IS YOUR FILIPINA SERIOUS ABOUT YOU | How to spot if your filipina is serious about you?

[@GettinReal]

If they really love you a sure indicator is getting stalked. Especially early on when you have an arguement and take another dip in a dating site. They are watchiiiiiing... lol! I saw it as flattering and not psychosis though. The Filipina I am marrying has blocked me 14 times over 4 months and does not ask for money. Tampo? Maybe. Does she look exceptionally beautiful when cranky? Totally. I have been at fault maybe 50%. Fair I s'pose. I wouldn't marry any other. Too honest and beautiful.

[@FilipinaPetite1990]

Hahaha I love this comment that I need to pinned. Gettin Real thanks for sharing us your experience. Oopss your little pinay must be stalking 😅. FP

[@GeorgeSchumpf]

If they stalk you, they don't trust you. If they don't trust you, they can't possibly love you.

[@Dapper_Image_Official]

I'll only be blocked so many times. Life is too short and I don't have time for anyone who isn't really serious plus mature. That's something teens would do. Someone else can deal with that but not this soon to be 47 year old.

[@Fractal_blip]

Did you get married to her?

[@raymahannah4336]

Communication to overcome each other's insecurities is the key. If you have built a solid foundation of trust and intimacy with her, she will communicate with you in a completely different fashion because she has no reason to suspect anything is happening like being unfaithful or lying. 🙂

[@markajackson4206]

Pinay love is amazing. I have experienced all of this. Taught me how true love is. Unfortunately, that relationship is over now. But I'm now hooked on pinay culture.

[@kimxxxoxo5826]

Just don't leave the person you love for dummy account ☺️ so many tricky pinay

[@samyer2883]

Well it's good you appreciated that love. My ex was ungrateful after i gave 100% to him

[@DATINGSURVIVALGUIDE]

My first two fiancees tried some of the dysfunctional conflict resolution tactics described in the video. I ended up breaking up with those ladies. Whatever culture you are, if you have a good man who is a keeper, it's wise to understand that he can do better than a dysfunctional woman and that you may lose him for this very reason to a woman who is more mentally mature and cooperative.

[@sdickinson5234]

I agree. It may be part of the Filipino culture but if they try those manipulation tactics on a foreigner who has a lot of options they are going to get ghosted.

[@stephencoleman3578]

I tell every lady I date, if they tampo me once, it is the end. Hasta la vista baby. Playing these dysfunctional psyche games is something I refuse to tolerate. I say so from experience, I was too tolerant in the past and it never made things better.

[@DATINGSURVIVALGUIDE]

@@stephencoleman3578 Understood. I think there's a definite difference between being reasonably upset or disappointed and a lot of the extreme negative stuff I'm seeing described as tampo.

[@ejtaylor73]

You can't read the tone of voice in a text message, body language speaks far louder than words. She may be worried that he's off having "fun" with someone else, but how does he know she's not doing the same with some other guy? She needs to have TRUST, just as he does. Maybe remind your fellow Filipina's, we're MEN, we don't take subtle hints, and we're not mind readers, if you have a problem or want us to do something, speak up and just say it straight out, or they may never get what they're looking for. A guy can't be sincere in resolving an issue immediately if she won't tell him what the issue is in the 1st place. If the guy expects her to say what she really means and she says she doesn't want to see him any more, the only thing she should expect to hear is the door shutting as he walks out of it. Always great, informative, and helpful videos. I wonder how many Filipina's watch your videos and read the foreigners comments, and think maybe they shouldn't push their luck with tampo. Foreigners might see it as nothing more than immature childish behavior and not want to deal with the additional stress it will cause. They're older, retired, and want to just relax and enjoy life, if they wanted a tampo queen they could have stayed in their western country and had plenty of women like that. Their tampo to try to get him closer to them could backfire and be the one thing that actually pushes him away and into the arms of another woman. Adults talk about their problems, and work together with their partner to fix them. My guess is most problems are nothing more than simple misunderstandings and can be easily fixed if communicated what they are, you aren't going to communicate them with silent treatment. More importantly, I hope your daughter feels better soon, as a parent there's nothing worse than your child not feeling good.

[@AlexandruD85]

Jesus , you just described 100% my filipina fiance 😁 She is very understanding person and supportive but she gets so easy upset and tends to make a big drama out of every little thing and i'm the one who's fault it is usually 😆 Still i really love her 1000% and i wouldn't trade her for anything in the world . I love her exactly for what she is and how she treats me , without her i would have an empty and meaningless life . We have been through some problems together and managed to solve them and i would like to continue doing that for the rest of our life 🥰

[@JamesGarrity]

As you’re aware an online relationship is rather difficult due to the miles and create many issues within a online relationship. I have learned not to bring up any women except my daughter does that creates tension. And since we have a 12 hour time difference she will contact me at four in the morning here in the US and think nothing of it. You have to be very flexible is so easy to get jealous. You have trust or get an argument you’re never going to win. I intend on going to the Philippines in a couple of months to meet in person. But she truly is a delightful person.

[@DrDlane]

Hi again, Petite. I hope you're daughter gets well soon. It's always hard for a parent when their child is not well. This is a good subject and a good explanation. I think that most men will apologize perhaps the first time, but will then have a discussion with her to let her know that this childish behavior is not to be tolerated. She needs to talk things out clearly so their relationship can move forward. It is never proper to always expect the man to be the one to apologize, especially if he didn't do anything wrong. She needs to be accountable for her actions and behavior and take responsibility for them. That will make a BIG impact on the relationship. I understand these behaviors are normal for your culture, but filipinas need to understand also that it is not acceptable behavior to a foreigner. She needs to decide if it's more important to keep the relationship or to have tampo. If tampo is more important than the relationship, she should not be with a foreigner. As others have mentioned, most of us want a quiet, peaceful relationship. Sure, we will make some mistakes but we will apologize for them, no problem. But we are not interested in playing childish games with filipinas. Please teach your Filipina compatriots the importance of this in a relationship with a foreigner. Thanks for all the good content. Amping.

[@salvecapino5275]

At first I do all the "tampo" whenever we have a fight, but it got me nowhere. My British boyfriend would just leave me alone until I "simmer down". So I learned not to have "tampo". We just wait for each other to calm down and then he would say sorry even if it's my fault. It works. 1 year and counting ❤

[@clyoest]

My wife an chatted an video calls for three yrs, and i whatched a lot of bloggers. So i knew about tampo, we talked about it, an i told her no Tampo! We need to talk about what's happening, with each other! It's worked out pretty well! We've been married going on 4 yrs now! An we love each other, she was a widow for seven years when i came here in 2018! An her children were grow! An we are now with a grand daughter 😘 almost 3 now! And she has my heart 😘

[@poolfool31021]

My filipina gf and i been LDR since the pandemic began over 2 years ago. She is 53 I am 74 she met me online when i was chatting 3-4 others and all were younger. She was always jealous and i hate that she is so jealous. When she tampo it doesn't work on me. I will just watch news or Netflix for days.

[@mr.international23]

Haha cute . We had arguments and she said I talk too much . Said I should not be talking much like a woman 🤦🏽‍♂️ I hate that I can’t say my points tho. I can’t let her get away with false claims on me so I combat. I’m learning now to just be less talkative . She just rambles nonsense 😂. Also, how true is that? You said it right. She would post so much stories and pics .she barely ever posts but when we fight, I’m noticing the activity is greater 😂 sometimes I won’t watch her stories . I noticed she watched mine at times and will even like a post or mine 😂 but won’t heart it like usual unless we are on good terms . She never made a dummy account but she stalked me for sure lol. Also, regarding your statement about she is worried if the man will leave during the break up then this is when she should come forward to fix things then. Not be stubborn and stalk. My gf is a great one tho and she helped me get better with myself as a man . She means well but can be bratty . Thanks for this upload ! Love your content

[@garydunbar9470]

Wow gee it’s like you’re dating my girl

[@kendonahve924]

Right away I noticed from your face and voice that you seem especially joyous today. I hope the feelings keep coming to you.

[@andrewcrimmins8173]

YES! happened. The first girl i just immediately block her. later she messaged me on tiktok can we talk again? i thought was funny. Current girl I can tell we will be a great match but she still did some of that. I called her out on it and said i'm not going anywhere. Next day we continued chatting like nothing had happened. A week later it was ' I will always love you' I just teased her by saying, are you sure about that? lol. Also trying to teach her that love is not a feeling but a decision. bc infatuation will fade, but if you choose to love and marry you will need to stick with it. I sort of thought this was all just maturity issues with her being 22 years old, but after watching this video it is ALL making sense to me, hahaha. Thank you Filipina Petite for your insights!

[@patricklong8884]

Hi Filipina Petite, I commented to you not too long ago. My Filipina girlfriend and I had a disagreement about some things. Most definitely the culture, language, and language structure are going to be a challenge. But we work on our language differences and talked about what we needed to do to understand each other. We ended up getting it worked out. We are setting up my itinerary to come over and meet each other in person. Hoping everything goes well. We have planned a nice getaway to one of the local islands there in the Philippines. Thank you so much for your videos to help me understand her and your culture.

[@tonysouthdakotah6774]

My pinay has complete freedom, she trusts me and I trust her. I feel sorry for those who don’t have this kind of relationship.

[@scotthummer1319]

Glad you are better Prayers for you daughter to get well.

[@ronanderson9960]

So glad you are feeling better now and I hope your daughter feels better soon! Best of luck with this typhoon! Prayers that it’s not a powerful one!

[@Bori2357]

Glad to see that you are vloging again. Wish I could send an e-card but i don't know how. But, I'm happy to see that you are well.

[@sizzykelly]

I relate the emote lol , when i get angry with my partner i dont wanna talk to him and i hate when he said im making a drama it makes me more angry coz we filipina are very emotional and sensitive .

[@perrykomick9478]

Translation: we filipinas are very insecure and controlling.

[@Pilbaratrucking]

I’m afraid some do,love the drama, mine does. She will not forget something I’ve said or done, silly stuff. Also she is completely illogical but I love here heaps and we just got engaged.

[@shoreangler3383]

ANYONE who uses affection or drama in order to manipulate behavior they want, is unacceptable. It doesn't matter what "culture" you're in. If you can't enforce healthy boundaries, why on Earth would you allow a person like this raise your future children? The kind of man who's taking responsibility for his family, won't.

[@otishuff7475]

but one thing Filipina have in common..the wait for the man to contact them. suppose the man doesn't want to make up first . Filipina is left waiting alone til break up then it's too late.

[@shoreangler3383]

@@otishuff7475 It's not your job to train someone out of poverty OR to beg them to act like an adult. If you put up with it, it's YOUR choice.

[@jamestodd1419]

What you say about foreigners needing to know what Filipinas mean is fair enough, especially of the foreigner is really interested in finding a Filipina love of his life. However, it's equally true for a Filipina needing to know about what foreigner mean. Relationships are two-way, not one way. Otherwise, if the Filipina is not willing to accept responsibility for her need to understand her foreign man, then she has no business looking for a foreign man or being in a LDR. Mutually is essential in any LTR, and it begins when developing that relationship.

[@gerbourke1952]

That is 100% correct. Us as foreigners should not be the ones who always have to bend. After all, if they come to our home country they are the foreigner and that childish behaviour will not be tolerated. Blunt but true. I think it's best to lay everything on the table from the beginning on both sides. That is exactly what I have done. Begin as you mean to go on. 🤞 she will be here next January

[@Andrewjam937]

Your material is getting better

[@vivekrana2949]

Thank🙏🙏 you❤❤ petite, watching your video I got my wife from your country,, and she is very kind, soft heart and loving. Thank🌹 you really, I will meet you in filip

[@ionitageorge3132]

Hello FP ..I watched 5-6 of your videos until now...I have 2 words for you as lady-BLESSINGS AND RESPECT...after first video i couldn't stop to watch the next one...the videos are amazing because you're the same...when i watch the videos i can imagine my girlfriend because she told me the same things...i'm in a relationship since almost 2 years with her..She lives in Palawan Santa Lourdes...she have a house as you have made of bamboo and she was ashamed to show me her place...ok i didn't asked her because i have a relationship with her not with her house with what she have or not in her house...she show me one day her place but very late after few months...ok from the beginning i was open and honest to her-no secrets no lies and i told her i respect any lady and the relationships...so no cheating at all...beside this i hate domestic violence...and i ask her to send a friend request to my sister...since than they chat call each other almost every day...but my filipina is extremely jealous...she call me 3-4 times on video and ask if i get bored...my goodness...as you said filipina is very very careful with her soulmate...any message have something like-please take care of you your health...first the TV was broken and the second was the fridge..i told her i will land money to buy new ones...the answer was NO NO NO...i can't afford to do this because i will feel ashamed all my life...she like a simple a modest house life but i know life for filipino there is not so pink...i told her i'm not so rich as foreigner and she says-as long as you're honest you really love and care of me i don't care if you're poor...I told her i accept you in my life so i accept the 3 daughters too-are part of you and your life but was hard for her to believe in the beginning...OK beautiful soul i wrote a lot i hope you don't mind...Thanks for your time and patience...Have a good blessed day and all my respect...P.S.-don't give the roosters to neighbours...maybe your daughter will be in one video for short time...

[@thegman9325able]

Love your videos. Your English is getting so much better. I'm hoping to visit the Philippines next year. I can't wait. I hope your daughter feels better soon.

[@jonhutchins1103]

I'm sorry December the 2nd please be safe I know there is bad weather coming pray for you and your daughter and family

[@todd212]

Thank you again po Play another great video I am learning a lot and studying through your videos is helping me be a better Asawa to my Maganda Asawa I’ve been able to let go of my American Ways And started adopting Filipino culture I’ve met all my in-laws there they all love me and I love them continue to great work one thing I really experience in my LDR relationship is patience and bloggers such as yourself help me with that so again thank you so very much

[@zandig666]

It's very similar here in 🇨🇦..... let's just all just have fun !!

[@jeremiahhowe2651]

hahaha.....all of them....smoking hot, but crazy as hell

[@mr.international23]

That island heat got them wild

[@jamesfranklin615]

I'm over my wrinkled fetish but dam sure don't want to go through Make up to break up faze either.

[@globalismoblackman]

@@mr.international23 lol 😂😂 No apparently it's the "Spanish blood in them combined with their indigenous tribal blood. Hence vicious violence is not far away if they are mad pissed off.☺️🤔🤔. Foreigner need to be careful and know what you dealing with.

[@carloscora3118]

it goes both WAYS IN LIFE NEVER FORGET THAT

[@samyer2883]

Well he's a follower of your channel. I hope he watched this and realized and understood what I've gone through

[@LoveCantWait]

That's too much jealously good lawd. I met a Filipina last weekend at a party. She was nice just to Americanized for me and much older. Good video!

[@tonytravels2494]

Thank you for providing your insights. There are a few that may use this information irresponsibly, but for the majority of us we just want to understand Filipinas better so everyone can have a better experience within our relationships.

[@anthonysmith7673]

I have been dating a filipina online for three months now. It has been the best three months I have spent courting any woman at my age. We have not had a disagreement and lord willing I pray we never have one. If I had to pinpoint as to why our relationship is going good, I would say because we are both dedicated to making Jesus Christ the center of our relationship. I do appreciate the video as it gives me context on different moods I may experience on this journey to marrying her.

[@francisbraden6239]

My Brother, Read the Book of PROVERBS DAILY! THE CORRESPONDING CHAPTER WITH THE DATE . ...... OCTOBER 19 ...... PROVERB 19 ...... THIS WAY YOU ARE ON THE SAME PAGE SPIRITUALLY

[@markajackson4206]

My exwife there created a dummy account before we married. She messaged me on it. She got mad about how I replied. LOL. Now I know that technique. LOL.

[@butchharris7832]

Hello Petite i watch your videos all the time. I love what you share in then, especially for us foreigners. I been in a LDR for over a year now and my Filipna is so mysterious. She is nice to me and says she care about me but she says she don't have any social media, don't tell me where she lives, and didn't answer the phone sometime when i call. she says she live in Manila but that tells me nothing.she 25 years old and drinks. I'm coming over there in a few months but she never make mention of her home. SOS....Maybe don't want to except the inevidable

[@alvahthompson7203]

Love your channel

[@miketurpin4959]

My Filipina has done all of these things but I always make her feel better. Most of the time it's just a simple misunderstanding. She is a home body and she will go walk by the river with her friend or her and our daughter will go walk by the river or go to the mall. My Filipina created a dummy account on Facebook in the beginning trying to see if I would flirt or accept a friend request and of course I did not and I blacked that account. Then she did that 4 or 5 more times to see my reaction. Now I don't even get on Facebook anymore. I'll be going to see her on the 3rd of May and stay for 30 days and come back home. Can't wait to finally meet in person then she can see that I'm very serious about this relationship

[@jefferystackhouse3434]

That's really cute lol, kinda romantic 😄.

[@perrykomick9478]

Sounds like a lifetime of fun....Dont kid yourself, she's testing you because shes evaluating her options...😂

[@jefferystackhouse3434]

@@perrykomick9478 lol, I think a lot of them have become more westernized over the years.

[@miketurpin4959]

@@perrykomick9478 we'll have to see. That's the reason I don't let people that close to me anymore cause people will do what they're going to do

[@perrykomick9478]

@Mike Turpin Dont let the excitement of a new relationship cloud your vision. Women in bleek situations will do/say whatever it takes to fix their lives. Best of luck!

[@roymcleod2514]

I heard there was a storm and a mud slide in the mountain area. Just want to check on you and your family I pray all is well.. I know you may not have connectivity or electricity if the storm was that bad. I'll wait for your response again my prayers with you and your family

[@tariqabbasi5499]

Love you i love Philippines to mach

[@barrysrcdump3557]

I've had a couple of disagreements with my girlfriend. I find that she just wants to know that it's only a passing thing. I never carry anything into the next day, I don't ever hold a grudge. Just coming up behind her when she's cooking and giving her a hug will make everything go away. That is the security she needs, I don't mind being the person to start the reconciliation, sometimes you just have to be a man and control the situation.

[@southbound1969]

One suggestion Ms. Petite. For better audience enjoyment please hang something down from the the doorway to block the sunshine behind you. It is distracting. Salamat. Meron a great Easter Sunday.

[@johncrouch1772]

Thanks for sharing.

[@whengwen6336]

praying fr your daughter's to get well soon... new subscribers from cordillera

[@MrParekhkrunal]

Hi,philipina petit, when you said about blocking and unblocking things,omggg,how's true interpretation 😂😂😂. My gf did so many times,so many means so so so many 😂😂😂. you are absolutely correct.

[@markdebelich5101]

I laughed so hard when mentioned your filipina will stalk you on social media. My filipina cannot stalk me because I don't have any social media footprints, never registered for any, ever. I remember when I met her and she asked me "I cannot find you on facebook", and I said "yeah that's right".

[@jerryhumphreys5903]

You're the best! Love your channel

[@justynchristensen827]

Thank you for this video - I wish I had seen it a week ago. My Filipina and I had a big fight and she said she needed some space, so I tried to give her space. I found out later that she was waiting for me to initiate, which I was very surprised about. I thought I was doing the right thing by waiting but I didn't know this was a normal thing. I know for the future now, and we are still together and still happy even past that. It turns out I have a lot to learn, but I'm going to fight for her so we can be together.

[@truckerq-ball4397]

Thanks for sharing Arkansas USA 🇺🇸

[@9worldchronicles]

I hope you daughter is feeling better. I found out that my Filipina is the stay in her room and cry type. We had a minor argument that was actually my fault, but we worked it out. I'll be in Manila on in 1 week from now to meet her. We'll see how it goes. I love your channel btw.

[@Pilbaratrucking]

Yes I have had a quarrel with my Phillapina in the last day. She has said some (what I consider) nasty disrespectful things towards me which I have just ridden out and not retaliated against and kept quiet.

[@walkingtalking123]

I had one of the biggest fights with my filipina not too long ago and it was me that made the fight worse but I really hate it when I upset her so badly. However, I think it's cute when she gets mad at me at times and all I ever want to do is to reassure her physically but I can't yet since I am far away from her for the time being. When we will have arguments with one another in person and she becomes silent and aloof I know exactly what I will do and that is to reassure her by hugging her and kissing her even if she says she really doesn't want me to go near her in times of distress

[@maa4876]

the pain is real in those situations

[@gng4life]

I hope your daughter gets well soon, what is wrong with her? Prayers and healing for her, ingat kayo dyan!

[@eagleeyes6996]

Hi mam! Ur all videos r nice n knowledgeable n true...i have gf in Philippines n she is same as u saying...when she upset or angry she keep silent n hearing love song...but when I try her make happy n say sorry she after sometime go normal...we love each other truly very much..n I will come there very soon for marriage with her...keep it up..i love ur videos..😘

[@hakancallervik4122]

😍

[@muddog5000]

That the dumbest thing I have ever heard. Why would anyone air out their dirty laundry out on social media or for a woman to go out to a bar with her friends or by herself especially when she is mad at her spouse or boyfriend. That would be a great reason for him to leave her for good. Don’t say leave if you don’t want to be alone. He may never come back.

[@donsettie3799]

🙂 congrats on 13k

[@markyb.4686]

Hello Gorgeous 😘😘😍😍🥰🥰🌹🌹 it's sooooo good to hear and see you Beautiful 😘😘😍😍🥰🥰🌹🌹 I pray that your daughter gets better soon...

[@de.seeker]

The first lady I ever dated when I got to the Philippines was just banging my ideal woman, pretty, sexy, loving, and caring but when she began demonstrating all the traits you explained in the 4th part of this video, I began to love her less. The stalking, fake account trials, and too bad for her I could detect she was the one with fake accounts because I actually wasn't talking with any other lady so it was just too suspicious. When I asked her why she was doing all that she apologized she was just trying to find out if I'm like the other foreigners she had dated before me. I was so pissed about it because I had never experienced or been used to something like that before, just that action began to destroy our relationship, we tried working things back to normal but unfortunately, we did break up. I do miss her though, really sweet and loving lady but that's life sometimes you just can't fix what's broken.

[@johnnyg7899]

My filipina gets very quiet often but when she gets upset she is just too cute. She calls me and then just looks at me to see my reaction without saying anything mean. I have learned to be very patient because she is worth it.

[@kunchok-us9gi]

👌👌👌

[@patrickmctube]

Great information!

[@benharris705]

My relationship is just a week old so no and at this point I would just wait till my next trip and find a new filipina. As it grows that will change.

[@Anthony__420]

A Filipina friend of mine married to an American who goes to the Philippines allot to “Play Golf” caught him. Another Pinay posted them together on her FB wallpaper

[@beth50vlog43]

😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️hi Petite stay beautiful and God bless

[@johndaka6368]

You are true

[@johnsmidth6074]

You have nice videos thank you

[@mikaeljohansson8950]

❤😍😘

[@giorgiovoria3481]

Molto interessante

[@Leonard369C]

Hi Petite, because a behavior is cultural does not make it acceptable there are some cultural traits that are inappropriate and need to be changed. Imagine a man who yells a lot and justifies it by saying it’s a part of his culture.

[@sdickinson5234]

Good point. A man hitting his wife if she misbehaves is also part of the culture.

[@davidtesler1198]

Welcome back

[@francisbraden6239]

The Few Times over the Last 2 Years... IF I find myself getting angry ....I Always stop and think 🤔. ....is it my Flesh getting angry or the Holy Spirit within....NO MORE ANGER ....😊😊😊👈🙏✝️👈

[@darrellramzy9401]

After I thought I ruined the online relationship, in my mind, I thought she would never forgive me. I get on my hands and knees begging her to take me back. She let it string out for a month and she forgave me. She wanted me to wait just to teach me a lesson. She told me she she had already forgiven me from day one.

[@FilipinaPetite1990]

🥰

[@Pilbaratrucking]

So a sweet sorry is enough? Tell me is it common for Filipinas to hold onto grudges with their man and keep bringing up the past when you have said sorry?

[@tedh9211]

Thank you

[@Jokkrates]

Being involved with a Pinay, sounds like a major pain in the lower back

[@globalismoblackman]

@Ove Todal Oh Filipinas dating or relationships can be mind blowing and send you to outer space 🤣😂☺️🤔. They will treat you and make you feel like a "King" initially but then there is a flipside of Filipinas if the relationship starts having problems if can quickly nose dive faster than a crashing stock market 😅😆🤣😂. Welcome to the love "stock market" of The Philippines 🏝️ Lol

[@perrykomick9478]

Not worth it

[@ladyann3312]

..well, you attract what you believe 😄...better stay where you are..you're no good for a better Filipina neither Che!😜

[@Anthony-qg3qo]

I went on a filipina date site and met someone the 1st 10 minutes after being bombarded by girls. That would never happen where I live. So far everything seems smooth and can't wait for our 1st meeting.

[@benharris705]

Well many guys like myself will go with what we were taught. Your mad get glad and wait it out. Thinking she'll get over it. So that probably won't work with a guy from the southern part of the USA.

[@toolman2364]

If a Filipina has nude video call with a foreigner within the first week of chatting, is that a red flag?

[@sdickinson5234]

Yeah if she is nude. If only you are nude it's fine.

[@vestland3877]

That is more red flags then a chinese communist parade!

[@MrCraigfarrow]

I know the "Emote situation" I`m married to a beautiful Filipina :) It can really wind you up if you dont know whats going on!

[@spudgn]

Salam at Ate

[@zackabbott277]

I’m going through this right now. Block, unblock, block and now silent treatment for 3 days. I’ve apparently messed up this time 🤷‍♂️. Still no response to texts so I’m being silent right now…hopefully the right move?

[@MorintchLexieVlog]

NICE

[@aaronwells5751]

What about the intervert province girl Filipina

[@aaronwells5751]

And explain monthersary cuz in America we don't do that we the year

[@Pilbaratrucking]

This is what I have, a very reserved, reticent,conservative woman, qualities that I admire by the way. She sure keeps me guessing, let’s nothing out of the bag but I love it.

[@joaquimraposo2639]

I am engaged with the Filipina I've been engaged with her since February I love you very much after she was tough but she's a good woman and I love her very much and I know she loves me but she's weak and jealous she thinks I'm talking to other woman I'm not that type of guy when I love one person it's for real and it's forever I don't cheat there is no need to cheat once in awhile she gets a little jealous but I know her now she's a good woman and I know she loves me and she lives in Cebu she works at a farm and she has two daughters and I love their daughters

[@globalismoblackman]

Oh Cebu? Hmmm surprise not I wish you good luck though. I avoid that island too many foreigners become victims.

[@johnwilliams2313]

Is it appropriate for a Filipina to not contact you for 5 days or more? She says she is waiting for me and loves me, but perhaps she's having $ issues? Before this happened, she wanted me to pay for the rental of her phone...

[@bigdaddywoowoo101]

Brother, you see the writing on the wall. Read it.

[@globalismoblackman]

@John William. Red flag don't waste your time will online dating 9 out 10 you are a sitting ducks waiting to be scammed. Your best option is to visit the country and get out and about to make friends socializing get to know people and then potential through your network of friends there you might me a genuine Filipina. Foreigner get scammed and their wallet drained by fake romantic Filipinas all the time.

[@DrDlane]

Dude, that's a scam. Run the other way and find a real one

[@sdickinson5234]

It's not normal, she could always borrow a friend or relative's phone. Remember, if you just met her online, your value to her is low. There are millions of thirsty chumps online posting likes on these girls Facebook profiles every day. She is talking to other guys guaranteed. However, if you actually show up in the Philippines, you transform from Clark Kent into Superman. Then you have lots of options and many, many girls want to meet you. In that situation if a girl give you any problems at all you just next her until you find a good one.

[@joaquimraposo2639]

I am engaged with the Filipina her name is Arlene I love you very much and she tells me the same I've been talking to her offline for about 6 months there is nobody in the world that can take a place I'm really in love with her I hope she feels the same she tells me she does she calls me everyday and she tells me how much he loves me I'm 67 years old and she's about 42 I got engaged through the computer I send her the money to buy the ring and I feel she's honest and she wears the ring and I love her as much as I love your children thank you

[@globalismoblackman]

Have you met her in person and done thorough due diligence on this Filipina?. If not you a taking a dangerous risk that could cost you. Don't say I didn't warn you Good luck.

[@clyoest]

I chatted with my wife for 3yrs! She was 47, an 50 when i got here she will be 55 on the 29th, she was a widow! Been married 4yrs now ❤️ wouldn't change a thing! Very loving an carrying women! I'm 68! I would say the older women are that way! An more family mined! I didn't what a young women that I had to train! You treat her with respect an you'll have her heart! Best of luck you you an her 👊🙏🗽🇺🇸

[@Pilbaratrucking]

How can someone see when you logged on FB and how long you were on there for?

[@emorywilliams8199]

My Filipina breaks up with me then chats me right back the next day

[@bigdaddywoowoo101]

Some of these things simply will not work on me. I understand that its Filipino culture however, it's not my culture. Be up front, discuss the issue and solve the problem. Otherwise she will forever be chasing a dream. She might find a beta or less but, never an alpha.

[@WJF1959]

My Filipina doesnt like me telling her that I love her. Is that normal?

[@derekrummerfield8940]

If you can give me some advice, I'm involved with a filipina, and I'm head over heels for this girl. The problem is she doesnt speak english, her english level is a 1 out 10/ 10 being great. At the beginning we chatted and I used a tagalog to english app. It went ok. But my concern is she never expresses interest in my family or my adult boys. She texts me everyday but it's really limited and I will ask questions and she doesnt answer. I asked her awhile ago, what I was to her? She was quite for 30 mins, then responded "family" I was looking for " boyfriend or fiance " considering I've bought a ring and she knows my intentions. I'm traveling to see her in June, 10 days from now, What should I look for when i arrive, I'm so confused. I really dont know what to do?

[@FilipinaPetite1990]

Hi Derek I am sorry to hear that. Maybe she answered you that way as you said she cant speak english well. But since you'll be in PI soon, lets see how it works for both of you. let me know, Im sure you will find out her real intention, regarding her not being interested with your adult boy, give her time when we dont ask about our foreigner guys kods or family doesnt mean we are not interested to know them. Have fun Derek

[@derekrummerfield8940]

@@FilipinaPetite1990 thank you so much for answering so quickly.

[@FilipinaPetite1990]

@@derekrummerfield8940 my pleasure 🙏

[@jasonsanders4620]

Hi Filipina petite, I am 22 years old and my Filipina girlfriend is 38 years old, I’m just curious if anyone you’ve talked to has been in my similar situation and what I really should expect and also we’re going to be having a child together so I’m just curious to what your thoughts are to that?! Thank you 🙏🏽

[@jasonsanders4620]

I also watch you and the Filipina pea and I’ve learned a lot of important things that I had no idea about and still trying to learn and understand more.

[@Marketprince100]

You're dating your mom...reconsider your decision

[@jimmyarrington3343]

We argue more about money and she doesn't say much about when I'm having a hard time or sick . Do I have a real Philipina? She's always there to chat and vc

[@christofinb]

It is difficult having a relationship with Filipinos, they are really romantic and sensitive. It is exactly right she always asks about if I talk to other women and I am truthful to her but she doesn’t seem to believe me. I cut her off and ghost her sometimes because she continues to press me says hello, good morning etc and it starts over again. I can’t really tell her that I don’t won’t a serious relationship. I am afraid that she will get so deeply depressed that I would worry about her health, it seems like I am a lifeline to her if I cut her right off she will have nothing to live love for anymore.

[@richtensail]

dificult situation 4 u, let her know u care about her n want to b her gd friend so she feels less alone n hurt. vey have strong community n families she prob b ok.

[@christofinb]

@@richtensail thank you for your response.

[@edwardvoss3367]

I plan to move there this year . I want to find a women who in joys farm life . It has not been so easy to find to find anyone on the internet .

[@robertramirez9874]

You are pretty

[@jamesconnelly1570]

If you are looking for a foreign man to interview I volunteer

[@cliffrussell4281]

Once I tell them i am 70 years old and only have a small pension they lose interest so i have no chance

[@williambreeze2659]

The stalking point and random female messing you test are no joke lol.

[@roystonpereira2887]

Filipinas should also understand western man don't like drama 🙄