ISTJ vs ENFP relationships - Alone time, biggest fight, texting habits, dates | ON THE FLOOR EP 2

In this episode, we compare the relationship dynamic between a couple with both ISTJ personality types and a couple with both ENFP personality types.
0:30 Intro
1:45 Get to know our guests
3:50 Today's topic: MBTI & Relationships
4:59 ENFP vs ISTJ description
10:22 Work personality type
13:19 S.O. vs Best Friend?
15:03 Texting habits
18:07 Emotional Oranges story
21:16 Group chats
22:11 Texting habits (continued)
23:41 How often do you need your alone time? (E vs I)
27:30 Do you think you know what your partner is feeling/thinking? (N vs S)
29:57 Arguments/Fights (F vs T)
35:40 Planning dates (P vs J)
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[@user-us4eu4lg7i]

Your friends story about going to the concert, I feel like its the both of them not communicating. She didn't feel she needed to inform him and he didn't care to ask her about her day or night or whatever. Since they have made it a habit to not need to tell each other things, weather the things are big or small, that's just what happened. It's on the both of them to make effort in communicating. Asking how and what you did in your day is part of communicating.

[@annatran5817]

5th letter stands for your identity, either being (A)ssertive (stable, assured) or (T)urbulent (vulnerable, insecure) !!

[@ratchl]

I love the concept of this video! It’s really creative! And I can’t believe both couples have the same MBTI 🤯🤯

[@bayleememphis]

i love how vulnerable the guests are around minute 30 - appreciate how this podcast feels like i'm sitting w friends having a conversation about relationships. everyone is so different!

[@nt4075]

It's such a learning/mind opening experience listening to other people/couple's perspective on relationships, fight styles, habits, etc. There's always something you don't think about or think differently about because of culture or experience. More of this please :)

[@Coco.mg125]

I think ENFP and ENFJs are the most reserved/introverted extrovert types. So you guys are still extroverts just more reserved.

[@Handlebarnpc]

Interesting topic to discuss Esther. Im glad that you recorded this as opposed to just making a podcast with no film!

[@michyo17]

love the matching outfits - whether they were planned or not 🖤!

[@gmsk1]

Very clear the girls are more considerate of other people's time. Doesn't matter if it's strangers or friends when it comes to valuing other people's time!

[@poundsuspect]

I’m just wondering if you’re gonna post these new EPs on other platforms?? Anyway, love listening to your podcast!❤

[@phoebe9471]

yes pls post on spotify 😢

[@hchung155]

And apple!

[@jf2306]

Spotify pls

[@hchung155]

Love it with guests appearing on it! Altho I wish it was more than once a month :😪

[@Michonce]

I resonate with June so much lmao. Talking about your enneagrams would also be super interesting! Could explain why you’re all different despite having the same MBTI

[@ByKristyLin]

yes i find enneagram to be a great companion to MBTI

[@AnnaLin]

Ayeeee!!

[@joannacao]

Such an interesting topic, I always see people speaking about their individual MBTI types, but this is the first time I've seen people compare pairings/couples ! loved listening to this ❤

[@lyrapedernal]

Thanks for posting Esther! It was nice hearing all of your thoughts. I believe the fifth letter for MBTI is A and T. A = Assertive and T = Turbulent.

[@hsiaochihsiaochi]

Literally can’t stop smiling for some reason😂

[@kji459]

sameee xD

[@ByKristyLin]

Last letter stands for Assertive vs. Turbulent! I have met couples that have the same MBTI but the last letter is "opposite"

[@RetroXRicardo]

What an entertaining interview and discussion on these MBTI types. I discovered your channel through the KZbin algorithm. Fascinating!👋👋👋

[@itsjocex33]

Really loving how much we’re getting to know you and June through these podcasts!

[@lilita937]

The last letter is A and T for assertive and turbulent

[@wynettelim6628]

Love your podcast Esther and June! Was so insightful to get different perspectives and just interesting to listen to! Love it!! Listened to every word and even went back if I missed something hahaha 😂👍🏼

[@kevinchiu3869]

stumbled upon your channel and am loving the content! as a single ENFP with a lot of relationship baggage it's cool to hear other ENFPs share their stories and also hear the flip side to it as well

[@CharlottesSkye]

Oh my goodness I relate so much to June - as a strong ENFP i so enjoyed this conversation! Happy your podcast is back 💖

[@vicherahean212]

Yayy! I love this podcast so much!! ❤

[@iamichelle]

I’m really into mbti so these kind of videos are interesting to watch. I’m an istp and it’s pretty spot on for me

[@melmel123000m]

So happy for your podcasts❤

[@hkcharmer]

loved listening in on this, it was nice to hear abt other couples’ relationships and also reflect on my own haha

[@Michovic]

It’s 5am in the morning listening it half sleepy loving it 🥰

[@laurahimesekai]

Im ESFP and my husband is INTP. I love this combo sooo much! ❤ Usually i also count on horoscope signs that also change for example 2 same type.

[@ruth-uy9hb]

Dear Esther, I love your videos! From, a Korean American college student who looks up to you 😌💓

[@votolatodiaries]

So my husband and I are the exact opposites like the couples here: I'm an INTJ and he is a ENFP. I'd LOVE to see you guys dissect our fights. We are very open and don't mind being vulnerable so I think it would be a good segment for your listeners! You can get a taste of our relationship on our channel!!

[@ely4062]

I really like these conversations.. thank you for posting it on YT

[@keinname212]

Loooove this podcast!! Keep it up❤

[@Matchalemoncake12345]

So glad your podcast is back ❤

[@nisarap.6695]

really love the way of ISTJ couple

[@zethumteto3159]

Great episode 👏 thank you for a wonderful conversation❤

[@Ghost-sz7uo]

these episodes are the best.

[@marigoldmanlosa5424]

Waited for your vlog this week :)

[@Yu_yu1990]

Such a great episode❤ thanks for sharing!!!

[@soph1175]

“Sh-she can’t just be a happy person?” HAHAHAHAH

[@yee2minty]

I'm an INFJ and have not changed since my college days in 2018!! Haha~~ I try to take different ones every year and never strayed.. will see if this year I am the same or if I have changed. :P

[@jennyk88]

favorite podcast 🫶

[@alejandromarquez9368]

Cute couple podcast

[@Skinnypnny]

I always thought Esther and June are an I!!! But wow they are an E 😮 eventho I’m an I, in terms of relationship I prefer doing things with my bf like I prefer time with him, but I can do all things alone as well 😅

[@est.stella]

I’m INTJ and my boyfriend is ENFP completely the opposite but we don’t feel it that much, there are aspect in his life where he need an INTJ and I have aspect in my life where I need ENFP. How come y’all have that calm friendly voice?

[@joanmichel]

im more like Jun, sharing my everyday details 😂 thought i was the only one 😅

[@florencesitu8798]

why is the spotify link still not available? I would love to listen on spotify!!

[@simplyellenxo95]

Yaaaas you go girl!

[@becca873]

I'm and ENFP too! I'm curious what your enneagrams are.

[@ElmoTinker]

My husband and I are both ENTJ lol I don't know what to make of it, but it's a good time nonetheless 😂

[@nanaoduro1193]

so wholesome!

[@miandryy]

Love love this 🤍

[@nataliebulaun9097]

are these podcasts on spotify?

[@kellykelz_23]

What is the link so I can take the test?

[@AnnaLin]

Hahah totally get the ENFP folks 😂😂

[@melvinchessy]

Lord it's me again :-)

[@ajadegirl]

so cutee

[@krm355]

💓

[@예은-c7h]

👀❣️

[@trami7056]

I‘m really looking forward for new podcast episodes… it’s so relaxing to listen to 🥹🫶🏼

[@aliciacs19]

Listened to this on my way to work!! 🫶🏼🤍