Is your partner possessive about you? | Ravinder Singh

Relationships with possessive partners appear like being in a cage. Love tends to fade & unhappiness creeps in. Ravinder Singh’s relationship advice would fix your complicated love life.
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[@ashlyj9487]

Much needed... I married the one I have been in love for 7 years. We weren't much possessive about each other. He still isn't. Which I appreciate. But some misunderstandings developed a kind of stalking behavior in me. I knew it's wrong. But couldn't come out of it.. but your one statement made me rethink... that he chose me among everyone else in his world. I can work it out with this positive thought

[@fulwantikumri7171]

Yes........my wishes are with you talk directly or if you want to fight with him just go and fight with him...but dont stalk.him.

[@nomorewishes9518]

Thank you so much😭😭.. I'm being over possessive about my gf... But this has helped me out.. Every point you said was so relatable...😭😭 Thank you so much for the video

[@sparx2863]

Saying is easy , DOING is tough but I have to do it!! Thanks for showing the way

[@aditiadak2881]

Sir, I went through these situations 2 years ago. And ultimately we broke up. And today your video reminds me of those days 😊. Thanks a lot sir. It's really helpful video.

[@RavinderSinghYouTube]

Glad you found it helpful and I am happy to know you aren’t in an unhappy relationship.

[@usp6265]

@@RavinderSinghKZbin Hello. Why some family members becomes so possessive when we don't accept their gifts?? There's one cousin brother of mine who lives in Mumbai. Basically his nature is so bossy. But when my family and his family were living in hotel in Goa(Our family went to Goa for some religious trips so at that time our family were living in hotel) at that time he took out a chocolate from his bag and offered me but I denied his offer because I was not in a mood to eat chocolate but he got angry and asked ,” Do you not like chocolate?” I said ,” I love chocolate very much". So he asked,” Then why you said no for a chocolate when I was giving?” And next, when he asked ,” Do you want icecream?” I said,”No". At that time he directly asked to my mom that, “ Aunty, Shraddha likes icecream or not. Please tell the truth?” Even when we were in train. He was sitting in upper seat. Two upper seats and two middle seats were reserved for our family. My mom sleeped in second upper seat next to his seat. He said to his mom that ,” Shraddha can come to my seat and sleep here. I will go to some other seat". But I said that, “I will sleep in middle seat”. He got angry again and asked to his mom,” That why Shraddha don't want upper seat why she wants to sleep in middle seat?”

[@kamalkundu1010]

Sir,, I am literally crying after watching this video,,, thanks a lot for this

[@PankajKumar-jk4hk]

Possesiveness should be same from both the sides if it is same then there is no issue about that if I don't like his male friends she also don't like my female friends and that's ok according to me if both stands at the same level of possesiveness

[@nibaditamondal7]

I've this issue with my friend from a very long time. But after watching this, I guess I got my answer. Thank you so much, Sirji!❤️😊

[@RavinderSinghYouTube]

Happy to know Nibadita

[@Saransh_Kamble]

@@RavinderSinghKZbin Sir what If agar JO AAPKA HAI VO SABKA HO ??? 😅 example if someone's gf want attention from everybody or usko ye bhi chiye vo bhi chiye sab chiye sab chiye... Vo kabhi kabhi galti se bakiyo ke sath bhi same Special treatment krti hai (e.g. like muze bhi apni pics send karna aur apne baki male friends ko bhi bhejna vo bhi khud se bina mange) to fir muzme aur bakiyo me farq ki kya raha sir ???? Plz explain me ??? 🥺🥺🥺 But sir muze ek baat batao ki agar meri gf bhot loyal hai bhot honest hai bhot achhi hai....... Lekin usko mai bhi chiye aur baki uske male friends bhi chiye... Jab jab mai available na rahu to vo unke paas chali jati hai but theek hai yarrr dosto ke sath to jarur time spent karna hi chiye bilkul karna chiye lekin vo apni limits hi bhul jati hai sir ji.... I mean muze usko kisi bhi restricted limitations me nahi rakhna hai sir... Na mai Possessive hu ab jyada... Na muze dil se insecurity hoti THI aaj tak.... But jis tarike ka special treatment vo mere sath kare agar vo bakiyo ke sath bhi karegi to kitna ganda lgta hai sir aap hi batao.... Muze to uspe blind trust hai ki internally vo sirf mere liye feel karti hai no doubt in that but fir externally uske behavioural activities me kyu kami aa jati hai ??? Will you help in such human traits ??? Plz I need you sir... I want your help....🙏🙏🙏 Basss aap khud sochiye ki agar meri koi gf agar muze bhi vo hi special treatment de rahi hai (vo hi same time, vo hi importance, vo hi ghanto ghanto wali baate, vo hi ghumna firna, vo hi photos sharing and bla bla bla except hugs and kisses and all and all and all... Plz samziye🙏) to fir muzme aur baki uske male friends me fark ki kya bachega sir ji huh 🥺🥺🥺😰😰😰😰😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 vo bhot achhi ladki hai sir bhot Sharif hai and bhot intelligent bhi hai sundar sushil and kafi down to earth hai... Bhot achhi insan hai sir... I know she loves me a lot... But fir bhi aise bich bich me aise harkate kyu krte hai ye log?????

[@kartikey5814]

Bro you talked about what i was looking for a period of months Finally got the way to get rid of this being too possessive ❤️❤️

[@jiumonibora4766]

All I believe is that transparency and trust is the core of relationship..I have seen many cases in my career that most of the time partner get possessive while being ignorant like he/she likes the pic or comments in others pic..ignoring the partners one..so here is the door open to a conflict..Most of the time this situation arises when the partner were unattentive or gives less attention which arise insecurity and mistrust in the relationship..Gradually this situation turn to a possessiveness.... No one is possessive from the beginning it depends on how both the partner build there relationship through a journey with more of the action rather than preaching or falling into beautiful words..🤪🤪😜🙏🙂🙂

[@OtakuBae_]

True

[@bindurai1150]

It's like you are straight telling me 😁😁 I'm very possessive and did exactly you said..

[@bindurai1150]

@Lanchenbi Yumlembam yeah I'l definitelyl try to change

[@roselldsouza9344]

@@bindurai1150 did it work? I'm struggling with my relationship. I'm very possessive and its got so bad. I don't know how to work on it. I love him and my possessiveness has definitely hurt him. He deserves better.

[@ms_barsha2416]

I m also doing the same thing what he said😬

[@hatitola1547]

Mai bhi possesive hun

[@Saransh_Kamble]

Sorry sir aapne kaha ki humara partner chahe kisike bhi sath dinner pe jaye, coffee pe jaye, to humko fark nahi pdna chiye right..... Sir what if vo humko bhi hug kare aur dusro ko bhi ??? What is vo flow flow me hume bhi kiss kare aur unhe bhi ??? What if jab jab hum log available na rahe tab tab vo dusro ko bhi VAHI SAME pyar baate jo hume bata karti thi ??? What if agar vo special treatment sabhi ke sath ho ??? To fark ki kya bachega fir ??? Please explain these sort of queries too ???????? 🙏

[@Saransh_Kamble]

I mean yaha pe to ek boundaries set ho jati hai n ... So humko to koi limitations restrictions nahi lagana hai unhe... Bilkul NAHI... so aise time pe kya kiya jaye jab unki khud hi unki limits dhyan me nahi rehti hai ???

[@himanshikulshreshtha1537]

Ese me possessive rhna ka koi fayada bhi nhi he . U always have to option stay/ leave ! Remember whatever decision u make u should be able to blame yourself for same. Conversation is key talk it out . Still it doesn't work be brave enough to walk out kuki wo right person nhi he . But solution ki being possesive is to fir esa hua ki rote hue bache ko mar kr chup krana . Wo chup to ho jayega but kya wo sach me sahi ho payega?

[@saronisen8337]

I feel like Handshake n Hug r the sweetest way to greet people. Like if the person is totally unknown then u should go for Handshake, if close enough hug is the best way to greet n if really really so close and u PPL hv that emotional bond n respect for each other even if u r not lovers rather jst frnds, cheek kiss is a way to greet c'mon. Which is also prevailed in western culture. Hope u understand that ur partner can only love u even when being sweet with his or her friends. ❤️❤️

[@anitak1176]

Har tarah ke log hain duniya me. Unko choose kijiye jo aapki tarah ho. agar aapko koi chiz ni ni pasand to apke paas choice h ki aap na jude uske sath

[@kachabadam9232]

Aap sidha sidha boliye ki apko unki baat nhai suni .

[@idaulesiarau5768]

OMG this really bring me tears this is what I'm facing right now for almost 3 years n still going on.

[@shilpishah5954]

I really like this video and can relate with it. I also showed this to my boyfriend who is possesive, and he seemed to understand it... I hope he will understand and try to change. Thank you for making this video.

[@yupp_harish3936]

agar bf se shadi krni h...pyar h tumhara uspe to tumne usko smjha hi kya???pyaar ke liye possessiveness handle nhi kr paye? agree kr dete the . apne pyaar ko tumne samjha hi nhi ..ab wo bechara ghutan me hoga bohot ki restrict kr rhi h....use gutan me dekh kr tumhe neend ayegi???... usko tum samajh nhi ski..usko tumne kuch bhala bura kehkr chup krwa diya..ki mat ban possessive... woto ghutan me hai abhi..... tumne usko smjha hi nhi...Uske liye tumne possessive ness accpt nhi kiya....to tum life me kya khaaak saath dogi usko..

[@fulwantikumri7171]

Its really true that possessiveness is self destructive and it affect very badly to yourself . And yes, for a long time i have suffered from this all because of jealosuy. After sometime i found myself very bad it is truth that sometimes the person behaviours changes that doesnt mean to become possessive . LOVE GIVES FREEDOM, FREEDOM AND FREEDOM ......so be free and love....love.....and do love.......it was my story i have learnt from this so , dont be possessive...never.

[@sharanyapaul9970]

Sir....lovely video....touched my heart...after this I got a new hope and energy to work on my relationship...I look forward to more such beautiful videos...I myself am really possessive...I understood this now...I should tone myself now...thank you very much....

[@RavinderSinghYouTube]

Dear Sharanya. I can’t tell you how much I admire your honesty. Understand that we all are humans and we all have our shortcomings. But then what also makes us human enough is that we want to improvise. My best wishes are with you.

[@sharanyapaul9970]

Sir.....I am speechless...I admire you the most...thanks for all your wishes...and I love you and of course your works

[@Saransh_Kamble]

@@RavinderSinghKZbin Sir what If agar JO AAPKA HAI VO SABKA HO ??? 😅 example if someone's gf want attention from everybody or usko ye bhi chiye vo bhi chiye sab chiye sab chiye... Vo kabhi kabhi galti se bakiyo ke sath bhi same Special treatment krti hai (e.g. like muze bhi apni pics send karna aur apne baki male friends ko bhi bhejna vo bhi khud se bina mange) to fir muzme aur bakiyo me farq ki kya raha sir ???? Plz explain me ??? 🥺🥺🥺 But sir muze ek baat batao ki agar meri gf bhot loyal hai bhot honest hai bhot achhi hai....... Lekin usko mai bhi chiye aur baki uske male friends bhi chiye... Jab jab mai available na rahu to vo unke paas chali jati hai but theek hai yarrr dosto ke sath to jarur time spent karna hi chiye bilkul karna chiye lekin vo apni limits hi bhul jati hai sir ji.... I mean muze usko kisi bhi restricted limitations me nahi rakhna hai sir... Na mai Possessive hu ab jyada... Na muze dil se insecurity hoti THI aaj tak.... But jis tarike ka special treatment vo mere sath kare agar vo bakiyo ke sath bhi karegi to kitna ganda lgta hai sir aap hi batao.... Muze to uspe blind trust hai ki internally vo sirf mere liye feel karti hai no doubt in that but fir externally uske behavioural activities me kyu kami aa jati hai ??? Will you help in such human traits ??? Plz I need you sir... I want your help....🙏🙏🙏 Basss aap khud sochiye ki agar meri koi gf agar muze bhi vo hi special treatment de rahi hai (vo hi same time, vo hi importance, vo hi ghanto ghanto wali baate, vo hi ghumna firna, vo hi photos sharing and bla bla bla except hugs and kisses and all and all and all... Plz samziye🙏) to fir muzme aur baki uske male friends me fark ki kya bachega sir ji huh 🥺🥺🥺😰😰😰😰😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 vo bhot achhi ladki hai sir bhot Sharif hai and bhot intelligent bhi hai sundar sushil and kafi down to earth hai... Bhot achhi insan hai sir... I know she loves me a lot... But fir bhi aise bich bich me aise harkate kyu krte hai ye log?????

[@SpunkyBoy]

Me kuch jyada hi possessive ho jata hu sometimes, like uske sath ek ladke ne selfie le li...even she calls him brother but fir bhi mere ko itna jyada possessiveness or jealousy ajati h...jo ki me chahta bhi ni but...fir bhi hurt hoti hai... anxiety hone lgti hai... idk why.. just bcs watching the photo... And the same case is Usko me whatsapp me bhi jane ni de pata...kiuki gussa ajata h mujhe kisi or bande k sath bat krte hue dekkar 😔

[@poojaneerajgaur710]

Please stop doing such things, believe in your love if it's true, it will never leave u, let her he what she is actually,

[@yupp_harish3936]

Same here

[@bhagyasrisingh8317]

Yehh🤩that's the way to understand things and to explain things with others to make them understand. 😍Im gonna to share this😍carry on bhai ❤️🥳

[@vedantbhatt410]

Please make more relationship possessiveness solution oriented videos sir❤️❤️❤️❤️loved ur work🙏🏻

[@Bintehawa-ov2bd]

OMG ek video se mind change ho gai Thank you so much

[@fatimahaque5110]

The best video I have seen. You changed my thinking each and every line. Thankyou will change my destructive behaviour.

[@Mastiwithrakhi-l6i]

Thank you sir for making such a great vedio. It was really helpful 👍

[@deepathangaraj4627]

Sir this video was very much useful for me to rethink over my relationship and partner. Your talk on this topic was an eye opener for me...Thank you so much sir....I have been trying to make my partner understand about this since long time....par usne in return mere ko hi accuse kiya...but now hearing the same thing again from u made me realize that I was right....now I'm gonna talk over this matter with him.....thank u once again sir.....I look forward for more such videos ❤❤

[@AjayRaj-tg1vx]

Ur speech reflect what is inside in u,

[@atipriya195]

Thnks a ton...for this video... Easily connected to this video, the line "relationship ret ki trh hota h.. Usey jitna mutthi me bandhoge.. Wo utna hi haath se fislega".a victim of self destruction. Want to get rid.. Ur advice gonna help me ,I believe.

[@RavinderSinghYouTube]

My pleasure

[@abhishekkothari5654]

What if they LIE again and again with same those 2 person? They are not ready to leave those and are ready to leave me? Should i stay with her?

[@akirabiswa545]

❤❤❤ absolutely right sir ..over pogassive can destroy good relationship

[@manviiam]

yes true. This idea has influenced a lot of people through media and pop culture, where they romantacizes the possessiveness.

[@shalinibarnwal3237]

Your voice so calm n soothing ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@RavinderSinghYouTube]

thanks Shalini

[@pronalisrongphong8596]

I feel crying... It's hapn own me... But i cnt move on by knowing everything..

[@emanfarrukh1892]

for self esteem and jealousy i want to add up sth...it is possible that u might be more good looking than the person u r possesive about or u might be better than ur life partner in a lot of ways but due to low confidence in urself u tend to be jealous or think the other one is better...i know so many girls who are so beautiful outside and inside and still tend to think low about themselves

[@sonumaharana5634]

Thank you 😊

[@soumitraparida6694]

Your video Is amazing I just share your videos to my possessive gf😢

[@RavinderSinghYouTube]

I appreciate that.

[@saronisen8337]

I feel like Handshake n Hug r the sweetest way to greet people. Like if the person is totally unknown then u should go for a Handshake, if close enough Hug is the best way to greet n if really really so close n u PPL hv that emotional bond n respect for each other even if u r not lovers rather jst frnds, cheek kiss is a way to greet c'mon, which is also prevailed in western culture. Hope u understand that ur partner can only love u even when being sweet with her or his friends ❤❤

[@akhtar5534]

Thanks a lot sir .

[@akanshabhakuni7632]

So so so true Sir...

[@RavinderSinghYouTube]

thanks

[@Poonams586]

Is it not possible that your friend will think atleast someone is there who fears to lose me ; who loves me unconditionally .

[@epicgaming9880]

Thank you to open my eyes sir Really tqsm sir😭🥺

[@ahsanqadeerkayani7884]

Woooo Very Well Explained

[@solouniverse3103]

After watching this I found myself guilty I still not feeling good about What I feel about her. Whatever you said that's true I fit in all three reason you mention. Many people say it's not love, may be that's correct. But why I am thinking all the time about her.it became a fight be me vs me and I always find myself in losing side

[@anshulartlinee]

very nice explaination sir 😭🤣🤣🤣 im laughing after this how i m

[@amritadewan869]

Agree to disagree here with you, Sir… not every possessive person has trust issues… and what if that attitude has developed because of your partner who can’t take a stand for you? Because of his/her family?? Sorry to say it all depends from person to person… not always possessive partners are insecured…

[@hemantachantani3129]

thank you sir so much, my earlier thinking was possessiveness is a good thing in relationship. but it's like termite in relationship which make hollow my relationship. And I get angry with her every time I see her with male friends. Now I understand that it's my mistake and I'll try my best to not get in possessiveness.

[@vickeyjoshi8087]

Okay so whatever you are saying is completely alright Now i realised that i dont own the person i have to give my partner her space and freedom to do whatever she wants to do in her life........now let's suppose someday my partner tells my i wanna make physical relationship with other person despite being in a relationship? So are your opinions still valid in this case? Should i still be normal and indifferent in this case?

[@maana...2705]

i love him a lot he is a very good human but the only thing bad about him is this over possessiveness which i think is gonna make me feel suffocated in a relationship..but i do not want to give up on him at all ....i dont know what to do sir

[@immortalladen2355]

And I Have a Question :- Is getting worried for someone or taking care of someone...or telling them to inform where r u going and did u reach or not....is being a type of possiveness...😵😵

[@vanshika4152]

bro, you actually got that point.thanks man👍

[@mylittleworldASK]

Much needed.! Thank u so much @ravinder singh 😊

[@RavinderSinghYouTube]

Welcome

[@priyamuley7691]

Thankyou sir for helping me out..i know v well that m possesive for my partner..n d way u said I keep on stalking..i need to work in myself. Thankyou

[@sahilk9754]

Got My Answer Thanku Brother❤️❤️😘😘

[@sikandakhan4649]

bhai abe be ma apne dost se lar ke aya kue ke ma apne best friend ko le kr bhot possessive hun apke video dek kr bhot sare baten samj aye shyd ma he galt hun muja ose free ke dena chye stock nahe krna chye .thanks sir apke ye phle video dake ma subscribe be krta hun apke channel ko . love u sir apne zidngi ka ek acha sabaq diya

[@payalranaaa]

Great sir...You r absolutely right....Thanku so much for your these valuable words🤗

[@wimukthifernando8239]

Thanks I understand everything now thank you very much

[@positivevibesofnursing8983]

Thanks for this

[@HaidarAli-pw4hy]

Yes , I am very possive and i wanna quit but very difficult

[@abdusalambhati9505]

Yes i am also possessive person

[@chinmayprajapati7068]

amazing... This was so simple and clear. Never thought like this before

[@asgautomobiles5482]

I had a friend and we often striked a great conversation but when her fiancee knew about me and then threatened me to maintain distance from her due to which I stopped talking to her unfortunately but can't do anything

[@sarthak4080]

Thx alot sir ......now exactly I know my mistakes 🙂

[@loneharoon177]

It's really good video.... touched my heart thanks alot Sir This video clear all doubts

[@immortalladen2355]

Thanks Bro...I was literally dipressed...and I felt bad that I was posesive for my gf

[@hatitola1547]

I'm also depressed

[@lipulipuklssahoo9589]

Agar wo app se har wakt jhut bolti hogi like chupa ke karti hogi I am not talk about her other relationship like love I will talk her lying and avoid ignore so I will. Too many possesive for she . Kyunki Mai kitna possessive ko khatm karna chahta hun wo utna hin mujhse jhut aur chupa ke kam karta hai to Mai kese ye rok sakta hun ? Mere under ka possesive ko

[@Saransh_Kamble]

Sir what If agar JO AAPKA HAI VO SABKA HO ??? 😅 example if someone's gf want attention from everybody or usko ye bhi chiye vo bhi chiye sab chiye sab chiye... Vo kabhi kabhi galti se bakiyo ke sath bhi same Special treatment krti hai (e.g. like muze bhi apni pics send karna aur apne baki male friends ko bhi bhejna vo bhi khud se bina mange) to fir muzme aur bakiyo me farq ki kya raha sir ???? Plz explain me ??? 🥺🥺🥺 But sir muze ek baat batao ki agar meri gf bhot loyal hai bhot honest hai bhot achhi hai....... Lekin usko mai bhi chiye aur baki uske male friends bhi chiye... Jab jab mai available na rahu to vo unke paas chali jati hai but theek hai yarrr dosto ke sath to jarur time spent karna hi chiye bilkul karna chiye lekin vo apni limits hi bhul jati hai sir ji.... I mean muze usko kisi bhi restricted limitations me nahi rakhna hai sir... Na mai Possessive hu ab jyada... Na muze dil se insecurity hoti THI aaj tak.... But jis tarike ka special treatment vo mere sath kare agar vo bakiyo ke sath bhi karegi to kitna ganda lgta hai sir aap hi batao.... Muze to uspe blind trust hai ki internally vo sirf mere liye feel karti hai no doubt in that but fir externally uske behavioural activities me kyu kami aa jati hai ??? Will you help in such human traits ??? Plz I need you sir... I want your help....🙏🙏🙏 Basss aap khud sochiye ki agar meri koi gf agar muze bhi vo hi special treatment de rahi hai (vo hi same time, vo hi importance, vo hi ghanto ghanto wali baate, vo hi ghumna firna, vo hi photos sharing and bla bla bla except hugs and kisses and all and all and all... Plz samziye🙏) to fir muzme aur baki uske male friends me fark ki kya bachega sir ji huh 🥺🥺🥺😰😰😰😰😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 vo bhot achhi ladki hai sir bhot Sharif hai and bhot intelligent bhi hai sundar sushil and kafi down to earth hai... Bhot achhi insan hai sir... I know she loves me a lot... But fir bhi aise bich bich me aise harkate kyu krte hai ye log?????

[@anuritadas9988]

I Just loveeeeeeeee that video ❤️ This video Clear all doubts I think Jo hota hain acche ke liye hota hain ❤️❤️

[@user-sq1rs3bd8v]

Right me abhi dekh rahi hun thanks bhai.

[@Mikey-jt4zg]

Thankyou so much sir for your golden words❤

[@DEEPU.305]

Let's talk about this. I'm a teenager I'm 19 mere partner ne mujhe propose kiya tha me to bs ese hi accept kr liya tha then usne dhire dhire mere female friends k sathe meri 1 boundary create kardi yaa early stage me mujhe pasand nhi aya but fir use kisi se baat karte dekh me jealous hone lga but it's fine for her usne wo sb band kr diya and ya mene bhi mere pov se possesive hona 1 sweet bond h yaa possesive or the skeptic me fark h lekin yaha baat possesive nature ki ho rhi h yaha par trust kya lena dena . Ok guys agar aapke partner ko apke possesive hone se koi problem h like this influencer then leave him/her sorry for my rude words but It's better than suffering

[@missgta2004]

Some videos says that possessiveness is love and some says possessiveness is bad 😔😔 .. but i am possessive because of my bf's female friend 😔 plzz tell me so my possessive is good or bad? 😔

[@mariazainab1179]

Very well explained!♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ Best video i have ever watchedddddd

[@shikharyajurvedi7606]

Real person will never like to talk to opposite gender

[@animomusic3502]

When I watched it , I.lost my 3rd gf too.

[@filmandentworld]

I currently am in the same situation..many a times i feel how am I gonna survive... whenever he steps out of the house he locks the door from outside..i am not suppose to even greet or respond to his own brother or father forget about other men in this world ..am not suppose to wear what I like not suppose to like or comment on social media..

[@aishupatil5600]

Yaaaa....it's really good jideo...u told everything which I have in my mind since year

[@shashanksaini]

Sir Awesome Thumps up 120%

[@ajitas8201]

I just can't understand why I came across this video now? When you are quoting every single event of my life but I've been suffocating for 8 damn years that now I totally fall out of emotions.... I don't feel anything now and ended this relationship day before yesterday And my boyfriend as always couldn't understand what went wrong, I've tried to explain and that too not just once thousands of times but I guess he won't ever understand and the result is this now Now he's just throwing every single thing he grabs and hurting himself out of anger, punching walls while I couldn't do anything and just cry And this lockdown has made things worse as I had to do it over phone... Since it was a long distance for past 2 years

[@ajitas8201]

@@soummyatilloo1761 I'm glad that 10 months back I took the right decision. Let me tell you the more about it... After 3 months of our break up he showed up at my door in the middle of the night... I didn't want to let him in but he looked miserable and I just can't ignore that fact because I don't hate him na! I loved him for full 8 years so no matter what Iwas not able to see him in that condition and let him in... We talked and he accepted all his mistakes and wanted me back on new terms... I told him that I too can't forget about him all of a sudden but cant promise for future commitments as well because now I needed time to see if things actually got better or this is another way of getting back to the toxicity again... So this time he didn't force anything and agreed to all of it... Then after he went back, we started talking but a little less as we both were preparing for an exam so we agreed to the term that we'll talk whenever we get time from studies... He was also working somewhere due to which he stayed busy a lot... Then in November he called and told me that he was feeling terrible and wanted to commit suicide, and since I was his only 'go to' person for everything, he can't hide it anymore from me even if he had wronged me... I got worried and asked and eventually he told me that he fell for another girl (probably cheated on me, idk and I don't even care anymore). They wanted to get married but the girl's family took her away due to caste reasons... To be honest I felt horrible and was devastated still tried to calm him down and told him to some way outs.... After he got stable, I asked him why he was actually crying? Was it because he had done wrong with me or becoz he was missing that girl to which he said he was missing that girl that's why he is sad and suicidal... I confronted him and asked him if he's okay of now I start seeing other people to which he put all the blame of his wrong doings on my shoulders telling me that I didn't give him time and I told him to get married to someone else.... So eventually he was the victim and I was the culprit again... Needless to say, I ended all my ties with him because I've realised that he was nothing but a parasite who was eating up my peace.. It's been almost 6 months now and I feel liberated. So all I need to convey is that such people don't deserve a 2nd chance... Your life is your own responsibility and no one can blame you for putting your self worth and peace in priority. You have to cut open the wound and remove all that dead flesh in order to get it healed...its painful but it's worth it because the poison that is built inside has the capability to fail your whole system... Rest all is your decision...

[@ajitas8201]

@@soummyatilloo1761 people like this are nothing but coward... They use the grave issue of suicide to fulfil their agenda when in reality they don't have any guts to face such outcomes... If they were this brave they wouldn't end up using it every now and then, they know that when the threat works why bother changing ourselves... All i know is you have the power to deal with him... Dont let him ruin your peace anymore... Tell him straight and cut all ties, with him and his friends as well... Don't let him cut your wings anymore... Just tell one of his friends to look after him of they care about him that much and go away.... This is all i can think of.... Tell his parents if you have any contact with them... Just tell as much people as you can and walk away

[@shivaniuniyal7957]

I am also possessive about him but at the same time I love him alot. We broke up but i couldn't get over him...i thought I have my boyfriend with me after my parents but no, everyone leaves at the end. What's the big deal if I am over possessive, he has weaknesses too which I ignore then why couldn't he ignore this trait of mine

[@radhasaini5139]

I'm also suffering with this things

[@vedanttrivedi20627]

Salute to you 🥺

[@legaleagle3150]

What is the difference between attraction and love

[@varunpanchal5677]

Attraction when you go for perfection and love is when you go for flaws of others

[@mamtadubariya8675]

Love is permanent, attraction is temporary

[@PriyankaSharma-gp7dd]

Very helpful 👍 thnku sir 🔥

[@thejourneytowardssuccess5717]

Possessiveness to frdship me BHI Hoti hai Kahi na Kahi😂

[@Odaytatime]

Thank you ..

[@FarihaPervezMusic]

Very well described 👍 keep it up 👍

[@maryamsheral5426]

Totly superb and satisfied

[@neshagraphy07]

Just a word for you sir Thank you

[@kaziaqueelrahaman4578]

Sir, I have a friend. She doesn't know what to do whether she wants to continue with her relation or not. It's that they doesn't have understanding between them, they doesn't know each other well. Her boyfriend feels nervous while talking to her that's why he doesn't talk much to her. Which in turn makes my friend think that her boyfriend doesn't like her. But I know both of them love each other too much but they doesn't have understanding between them. How can this be fixed? Can they anyway improve their chemistry?

[@sharanyapaul9970]

Don't worry...Sir will definitely help you...like he helped my friend...just keep patience

[@insane-eater._.]

So trueeeeeeeee💯😩

[@darkchocklate]

Thanks a lot❤.....

[@neerutak3269]

Very nice 🌹❤

[@amararafee696]

Possessiveness is a completely selfish simple word

[@PupgalleryPanipat-uz2go]

Sir this was very helpful ❤🎉

[@RavinderSinghYouTube]

Glad to hear that

[@dilkiaawaz8037]

every line is relatable sir

[@bhoomikabaruah783]

Thank you ravin sir.

[@RavinderSinghYouTube]

You are welcome

[@bhoomikabaruah783]

@@RavinderSinghKZbin Sir I really liked, I too had a love story. You have written in a such a way that after reading book I recommended to all my friends. You're an inspiration sir 📖💐

[@nehakujur7873]

Thax a lot sir as uhh r saying totally iamm going through widd this problem.....

[@amararafee696]

My partner totally possessiveness 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@maryamsheral5426]

Thanks alot.

[@suchitratripathy2400]

U r right sir

[@Syco_Bakes_]

It’s very easy to say,

[@monicabiswas5204]

Very well explained😊

[@FATIMATARIQ-yw6cr]

great. v helpful

[@RavinderSinghYouTube]

Glad to hear that

[@linyisgf6202]

You are right sir ❤️

[@Erseric]

I'm possessive 😢