8 Lies About the Philippines

[@NorbertoMercado-wq3qx]

THANK YOU JJ . You are a good friend of the Philippines ! I'm a movie producer-director-actor , and I appreciate foreigners who don't look down on us Filipinos. Thank you .

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

@@NorbertoMercado-wq3qx thank you for watching. Hopefully our paths will cross.

[@bigglesharrumpher4139]

If you find you don’t like the Phillipines, just leave, don’t bash it as it’s not your country or culture.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

@@bigglesharrumpher4139 who is bashing the Philippines? Did you actually watch the video?

[@JosephMerrington]

@JJthelonelybullinasia I would never look down on these people , there are Scammer Freeloaders all over the world , I have been poor too..!!...I'm a musician a traveler.

[@docinthephilippines]

@@JJthelonelybullinasia It's the thumbnail and title. I also though at first this would be one of those videos. Of course, I'm aware how difficult it is to get attention without appearing too sensational. And YT viewers are already used to all the negativity, that's why we almost expect something like this to be negative, but of course it's quite the opposite.

[@jimmylee1776]

I used to live in Greenbelt, Makati city. I had a maid who came to clean my apartment & do my laundry once a week. Her son who was about 10 years old used to come with her & helped her. I supported her children by giving them scholarships. I’m proud to say today, her 2 older children are graduates from University & her youngest son has started university. The family will not have to live in poverty with 3 graduates in the family. This is what foreigners can do to help the less fortunate in Philippines.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

That's fantastic. Great story and thanks for sharing.

[@LRP888]

@Jimmylee1776 God bless you more.. Abundantly🙏🏽😇

[@llothar68]

Graduating (depend on courses but 90% what universities teach is bullshit) doesn't mean a shit anymore in 2024 and for sure in the future. If you don't understand this you are a typical ignorant (i guess US american). We are at the end of capitalism and growth.

[@barryinthepi390]

We helped put our two daughters through College and one daughter married a clssmate. He is a Civil Engineer and now works for a Home Building company. He has since tarted 5 Busnisees in Alfonso and provides his friends with jobs. His sister is now an Accountant for a compny in Makati. I don't have to worry about giving money to family, they are doing well.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

@@barryinthepi390 that's fantastic. Thanks for sharing.

[@MrFxwizard14]

Excellent video and absolutely on the money. I have lived in Philippines for 20 years. I came here at 50 years old, now turning 71. I am with the same Filipina for all these years. You can have a good life here and your correct you will not live like a king on $1000 but $5000 a month will buy you the kingdom. I live in a very safe and high end subdivision and am a legal resident now. I am at home here. USA is a place i visit from time to time since I still own a home in Las Vegas, but my wife and I prefer the Philippines. I have never had any issues with safety. Philippinos are awesome and kind respectful people. All my friends are Filipino. I met my wife when she was teaching in South Korean. I found a very smart gal who was 31 years old at the time. We first moved to California where I owned a small online business. It was her idea to move our office to the Philippines 20 years ago. Today that business has grown to 2000 employees and my wife help me build that business and without her it might never have happened. Great move for me and I owe so much to the Philippines, I will be forever greatful to this wonderful country.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

What a great story. Thanks for sharing.

[@Cons2911]

That’s the thing, support.. instead of being against you. Nice one sir,

[@philippine_phin]

Awesome! How can I support your business? Or meet you and get advice on something similar?

[@rvc3545]

Love Ur story

[@MariaGarcia-il3id]

Nice story 😊

[@cosmickiwi08]

I live in a small province town on Neg Occ for the past 2 years, close to 5 beaches, 5 min walk to hospital, supermarket, wet market, 711 and a couple of restaurants. I rent a nice 3bdrm 2bth house for 10000php with a large secured yard with many fruit trees. I have aircon but dont use it as fans are enough. Ive got 3 German shepherd dogs for companionship, exercise and security and also a muticab 4x4 to to explore the area. Ive made good friends with quite a few locals and have a good social life. I buy healthy cheap food at the markets and cook ay home 90% of the time and eat gourmet meals as I'm an ex chef. I spend on average $800 USD a month and live like a king compared to my life back in the west and i was earning $75k there and always broke and in debt. Now saving money, debt free and no stress and feel like a king.

[@greek1966]

I think you're right...about how much it takes to live a comfortable life, in the Philippines..that's what I found after 12 visits to the Philippines, I decided to come and continue there for the rest of my life... I don't agree with the Lord who says you need $2000 to have a good life...I ended up in Cebu City, and I saw that if you have an income of €1000 you will have a comfortable life...I have visited Manila and Davao besides from Cebu, I found a very good single-family house for 18,000 pesos, I will not need electricity.. because it is my profession, I will build a generator to produce electricity .. and I will have it as a gift. Good luck in November 2024

[@raquelbongais8391]

Good for u.😊

[@solmoleta1426]

You got it all true! Im a Filipina living in Negros Island.Thanks for doing this video.I love my Country the Phil

[@MbocoNgawe]

Yeah I just came to the comments to see this. For sure 1k USD a month will buy quite a comfortable life here. I agreed with all the other points though

[@mikem9892]

Sounds like you are living the dream . Curious what the infrastructure is like there and if frequent typhoons/ storms are a major problem ?

[@AkosiMaya1818]

I'm a Filipina who grew up in the province and has an American bf now. We lived in the province of Bohol for only $500 or even less (if he doesn't go to a bar)😆. We rented an apartment. We do the groceries, I do almost all of the chores, I cook (he loves it)♥️ I clean, I do the laundry, so he didn't have to pay for a Maid☺️ . I'm single at 42, so my bf doesn't have to spend more. BGC is the most expensive place to live in, (maybe not for foreigners). I worked in BGC for few years, and can't even afford eating in restaurants everyday (had to bring packed lunch) 😆. Finding a good Filipina to date doesn't just depend where they are from, either she's from the city or province, it's always the character that we all have to check to look for a good husband/wife. ♥️

[@endlessroads9936]

Your boyfriend found a great girl. I been married 6 years now 25 mintues from BGC., and life is great, in usa a i was on lowside of the middle class, here i live like the top 5% .

[@mamasita65]

spot on

[@alanfoss8223]

Well stated..there is always "another side of the coin" you just have to be open minded but still be wise and cautious

[@CanadianAlieninthePhilippines]

I lived in Makati (Manila) for ten weeks and felt like I was living in hell. Since then, I moved to the island of Guimaras, considered provincial, and I’ve never been happier. Obviously, I hate cities with their congestion, busyness, pollution. Give me a province any day with the peace, fruit trees, and flowers that are in abundance here. I am retired and happy having found a wonderful, caring, and loving Filipina to spend the rest of my life with.

[@robertmangano3523]

Guimaras is beautiful mu friend has family there .I was there 2yrs ago

[@robertmangano3523]

@@CanadianAlieninthePhilippines good for you bro

[@erwinsembria2319]

I lived in Guimaras stop by guimaroast Cafe to chill

[@robertmangano3523]

@erwinsembria2319 next time I'm there I will

[@CanadianAlieninthePhilippines]

@@erwinsembria2319Where is that?

[@josieherrera9017]

One tip: Don't go to bars. Don't settle for waitresses, or housemaids. They'll be looking at foreigners as financiers. Go meet girls that work in offices, go to colleges.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Hanging out at colleges is kind of creepy, especially if you're a lot older and it's obvious you're not a student. But you're right about bar girls for the most part. Thanks for watching.

[@unitedstatesirie7431]

@@JJthelonelybullinasia are the single Philippine women that are the Christian ones more honest ?

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

@@unitedstatesirie7431 most Filipino are Christian, but many are not practicing Christians. It would be hard to know what percentage are more honest.

[@AngelOnEarth0614]

@@josieherrera9017 you can't go to colleges to hunt. Asian moms warn their daughters about pedophiles.

[@MidnightBloomer]

@@JJthelonelybullinasia not really. College students are considered old. Once a woman hits, 25 she'd be desperate to marry anybody because by the time a woman becomes 30 - she's undatable. I am 41 and I am an old maid and I am expired, lol!

[@justbehappy...123]

My European husband earns a decent salary when we were in Philippines. We were able to send our kids to the best exclusive schools. We were able to survive it because I was very frugal and I took very good care of his money I made sure every centavo was spent wisely. And put some savings in very good investments. He never asked me to work and for that, I was very grateful because I was able to take care of our family well. We're in our early 50s and hoping to retire in Philippines next year. Not as a King and Queen 😊

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

That's wonderful. Thank you for watching.

[@bobbyjames4300]

@@justbehappy...123 you might be the only Filipina that thinks that way. Good for you guys.

[@caddyinvictus]

@@bobbyjames4300 been married with a Filipina for 17 years already, she does the same thing, maybe you just had a bad experience. I meet my wife through her brother which is one of the first friends I made in PH. My advice its do not look for the girls in bars...just go out, meet people and it will come to you

[@bobbyjames4300]

@@caddyinvictus was a different time 17 to 20 years ago. My experiences have been good to be honest . Just never came across marriage material. Cheers.

[@caddyinvictus]

for sure but from a business standpoint, I don't care about that, I will go were its cheaper...I was looking at the latest Samsung galaxy watch, made in Vietnam, it could be Philippines but ye, too expensive to do it there...sad

[@grahamreid2132]

Sending money to a woman anywhere in the world you have never met is dumfounding to me.

[@samohtsolacad229]

because, theyre thinking of the pu**y in return

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Agreed

[@nostringsguy185]

Some might say dumb, not just dumbfounding.

[@grahamreid2132]

@@nostringsguy185 Every kind of dumb...No dumb left behind.

[@lindabuck2777]

@@nostringsguy185all of us have stated this. Dumb and dumberer!!! Unrealistic and think of it how many do this don’t listen. 🤔🧐🤨

[@josephcastaldo8677]

I’ve spent 21 years in the U.S. Army and been all over the world. In every location I’ve been to, including Europe, Hawaii, South America, and the US, there is a bad area and great areas. Learn where you’re at, know what to avoid, be cautious and you will be ok in nearly everywhere you go.

[@KumarKumar-fc2gc]

well, US schools and Malls too dangereous

[@lotusgift4022]

True just be vigilant about ur surroundings.

[@SonjaHand]

​@@KumarKumar-fc2gc Are You Serious! I lived all over the💪USA and Never experienced violence in a mall. 🧐 Watching over hyped attention grabbing new much!?! In too many years to count only one case where my kid left a bag and a woman stole it... Other than that you could sleep in the mall no problem except for security... Which is normal...

[@thebigmann81]

@SonjaHand there is a lot of smash and grabs at some malls in certain states but that is the ghetto black people from the hood most likely fatherless. That being said I'm not saying all black people do this.

[@lionelsanders180]

Absolutely

[@barryinthepi390]

Good video, I agree with all your points. I met my Filipina wife in Hong Kong. I am from Austin, Tx and I did eventually take her back to the USA where I was a Teacher on the Navajo Rez in Arizona. When I retired we moved back to Austin while she still was working. One day she asked if I still wanted to move back to the Phil. and I said yes. We have been back in the Philippines for 5 years now. We bought a house west of Tagaytay out in the country. We love it here and I always feel safe here. We have 5 dogs to make sure we are safe. It is a Paradise for us.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Congratulations! You are a success story. Thanks for watching.

[@joshuarizalforeman816]

Me too. I also met my wife in HK and we moved to the Philippines 5 years ago. We have a family, property, a business and a decent income. She wanted to come back to the Philippines to be near her family. No skin off my nose.

[@fuqutube]

"We have 5 dogs to make sure we are safe" = you aren't safe

[@chrisjuricichxl5]

@@fuqutube well, you're kinda right but you should explain why, you silly doofus. Use your words!

[@barryinthepi390]

@@fuqutube Why would you say that? We have a wall around our property and the dogs stay on our property. Our neighbors are all locals some of whom served in the US Miliitary for 20+ years, and others who we provide work. We have never hd one problem in the 5 years we have lived here.

[@-2u2]

Sending money to someone you have never met is just plain stupid.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

@@-2u2 yep

[@chiizuu752]

​@@DOWNR4NGEthey never stated it was exclusive to here, headass

[@jaimedu5350]

True!

[@josephinepolette8481]

Go help your own family and people in your country and then you can and should be proud of yourself and your achievements... and do it silently, without the need to publicize it... Shalom. 🌈 ⚖️ 🕊 ❤

[@m.cl.ballista4642]

When after divorce you realise you lost your money to...someone you did nt know really. Think about it..

[@DonDenver-r7v]

I lived in the Philippines well under a $1000 a month, I rented a 3 bedroom home completely furnished w/ Aircon split air for 240.00 US dollars a month, electricity was $60.00 a month & food for $250 a month with island hopping and scuba diving. Rented a condo after my lease was up for $500 a month in Davao. Boots on the ground is the best way to find a reasonable living arrangement.

[@marktrail8624]

True, but I like to say sandals on the ground !

[@ross9581]

Where??

[@DonDenver-r7v]

@@marktrail8624 agree but I don’t where sandals, never got use to them growing up.

[@DonDenver-r7v]

@@ross9581 Mintal about 17 miles north of Davao

[@marktrail8624]

@@DonDenver-r7v ... Just watch out for jungle rot if you're wearing boots everyday though !

[@wobbles47]

I moved to the Philippines from North Carolina 12 years ago. My income is $1300 US a month. My lifestyle is exactly the same as in North Carolina. I rent a decent house with three bathrooms and all have hot water 😊($210) a month. I'm not living in Manila, never did, never wanted to. I drive a decent car and a new motorcycle. My belly is always full and I don't waste money in crazy expensive restaurants. One man's idea of living like a king is not necessarily everyone's. You CAN live decently on $1000 a month. It all depends on how much rent you pay and the lifestyle you choose..PS. I don't have a ball and chain to support. The women here will bleed you dry and you wont even see it coming..

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Good points. Thanks for watching.

[@angelg2638]

Women, from anywhere, will bleed you dry. Stay single and enjoy life.

[@jasguy2715]

Boy, you got that right!

[@JupiterNeptun1579]

@@wobbles47 Oh Yes, you will be Supporting the whole family.

[@imeldageneroso8369]

@@JupiterNeptun1579 you have to look for an educated Filipina on a middle class family. Be smart. It's anywhere in the world, especially in third world.

[@1chuck23]

I currently live in Talisay, Cebu and I have a 2 bed 2 bath in a gated community with 24 hour security, costs me $195 for rent, $106 for electricity, around $300 for groceries, $30 for internet and $15 for water. This budget has allowed me to afford things that I enjoy like a PS5 with VR, and a wide open budget for entertainment. I love it!

[@johnhagan8107]

@@1chuck23 is it your own place? Not shared

[@1chuck23]

@@johnhagan8107 yep. All mines, no roommates, just me and my girlfriend. And that budget covers both of us.

[@antoniostamndley8272]

@@1chuck23 as somone a little nervous of sub division, How much area the fees for gate grass, and hoa please

[@1chuck23]

@@antoniostamndley8272 my particular subdivision charges 350 pesos a month

[@mamasita65]

talisay where me mate got his business a lot building happen there with a new mall also was built so u rent $195 a month electricity yep the meter go around fast water cheap but $15 seem to cheap most now like 600 peso electricity $300 u must have air cond on a lot

[@daviddarden1915]

Having lived in the Philippines 🇵🇭 back in 1991 at Clark Air Base, Philippines 🇵🇭. I was age 28. Now age 61. A widower and all my children are grown now. Planning a return and reretirement next year in 2025 at age 62. I believe budget coordinate where you live at. Now, I think a simple man 👨, who do not smoke or drink alcohol. I estimate $1,500 on average in my opinion. That budget would fit most of the Philippines 🇵🇭. Eventually I will utilize the American Military 🪖 Philippines sponsored SRRV program 😄. Thank you for this video and updates for the Philippines 🇵🇭 😊

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Thanks for your service sir. The veteran SRRV is great for you. Thanks for watching.

[@BearInThePhillipines]

Hope to buy you a beer at Tequila reef and tour the old airforce base

[@silynita]

Better move to a place with better medical facilities. We are severely lacking in that area.

[@angelg2638]

​@silynita what about the Veterans Hospital in QUEZON CITY? Not good?

[@petesie8371]

I was stationed at Clark from 1986-1990. I loved it there. Had to leave for an assignment in Germany. I'm 59 and can't wait to visit the Philippines again. I will ge looking into retiring there if I find the place I feel comfortable. I'm keen on Dumagette, BGC, Cebu City, and Mactan. Who knows, maybe will meet one day! Stay safe and wishing you the best...

[@mellmendoza1049]

If you live in BGC or any of the tourist havens, no, u can't live on 1K a month but it definitely is enough to live comfortably in the provinces.

[@tobiasdelabarra6086]

great answer. But could you give some examples of provinces with decent wifi and good oportunities for dating as a foreigner?

[@whatevergoesforme5129]

As a Filipino living in Las Pinas City, 1k usd a month is doable to a single person in a Metro Manila suburb that is not high end. The problem is foreigners from the West have first world problems and are used to their high standard of living

[@notacooldudewithanattitude2731]

@@tobiasdelabarra6086 Baguio is a good spot. also nice weather

[@klhughes]

@@tobiasdelabarra6086 Good dating exists all over the Philippines. Good Wi-Fi is an entirely different story. Starlink is the answer to that.

[@yamisukehiro1258]

​​@@tobiasdelabarra6086I Think if you are looking for decent wifi in provinces you could buy starlink by elon musk alot of foreigners using that in philippines since it was satellite internet connection.

[@MuichiroAme]

I'm a Filipino, and i am happy to see a foreigner who is ACTUALLY wise and smart when it comes to the Philippines and then sharing your advices & opinions to others. I have watched alot of KZbinrs not being smart & wise enough and then will have some complains while they are in the Philippines. Take the food for example; The food quality depends on the food shop/restaurant, some food shops & restaurants sells dishes and foods that doesn't taste good, but majority of the food shops & restaurants has good food quality. So this means that KZbinrs who had tasted dishes on food shops and complained that it was unfair/didn't taste good were blinded/not wise, and they didn't know that not all food shops/restaurants has good food quality. Another example is about dating; dating a Filipina whom you don't know in real life or did know in real life, but you don't know who she *really* is, then you are probably in an unhealthy relationship because not ALL Filipinas are friendly and seeks serious relationship/real love. Some of Filipinas will date you because of your wealth and you being a foreigner, so they will start using your money unfairly and too much, like using it for personal needs. Which means that Foreigners whom in the end, got scammed/left by their Filipina girlfriends were not wise when it comes to relationship

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

@@MuichiroAme thank you for sharing. And thanks for watching.

[@mamasita65]

yes she filipinas see forigners think we rich but there is a lot are around 60% now 20% average 20% poor also but forigners start be smarter now why there not bringing them there country there staying philippines because they cannot live there country because the living pressure and in philippines they can rent cheap or build a house or buy a condo to own filipino food really good I like it more then western food as gets boring here I eat filipino food most nights as im married to one, it doesnt matter where u go in the world food can be good or poor philippines for me just a holiday thats enough I look forward come home my soil fresh air no polluction no corruption can walk down the street freely wear a necklace or have a nice watch on,dont have to lock u self behind bars or have security with guns go the mall here freely drive me car go places be there in 10 minutes where philippines like a hour polluction the worse now, u have to pay insurance live there so as I said ask filipinos where they really like to live many stay in Philippines if wages were good have a pension when older can get a work no matter the age take care the parents

[@Yes-bk9cl]

Don't make any COMMITMENTs within the first 24 months of your stay. That's property wise, business, charity or relationships! Salamat po!

[@RC-hr9oq]

What do you do for health care??

[@bardwheelo]

@@RC-hr9oq That's a tough one. In Thailand health care is not bad but you do need to be careful. They can make an incorrect diagnosis. In Indonesia it's hit and miss. I wouldn't go to a Cambodian hospital. In Viet Nam they're not bad either, but you need to be in Sai Gon to find a specialist. I have experience in all of these. But in the US it's not that great either. It's very easy to get a bad diagnosis by a doctor or have them miss something that's critical. Unfortunately, I went through this with two doctors at the top of their game in Los Angeles. The US isn't what it used to be. Most doctors play scared. Covid did that.

[@tangonista]

@@bardwheelo You're right on about the US health care system. If you are very wealthy and well connected you're golden (assuming your doctors don't make mistakes). I'm on medicare advantage and although I theoretically have access to first class medical care, it's just not true in reality. I bet that if you have the same cold cash you need in the US, with insurance, you'd get decent care in PH.

[@bardwheelo]

@@tangonista I hope that's the case. Fortunately, I have no experience with it. Filipinos are very bright, but it would be unfair to say only certain nationalities are intelligent. It's culture that hobbles some.

[@TotoPagalunan]

You're Absolutely Right❤️❤️❤️🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭

[@joshuarizalforeman816]

#1. I agree. My wife and I earn around USD 3000 pcm, and pay no rent since we own our properties. I am not going to live like a pauper. I have two kids, one of whom is at school and the other is at university. We own 3 residential and 3 commercial properties. We don't need to think about costs. That doesn't make me a flash c**t, just a realist and being honest. #2. Dating. I met my wife in person, in HK at a barbecue catered by a German/Filipina couple we both knew. We dated for a few months in the traditional sense - dinner, drinks, movies, etc, and then hooked up permanently after our son was born. (we are around the same age). #3. Food - I love the fresh vegetables and fruit and the fish, especially sisig, lechon, smoked tilapia and traditional dishes. Pancit is a staple in our house. #4.Danger? Do me a favour. I have no safety issues here at all. I feel safer here than I did in London or even HK. Just don't be a prick and create problems. #5. Never met a scammer here. If my wife is scamming me, she's playing a pretty long game - 12 years and counting. #6. I cannot comment. I live in Antipolo/Theresa Rizal. I have no experience of BGC. However, having lived in HK for a number of years, pretty much everywhere is comparatively cheap! #7. No comment. I am a married man! #8. My wife has been overseas on numerous occasions but she would rather stay here. Suits me.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Great comments sir. Thank you for sharing.

[@eatsmylifeYT]

Wow, you live in Teresa? Me too!

[@joshuarizalforeman816]

@@eatsmylifeYT I'm more than happy to meet up for a beer or a coffee. We have property in Antipolo and Teresa.

[@mihangelap-williams9871]

@@joshuarizalforeman816 I visited the caves there, stunning

[@poloshirtsamurai]

I'm a Filipino from QC and I agree, $1k won't let you live like a king. Only lower middle class. You're not poor but definitely not a king.

[@SDesWriter]

@@poloshirtsamurai it’s easy to live less than $1000 a month but you have to have your home and transportation in place first. Even with electricity going up the total for bills comes to under $400 a month which leaves you $500 for entertainment expenses and gas. Certainly not living like a king, but a gross exaggeration to say you’ll be living in a shack with outdoor plumbing.

[@theinqov]

@@SDesWriter Funny po, I just wrote something very similar!

[@merlealonzo9727]

I have a farmhouse in Batangas( 2 bedrooms) and a Caretaker My operating expenses monthly is 250$ We commute by public transportation Food costs 35% of the total expenses but that is reduced to 20% because we have a backyard full of vegetables and fruits trees. Its Near Tagaytay

[@poloshirtsamurai]

@@merlealonzo9727 Grew up in Pangil, Laguna. The rent there they is around $35 for a two-storey house they say. I'm paying around $200 here in QC. I want to someday go back there. I'm bored with the city life personally, but my family is used to it because my wife and kids all grew up here, haha.

[@AlexManalo-b2p]

1.000 US dollars pensions here in the Philippines is so much enough to live a decent classy way especially in the province outside manila

[@ngsocal]

@AlexManalo-b2p I agree. As per this guy in the video you need more like $ 2,000./month. The majority of Filipino professionals don't even make close to it, not even the majority of doctors. Of course I can rent a $ 1,000. apartment in BGC etc., then you need $ 2,000+

[@Carrilleptbreak]

Had a condo in Pasig for a few years, ended up in the Province. La Union and Tarlac where we rent a house for $220 a month. Apartment (2 Bed) in La Union 5 minutes to the surf is $175 a month. Very little pollution and no crime in the Province. Major pollution and pick pockets in the NCR/ Metro. My wife had her earrings ripped out while walking in a crowd and a laptop stole from her bag. 17 trips since 2011 and these are true stories. Can't wait to retire in the Province! Know what your getting into folks, do the research.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Thanks for the advise and thanks for watching.

[@cocomine8897]

Every nation there are good and bad, we should not lower our guards at all times even in the rural areas because nowadays the drug addicts are spreading and once they have nothing to consume they'll find ways to satisfy their desires, that's how horrible the cartel and syndicate ruining the world.

[@athenstar10]

I live in QC my whole life, have witnessed a robbery once in when I went to college in Manila. Still in QC, worked everywhere in the Metro but never saw another incident. I don't know what's up with you, but I always have instincts and know where to/ where not to go and what not to bring in sketchy places.

[@Cons2911]

Yeah, don’t wear those in Manila

[@jerichojohnson3219]

CURIOUS? HOW IS YOUR MONTHLY ELECTRIC OR AIR CONDITIONING BILL ? ARE YOU IN THE BAGUIO = COOLER ZONE ? LA UNION ?

[@dinewalton]

You can live very well with only $1000 in the Philippines country side. As long as you are ok with just watching Netflix all day, walking to the beach, and cooking your own food, $1000 is more than enough for a small house, air con and high speed internet.

[@hynahammond5741]

True,$1000 living in the province by the beach is possible in Cebu and Bohol the food is cheap,but beef is very expensive at SM, hard to find fresh milk, you can't be picky when it comes to food, but everything else is great in the Phil.

[@dinewalton]

@@hynahammond5741 Can only eat a ribeye in the PH once a month, but can do a home made burger 2-3 times a week, which is fine by me. Everybody knows about sunday lechon, but the shrimp in the PH is super cheap and 10x better than the US

[@dustinperry828]

Spot on video. Agree with all points. Im 10 years living here on a pemsion Married to a young woman in 20,s Kids ,large house that we built with swimming pool and maids house,and 2 maids 1 nanny and a boyfor outside chores All my costs including a brand new car payment equals around 2500 Tip ( i pay my workers around twice what they would earn working for filipino and in doing so they stay ,work hard and are happy.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

That's good advise. Thanks for watching.

[@hynahammond5741]

what part in the phil do you live for $2500 with all the comfort

[@norbertapostol5705]

about myth #5, you know it's very hard to catch a filipina's heart. that is if she has a heart. so before you dive into her make sure she has a heart.

[@CarmenBanks-vt4yt]

Good point!

[@JinkyJoyceAguilar]

😂😂😂

[@happysolitudetv]

True

[@jeanleveriza1]

Hahaha!! Maybe thats why i have remained single, having been separted for 16 years 😂

[@schmitty139]

Goes for Americana women as well..in fact ct all

[@wolfhard2420]

I am living on far less than 1000 a month and I am fairly happy here. Most Filipinos do. 30 to 50k monthly is the average income for an average family with kids. If you wanna go out a lot and mostly eat in a restaurant, ok, that will significantly increase your costs. The most dangerous factor, however, is a demanding wife or girlfriend that can easily multiply your spending significantly, esp if the whole clan is involved in milking the “foreigner cow”

[@YouDcm]

Minimum wage in Manila, which is what most are making is about 17,000k/month. Go outside of Manila and it's much less. Not sure where you're getting 30-50k from?

[@marciestoddard730]

That's kinda on you for getting milked like a cow buddy

[@KC-in9px]

​@@YouDcm Try improving your comprehension. A family income isn't necessarily the same as an individual's income.

[@YouDcm]

@@KC-in9px Most filipino families there is only one bread-winner that all the rest leach off. 17,000 pesos/month is minimum wage and that's what most filipinos make. It's not opinion, it's fact.

[@StanleyOlivar]

Your expenses depend on where you live, HOW you live (lifestyle), and who you live with. It’s a matter of good planning, self-discipline and determination. By and large, your US dollar goes a long way in the Philippines. Having said so, wherever you end up in this mother planet, it’s really up to you whether you succeed or fail. ✅

[@aresjack2810]

You are spot on. I am here 11+ years and live half the year in the province and half in Manila and this has to be just about the most accurate Ph advise video I have seen. Good Job.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Thanks for watching. I appreciate the feedback.

[@StevenBagato]

My Filipina wife is 37 years younger than me. We’re going on 10 years of marriage . She spent 4 years in the USA . Didn’t want to become a USA citizen . We moved here in 2020 and I love living here . A couple can live comfortably on 3,000 a month . That’s an apartment with a pool and all your expenses . Remember if you have a Girlfriend or a Wife you’re going to spend more if you’re dating . Hahaha

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

@@StevenBagato that's a good budget. And like your wife most filipina would rather live in the Philippines. Thanks for watching.

[@gordonkistler-qo2dj]

I just returned from Panabo City Davao Del Norte where I spent the last 4 months it wasn't dangerous at all, I am going back next month and getting married and staying for good!

[@woutergijs5246]

Congratulations with the marriage 🎉😊

[@jasonl8069]

That’s our home is Panabo !

[@Borsia]

Hi JJ So just to preface I have lived in the PH for over 12 years and am married to my Filipina wife, together for 7 married for 3, dated here for years before. I will say that I agree pretty much 100% with your myths analyses. I live very well on my SS here in Valencia but I lived for 6 years in Tagaytay and while I was OK I certainly didn't live "high on the hog". I still live rather modestly but that's just our nature. We have pretty much all the comforts we need / want. Nice place AC modern kitchen etc. One thing is that you HAVE to start with a considerable "setup fund" I would say a minimum $5-10k usd just to get the basics. After that maintaining is reasonable cheap, vastly cheaper than the US. Dating is never easy anywhere but dating here is easier than other countries I've lived in US, China, South America. But it's going to take a long time to find the right fit no matter where you are. I like Philippine food but miss many of the foods I grew up with in the US and ingredients for cooking can be very hard to find and expensive. Never been to BGC so no opinion on that Tagaytay is one of the most expensive places to live. Liked the video take care

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Thanks for your take on things here, and thanks for watching.

[@isaacg.9857]

Honestly, I would say even southern Mindinao is safer than most American cities as long as you stay away from the known trouble spots.

[@stevegilmore1940]

@@isaacg.9857 Agreed. The only time I ever felt unsafe was in Metro Manila. Never in South Cotabato have I felt unsafe.

[@11957gary]

Been here 7 years on $1180.00/ month. I found a one bedroom apartment for a hundred dollars a month and because i paid them two years in advance i got it for $40 per month. I bought farmland on payments. $100.00/ month, no interest charges. The electric on Dinagat Islands is cheep. I left the aircon in my room on 24hours a day for 30 days it was $80.00 for the month. I have a refrigerator freezer Tv and a yard light thats on all night. I think $2000/ month is a good living here on this island.

[@blackwoodrichmore4531]

Are you Filipino?, because you should know that foreigners cannot buy & own land in the Philippines.

[@AdamSahr-cj4kf]

Dating a friend's girlfriend's friend is the last thing I would do, if at all. What happens if the relationship doesn't last? What happens if your friend's relationship doesn't last? Plus, you may find yourself prisoner of the friendship between the two couples and get bored in the end...

[@eu7435]

Adam, you make a good point. You could ruin two or three relationships instead of just one when the coupling goes south.

[@WTHenry2023]

Agreed, I have not and will not date within my friend group. It will complicate your life enormously when the inevitable breakup happens.

[@AdamSahr-cj4kf]

@@WTHenry2023 Just imagine your friend's wife or partner behaving as if or reminding all the time that she did you a huge favour and that without her service you would have been a nobody...

[@antoniostamndley8272]

@@AdamSahr-cj4kf ya they stick like glue, your in the freezer, and the family, time to move

[@mariceldb2990]

Anywhere you go if you allow yourself to be scammed, it’s your fault. Even here in Buffalo NY, my husband’s watch was snatched by a seemingly friendly stranger.

[@LoveyourLife-1970]

Totally agree. Some people spread the $500 to $1500 story because that is all they have or they want to live a basic life. But if you want to be able to truly say that you live well here, the minimum in MY opinion to have as a monthly income amount is roughly $3000. I base this on the fact that last month alone I spent over 70,000 pesos ($1, 215) on hospital appointments. So having an emergency/medical fund that you put into each month on top of every day living expenses is important. Our light bill tops $200 a month (we have a full size fridge, a mini fridge, a deep freezer, 5 ACs and 3 TVs) because we saw no reason to lower our quality of life, nor wanted to. Dating is no easier here than in other countries. There just happens to be a higher number of females here than there are males. Many of the local males do not have or make enough money to provide for their families as well as the female's family. And here comes this foreigner with a social security check that equals as much as 4 months' pay for many jobs here. But that does not mean that every woman will jump for joy at the thought of being with a foreigner (not even every bar girl wants to actually date one outside of getting paid). The reality is... if given the option of a successful native man or a foreigner that is poor in his own country, they would pick their local men simply for the enjoyment of having the culture in common. I have had some great food here. Both Filipine dishes and American dishes. But what people need to understand is the the spices here are not the same spices as we find back in our own countries. Mainly because western countries tend to alter the flavor of many spices while taking them through the bulk processing. If one is looking for meat like in their countries, there are importers here on pretty much every island that gets Aussie, and USDA beef from companies in the west. They can also order many of their normal seasonings from Amazon. As a black man, raised in Mississippi, traveled the US in the military, I feel far safer here than in most small US towns. I go on morning walks of 5 to 8 miles through all the small neighborhoods and have yet to be stopped by a police, or a citizen and asked why I am there. (I actually had this happen while through an area just outside of Fort Jackson, SC by a police while I was there for Recruiter's School, and it was an almost every day occurrence for me and my friends growing up in our 'lost in time' Mississippi city). There are scammers, gold diggers, leaches in EVERY country. In most western countries, they use the guilt tactic to get you to give them money while making you think it was your ideal to do so. Not many single immigrants here make enough for a true gold digger, and being scammed just shows how little common sense the man uses (blinded by a YOUNG, fit and friendly GIRL). And as you said, sending money to some pretty girl that tells the same lie of "I love you asawa" to 17 other guys online is like trying to outbid the other guys. We live in Carmona Cavite in a 4 bedroom, 2 bath, fenced in house in a gated community and our rent is $445 a month with a monthly spending budget of $3000). There are many buffets that cost less than 5 dollars a person. Going to places like TGIF will cost more than many non-western food chains. The only ones that are just set on the dream of living in America tend to be the ones that are found in bars and are fascinated by the bright lights and big parties they grew up seeing on TV. Most Filipinas do not want to be pulled away from their customs, their families or their comfort and end up being controlled by a man in a foreign country (it happens). Some do want to go simply because if they are lucky, they will have an opportunity to have a career, build a life, gain knowledge and a sense of pride in themselves. We met and married in Korea, spent 10 years in Texas and she was more than ready to come back home. She still says that she would rather go live in Korea than to go back to the US.. ( I agree with her)

[@mrwonderful612]

Well stated and dead on! I agree with everything you wrote. I'll add that another incentive to marry and go to America is the status that it will add to the mother whose daughter "lives in America." Plus, she may become better able to provide for her family in the Philippines; which I imagine is why your wife went to work in South Korea. I'm ashamed of what you had to endure growing up in my country's South; police scrutiny, Sunset Laws, prejudice and unfairness. Yet, I see you from your Profile that you served our country in the military. Thank you for your service. You know your stuff, Bruh! Maybe you should start your own youtube channel. I'd hit that Subscribe button! ❤💯

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Thank you for sharing your story. And thanks for watching.

[@LoveyourLife-1970]

@@mrwonderful612 Yeah, she went to Korea so that she could provide for her daughter who was 5 years old at the time. 10 years later, we met while I was stationed there, then we spent the first 10 years together in the US until she was ready to come back home. She was ok in the US, making good money on the nursing staff at a hospital. Even bought her own Big girl car with her own money (she misses that). We have a channel, but we do not speak about the culture over here, nor the culture back in the US on it. Its just going to be a simple channel covering our house build once we start, and then maybe a few beach trips here and there.

[@Midwest10]

I’m on El Nido and live a basic middle class life of $8000 US a month.

[@LoveyourLife-1970]

@@Midwest10 yeah, ok... That's real believable

[@Cowboysfan4ever]

My electric in calamba city is between 8,000 -15,000 php ($140.00-$265.00 a month) with full air con for a two bedroom house. Still cheaper then the $400.00 -500.00 I was paying in the US. But in fairness, where I’m living now is about 6-8 times smaller at least then my US house.

[@bigbearhugebear9018]

Yep you are honest. If you want to duplicate your western living in the PI it will cost you at least 3-4 times more money than in the states....

[@glenhazlett4360]

I sold my house and bought an RV to live out of. I split my time in Florida and Ohio. The campground is gated, has a heated swimming pool, gym, laundry room, bar, clubhouse and I pay $400 a month for rent, $110 for electric, $120 for internet, and $80 for phone. I do spend about $450 for groceries. So I can live in the U.S. for less than $1,500. My rent will go up in 2025 though I've been doing this for four years. Florida does not have state income tax which is a big plus. The only reason I can see going to the Philippines is for a woman.

[@Cowboysfan4ever]

@@glenhazlett4360 I considered doing that also but what brought me here is learning a new culture and to travel throughout Asia and Australia. Since my father was a 30 year veteran of the USN we traveled all over the US as a kid. I wanted something different

[@jamescopeland-j9l]

Electric use to be very cheap, The last 12 to 15 years it changed a lot. I came here 1972 5 times on ship in the Marines,1992 I started coming here on my own now I stay. The one thing you can't beat here is the rent. Depending on where you live it's all lower than America.

[@paulshamblin6260]

I met my beautiful wife online. I knew her 2 years before I went and married her. Best thing i have ever done in my life. She's in the US with me now just over a year. Amazing. We are remodeling the house. She's been on the roof and under it with me. There's nothing she wont or can't do.

[@darrenjones2396]

The Philippines is one of the best places in the world to retire. I'm glad I made the decision to retire there from the US.

[@AvonOng]

Hi

[@ZenaidaRoxas-yk8pp]

1000 dollars is small a budget to live like a King! Everything here has gotten so expensive after Covid but of course compare to AU it is cheaper here. I have an Australian partner and hes a digital nomad a solar /electrical engineer and I work as an Account Manager at American Express in BGC. We have our own house in Bulacan about 45 mins from Makati/BGC. We love it here, and he loves it too because he lives like a King and get to provide jobs for our workers. Foreigners really love it here you just have to choose where to live. Traffic is always a problem, the road is not good too but it's safe here. My partner is used to 1st world efficiency and standards but he has learned the hard way that this is a different world altogether. Life in the Philippines is pretty good. BGC is expensive to most but it's not that expensive it's still cheaper compare to Melbourne. Heaps of great restaurants, like Amano, Steak and Fries, and the restos in Mitsukoshi. Yup, it's hard to find girls to date for foreigners in BGC!!! Haha! A foreigner must be a professional and well educated and almost of the same age group.

[@thunderegg670]

I work online as a conversational English tutor through a US company. I rent a larger, comfortable, single-floor three bedroom house just south of Davao for all of $170/month (P10K). My girlfriend and I keep our bills low, as there are comforts we can do without, such as aircon. I come from the hot dry desert of eastern Oregon, so I'm used to the heat. I have been able to tolerate the humidity of the Philippines. I've also lived without a lot of extras in eastern Oregon, US. This is nothing new to me. My girlfriend is a stay-at-home mother, and three of her four kids live with me there. She has had to work as a single mom for at least two years on a measly income in a laborious job, so she is extremely experienced with managing money for the sake of her kids needs and future. We are able to budget on my income of slightly less than $1K/month. We do not "live like kings", but we are not destitute. It can be done if one doesn't get euphoric and stupid over how cheap everything is compared to the cost of living in the US. Do your research, and keep it real.

[@user-DrJoe-Future]

Outstanding post. I agree with you 100%. I'm a retired American, now age 73, living in Cebu City Philippines with my new family - a Filipina wife and two twin teen daughters. After being married twice in the U.S., I have never been happier in my life. The wife is phenomenal, and the kids are the best kids I have ever had - period. Hard working, respectful, and responsible. I feel truly blessed. Unlike you, I have to admit I've lived a hard working but spoiled life, and I need my A/C. I've worked in an air conditioned office for the past 18 years, with a fully A/C home. It can get brutally hot out here in Cebu - high or low humidity. Money management is key, and Filipinos are good at that, they have to be. I am fortunate enough to be living very well here in Cebu City, living much better than I did in the U.S., and living much healthier and happier. But I do miss "home." I live on about $5,500 to $6,000+ a month here. But I'm retired after 45 years of working, and deserve to live happy for my remaining years after 24 years in the military and 21 more years working for the Government. The work was difficult, high pressure, and dangerous. So who knows how long I have left.

[@marciestoddard730]

Any recommendations for english tutoring companies that actually pay? Thanks!

[@boyscout-p3u]

the best advice for electric bill is buy a good brand inverter ac. mine runs 24/7 in manila only spend like 4.5k pesos a months total for all appliances in the house

[@rfbos]

Impossible unless you set the temp very high like 29c-30c. Do the math of PhD elec rate by kph the unit is rated for. Especially last month or 2 with high heat index.

[@boyscout-p3u]

@@rfbos its real with a good inverter ac. i use midea ushaped 1.5hp, one 60 watt fridge, led lights and one basic pc. ac runs 24/7 at 26c average. 4.5k is average for the year, it can peak at 5.5 during the summer

[@JLBisHatedbyPresidentXiEven]

@@boyscout-p3u 26c isn’t the most optimal temperature for most people . The person who says fans are enough . I don’t even know if he’s human or a bot . You could see on live broadcasts some Filipinas were ready to faint live on the air . So no fans aren’t even close to enough . All they do is push warm air around .

[@boyscout-p3u]

@@JLBisHatedbyPresidentXiEven i set the ac to 26, when i feel its getting warmer i lower it to 16, then set it back to 25-26 which gets me the 4.5k bill. also helps if there is another room on top of your room to sheild from the sun. i heard daikin split type inverter ac(the highest end model) give even more savings in power

[@derekwatson7037]

@@boyscout-p3u Not true. I have exactly the same model aircon. Live alone. Elec about 7-8,000/month.

[@MoralHazard-g1e]

JJ, you need to get out more. Living in BGC is giving you a skewed perspective. Very few areas are as expensive as there. The $1K is quite doable and comfortable with comparable quality of life, without resorting to primitive conditions outside of expat havens like BGC, Makati, Cebu IT Park.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

I'm happy living here and being very comfortable. Thanks for watching.

[@Glen820]

BGC is a world away from the real Phils which is not for everyone to be sure ... but scads cheaper I live in an area of Mindanao where prices are less than half of JJ's quotes and my family of 4 and I have a hard time spending $1500/month living a very comfortable life, eating out a fair amount especially my wife and I for lunches and wanting for nothing ... albeit our house is paid for ... but BGC is not a good representation of the costs and more on par with 'tourist traps' like Palawan

[@john-yt1fm]

BCG is not the philippines why come from western country only to try and find western in an east asian country If you are saying you try to save on your budget then you are in the wrong place

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

@@john-yt1fm I choose to live here. You're free to live where you want. Thanks so much for watching.

[@mariapug]

@@JJthelonelybullinasiadon’t mind them. I’m a Filipino living in Texas, and I plan to semi-retire in the Philippines. Only place I want to live is BGC because it’s modern, convenient, and clean. Also, top notch hospital is nearby. I’ve been to the provincial areas many times. Yes, cheap but not my lifestyle.

[@BenignoBarandaMusic]

💯% Filipino here, a resident of M.Manila. I agree will all your "myths" 💯 % . I won't consider them as "lies", though. Just a matter of conjecture. Enjoy your life here in the PH. (BGC is an amazing place. Cheers!)

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

@@BenignoBarandaMusic Thanks. It's really great to get confirmation from a Filipino that what I talk about is accurate. Thanks for watching.

[@stillscion-bf7tg]

Hi, I'm from Philippines. I like you're beautiful, simple, practical views in the Philippines regarding your own experience. Keep making more vlogs regarding your observations in Philippines Culture and US livings

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Thank you for watching

[@vbyssey100]

Mabuhay - The myths to the myths - Seriously, a pretty fair assessment of the country -

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Thanks for watching

[@MichaelLeHoullier]

I have visited the Philippines three times this year and Metro Manila is about the LAST place I want to live of the places I've been. That isn't to say there aren't great places and things in Manila, there are, buy it isn't my kind of vibe. I love Cavite and may relocate there if I can at some point. It's much less expensive than Metro Manila and there are great places throughout the province. Siquijor and Marinduque are amazing provinces but perhaps not so easy to relocate to until ready to retire. As to safety, it's not as safe as my native New Hampshire or Taiwan where I have lived for more than two decades. However, seeking the advice of locals wherever I am, I have never really felt in danger, either. An open mind, a smile and a willingness to engage with the locals gets one a long way. I love the Philippines and plan to return again in January.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

@@MichaelLeHoullier that's awesome. Thanks for sharing and thanks for watching.

[@NoName-zm1ks]

Great to hear from someone who lives in a country others pitch as a place where an individual can live comfortably for $1000 USD and to hear the truth! We need more of these locals to tell us the truth about cities in other countries.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Thanks for watching

[@llothar68]

For me everything is more expensive in the Philippines if you calculate it based on quality in Europe/German. But what makes it cheaper is the climate (no heating bills, only one set of clothings) and that it's easy to scale down your living cost without feeling too bad, because the others are. Key focus is to have a simple house yourself that you can build and improve, eat local seasonal food, have your own garden for some veggis that you dont get on the markets, get used to live without AC and dive a bike or simple car (i love the minicabs).

[@katyagrad3704]

Wait... you're saying the quality of produce is not as good as in the West? Doubtful

[@llothar68]

@@katyagrad3704 Produce is often much more expensive in the Philippines. Especially if you eat a little western. How can fucking Potatoes be so expensive, like 90 pesos per kg? I pay rarely more then 30 pesos in Germany. Meat price is higher in PH, only Avocados, Mangos, Banana, Rice and Fish. But even Rice is almost the same now as i get it for 60 pesos a kg in Germany. But i mean non Food in general, thats where you really often pay 2x or 3x times as much.

[@YsraelComendador]

when youre in the Tropics and expecting its cheaper than EU? of course it will not be the same

[@llothar68]

@@YsraelComendador yes. I do. Because in Thailand it was cheaper. PH suffers from terrible corrupt government that want people be poor

[@ItsCal2024]

BGC is an upscale area. I worked here (as a local) for seven years and interacted with foreigners living in condominiums like Serendra, Bellagio, and Park McKinley. Even foreigners are aware of the high cost of living here. So, he’s absolutely right when he says you can’t live like a king on under $1000. It’s even more expensive if you bring your family and need to enroll your kids in one of the international schools in the area, such as ISM, BSM, MJS, and KISP. I have had foreign students from those schools at an after School Academy in the past. I observed their lifestyle and can say they live comfortably, but far from being kings and queens. Other KZbinrs who claim it’s cheap here probably didn’t stay in Central Business Districts; they likely spent time in islands or rural areas.

[@chiqsilog8336]

Loved your vlog, thought it was very accurate. I've been married for 12 years living in NZ, Philippines and UK, together we have been worked towards our goal of retiring in the Philippines. I like the provenances and the beaches (in small doses) but I love BGC. I love the wide uncluttered sidewalks, the ease of getting around, the green areas, and the cleanliness of it.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

I do too. Hope to see you here and thanks for watching.

[@apolloseven585]

Very good. Being honest with living in the Philippines. At the same time being courteous and respectful.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Thank you

[@graerindley6312]

After 37 years of frequent visits to the Philippines for long terms, I can tell you that there are times when you will be scammed if you get very close to Filipinos, but certainly there are plenty of Filipinos who would never scam you.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

True

[@thecontainerthecontents6889]

Yes the dead ones in graveyards

[@sjv9147s]

IMHO, squatter-like living is like under-$250. Provincial/native living ranges anything from $500~$1,000. And reasonably comfortable big-city living like Metro Manila, Manila Bay area, Makati and Quezon cities would cost upward of $1,500. It's not at all easy for a foreigner to work and use that to live comfortably in the Philippines. You will always spend more than the possibility of earning there. As a vacation spot, it's great.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Yes. Thanks for watching

[@wearemysticking]

Interesting, when it comes to money, I think it really depends on the life you want to live. If you want to live a western life then I agree with you, but if you want a simple provincial life it can be done for a lot less.

[@jonathaneffemey944]

Oh, and English is widely used here to a very high standard. I am trying to learn Tagalog, slowly. I must push on with this. And the weather. Always hot and humid.

[@PinoyZo1]

Dating is easy if your Gwapo. If you basic looking or even ugly it’s definitely not gonna be easy.

[@Eric-qm5xw]

Exactly ..the difference is simply most guys are not attractive and or make the most of what they’ve got. Furthermore..most foreigners would be resigned to the scrap heap in the west.

[@pingyu5141]

Yeah like MrSamSafari above... no chance.

[@time2eat850]

😂😂😂

[@chrisjuricichxl5]

well, it's easier than back in the States--I'm considered the 'good looking one' and my two mates are definitely 'average dudes' and they both do very well with the ladies.

[@pinoyRN67]

money talks 😊

[@roelgallego1604]

Thats the dream of a every Filipino back then because of poverty but now a days Philippines is getting better and also we want to stay here with our family.

[@AlanStevens-hm1ni]

The value of the peso is going down.

[@roelgallego1604]

@@AlanStevens-hm1nipeso is going down but flows like a big dam in china.dollar is high but few can afford to stay to those dollar nation resulting to homeless and jobless.want to go back here but its to late.its better now than before thats for sure..

[@seans7228]

I'm gearing up for my first trip to the Philippines and planning on staying in an airbnb in Makati. If not staying in The Greenbelt, are the other areas of Makati dangerous? Can I walk at night? Lastly, where do I find a 1X/week maid/cleaning person? Thank you.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

@@seans7228 most places are not dangerous in the business areas of Makati. Just be aware of your surroundings and how late you're out.

[@rodrigodelaconcepcion7478]

Great points. Keep the Faith and Fire, Lonely Bull. Can't wait to travel to PI and enjoy the island lifestyle. Blessings.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Thanks for watching.

[@marciannatolentino2474]

$1K is must be a comfortable living back in the province. Even more if you got yourself a filipina wife with a modest house and lot, and a modest farmland for additional income and raw food support, like rice, vegetables, etc.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Thanks for watching

[@JourneyJunkkies]

I live really well on 1700/month. I'm in Batangas province in a really nice gated community. Two story 2000sf 4br/3ba large patio and garage. Huge Community pool. All my TikTok people know my lifestyle very well. I was single when I first moved here so money obviously went a lot further. Now married i budget more. BUT I am living a lifestyle that i only dreamed about living in the US. Lots of new home, plenty of groceries, and take trips whenever we want. Plus I just bought a new car. So I'd say for 2k you can live a VERY nice life here IF you manage your money wisely. Warren Buffett said "even the wealthiest people budget their money". Fyi I met my wife through family whom I socialized with long before I met her. Not a passport bro. She has a great job too. And we own a business together.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Fantastic story. Thanks for sharing and thanks for watching.

[@EdwinElezerTomaneng]

Straight from the horse's mouth! Thank you for demolishing all those annoying untruths about us and our country. Of particular interest to me are those twisted perceptions about our girls...you are welcome here and comfortable here because you are sensible and fair and no thanks to us...be the good human that you are. That's all it takes really!

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Thank you for the kind words. And thanks for watching.

[@jamescaiquep3794]

you can live in eastwood city in pasig which has chepear rent and comparitively look the same as bgc in fact it was called mini bgc even though I think its bigger but because it has smaller buildings its is tagged like that.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Eastwood isn't in Pasig. It's in Quezon City. I've been there. It's very nice, but BGC is still better. Thanks for watching.

[@NildaSalvaGauna]

Thank you, Sir, You are a Gentleman,May you find a kind, beautiful lady with a good Heart!

[@John-up7fq]

Definitely on point JJ, and yes the majority of filipinas I've talked to want nothing to do with living overseas, maybe to visit but that's about it....great vid ...

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Thanks John and thanks so much for watching.

[@bembelknecht]

Came here 2 years ago, currently in BGC as well. Spot on on the money if you're in that area, on the other hand the province is half the cost and with the right set-up, you could live as comfy as in the city (I really don't like the Metro for all its issues). Food varries, but it is very different from the rest of Asia. Far as "danger" or "scammers" are concerned, it always takes a perpetrator and a victim, that plays along.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Truth. Thanks for watching

[@petertherock7340]

Good video, sir! My wife, step sons, and extended family all live in the Philippines 🇵🇭- Leyte province and Metro Manila. You are spot on. My hope is to finish my career in the States and then retire overseas to be with my family there. My wife and I were married sacramentally in the Catholic Church of the Philippines 🇵🇭 6 years ago. My wife visited the USA 🇺🇸 but didn’t like it. We agreed to let her go home while I keep working toward retirement in a few more years. I plan to have a little over $2,000 per month in retirement income and a size-able savings account once I do retire. We already own our own house in the province. In the meantime, I visit the Philippines 🇵🇭 as my budget allows. My wife is a province girl originally. The best wives are from the provinces, gentlemen… even if they have to live or work in Manila or Cebu. 😊😊😊. P.S. If you think it is easy to retire in the States or the West, think again…. 😂😂😂

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Great story. Thanks for sharing.

[@alicefabia11]

Just found your channel,you so right about everything you said, I am retired from State came here for vacation living in Bgc didn’t want to go back in I love Bgc. I am only paying condo dues ,electric and water cost me $115 a month,the condo is paid for bought it 20 years ago.Bgc is the safest area that why I love.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Thanks for watching

[@pj6306]

Everything is on point 😊, grew up in the Philippines and lived in the US for quite a while now ( but frequently vacay and stays in BGC) I say everything you say is true 😊

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Thanks for watching

[@beameup64]

I live in Baguio. In 2015 with the offer of Permanent Visa through PRA for $1500. I first visited Baguio in 1986 and decided to retire here after 2002. No longer interested in "dating" etc. I just hire a massager girl on occasion from the local massage spas. PS: I have a permanent caregiver/katulong.

[@cseosborn892]

Sounds exactly what I want. Do you get full service from the massage girl? Do they visit you or do you have to go the massage shop itself?

[@Stetsonhatman]

We spent Christmas in BGC several years ago - everything was clean, new, and beautiful. I agree with JJ, to visit different spots in the Philippines first to see where you want to live then find a local girl in that location. Unless you are a total sod, it is not hard for an average western dude to find a nice Filipina.

[@rolandespina6220]

Thanks so much for your positive and real talk sharing about us and our country God Bless Sir!

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Thank you for watching

[@amossnowdaharleyman9179]

My wife from Cebu and of 10+ years is age appropriate, and we live in NE Texas. I retired 2 years ago and living in NE Texas on the higher end of comfort and security is about $80,000.00 a year. The reasons I am opposed to moving to the Philippines are: high end retirement there will still be 60K. It's a nation of islands and as such is crowded. There are good parts but many,many bad parts. I have 4 Harley's: one of my main joys is getting on one and hitting the road at high speed for 100 to 200 mile rides: can't do that in the Philippines. Healthcare: in the U.S. it's still considered best in the world if you can afford it. I can.Wife and I live in an upper middleclass neighborhood. No pig pens next door, no fighting cocks next door,no packs of starving dogs running around, no worries about cobra's in the yard.When I get thirsty I go to the sink and get a glass of safe and pure water.When we go to the store we can buy meats and vegetables without a worry about bacterial and viral infections. Our local rivers and lakes are so clean they are the water source for the city we live in. The expense of living where we do is a first world problem and to us it's better than the third world problems found in the Philippines. This opinion is also shared by my wife from Cebu.

[@rosalinacionelo5386]

Of course you’re in Greenbelt you can not live on 1,000 dollars

[@fazaoaii]

True. Those foreigners talking that small amount of expenditures per month surely living in the south provinces particularly visaya.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Thanks for watching

[@alzeal]

Great video, filam here, US raised, went and lived in Philippines for 12 years for school, came back to US with my wife. Agree on all your points, pretty much sums up all of my experience with Pinas. 2k USD is the minimum for decent living, 3k is more optimal. My family and my wife’s family already have land and houses in the province so we can probably live for less. Dating in Pinas is way different from US, realize you’re also dating the girl’s family. Be respectful and dont go around breaking hearts. Once you find a genuine girl, cherish her and protect her and she will have your back for life.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

@@alzeal thank you for sharing and thanks for watching.

[@thecontainerthecontents6889]

Disney movies are not historical record of phillippines culture and women sir

[@Imelda-u7o]

Those who say that Philippine food is bad are basically vegetarian. Filipino foods are mostly meat-based but very savory. Lots of variations as well. Lots of veg based as well using local ingredients and healthy coconut milk. Filipino cuisine is a breed and mixture of different cultures, but using local ingredients and local style. Unique in that sense. Very unique in texture and taste.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Thanks for watching

[@rodramzy9100]

@@JJthelonelybullinasia unhealthy food. Meat and rice mostly. Can't find low fat or fat free foods. God forbid you want to find some yogurt.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

@@rodramzy9100 you can get yogurt at the grocery stores here.

[@BehindTheSc3nes]

@@rodramzy9100 there's literally yogurt in every groceries and convenience store in the philippines 🥴what are you even talking about?🤦 And to be frank, filipino food is more nutritious than western food. If you know, you know.

[@lenholloway4390]

I live in Mandaluyong, Metro Manila, I am from UK. The food here is very second rate, poor quality. Sugar in everything including bread, its awfull. I live in a condo with my Filipino wife, we have a maid three times a week. I own eight other properties. I am retired. We use my retrirement pension to visit UK several times each year

[@Abelius]

YT algorithm seems to be loving you today, and I've liked the video, so here's another sub for you. 🙂 You know what they say: "Luck needs to find you working."

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Yeah you're right. I woke up this morning and wow. KZbin is so random. Thanks for watching.

[@teddyl6261]

We can easily see how wise and open-minded he is once he expresses his mind and does not generalize and still acknowledge negative things may happen here and there.

[@marichutesado180]

I agree. Great observation. The real filipino is being contented in life basic things wll make us happy.

[@maritesguillermo5108]

Yeah, BGC is the safest place in the Phils. So, foreigners live there. Quite a few Pinoys live there, also. I think next is Cebu IT Park.

[@Mlmv266]

If you prefer condo living The Makati Business District And Eastwood City , Ortigas Business are safe places to live in too . Greenfield area in Mandaluyong City is ok too. Lots of offices and restaurants

[@mikmikokada]

admiring your respectable and no-nonsense discussion. 🧚🏽‍♂️🧚🏽‍♂️🧚🏽‍♂️

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

@@mikmikokada thank you

[@tyronmoore2534]

The states is way more dangerous not even close

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Agreed

[@erwincagampan5777]

I believe especially during pandemic that many Asian including Filipino elderly being assaulted like in New York and San Francisco

[@danielpearson4972]

The US is so very dangerous especially with the 24 election now. I have been attacked 5 times because I am retired and I am conservative. If Trump were to win it will be all war. Will be in prison and automatically commit suicide. It is not because of many guns as criminals are permitted having them but the law abiding citizen are not to protect themselves. Police have refunded and the judical is corrupted the Africans which are given the revolving door I already have a girlfriend in Cebu and living there. From a dating site 3 years past. I would allow anyone to introduce me to a girl. Has happened be and always it is the most homely female Or old that I would rent her an apartment of her. Most retired boys do have the money as they just want a bar girl they think will be with or a different one each week.

[@akuto17]

Which states are the safest? Is New Hampshire safe?

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

@@akuto17 I've never been to New Hampshire, so I have no idea.

[@IsmaelBasco]

J.J. The lonely cowboy bull of Asia. Great to see you again on you channel, It’s Sonny from San Francisco, ❤❤❤. Always love your Vlog Thanks buddy…

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Thanks for watching

[@mrjomaled755]

Thank you for a very enlightening and up to date video. I moved to the US in 1976 and spent half of my life in Buffalo, NY. I retired 2 years ago while living in Palm Springs, CA. Me and my partner have a very comfortable retirement here now, in las Cruces, NM. I am planning ahead though to move back to the Philippines should I find myself alone again. Just exploring the possibilities. I speak Tagalog and Bisaya, so language is not gonna be a problem. Again, thanks for your videos. They're very informative.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

@@mrjomaled755 thank you for sharing your story. And thanks for watching.

[@gemox3225]

1700 a month means you are being thrifty if you pay circa 600 for rent and you travel a lot. You probably cook at home. 2000 US a month is a good figure for Bangkok too, and maybe Cebu City. The Philippines is a little dangerous in certain areas. How easy is it to get from BGC to the airport? Do you have to go through bad areas? Overall this was an informative, no nonsense video.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Depending on traffic I can get from BGC to the airport in as little as 20 minutes, but sometimes it could be closer to 45 if the traffic is bad. No worry about bad areas. Yes I wouldn't want to live anywhere on less than 2,000 US a month. 1700 is an average. It can be more if my girlfriend and I eat out more, but she likes to cook at home and goes to Guadalupe to get groceries, which saves us a lot of money. The travel money is in addition to my monthly expenses. Thanks so much for watching.

[@woutergijs5246]

BGC to the airport, going through dangerous areas ??? Just take a GRAB. Depending on the traffic and GRAB demand, guess it will be 250-400 peso. In a safe car 😊

[@casualplayerschannel1432]

I am Filipino lived my entire life here. I gotta say sir. you are on point on your videos. :) Although Mindanao has safe places too like Davao.

[@JohanFitFoodie]

Thanks for sharing, relocating there after summer and trying to learn as much as possible before 😊🔥

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Best of luck! Thanks for watching.

[@majorronaldmandell7835]

I agree! Do not start a relationship on line before you you arrive in the Philippines. You’ll be sorry if you do.

[@travishartzler9155]

For 12+ years I lived in the Philippines very comfortably on less than $500 a month, but that was on and off from between 1995 and 2011. It's much more expensive now. The best way to find a relationship is to get involved in a local organization. Join a church, volunteer with a NGO, teach at a university or ESL, etc. Once you make a circle of friends, the matchmaking will start.

[@AceBachelorTom]

Great vid JJ. My plan is to move to BGC and use this as a base of operations for the Philippines/Asia. Unfortunately I will not get there for another 6-7 years unless one of my cryptos takes off or I hit the lottery.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Hopefully it won't take that long. Thanks for watching

[@GondiZalvus]

As a Filipino who has stayed in other countries, especially North America as a teenager, the country I had originally come from is a place where you can stay for a month on your visa, then renew the visa for up to 3 months. You can stay for a few months just to get a feel of the place, then go back to your country after then you can decide if the Philippines is for you.

[@enzos711]

Besides "Zamboanga" or where ever, I don't think the myth is "it's dangerous" I believe "the "myth" is "how safe it is" and I believe the truth is that Crime against Foreigners (Tourists & Expats) is way Underreported ..

[@Call_Me_Troy]

It is, especially when corrupt cops extort foreigners.

[@EB-jf5oi]

Murder rates nearly every year are higher than the US. Street muggings are not so common, neither is random violence, but house break ins, extortion and getting deleted are genuine threats. Be careful.

[@JoeBen-w1e]

Thanks Very Good Information....Well presented ! Please do more...

[@franklee5099]

I have been to province of pangasinan, I have showered with tabo or the bucket of water and stayed in tiny concrete block house. BGC was reccomended to me to visit but unfortunately I couldn't afford living there, but thanks now you give me a budget to shoot for... Fortunately I have another 10 years to retirement . It does seem many people over there are looking for a money source as most are poor. Some things aren't very cheap either and compare to cost of usa. Many nice people there, but must remember that people are often the same everywhere and good and bad in all. Salamat po for the info.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Thank you for watching.

[@janissalay9979]

Most people in the Philippines are poor? I beg to disagree! Perhaps when you were in the Philippines, you must have been to places where poor people live! Poor you! Go to places like BGC or Makati (Ayala area or Rockwell area)! or many more cities in the Philippines. You gotta explore Philippines more!

[@franklee5099]

​@@janissalay9979Yes, I was in the province of Pangasinan... But truly perhaps I feel more comfortable with the poor people as I have never been rich and know what I cannot afford...

[@rayb7402]

That was gold. Straight talk there thanks.

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

Thanks for watching

[@q1m310]

is health insurance/medical bills have to be saved up additional?

[@JJthelonelybullinasia]

@@q1m310 even with insurance most medical expenses is paid out of pocket, then reimbursed by your insurance. So I would say you need to have a decent savings for all emergencies.

[@jlmarc01]

I think there are factors that make most food options not so great. Small servings Fancy places that really don’t provide quality fresh ingredients. Poor customer service And different western taste buds. If you want good food try the hotels and casinos mostly. Cause other places don’t cut it. That’s my take. But agree 100 On your other myths. But foreigners should really be aware that food for the most part will disappoint

[@disneylike644]

You literally take that line” Live like a king” it means in general like you can live with that amount in the Philippines in peace compared how live with that amount when you are in America. That’s what it means. Don’t expect that much. Philippines is all about love of family, resilience and be contented for what you have in life.

[@Allin1Xavi]

Living “like a king” is subjective imo. I think to live just fine by meeting the basic necessities and still having enough to go out every now then with 1000 usd a month in the Philippines sounds about right but for those that want to experience luxury often will be disappointed