It's okay to have no future plan (stop stressing)

hi pixies. today i felt like rambling and i'm sorry if this is of no help to you but i kinda wish i'd been told this when i was confused and stressed out about my future y'know?? i hope you're all having a fab day and i love you lots xxx
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[@hatsuharu14]

I'm 23 and i'll just start university next semester because my mental health didnt let me start any earlier. Most of the people i went to school with (or that im friends with) already are about to finish their studies or already got their jobs, marriages, kids, whatnot. But i figured, thats okay in the end. That doesnt mean i will be worse at my studies (or at life for that matter). That doesnt mean that that I wont get anywhere in life or that i wont be happy. And that doesnt mean that i cant do it. Your age has nothing to do with where you should stand in life and it should not dictate you what you should've already accomplished.

[@ginchan11]

omg your comment..Thank you!😢

[@1lovetheocean]

♡ we are here for greater things ♡ evolution of the mind! lots of love to you in everything you decide for your path! ♡

[@ashleighlikescats]

I'm in the same boat! I left sixth form after getting rejected from an audition for an acting course (the only audition I could afford to do) became a secretary for a building company, learned about how to run a business andloads of random building facts, the company shut down and I started part time working at a nightclub, tried waitressing - hated it, got another job in a bar and now i'm enjoying just having fun and not stressing about the future Take every day as it comes because they may not be a tomorrow! xo

[@lostloopy]

Hello daughter, this video is perfect, made me even prouder than I already am. It's great to see all the lovely comments people have made letting you know how you've made them feel better or just brightened up their day. I've just turned 52, I never got the chance to further my education but I'm now doing my NVQ in optics, it really never is too late 👓❤️

[@yellowisacolor91]

but what if you've wasted all your youthful years like me doing nothing? :(

[@Cutiebum]

You have your entire life ahead of you! Don't think because you've wasted a few years that everything will go downhill, let that motivate you to make your future years full of new adventures. Like I said in the video, don't dwell on past decisions just focus on making now good xx

[@1lovetheocean]

+Abbie Rose yes! ♡

[@bronwynincledon9745]

This video has really helped me, I am going into 6th form and I have no idea about my subjects and I was worrying that they wouldn't help me in 'later life' and I have no idea what I'm planning to do in terms of jobs or uni or anything but watching this has made me feel a lot less stressed and freaked out about it all, thank you so much for this, you are truly lovely!

[@lemirran]

I stopped video on a half to say thank you. Because now I'm very stressful and your words cheered me up. You so great person and i love your video so much!! I'm 16 and i have no idea what i will do in the future. That's very scared me.

[@zyragr]

How are you now? Currently experiencing what you've experienced 4 years ago, how are you doing?

[@Charlotte-bs5du]

Your video is so helpful, I've also been in the same situation. I went to 6th form, a college in Liverpool, quit then went back a few years later and I'm currently studying art! For years I felt like I was behind everyone but I've come to realise that as long as I end up doing something I enjoy, I'll be happy :)

[@charlotte2956]

So so so glad I clicked on this! Was having such a down day but now I feel better about things. Thank you!

[@1lovetheocean]

omg wow! had to stop and comment, I've been through very similar! Graduated high school not knowing what to do, stayed one more year at home to figure out, when the time came to apply I had sort of decided to go to a private art college, stayed there 1.5 years feeling miserable, everyone there mocked me, specially one guy too, and I just wanted to leave there but was so scared of what my parents would say! Finally decided to leave, went through some hard times but nothing comparing to those years, and here I am 22 y. in uni again taking psychology. It has been nerve racking to think of everything I have to study and I doubt myself if I'm going to make it but I want to get this done now :) so yeah, everyone's path is unique and that's the beauty of life! Really appreciate you for taking the time and effort to share your story!

[@kattheaspie2746]

As a 28 year old with not much of a future plan of life yet, I wanted to say that this video was reassuring. I am about to start a level 3 btec art and design course in September, with the hopes that this could lead on to art at university. However, my family does not agree with my decision to try for uni, despite the fact that they all have degrees. I know it will be hard work but I have no idea what to expect as asking about uni experiences in my family is like trying to get blood from a stone. I would love to see a video where you talk about your uni experiences. I think a lot of people find the jump from school or college to uni intimidating - I do as a mature student! Nobody will have the same experiences at uni but I would love to hear yours.

[@fyodorkdostoyevsky]

Holy Jesus, did I need this. Words cannot express how grateful I am.

[@Cutiebum]

I'm so glad, keep that chin up ok x

[@amalbenyakhlef8027]

Omg iam so like u, iam so not into : have a degree .. job .. mariage .. children.. iam so nooot! I don't know what life reserves me but i have faith and i also have a lot of dreams that i hope one day i'll could accomplish

[@CarrieAnneKimberley]

hey gurl, my friend anna told me about your channel cause i have one too and i thought i'd have a nose and i've just subscribed, currently binge watching your vids haha! much love x

[@shireenmurrell7890]

've watched about three of your videos and they are really relatable to me :) so thank you for sharing I will be watching more of you

[@mk3lish]

3:16 ❤️❤️❤️

[@alexhenderson440]

Thank you ❤️

[@hassanahmed3312]

I have no future I'm dumb. I try and study but i m still dumb I can't even awnser easy questions so what's the point of my life

[@Lauren-vw3cn]

I love you! Thank you for this.

[@Cutiebum]

I love you too! You're welcome :)

[@aftab277]

Looking at you helped me forget my worries! Pretty Girl :)

[@lmao8139]

Thank you I really needed this :)

[@Cutiebum]

❤️❤️❤️

[@whenugetacallthatyoexwentt8502]

Thing is I'm in a completely different country right now so learning the damn language is fucking difficult as hell, I can't just speak English in here man

[@katyharding6431]

I don’t know what direction I want to go in, I am 14 and for a few years I wanted to be a solicitor but realised that’s just not for me and now don’t know, I absolutely love history, as sad as that sounds but what exactly am I going to do with that?”

[@Kaiena13]

Needed this.

[@teachercola]

I'm currently feeling really stressed for the future so this was helpful I'm 27 and have no idea what to do with my life lol

[@katyharding6431]

Nicola Jayne I am feeling like this at 14, wooo go ocd that my makes me want to control every aspect of my life☹️

[@emiliiajayne]

I'm in the same boat atm haha! Jus' going with the flow :)

[@lukeshaddick7486]

I have to stay in education until 18 and there is nothing I want to do :(

[@wingnutmcspazatron3957]

Yeeeah it's ok for attractive people to have no need for a plan because relationships and self-esteem are handed to them for just being in the same building as other people. Ugly? Better get to work! Ain't nobody got time for you unless you prove valuable to them in some other means. I empathize with women on that note. Men can be ugly but can still get tail if they have a solid personality, and attractive men can still fail at getting women if they lack personality. Women? There's a reason almost every single one of them dumps thousands of dollars into makeup; They HAVE to look good, otherwise their value drops dramatically in the sex-market. Sucks, but that's how it is. It makes me feel like our miniscule lives aren't worth living.

[@Godoftheinternet.]

No bro this is not ok at all.

[@misterdanishguy8124]

Hi I'm 22. I just had an exam where I managed to do nothing. As of writting this comment I await the worst of responses and to be honest it has never been about the study that I am worried about. It's my family's respond to this fact I'm scared of. Truth be told all I want is to just not wake up one day and not exists. But be that as it may I do exists and I'm not string enough to just kill myself. And I probably never will. Not because I think life is worth it. But because I'm to scared of pain and whatever may or may not be the consequence of doing so. I used to fear being no one and having a shit job and small shitty apartment, where I'd do the same routine everyday for the rest of my life. But now I've just accepted that that is not the worse fate I can get. And that I am never going to be anyone or anything special. It's sad to me. But that is most likely my future. I once dreamed of becoming my own boss and having my own business. But at last that is somting I'd never have to the social or technical skills to pull off. I'm not really social and see very little family. Don't be me. Do you scrolls do your best to study from the beginning and move away from. the big city's. The city's drain life out of ya. Sry.

[@Fayble_1]

How are things now dude?

[@duddytime]