Is Being a Single Man the New Definition of Failure

[@joeblob5687]

Being in a relationship these days is the definition of failure....

[@makerKID5]

More accurately I'd say being married 😂

[@joeblob5687]

@makerKID5 This would be even worse yes🤣. Because it would show somebody doesnt knew the statistics....

[@Nin_the_Shinobi]

💯 I've had enough of relationships. It's always the same bs

[@joeblob5687]

@@Nin_the_Shinobi absolutely way too risky for no reward ....

[@jerpulliam]

Anybody that works 2 full time jobs could never have a relationship. You wouldn’t even be able to enjoy life.

[@richardscathouse]

Why would peasants need to enjoy life? It's enough to serve.😢

[@tyronewalker5764]

That was me before I'd retired. Now there's nothing.😢

[@AlmightyyMJ]

Currently working two jobs right now and I have a little extra money but no time

[@SentMyOwnWay]

We are stigmatized, considered weird and dangerous

[@MillennialSteam-h3s]

very dangerous

[@richardscathouse]

OK, I never asked. 😂

[@rashawn8936]

To be fair, a great number of you are 😂

[@lexa7250]

So true dear ​@@rashawn8936

[@NoOne-kx7zs]

As a former multi-relationship guy. Being single = being living peacefully and spending all your money on yrself. Most guys dont have a hobby...which makes feel lonely. Use yr monet to travel and enjoy.

[@richardscathouse]

Coming home and doing the same thing over and over again is a normal life. 😢

[@firstlast8258]

There is no normal

[@ZalhTube]

Its a sign of an empire in decline.

[@fullclipaudio]

The world used to be full of single people. Just 100 years ago, 1 in 10 jobs was that of a servant. Your live in servant was typically single. Below the servant were those who had to work at the local "poor farm" where labor was exchanged for food and a place to sleep. These situations will return as there is nothing new under the Sun.

[@MillennialSteam-h3s]

fish heads and some hay, the American dream

[@fullclipaudio]

@@MillennialSteam-h3s Study your history. The American Dream was always reserved for the top 10%. All these THOTS and 304s are about to find out that servant girl to a wealthy family will be the best that they can ever hope for.

[@danielyounker5371]

They couldn’t make any money. Sunset Haven in Carbondale, IL was an interesting one.

[@fullclipaudio]

@@danielyounker5371 I checked that one out. Yeah, most people are unaware of how things worked before the welfare state came into being. It was a harsh world. The most entitled generation in all of human history has a big surprise waiting for them and it will arrive when Uncle Sugar goes bankrupt which is just around the corner. They'll wish they had a poor farm to go to.

[@DougFaulkner-fz4fm]

Poor people drink coke. Rich people snort coke!

[@theguybehindyou4762]

So that’s the secret to success!

[@ZalhTube]

They get less jail time for it too if any.

[@tyronewalker5764]

That needs to be on a t-shirt.😢

[@glug1501]

It's 50 bucks a gram. Occasionally, poor people snort coke. They just don't buy ounces of it.

[@wagnerebikes1239]

Reminds me of the great 80s commercial I do coke So I can work harder So I can make more money So I can do more coke😅

[@Maxed2]

Ive noticed while many guys are rto busy working trying to keep things going the women get bored then find someone else to spend thier time with .

[@theguybehindyou4762]

They were told by society that monogamy makes them a loser, and they never thought to question that narrative.

[@Bob-b7x6v]

Hypergamous by nature.

[@ennuiblue4295]

we all fail in our own way 🥰

[@justhomas83]

Yep I spent the last four days playing video games at age 39. Don't care not changing anything. Screw society

[@twinforce_fusion6560]

Interesting take, my success I currently have in life is because I went fully Monk in 2012. After I paid a lump sum of 240K to get my freedom, I never seek or wanted to get re married or any type of relationship. Currently at age 50, no mortgage, no debt, no alimony, diversified portfolio, career that I enjoy, my hobby and other stuff I enjoy to do in life without always asking permission from the HQ. If that makes me a loser, loser it is. Will not compromise my freedom and serenity.

[@ennuiblue4295]

I'm 50 too and a total crash out 😅 you won, stand proud!

[@dennis_saliba_occult_fortean]

This is such a boss way of transmuting those troubles into peace and serenity. Amazing self mastery!

[@nealscott7407]

Now this man has figured it out

[@ZalhTube]

The rent in the US is ridiculous.

[@richardscathouse]

Who needs love? I have chronic pain. It's enough for an old prole 😢

[@Sean_Breezy23]

Yea, my anger has been at an all-time high

[@richardscathouse]

Watching Gaza and Ukraine has made me angry. Watching our criminal politicians and Executives has made me angry. The only way to stay calm is to turn off everything 😢

[@firstlast8258]

Don't get mad get even

[@Bob-b7x6v]

This isn't revenge, it's Punishment... 💀

[@zombiedearth]

From age 18 to 38 i was always in ltr , married or dating women and im 40 choose to stay single for two years and its the most fun, least stressful and most organized my life has ever been..

[@DougFaulkner-fz4fm]

YMCA single men housing is long gone!

[@fullclipaudio]

When my older sister moved to the big city, she stayed at the YWCA. The room was only a few dollars a day. She stayed there until she found a job and then got herself an apartment.

[@michaelverbakel7632]

I would consider today that being married to a modern Tik-Tok, social media woman of today as being considered a failure.

[@DougFaulkner-fz4fm]

Book : Bowling Alone by Robert Putman Loneliness caused by lack of " social capital".

[@WanderleiFan1]

It's either be single and enjoy my house and my money to myself. Or get into a relationship with a single mom who will likely take my money and house cause that's 90% of what's available where I live. So I'll take the first option.

[@MillennialSteam-h3s]

single moms are the worst thing to happen to society but the only taco available in town LOL

[@WanderleiFan1]

@@MillennialSteam-h3s I was in a relationship with one that had one kid. He had just turned 18 she promised me he was going to move out when he finished high school and be on his own. Fast forward to 6 months later she realized he wasn't going to afford to live on his own. She wanted me to to give him a place to live and help her pay for him. I said get lost he's not my son. Never been happier.

[@alexandrabellerose3550]

@@WanderleiFan1 moving out at 18 is pipe dream in 2024, blame her not kid living in fantasy after 'doing the deed' and not worrying about future.

[@littlesnake7318]

Yep, I'd rather have the stigma of spinster than deal with a man who expects me to be his psychiatrist, therapist, social worker, caregiver and emotional dumping ground. Recently broke up after trying to salvage a long-term relationship and got tired of being the guys mother. One example he didn't shower for a month and told me that for him to shower I have to remind him. Why should I have to remind a grown man to wash his own ass? We both had our hours at work significantly reduced but he REFUSED to apply for employment insurance for reasons of pride. Was not looking for work. I applied for mine while he did nothing but sit around, play video games, stink up the apartment and leave me to foot the bills. Than one night woke me up from a dead sleep, threw me to the wall, shook me around, screamed in my face telling me how irresponsible I am with booze on his breath. Neighbor called the cops and he was taken overnight to a drunk tank. He blamed me for his arrest. That was very scary. First two years into the relationship it was great, than the other two years was spent trying to repair it. My family and I even got him connected with social services and mental health services which such help is relatively ample in BC, Canada. He refused all the help and the psych nurse even told him that he should be grateful that myself and my family helped him navigate the social services system. But no, he just kept drinking, smoking weed, playing video games and using me as an emotional dumping ground. With the occasional pinning me into a corner while screaming in my face. His family has cut him off and the patience of his best bro that he's currently living rent free with is now wearing thin. Had to let go of a lot of people in my life because of shit like this. This is why I plan on being single for the rest of my life. There are plenty of men out there who are like this. Plenty of women like this too. Plenty of people in general like this and it's only going to get worse. Stay single and be careful with your platonic relationships. It can be lonely but the peace is worth it.

[@tommyg5261]

They force most bad things upon us even when we dont deserve it.

[@haywood4299]

Women try to push this narrative because they need men. A lot of men have just checked out of dating which means a lot of mids are having to pay their own way. Millions of millennial dog/cat moms are drowning in debt with no men around to buy them dinner and pay their cell phone bill.

[@firstlast8258]

@@haywood4299 cope

[@VitalFacets]

MS, I’m surprised at you! In America, anyone can achieve any type of failure they want, if they just work hard enough

[@firstlast8258]

Gawd bless Murica 🤓 🖕

[@Redfizh]

Move to Nordics. In Finland all education is free and they pay your cost of living while you study. You can have any career imaginable. Choose one that has most free jobs. Even with minimum wage you can have same housing, car and good life as everyone else. No need for second job. State quaranteed paid vacations, insurance, healthcare and women do not care about your money. (avoid capitals)

[@DougFaulkner-fz4fm]

Transportation advice for the poor: Put your " best foot" forward! The job- journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step! So, step-up to the plate, Jake!

[@tyronewalker5764]

I never thought of a single man this light. Thank you.😊

[@AwayAndThinking-g1k]

yes, ive made a video about it

[@NJGuy1973]

There's no failure in failing to fit into a sick society.

[@dennis_saliba_occult_fortean]

I am 33M, studying multiple degrees like accounting, business administration, data science, linguistics, and I have a teaching certificate, history degree, etc. I am still building my life financially. It still isn't good enough for parents' or women's approval and I have been working as an English Teacher (well-paying job in Australia per hour) for 8 years or so. I have been single since 2016 since my last relationship of one year abroad didn't work out. My only crime was being adopted into a narcissistic family whom on Boxing Day I found out that one of my family members were involved in a secret society. I am neurodivergent, 5 foot 5, mixed race, and considered a genetic farce to women. I was cooked from birth, even from Down Under. I diet, drink purified water, and am getting into calesthetics. I'm also trying to start a side hustle.

[@richardscathouse]

I wish I could afford to have something fancy like neurodivergent 😂😂😂. I'm just an average prole 😂😂😂😂

[@dennis_saliba_occult_fortean]

​I'd rather be average myself man. At least you can blend into the masses seamlessly​@@richardscathouse

[@richardouvrier3078]

Neurodivergent, mixed race, a short King. Not a great combo. Being alone is not that bad. But, you should be able to find someone. Advice: be nice.

[@DougFaulkner-fz4fm]

MS : Your real title is: "Other duties as assigned", aka " professional slave".

[@MillennialSteam-h3s]

every time I complain about these other duties, they tell me I am not allowed to complain

[@JaykensolutionsNet]

Thank you.

[@DamienZachariah]

I've learnt over the years that if you have never been 'involved' not to ever tell anyone. Loser is the least of rhe appellations you'll be called! Shit shifts too whilst the married men make excuses about why they can't do them good work 👍.

[@phoenixmythics]

the unofficial title for you is an "operations technician" whatever that means to whomever, everybody just makes up titles these days that don't mean anything

[@richardscathouse]

Women need titles. Men just need a paycheck. 😢

[@vincentmccoy7822]

No waay. Marriage is never all that its cracked up to be.

[@Dem0n1c_S0ld1er]

Women love broke men example chad Tyrone ect

[@justhomas83]

That's the perfect body type of street dude. He is a manipulative person with an edge. She has no value or morels.

[@justhomas83]

I don't chase women

[@richardscathouse]

Some animals will always be more equal than others, *Animal Farm 🚜

[@Dem0n1c_S0ld1er]

Are you a chad or Tyrone ect if so than you don’t need to chase because women chasing you the same way simps chase women attention

[@UrzuaTroskenia0369]

It's mostly psychological if you feel judment from others whom lack critical thinking or compassion, of course I can't garantee life gets better in a society that dictates who and what it wants you to be...if you start looking at your misfortune as it's challenge then it starts making sense even if you are being systematically opressed, lastly read up on some of your demographic history and remind yourself how bad it can really be.

[@richardscathouse]

Carrier, there is no such thing. Some paroles are more equal than other paroles. In the end, we're all just peasants 😢

[@michael-ph3jn]

Proles on Parole

[@Nin_the_Shinobi]

Society has screwed itself into a corner

[@roderickcortez138]

Any man that isn't rich and really good looking is considered a failure.

[@MillennialSteam-h3s]

Have you looked at the average man?

[@rushrush1209]

Not at all. You save a ton of money and headaches by not being in a relationship. Embrace being able to do whatever you want when you want.

[@tjwithanak7517]

Single male housing is called prison. And they’re building tons of them all the time

[@Gavi-144]

It's the new definition of peace

[@richardscathouse]

What do i need a girl for? I got a mortgage and a car. How much $$ do i need to spend? 😅

[@theguybehindyou4762]

These days, the answer to how much money you need to spend is simply “yes”. There’s always some new bill or fee you didn’t see coming but are required to pay. Anything to squeeze those last few dollars out of us.

[@Arasaka]

It's a double-income world. That way they collect double the taxes and double the profits. The social contract has been used as tp by those that rule.

[@richardouvrier3078]

EXasperates = frustrates: exacerbates = makes worse.

[@ZalhTube]

I'm learning Irish poor people recipes. Potatoes are my new best food.

[@FirstclassReject]

you live in a 3d world country? you might as well where you at least get respected and appreciated by women. If you desire a better life out of your position, move where you're appreciated as a white single guy. meaning, not in ANY western country! complaining rarely solves anything too, so I'd study the map and skills you can offer there. the pay isn't a fortune but neither the rent and products etc. The west is hyper-materialized that you're a nobody even if you live cozy. Just my 2 cents.. take action for change by stepping out that mental loop/bubble/prison. Natural law always rewards courage and action.

[@ennuiblue4295]

I think he's hispanic

[@tyronewalker5764]

Anyone seen the movie Failure To Launch? That about sums up things concerning unmarried men.

[@JohnDoe-ef3wo]

Definition of smart

[@DougFaulkner-fz4fm]

I heard your gen- z, lost his girl friend. He forget where he "laid" her!

[@johnnelligan4091]

LOL !

[@jeffdorris5321]

I really Thought the Title of the video was "being a Single Mother is the definition of failure." really wanted to read the hate comments

[@DougFaulkner-fz4fm]

Diving opportunities for the rich: 1. Skydiving 2.Scuba diving Diving opportunities for the poor: 1. Dumpster diving 2. "Muff" diving ( only if your "lucky" and its gotta be clean!). Do you feel " lucky" punk? Make my day!

[@firstlast8258]

Darwin award winner

[@ZalhTube]

dont forget yahcting in anartica

[@ryanlangston439]

The only people that view being single as failure is married people and people afraid of being alone their entire life whether they have kids of thier own in their life or not… I have two kids as a single dad every other week I get to be with them an they are 4 an 5 when they get older they have the right and option to walk away from me no matter what an I already have come to terms with that an it may be because I come from a farming and military background my entire existence an I’m only 35 yet I understand I’m most likely come to terms that I won’t have anyone to help me in old age if I make it that far but basing on my family history where either we live like sea turtles or doe young welll I’m to old to die young now an yea my thinking may be bleak but it’s the truth grew up poor die poor served a country that almost gave my life for that doesn’t give a damn so yea what am I to do besides raise my kids best I can with what time I get with them an yet be left out in the cold if it happens that way then so be it nothing I can do about it stay single yes but eventually it won’t matter either way

[@Bob-b7x6v]

I'm glad I own my house, but utilities and taxes keep going up. Fing property taxes are tied to your bloated property value.

[@Bob-b7x6v]

Yes, we're the Untouchable Dalits of Murrica now.

[@Bob-b7x6v]

Fight Club warned us, nobody gd'd listened. Project Mayhem 2025.

[@djpuplex]

I agree with you on many points disagree with others. One thing you haven't considered is that all of this emphasis on hypergamy with women eventually catches up with them. The population is roughly 50/50 men women and all the women focusing on the top 5% of men means that a increasing majority of them will be single. By 2030 roughly 50% on women will be single and childless add single moms you are looking at 70ish % currently about 70% of men under 30 are single half of them aren't even looking. Welcome to the future.

[@dhoffmann]

Dr.Moneybags riding the city bus! Try the shoelace express. "Buy my EV with debt you fat lazy stupid nerds!" - Musk

[@MillennialSteam-h3s]

they are ripping him a new one as an out of touch billionaire he has autism so he probably thinks its cool

[@reubenmorris487]

@@MillennialSteam-h3s He doesn't care...hence the cause of him being out of touch.

[@wolfiewolf1794]

Fasting will help you stay awake . Concerning your employment I think in order to move up in the social class you have to make some sort of gamble whether it’s something dangerous like law-enforcement or military service or something economically perilous like going to college for nursing . whatever the case is you’re going to have to do gamble . Maybe ? Or start a fire KZbin channel ppl love to listen to lmao

[@MillennialSteam-h3s]

there is no escape I have plenty of education I work in one of these places that sells the education you mentioned its all a scam, If I ever leave this place, I will share some of the horror stories I have seen

[@Always1happy]

It always has been. Person is not mature until one have wife or huband and kid.

[@ZalhTube]

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[@MillennialSteam-h3s]

I need a beer to watch something like too sober now