THANK YOU JJ . You are a good friend of the Philippines ! I'm a movie producer-director-actor , and I appreciate foreigners who don't look down on us Filipinos. Thank you .
@JJthelonelybullinasia4 ай бұрын
@@NorbertoMercado-wq3qx thank you for watching. Hopefully our paths will cross.
@bigglesharrumpher41394 ай бұрын
If you find you don’t like the Phillipines, just leave, don’t bash it as it’s not your country or culture.
@JJthelonelybullinasia4 ай бұрын
@@bigglesharrumpher4139 who is bashing the Philippines? Did you actually watch the video?
@JosephMerrington4 ай бұрын
@JJthelonelybullinasia I would never look down on these people , there are Scammer Freeloaders all over the world , I have been poor too..!!...I'm a musician a traveler.
@docinthephilippines3 ай бұрын
@@JJthelonelybullinasia It's the thumbnail and title. I also though at first this would be one of those videos. Of course, I'm aware how difficult it is to get attention without appearing too sensational. And YT viewers are already used to all the negativity, that's why we almost expect something like this to be negative, but of course it's quite the opposite.
@jimmylee17767 ай бұрын
I used to live in Greenbelt, Makati city. I had a maid who came to clean my apartment & do my laundry once a week. Her son who was about 10 years old used to come with her & helped her. I supported her children by giving them scholarships. I’m proud to say today, her 2 older children are graduates from University & her youngest son has started university. The family will not have to live in poverty with 3 graduates in the family. This is what foreigners can do to help the less fortunate in Philippines.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
That's fantastic. Great story and thanks for sharing.
@LRP8887 ай бұрын
@Jimmylee1776 God bless you more.. Abundantly🙏🏽😇
@llothar687 ай бұрын
Graduating (depend on courses but 90% what universities teach is bullshit) doesn't mean a shit anymore in 2024 and for sure in the future. If you don't understand this you are a typical ignorant (i guess US american). We are at the end of capitalism and growth.
@barryinthepi3907 ай бұрын
We helped put our two daughters through College and one daughter married a clssmate. He is a Civil Engineer and now works for a Home Building company. He has since tarted 5 Busnisees in Alfonso and provides his friends with jobs. His sister is now an Accountant for a compny in Makati. I don't have to worry about giving money to family, they are doing well.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
@@barryinthepi390 that's fantastic. Thanks for sharing.
@MrFxwizard147 ай бұрын
Excellent video and absolutely on the money. I have lived in Philippines for 20 years. I came here at 50 years old, now turning 71. I am with the same Filipina for all these years. You can have a good life here and your correct you will not live like a king on $1000 but $5000 a month will buy you the kingdom. I live in a very safe and high end subdivision and am a legal resident now. I am at home here. USA is a place i visit from time to time since I still own a home in Las Vegas, but my wife and I prefer the Philippines. I have never had any issues with safety. Philippinos are awesome and kind respectful people. All my friends are Filipino. I met my wife when she was teaching in South Korean. I found a very smart gal who was 31 years old at the time. We first moved to California where I owned a small online business. It was her idea to move our office to the Philippines 20 years ago. Today that business has grown to 2000 employees and my wife help me build that business and without her it might never have happened. Great move for me and I owe so much to the Philippines, I will be forever greatful to this wonderful country.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
What a great story. Thanks for sharing.
@Cons29117 ай бұрын
That’s the thing, support.. instead of being against you. Nice one sir,
@philippine_phin7 ай бұрын
Awesome! How can I support your business? Or meet you and get advice on something similar?
@rvc35457 ай бұрын
Love Ur story
@MariaGarcia-il3id7 ай бұрын
Nice story 😊
@cosmickiwi086 ай бұрын
I live in a small province town on Neg Occ for the past 2 years, close to 5 beaches, 5 min walk to hospital, supermarket, wet market, 711 and a couple of restaurants. I rent a nice 3bdrm 2bth house for 10000php with a large secured yard with many fruit trees. I have aircon but dont use it as fans are enough. Ive got 3 German shepherd dogs for companionship, exercise and security and also a muticab 4x4 to to explore the area. Ive made good friends with quite a few locals and have a good social life. I buy healthy cheap food at the markets and cook ay home 90% of the time and eat gourmet meals as I'm an ex chef. I spend on average $800 USD a month and live like a king compared to my life back in the west and i was earning $75k there and always broke and in debt. Now saving money, debt free and no stress and feel like a king.
@greek19664 ай бұрын
I think you're right...about how much it takes to live a comfortable life, in the Philippines..that's what I found after 12 visits to the Philippines, I decided to come and continue there for the rest of my life... I don't agree with the Lord who says you need $2000 to have a good life...I ended up in Cebu City, and I saw that if you have an income of €1000 you will have a comfortable life...I have visited Manila and Davao besides from Cebu, I found a very good single-family house for 18,000 pesos, I will not need electricity.. because it is my profession, I will build a generator to produce electricity .. and I will have it as a gift. Good luck in November 2024
@raquelbongais83914 ай бұрын
Good for u.😊
@solmoleta14264 ай бұрын
You got it all true! Im a Filipina living in Negros Island.Thanks for doing this video.I love my Country the Phil
@MbocoNgawe4 ай бұрын
Yeah I just came to the comments to see this. For sure 1k USD a month will buy quite a comfortable life here. I agreed with all the other points though
@mikem98924 ай бұрын
Sounds like you are living the dream . Curious what the infrastructure is like there and if frequent typhoons/ storms are a major problem ?
@CanadianAlieninthePhilippines4 ай бұрын
I lived in Makati (Manila) for ten weeks and felt like I was living in hell. Since then, I moved to the island of Guimaras, considered provincial, and I’ve never been happier. Obviously, I hate cities with their congestion, busyness, pollution. Give me a province any day with the peace, fruit trees, and flowers that are in abundance here. I am retired and happy having found a wonderful, caring, and loving Filipina to spend the rest of my life with.
@robertmangano35234 ай бұрын
Guimaras is beautiful mu friend has family there .I was there 2yrs ago
@robertmangano35234 ай бұрын
@@CanadianAlieninthePhilippines good for you bro
@erwinsembria23194 ай бұрын
I lived in Guimaras stop by guimaroast Cafe to chill
@robertmangano35234 ай бұрын
@erwinsembria2319 next time I'm there I will
@CanadianAlieninthePhilippines4 ай бұрын
@@erwinsembria2319Where is that?
@AkosiMaya18183 ай бұрын
I'm a Filipina who grew up in the province and has an American bf now. We lived in the province of Bohol for only $500 or even less (if he doesn't go to a bar)😆. We rented an apartment. We do the groceries, I do almost all of the chores, I cook (he loves it)♥️ I clean, I do the laundry, so he didn't have to pay for a Maid☺️ . I'm single at 42, so my bf doesn't have to spend more. BGC is the most expensive place to live in, (maybe not for foreigners). I worked in BGC for few years, and can't even afford eating in restaurants everyday (had to bring packed lunch) 😆. Finding a good Filipina to date doesn't just depend where they are from, either she's from the city or province, it's always the character that we all have to check to look for a good husband/wife. ♥️
@endlessroads99362 ай бұрын
Your boyfriend found a great girl. I been married 6 years now 25 mintues from BGC., and life is great, in usa a i was on lowside of the middle class, here i live like the top 5% .
@mamasita65Ай бұрын
spot on
@alanfoss8223Ай бұрын
Well stated..there is always "another side of the coin" you just have to be open minded but still be wise and cautious
@BoxerDogs21 күн бұрын
@@AkosiMaya1818 What do you mean by the province? There are 82 in the Philippines.
@LeeHill6610 күн бұрын
@@BoxerDogs "the province" is considered to be away from the big city. Like in the country for Americans.
@josieherrera90175 ай бұрын
One tip: Don't go to bars. Don't settle for waitresses, or housemaids. They'll be looking at foreigners as financiers. Go meet girls that work in offices, go to colleges.
@JJthelonelybullinasia5 ай бұрын
Hanging out at colleges is kind of creepy, especially if you're a lot older and it's obvious you're not a student. But you're right about bar girls for the most part. Thanks for watching.
@unitedstatesirie74315 ай бұрын
@@JJthelonelybullinasia are the single Philippine women that are the Christian ones more honest ?
@JJthelonelybullinasia5 ай бұрын
@@unitedstatesirie7431 most Filipino are Christian, but many are not practicing Christians. It would be hard to know what percentage are more honest.
@AngelOnEarth06145 ай бұрын
@@josieherrera9017 you can't go to colleges to hunt. Asian moms warn their daughters about pedophiles.
@MidnightBloomer5 ай бұрын
@@JJthelonelybullinasia not really. College students are considered old. Once a woman hits, 25 she'd be desperate to marry anybody because by the time a woman becomes 30 - she's undatable. I am 41 and I am an old maid and I am expired, lol!
@grahamreid21327 ай бұрын
Sending money to a woman anywhere in the world you have never met is dumfounding to me.
@samohtsolacad2297 ай бұрын
because, theyre thinking of the pu**y in return
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Agreed
@nostringsguy1857 ай бұрын
Some might say dumb, not just dumbfounding.
@grahamreid21327 ай бұрын
@@nostringsguy185 Every kind of dumb...No dumb left behind.
@lindabuck27777 ай бұрын
@@nostringsguy185all of us have stated this. Dumb and dumberer!!! Unrealistic and think of it how many do this don’t listen. 🤔🧐🤨
@barryinthepi3907 ай бұрын
Good video, I agree with all your points. I met my Filipina wife in Hong Kong. I am from Austin, Tx and I did eventually take her back to the USA where I was a Teacher on the Navajo Rez in Arizona. When I retired we moved back to Austin while she still was working. One day she asked if I still wanted to move back to the Phil. and I said yes. We have been back in the Philippines for 5 years now. We bought a house west of Tagaytay out in the country. We love it here and I always feel safe here. We have 5 dogs to make sure we are safe. It is a Paradise for us.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Congratulations! You are a success story. Thanks for watching.
@joshuarizalforeman8167 ай бұрын
Me too. I also met my wife in HK and we moved to the Philippines 5 years ago. We have a family, property, a business and a decent income. She wanted to come back to the Philippines to be near her family. No skin off my nose.
@fuqutube7 ай бұрын
"We have 5 dogs to make sure we are safe" = you aren't safe
@chrisjuricichxl57 ай бұрын
@@fuqutube well, you're kinda right but you should explain why, you silly doofus. Use your words!
@barryinthepi3907 ай бұрын
@@fuqutube Why would you say that? We have a wall around our property and the dogs stay on our property. Our neighbors are all locals some of whom served in the US Miliitary for 20+ years, and others who we provide work. We have never hd one problem in the 5 years we have lived here.
@josephcastaldo86777 ай бұрын
I’ve spent 21 years in the U.S. Army and been all over the world. In every location I’ve been to, including Europe, Hawaii, South America, and the US, there is a bad area and great areas. Learn where you’re at, know what to avoid, be cautious and you will be ok in nearly everywhere you go.
@KumarKumar-fc2gc7 ай бұрын
well, US schools and Malls too dangereous
@lotusgift40227 ай бұрын
True just be vigilant about ur surroundings.
@SonjaHand6 ай бұрын
@@KumarKumar-fc2gc Are You Serious! I lived all over the💪USA and Never experienced violence in a mall. 🧐 Watching over hyped attention grabbing new much!?! In too many years to count only one case where my kid left a bag and a woman stole it... Other than that you could sleep in the mall no problem except for security... Which is normal...
@thebigmann816 ай бұрын
@SonjaHand there is a lot of smash and grabs at some malls in certain states but that is the ghetto black people from the hood most likely fatherless. That being said I'm not saying all black people do this.
@lionelsanders1806 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@justbehappy...1237 ай бұрын
My European husband earns a decent salary when we were in Philippines. We were able to send our kids to the best exclusive schools. We were able to survive it because I was very frugal and I took very good care of his money I made sure every centavo was spent wisely. And put some savings in very good investments. He never asked me to work and for that, I was very grateful because I was able to take care of our family well. We're in our early 50s and hoping to retire in Philippines next year. Not as a King and Queen 😊
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
That's wonderful. Thank you for watching.
@bobbyjames43005 ай бұрын
@@justbehappy...123 you might be the only Filipina that thinks that way. Good for you guys.
@caddyinvictus5 ай бұрын
@@bobbyjames4300 been married with a Filipina for 17 years already, she does the same thing, maybe you just had a bad experience. I meet my wife through her brother which is one of the first friends I made in PH. My advice its do not look for the girls in bars...just go out, meet people and it will come to you
@bobbyjames43005 ай бұрын
@@caddyinvictus was a different time 17 to 20 years ago. My experiences have been good to be honest . Just never came across marriage material. Cheers.
@caddyinvictus4 ай бұрын
for sure but from a business standpoint, I don't care about that, I will go were its cheaper...I was looking at the latest Samsung galaxy watch, made in Vietnam, it could be Philippines but ye, too expensive to do it there...sad
@-2u25 ай бұрын
Sending money to someone you have never met is just plain stupid.
@JJthelonelybullinasia5 ай бұрын
@@-2u2 yep
@chiizuu7524 ай бұрын
@@DOWNR4NGEthey never stated it was exclusive to here, headass
@jaimedu53504 ай бұрын
True!
@josephinepolette84814 ай бұрын
Go help your own family and people in your country and then you can and should be proud of yourself and your achievements... and do it silently, without the need to publicize it... Shalom. 🌈 ⚖️ 🕊 ❤
@m.cl.ballista46424 ай бұрын
When after divorce you realise you lost your money to...someone you did nt know really. Think about it..
@DonDenver-r7v7 ай бұрын
I lived in the Philippines well under a $1000 a month, I rented a 3 bedroom home completely furnished w/ Aircon split air for 240.00 US dollars a month, electricity was $60.00 a month & food for $250 a month with island hopping and scuba diving. Rented a condo after my lease was up for $500 a month in Davao. Boots on the ground is the best way to find a reasonable living arrangement.
@marktrail86247 ай бұрын
True, but I like to say sandals on the ground !
@ross95817 ай бұрын
Where??
@DonDenver-r7v6 ай бұрын
@@marktrail8624 agree but I don’t where sandals, never got use to them growing up.
@DonDenver-r7v6 ай бұрын
@@ross9581 Mintal about 17 miles north of Davao
@marktrail86246 ай бұрын
@@DonDenver-r7v ... Just watch out for jungle rot if you're wearing boots everyday though !
@wobbles477 ай бұрын
I moved to the Philippines from North Carolina 12 years ago. My income is $1300 US a month. My lifestyle is exactly the same as in North Carolina. I rent a decent house with three bathrooms and all have hot water 😊($210) a month. I'm not living in Manila, never did, never wanted to. I drive a decent car and a new motorcycle. My belly is always full and I don't waste money in crazy expensive restaurants. One man's idea of living like a king is not necessarily everyone's. You CAN live decently on $1000 a month. It all depends on how much rent you pay and the lifestyle you choose..PS. I don't have a ball and chain to support. The women here will bleed you dry and you wont even see it coming..
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Good points. Thanks for watching.
@angelg26387 ай бұрын
Women, from anywhere, will bleed you dry. Stay single and enjoy life.
@jasguy27155 ай бұрын
Boy, you got that right!
@JupiterNeptun15795 ай бұрын
@@wobbles47 Oh Yes, you will be Supporting the whole family.
@imeldageneroso83694 ай бұрын
@@JupiterNeptun1579 you have to look for an educated Filipina on a middle class family. Be smart. It's anywhere in the world, especially in third world.
@1chuck234 ай бұрын
I currently live in Talisay, Cebu and I have a 2 bed 2 bath in a gated community with 24 hour security, costs me $195 for rent, $106 for electricity, around $300 for groceries, $30 for internet and $15 for water. This budget has allowed me to afford things that I enjoy like a PS5 with VR, and a wide open budget for entertainment. I love it!
@johnhagan81073 ай бұрын
@@1chuck23 is it your own place? Not shared
@1chuck233 ай бұрын
@@johnhagan8107 yep. All mines, no roommates, just me and my girlfriend. And that budget covers both of us.
@antoniostamndley82722 ай бұрын
@@1chuck23 as somone a little nervous of sub division, How much area the fees for gate grass, and hoa please
@1chuck232 ай бұрын
@@antoniostamndley8272 my particular subdivision charges 350 pesos a month
@mamasita65Ай бұрын
talisay where me mate got his business a lot building happen there with a new mall also was built so u rent $195 a month electricity yep the meter go around fast water cheap but $15 seem to cheap most now like 600 peso electricity $300 u must have air cond on a lot
@mellmendoza10497 ай бұрын
If you live in BGC or any of the tourist havens, no, u can't live on 1K a month but it definitely is enough to live comfortably in the provinces.
@tobiasdelabarra60867 ай бұрын
great answer. But could you give some examples of provinces with decent wifi and good oportunities for dating as a foreigner?
@whatevergoesforme51297 ай бұрын
As a Filipino living in Las Pinas City, 1k usd a month is doable to a single person in a Metro Manila suburb that is not high end. The problem is foreigners from the West have first world problems and are used to their high standard of living
@notacooldudewithanattitude27317 ай бұрын
@@tobiasdelabarra6086 Baguio is a good spot. also nice weather
@klhughes7 ай бұрын
@@tobiasdelabarra6086 Good dating exists all over the Philippines. Good Wi-Fi is an entirely different story. Starlink is the answer to that.
@yamisukehiro12587 ай бұрын
@@tobiasdelabarra6086I Think if you are looking for decent wifi in provinces you could buy starlink by elon musk alot of foreigners using that in philippines since it was satellite internet connection.
@joshuarizalforeman8167 ай бұрын
#1. I agree. My wife and I earn around USD 3000 pcm, and pay no rent since we own our properties. I am not going to live like a pauper. I have two kids, one of whom is at school and the other is at university. We own 3 residential and 3 commercial properties. We don't need to think about costs. That doesn't make me a flash c**t, just a realist and being honest. #2. Dating. I met my wife in person, in HK at a barbecue catered by a German/Filipina couple we both knew. We dated for a few months in the traditional sense - dinner, drinks, movies, etc, and then hooked up permanently after our son was born. (we are around the same age). #3. Food - I love the fresh vegetables and fruit and the fish, especially sisig, lechon, smoked tilapia and traditional dishes. Pancit is a staple in our house. #4.Danger? Do me a favour. I have no safety issues here at all. I feel safer here than I did in London or even HK. Just don't be a prick and create problems. #5. Never met a scammer here. If my wife is scamming me, she's playing a pretty long game - 12 years and counting. #6. I cannot comment. I live in Antipolo/Theresa Rizal. I have no experience of BGC. However, having lived in HK for a number of years, pretty much everywhere is comparatively cheap! #7. No comment. I am a married man! #8. My wife has been overseas on numerous occasions but she would rather stay here. Suits me.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Great comments sir. Thank you for sharing.
@eatsmylifeYT7 ай бұрын
Wow, you live in Teresa? Me too!
@joshuarizalforeman8167 ай бұрын
@@eatsmylifeYT I'm more than happy to meet up for a beer or a coffee. We have property in Antipolo and Teresa.
@mihangelap-williams9871Ай бұрын
@@joshuarizalforeman816 I visited the caves there, stunning
@dinewalton4 ай бұрын
You can live very well with only $1000 in the Philippines country side. As long as you are ok with just watching Netflix all day, walking to the beach, and cooking your own food, $1000 is more than enough for a small house, air con and high speed internet.
@hynahammond57414 ай бұрын
True,$1000 living in the province by the beach is possible in Cebu and Bohol the food is cheap,but beef is very expensive at SM, hard to find fresh milk, you can't be picky when it comes to food, but everything else is great in the Phil.
@dinewalton4 ай бұрын
@@hynahammond5741 Can only eat a ribeye in the PH once a month, but can do a home made burger 2-3 times a week, which is fine by me. Everybody knows about sunday lechon, but the shrimp in the PH is super cheap and 10x better than the US
@Yes-bk9cl6 ай бұрын
Don't make any COMMITMENTs within the first 24 months of your stay. That's property wise, business, charity or relationships! Salamat po!
@RC-hr9oq6 ай бұрын
What do you do for health care??
@bardwheelo5 ай бұрын
@@RC-hr9oq That's a tough one. In Thailand health care is not bad but you do need to be careful. They can make an incorrect diagnosis. In Indonesia it's hit and miss. I wouldn't go to a Cambodian hospital. In Viet Nam they're not bad either, but you need to be in Sai Gon to find a specialist. I have experience in all of these. But in the US it's not that great either. It's very easy to get a bad diagnosis by a doctor or have them miss something that's critical. Unfortunately, I went through this with two doctors at the top of their game in Los Angeles. The US isn't what it used to be. Most doctors play scared. Covid did that.
@tangonista5 ай бұрын
@@bardwheelo You're right on about the US health care system. If you are very wealthy and well connected you're golden (assuming your doctors don't make mistakes). I'm on medicare advantage and although I theoretically have access to first class medical care, it's just not true in reality. I bet that if you have the same cold cash you need in the US, with insurance, you'd get decent care in PH.
@bardwheelo5 ай бұрын
@@tangonista I hope that's the case. Fortunately, I have no experience with it. Filipinos are very bright, but it would be unfair to say only certain nationalities are intelligent. It's culture that hobbles some.
@TotoPagalunan4 ай бұрын
You're Absolutely Right❤️❤️❤️🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭
@Carrilleptbreak7 ай бұрын
Had a condo in Pasig for a few years, ended up in the Province. La Union and Tarlac where we rent a house for $220 a month. Apartment (2 Bed) in La Union 5 minutes to the surf is $175 a month. Very little pollution and no crime in the Province. Major pollution and pick pockets in the NCR/ Metro. My wife had her earrings ripped out while walking in a crowd and a laptop stole from her bag. 17 trips since 2011 and these are true stories. Can't wait to retire in the Province! Know what your getting into folks, do the research.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Thanks for the advise and thanks for watching.
@cocomine88977 ай бұрын
Every nation there are good and bad, we should not lower our guards at all times even in the rural areas because nowadays the drug addicts are spreading and once they have nothing to consume they'll find ways to satisfy their desires, that's how horrible the cartel and syndicate ruining the world.
@athenstar107 ай бұрын
I live in QC my whole life, have witnessed a robbery once in when I went to college in Manila. Still in QC, worked everywhere in the Metro but never saw another incident. I don't know what's up with you, but I always have instincts and know where to/ where not to go and what not to bring in sketchy places.
@Cons29117 ай бұрын
Yeah, don’t wear those in Manila
@jerichojohnson32197 ай бұрын
CURIOUS? HOW IS YOUR MONTHLY ELECTRIC OR AIR CONDITIONING BILL ? ARE YOU IN THE BAGUIO = COOLER ZONE ? LA UNION ?
@poloshirtsamurai6 ай бұрын
I'm a Filipino from QC and I agree, $1k won't let you live like a king. Only lower middle class. You're not poor but definitely not a king.
@SDesWriter4 ай бұрын
@@poloshirtsamurai it’s easy to live less than $1000 a month but you have to have your home and transportation in place first. Even with electricity going up the total for bills comes to under $400 a month which leaves you $500 for entertainment expenses and gas. Certainly not living like a king, but a gross exaggeration to say you’ll be living in a shack with outdoor plumbing.
@theinqov4 ай бұрын
@@SDesWriter Funny po, I just wrote something very similar!
@merlealonzo97274 ай бұрын
I have a farmhouse in Batangas( 2 bedrooms) and a Caretaker My operating expenses monthly is 250$ We commute by public transportation Food costs 35% of the total expenses but that is reduced to 20% because we have a backyard full of vegetables and fruits trees. Its Near Tagaytay
@poloshirtsamurai4 ай бұрын
@@merlealonzo9727 Grew up in Pangil, Laguna. The rent there they is around $35 for a two-storey house they say. I'm paying around $200 here in QC. I want to someday go back there. I'm bored with the city life personally, but my family is used to it because my wife and kids all grew up here, haha.
@AlexManalo-b2p4 ай бұрын
1.000 US dollars pensions here in the Philippines is so much enough to live a decent classy way especially in the province outside manila
@ngsocal2 ай бұрын
@AlexManalo-b2p I agree. As per this guy in the video you need more like $ 2,000./month. The majority of Filipino professionals don't even make close to it, not even the majority of doctors. Of course I can rent a $ 1,000. apartment in BGC etc., then you need $ 2,000+
@MuichiroAme4 ай бұрын
I'm a Filipino, and i am happy to see a foreigner who is ACTUALLY wise and smart when it comes to the Philippines and then sharing your advices & opinions to others. I have watched alot of KZbinrs not being smart & wise enough and then will have some complains while they are in the Philippines. Take the food for example; The food quality depends on the food shop/restaurant, some food shops & restaurants sells dishes and foods that doesn't taste good, but majority of the food shops & restaurants has good food quality. So this means that KZbinrs who had tasted dishes on food shops and complained that it was unfair/didn't taste good were blinded/not wise, and they didn't know that not all food shops/restaurants has good food quality. Another example is about dating; dating a Filipina whom you don't know in real life or did know in real life, but you don't know who she *really* is, then you are probably in an unhealthy relationship because not ALL Filipinas are friendly and seeks serious relationship/real love. Some of Filipinas will date you because of your wealth and you being a foreigner, so they will start using your money unfairly and too much, like using it for personal needs. Which means that Foreigners whom in the end, got scammed/left by their Filipina girlfriends were not wise when it comes to relationship
@JJthelonelybullinasia4 ай бұрын
@@MuichiroAme thank you for sharing. And thanks for watching.
@mamasita65Ай бұрын
yes she filipinas see forigners think we rich but there is a lot are around 60% now 20% average 20% poor also but forigners start be smarter now why there not bringing them there country there staying philippines because they cannot live there country because the living pressure and in philippines they can rent cheap or build a house or buy a condo to own filipino food really good I like it more then western food as gets boring here I eat filipino food most nights as im married to one, it doesnt matter where u go in the world food can be good or poor philippines for me just a holiday thats enough I look forward come home my soil fresh air no polluction no corruption can walk down the street freely wear a necklace or have a nice watch on,dont have to lock u self behind bars or have security with guns go the mall here freely drive me car go places be there in 10 minutes where philippines like a hour polluction the worse now, u have to pay insurance live there so as I said ask filipinos where they really like to live many stay in Philippines if wages were good have a pension when older can get a work no matter the age take care the parents
@wolfhard24204 ай бұрын
I am living on far less than 1000 a month and I am fairly happy here. Most Filipinos do. 30 to 50k monthly is the average income for an average family with kids. If you wanna go out a lot and mostly eat in a restaurant, ok, that will significantly increase your costs. The most dangerous factor, however, is a demanding wife or girlfriend that can easily multiply your spending significantly, esp if the whole clan is involved in milking the “foreigner cow”
@YouDcm4 ай бұрын
Minimum wage in Manila, which is what most are making is about 17,000k/month. Go outside of Manila and it's much less. Not sure where you're getting 30-50k from?
@marciestoddard7303 ай бұрын
That's kinda on you for getting milked like a cow buddy
@KC-in9pxАй бұрын
@@YouDcm Try improving your comprehension. A family income isn't necessarily the same as an individual's income.
@YouDcmАй бұрын
@@KC-in9px Most filipino families there is only one bread-winner that all the rest leach off. 17,000 pesos/month is minimum wage and that's what most filipinos make. It's not opinion, it's fact.
@aresjack28107 ай бұрын
You are spot on. I am here 11+ years and live half the year in the province and half in Manila and this has to be just about the most accurate Ph advise video I have seen. Good Job.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching. I appreciate the feedback.
@daviddarden19157 ай бұрын
Having lived in the Philippines 🇵🇭 back in 1991 at Clark Air Base, Philippines 🇵🇭. I was age 28. Now age 61. A widower and all my children are grown now. Planning a return and reretirement next year in 2025 at age 62. I believe budget coordinate where you live at. Now, I think a simple man 👨, who do not smoke or drink alcohol. I estimate $1,500 on average in my opinion. That budget would fit most of the Philippines 🇵🇭. Eventually I will utilize the American Military 🪖 Philippines sponsored SRRV program 😄. Thank you for this video and updates for the Philippines 🇵🇭 😊
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Thanks for your service sir. The veteran SRRV is great for you. Thanks for watching.
@BearInThePhillipines7 ай бұрын
Hope to buy you a beer at Tequila reef and tour the old airforce base
@silynita7 ай бұрын
Better move to a place with better medical facilities. We are severely lacking in that area.
@angelg26387 ай бұрын
@silynita what about the Veterans Hospital in QUEZON CITY? Not good?
@petesie83717 ай бұрын
I was stationed at Clark from 1986-1990. I loved it there. Had to leave for an assignment in Germany. I'm 59 and can't wait to visit the Philippines again. I will ge looking into retiring there if I find the place I feel comfortable. I'm keen on Dumagette, BGC, Cebu City, and Mactan. Who knows, maybe will meet one day! Stay safe and wishing you the best...
@isaacg.98575 ай бұрын
Honestly, I would say even southern Mindinao is safer than most American cities as long as you stay away from the known trouble spots.
@stevegilmore19404 ай бұрын
@@isaacg.9857 Agreed. The only time I ever felt unsafe was in Metro Manila. Never in South Cotabato have I felt unsafe.
@StanleyOlivar7 ай бұрын
Your expenses depend on where you live, HOW you live (lifestyle), and who you live with. It’s a matter of good planning, self-discipline and determination. By and large, your US dollar goes a long way in the Philippines. Having said so, wherever you end up in this mother planet, it’s really up to you whether you succeed or fail. ✅
@dustinperry8287 ай бұрын
Spot on video. Agree with all points. Im 10 years living here on a pemsion Married to a young woman in 20,s Kids ,large house that we built with swimming pool and maids house,and 2 maids 1 nanny and a boyfor outside chores All my costs including a brand new car payment equals around 2500 Tip ( i pay my workers around twice what they would earn working for filipino and in doing so they stay ,work hard and are happy.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
That's good advise. Thanks for watching.
@hynahammond57414 ай бұрын
what part in the phil do you live for $2500 with all the comfort
@donaldmeyers991018 күн бұрын
I'm a single 62 year old male in the United States. I am on a fixed income of 1500 a month U.S.D. Can I live comfortably in the Philippines. I don't drink or smoke and am more of a homebody .
@JJthelonelybullinasia18 күн бұрын
@@donaldmeyers9910 yes you can. You just have to be very smart about your budget. Also, I would say you need a decent savings for emergencies and initial moving expenses. Good luck and thanks for watching.
@norbertapostol57057 ай бұрын
about myth #5, you know it's very hard to catch a filipina's heart. that is if she has a heart. so before you dive into her make sure she has a heart.
@CarmenBanks-vt4yt7 ай бұрын
Good point!
@JinkyJoyceAguilar7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@happysolitudetv7 ай бұрын
True
@jeanleveriza17 ай бұрын
Hahaha!! Maybe thats why i have remained single, having been separted for 16 years 😂
@schmitty1396 ай бұрын
Goes for Americana women as well..in fact ct all
@gordonkistler-qo2dj7 ай бұрын
I just returned from Panabo City Davao Del Norte where I spent the last 4 months it wasn't dangerous at all, I am going back next month and getting married and staying for good!
@woutergijs52467 ай бұрын
Congratulations with the marriage 🎉😊
@jasonl80693 ай бұрын
That’s our home is Panabo !
@johnmartin207922 күн бұрын
Beer costs what it does in USA, 8.00 meal ain't cheap, rent is the only thing that is cheap. So hot all year long means AC runs constantly. How far from the beach?
@JJthelonelybullinasia22 күн бұрын
@@johnmartin2079 my electric and water was $45 this month. Half of what I paid in the Philippines and a fraction of what I paid in the US. Street food is super cheap and delicious.
@Borsia7 ай бұрын
Hi JJ So just to preface I have lived in the PH for over 12 years and am married to my Filipina wife, together for 7 married for 3, dated here for years before. I will say that I agree pretty much 100% with your myths analyses. I live very well on my SS here in Valencia but I lived for 6 years in Tagaytay and while I was OK I certainly didn't live "high on the hog". I still live rather modestly but that's just our nature. We have pretty much all the comforts we need / want. Nice place AC modern kitchen etc. One thing is that you HAVE to start with a considerable "setup fund" I would say a minimum $5-10k usd just to get the basics. After that maintaining is reasonable cheap, vastly cheaper than the US. Dating is never easy anywhere but dating here is easier than other countries I've lived in US, China, South America. But it's going to take a long time to find the right fit no matter where you are. I like Philippine food but miss many of the foods I grew up with in the US and ingredients for cooking can be very hard to find and expensive. Never been to BGC so no opinion on that Tagaytay is one of the most expensive places to live. Liked the video take care
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Thanks for your take on things here, and thanks for watching.
@lilyverrinder630323 күн бұрын
If you can afford to live in Tagaytay you definitely can afford to live in BGC in my opinion . Just saying
@Borsia23 күн бұрын
@lilyverrinder6303 yes Tagaytay is one of the more expensive areas
@thunderegg6705 ай бұрын
I work online as a conversational English tutor through a US company. I rent a larger, comfortable, single-floor three bedroom house just south of Davao for all of $170/month (P10K). My girlfriend and I keep our bills low, as there are comforts we can do without, such as aircon. I come from the hot dry desert of eastern Oregon, so I'm used to the heat. I have been able to tolerate the humidity of the Philippines. I've also lived without a lot of extras in eastern Oregon, US. This is nothing new to me. My girlfriend is a stay-at-home mother, and three of her four kids live with me there. She has had to work as a single mom for at least two years on a measly income in a laborious job, so she is extremely experienced with managing money for the sake of her kids needs and future. We are able to budget on my income of slightly less than $1K/month. We do not "live like kings", but we are not destitute. It can be done if one doesn't get euphoric and stupid over how cheap everything is compared to the cost of living in the US. Do your research, and keep it real.
@user-DrJoe-Future3 ай бұрын
Outstanding post. I agree with you 100%. I'm a retired American, now age 73, living in Cebu City Philippines with my new family - a Filipina wife and two twin teen daughters. After being married twice in the U.S., I have never been happier in my life. The wife is phenomenal, and the kids are the best kids I have ever had - period. Hard working, respectful, and responsible. I feel truly blessed. Unlike you, I have to admit I've lived a hard working but spoiled life, and I need my A/C. I've worked in an air conditioned office for the past 18 years, with a fully A/C home. It can get brutally hot out here in Cebu - high or low humidity. Money management is key, and Filipinos are good at that, they have to be. I am fortunate enough to be living very well here in Cebu City, living much better than I did in the U.S., and living much healthier and happier. But I do miss "home." I live on about $5,500 to $6,000+ a month here. But I'm retired after 45 years of working, and deserve to live happy for my remaining years after 24 years in the military and 21 more years working for the Government. The work was difficult, high pressure, and dangerous. So who knows how long I have left.
@marciestoddard7303 ай бұрын
Any recommendations for english tutoring companies that actually pay? Thanks!
@aubreyrose1358 күн бұрын
Yes.. what you're saying are all true. Welcome to the Philippines. From a new subscriber.
@JJthelonelybullinasia8 күн бұрын
@@aubreyrose135 thanks for subscribing
@boyscout-p3u7 ай бұрын
the best advice for electric bill is buy a good brand inverter ac. mine runs 24/7 in manila only spend like 4.5k pesos a months total for all appliances in the house
@rfbos7 ай бұрын
Impossible unless you set the temp very high like 29c-30c. Do the math of PhD elec rate by kph the unit is rated for. Especially last month or 2 with high heat index.
@boyscout-p3u7 ай бұрын
@@rfbos its real with a good inverter ac. i use midea ushaped 1.5hp, one 60 watt fridge, led lights and one basic pc. ac runs 24/7 at 26c average. 4.5k is average for the year, it can peak at 5.5 during the summer
@JLBisHatedbyPresidentXiEven5 ай бұрын
@@boyscout-p3u 26c isn’t the most optimal temperature for most people . The person who says fans are enough . I don’t even know if he’s human or a bot . You could see on live broadcasts some Filipinas were ready to faint live on the air . So no fans aren’t even close to enough . All they do is push warm air around .
@boyscout-p3u5 ай бұрын
@@JLBisHatedbyPresidentXiEven i set the ac to 26, when i feel its getting warmer i lower it to 16, then set it back to 25-26 which gets me the 4.5k bill. also helps if there is another room on top of your room to sheild from the sun. i heard daikin split type inverter ac(the highest end model) give even more savings in power
@derekwatson7037Ай бұрын
@@boyscout-p3u Not true. I have exactly the same model aircon. Live alone. Elec about 7-8,000/month.
@MoralHazard-g1e7 ай бұрын
JJ, you need to get out more. Living in BGC is giving you a skewed perspective. Very few areas are as expensive as there. The $1K is quite doable and comfortable with comparable quality of life, without resorting to primitive conditions outside of expat havens like BGC, Makati, Cebu IT Park.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
I'm happy living here and being very comfortable. Thanks for watching.
@Glen8207 ай бұрын
BGC is a world away from the real Phils which is not for everyone to be sure ... but scads cheaper I live in an area of Mindanao where prices are less than half of JJ's quotes and my family of 4 and I have a hard time spending $1500/month living a very comfortable life, eating out a fair amount especially my wife and I for lunches and wanting for nothing ... albeit our house is paid for ... but BGC is not a good representation of the costs and more on par with 'tourist traps' like Palawan
@john-yt1fm7 ай бұрын
BCG is not the philippines why come from western country only to try and find western in an east asian country If you are saying you try to save on your budget then you are in the wrong place
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
@@john-yt1fm I choose to live here. You're free to live where you want. Thanks so much for watching.
@mariapug7 ай бұрын
@@JJthelonelybullinasiadon’t mind them. I’m a Filipino living in Texas, and I plan to semi-retire in the Philippines. Only place I want to live is BGC because it’s modern, convenient, and clean. Also, top notch hospital is nearby. I’ve been to the provincial areas many times. Yes, cheap but not my lifestyle.
@Cowboysfan4ever7 ай бұрын
My electric in calamba city is between 8,000 -15,000 php ($140.00-$265.00 a month) with full air con for a two bedroom house. Still cheaper then the $400.00 -500.00 I was paying in the US. But in fairness, where I’m living now is about 6-8 times smaller at least then my US house.
@bigbearhugebear90187 ай бұрын
Yep you are honest. If you want to duplicate your western living in the PI it will cost you at least 3-4 times more money than in the states....
@glenhazlett43607 ай бұрын
I sold my house and bought an RV to live out of. I split my time in Florida and Ohio. The campground is gated, has a heated swimming pool, gym, laundry room, bar, clubhouse and I pay $400 a month for rent, $110 for electric, $120 for internet, and $80 for phone. I do spend about $450 for groceries. So I can live in the U.S. for less than $1,500. My rent will go up in 2025 though I've been doing this for four years. Florida does not have state income tax which is a big plus. The only reason I can see going to the Philippines is for a woman.
@Cowboysfan4ever7 ай бұрын
@@glenhazlett4360 I considered doing that also but what brought me here is learning a new culture and to travel throughout Asia and Australia. Since my father was a 30 year veteran of the USN we traveled all over the US as a kid. I wanted something different
@jamescopeland-j9l3 ай бұрын
Electric use to be very cheap, The last 12 to 15 years it changed a lot. I came here 1972 5 times on ship in the Marines,1992 I started coming here on my own now I stay. The one thing you can't beat here is the rent. Depending on where you live it's all lower than America.
@TrapAPMadeItSlap11 күн бұрын
Your paying more there then i am in the usa 😂 yikes
@11957gary6 ай бұрын
Been here 7 years on $1180.00/ month. I found a one bedroom apartment for a hundred dollars a month and because i paid them two years in advance i got it for $40 per month. I bought farmland on payments. $100.00/ month, no interest charges. The electric on Dinagat Islands is cheep. I left the aircon in my room on 24hours a day for 30 days it was $80.00 for the month. I have a refrigerator freezer Tv and a yard light thats on all night. I think $2000/ month is a good living here on this island.
@blackwoodrichmore45314 ай бұрын
Are you Filipino?, because you should know that foreigners cannot buy & own land in the Philippines.
@thomaswall42853 күн бұрын
Fantastic, thank you. I am hearing both sides of the story now and yours makes a lot of sense... So say 2700 would be good?
@JJthelonelybullinasia3 күн бұрын
@@thomaswall4285 that would be very comfortable unless you are too extravagant in your lifestyle.
@mariceldb29904 ай бұрын
Anywhere you go if you allow yourself to be scammed, it’s your fault. Even here in Buffalo NY, my husband’s watch was snatched by a seemingly friendly stranger.
@stillscion-bf7tg7 ай бұрын
Hi, I'm from Philippines. I like you're beautiful, simple, practical views in the Philippines regarding your own experience. Keep making more vlogs regarding your observations in Philippines Culture and US livings
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching
@billf233519 күн бұрын
You offer excellent articulate talking points of worthwhile advice. Thanks.
@JJthelonelybullinasia9 күн бұрын
@@billf23351 thank you for watching
@ItsCal20244 ай бұрын
BGC is an upscale area. I worked here (as a local) for seven years and interacted with foreigners living in condominiums like Serendra, Bellagio, and Park McKinley. Even foreigners are aware of the high cost of living here. So, he’s absolutely right when he says you can’t live like a king on under $1000. It’s even more expensive if you bring your family and need to enroll your kids in one of the international schools in the area, such as ISM, BSM, MJS, and KISP. I have had foreign students from those schools at an after School Academy in the past. I observed their lifestyle and can say they live comfortably, but far from being kings and queens. Other KZbinrs who claim it’s cheap here probably didn’t stay in Central Business Districts; they likely spent time in islands or rural areas.
@chiqsilog83367 ай бұрын
Loved your vlog, thought it was very accurate. I've been married for 12 years living in NZ, Philippines and UK, together we have been worked towards our goal of retiring in the Philippines. I like the provenances and the beaches (in small doses) but I love BGC. I love the wide uncluttered sidewalks, the ease of getting around, the green areas, and the cleanliness of it.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
I do too. Hope to see you here and thanks for watching.
@gerrycastro83047 күн бұрын
You’re right on, JJ! Your perspectives and tips are very sound and true. However, think you must stress that BGC is a super-prime area where you have the best of the best. My brother came home from the US, and now living in a big house and lot in cool Tagaytay. With 2 cars, maid/cook, driver, dogs, etc happily doing $1700 a month - just like you. As you said, for $2000, you can have a good comfortable life with socials in premium BGC. And much much more luxuries in the great rural areas. We want people like you in the Philippines, JJ. Enjoy a good life in our sunshine country.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 күн бұрын
@@gerrycastro8304 thank you for your kind words. And thanks for watching.
@LoveyourLife-19707 ай бұрын
Totally agree. Some people spread the $500 to $1500 story because that is all they have or they want to live a basic life. But if you want to be able to truly say that you live well here, the minimum in MY opinion to have as a monthly income amount is roughly $3000. I base this on the fact that last month alone I spent over 70,000 pesos ($1, 215) on hospital appointments. So having an emergency/medical fund that you put into each month on top of every day living expenses is important. Our light bill tops $200 a month (we have a full size fridge, a mini fridge, a deep freezer, 5 ACs and 3 TVs) because we saw no reason to lower our quality of life, nor wanted to. Dating is no easier here than in other countries. There just happens to be a higher number of females here than there are males. Many of the local males do not have or make enough money to provide for their families as well as the female's family. And here comes this foreigner with a social security check that equals as much as 4 months' pay for many jobs here. But that does not mean that every woman will jump for joy at the thought of being with a foreigner (not even every bar girl wants to actually date one outside of getting paid). The reality is... if given the option of a successful native man or a foreigner that is poor in his own country, they would pick their local men simply for the enjoyment of having the culture in common. I have had some great food here. Both Filipine dishes and American dishes. But what people need to understand is the the spices here are not the same spices as we find back in our own countries. Mainly because western countries tend to alter the flavor of many spices while taking them through the bulk processing. If one is looking for meat like in their countries, there are importers here on pretty much every island that gets Aussie, and USDA beef from companies in the west. They can also order many of their normal seasonings from Amazon. As a black man, raised in Mississippi, traveled the US in the military, I feel far safer here than in most small US towns. I go on morning walks of 5 to 8 miles through all the small neighborhoods and have yet to be stopped by a police, or a citizen and asked why I am there. (I actually had this happen while through an area just outside of Fort Jackson, SC by a police while I was there for Recruiter's School, and it was an almost every day occurrence for me and my friends growing up in our 'lost in time' Mississippi city). There are scammers, gold diggers, leaches in EVERY country. In most western countries, they use the guilt tactic to get you to give them money while making you think it was your ideal to do so. Not many single immigrants here make enough for a true gold digger, and being scammed just shows how little common sense the man uses (blinded by a YOUNG, fit and friendly GIRL). And as you said, sending money to some pretty girl that tells the same lie of "I love you asawa" to 17 other guys online is like trying to outbid the other guys. We live in Carmona Cavite in a 4 bedroom, 2 bath, fenced in house in a gated community and our rent is $445 a month with a monthly spending budget of $3000). There are many buffets that cost less than 5 dollars a person. Going to places like TGIF will cost more than many non-western food chains. The only ones that are just set on the dream of living in America tend to be the ones that are found in bars and are fascinated by the bright lights and big parties they grew up seeing on TV. Most Filipinas do not want to be pulled away from their customs, their families or their comfort and end up being controlled by a man in a foreign country (it happens). Some do want to go simply because if they are lucky, they will have an opportunity to have a career, build a life, gain knowledge and a sense of pride in themselves. We met and married in Korea, spent 10 years in Texas and she was more than ready to come back home. She still says that she would rather go live in Korea than to go back to the US.. ( I agree with her)
@mrwonderful6127 ай бұрын
Well stated and dead on! I agree with everything you wrote. I'll add that another incentive to marry and go to America is the status that it will add to the mother whose daughter "lives in America." Plus, she may become better able to provide for her family in the Philippines; which I imagine is why your wife went to work in South Korea. I'm ashamed of what you had to endure growing up in my country's South; police scrutiny, Sunset Laws, prejudice and unfairness. Yet, I see you from your Profile that you served our country in the military. Thank you for your service. You know your stuff, Bruh! Maybe you should start your own youtube channel. I'd hit that Subscribe button! ❤💯
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. And thanks for watching.
@LoveyourLife-19707 ай бұрын
@@mrwonderful612 Yeah, she went to Korea so that she could provide for her daughter who was 5 years old at the time. 10 years later, we met while I was stationed there, then we spent the first 10 years together in the US until she was ready to come back home. She was ok in the US, making good money on the nursing staff at a hospital. Even bought her own Big girl car with her own money (she misses that). We have a channel, but we do not speak about the culture over here, nor the culture back in the US on it. Its just going to be a simple channel covering our house build once we start, and then maybe a few beach trips here and there.
@LoveyourLife-19707 ай бұрын
@Midwest10 yeah, ok... That's real believable
@dsrrellgriffith11617 ай бұрын
agreed,,,living on 1k a month is like camping,,,Not to mention the roosters, and bugs, etc etc
@AdamSahr-cj4kf7 ай бұрын
Dating a friend's girlfriend's friend is the last thing I would do, if at all. What happens if the relationship doesn't last? What happens if your friend's relationship doesn't last? Plus, you may find yourself prisoner of the friendship between the two couples and get bored in the end...
@eu74357 ай бұрын
Adam, you make a good point. You could ruin two or three relationships instead of just one when the coupling goes south.
@WTHenry20237 ай бұрын
Agreed, I have not and will not date within my friend group. It will complicate your life enormously when the inevitable breakup happens.
@AdamSahr-cj4kf7 ай бұрын
@@WTHenry2023 Just imagine your friend's wife or partner behaving as if or reminding all the time that she did you a huge favour and that without her service you would have been a nobody...
@antoniostamndley82722 ай бұрын
@@AdamSahr-cj4kf ya they stick like glue, your in the freezer, and the family, time to move
@PauloNideck4 ай бұрын
Amazing video, thanks
@sjv9147s7 ай бұрын
IMHO, squatter-like living is like under-$250. Provincial/native living ranges anything from $500~$1,000. And reasonably comfortable big-city living like Metro Manila, Manila Bay area, Makati and Quezon cities would cost upward of $1,500. It's not at all easy for a foreigner to work and use that to live comfortably in the Philippines. You will always spend more than the possibility of earning there. As a vacation spot, it's great.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Yes. Thanks for watching
@graerindley63125 ай бұрын
After 37 years of frequent visits to the Philippines for long terms, I can tell you that there are times when you will be scammed if you get very close to Filipinos, but certainly there are plenty of Filipinos who would never scam you.
@JJthelonelybullinasia5 ай бұрын
True
@thecontainerthecontents68892 ай бұрын
Yes the dead ones in graveyards
@antoniostamndley82729 күн бұрын
@@thecontainerthecontents6889 pirates of the South China Sea, not Disney, fact
@vbyssey1007 ай бұрын
Mabuhay - The myths to the myths - Seriously, a pretty fair assessment of the country -
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@paulshamblin6260Ай бұрын
I met my beautiful wife online. I knew her 2 years before I went and married her. Best thing i have ever done in my life. She's in the US with me now just over a year. Amazing. We are remodeling the house. She's been on the roof and under it with me. There's nothing she wont or can't do.
@rodrigodelaconcepcion74787 ай бұрын
Great points. Keep the Faith and Fire, Lonely Bull. Can't wait to travel to PI and enjoy the island lifestyle. Blessings.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@NoName-zm1ks7 ай бұрын
Great to hear from someone who lives in a country others pitch as a place where an individual can live comfortably for $1000 USD and to hear the truth! We need more of these locals to tell us the truth about cities in other countries.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@bo496852 ай бұрын
1. I live in a province in the Philippines with my Filipina wife and here you can live like a king for $1000 USD. 2. Dating is much easier if you are a foreigner. 3. The food is decent if you are in a major city, in the province you are VERY LIMITED!! 4. The Philippines can be VERY DANGEROUS if you are in the bad areas….but most of it is safe and friendly. 5. All Filipinas are NOT scammers. 6. BGC is expensive compared to the other parts of the Philippines. 7. Dating is more normal type of dating in BGC. 8. Not all but MOST Filipinas do want to move to the states!!
@MichaelLeHoullier5 ай бұрын
I have visited the Philippines three times this year and Metro Manila is about the LAST place I want to live of the places I've been. That isn't to say there aren't great places and things in Manila, there are, buy it isn't my kind of vibe. I love Cavite and may relocate there if I can at some point. It's much less expensive than Metro Manila and there are great places throughout the province. Siquijor and Marinduque are amazing provinces but perhaps not so easy to relocate to until ready to retire. As to safety, it's not as safe as my native New Hampshire or Taiwan where I have lived for more than two decades. However, seeking the advice of locals wherever I am, I have never really felt in danger, either. An open mind, a smile and a willingness to engage with the locals gets one a long way. I love the Philippines and plan to return again in January.
@JJthelonelybullinasia5 ай бұрын
@@MichaelLeHoullier that's awesome. Thanks for sharing and thanks for watching.
@Stetsonhatman7 ай бұрын
We spent Christmas in BGC several years ago - everything was clean, new, and beautiful. I agree with JJ, to visit different spots in the Philippines first to see where you want to live then find a local girl in that location. Unless you are a total sod, it is not hard for an average western dude to find a nice Filipina.
@q1m3105 ай бұрын
is health insurance/medical bills have to be saved up additional?
@JJthelonelybullinasia5 ай бұрын
@@q1m310 even with insurance most medical expenses is paid out of pocket, then reimbursed by your insurance. So I would say you need to have a decent savings for all emergencies.
@casualplayerschannel14325 ай бұрын
I am Filipino lived my entire life here. I gotta say sir. you are on point on your videos. :) Although Mindanao has safe places too like Davao.
@apolloseven5857 ай бұрын
Very good. Being honest with living in the Philippines. At the same time being courteous and respectful.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Thank you
@hemantmuley841425 күн бұрын
M a first time viewer...loved your video: it's crisp, to the point, and very informative. M a 78 yr old expat living in India like a king for 950 usd a month, for the last 7 years. You may wish to check out the coastal city of Kochi in the stunningly scenic state of Kerala in south India.
@JJthelonelybullinasia25 күн бұрын
@@hemantmuley8414 thanks for watching
@ZenaidaRoxas-yk8pp7 ай бұрын
1000 dollars is small a budget to live like a King! Everything here has gotten so expensive after Covid but of course compare to AU it is cheaper here. I have an Australian partner and hes a digital nomad a solar /electrical engineer and I work as an Account Manager at American Express in BGC. We have our own house in Bulacan about 45 mins from Makati/BGC. We love it here, and he loves it too because he lives like a King and get to provide jobs for our workers. Foreigners really love it here you just have to choose where to live. Traffic is always a problem, the road is not good too but it's safe here. My partner is used to 1st world efficiency and standards but he has learned the hard way that this is a different world altogether. Life in the Philippines is pretty good. BGC is expensive to most but it's not that expensive it's still cheaper compare to Melbourne. Heaps of great restaurants, like Amano, Steak and Fries, and the restos in Mitsukoshi. Yup, it's hard to find girls to date for foreigners in BGC!!! Haha! A foreigner must be a professional and well educated and almost of the same age group.
@darrenjones23967 ай бұрын
The Philippines is one of the best places in the world to retire. I'm glad I made the decision to retire there from the US.
@AvonOng6 ай бұрын
Hi
@bembelknecht7 ай бұрын
Came here 2 years ago, currently in BGC as well. Spot on on the money if you're in that area, on the other hand the province is half the cost and with the right set-up, you could live as comfy as in the city (I really don't like the Metro for all its issues). Food varries, but it is very different from the rest of Asia. Far as "danger" or "scammers" are concerned, it always takes a perpetrator and a victim, that plays along.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Truth. Thanks for watching
@wearemysticking7 ай бұрын
Interesting, when it comes to money, I think it really depends on the life you want to live. If you want to live a western life then I agree with you, but if you want a simple provincial life it can be done for a lot less.
@JerryLiverette-z6y2 ай бұрын
Do you have any information on SRRV? I lived and worked in the Philippines for 2 1/2 years and love it. I shall return.
@JJthelonelybullinasia2 ай бұрын
@@JerryLiverette-z6ymust transfer 10,000USD into a Philippines bank account if you have a monthly income. 20,000 if no income. 1,500 if you're a military veteran. Must be 50 years old. Then there is an annually fee for renewal which I believe is $360, but I'm not sure about the amount.
@John-up7fq7 ай бұрын
Definitely on point JJ, and yes the majority of filipinas I've talked to want nothing to do with living overseas, maybe to visit but that's about it....great vid ...
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Thanks John and thanks so much for watching.
@marciannatolentino24747 ай бұрын
$1K is must be a comfortable living back in the province. Even more if you got yourself a filipina wife with a modest house and lot, and a modest farmland for additional income and raw food support, like rice, vegetables, etc.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@mrjomaled7554 ай бұрын
Thank you for a very enlightening and up to date video. I moved to the US in 1976 and spent half of my life in Buffalo, NY. I retired 2 years ago while living in Palm Springs, CA. Me and my partner have a very comfortable retirement here now, in las Cruces, NM. I am planning ahead though to move back to the Philippines should I find myself alone again. Just exploring the possibilities. I speak Tagalog and Bisaya, so language is not gonna be a problem. Again, thanks for your videos. They're very informative.
@JJthelonelybullinasia4 ай бұрын
@@mrjomaled755 thank you for sharing your story. And thanks for watching.
@JourneyJunkkies4 ай бұрын
I live really well on 1700/month. I'm in Batangas province in a really nice gated community. Two story 2000sf 4br/3ba large patio and garage. Huge Community pool. All my TikTok people know my lifestyle very well. I was single when I first moved here so money obviously went a lot further. Now married i budget more. BUT I am living a lifestyle that i only dreamed about living in the US. Lots of new home, plenty of groceries, and take trips whenever we want. Plus I just bought a new car. So I'd say for 2k you can live a VERY nice life here IF you manage your money wisely. Warren Buffett said "even the wealthiest people budget their money". Fyi I met my wife through family whom I socialized with long before I met her. Not a passport bro. She has a great job too. And we own a business together.
@JJthelonelybullinasia4 ай бұрын
Fantastic story. Thanks for sharing and thanks for watching.
@alicefabia117 ай бұрын
Just found your channel,you so right about everything you said, I am retired from State came here for vacation living in Bgc didn’t want to go back in I love Bgc. I am only paying condo dues ,electric and water cost me $115 a month,the condo is paid for bought it 20 years ago.Bgc is the safest area that why I love.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@williamonderlinde50685 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@JJthelonelybullinasia5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the super thanks William.
@jamescaiquep37947 ай бұрын
you can live in eastwood city in pasig which has chepear rent and comparitively look the same as bgc in fact it was called mini bgc even though I think its bigger but because it has smaller buildings its is tagged like that.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Eastwood isn't in Pasig. It's in Quezon City. I've been there. It's very nice, but BGC is still better. Thanks for watching.
@llothar687 ай бұрын
For me everything is more expensive in the Philippines if you calculate it based on quality in Europe/German. But what makes it cheaper is the climate (no heating bills, only one set of clothings) and that it's easy to scale down your living cost without feeling too bad, because the others are. Key focus is to have a simple house yourself that you can build and improve, eat local seasonal food, have your own garden for some veggis that you dont get on the markets, get used to live without AC and dive a bike or simple car (i love the minicabs).
@katyagrad37047 ай бұрын
Wait... you're saying the quality of produce is not as good as in the West? Doubtful
@llothar687 ай бұрын
@@katyagrad3704 Produce is often much more expensive in the Philippines. Especially if you eat a little western. How can fucking Potatoes be so expensive, like 90 pesos per kg? I pay rarely more then 30 pesos in Germany. Meat price is higher in PH, only Avocados, Mangos, Banana, Rice and Fish. But even Rice is almost the same now as i get it for 60 pesos a kg in Germany. But i mean non Food in general, thats where you really often pay 2x or 3x times as much.
@YsraelComendador6 ай бұрын
when youre in the Tropics and expecting its cheaper than EU? of course it will not be the same
@llothar686 ай бұрын
@@YsraelComendador yes. I do. Because in Thailand it was cheaper. PH suffers from terrible corrupt government that want people be poor
@seans72285 ай бұрын
I'm gearing up for my first trip to the Philippines and planning on staying in an airbnb in Makati. If not staying in The Greenbelt, are the other areas of Makati dangerous? Can I walk at night? Lastly, where do I find a 1X/week maid/cleaning person? Thank you.
@JJthelonelybullinasia5 ай бұрын
@@seans7228 most places are not dangerous in the business areas of Makati. Just be aware of your surroundings and how late you're out.
@Imelda-u7o7 ай бұрын
Those who say that Philippine food is bad are basically vegetarian. Filipino foods are mostly meat-based but very savory. Lots of variations as well. Lots of veg based as well using local ingredients and healthy coconut milk. Filipino cuisine is a breed and mixture of different cultures, but using local ingredients and local style. Unique in that sense. Very unique in texture and taste.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@rodramzy91005 ай бұрын
@@JJthelonelybullinasia unhealthy food. Meat and rice mostly. Can't find low fat or fat free foods. God forbid you want to find some yogurt.
@JJthelonelybullinasia5 ай бұрын
@@rodramzy9100 you can get yogurt at the grocery stores here.
@BehindTheSc3nes5 ай бұрын
@@rodramzy9100 there's literally yogurt in every groceries and convenience store in the philippines 🥴what are you even talking about?🤦 And to be frank, filipino food is more nutritious than western food. If you know, you know.
@lenholloway43904 ай бұрын
I live in Mandaluyong, Metro Manila, I am from UK. The food here is very second rate, poor quality. Sugar in everything including bread, its awfull. I live in a condo with my Filipino wife, we have a maid three times a week. I own eight other properties. I am retired. We use my retrirement pension to visit UK several times each year
@beameup645 ай бұрын
I live in Baguio. In 2015 with the offer of Permanent Visa through PRA for $1500. I first visited Baguio in 1986 and decided to retire here after 2002. No longer interested in "dating" etc. I just hire a massager girl on occasion from the local massage spas. PS: I have a permanent caregiver/katulong.
@cseosborn8922 ай бұрын
Sounds exactly what I want. Do you get full service from the massage girl? Do they visit you or do you have to go the massage shop itself?
@generoxas68816 ай бұрын
Hi JJ, That was very good, i appreciate it very much .I am a Filipino, retired (Married to a Filipina too) living abroad since 1986....Just intertained with your blog. Keep it up.
@JJthelonelybullinasia6 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words and thanks for watching.
@rolandespina62207 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for your positive and real talk sharing about us and our country God Bless Sir!
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching
@jonathaneffemey9444 ай бұрын
Oh, and English is widely used here to a very high standard. I am trying to learn Tagalog, slowly. I must push on with this. And the weather. Always hot and humid.
@ron28234 ай бұрын
Very well articulated video + topic is spot on.
@JJthelonelybullinasia4 ай бұрын
@@ron2823 thank you
@fazaoaii7 ай бұрын
True. Those foreigners talking that small amount of expenditures per month surely living in the south provinces particularly visaya.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@gemox32257 ай бұрын
1700 a month means you are being thrifty if you pay circa 600 for rent and you travel a lot. You probably cook at home. 2000 US a month is a good figure for Bangkok too, and maybe Cebu City. The Philippines is a little dangerous in certain areas. How easy is it to get from BGC to the airport? Do you have to go through bad areas? Overall this was an informative, no nonsense video.
@JJthelonelybullinasia7 ай бұрын
Depending on traffic I can get from BGC to the airport in as little as 20 minutes, but sometimes it could be closer to 45 if the traffic is bad. No worry about bad areas. Yes I wouldn't want to live anywhere on less than 2,000 US a month. 1700 is an average. It can be more if my girlfriend and I eat out more, but she likes to cook at home and goes to Guadalupe to get groceries, which saves us a lot of money. The travel money is in addition to my monthly expenses. Thanks so much for watching.
@woutergijs52467 ай бұрын
BGC to the airport, going through dangerous areas ??? Just take a GRAB. Depending on the traffic and GRAB demand, guess it will be 250-400 peso. In a safe car 😊
@michaelcollins36283 ай бұрын
JJ I have lived in the Philippines for 10 years and this is one of the best and most accurate and informative videos of the Philippines I have ever seen. I started out living in the Province of N. Samar on the beach for my budget was $1,500 a month. I currently live in Mabalacat City Pampanga for the past 3 years and live very comfortably on $2,500 a month. I own my house and car, no rent, mortgage, or car payment.
@JJthelonelybullinasia3 ай бұрын
@@michaelcollins3628 nice. Thanks for watching.
@michaelcollins36283 ай бұрын
I agree with you I don't understand how anyone could live comfortably on less than a $1,000 a month.
@michaelcollins36283 ай бұрын
I met my Filipino wife in the states one of the first things she asked me is if I would be willing to retire in the Philippines.
@JJthelonelybullinasia3 ай бұрын
@@michaelcollins3628 do you live close to her family now?
@michaelcollins36283 ай бұрын
No her family lives in the Northern area of Mindanao (Butuan)
@BenignoBarandaMusic4 ай бұрын
💯% Filipino here, a resident of M.Manila. I agree will all your "myths" 💯 % . I won't consider them as "lies", though. Just a matter of conjecture. Enjoy your life here in the PH. (BGC is an amazing place. Cheers!)
@JJthelonelybullinasia4 ай бұрын
@@BenignoBarandaMusic Thanks. It's really great to get confirmation from a Filipino that what I talk about is accurate. Thanks for watching.
@Psp70933 ай бұрын
You’re absolutely right 😊😊😊
@franclaxa87176 ай бұрын
Sounds more like an expert than an expat already. Glad you like it here. Good advice overall. It would make a perfect tourism marketing video for the Philippines.
@JJthelonelybullinasia6 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@roelgallego16047 ай бұрын
Thats the dream of a every Filipino back then because of poverty but now a days Philippines is getting better and also we want to stay here with our family.
@AlanStevens-hm1ni6 ай бұрын
The value of the peso is going down.
@roelgallego16045 ай бұрын
@@AlanStevens-hm1nipeso is going down but flows like a big dam in china.dollar is high but few can afford to stay to those dollar nation resulting to homeless and jobless.want to go back here but its to late.its better now than before thats for sure..
@PinoyZo17 ай бұрын
Dating is easy if your Gwapo. If you basic looking or even ugly it’s definitely not gonna be easy.
@Eric-qm5xw7 ай бұрын
Exactly ..the difference is simply most guys are not attractive and or make the most of what they’ve got. Furthermore..most foreigners would be resigned to the scrap heap in the west.
@pingyu51417 ай бұрын
Yeah like MrSamSafari above... no chance.
@Patrick700077 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@chrisjuricichxl57 ай бұрын
well, it's easier than back in the States--I'm considered the 'good looking one' and my two mates are definitely 'average dudes' and they both do very well with the ladies.
@pinoyRN677 ай бұрын
money talks 😊
@travishartzler91555 ай бұрын
For 12+ years I lived in the Philippines very comfortably on less than $500 a month, but that was on and off from between 1995 and 2011. It's much more expensive now. The best way to find a relationship is to get involved in a local organization. Join a church, volunteer with a NGO, teach at a university or ESL, etc. Once you make a circle of friends, the matchmaking will start.
@maritesguillermo51087 ай бұрын
Yeah, BGC is the safest place in the Phils. So, foreigners live there. Quite a few Pinoys live there, also. I think next is Cebu IT Park.
@Mlmv2664 ай бұрын
If you prefer condo living The Makati Business District And Eastwood City , Ortigas Business are safe places to live in too . Greenfield area in Mandaluyong City is ok too. Lots of offices and restaurants
@rosalinacionelo53867 ай бұрын
Of course you’re in Greenbelt you can not live on 1,000 dollars
@lifeinnorthcarolina47704 ай бұрын
Hello JJ what an awesome video I learned a lot of things from you in this video thanks for sharing and it's so nice to meet you I am watching from Greensboro North Carolina Your New Friend.
@JJthelonelybullinasia4 ай бұрын
@@lifeinnorthcarolina4770 thanks for watching
@lifeinnorthcarolina47704 ай бұрын
@@JJthelonelybullinasia you are welcome 🙏 sir
@NildaSalvaGauna3 ай бұрын
Thank you, Sir, You are a Gentleman,May you find a kind, beautiful lady with a good Heart!
@JohanFitFoodie6 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing, relocating there after summer and trying to learn as much as possible before 😊🔥
@JJthelonelybullinasia6 ай бұрын
Best of luck! Thanks for watching.
@alzeal4 ай бұрын
Great video, filam here, US raised, went and lived in Philippines for 12 years for school, came back to US with my wife. Agree on all your points, pretty much sums up all of my experience with Pinas. 2k USD is the minimum for decent living, 3k is more optimal. My family and my wife’s family already have land and houses in the province so we can probably live for less. Dating in Pinas is way different from US, realize you’re also dating the girl’s family. Be respectful and dont go around breaking hearts. Once you find a genuine girl, cherish her and protect her and she will have your back for life.
@JJthelonelybullinasia4 ай бұрын
@@alzeal thank you for sharing and thanks for watching.
@thecontainerthecontents68892 ай бұрын
Disney movies are not historical record of phillippines culture and women sir
@cinemaveritae4 ай бұрын
"Outro" ... first time I've come across that term. I've worked in communications production a long time and we've always called it "extro." In broadcasting, there are also terms like "OBB" for opening billboard that comes before the program, and "CBB" for closing billboard at the end of the program. But nice video and thank you for liking and loving my country. Hope to see you somewhere around BGC.
@JJthelonelybullinasia4 ай бұрын
@@cinemaveritae thanks for watching and hope to see you too.
@pj63067 ай бұрын
Everything is on point 😊, grew up in the Philippines and lived in the US for quite a while now ( but frequently vacay and stays in BGC) I say everything you say is true 😊