its moving day and plans have changed...again

[@tanilivengood3367]

Love how you roll with the changes. Plans don’t always go as planned you either roll with it or be stuck . Safe travels to you

[@Beingbethunes]

Thank you 🥰 You are so right!! I love that, roll with it or be stuck! That explains it perfectly! I hope your day is awesome 💛💛💛

[@matthewseltzer1399]

Great video! Safe travels and Happy new year. Hopefully the van and blue Betty sells soon.

[@LSChestersMom]

So much to be grateful for! With my PTSD I find not rushing is key :) What a blessing to know there is no hurry and no worry.

[@Beingbethunes]

Yes there is!! Gratitude sustains optimism and I love yours!! And you’re so right, rushing is a huge trigger for me. I appreciate you sharing that with me 🥰

[@Buttercupi2f]

@@Beingbethunesno worries? Yeah, sure. If I just lost 128K I’d be worried and mad at myself for AGAIN not making a plan. WTH?

[@laurieclarkson9180]

Molly has a nice travel bag for makeup! Looks spacious

[@Beingbethunes]

She sure does! She needed a new one and that was one of her Christmas presents. She loves it!

[@debralints8926]

Very nice video. You guys are the nicest people and it’s always great to watch you. Much love and safe travels

[@chrisheilman2128]

Thank you Theo!!! Forrest is now running through the house barking, looking for you 😂🤣

[@Beingbethunes]

Bahahahaha! I giggled so hard at the thought of this 🤭 Our dogs do the same thing 😂

[@chrisheilman2128]

​@@BeingbethunesIt was so funny cause he doesn't usually do this. Theo must have had something important to say 🤣😂

[@edwardleecaliforniausa]

Good morning all happy Monday morning and happy new year to you and I hope that 2025 brings you a love to you and happiness

[@Isela-w9v]

HELLO DID YOU make it to Arizona ❤

[@tammycruz8189]

The Sky Was ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS WHILE U WAS DRIVING .... ❤❤❤❤

[@Beingbethunes]

Omggg right?!? These AZ sunsets are just something else 😍😍😍

[@SantosChronicles]

Hope you had a great Christmas. Your adventures are always fun to follow. Melissa and I are watching Breaking Bad again. And I love visiting all the filming sites there. I swear they put 🌶️ in everything in that area. Holy Taco Bell - I’m the only in the family likes it. We usually stay at Holiday Inn Express for free breakfast and pool. Have a Happy New Year.

[@Beingbethunes]

Hey Carl!!! Give Melissa a hug for us!! Breaking Bad is one of Kyle’s all time favorite shows. He loves it! He even sported a los pollos hermanos t shirt until it got holy and went to tshirt heaven 😂 And yessss! They put 🌶️ in everything! I was worried that I wouldn’t be able to handle it when we bought property there. Buuut, eating so much of it now, I can say that the red is what I go with more because it’s less spicy typically than the green. Holiday Inns have been a really great one for us! This one had zero pet fee, which is unheard of!!! Have a great new year Carl!!!!!!

[@suzycue9278]

Jenn, neurofeedback has been a literal lifesaver for me and my anxiety….You might look into it….panic attacks are sooo debilitating.

[@naturegirl5681]

I love uhauls used them for years. I also love Taco Bell’s breakfast bacon crunch wraps. Y’all are so cute and cheerful! Love your channel!

[@Beingbethunes]

We love you!! Kyle and I were just talking about U-Haul and how well constructed they are! It was SO EASY to pull that trailer, they are awesome!

[@Rosesnflowers7]

I'm sorry you have to get those triggers though you are helping me learn more of PTSD I really feel you and I'm so Blessed by watching you with your family your a true gem keep believing all things good your son sees you and smiles

[@Beingbethunes]

Awwwww Rose!!!!!! You made my night with your sweet words. I am blessed having you here 🫶

[@vesper.q4100]

..wow, you're doing a great job keeping a cool head with this transition. And with ptsd! ✨️🤍

[@Beingbethunes]

Awww thank you!! We are finding our calm in the chaos 🫶

[@Boowitch13]

Jenn, sorry about your PTSD. I have it as well. Not fun😢. Hugs and positive vibes to you❤

[@Beingbethunes]

Thank you so much for seeing me ❤️ Having PTSD is not easy friend, I know you know the struggle 🫶

[@wessebaggers]

Prayers ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

[@Beingbethunes]

🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶

[@1997slowry]

Jenn im sorry sorry about your ptsd . I'm sure traveling is so hard but you did amazing. ❤ loved that sunset as you were traveling. Safe travels!

[@Beingbethunes]

Awww thank you for seeing me 🫶 It was hard for sure. At the end of the night, I was so proud I made it through the day. Today though was super stressful. I pulled the U-Haul with the jeep through two major cities while Kyle drove the bus!! I was pretty proud of that 🥰 Love you so big Stacy! Give your grand baby Carter a big hug from us!

[@cevita66]

Thank you for being you and human. Y'all are so wonderful! Ms Jenn, i don't like 😮 big 18 wheeler rigs, so i either pass by em quickly or slow down and let them pass by faster! 😅 And if im the passenger i am way more nervous! And tell my spouse to please.....drive this way or that way! Talk about trying to be tactful in a stressful situation! 🥴💫

[@Beingbethunes]

Awww! You are so sweet! Thank you for being here and being framily!!! I don’t blame you about those 18 wheelers! They are big and frightening sometimes for sure! I think you’ve got a great strategy by passing them quick. Have an amazing new year!!!!

[@megsjaco]

the taco bell chicken nuggets taste exactly like the chicken selects from McDonalds! not complaining, still good! lol

[@Beingbethunes]

The kids and Kyle really enjoyed them too! It was so wild to see that on the menu 😂

[@thesassynae]

Nooo you can’t leave us hanging! Gah , cliff hanger for sure!

[@Beingbethunes]

It’s going to be a wild ride….

[@kathylambert594]

So happy for you guys and hope you have a safe trip. I’m just curious, won’t water lines freeze in blue Betty ?

[@Beingbethunes]

Thank you Kathy!! They will, but we will fix any broken ones when we get back. She had quite a few that needed fixing when we did our pre trip inspection ❤️

[@laurieclarkson9180]

Oh I meant to tell you guys that Walmart boxes aren't that great. The smalls and mediums aren't that bad, but the larges hold more than the handles can..handle. haha

[@Beingbethunes]

Ahhh! Yes!! These boxes have been very poor quality. Several of them have fallen apart the past couple days. Hopefully we won’t be needing anymore 😂

[@ambiieetaimalie]

❤❤❤

[@Beingbethunes]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@lornamackenzie343]

Sorry to hear your PTSD is bad again Jenn. Hoping that 2025 will be a Happy and healthy New Year or you all. 💜💜

[@Beingbethunes]

Thank you Lorna! Happy New Year!!!!

[@deborahmcdermott6927]

Oh my...we have to wait until Wednesday for the big news!!!! Be safe.

[@Beingbethunes]

🤭🤭🤭🤭

[@tammycruz8189]

Safe Travels Always. Jenn U did amazing beautiful.... i too get this way . I Love U Guys. Cant wait to c Daisy YAY ... Please Keep Safe Kids 🙏 💓. My LOVE n HUGS ALWAYS FROM YOUR FRIEND IN MICHIGAN TAM P.S HAPPY NEW YEAR 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤LOVE YA'LL ❤️ 😍 💖

[@Beingbethunes]

Awwwww!! Tam!!! I just love and adore you so much! Thank you for always being such a bright light and giving us your love!!!! Happy New Year!! Stay warm up there!

[@tammycruz8189]

@Beingbethunes been a little warmer . I Love U Guys Sooo Much . N I Really Hope Some Day I Get To Meet U All !!! My Hugs n Love Always ❤️ 😍 💖

[@Everyday_is_a_new_day]

Do you take anything for your panic? It puts a lot of stress on ones heart. I dont like mental health meds, but i do like a very small does xanax helps me so so so much when im in panic mode.

[@Beingbethunes]

That’s a great question! I actually prefer to use THC for mine, which helps me manage sooooo much easier. However, if I’m driving, I don’t take it, so I have to manage my panic the entire time and by the end of the day, I am even more exhausted than I was in this video. I’ve taken lorazepam and Xanax before, they both give me adverse effects and aren’t for me. I am really glad they work for you! Medicine is such a great tool when you need it!

[@Everyday_is_a_new_day]

@Beingbethunes same for me too. I prefer thc. But when I can't use it like you said in driving or others, I'm thankful for my xanax. All the others gave me adverse symptoms, too! Made everything worse! Sometimes, even the THC makes it worse if it's a bad batch or something. So xanax is my emergency stash only. Lol I'm so happy you can manage naturally too! I had heart issues arise from panic attacks, so I like to help remind everyone else to keep the heart health up too! Herbs in tea or cooking to help lower cortisol. It's cortisol that affects the heart. 💗

[@Beingbethunes]

THC is such a great tool! You’re right though, sometimes those bad batches can enhance panic for me too. It helps tremendously when Kyle is driving. I’m able to stay at a manageable level without becoming too overwhelmed. Today though, I had to pull the U-Haul with the jeep through Phoenix and it was really tough on my panic. It’s sooo good to have multiple tools like you said. I put on my lofi beats on Spotify, then began my breathing, Theodore did DPT on my shoulder, and I was able to manage. When I got out of the car though, the lights in target caused a massive panic attack and we had to spend 45 minutes in the bedding section so I could find my calm. That’s so good you can use that! It helps to have a medicine that can bring it down almost instantly. It’s crucial in lowering the panic before it becomes too much to manage. Yesss! Cortisol is everything in heart health! I think stress causes so much disease and cancers. Finding peace throughout my day is a godsend! I really appreciate you sharing some of your story with me this evening 🫶

[@Everyday_is_a_new_day]

@Beingbethunes the energy in phx itself is a panic. Know the phrase, rise of the Phoenix, that phenomenon is real! You did it! Something new on something you already done. Driving a uhual attached is a big step and in the 5th largest city!!! In the US?! Girl I live in tucson and just driving g anything in phx is a anxiety of itself! I'm so proud of you angel!!! 👏 💗💗💗

[@Buttercupi2f]

@@Beingbethunesawww…THC why am I not surprised

[@lisahansen3610]

Didn’t Jen drive alone when she had to follow the bus for quite awhile? How did she manage her PTSD with that?

[@Beingbethunes]

That’s a great observation Lisa. It’s a different kind of panic when I am driving alone. I can manage easier by myself, driving alone with Theodore. Leaving in a car as a family is my biggest trigger. I do so much worse if I drive with Kyle in the passenger and the kids in the back. If the kids are in the car, losing them became a reality. My PTSD is constantly reminding me it could happen again because it did before, by showing my horrific images of us crashing and our kids dying. That’s when we are all in the car together. If I am by myself, I am in panic, I just don’t have the images because I am using my senses to focus on the road, with Theodore giving me DPT on my arm. So, I have panic in both, I just don’t have the images when I drive alone. Either way, I am utterly exhausted by the end of the day, with my muscles being tensed up all day long and when they finally get to release, I’m in so much pain. If I ride in the bus, I do SO MUCH BETTER. I have mild panic, but I’m usually able to manage it really well. In different situations, my panic varies greatly. We could be out in Target and a sound, smell, or bright lights can trigger my PTSD. I didn’t have that before, I used to love going into stores. Since the accident, I hate being in crowded places or among hoards of people. Triggers can happen anytime, anywhere. I appreciate you reading all this! PTSD is complicated and I wanted to explain it in a way that felt right 💛

[@lisahansen3610]

@ thank you for answering that for me. I don’t experience it so didn’t understand how it worked. I’m sorry that you have to deal with this and hope it will get better for you.

[@Putapota21]

It's really sad that you have to deal with that for the rest of your life. Hopefully, when you get older, like in your 50s and 60s, it won't be so bad?🙏🏼 I'm trying to figure this out because why do you have it so bad, but your husband doesn't? and he can just drive with no problems.😢🙏🏼🤍 Oh, i went to Taco Bell two weeks ago and had the new chicken nuggets and they tasted good and way better than McDonald, Burger King and Wendy's because it's breaded with crumbs on them and that makes the difference and that's how i make my chicken and the bread crumbs gives it😂 more flavor.👍🏼🩷

[@DJDiane-2368]

Being a MOTHER losing your baby boy...really you have to ask why she has it worse than Kyle?? Seeing her baby in the condition that he was in right after the accident!! OMG I would have been like Jenn too!! But seriously you have to ask!!?? It is a mother thing...she carried that baby for NINE months , only a mother can truly understand, men can not...ugh some ppl! Also just fyi that was her son... Yes Kyle, I am sure loved him as his own too.

[@Beingbethunes]

Thank you Elizabeth 🫶 PTSD is really hard and it’s gotten better for me over the years. I’ve worked really diligently at learning each of my emotions and how they react to my triggers. I’ve spent a lot of time identifying my triggers so I can begin to breathe as soon as one comes in. You know, I think trauma and grief aren’t one sized fits all. They show up differently in each person. For me, I think seeing it happen to Ethan and then seeing what he looked like right after, that altered my brain in such a way that I can’t unsee what I saw. That scarred my brain so much so, that I got PTSD. PTSD from my experience, affects my brain and conspires with my emotions to cause me to spiral into the black abyss. Going on a long trip with the kids in a car is my biggest trigger. Kyle’s depression got cracked open from the accident and that has its own set of challenges he has had for as long as I’ve had my PTSD, about 13 years. Each of us have different things that we help each other grow with 🥰 Kyle and the kids loved the Taco Bell nuggs! I bet the nuggets you make are amazing!!!!