It was DISTURBING: ex-OnlyFans Manager Opens Up

[@sbmp810]

S3x addiction is such a real issue that NOBODY talks about- it is so desensitized in society and Onlyfans has made it exponentially worse by making it so accessible to kids! If instagram/tik tok/whatever is going to be so blatant in pushing those “influencers” then the age needs to be raised from 13 to 18 as for any p0rn site. People dont realize how early and normalized exposure is so detrimental to a young minds development for future relationships (romantic + unromantic!)

[@NickSlater]

Early exposure and the unique way porn is normalised through social media must be having a significant impact on young, impressionable minds. Sites should absolutely be forced to raise the minimum age and legacy media needs to step up and join the conversation instead of glorifying creators like Anna Paul!

[@Hammerhead137]

​@NickSlater It became worse the moment we made it accessible to women.

[@rebeccasaltzburg5553]

Sorry I disagree porn has been around forever! At least Only Fans creators are safer than in remote porn warehouses.

[@sbmp810]

@@rebeccasaltzburg5553 do you realize how many onlyfans creators are actually trafficking victims? It is really no safer, it actually makes abuse that way a lot easier because its being mistaken as ‘safer’ **edit to come back to add: The porn industry at least has regulations (age, health/safety, etc). Onlyfans makes it so much easier for people to get past those regulations (i.e. underaged victims are a massive issue). And its all under the guise of Onlyfans being "empowering and safer" when its truly not

[@sadiemakesmesmile]

you're blaming OnlyFans for ruining kids when they can go on any p0rn site no questions asked as long as they have an internet connection??? Im sorry, OnlyFans is not the problem, the problem was already there long before and you chose not to look

[@dollyG1968]

I really worry for young people-the world is getting sick- great chat and this content is needed

[@hermandm89]

We need more people like this speak out. OF is contributing nothing to our society. Thanks for this ep!

[@NickSlater]

Thanks for giving it your time!

[@Hammerhead137]

​@@NickSlater It's definitely contributing to the destruction of our society.

[@hermandm89]

I think you know what I mean. Do you not?

[@sadiemakesmesmile]

what are other p0rn sites contributing can i ask?

[@MaryDixonSmilla13]

This was an absolutely terrific conversation by both individuals. I learned tons from them and truly appreciated they're coming of age and their introspection.

[@NickSlater]

Thank you so much for listening !

[@NickSlater]

A huge thanks to Victoria for coming on and speaking out about such an important issue 🙏🏼

[@AG-sd9lt]

Thank you for this conversation! We need these topics to get in front of those young kids - but the algo isn't going to feed it to them. How can we get people outside of those bubbles to hear the other perspectives?

[@priyaanand9342]

Such an important conversation! Thanks, Nick and Victoria, for raising awareness around this subject. Eye-opening. I had no idea it was a women runned organization, and to be honest I did not really know what only fans was although I had an intutive sense about it. Disturbing, scary, and eye-opening at the same time. Especially enjoyed your take on building self work and self-esteem.

[@TrinaGallo]

Thank you for sharing your experience so eloquently, honestly, and it really resonated with me! I admire your bravery, intelligence, etc. Mr. Slater I REALLY like the way you interviewed her. It was brilliant. I REALLY LIKE your vibe. With ❤from NYC

[@jtibbs5676]

This is a very important conversation to have. Keep speaking truth about the dark consequences.

[@NickSlater]

Thank you for listening :)

[@scfan7231]

Great video! Thank you for making this interview. 🙂

[@NickSlater]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@Youtube_Enthusiast_]

Love this !!!!! More content like this !! This needs to be more talked about

[@NickSlater]

Hopefully the start of some important conversations! Thanks for listening

[@DampzyDusky]

Thank you for raising such topics, not everyone dares to do this. It’s good that BongaCams differs for the better in this regard

[@martinvho]

@NickSlater : The 'writing name/text on skin' is not to own, but is used as the ultimate reality check. If with it she proves she is actually real and not some fake sending someone elses pics, and is reachable because she reacts to the request, it gives the men a self-permission to obsess about them. Pretty much all OF girl stalkers started as 'write my name' types. It's pretty sick.

[@NickSlater]

That’s very interesting

[@adamrocks529]

Great interview Nick. This was interesting and inspiration to change.

[@NickSlater]

Thanks for listening mate

[@misty6443]

18:36 This 👆🏻 Im keeping this part in my head. How true it is. And it is confirmed for example by Lily Philllips saying herself that she dissociated. Yet she is in denial, believing this is empowering and that it is self love. Most of them are in denial. Im keeping these words in my head, I wish not to forget them... because we are living in a world full of trash now. Keep yourself on the good path... No matter if they laugh at you.

[@jdill3350]

I love the setup of the podcast brother!

[@Evie170]

This was like watching an example of Melbourne nightlife culture vs Sydney outdoors culture... :O

[@raykarena4595]

Respect her honesty, she looks familiar when I worked door in Melbourne

[@adamh5466]

Thank you Victoria and Nick. What a great interview with such valuable insights. you are absolutely right Victoria and my hat is off to you. You are very courageous and thank you for protecting our young girls.

[@williambaker2938]

There needs to be non-alcoholic bars there are some around here in the United States

[@deagalore]

She has a lot of wisdom and good advice. I appreciate her sharing her story. I think younger people especially really could benefit from hearing from people like her.

[@Blondiee777]

Hi there! I'm a UK based Independent Escort! I've never ventured into only fans as it is Porn in my head and just not my forte. However when she says about "selling your body" there are plenty out there who sleep with men for free. Then they end up pregnant and usually as a Single Mother... I may sell sex but I sure don't sleep about and I've never ever had unsafe sex (working or in personal life). So I think she and maybe others could do with reminding Sex Work is simply just work to a lot of us. And many Sex Workers are able to lead normal lives away from work. It's not always the case no. But women choosing Sex Work aren't always the vulnerable traumatized victims we get made out to be.

[@Orson2u]

TRUE. Thank you for saying so!

[@user-qu2cx7cd3w]

Absolutely wonderful podcast! This podcast should,go national .

[@NickSlater]

Thankyou yes agree we need to be having this conversation!

[@spiritofmatter1881]

Great interview. I am still let down that this is what this platform entails, founded by women.

[@tammywelsh8299]

since majority subscribers are around 29 and married ,wonder if it has an emotional affect on the husband 's wives and help created #dirty 30's (lawyers refrance terms) where is becoming a more normal age 30yr olds women are having mental breakdowns and , end up leaving their marriages

[@Jammy0024]

What a fantastic video, really great interview!

[@NickSlater]

Thanks for listening, glad you received value from it :)

[@RobertWilcox-y5l]

Great video. Thanks.

[@TrinaGallo]

I have sooooo much in common with you, Victoria (albeit I’m into academia 🤓 You're an intelligent woman too! I got so much from you & thanks for sharing it. I really admire your bravery and eloquence.

[@szundarraman3101]

Interesting conversation, thanks for shedding some light on this topic!

[@NickSlater]

Thank you for listening!

[@faithsonshyne]

Wow Victoria is amazing. Really enjoyed this :)

[@NickSlater]

she sure is. glad you enjoyed!

[@CaribSurfKing1]

AI will end all of this, both OF and 9-5 jobs

[@mauvaisgarcon552]

Great podcast, Victoria has so many brilliant statements and is well articulated. Such a great energy. I hope her voice reach other women, she's a great role model.

[@NickSlater]

Thanks for listening! Yeah she's a star I couldn't agree more

[@augustbutterfly]

Harsh reality about how a 9-5 FUGGING SUCKS and totally absolutely DESTROYED ME.

[@seagul6g]

Good convo and interesting topic. I thought Nick is a good podcast host 👍

[@NickSlater]

Thanks for giving it your time :)

[@tahnyaiva4494]

Great interview!

[@thevixenxiii]

This is a powerful convo

[@NickSlater]

Thanks for listening.

[@davecharlie0]

"It's easy to get in - It's hard to get out." -Gordon Gekko 24:57

[@davecharlie0]

Socratic method? 32:49

[@CaribSurfKing1]

OF slavery vs 9 to 5 slavery. Choices…choices

[@philphelan7714]

OF creators Need to be Shamed..It is Shameful and Disgusting behavior... Totally Appalling..The End.

[@misty6443]

17:42 Interesting and sad

[@AnnieluLucy]

It took her a moment of realization by thinking of her niece to "humanize them"? Jeez, she probably saw illegal things which made her leave before getting in trouble. She has absolutely no morals. Sorry, cry me a river.

[@WordBoss75]

I couldn’t continue watching cadence The first speech was irritating to me.

[@dschalaliman5916]

title is dusturbing - she is not an only fans manager . she is an only fans agency manager ?

[@funkyfreddurst]

My new business startup "Simphora" Building thirst traps since 2024

[@JF-cd5hc]

Lol!

[@jotsandtittles]

These "tips" on how to minimize risk are ridiculous. "When you young teenage girls are drunk in the club, be sure to... blah blah." They'll be DRUNK, so how are they going to remember the "tips" and use good judgment? Parents who shrug and say, " Well, the teens will sneak out anyway, so how can we make them SAFE in a world of adult men, drugs, sexual exploitation... Here's a tip: they aren't safe there, so stop being your kids' buddy and take care of them.

[@ali.iswell]

As an Onlyfans creator and Mother of Daughters, I both understand and am puzzled by this. Onlyfans is not a gateway drug. There are many other mainstream apps that target younger audiences directly. Porn and the internet have always been around, and blaming the platform itself overlooks the individual choices involved.

[@NickSlater]

First off, internet porn has only been easily accessible for the past 15-20 years, and we’re already seeing the harm it’s causing to intimacy, relationships, and especially teenage boys. I believe Victoria’s point about gateway activities is that OnlyFans offers a simple entry for young women into sex work, which often leads to other forms of sex work down the line.

[@lexibaby4679]

Denial at its best. I have prayers for your daughters.

[@russ9921]

Very intelligent girl. You can often tell from the fingernails, though, if a girl has some issues.

[@alexchargerclips]

Maybe dont shame onlyfans creators?

[@JF-cd5hc]

Why not? We used to shame immorality and look what we built as a civilization.

[@lexibaby4679]

Lol😂

[@amc3964]

Other people’s kids. Gross.