It's not just you, hun- Opening up about our Insecurities | The Unpopular Opinion UG

[@Knowledge2cash]

Hi guys, I’m actually blown away by the love on here. For my own sanity, I rarely read comments on here, especially when the episode is heavy but I’m so glad I read them today. Thank you to everyone that has taken time to reassure me in the comments. You have no idea how much you have breathed life back into me and made me want to do even better in this space that I thought I brought absolutely nothing to. I’m typing this with tears in my eyes. Thank you so so so much ladies. You have reminded me of how important it is to be myself always. If you are reading this and like me, you fear being disliked, please don’t let that fear control you. I’m glad I didn’t quit TUO when my fear was at it’s peak. Don’t let your insecurities control you. You need to learn to control them… I love you all and I am committed to serving by being my most authentic self. ❤️

[@gladysdavids5175]

You are loved and keep going

[@zulaikhaidris6163]

I love you so much

[@sweetclaire5626]

Dear Claire you are so good trust me, and to speak for myself you really inspire me

[@shivanmusimenta7158]

Love u darling

[@Kats_ronnie]

Hi Claire am here to let you know that I love you and I love ur bold submissions… I always pay attention to every details here because I have learnt a lot about women and with you, u submit things I av always gone through in my past relationships…… away from that tubagala nyo ba dear…. Much love to Fiona n prim

[@Ebyensinebyokufakusigaho]

Ladies, you compliment each other.Claire, those of us who like you just don't comment but we like you. We see you and we like you.

[@gracenamara2121]

Clare doesn't know how much I love her. Like today as I watched this I wished I could atleast see u at a distance and scream " my Clare" & request for a hug. I love u😘 ❤️. I've always wished I could be like you.

[@tracymwangi7063]

This is actually very true.

[@lillianbruna2905]

I have always admired how beautiful Claire is, and her flawless fluency

[@Zuzu3045-n1i]

Your worst fears will happen and you will survive ❤

[@Dbhh4556]

Am a single person and one of my worst insecurities is the thought of picking a wrong partner and later regretting it especially in a marriage ( i realize it's because i come from a broken home and constantly seeing and hearing people in such situations)

[@Shaniqua227]

Same😢

[@brendasiimwe]

Oooh girl😔

[@sylvianyongesa1814]

Me too

[@giselerutabayiru9356]

Glad to know am not the only one😅

[@Flourish_today]

Fiona speaks just like my sister, even the way she carries her self. For me looking from the outside. When I see Prim I see more of her personality and that covers a multitude of everything. Fiona, has a quiet and unique personality which reminds me of French classy ladies, Clare is like that girl who is all about let's keep it 💯 which is a wonderful thing and rare in this fake social media world. I mean your all keeping it 💯. You all are doing things for us here. The most important is what you bring to this unpopular opinion table and how you have influenced us and changed lives.

[@nakabugobrendah4107]

Claire I was in high school with you and I always admired your unique personality. You are unique and amazing.

[@unreservedwithjune3217]

Claire you are so bold and confident you have boss lady energy and we love it , Prim your energy is everything ,Fiona has a very calming aura you complement each other very well . You can't be in a group of people with just similar qualities it would not be as engaging and entertaining.

[@priscillakobusinge7635]

In life , you can never be too good to everyone . Claire if can know how many people admire you. You can never count such people who are mean in their hearts . Go girl we love and you are our secret admirer , role model and we look up to you 😍😍

[@elizabethgundumure8302]

100% I would say the same thing. I was so surprised that people ever said something negative about Claire.. I’m also just so moved by the ladies’ authenticity- I really feel their honesty and rawness and it’s so beautiful and refreshing ❤️ Ladies thank you and you are amazing .

[@DignaK]

When Claire was describing her body, Prim and I had the same reactions 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 eeehhh maaamaaa Claireeeee😌

[@elizabethgundumure8302]

Prim was preaching there 🙌🏾 God raises our children… goosebumps. Also that one about being too Christian and also not Christian enough- it’s a thing 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@emmakenagwah3603]

Claire, we love you. Sorry we've not done a good job of letting you know. All of you are equally relevant here on this show.

[@ritahnyangoma8169]

Me as me when Claire talks l take all her convoz Seriously with No Joke okey she is a manager on this Channel ..but but and l say but when Prim comes out am like lemme cheer up after Claire's and kemiz words ...but these ladies are all

[@akiiki6051]

Keyword "equally relevant"

[@fahimasworld5957]

Prim i felt you at over sharing,,,, I used to be an open book but people judge and use it against me so i don’t share my staff a lot anymore with freinds

[@mediatrixmmbone1907]

the worst thing for me is that I still do that then criticize myself so much at the end of the day

[@clairekayesu]

The only problem I have with this show is that it comes to an end😢…. Keep it up ladies.

[@namudduhaliima4126]

"I shame myself to a point where you can not shame me more than i shame myself" Prim😘

[@TheRegular_Overthinker]

I don’t usually comment on KZbin but today I have to comment! First of all I love you girls, you always speak my mind all the timeee❤❤❤❤❤❤ 🥂 Who doesn’t like Claire and why? It’s very hard to dislike any of these amazing ladies! You inspire us ladies so no matter what, keep doing what you are doing and being you!

[@nyamwijadaphine2157]

Claire, my insecurity too is being poor and not being able to provide for myself.

[@balukaatlanta5851]

U ladies I can’t 😂😂😂😂😂Prim u killed me with tht sex part love u all I feel it’s important to be aware of ur insecurities it really helps🥰thnk u ladies keep these topics coming

[@brendarutto]

Claire, that's so true...me who likes you is quiet. When it's your turn to talk. always excited. Btw that's my insecurity too but I didn't know how to express it as excellently as you have.

[@LindaTinahTV]

You guys went in DEEP with this one. I feel like in one way or another I related with each one of you. I wish we could have a group hug! I am here for all this vulnerability. But Prim why, we were here getting emotional and you then you went there, BWAHAHAHA I can't.

[@muhammadkatimbo4182]

Claire your laughter 😂, the way Prim says funny stuff and maintains a serious face then Claire bursts into laughter 😂

[@twinamatsikodinnah6942]

You are all loved, accepted, unique. It wouldn’t have been better without any of you. Your combination is a boom and keep going gals

[@osy777]

Sadly the world doesn't owe you understanding. The world expects to see the best you every time you show up. Shine ladies, shine. Much love 💕

[@nyonyoziprim]

You’re so right

[@judithkuyah6282]

Claire is so amazing. She brings a unique feel, she is loud and I love how she says 'do you get it?'. People might not like how blunt she is, but what she says is true most of the time, people don't like the truth!

[@abernoel6690]

If any of you think we don't love you, just miss the show for one day and see questions, I think the reason why Prims name is so vibrant is becoz we are many plus size pipo with insecurities ,so Prim is our cheerleader, otherwise you are all fabulous,❤️

[@anitabatala4014]

Therapy taking Claire’s money because people are mean All I can say is that we should learn to extend grace to one another

[@rukundoolyvia7350]

🙏🏻

[@ronniedenis3844]

So true

[@fidelismaina7700]

Who the hell doesn't like Claire? I love you gal.....you are lovely, unique, and beautiful just as you are. Love...Love...Love...Hugs

[@momonshuti3211]

Thank you Claire, Fiona and Prim. I am in tears hearing Prim say God takes care of children. I am that child that God has been taking care of. 😭😭

[@tonipatricia4430]

Me too😭

[@Rita-km7bl]

Same WhatsApp group 🤗We bless The Lord 🙏🏼

[@loicebaraza]

That's the beauty of this podcast, you can't all have the same opinion, we love and appreciate you Claire

[@PhionahIngabireM]

My first ever comment on youtube: But how can you not like Prime honestly?? Some people are just likeable💜 Like you alot ka Kemi😘

[@amiirahmayordut5723]

Claire and I resonate on the same frequency. I fear people might not like me. I love you ladies Prim(❤),Fiona(❤), and Claire (❤). You guys what no idea how much impact y’all are making in society. I pray for more growth in our communities. Ps: I’m from South Sudan 🇸🇸

[@abiakabahimba1343]

Cause of death " Liking big things" Prim you have killed me.

[@sophymaroa3363]

At 27.00 😂😂😂😂😂… Prim lol! That was a nice one

[@nanfukaangella4324]

Prims reaction to Claire’s body description had me 😂rolling

[@raychonmulungi7538]

I can so relate with you Fiona on Daughter-Parent relationship.... Iam shook wen pipo have such amazing and liberal relationships with their moms. Keep hoping it will happen one day

[@amy2794]

This should also be called it’s related I promise😂😂 because the way Prim is talking my life 😅 Prim few weeks a go, I mean when I realized that I’ve put on weight, it was in a shopping centre, you know how there a lot of mirrors in shops on every wall💁🏽‍♀️ so I was walking and came across my really self🤓 I removed shoes and ran away from me😒 people I ran🏃🏾‍♀️ as if I was being followed. Since that day, never took pictures, wore tight clothes and literally never liked myself. So joined the jym, lost few pounds and got so active and gained confidence.

[@jovyscorner]

I've been struggling with body insecurities my entire life but on the skinny side wheew waking up everyday with a choice to love me for who I am has been my longest journey !! Thank you for all you do girls , I love the 3 of you😍😍❤️

[@janetkan3242]

Makes the two of us

[@jovyscorner]

@@janetkan3242 issa struggle sis, buh I've found solace in finding cloths that look good on my body and I've been loving it 😍

[@juliuskangume9206]

many Ugandans mostly online are very uncivilized, don't stress over comments , just keep up your great work

[@claireadhiambo3440]

My heart sank a bit when Fiona mentioned that she questions her value sometimes.....aaah dear,it's okay to feel that way...but just know you inspire me in so many ways,from my hair journey,to upholding my Christian principles,to how you conduct yourself...sidenote:your facial expressions crack me up, sometimes 😅, beautiful yet cheeky.sis,you are touching a life here and that's no small issue....

[@akiiki6051]

yeaaaaaah her facial expressions!!! She actually looks like my supervisor at work... I always forget to ask if they're related

[@jeremiah08kush]

I have practically just binge watched most of her videos

[@antheaankunda7930]

Ladies, i always watch the episodes a day or 2 after, but you all compliment each other. You all have something to bring to the table.. you have no clue how many people you are helping out there. Keep going. i thank you very much for giving us your time almost every week. You are fixing the nation 🥳🤗 May God continue to bless and provide for you to keep this going.

[@mercyngala3773]

I am from kenya and i can relate to claire.. its like all her insecurities are my insecurities, thank you claire for being vulnerable ❤️❤️❤️

[@michellemiddii2419]

Same girl

[@kerilial6952]

This is like "the Real"( American tv show) u guys really hit deep..Claire we have the same insecurity but ur loved..Prim z speech abt when smone dies " if the dead would come back to life..they would be disappointed" it totally resonates & what u said is really tear inducing but true

[@malkiawaalego2552]

Your worst fears will happen but you will survive. Whew! Prim, God raises children 🙌 Claire, you are loved, just as you are. You nailed it on the need for people to be their authentic selves. Kemi, you are so poised, and you are just Christian enough for God, and that’s the only one who matters. Thank you for being vulnerable ladies, this is a great discussion

[@nakyanziritah3771]

Dear Claire, I personally love you. You have a great wealth of knowledge that you always share. But I think the people who love you, the likes of me really just comment things like “thank you ladies or this was a good topic and not specifically mentioning any one”🙈🙈🙈but thank you for being vulnerable, I guess we will now be more intentional. Because everyone deserves to be loved in an intentional and individualized way

[@amanyajin2075]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣who else didn't see Prim's sex insecurity come??y'all were so serious into the talk n boom Prim happened 🤣🤣🤣🤣I have died. Truth is y'all great,I love each one of you for being real to who you are,I have actually been able to out grow judging people just by watching you ladies sharing your experiences and life,each one of you represents the different personalities out here and it's helped me to be more understanding of my own people so keep shinning,greatness is knocking. LOVE Y'ALL🥰

[@chrisgrace311]

Who doesn't like Claire 😒 personally I like your energy all of you and. We appreciate and learn alot from each one of you guys 🥰🥰❣️God bless you y'all 🙏🏿😘😘😘

[@daisydrateru]

This is 💯💯💯💯💯 all I needed to start my birth month and year ahead. Thank you 😭

[@Berna_Aine]

Every episode that you ladies put up always hits straight to the soul and this one did the same thing. Prim really spoke to me on the body insecurities damn.. I do love where I am with my body and I hope I continue to extend myself grace.

[@mercyacen2884]

Clare yo the most genuine person I have seen. like wooooow you make me remember myself and it's my biggest insecurity. I try to run away from a space I start to feel that way but today I feel much better today and knowing I should be myself and accept it

[@nokulungadlamini5610]

This show makes sense with ALL THREE of you ❤. Your diverse characters bring so much richness.

[@miriambuhule1]

I can’t stress how much I relate with Kemi

[@nanozianitah8027]

Claire, Kemi, and Prim ladies being loved w be an understatement for me..ladies u are sooo. adorable, if I could actually hug you, ladies, physically. You have genuinely changed lots of Pipo's lives, mainly mine in all aspects of life. 🥰😍🤩 Thank thank thank...........

[@nanozianitah8027]

Thank you

[@kamarungatiara9571]

Thank you 3 beautiful gals,for loving and fighting for each other as a team!

[@estareily467]

Claire we resonate with you we need you...you impact my life🤗

[@delphaze]

Love the new set up ladies! and love this topic… I wish we could all just embrace this level of transparency. Thanks for sharing, and thanks for being a good example of what female friendships should look like. ❤️ You ladies are going places, us the fans we shall keep fanning, the rest will catch up mpoola mpoola. ❤️❤️❤️

[@naff7552]

The makeup on this episode was so dope

[@carolineguwatudde1007]

Clare you are a darling in my opinion. I am in shock that there are people who talk negatively about you. You go girl. You are doing so well and are on a journey to greatness. We love you.

[@sonniakamukama]

Ladies ladies I fear shame🙈🙈,I dont know how to deal with it and people can easily bring me down with it. Thanks for sharing,i love u all.

[@marthanantaba7174]

This was heavy, really heavy. Thank you for this. This was really good. Thank you ladies.

[@aishanandawula4072]

The way I am going to have the "7 or 4" printed on a T-shirt 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Cant allow myself to forget. Kyoka Prim!!

[@horohelen1084]

This was one whole therapy session. Thank you ladies for being transparent with your journies and being vulnerable in this space. It gives us the ability to aspire for better for ourselves

[@rubenkihumuro7543]

You guys have great content. I have always watched. You bring your unique traits to this and the gel is just perfect. The most ideal shows / podcasts are natural, authentic and human.

[@liliankwamboka8146]

But Claire babe,I like you. I like how aware you are of yourself and how you show up everyday. That itself to me is more than enough! Sending you love and light your way❤

[@tinnaheronitah6142]

Thank ue darlings for sharing But who ever is behind the camera is a gen its so damn clear and your MUA did well too❤️🎀

[@Wiliyamu]

this was a tough one to unpack. super emotional. God bless you ladies

[@dellah256]

Claire we love u so much, if u ever leave this channel I will never forgive u. I love ur confidence, truth and intelligence. U will conquer

[@Ebyensinebyokufakusigaho]

Me too.

[@furahathestar]

Yeees

[@patiencebyoga8703]

This is a deep convo! @Claire, I totally get you on the comparisons 😄😄 we love you, and admire your openness and hope you see just how much

[@lilianakeyo3976]

Listening to Claire thinking 'What is she talking about? Girl we love you and we are here for you. You are doing a great job and your contribution is more than needed. And this goes to all of you equally

[@kengie121]

We love you ladies of Unpopular opinion keep up the great work. Claire we see you, appreciate, like and value what you bring to the show. Individually and together ya'll rock!

[@banksshahid316]

Prim killed Me with that "woman on top" talk😂😂😂😂😂

[@fykemogan8647]

Knowing ur weaknesses and insecurities makes u stand stronger before people who may use them against you thus normalizing them in ur life...much love Claire🤗

[@samsantana9348]

It’s not that we don’t like you, Clair. it’s just that we find ourselves being familiar with the other two ladies perspectives. And one thing you should know we all have our fears like being rejected or being undesirable. but remember your show is called unpopular opinion, it will always garner criticism or opinions, and such criticism is not limited to topics but also individuals on the program too. Just remember there people who resonate with you, they could be a minority, often minorities don’t want express themselves for fear of criticisms, therefore kudos to yourself that you can express yourself, your the true meaning of unpopular opinion. I admire that you’re yourself, you express how you feel and that you don’t try adopting stances for the sake of being a people pleaser.

[@naturalhairchronicles]

I love you guys more for talking about this. It is so hard and uncomfortable but you talked about it anyway. Kudos for this. Clare, you are loved, and you are great, and I love your character. Don't let anyone tell you anything less. I love you all, you are perfect together.

[@Callmehildaglosh]

A big hug Claire. One of my biggest fears too is rejection and not being liked. I don’t like being compared. Usually I am the one that is liked or praised and it brings some feelings and coldness among the group which has broken many of my group friendships. Also, I usually don’t sugarcoat things and I’m usually called out for showing off or being insensitive. So I really feel you. Ps: You matter and even though I may not agree with some of your opinions here you are still a great addition to this trio. Big hug❤️

[@amy2794]

It’s not just you hun! I’ve got anxiety of not being liked or rather not being chosen among others and indeed I don’t know if it’s this feeling that I have offer like I’ve never been picked out of a number of people unless I’m a lone and I’m the only option 😂

[@sandranamirembe7057]

Oh Clare bambi, your truth (about the comments) is so deep. So sorry to hear this naye one thing is for sure, you have always shown up and delivered n’ none of us knew this until today that you have shared. I just love all of you ladies. your energy, love n support for each other 🫂 ❤️

[@unravelledminds4195]

Claire you are amazing, don't ever doubt that and your laugh is contagious. Prim you make us laugh so hard. Fiona your calming aura is everything. You guys compliment eachother perfectly. This is the best show for me on KZbin and I have never missed an episode on God. I love you guys so much.

[@bobakabaramagi5124]

Awww Claire you are lovely. You always bring a unique perspective to each topic. Do not allow those negative comments bring you down. The three of you are amazing. Keep doing what you do. Much love.

[@LetsFixItWithSharifahNamusisi]

Wow ladies. Wow 👌 Lesson learned: You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear & insecurty in the face. You take away its power. Trust me on this, unpopular opinion wouldn't be as amazing without any of you! You 3, are the perfect fit. & you're loved🖤

[@berylkoyo2105]

hahaha hahaha when Prim said " we are sorry you are suffering "

[@masimiriam9313]

Prim your soo right there somethings uou can't control, i love you Claire

[@Letters7]

Claire we loveeeeee you Your opinion are breaking down mindset of young woman and woman in general 💯

[@mamaa.f.r.i.c.a3099]

I think that feeling of fearing really kills me

[@rachealrac5997]

Oh Claire, surprisingly i like Claire big time, sorry we have been a silent support, you are loved babe😘 hugs🫂

[@judybrax1630]

Claire we Love you,i am one of the quiet audience but Just know that us watching you three reveals our Love For you all ❤️❤️❤️

[@clairewere]

Claire, just so you know, I think you are amazing! Don't let anyone make you feel otherwise.

[@kisaamoamanda8981]

This is so beautiful, I like the vulnerability and the bond you guys have is synergistic.

[@A28CB]

You're a gem Claire. Keep on keeping on.

[@miriamkembabazi7591]

My God! For each insecurity I could relate. This episode made me feel so much better especially the body insecurities and friendship.

[@Elise-Ruth]

I feel you claire.. on matter of not necessarily being liked because of being authentically straight forward..learning to harness it but not get rid of it. It’s a gift and it’s rare

[@bezaregina4393]

Bambi sweethearts ❤, it’s been like a few months now when I started following you guys ,but am honestly very proud and inspired by you!!

[@dorothymuyege500]

Hello am new here and I absolutely love you all, it was so weird hearing Claire speak about your insecurity because honestly you exude so much confidence as a plussize woman I really look up to you , I love myself and the skin I'm in partly because of watching and following you guys. And not just that my biggest fear is failing so sometimes I just don't try at all, I'd stay in my comfort zone but after following this channel and you all on your personal channels I just want to venture out and do more and I'm really excited about that. So thank you all, you do not know what you all do for us sometimes and we can't give you much but trust me we really love and appreciate you. Claire we love you, your bubbly and Funny, prim I absolutely love your confidence and Fiona I love your subtle realness. Your all a breath of fresh air. Great Job❤

[@kuislittleworld2909]

24:5 😂😂😂 you are not alone Fiona I can relate 💯💯.... Such a beautiful conversation.. Love you ladies ❤️❤️❤️ To Claire, feel loved dear one 🫂 ❤️

[@alatirushamim4514]

Av just landed on this channel.i luv you women of substance. I feel you Claire.

[@rebeccanalwanga1907]

Claire, you are loved and you bring a lot to the table. I love the unpopular opinion.

[@johnteclaug0001]

Claire we love you, and please let no one put you down. Go Gal

[@kabasomirebecca2998]

Claire I like you only that I don’t comment , I just give you guys a big thumbs up when ever you upload

[@rachealayanga8235]

Claire!!!!! you are the butter on those 2 lady slices! look at it this way, there will NEVER be 'unpopular opinion' without you babe!...drops mic

[@nyonyoziprim]

Sooo true

[@beckiekosey7567]

Thanks ladies for sharing. About the well being of children after the death of parents, growing up as a partial orphan, I can relate with Prim. It's all in the hands of God. When you help people or relatives or whomever it maybe, do it without expecting a reward from them otherwise you will be disappointed. We should work to secure their future but it's not a guarantee. We have heard of orphans from wealthy families hustling after the death of their parents and yet their property is intact, the world is cruel.

[@ankundaashley1257]

Feel you Prim….with God you’ve conquered it all! Love the trio ❤

[@mamapsalm1980]

Haters are proof that ur doing something right 🥰

[@sylviaandlife4617]

So true of myself to almost everything talked! Am i even human? 🤣🤣