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I wrote this song about my father choosing another life over raising me. This video represents the literal and emotional journey I took, only to find out he wanted them and not me. Everyone can relate to the feeling of not being good enough and the frustration that comes with that.
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[@4EverPwnNoobs]

“I wrote this song about my father choosing another life over raising me. This video represents the literal and emotional journey I took, only to find out he wanted them and not me.” - Grace Carter

[@emmadavies7781]

Excellent song from a very talented singer

[@emmadavies7781]

He's a cruel fool for doing that

[@cjm7764]

My son, what ever happens, happens. I did it right. Engaged planned him married. He liked the conversation but never tried. He saw his first set of kids and faded on mine. Was never really there but no phone calls nothing for 8 years. Hes 13 now. Hes an awesome old school kid, he loves the 80s and 90s. He just loves everything. I dont hurt anymore. I am sorry for his loss.

[@annastewart5915]

Thanks to whoever hurts her, we have this brilliant song 💓

[@john111257]

my heart goes out to her

[@jenclark4226]

My dad kicked me out of my house when I was in the 4th grade, sees me only when he feels like it, stopped loving me, and decided to raise his girlfriend’s daughter over his own. And I think I really needed to hear this. Especially the part that says it’s not my fault. Because it wasn’t.. it was not my fault my dad decided to abandon me. I am a girl worth love, and he wasn’t strong enough or good enough to give it to me. Thank you for this song❤️

[@sameerahomar4215]

Heey Jen am really sorry you had to go through I hope everything goes well for Stay strong,lots of love💕

[@AbdulazizAlsubaie876]

Wow your dad is a pig

[@cauliflower2003]

Stay strong you deserve love ❤️

[@nastjaokolzin5653]

I would like to hug you ! Just so that you know, you deserve to be loved ! Please never be upset about him

[@xochitlahuia]

keep your head up you're doing great

[@vanessawambura9350]

these are the songs that should be played on the radio, be put on KZbins trending and have Billions of views. Not the songs that are now

[@sekarrisdiptas8134]

sweetie, u just spilled the truth.

[@sekarrisdiptas8134]

@Iris Strings the point is not making everyone to be sad but how the singer explains their feeling through deep and poetical lyrics.

[@liliannesullivan1085]

Yeah, all songs truly have a meaning though, because the artist has to go through something to be able to think of it. Some songs, like raps, idc for, but there are some that are so meaningful on today's radio too, like Scars to Your Beautiful by Alessia Cara, Rockabye by Clean Bandit ft. Anne Marie, Shadows by Sabrina Carpenter, etc. I do believe though, that songs like this need to played on the radio as well.

[@zeydomar3858]

exactly!!

[@adrianmelendez5447]

Vanessa Wambura exactly just like btshit

[@Ndaafa]

"You took the air out of my lungs to breathe with another."

[@dreamchaser5758]

Gut wrenching

[@terrencelovesfkilos]

time stamp?

[@marysamson9228]

Dayuuuuuuum, ouch..

[@marysamson9228]

That's deep

[@michfreedom2588]

@@TonyEnglandUK Those who suffered the same fate should do all within their power to break generational curses rather than trying to rationalize them. Her father didn’t run out of love if he’s willing to give it to another woman and HER child. You seem to sympathize with the emotional/ physical absent parent because you know find yourself in that role but that doesn’t absolve the pain it causes the kids and how damaging it is for them. And how much harder it will be for them to navigate life as adults. This a time to work on yourself and break curses.

[@sarahmerrett4721]

She makes walking look beautiful lol

[@smallbodybighead6]

Sarah Merrett honestly! I look like jack skeleton when i’m walking.

[@hiimkim4764]

@@smallbodybighead6 IMFAO 😂

[@andro_johnny]

Have you watched a HAIM video lol

[@miriamthompson2274]

It is😚

[@elsajohansson5316]

andro gore exactly what I was thinking haha

[@amaliaaa7592]

I honestly hope her dad sees this video..

[@lemongrassbitch945]

And heal me

[@kingessy8089]

No words can describe what it feels like when someone chooses someone else over you.

[@InshasChoice]

🤍

[@LVTHORAscending]

Especially when it's someone new and you been loyal and giving for years.

[@LurgsHowToGuides]

I never understand why a Dad would do that. I never thought I'd be a Dad but it's amazing, how anyone can walk away from their kids and never look back is beyond me. But if he did that then you are better off without him. Good luck in your amazing career. It's a great song.

[@alondrareyes16]

It's great that you actually stuck around for your child. 😊 Not many men or sometimes women do that.

[@howeblanc3043]

My dad left me when I was 11. Because he "already had problems" and he did not want another one, like my brother and me 🙃 but you're going to be a good father. Have a happy life ❤️

[@LurgsHowToGuides]

Howe Blanc Sorry to hear that. One day you might be a parent and you can be the best you can for your own children.

[@lisab5592]

People's issues don't go away just cause they have the capability to create a child

[@cityofage]

Exactly. One missing parent is better than a parent who likely never wanted you in the first place and will not hide that they resent you for 'trapping' them

[@chinesefood5869]

i dont understand how parents can walk out on their families. i understand splitting up with your partner 100% but walking out on your child leaving them wondering why they’re not good enough for their own mother or father is just another kind of evil.

[@yasminakorval1041]

😔

[@reneXtonedeaf]

most horrible feeling in the world is feeling like you’re not(or never was) enough 💔

[@bubries]

they’re good for nothing cowards, and i only wish nothing but the absolute worst for them.

[@TonyEnglandUK]

@@reneXtonedeaf You have to remember that some Fathers went through exactly the same thing when THEY were kids, they simply weren't loved enough either. So there's nothing inside them to give to you.

[@necurrence1776]

You only understand when you are a dad and your wife has postpartum depression and she hates your guts no matter what you do to support the family. I bet you after years of being treated like shit, anyone would leave his family for another.

[@anissofia3745]

I can't even see the ending with all those big ass suggested videos at the end! Honestly who thought of that interface?!!

[@dejavoll]

WHAT HAPPENED AT THE END!?!?!?!??!?!

[@imaan1902]

She walks past her dad's house and sees him sitting down and having dinner with his "new" family (wife and daughter)

[@lorettagrey7383]

Pull the video down a bit and you'll see it

[@2fulbabygurl]

If u hold the screen like ur zooming in, the other videos go away until u let go

[@allisons5336]

If u like kind of pull the screen down like your existing out of the video to look at more options the pop ups will go away

[@khuthadzomatamela4767]

He didn't choose me, he didn't choose them. He chose himself...27 years later he's still alone

[@starless1444]

I got a Sia meets Alicia Keys vibe. Thank you for this. It means a lot.

[@CarlosEduardo-uh2zz]

yesss!

[@sammr8124]

Yesssssssss

[@sarasamudiio]

HOW ABOUT BEYOCE ,SIA, AND ALICA KEYS

[@dieulamezier7052]

Sativa Indica yesss 💯💯💯💛💛💛

[@kym9774]

I hate when people do this under uprising artists videos like let them be their own person. She’s got that Grace Carter vibe🥰

[@orlicca8813]

Went through this when I was 9 when my dad decided to cut all ties with me! First time I experienced depression. The only person I could fight with was my mom, who deserves an award for holding me down and taking my shit. I thank God for her, completely grateful for her. I've made peace with all that was done to me and my dad, may his soul rest in peace!

[@kyliawhitehead2495]

❤

[@1stulees]

Maphuti Magongoa if you’re gonna thank god. Then surely you should thank him for her shit Dad he blessed her with. And also the mother who life she made shit . Not such thing has god I’m afraid. Life is brutal if you choose to make it that way.

[@samymarthy6828]

You did well coming through this experience!! ❤

[@samymarthy6828]

stuart lees you do realise that wasn't the point of the comment right? Why do you feel the need to adress that particular part of the comment when it's litteraly not the subject...

[@imblackasian7261]

Same, my father cut of ties when I was 8. heard him again when I was 17... 😭 This are the causes of my depression until now I'm suffering.

[@mariamberidze2052]

i thought this was about ex but after seeing comments it hit differently:(

[@kristiel4959]

So did her dad leave her?

[@agoogleaccount5859]

Sammeee OMG when I saw her looking at her dad I was like Wait whaaattt. But it makes sense on why she grows up thinking that now because he must of left her at a young age

[@sydneyw8593]

It can mean something different to everyone. For me it’s about a lost lover

[@Iamphoenixarizona]

The description also tells the truth about this song 😭

[@CNM2326]

@@sydneyw8593 i know hy it can have so many meanings for different ppl

[@notgrowingup3184]

I love how her walking beyond the points, where she had to stop before expresses that she is maturing and continuing to process emotionally what has happened in her life. Don't give up, if bad things happened to you! Step by step your heart will heal, maybe even without you noticing it. You are able and God loves you, don't ever forget that!

[@KobusingeJackline]

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[@rhens8088]

Beautiful way to put it.

[@indo_mojie4142]

Now I can feel the pain that my half-brother has been going through, as my dad left him with his mom when they got divorced and married my mom and the poor boy had to live with his grand mother after his mom remarried and left him to her new family. He went through everything without parents on his side and now that he has his own family with three beautiful daughters and a good job in a big mining company, no wonder if he shows less interest about my dad sickness and even when he got hospitalized. I wish him a very happy life. I met him couples of time and he is the sweetest gentleman he is and I know he must be thinking that we (my own brother and I) have taken over his position.

[@usehername1]

This is so angering

[@tabi6091]

wow both his parents left him... fuck them sorry not sorry you dont just abandon family

[@lebhotshorty]

The Yes/No Man I’m sorry but his mother is a bitch and your father is awful for leaving his own blood! How could anyone do that to a poor little child. Parents are absolutely critical to a child’s growth!

[@evanderzufarsetiawan2511]

@@lebhotshorty i agree

[@evanderzufarsetiawan2511]

Your brother live a happy life and those parents are the worst

[@CheckinUpOnCharlie]

I didn’t think it was possible but the video actually makes me like the song even more

[@diamond_gamer7289]

Ikr!! Usually music videos portray the song in a horrible way, but her video is amazing

[@suecondon1685]

@@imaginenation84 I come from Canvey Island, recognised it immediately!

[@alfieayres992]

@@suecondon1685 I met her she done her hair in my café

[@liaa771x]

how can people dislike this? it’s so special

[@jessw.6250]

lia agree

[@green6746]

she has no better angle, she looks perfect in all of them.

[@safiyas4f]

she has an amazing voice,she is pretty she needs to be discovered

[@wwafawdwg2912]

Grace is so underrated, she needs more recognition

[@kensiegrace]

My “dad” was always the type to treat the children, of whatever woman he was messing with at the time, like they were his. But never had a second thought about me. This hit different.

[@ritafitzgerald3290]

Oh... I bet he's kicking himself now. You're not only beautiful...but sooo unbelievably talented. Keep kicking ass beautiful lady. Your dad didn't deserve you ❤

[@richardtaylor1096]

As someone who hasn't seen my dad, since 3 years old, haven't talked to him since I was 25, and found out he passed away, from suicide 3 years ago, I needed this song!

[@muzeyyendover5156]

sometimes you need to know there is people that they can understand your feelings and pain.

[@yesplease6399]

Have you visited his grave and said all you wanted to say to him?

[@ericacantu1655]

My condolences my heart goes out to you ❤

[@susannaengelbrektsson9801]

Im so sorry for you. My dad denien me al of my life. I Saw Him Before he past Away last year. And he stil couldent Say he ever loved me.

[@marynegus312]

Omg my friend Mia is in this song the one with the school uniform on we are in the same class at school well done Mia and grace! Edit: that’s also my school uniform

[@Lust_069]

cool lol

[@marynegus312]

Hayden Dykstra it is very cool hehe

[@atkhnrullee6014]

She So pretty

[@marynegus312]

Atkhnrul lee yes Mia is very pretty

[@EmmeEquestrian]

Idil Ashkir don’t ask her that u freak

[@ms.jnelson2157]

I feel this on so many levels. As a child and as a woman.

[@janiquestarporter5426]

i can relate to her.

[@rahmathhashim2481]

I have an older sis my parents always give her love but not me I feel this song I cried while listening to this Good luck on ur career

[@xcameliax1745]

KZbin just recommended this Video to me. Wow. Only one week after I uploaded my song about my father abandoning me .. cheers to all the kids who’s Dad broke their heart before any other boy could.

[@avocadomom18]

That's the exact thing that happened to me, and by the way I went and listened to your song. Its great👍

[@UnstoppableTramp]

Go Grace, here as history is getting made

[@khaoulamis5782]

[Verse 1] I feel your ghost, smell you all over my clothes Oh, all your smoke's stuck in me longer then you did I had my doubts, I had to check it all out And now I see that you've run back when I thought you'd quit [Pre-Chorus] You took my air out of your lungs So you could breathe with another one [Chorus] Oh tell me, why her, not me? What did I do for you to wreck it all? Oh Lord, it's not my fault Why her, not me? Why did you have to build the walls so high? Oh no, I'm not done climbing [Verse 2] She heard about me, and all your history I'm not tryna burn myself but I can let it go Piece by piece uncovering dishonesty Never been truth in anything I've ever known [Pre-Chorus] Finding out I'm not the only one Took the air right out my lungs [Chorus] Oh tell me, why her, not me? What did I do for you to wreck it all? Oh Lord, it's not my fault Why her, not me? Why did you have to build the walls so high? Oh no, I'm not done climbing [Post-Chorus] Tell me, why her? You gave her unconditional love Tell me, why her? But I'm still climbing Tell me, why her? You gave me conditional love Tell me, why her? I won't stop fighting [Bridge] No, no, no I won't lay low, low, low You gave my soul, soul, soul I'm not giving in, no No, no, no I won't lay low, low, low I've done no wrong, wrong, wrong I'm not giving in, no [Chorus] Why her, not me? What did I do for you to wreck it all? Oh Lord, it's not my fault Why her, not me? Why did you have to build the walls so high? Oh no, I'm not done climbing [Post-Chorus] Tell me, why her? You gave her unconditional love Tell me, why her? But I'm still climbing Tell me, why her? You gave me conditional love Tell me, why her? I won't stop fighting

[@chriswilliams6585]

This song is so personal and emotional for me. Thanks for singing your truth that is shared by many.

[@aniadz.8933]

Omg, I really wanted to hug her during the video cuz I felt her pain so deeply...

[@shakilashamila6973]

I get scared every day as I grow older that I will have to get married someday and give my whole heart to a man or have kids but I don’t trust man because what if they end up leaving and choose her and not me. The fear of abandonment from my father and now from all my ex’s I just can’t take it that some man are wicked like this 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@asantederrickbuabeng9197]

Not all men are like that keep searching tho good luck.

[@MiraMakesVideos]

“Never been truth in anything I’ve ever known” I felt that and the way her face looked for a split second when she sang “ever known” in the video hurt me

[@elenamihajloska8992]

I understand every detal in this song because the things she sings are hapening to me about 3years ago and i am 16years old i go in so little age go tru all this bad things that today make me cry but thats life you got to stand up and keep walking you way you need to be proud that you make the pain go away you need to be proud of yourself today🙂❤❤

[@VeronicaRamirez-um1ms]

This is one of the most relatable songs I have ever heard. It has took me 26 years to forgive my father (and still working on it) and it hurts so much as when I was a little kid trying to understand what did I do wrong.

[@amystevens2376]

When you relate to a song soo much you can't stop playing it!

[@AnnaLailaAndPrincetonQueensAnd]

Love And Hip Hop Miami 2020 Bought Me Here. Thank You 🙌🏾🙌🏾 Beautiful Song

[@athenasuperheldin1017]

My father walked out on us as well, because he had some disagreements with my mother and he also chose his job and a girlfriend over his family. The day I heard him saying he doesn't care about his children and that they are not that important to him...that day broke my heart and left a deep scar. After he regretted his decisions, he tried to get everything right and fix our relationship....but soon after he was diagnosed with a terminal illness and he died. This song just breaks my heart and brings back memories and all the pain I have tried to bury inside. It has all impacted me so deeply that I personally cannot get into a relationship right now. Thank you so much for this song.....for these raw emotions....emotions I can relate to. Thank you

[@orchdork775]

Oh wow, I'm so sorry you had to go through all that. I can only imagine what that must have been like. I'm also on a dating break trying to deal with some of my own issues, so I feel you there. I've been single for over 2 years, and still feel like I haven't made any progress. At this rate I'm gonna be single for another 5 years haha 😂

[@mabelidove6813]

Love is harder to accept than find, especially with a broken heart. I have not experienced what you did, but after reading everything you wrote, I could feel the pain in your heart to be feeling like that and connecting so deeply to this song. I'm truly sorry for what you went through. I hope your heart heals sooner, so you enjoy life longer. Years fly by too fast to keep allowing grief to take over and not allow you to enjoy the good things. The night sky has stars and the moon to give us light, just how the good little things in life keeps us going even in dark times. Thank you for being brave enough to share your experience with us because sometimes we need to let things out instead of bottling emotions.

[@babitakapoor7341]

Athena stay strong enough for all of your life.

[@annacelestine3770]

Literally crying while watching this 😭 I've always wonder why he choose somebody else over his family, even though my mom always tell me he loves me the most... I always wondering. Maybe it's time to accept.. Some problems do not deserve an answer.

[@robingift9649]

I bet your dad is watching this now, and regretting his decision, After a year of watching this im still not tired of it.. and im also surprised how you dont have 1 mill subscribers yet!

[@user-mz5mq6ru9v]

This song made me cry, there is so much emotion in her voice...

[@mayg6245]

As an adopted child, watching my adopted dad slowly fall into alcohol and lose himself broke me. I'm only now, at 30, learning about the pain that led to his drowning. That it wasn't wholly his fault. Now, as a 30-year-old, I'm watching him heal and bond with my mom, and two youngest siblings. I'm so happy, and grateful. But I'm also so mournful, and sad. I endured so much. All of us older siblings, and my mother did. And now I just feel out of place. I'm happy they're happy. But I don't feel part of it. I wish I could feel that sense of simple joy too.

[@ericacantu1655]

You said it perfectly you saw him drown an you came to understand what lead him to fall so hard an what can lead anyone too fall so hard our souls get tired of being strong an if you feel worthless an not enough it can really take you down into self destruct wholly it was his fault we all should be able to remain strong but we are of flesh an bone an yes family should have been more proactive when someone starts drowning it's our responsibility to stand by them just for them too know hey I got you no matter what no matter how bad or ugly it gets we gonna get thru this together family love because you know deep down this isn't him/her no something traumatic had to have happened to make a person not care about themselves not find any worth in their existence for themselves or others major prb . Tell him how you feel darling for real pull him to the side an tell him how much you love him an how happy you are an so glad to have your father back because he is the only one you have and tell him to forgive you if you wasn't there more or understood what he was dealing with emotional an mentally.. don't let this turn to something bad he loves Yu you never know he might be feeling like he let you down especially if you distance yourself or act different he is probably thinking same as you that your disgustrd by him or disappointed or look at him differently trust me words are better said when you feel it in your heart don't ever hold your tounge on how you feel love

[@nadiaaparicio4192]

Dude this hit home so bad my dad left my mom when I was two the last time he visited was when I was nine.... I’m 13 now and I haven’t seen em in five yrs and he never answers calls or texts anymore

[@dreamchaser5758]

Maybe write letters to him. Even if he never sees them. Get the avalanche of emotions out

[@zirkoniawasti3702]

you deserve better. its his loss

[@eddybigbelly]

When i first heard this song i thought it was about cheating or a breakup and every time i hear it I interpret it as in my situation which is having a dad that left us. because of the lyrix they match with both situations. But then after 2 months i come here and read the comments saying its about what I interpreted! I love it so much.

[@ven2983]

It's his lost for not raising such a talented beautiful girl like you

[@ntaly44]

You show us that there can be beauty in sadness. Congrats.

[@iunasolarcanudas7850]

her voice... omg.

[@HighHeels95]

I was raised by a single parent and that parent was my father. I can somewhat relate to song. I didn't grow up with a mother (and I can't blame her. She suffered from a mental illness). I was always searching for a mother figure and I never really found it. I always hung out with girls that had their mother and constantly complain about how unfair she was and I'm here wishing I had my mother in my life.

[@ΑναστασίαΚουρή-ν1ο]

that must be hard for you. i hope you are doing better.

[@InshasChoice]

🤍🤍🤍

[@Jepercreper]

the fact that i feel so close to this song and its meaning is so heartbreaking

[@tailung8509]

Who's here before 1 million views? Edit :Now who's here before 2 million views?

[@bozennastec692]

moiii

[@cazgh7496]

ME!

[@rossya5645]

ME !

[@jessicarice2618]

Me

[@ediemcdaniel7850]

me!!!

[@anam-bt9gb]

This song has helped me have the courage to write a song about my own experience of being left. Thank you Grace!

[@kayleighwooldridge9506]

This song and also Heal Me are 2 of my favourites from Grace Carter never have i known any other artists sing so much power about an absent father, so relatable in every way.

[@sushieethingg7128]

My heat ache for those who can't grow up without a father figure. You deserved all the love

[@shellecesmith2338]

I crief watching this I felt the pain I understood perfectly for my dad left me and my mom for his sons and another woman and for the longest time I kept on wondering and I kept on climbing and I kept on fighting for someone who wasn't fighting for me

[@Nobody-pj1ho]

I'm 16 and my dad left when I just a baby. And always around holiday season like now. I become so depressed wondering why he left. I pretend I don't care about him but really it hurts alot and I care

[@kaitlynnugent7866]

Anyone who can relate to this song knows how hard this hits home... in my case, “her” that he chose, wasn’t another family, but drugs. He chose her before I was even born. I’m 19 now and he has made no attempts to get to know me. Praying for everyone who can relate to heal hearts broken by absent fathers.

[@elisab1212]

chills, litteral chills

[@ashleyr3245]

I don’t know my dad 29 years of my life he’s never been around I wouldn’t even recognize him if he said hi in a store to me . Never did anything for me or wanted me but he went n had other kids. This song hits home . Thank you I love this

[@DFullerLisa]

You’re a beautiful woman smart and successful. The pain will always be there but you were able to accomplish a lot without him. It’s not easy but it’s more his loss than yours.

[@philimonkaunda109]

The song is so emotional... The pain we go through once the people who brought us on earth neglect and leave us in the cold.... The positive to take is we make sure ours never get to experience what we have......

[@reema.1096]

Nostalgia. This is Nostalgic. I remember this kept playing on Ads but I wouldn't skip the Ads. KZbin, I was happy with the single Ads.

[@aboutit530]

Star material right here. She deserves it.

[@lyricslover8987]

I have great father who loves me and our family so much, brothers who loves me and their own family and boyfriend who loves me dearly. But still this song made me sad. For sure is in the future I definitely will raise a son who won't leave his family over another woman. Everybody deserve a good father in their life.

[@burntflowersfallen8644]

Such an emotional raw voice. Beautiful voice. #best voice of 2018 She is so relatable

[@absentcaptain6662]

She used to go to my school! She came in today and she was amazing!

[@chrissweeney8727]

Thank you Wimbledon for introducing me to this masterpiece ❤

[@lyfewithfena843]

You cant change people Your better of without him❤ Your worth so much more

[@research4lifee]

I can relate to these lyrics soo much! My dad never left in the physical sense, but he left emotionally. There were times when I would see him interact with other peoples kids, and he was like a dad to them. But than when it came to us (me and my siblings) it was neglect and anger aimed towards us.

[@JodyRye]

I tried to help get this song to 10 million views by the 5th anniversary of the song, but failed! I find it impossible that people wouldn’t love this song!

[@haleyslight]

Grace you will never know how much this song truly means and impacts us. My heart bears the same scars. ❤

[@rjacobo5297]

This is a great song. My husband's dad had another wife and kids and he never found out until after his mom died when he was 11. He had to live with them all and his dad's other wife treated him and his brothers like crap. She didn't want them. He ended up coming to the United states because of it to make a new life when he was 17. Time can heal , but he never forgets.

[@evanderzufarsetiawan2511]

That's true forgiving doesn't mean forgetting

[@evanderzufarsetiawan2511]

Hey i hope you and your husband have a wonderful life

[@rjacobo5297]

@@evanderzufarsetiawan2511 thank you. He always pushes forward and refuses to let his past affect his future. I do that as well.

[@evanderzufarsetiawan2511]

@@rjacobo5297 your welcome

[@amor797]

Same feels and wounds but different story. Abandoned, me and my siblings by both parents that divorced and chose themselves over their kids. We were fostered by relatives who only wanted paychecks of social services.

[@erinnicholson4655]

She really does have a beautiful walk

[@tejasinrajh521]

I feel your pain trough your voice. Pure

[@cynayu]

Yo I used to listen to this everyday for like months

[@alicecheese7130]

Wow, I’ve grown to love her and her music over the past 2 weeks. I came across this song on an advertisement on instagram. Ever since I’ve been in love with her. I love saving grace the most.

[@liloujacq7821]

This is so underated, it's so powerful and beautiful. Now one of my favorite songs 🎶🎤🤩😍😘

[@emptysoul5057]

I grew up with my dad but e hated me and he made sure i knew it he made sure he said it clearly over and over til I felt it even as a toddler i remember him saying no one will ever like you they might marry you as a third wife cuz you're somewhat smart but don't expect to be an only choice you see i'm like my mother and he hates her too only i guess he loves her a little cuz they're still together the shouting screaming kind of together while i cant relate to not having a father i can relate to not having a dad this song hits hard

[@laluna2264]

Thus song speaks for so many kids with dead-beat fathers

[@vere1360]

this song hits so deep.. my father has always neglected and avoided me, when i was 15 his new wife gave birth to his 2nd daughter which he has been raising with so much love and caring.. he's acting as if she's his biggest treasure, even said to my face "i can't believe i finally have a daughter" when i visited them after she was born.. i've been asking myself "why her and not me" for the past 10 years so this song really sums up how i'm feeling

[@hanhan9487]

good music always find me . dont be jealous.

[@dollynessa2393]

"im not trying to hurt myself but i cant let it go " 😣😭😢 so me...

[@allanj76]

Your a superstar with the voice of an angel Grace xxx u have my heart x

[@firdawsk296]

So many songs with traces of her dad. As a parent, the imprint you leave on your childs mental state, its astonishing. Much strength and happiness to you love.

[@oliviabailey1714]

First time I've seen or heard of u and wow just wow. You are pure talent. You deserve a bigger audience :)

[@RawrRayluv]

I feel this on the level of a man leaving me for another women and my dad leaving me too. Double whammy

[@rubyjane469]

Why her not me- instantly clicks it! Yt thanks for recommending it ❤️

[@MartinAsher]

good music won't stop coming... its God's way of reminding us; good things are yet to come

[@loserloser6527]

because they wouldn’t be strong or capable enough to get through what you are alone. you’re brave love

[@Shebellaz]

Just watching this video in 2019 and it makes so much sense why this song touched me from Day 1....wow

[@yeahalright6683]

I appreciate that finally there’s a good song about this topic. Every song is about an ex but this song, I can relate to it and it connects a lot of people together. Good job❤️

[@robinh9081]

Beautiful song, truly amazing. I know the feeling of a parent abusing you and choosing themselves or someone else over their child. It stays with you forever...

[@louisekjeldsenrasmussen5241]

Literal Chills

[@victoriabeckham6910]

_Thanks for all the love and support. Seriously blown away by the love from all of you… thank you all❤️

[@louisekjeldsenrasmussen5241]

@@victoriabeckham6910 girl your music is amazing and your voice? Immaculate, keep doing u🤍

[@victoriabeckham6910]

@@louisekjeldsenrasmussen5241 Blown away by your love and support, you are loved as well, you seem to be a great fan. Where are you from?

[@victoriabeckham6910]

@@louisekjeldsenrasmussen5241 Blown away by your love and support, you are loved as well, you seem to be a great fan. Where are you from?

[@KarlaGarcia-lu6vj]

Sometimes for our mental health and our well is better stop fighting and stop trying to climb that wall. Belive me we deserve better, blessings.

[@isaacferroudj7511]

Underated songs from underated talented.. keep it going Grace 🙏🏻❤️

[@andreabennafield9604]

Love and hip-hop Miami brought me here

[@rosedevarel7098]

Your experience made me think of my former suicidal little and older sisters that I pray for everyday. Who felt rejected by my parents. It broke my heart because I finally got why they would think that they chose me when they didn't. It reminded me of her emotional journey of how she thought my parents wanted me and not her. It is a perspective gained by real experiences...but I wish she allowed my parents to show her a different perspective. When she finally did they reinforced their perspective and so they cut off the nuclear family and created her own. Reinforced the trauma with me by forcing me into homelessness and rejection. Its weird how family trauma recycles generation after generation...I wish healing for you and thank you for sharing your story....It reminds me how we all go through so much similar situations.

[@achunaryan3418]

Unrequited love is a sign of blindness for the brain, and weakness for the heart.