this was actually very helpful for me. I was also too afraid to have children.
@user-sjduhnd1789 ай бұрын
I was not considering marrying and having children and i was persuaded with this view despite considering myself believer and faithful. and now this video popped into my recommendation, it definitely changed my view, so i will do my best to marry a good faithful woman and have children insha’allah. Jazakallahu khayra sheikh
@Justalayman9 ай бұрын
الحمد لله Barak Allahu feekum
@user-sjduhnd1789 ай бұрын
@@Justalayman wa’feekom barakAllah brother
@tabassumfatimaahmad12518 ай бұрын
You should become good aswell then you will able to find a good woman to marry and fear Allah
@user-eg3zs6oi7c8 ай бұрын
if you live in a western country, sharia law does not apply so in divorce court, you will lose your home and all your wealth. better watch your back. and oh yeah, insane amounts of child support.
@user-hk9kn7tm4p4 ай бұрын
Allah is always with A capital
@hinahalde34929 ай бұрын
Thanks to the one who asked this question and thank you also for uploading it.
@thaknobodi9 ай бұрын
Not a foolish question because this is a very common concern even if it's based on whispers from shaytan
@sightorvision9 ай бұрын
Also lack of knowledge of Islam
@Kekauzu9 ай бұрын
@@sightorvision Lack of knowledge? You sure? Then I have this question: which one you prefer? A daughter, or a son? You must have a reason People prefer son than daughter because, society is mess up, people will look at your daughter, and the worse thing, if he has boyfriend 'that impossible, my daughter won't have a boyfriend' that a stupid argument, and stupid word from boomer, you people clearly doesn't understand the young one in this generation. Sex are considered normal now, even in a Muslim country, in Indonesia, there not much of a virgin women, trust me, like more 50% of them are not even virgin! I looked it up on the news it says around 60% more
@thaknobodi9 ай бұрын
@@LifeIsATest4TheHereafter my comment is a waswas. What now? I'm pointing out that this thinking is very common these days, even one of the signs of the nearing of the last hour, is people will try not to have children.
@hariranormal55849 ай бұрын
@@sightorvision Wow, who knew anyone asking questions would have 100% knowledge and that we all are Alim's.
@sightorvision9 ай бұрын
@@hariranormal5584 what ? I'm adding another point to why this question was asked,if ppl knew the way/mindset Islam has around having children people wouldn't have such question and it's okay to not know but not okay to stay like that .
@raeedkamran61369 ай бұрын
Our Prophet said (ﷺ) “Whoever recites Ayatul Kursi immediately after each prescribed prayer, there will be nothing standing between him and his entering Paradise except death.” Dont forget to recite Ayatul kursi before sleep Our Prophet (ﷺ) said, When you go to your bed, recite Ayatul Kursi and you will be protected by Allah, and no devil will come near you until morning.(5010) Narrated by al-Bukhari Take screenshot and share to earn reward,also copy and spread this message
@AllahsServant129 ай бұрын
Sheikh is savage. He totally killed it. I could t agree more. Jazakallah khair
@piqueny88729 ай бұрын
Yes because he has 15 daughters and used this Hadith against his wife to bust freely.
@hepteen-54889 ай бұрын
@@piqueny8872 imagine doing the thing which shaytan normally does.. disrespect the elderly
@BILLZ321558 ай бұрын
@@piqueny8872 Mind your toungue and have some respect. Now I dont know if you're Muslim or not but if you are you seem like the type of person who criticises sheikhs online all day while simultaneously blowing O's with their vape. Criticise all the time but never taking their advice instead acting arrogantly
@user-hk9kn7tm4p4 ай бұрын
Allah is always with A capital
@Muwahid9993 ай бұрын
What do you mean ? @@piqueny8872
@Prizkov999 ай бұрын
JazakAllahKhair for the Answer sheikh, I think this question comes to many people's mind of this generation, including me. We really needed the reminder that Children and wealth not ours but its Alllah's, So He will take care of them inshAllah.
@aishaAliyq8 ай бұрын
You are so right. I used to think that way too may Allah forgive us
@shirosatsuma49469 ай бұрын
Don't have children if you don't want them. Easy
@TheBudgetTraveller7869 ай бұрын
I work at several schools in the west, I personally have had this negative thought with me but there are kids & students who also help brighten the day of those around them.
@fahr.8799 ай бұрын
[𝐃𝐡𝐢𝐤𝐫] Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Whoever says, 'Subhan Allah wa bihamdihi,' one hundred times a day, will be forgiven all his sins even if they were as much as the foam of the sea. Sahih al-Bukhari 6405
@ayeshasiddiqui60418 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful and satisfying answer. Jazakallaha sheik 🙂
@user-hk9kn7tm4p4 ай бұрын
Allah is always with A capital
@willford-sn4ko8 ай бұрын
Inflation has made it so much harder to support children. Back in the days you could support a large family with 1 average income. Now its hard to even sustain yourself.
@ahmedjamil85252 ай бұрын
Reduce your expenses, work hard and ask Allah to increase your rizq
@DaTr3w9 ай бұрын
MashAllah, this is beautiful. subhanAllah, I needed to hear this. May Allah bless you sheikh Assim Al-Hakeem. thank you for all your work
@universeandbeyond35769 ай бұрын
Masha Allah, Shaikh is so helpful, knowledgeable and Funny at the same time😂
@MoeGewily8 ай бұрын
This was very helpful. Alhamdulilah, it's exactly what I needed to hear. Jaz'ak Allah Khayr Sheikh!
@balidjoplayer9 ай бұрын
I really love the Sheikh for the sake of Allah!
@sightorvision9 ай бұрын
Why's it foolish question? What makes a question foolish ? Anyway purpose of question was to learn and remove doubt so I'd say a successful question and successful answer
@theavglifter9 ай бұрын
Foolish indeed, but much needed for fools like me who needed to be reminded that Allah is over all things competent.
@piqueny88729 ай бұрын
Because he had 15 daughters himself. to him pull out method is apparently not real intimacy using birth control is not real intimacy The elders abused their authority and forced the Wives to get pregnant without asking them or caring if the wives bodies organs can handle constant pregnancies Medical knowledge financial acknowledgment was not something they thought about when having soooo many babies
@strangestranger85329 ай бұрын
Assalamualaikum my frnds, See if your wife is not fertile then you should not grieve, bcoz we have the example of Ibrahim pbuh, ❤ 👍, Having childrens in this world is a blessing of Allah taAla, ☝️
@user-eg3zs6oi7c8 ай бұрын
people who have children are more likely to be less educated and in poverty. the wealthy have less (if none) children and offspring quantity coincides directly with level of education. research has proven that. life is a lot lot easier and much more peaceful when you only have your own belly to feed and house rather than 1 or 3 other beings...
@outplayed45118 ай бұрын
May ALLAH bless him, this is an important subject.
@raeedkamran61369 ай бұрын
Mu’adh ibn Anas reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever recites the entire chapter, ‘He is Allah, the One’ (112:1) (Iklas ) ten times, Allah will build a palace for him in Paradise.” Source: Musnad Ahmad 15610 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani
@diahmaratus36259 ай бұрын
Masyaallah, Alhamdulilah. Very clearly explained. Thank you, syeikh. May Allah guide me and my family.
@Xyabwho9 ай бұрын
It's the genuine feeling of everyone. Reality is it's a dangerous world for any child just look at Gaza! The other places are just following suit untill everything gets destroyed
@aynazmuslim9 ай бұрын
Maybe it is one of the best videos ❤❤
@sephatu65219 ай бұрын
Jazaakallah khair. The tone of the question itself implies that the person does not have any valid excuse to not marry and raise children. Perhaps men have become so weak willed, materialistic, or arrogant rather than trust in Allah and be sincere with oneself, that all provision comes from Him.
@grim28949 ай бұрын
Unfortunately it’s both sides , not just nen.
@MONSTERGAMING-kp3xu9 ай бұрын
Make more children. As a muslim our prophet encouraged us to have more children and raise them, teach them the teaching of islam. While the west will always try to look down upon those and even humiliate them who try to have more children. Do not make your heart swayed by their ideology. Women should be proud of having more children.
@praisebetoyourCreator9 ай бұрын
Yeah but the time is not the same, children are going to school now in the past they didn't, they are exposed to different kinds of fitna such as bullying, ignorance, getting misguided easily, all these can affect their imaan easily, very easy to get misguided, not everyone lives in SAUDI :)
@noneofyourbuizness9 ай бұрын
@@praisebetoyourCreatorhijra is encouraged. Leave the land of kufr to live in a muslim land
@praisebetoyourCreator9 ай бұрын
@@KhadijahLabbayk go marry me I need someone who has your mentality :) even why I can marry in my country but I always overthink this issue, i find life easier without childrens and wife, even tho I can marry easily, I think it this way, prophet pbuh told its people to get married earlier because he knew their knowledge about deen was high and hence they children would be rightly raised and such, but now like? It's too hard! School the stupidity of the human kind where children could bully eachother since age 5-6, the free mix!, all this makes life harder for them in the latter time and other things as well :)
@praisebetoyourCreator9 ай бұрын
@@KhadijahLabbayk good for you :)
@khasMSF9 ай бұрын
At this time of akhirzaman, take lesson from surah Al-kahf to protect yourself from dajjal. What did the people of the cave do? İt's not a wise idea to expose yourself to fitna together with your children. We should all find a place like a cave to be protected from this dajjal fitna. We are asking Allah to protect us but we are not willing to do it. Action is more powerful Dua not lip service Dua.
@mikhailmaimoonahoward9 ай бұрын
Alhamdulilah Jazaka Allah Khair for this Sheikh. May Allah grant us righteous spouses and children Ameen
@bagzhansadvakassov10939 ай бұрын
Mashallah, may Allah give sheikh firdous.
@raeedkamran61369 ай бұрын
Deeds that reward a person equal to hajj if he does them correctly and sincerly 1. Perform Ablution properly and go for each obligatory salat in Masjid 2. After praying salat Fajr in congregation, then remember Allah(سبحانه و تعالى),by doing dhikr or reading quran, till (15-20 minutes) after sunrise to perform two superogratory rakat 3. Perform Umrah in the month of Ramadan is equal to Hajj 4. Going to Masjid to learn/teach beneficial knowledge 5. Saying SubhanaLlah 33, AlhamduliLlah 33, Allahu Akbar 33, and then say La ilaha ill-Allah wahdahu la sharika lah, lahu’l-mulk wa lahu’l-hamd wa huwa ‘ala kulli shay’in qadir
@Maryiam5238 ай бұрын
MasaAllah, Sheik, Alhamdulillh.I got my answer Alhamdulillh as well.I was afraid before now I am free of it.My upbringing was in Muslim country and I am now living in a non- Muslim country for the reason and my fear was double about it.
@Anon-uv9mj9 ай бұрын
It is the opposite. We really need to try raising good kids. Have many and maybe some of them will be the of those who revive the haqq in many areas of the world. Nowadays the ‘competition’ (not exactly a competition) is less as well, in the past there were so many big scholars that no one would take from the likes of most of our kids. Nowadays you don’t need your kid to be close to the level of imam Al-Bukhari for the people to take from him. If he spreads the haqq you will get good deeds. Do your part.
@benedictsawyer80129 ай бұрын
Your kid's decision is his or her own, not yours. As the sheikh said, only Allah can decide whether the kid turns out good or bad. You can never force a life to be good, or to be bad except if Allah willed it. Good kids comes from Allah's will, not just mere guidance.
@mutungirehiabubaker69559 ай бұрын
May Allah give me enough❤
@raeedkamran61369 ай бұрын
On the authority of Umm Haani’ bint Abi Taalib (رضي الله عنها). She said: “The Messenger of Allaah ﷺ , walked past me one day so I said, ‘O Messenger of Allaah, I have become old and weak - or something similar to this - so tell me of a good deed that I can do while I am sitting.’ *He ﷺ said: “Say ‘Subhaan Allaah’ 100 times for it is equivalent to freeing 100 slaves from the offspring of Ismaa‘eel; and say ‘Al-Hamdu li-llaah’ 100 times for it is equivalent to 100 horses saddled with reins ready to carry fighters in the cause of Allaah; and say ‘Allaahu Akbar’ 100 times for it is equivalent to 100 camels slaughtered for the sake of Allaah; and say ‘La Ilaah Illa Allaah’ 100 times.” Ibn Khalaf (the narrator from ‘Aasim) said, “I think he said: ‘…it fills what is between the heavens and the earth, and on that day out of all the deeds that are risen to Allaah, none will be better than yours except for a person who said what you said.’* [(Musnad Ahmad) Al-Munthiri, Al-Haythami, and Al-Albaani classified it as Hasan (good)
@raeedkamran61369 ай бұрын
Deeds that reward a person equal to hajj if he does them correctly and sincerly 1. Perform Ablution properly and go for each obligatory salat in Masjid 2. After praying salat Fajr in congregation, then wait (15-20 minutes) till after sunrise to perform two superogratory rakat 3. Perform Umrah in the month of Ramadan is equal to Hajj 4. Going to Masjid to learn/teach beneficial knowledge 5. Saying SubhanaLlah 33, AlhamduliLlah 33, Allahu Akbar 33, and then say La ilaha ill-Allah wahdahu la sharika lah, lahu’l-mulk wa lahu’l-hamd wa huwa ‘ala kulli shay’in qadir
@nonexistent12338 ай бұрын
All we can do is try our best to raise our kids properly and learn the rest to Allah.
@raeedkamran61369 ай бұрын
THE BEST DUA A TO SEEK FORGIVENESS 💯💕 (Sayyid Ul Istigfaar) Prophet Muhammed (ﷺ) said whoever says this Dua a once in the morning and die before evening S/he is GUARANTEED JANNAH and whoever says this Dua a once in the evening sincerely and dies before Morning S/he is GUARANTEED JANNAH Please make it a habit to recite everyday, once in the morning and once in the evening The Dua a اَللَّهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّي, لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ, خَلَقْتَنِي, وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ, وَأَنَا عَلَى عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْتُ،, أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْتُ, أَبُوءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ عَلَيَّ, وَأَبُوءُ لَكَ بِذَنْبِي, فَاغْفِرْ لِي; فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ اَلذُّنُوبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ Allahumma, Anta Rabbi, la ilaha illa anta, khalaqtani wa ana abduka, wa ana ala ahdika wa wa dika mastata tu, a udhu bika min sharri ma sana tu, abuw u laka bidhanbi, wa abuw u laka bini matika alayya faghfirli, fa innahu la yaghfirudh-dhunuba illa anta Meaning “O Allah! You are my Lord. None has the right to be worshipped except You. You created me and I am your servant and I abide by your covenant and promise as best I can. I seek refuge in you from the evil, which I have committed. I acknowledge your favor upon me and I knowledge my sins, so forgive me,indeed nobody forgives sins but you (Sahih bukhari 6306) Please copy this and spread this for reward, May Allah reward you for spreading this
@LK-dm7kx9 ай бұрын
They say old is gold, but this guy isn't even aluminum.
@samirhmusali2768 ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah barakallahu feek sheikh
@shahulmuhammed13688 ай бұрын
A great great question.
@user-uu5ml4fk4i9 ай бұрын
Israel is not a land, but a prophet, but God chose people who do not kill and corrupt. They believe in God and the Last Day, and they are the happiest people.
@irshanahmadabdulsami42089 ай бұрын
Hehe....His fun like demeanor was something new and refreshing.
@Neurogenesis12519 ай бұрын
Sheikh is funny as always
@55batmanandjoker9 ай бұрын
Allahumma barik beautifull
@realitybeckons41209 ай бұрын
Jazakallahu Khair
@haze18119 ай бұрын
He's so funny lollllllllll Allahumma barik
@jon_0099 ай бұрын
In these troubled times try to understand the deen from the scholars of Haqq, not from the arguments of a Taghuti scholars Name of these Honourable Shuyookh/ Imam: 1. Shaykh Abu-Qatadah al-Philistini (may Allah free him) 2. Shaykh Nasir al-Fahd (may Allah free him) 3. Shaykh Abdullah Azam رحمه الله 4. Shaykh Khalid ar-Rashid (may Allah free him) 5. Shaykh Abdulaziz et-Tarifee (may Allah free him) 6. Shaykh Ali al-Khudair (may Allah free him) 7. Shaykh Ahmad Musa Jibril حفظه الله 8. Shaykh Sulayman al-Alwan (may Allah free him) 9. Shaykh Abdul Jabbar Shakir (may Allah free him) 10. Shaykh Hamud In Uqla As Shu’aybi رحمه الله 11. Imam Anwar al-Awlaki رحمه الله 12. Shaykh Faris al Zahrani رحمه الله 13. Sheikh Mustafa al-Adawi - egjipt Etc
@Mr.Prototype9 ай бұрын
Im infertile and I cant have them
@johnnopeyy41298 ай бұрын
Mr. Neverpullout 😂
@theamericanenglishtutor15007 ай бұрын
Islam is beautiful and trying our best to live up to it is hard, we may miss many opportunities put in front of us for better or worse, but no matter how hard we fall or miss out in life it is a fight for the greater good Insh-Allah.
@noorzamakhan82459 ай бұрын
Very True Sir 👍🏻
@nusaibaumarmadaki34188 ай бұрын
3:45 the not so humorous laughter only a parent can understand 😅😅😅
@truthseeker6308 ай бұрын
There is a difference between trusting Allah, and doing what is possible and sensible. Please get educated Assim.
@punjabiqt088 ай бұрын
No thank you, not all of us need to have children or are in the position to
@hariranormal55849 ай бұрын
the last point and invite me for the Aqiqah XDDDDDD
@ahmedhamza45109 ай бұрын
Tawakul 3ala Allah, after praying your obligatory salah and the 9 extra for good luck
@raeedkamran61369 ай бұрын
Make sure you do not have your arms infront of a butcher and your hopes for other than Allah(سبحانه و تعالى)
@MercuryLS38 ай бұрын
Kids are the biggest blessings that Allah bestows on us, the world could be crumbling, you should still strive to have children and raise them well.
@411Adil9 ай бұрын
ALLAH al Razzaq
@piqueny88729 ай бұрын
Prophet yacob had 12 sons by two different wives The first set of 10 sons were tyrants who had hate greed selfishness towards the half brothers yusef & Benjamin. To the point they wanted to end them. Moral of the story don’t have too many children knowing you can’t raise them the same or will be able to provide for so many children
@socrates17968 ай бұрын
marry who? I dont know anyone
@artronikfc79339 ай бұрын
Are there no exceptions about the hadith and the law to increase children?, if the case such as Rohingya Muslim , they like to propagate the child but they are poor people have no citizenship, in Malaysia they are rejected, in indonesia too, because they are hard to arrange, do not educate and don't know thank you, the more their children are, the more troublesome others
@w.a.domski9 ай бұрын
thats why the sheikh said, do your best in raising your children, leave the rest in Allah's hands
@artronikfc79339 ай бұрын
@@w.a.domski It's easy in theory but in fact it's very difficult to apply, in fact rohingnya Muslims still wander around the ocean, Allah still not help them, Muslim majority countries like Indonesia and Malaysia still reject them, just like immigrants from syria and Palestine, Arab countries don't want to accommodate them because they cause many problems in their country. So I think that if it's difficult conditions like that, it's better not to have children because they are more troublesome for others.
@sahseo9 ай бұрын
There could be exceptions too The hadeeth lays down a general instruction but a specific situation could be an exception. Just quoting this hadeeth does not fully address the question and the genuine concerns related to this scenario. I am not fully convinced with the answer given in the video.
@khasMSF9 ай бұрын
İn akhirzaman like our time, some of the general rules changed as the ulama of before said. The modern "ulama" now have no idea what they are talking about. Having children when there is so much fitna around that they can't learn Islam properly because even their parents are ignorant and there's a difficulty in finding a trusted alim in this time. The children will complain to Allah that their Iman and akhira were not saved by their parents. Children is not only raised by the parents but by the community. Can you point a community now that is not corrupted? We are not just talking about materially but ma'nawi aspect. How can someone protect their children from all these corruption in the world. Even that person can't protect or save himself so how can he protect or save his child?
@WillScarlet19919 ай бұрын
So is it a sin not to have children in certain times and circumstances?
@Dryfter219 ай бұрын
It's not sinful, rather it is encouraged and brings with it tremendous reward. It is definitely not haram or sinful.
@WillScarlet19919 ай бұрын
@@Dryfter21 Jzk.
@jinfightingjin27588 ай бұрын
@@Dryfter21 what's the rewards ???
@aaaaaaaaaaaa90239 ай бұрын
You're also supposed to tie your camel.
@forwatching_video9 ай бұрын
Understood the reference but how does it connect with this one?
@WillScarlet19919 ай бұрын
@@forwatching_video You're supposed to do your best then trust in Allah (swt). For example, if there's a famine or plague around you, would you have children in that environment? Seeing that people around are you are dying daily because of starvation or disease?
@AM-dn1iq9 ай бұрын
Don't send them to free mixing schools Mary a righteous woman. Righteous parents usually results in a righteous children The daughter is going to imitate her mother. "Don't marry woman unless you would be happy to have a daughter exactly like her"
@kittywhiskers9969 ай бұрын
I am a sad wife too. To raise a child in these times. My grandmother had 15, I have only 1. I have never seen such horrible things in the world as the internet has shown, and also many beautiful things. I do not know if my child will turn out to be a good person. I hope so, to not grow up to be selfish and reckless. But yes, very sad.
@johnnopeyy41298 ай бұрын
May the child learn to embrace hatred the most useful of emotion. 🙏
@fishbarbeque85408 ай бұрын
Sheik is so funny!!!!!
@jon_0099 ай бұрын
Waleykum asSalam
@mohdshariq58149 ай бұрын
13 children MashaAllah 😅😅
@khadijah35199 ай бұрын
Sister, I get it. I didn’t either 20yrs ago. Have two teens and I was right!! May Allah guide them😔
@NafisaLondon9 ай бұрын
Allah will bless and reward you and He will guide them
@piqueny88729 ай бұрын
This day and age with the Ltbg poison drugs alcohol abuse propaganda and social media causing mental health problems with children it’s reason all why the couple don’t want children
@khadijah35199 ай бұрын
@@KhadijahLabbayk Sister❤️ I know how hard it is as a born Muslim in US..I have had my numerous moments. Especially, as a teen and still working on myself, tremendously. I am..shall we say..willful. Very head strong, high strung and no nonsense. So I did come more soft as I knew how I took it as a child, teen and so forth. Possibly, I was TOO soft. The environment is so GROSS all around, anymore. You have found your way..Alhamdulillah☺️ May Allah be merciful with you, I and them by continuing to guide us. Thank You❤️
@Uneasy-vh4bx9 ай бұрын
Change your picture
@khadijah35199 ай бұрын
@@Uneasy-vh4bx I am speaking about something important and you come speaking of a picture I took on the beach.😔
@ibrahimhassaan61888 ай бұрын
His question is valid. Modern society is corrupt. The best move for muslims would be to try create a non corrupt society: Move out of western countries into their homelands and rebuild them. Create countries with strong economy, military, education, quality of living and job opportunities such that there is no need for the children to move out to other countries and be influenced by fitnah. So priority number one should be to rebuild the ummah and not necessarily getting more kids senselessly.
@lostandguided55339 ай бұрын
NEVER beat you kids.
@jinfightingjin27588 ай бұрын
breeding corbs...😊
@FawadBilgrami9 ай бұрын
How can people not want to have kids and stop their Sadqa-e-Jariya?
@shahinasheikh35058 ай бұрын
I am still unmarried and this concern troubles me a lot. I really think what the coming generation be like
@user-ci6vz2fu4t8 ай бұрын
Have children if you can raise them without help from gouvernement. And uf the woman agrees to carry them and give birth without crazy pain.
@Arman-sr2gu9 ай бұрын
2:50
@user-ci6vz2fu4t8 ай бұрын
To have good child, out of western world. Have goid study and perou pantagoni, desert montains
@johnnopeyy41298 ай бұрын
Why do people desire to ruin their lives? Children are horrible energy vampires 😂😂
@enacausmembrane8 ай бұрын
R u Muslim? If so, no Muslim would make such a statement
@variouspasion9 ай бұрын
That's why I look Old...😂😂😂😂😂😂
@johnnopeyy41298 ай бұрын
Lol all my friends that have kids look older.... 😂
@muhithmiah70268 ай бұрын
Marrying and having children increases your iman to new heights. Follow our prophet SAW. Allah is the ultimate guide.
@piqueny88729 ай бұрын
If this is true why do so many other scholars only have 3 Maybe 4 children and not zillions
@jjama86689 ай бұрын
Allah knows best.
@piqueny88729 ай бұрын
@@jjama8668 they are wise enough to know raising one child with Islam is tough having 15 children like br assim is madness. not to mention the financial responsibilities on fathers ( food clothing homes) finding a spouse if the children are all daughters as the male guardian trying to find good spouse is a huge responsibility. Prophet yusef brother were tyrants and his father had 12sons
@myislamonly9 ай бұрын
Allah grants whomever He wishes ﷻ any amount of children. Are the amount of children of scholars your yardstick or what the evidences show? The Shaykh beautifully explained this but many do not really trust الله.
@piqueny88729 ай бұрын
@@myislamonly elderly scholar use this part of religion not ask the wife if she willing to have so many pregnancies and that he will not be using condoms or pull out so unplanned pregnancies forever The younger scholar are smart to understand how to respect the wife to the degree they have less children and raise those children equally and with full education of Islam
@enacausmembrane8 ай бұрын
@@piqueny8872 Bro just delete your comments. This be lowkey on God no cap the most retarted crap I have read in my life.
@addanashraf9 ай бұрын
Okay so there is no need to "tryhard" for your kids hm interesting
@akuma4u9 ай бұрын
What about living in afghanistan and being scared to have a daughter because she will have all her human rights and freedoms taken away from her and basically living like a housemaid for the rest of her life because of corrupt extremists ruining the country? Or what about being worried to have kids if you are in the military or police as there is a high risk your kid will be executed like they do to the kids of police in pakistan all the time.
@elafzal58669 ай бұрын
So your daughters being raised in an Islamic society as good muslimas is extremist to you. Then go to West, have daughters and enjoy your life.
@akuma4u9 ай бұрын
@@elafzal5866 r u stupid or ignorant? Do u see the disaster in Afghanistan where millions are trapped and tried to flea but can't or are deported and returned back to afghan? They won't let girls go to school there. Think before you speak.
@akuma4u9 ай бұрын
@KhadijahLabbayk wow. U r robbing your kids especially daughters of their freedoms and life. You should feel ashamed of yourself. Why do you think millions have fled Afghanistan and millions try to but unfortunately are not successful? Why do u think they try to escape? Because the country went to the toilet after taliban took full control. Also as yourself Why millions of Muslims from predominantly Muslim countries try to immigrate into North America every day?
@AhmedKhan3.149 ай бұрын
@@akuma4uwhoring around ain't freedom. Humans are free but born chained. We don't obey our desires we obey our Lord. Screw this "you only live once so enjoy your life" it should rather be "you only live once so prepare for Hereafter"
@akuma4u9 ай бұрын
@@AhmedKhan3.14 going to school to get an education and helping the world with skills you've acquired in school is whoring around to you?? What's wrong with you?
@theamericanenglishtutor15007 ай бұрын
These sheikhs shouldn't speak of what they did and what they have or how many children they have and then that so and so can do it too, it's not that simple Allah gives what he wants to his slaves he gives some of us children, and some of us no children. We should say alhamdulillah because maybe having a family is better for us or having a family could be harmful to us Allah the all-mighty knows best.
@yussufmarcelo9 ай бұрын
Do I have bad apple what did sheikh mean
@visiblek1068 ай бұрын
Bas kid who is not on right path.
@yussufmarcelo8 ай бұрын
@@visiblek106 thnks
@ghonbon63419 ай бұрын
have children then go to live in kuffar countries to survive
@tahatarq34659 ай бұрын
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@maryammalik13749 ай бұрын
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@riam54298 ай бұрын
Absolutely butchered the question This guy got no wisdom
@yassinwill9 ай бұрын
😊
@dekyed9 ай бұрын
MashaAllah sheikh is an absolute CHAD!
@luqmxnyonkou56509 ай бұрын
Zaaahaha
@user-ue4fh5mv9s9 ай бұрын
specially having a daughter is very dangerous for akhira
@Anon-uv9mj9 ай бұрын
‘Uqbah bin ‘Amir said, I heard the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) say: "Whoever has three daughters and is patient towards them, and feeds them, and gives them to drink, and clothes them from his wealth; they will be a shield for him from the Fire on the Day of Resurrection.”
@AM-dn1iq9 ай бұрын
Don't send them to free mixing schools Mary a righteous woman. Righteous parents usually results in a righteous children.
@AM-dn1iq9 ай бұрын
The daughter is going to imitate her mother. "Don't marry woman unless you would be happy to have a daughter exactly like her"
@noneofyourbuizness9 ай бұрын
@@AM-dn1iqnon sense
@AM-dn1iq9 ай бұрын
@@noneofyourbuizness what exactly is nonsense??
@abazism8 ай бұрын
Look at what’s going on in Palestine, and he is still talking about the same stuff
@afrinatanwi69079 ай бұрын
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@user-db2ob2jc2f9 ай бұрын
Foolish Question but Excellent Response!
@SAIFULLAHJAMIL9 ай бұрын
This is never a foolish question. This is a very important question.
@overlordop61919 ай бұрын
@@SAIFULLAHJAMILdon't get angry, he is just 9 year old buy 😂 watching utube video and thinking world is bed of roses
@Data-xh9wh9 ай бұрын
@@overlordop6191 speak for yourself.
@asmaubaid75659 ай бұрын
Not a foolish question. It is a valid question
@user-db2ob2jc2f9 ай бұрын
@@SAIFULLAHJAMIL 110% Foolish!
@visionary77889 ай бұрын
Don’t have children in this time. First financially as cost of everything has gone up in these time. Second don’t trust this madman.
@_anti_kuffar_61768 ай бұрын
Rather everyone should listen to a jahil like you
@jinfightingjin27588 ай бұрын
@say-subhanAllah-alhamdhulillahHe is madman
@MFMinds9 ай бұрын
Garbage answer
@user-sx1hm3gq4w9 ай бұрын
yeah, just keep br**ding.
@mdmoin94909 ай бұрын
Questioner is right it's not right to grow children in this time
@DemiLot9 ай бұрын
Sheikh my friend licks in my left ear every time i make sujood when we pray, is it haram or should i ask him to stop?
@AM-dn1iq9 ай бұрын
What
@yamazaki48369 ай бұрын
Dude you serious? If yes then explain him that it's wrong and ofc haraam.
@WillScarlet19919 ай бұрын
@@yamazaki4836 It's a troll.
@omnishambles59569 ай бұрын
💀💀💀💀💀💀
@hasnain96549 ай бұрын
What kind of troll question is that😂
@marioarguello69899 ай бұрын
Utter nonsense.
@LK-dm7kx9 ай бұрын
They say old is gold, but this guy isn't even aluminum.