YOU WANT IT. If they aren't willing to JUMP then let them know THEY ARE DISQUALIFIED.

[@austinholman255]

That's the advice to keep a woman single.

[@bitnbyte3319]

I think I found another customer for my business: selling cats! LOL!

[@abigailsmith5279]

So you think your partner shouldnt make you happy? Or do you think women are just happier alone without a partner?

[@Alexander-rg2wb]

​@@abigailsmith5279keep this kind of thinking, and you will become his customer

[@jeremybaca1449]

she basically said she brings nothing to the table she did the guy a HUGE FAVOR

[@abigailsmith5279]

The content was nothing about that😂

[@uhhuh-pq3vz]

Triggered lol

[@Alexander-rg2wb]

Amazing you even try to understand crap she blabbering about. Will you married this kind of women?? Yeah and let her cry

[@audrakusher2519]

She is right don’t choose someone who is right for you at the moment but someone who is right for you for a lifetime. Choose to be with someone who has the same goals and aspirations as you and shares interests with you. And if you can’t be content with being alone how can you be happy with someone

[@sincerecrisp]

She's right where she needs to be. At no point did she express bringing anything to any man. This leech society is overwhelming.

[@davidboroughs7346]

She ain't wrong

[@buck_neezy6458]

So you want a masculine woman lol she wants to be her best man

[@zenithsky5014]

That doesn't make her right either. If she is as great as she said, she won't be making some random video with her time other than making money. You won't see Jobs or Zuckerberg make a video for some stupid shit do you.

[@austinholman255]

She ain't right either.

[@Alexander-rg2wb]

She deadly wrong

[@dalereeves3098]

It's groundbreaking when you come to this conclusion. It also helps to weed out the bad apples

[@Chandra355]

She needs to weed herself out, period.

[@josephtaylor9867]

This woman is absolutely right if the person you’re in a relationship with isn’t making your life better than be done with them

[@elizabethoboril938]

Agree with her 100%. A relationship should make your life better, not worse. I always say a guy is in competition with my happiness that I've brought myself.

[@ashleylocatelli1324]

She is ABSOLUTELY CORRECT! I was raised the exact same 💯! I ended up with lames that cheated an made me miserable. Until, I found my AMAZING life partner, who I've known s8nce 15. Im 41 now, we have two beautiful kids, an together now for over a decade...Yes absolutely true. When I did this, he came bk into my life unexpectedly, as if the Universe intercepted our lives. I would never have it any other way, and i would choose him in every life time forever...❤❤

[@eppieblanks4680]

Maybe instead of choosing men you thought would be good for you and actually choosing a good man that was good for you.....the mistake everyone these days make is finding the best man there is instead of finding the best man to fit yourselves.....it's 2024 equality is rampant there is no more finding someone to add to your life add to your own life and find someone who fits into it. Yes it's that simple

[@edwardsmith4540]

So why were you not with him since high-school

[@warrenmakekau1171]

​@@edwardsmith4540I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING!

[@edwardsmith4540]

He probably wasn't one of "those guy" so he wasn't on the list until you got around 30 and decided it was time to find a simp to take care of you if I was him I wouldn't have given you the time of day the second time around if I'm not the one the first time you ain't the one the second time

[@norikiikuta9035]

But they never say what they can do better for their partner.... 😅🤦🏻‍♂️

[@abigailsmith5279]

Everyone is responsible for making their own happiness

[@Loyaltyy_iss_key]

Their partner knew exactly what they could do for them otherwise they would've never approached them to begin with.

[@lizzettorres1111]

She had an epiphany, I think it's great. Everyone, not just women, should think like that.

[@angelasanford8190]

This is right, we need to make each others life better. Rock on girl

[@user-jawolf]

Anoughter woman thinking only about what she can get she clearly wouldnt give anything in return

[@jdguy23]

Agreed 👍

[@theresa.m.]

You don’t know that. There’s nothing wrong with having standards. We have no idea what she brings to the table, she is just simply upping the bar.

[@orionefx]

​@@theresa.m. then she should've mentioned what she added to his life. She is only talking and preaching about what she can get. If she was giving an advice then she should've said how she will be contributing as well.

[@booklover.anonymous]

​@orionefx so then you can turn around and say oh, she only talks about herself, she's conceited or self-absorbed? 😂

[@kattnorris354]

She is right. I was never taught to] be okay first. "Get the best one you can quickly".

[@rockytopsebrights606]

She is completely wrong

[@jeffspruitenburg8586]

LEGEND HAS IT THAT SHE'S STILL LOOKING. She did not mention adding onto his life

[@danaonlineable]

I like her point. She may have said it a bit better, but her point is spot on.

[@wishinkansai]

She is just all over the place and is giving off CRAZY vibes. First thing, I think both Men and Women should be adding to each other's lives, if they are looking for a serious relationship. Both of them should complement each other and it's not about just Me, Me, Me!! Both should be contributing to the relationship and usually people know when the other is not doing their part in the relationship. If you start feeling resentment towards the other person, it is often due to the other not doing enough, but you have to try and be objective with yourself as well and make sure you are doing your best for your partner. It goes both ways.

[@booklover.anonymous]

What you said makes sense, except for the fact that you felt the need to bash her at the very beginning.

[@johndoe-xc4hl]

Hope she enjoys her wine and cats😅

[@grouchosfoil7509]

Love as a transaction. "What are you going to do for me"?

[@billcoupe4468]

She's absolutely right, if a woman is not improving my life by her presence in it... she's gone!

[@stephanarizona9094]

All women come to that realization, its called "THE WALL."

[@Loyaltyy_iss_key]

Chile 😂😂😂 yall said "the wall" was when a women decides she wants a family and marriage "too oate" pick a definition and stick to it

[@GuruOfwisdom]

Well that’s just one way of saying that she has standards, the “adding to my life“ part. However she dodged the man‘s original question because most modern women are sleeping with a roster of dudes and dating many many dudes. All at the same time. So the man wanted a straight answer and didn’t get one and very likely dumped the woman immediately. If he was smart he would’ve gone to the bathroom and bailed out of the restaurant. The biggest dating L a guy can take is to take a woman out on dinner dates and buy her things in the traditional wooing process, meanwhile after the date she will go sleep with one of the Chad‘s on her roster that she cannot land as a boyfriend. No man wants to be the Wallet used on a rotating merry-go-round just to entertain her so she doesn’t get bored. Super disrespectful and completely disgusting.

[@michellesmcleod]

I’m with her. If you’re happy on your own don’t let society force you to partner up just for the sake of being with someone. I’ve had my heart broken a few times because I expect partners in long term relationships should be faithful to each other. If not then I’d rather have no one. Love is all around in my life in different ways such as family and friends so I still feel loved and I still love others. ❤

[@Crown-rose711]

I'm independent, I met men who want me to take care of him. No money should be involved in a conversation because this taught me that's a red flag. That love was not involved. Lesson learned.

[@theresa.m.]

She’s right. When looking for a partner, you hey should add to your life. Saying they are competing with you is simply saying it’s not about the other men out there, it’s about what you can add to her life.

[@natashamacdonald8997]

Her lifes so together! She CAN make his life but she didnt know hers could imprive TOO ❤

[@krisq3616]

When you can be the best version of you; you will find a partner who is right for you.

[@thesorrowsofmotherlovejoy9894]

I am so relieved to b “alone”.so peaceful.and I’m great company🙂

[@dezjusdev278]

💯 yes cause it goes both ways. People would be humbled for sure

[@jessicapampling7799]

Absolutely agree!! Growth makes your whole perspective of life!! For so long I worried of being alone because I was always alone. Now I would rather be alone and peaceful then in a relationship that isn't adding value and stimulating my growth. I'm not in competition with anyone but myself!! ❤

[@thelilthings79]

I think that watching videos of a woman who watched a tictoc video, is going to make me end my relationship! This is brilliant! Simply brilliant

[@mauriceharriott2569]

Amen sista speak truth 😅

[@boedilllard5952]

I think she's a batman super villain.

[@jrroper3515]

Its clear as glass!

[@rosemarylappin5636]

A man should add to a woman’s life and she will do the same when looked after the right way

[@evygomez5668]

Priceless advice….A light 💡 switch went off in my 🧠 brain too. 👏🏼Someone who adds value to my life. ✅

[@Alexander-rg2wb]

Price less? Valueless!

[@geoffreythornton5452]

She has a very valid point

[@silenthour.]

No one deserves to be alone.

[@armadillotoe]

Being alone is way better than being with the wrong person.

[@queenbunnyfoofoo6112]

​@@armadillotoeTruth!

[@dansmith3507]

People say some women are crazy.... She confirmed it

[@truthwins3065]

She’s not crazy, she just talks too fast and didn’t do a very good job of expressing what she was trying to say

[@CB-hw7iu]

She did not act crazy at all.

[@divergence_tiffanyramos4337]

Maybe I didn't get the memo but how is this woman or her logic crazy? Im confused.

[@user-db4qh1mv1n]

@@divergence_tiffanyramos4337 she is not crazy! Both partners need to add value, be a positive in each others lives and have each others backs. But you must be happy with yourself to do that

[@fatimaharrison1955]

The advice goes both ways you sound like you're use to bringing zero attributes or value, for that to be your take away

[@Artemis-True]

She’s correct. Once you are ok with you and can decide what you want to add to your ensemble. A partner only enhances the circle it does not complete the circle🥰

[@kattbeaches6249]

She is right and just woke up! Gotta love yourself before you can love another!

[@newdoggproductions]

Gotta love yourself before you can possibly love another. She's got the right idea.

[@gracemarcantel2217]

That's exactly why I've been single for 10 years now and have never been happier!

[@nalublackwater9729]

I think she's right. Once you are "your best man", suddenly you are the best woman for the man who is good for you.

[@KaSirRahSirRah]

Facts! That's right, starts with self, invest there, develop healthy inner dependence, grow, tweak, identifying what needs revised ( mmm, your triggers).. know thyself - love yourself - know your value. And understand the stark difference between worth vs value! You'll know you're there when you thoroughly enjoy your own company. 😉

[@Keepingtheroadwarm]

She's correct 💯 not crazy. If you find someone that is 'less than', then you will not stay at the level you are at. If you find someone that is 'more' then there is possible growth in the future to be better than what your life is already. You should match the growth for a relationship to grow and be by each other's side living your best life, together. ❤

[@itscommonsense3128]

NO ONE WILL EVER MAKE YOU HAPPY UNLESS YOU CAN BE HAPPY BY YOURSELF.

[@Em-mq8yz]

She’s 💯 % correct ✅

[@traumahunter1989]

I met my hubby when I didn't need him. He won cause he added to my life. Agree