Its time to move on..

[@HeartFeltGesture]

1. Make sense of what happened. 2. Identify and remove toxic people from your life and find safe people. 3. Refuse the narcissists rules. Go no contact if necessary.

[@travelingdude1621]

Buddy, I’ve been watching your videos for a while. If nothing changes around you or if things don’t get better for you over a long time in the area you live in, you simply need to just take off and move to a new town, city or state and hope for the best. Staying in the same place gets nobody anywhere. If we want change, we have to change. Before we know it, we’re all old, sick, dead and forgotten about. Just the reality.

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

@@travelingdude1621 again..how do I do that if there are no good paying jobs?

[@professional.commentator]

I'm trying to let go of the past too but it's difficult. Especially when the future looks bleak.

[@ishguy524]

Same here, I don't know the future holds

[@adcaptandumvulgus4252]

I too am dealing with reality as it is and trying to forget the potential future from a neglected past

[@CindySmith-vd7xh]

We're definitely in the same boat there. I made it a goal to ruminate less on what my parents did after I've talked about it for so long. It sucks moving on, but it's necessary. Thanks for the video ❤.

[@trenmage]

hell yea man! the energy is shifting for many of us

[@Bstevie8292]

Hopefully the online business works out and moving on from past is hard but it helps since you won’t be dwelling on it as much. Bad memories will still be there but you can distract yourself and cope from the experience.

[@MillennialSteam-h3s]

spending time in the past is the easier way to keep you a prisoner of it I learned early on that some of dont really have a past, we live in the present I dont think about the future either because there is nothing there for me

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

I've decided I'll give it until 40+ to see if I make any real progress if not then I'll accept defeat. I have to try something because I can't rot anyway at my job anymore that doesn't pay anything. Need to try something before its too late.

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

You and I have lost everything Steam i.e family, friends, relationships even ourselves in the process but despite all of it I still believe its not too late for you or me. Afterall we both have nothing to lose anymore from continuing to at least try.

[@briansullivan2831]

It’s hard to stop thinking about my parents since I can’t afford to move Out

[@DavidB.Fischer]

Good to hear you are doing well man.

[@austinghoste]

Ohhhhhhhhhh that’s what you meant. Ya, I’m going to follow your lead.

[@travelingdude1621]

Nobody cares about anybody else’s problems, turmoil and misery until it shows up to their doorstep. That should say a lot.

[@yaboinope]

if any supernatural entities are reading this then please just fucking help me already so I can live the rest of my life in peace

[@djsneakysnake9531]

Life sucks and nobody cares and so you just move on.

[@Matowix]

Life is a hell realm

[@travelingdude1621]

If nothing changes, you gotta change to get change. Maybe it’s time for you to take off, move to a new city or town and start over while hoping for the best.

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

@@travelingdude1621 I'm trying..lol I barely get paid anything and could not find a second job this whole year literally.

[@Matowix]

Eaiser said than done. Your brain wont let u forget

[@TheInternetComplaintDepartment]

Move on with your life man. You can't live in anger forever. Don't revisit old wounds that have already healed.

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

@@TheInternetComplaintDepartment thats the whole point of the video.....

[@austinghoste]

Hey, man

[@austinghoste]

What are you moving on from?

[@GarsotoFilms]

Looks like im not the only one that doesnt talk to there family lol

[@AwayAndThinking-g1k]

you should make a discord dedicated to getting out of the wage cage.

[@jimmythedoll9820]

Kind of depends on what happens

[@lisagrimaldi5309]

You need to get over the anger you feel about your parents. You can not move on if you are still angry. True freedom is when you no longer think about what they did. I have talked to you before about the fact that I am no contact with one of my sons. I have five children. It’s been 4 years no contact. I talked about it all the time it consumed me I was hurt and angry. I take a lot of shit for saying this as a mom. But I don’t talk about him anymore. I don’t wish him any harm and from accounts I hear from others he lives a nice life with a wife and two kids of his own. It took me like 3 years to move on. I just don’t think about him much and when I do it’s now pleasant memories from his childhood. Once I learned to not be angry and just be done. With the help of a lot of therapy. My life improved greatly. I do think you should still talk about the subject because clearly it helps others.

[@Lucy-goosy411]

You write on a womans channel, your getting a passport to go play the in the field with lots of foreign women, so are you gonna do that