Nick & Ant On Open Relationships, Threesomes and a HEALTHY Sex Life

[@keithfailmezger1596]

i was with my husband for 20 wonderful years , we were very committed to each other , I lost him to cancer 4 years ago. he was 40 . i miss him very dearly . we would have just celebrated our 24 anniversary .. stay committed to each other , it is worth it ,

[@kv3078]

❤❤ sending hugs ❤❤

[@ItsJustNick_]

Our hearts break for you. Those 20 years are to cherish! What is your one piece of advise to the younger gays, given what you have been through & your life?

[@djweisbeck]

I'm so sorry you lost your husband. Thanks for sharing this. It's a good reminder to be grateful for the loves that come into our lives.

[@ssspongebob6803]

Sorry for not staying on topic I just miss you guys

[@benjaminadams9541]

Love to see that gay couples can have a long committed relationships. When I first came out. All I saw was in movies or mainstream that guys can’t be happy married and committed.

[@JohnDoebr47]

I rather be alone than in an open relationship.

[@webapple1]

100%

[@thomaspetersen4977]

Totally agree!!

[@machomahn2010]

Exactly

[@yentemarien7032]

Open relationship isnt a relationship, you just want to eat for multiple biscuits and if you cant you can fall back on your familiar biscuit!

[@joshuarock4631]

That’s your choice not mine America freedom period , oh and I rather be dead then have anything traditional, eradicate fundamentalism

[@star_man]

As a gay man in his 50s I’ve witnessed quite a few friends and acquaintances in open relationships or threesomes over the years, and none of them worked long term, literally none. Jealously, resentment, or leaving their current partner for “someone better they met” are common, and in threesomes you normally find one pair become closer which pushes out the third person. I think 2 years has been the maximum I’ve personally witnessed with people I know. Luckily the majority of people were strong enough to say “OK, this isn’t working, we need to stop doing this” before it destroyed their relationship. However I have also known a couple whose relationship was stagnating who opened their relationship up to a threesome which reignited their passion for each other, and they became monogamous again a couple of years later and in a stronger position when the third person started to get closer to one of them and they recognised it was starting to damage things. Not saying it can’t work or can’t be fun for a short time, but it’s a very emotionally complex rollercoaster.

[@ericfreshcorn3590]

Hi from Ohio

[@UniDocs_Mahapushpa_Cyavana]

I think humans are only afraid of jealousy because it makes them do bad things. And they made their ego around being allegedly a "good person." If you give up your fear of being a villain, it doesn't actually feel bad.

[@joshuarock4631]

Hi bud mine has worked but then again I’m 33

[@paulmccoy6431]

The words “commit” and “work” are so good to hear in a time where everyone wants to walk away for something new. Great discussion here, thank you 4ll.

[@marktaylor8656]

I am a therapist and when threesomes or open relationships occur trust is destroyed from that point. .

[@kenofken9458]

That's why therapists like you are completely useless for those of us who are not monogamous. Fortunately there are a growing number who do understand how non-monogamous relationships work and can work with clients in a non-judgmental way.

[@spinboyca]

I may be looking for a 2nd opinion because this is not a 'one size fits all'. Different couples have different dynamics. I know couples that have stronger relationships because they have strong communications and set boundaries. What happened to therapeutic neutrality - i thought therapists were not supposed to impose their personal beliefs on clients? Empirical studies don't agree with your opinion and you seem to be injecting your bias and have abandoned a basic client-centered need for understanding what the needs are for each unique couple that hires you.

[@Pump3]

It all depends on COMMUNICATION!! I've been in open relationships and when we had a 3some we both agreed to an open relationship BUT THERE WAS COMMUNICATION!! So let me jump in 😘

[@hanacharyislost5047]

Can’t be a good one

[@noamaanahmad1595]

@@Pump3communication of that sort happens in the moment. You agree then and there BUT when you experience it you can feel something totally different/ start to feel that it shouldn’t have happened and that leads on to problems such as overthinking if you now think open relationship is not right cuz or morals or whatever after experiencing an open relationship you’re gonna start thinking whether or not your partner feels like intimacy should be between two or not

[@curtisdorsett1390]

My husband and I had a twenty year difference in age. He was 40 and I was 20. He had twenty years of freedom before we were together and I kind of had zero. We were madly in love but we both had compete freedom sexually both separately and together. We even went to bathhouses together. We were in a loving relationship for 48 years until his death 7 months ago. We discussed everything. There were never any secrets nor was there jealousy.

[@MiraculousladybugButmyownway]

I’ve been a fan for 4 years! Glad to see you uploading again

[@ItsJustNick_]

awee thanks for the constant support

[@MiraculousladybugButmyownway]

@@ItsJustNick_ no problem best gays I’ve ever watched🥰

[@coendebrauwer324]

As a gay men 36 willing to have a commit relationship its hart to find , because everyone wants to have the open relationship thing, so enjoy it togheter

[@lee_max]

Hi both -love your new podcast! I’m a fan and thanks for being models for those who prefer exclusive relationships . It’s rare to find exclusive influencers nowadays

[@ItsJustNick_]

Awee thank you so much

[@michaelc8126]

I am an Older Gay, I loved this interaction among the generations. Great Topic !

[@djweisbeck]

💪

[@ItsJustNick_]

Awee we love the old gays!

[@23gizmo32]

Awesome podcast. All of you guys were great. Been enjoying Nick's and Ant's many videos for quite some time. Love the mixed generation bit. More, please. You were all so honest and mature and insightful. And each pair so obviously committed to each other. Finally (sorry, but I have to say) Ant - you are the most beautiful man I've ever seen.

[@ItsJustNick_]

We love the feedback thank you so much

[@What_is_life_without_chaos]

OMG this podcast was so good!!! It was so interesting to learn about the insights of the two generations. I’m so glad you guys are back❤I can’t wait for future episodes!

[@Noahj08]

Wait this is actually such a good podcast! Me and my husband are about to set notifications on for this one🔥

[@lexu9907]

You know your relationship is not good when you need to open it

[@feelin_fine]

I think it's often a sign of trust, communication, and acknowledgement of your partner's needs. Mine is way healthier and happier than my monogamous ones.

[@JorexCat]

Same with me ​@@feelin_fine

[@terrykemp1876]

What rubbish

[@AnthonyCushion]

Gonna be a fun watch!

[@WafflegamingTime]

Can’t wait I’ve been watching you two since 2016ish

[@ItsJustNick_]

Who’s the hot new gay next to nick 👀

[@WafflegamingTime]

@@ItsJustNick_ ant

[@anruswanepoel801]

I am looking forward to your podcast in a few minutes. Here watching all the way from South-Africa.

[@ItsJustNick_]

Hey! Thanks so much, we hope you enjoyed! 🫶🏼

[@PhillipGiosio]

Always wanted to find the one and only special person for me, never found him, still looking, now 68, never give up hope... trust is important in any relationship and respect, love conquers all

[@christophermartinez2400]

So glad yall did a podcast can’t wait for the new episodes I’ve been watching yall since yall got together

[@ItsJustNick_]

Coming next Tuesday 👀

[@adrian8372]

If i get a hello from you guys, it will be my first time in some ways interacting with famous people. I just want to say that you guys are an inspiration that gay guys should follow. There's always going to be ups and downs in a relationship, but those things can make you grow stronger together. It's very beautiful to see how both of you show your love to one another. And take you for the positive energy that you both share to the world that i cherish 💛🧡

[@carlytravis961]

this was actually SO good! i’m really excited for the next episode. do you guys have a specific schedule for new episodes?

[@ItsJustNick_]

Every Tuesday morning! Ready for your commute to work, school or when you’re bored & have an hour to listen in! We’re so happy to hear you enjoy the first episode!

[@kingbingham5139]

Completely loved it! Have a new system now with my boyfriend. We both have pretty busy work and social days but it keeps the relationship fresh! So every Tuesday at 9:15pm nobody goes out: We sit down with my popcorn and watch,binge and discuss and I absolutely love it!!!! Edit: I'd be so proud if Anthony and Nick comment to this 💗

[@ItsJustNick_]

This is goals! And also perfect timing to binge this as it’s out every Tuesday!

[@kingbingham5139]

@@ItsJustNick_ Aww Tysm 😍

[@firetech700]

You don’t need an open relationship if you find the right person who is willing to listen to you, give you space, feed your soul, and please your body, even when they are not necessarily in the mood themselves. That, is the definition of a partner. One who will go to great lengths to make you happy, but not willing to lose themselves in the same process tho… balance… It’s a give and take… I tell my partner at the end of the day, hey I’m at 70% today, can you at least give me 30% help? They can.

[@matte3993]

Thank you for this! I hate when people demonize monogamy, if you want to be open just be open, I’m happy for you, but that doesn’t mean that I’m not open minded if I’m monogamous, 3ways and open relationships just not work for me 👌🏼

[@aundrereid73]

It’s usually the opposite actually. People demonize polygamy wayyy more than people demonize monogamy.

[@wickedgame241]

@@aundrereid73. I think something I’ve noticed, though, is that many monogamous people I know simply say that open relationships/polyamory is not for them. They can’t see themselves doing it. But people I know who are in open relationships or are polyamorous are condescending towards monogamous couples as if we’re not enlightened enough to understand that monogamy is “not natural” and that’s why people cheat.

[@LiamStafford-p3f]

@@aundrereid73maybe in straight relationships. But we are talking about 2 gay men here. There are so many external pressures on gay men in relationships. The antimonogamy thing is real with many gay men.

[@aundrereid73]

@@LiamStafford-p3f that doesn’t take away the fact that polygamy is still demonized by society as a whole and still in both the straight and gay community. It’s common yes, but it is still judged.

[@annjen8405]

​@@LiamStafford-p3fpolygamous relationship won't work for many gay couple as well but many and majority of those gay couples would prefer to live a quite life with each other perhaps pets and perhaps kids .

[@SocialClout]

for a moment i thought you guys were announcing an open relationship 😮‍💨. i'm glad i watched all the way 😂

[@SofiGS]

My heart stopped for a bit ngl 😂, I mean there's nothing wrong with having an open relationship, but I was so shocked for some reason lol

[@ItsJustNick_]

ahaha not yet 👀

[@SofiGS]

@@ItsJustNick_ I can't picture you guys in an open relationship ahaha, mostly because of Ant ❤️😂

[@babyae7335]

​@@ItsJustNick_i hope never

[@xxkarlosxxxxxx7233]

@@ItsJustNick_ ooh u said yet but I don't think this will happen atleast not when ur still young... Maybe when ur relationship is more matured as in maybe 10yrs from now perhaps but then probably not cause by then u will have kids and when kids are involved it's not an easy thing to do anymore

[@stevenb7779]

I’m almost 59, my husband is 40…we truly thought we were much closer in age. Love set in and it was too late to not be together because of the age difference. Anyway, I’ve never been open nor has my husband. We’ve been married 15 year. Going through the great times along with the crap times is what strengthens our bond and commitment. It is absolutely foreign to me how throwing a 3rd person in the mix would ever help that bond and commitment. For me, no way to be open. Plus, who has the time for that?! The time spent looking for another person should be spent on your relationship and why one sees a need to add a 3rd.

[@jaumknows]

The most anticipated podcast of the decade, at least for me ❤

[@ItsJustNick_]

awee thank you 🥺

[@Marky-G-Barnsley]

I was with my partner of 8 years, we seperated but remained friends, but after a struggle to get hold of them and the police not interested, they were found dead, this was May last year and i'm still fighting to get answers, and i love them so much

[@geraldgoyette2676]

Just finished watching this and loved every minute you all did a great job 👍👍👍👍👍❤

[@ItsJustNick_]

Awee thank you thank you!

[@Maroblox]

You guys nailed this format! It was interesting throughout all the interview and that's something to appreciate. My only observation would be that the mic gain is quite low and I had to crank up the volume, other than that, i can't wait for the upcoming episodes!

[@ItsJustNick_]

Hey! Error on our part! Thanks for letting us know, keep it coming with the feedback and we'll always be improving!

[@christianaug_flores]

When you have open relationships there is no true commitment to the person you love only your next hookup...commitment means total love and devotion to the one person you love not to a husband swapping orgy.

[@uptownjay]

Nope

[@spaveevo]

Open relationships for the most part arent good for your relationship. If you are just looking for fun with your bf thats fine but if you want something with them for life i dont recommend it. Relationships are hard enough and if you add other people it usually does not bring you closer to your partner. Some couples can do it but in my experience relationships dont last long term having an open relationship and by long term i mean for life. In the end you have to know yourself and your partner. Be open and honest.

[@zarajenkins225]

Seeing you guys post on KZbin again makes me so happy! I've missed you guys so much!! I loved this episode and can't wait for the next one. Love you guys!

[@ItsJustNick_]

Thanks for being here ❤

[@zarajenkins225]

@@ItsJustNick_ ofc! Always will be 🫶🏻

[@toddstubbs5597]

Nick, I just love the way Ant, looks at you. I wish I had someone look at me, like that.

[@dannyboy2060]

Love this concept (young and older gays). Ideal for next podcast: age gape relationships. Trying to understand the younger gerneration that ignore instead of stating what is on their minds. “Ghosting “. “No answer.. is an answer”. Thing… Cheers:)

[@littlshylover]

im so happy that ur backkkkkkkk

[@ItsJustNick_]

happy to be back!!

[@Janna_speaks]

I LOVE YALL I BEEN WATCHING NICK SINCE before he ever met ant 🤣🤣🤣 I been yo day 1 !!! I'm so proud of yalls relationship and the podcast episode. The responses are so mature and so wise. Loving it !!!!

[@sweetielove11]

Love this so much! 🩵👏🏼 As a straight woman, I also would never have an open relationship, and threesomes would have to be later in a relationship with boundaries as well. I will definitely be tuning in every time the podcast comes out! You guys should have Dion and Sebb as special guests when they visit in June 🤪✨

[@ItsJustNick_]

awee we LOVE this comment thank you 🥺

[@KaseyShaw-c2u]

Old gays and new gays are so wise amazing podcast 👍 ❤

[@ItsJustNick_]

The old gays are very wise

[@TheRealDimont]

Open relationship in definition means both are open to have fun with others, but not adding to your relationship. While polyamory would mean to have a relationship between more then 2 people.

[@StanChris]

loving thisssss

[@kv3078]

Botum is here ..yass we living for it 😂😂❤

[@shannongoffin6744]

Really enjoyed watching this video, can't wait for the next video! 😊

[@ItsJustNick_]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@ajpacella]

Wonderful launch. Looking forward to more. 2 questions: I didn’t hear introductions but I think I saw somewhere that there’s a familial relationship between the elder(s) and the new, what is that? And could you clue us in to the ages of the each to better understand the generational difference?

[@ItsJustNick_]

I did a video with them about 4 years ago! It’s still up on my chanel 🤍

[@thespion]

The intergenerational element of this video was a great approach, but it would have also been interesting to bring in a couple that are in an open relationship and are satisfied with it. There are actually many and surprised that the hosts don’t know any. The ones i see that have been successful, over many years, are couples that don’t feel that the specialness of their relationship isn’t diminished by meeting a physical need with others. Boundaries are important, but there are ways to create a special intimacy with your life partner that isn’t predominantly based on who is doing what to whom in the bedroom

[@theozarkduke]

Open means he's not enough for you. move on fast. he's not the one.

[@RobbyRits]

Bro they’re back! I missed you guys. I look up to you! Tell Ant I’m sorry I haven’t made my fit af payment 😢. Hope things are going great!

[@ItsJustNick_]

We missed you guys so so much!

[@bobbyloglisci494]

It was great guys! ❤ Love the Uncles! So wise!🌈❤️

[@ItsJustNick_]

awee we love you!

[@djweisbeck]

❤

[@luiri_miyashima]

Congrats on your first episode ✨

[@ItsJustNick_]

thank you!! Do you want more??

[@kingbingham5139]

@@ItsJustNick_ Definitely 😆

[@bryanthernandez9324]

This was one of your best episodes. Thank you for this!!!

[@OliverSturgess]

Love this love the idea can’t wait for others to be posted 🎉

[@paulineatkinson9009]

I love this, it’s so refreshing to hear young and older ❤

[@rogerbrierley1040]

That was really good 👍 Great chemistry between the 4 of you.

[@isabella_0424]

i’m so glad you posted again!!!

[@alijaraba3544]

Wow!!! What a great idea for a podcast!!! I hope I'm not overreaching with this, but as a podcast watcher, I'd luv a 3rd camera view that includes all four of you in the same shot. To me, this adds depth and excitement to the video format, especially with the additional background view, and allows us to see your collective reactions instantly. Anyways, I luv y'll sm💞

[@ItsJustNick_]

We'd need to change the backdrop, as we wanted a third camera, but were not sure how to aesthetically position it with the current backdrop. We'd likely change to a set based environment, so we can allow for a third camera!

[@EthanLomas]

Thank god for that. I am open minded but open relationships disgust me

[@KaiShepherd-n6z]

Brilliant, fun and informativo. Great staff boys. Looking lovely as always. Xx❤🤗

[@ItsJustNick_]

awee thank you!!

[@MOMMYANDMICHAEL]

I have been following you and watching your videos for many many years. There has been a huge gap from Covid where I haven’t seen you and your content. Recently your content came back to light on my KZbin and I’m so glad it did. I am absolutely loving this new Podcast new gay old gay this is such a very interesting and very different type of videos that I’ve seen. I am loving a all the things you’re talking about as I know a lot of gay men but I don’t know a lot about being gay. I feel as if this is going to be very beneficial for people to learn a little bit and also learn, generally how things were for older generations of gays. and now the new generations. As we all know the older generations, it was a more difficult time for them so to hear what the old gays have to say is really fascinating. Thank you for coming up with this wonderfulI concept and idea for filming. I cannot wait to see what you guys have to share next as I’m sure you guys have a lot to talk about.

[@AmbrociousXP]

This was a refreshing thing to watch.

[@ItsJustNick_]

Really happy to hear this! See you next Tuesday!

[@liam2501]

Can we expect anymore podcasts? Also you guys are the best

[@kingbingham5139]

Every Tuesday 💟💕

[@ItsJustNick_]

Yes!! Every Tuesday 👀

[@KingDomfaithlifecoaching]

This is a very interesting conversation. In reading a number of the comments I noticed a common sentiment expressed that echoed Nick's feeling about open relationships: jealousy. It has always been fascinating to me to see how westerners have romanticized jealousy and some people even crave their partner to be jealous as a sign of love or loyalty. I'm not saying this is wrong or right but I personally don't understand it. I remember having jealous feelings of my husband having a gay friend (after some irritating situations with that friend) and I asked myself why I was jealous. And I kept asking myself why until I got to the principal answer: I was simply afraid that he would leave me for this guy. But I knew that I didn't want to live in fear of my husband leaving me for anyone. Which meant that I would have to talk to him, share my feelings and trust him. If he kept that trust perfect! If he didn't, sad day and we would have to separate but at least I wouldn't live in jealousy or fear or even anger towards his friend. I disagree with this take on Open Relationships.

[@jabulanisibanda3234]

I'm loving it can't wait for me episodes❤🇿🇦

[@ItsJustNick_]

Thank you 🥺

[@cazb5777]

This is my favourite ever video of yours & I loved the input from your older friends. I think that open relationships can work.. but only if both parties feel the same about the opening the relationship. Sometimes, although both parties want to open the relationship, jealousy can slowly creep in & then things can disintegrate rapidly. Unfortunately that happened to friends of mine who were together since their teens then married after about 6 happy years together. They decided to start having threesomes about a year into their marriage & it was like the kiss of death to their relationship. They are now divorced & things became reallly ugly between them before they split up.. On the other hand, some other friends of mine are still completely in love after years and years of being open. Anyway, 2 of my favourite expressions are "Different strokes for different folk" and "Whatever floats your boat" 🤷🏾‍♀💞

[@samuelcollazo5129]

People aren't met for open relationships. It has always been for hundreds of years and always will be 2 only. It isn't a traditional thing, it's a biological thing. It's called pair bonding and it comes natural to all people, its a beautiful thing, its the reason why we're all here now.

[@aqua-14156]

LOVE YOUR PODCAST!! I'm so happy that you decided to do this...been watching your channel or only two years but I love it !!💙💙 Also Nick looks so good in that shirt!

[@Zink12345]

Love the podcast so much hope you guys make another one soon!!

[@ItsJustNick_]

See ya next Tuesday!

[@fredyross7972]

Sameee can't picture myself in an open relationship..

[@Regu1us]

A great podcast! Such a great job 🧡🔥

[@ItsJustNick_]

Thank you so much!

[@feelin_fine]

I think being open takes trust, vulnerability, commitment, and communication. It takes a lot of honesty to say what you want, a lot of work to negotiate and democratically decide what works in terms of boundaries, and a lot of bravery to relinquish some control. Monogamy is fine, if that works for you, though I hate how many in monogamous relationships look down on open relationships, despite the fact that they work well for many of us. Not everything in life and love is a competition; your friends can be different but complementary, for instance, and for many of us romance and sex are the same. I just can't imagine being in a monogamous relationship because it doesn't feel natural to me. I want to flirt and form connections with others, and I see no reason besides conservative religious or cultural norms why this is "bad." If anything, my open marriage is WAY healthier than previous relationships I've been in. Time and things like that may be finite and involve some practical considerations, but love and joy don't have to be, and often you appreciate your partner more for having the freedom to explore other personalities and connections too. At least that's my experience.

[@JEJE4uu]

Omgggg I’m so excited to watch 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺💗🩷🎀💖💗

[@ItsJustNick_]

how did you like it? 👀

[@Js2Jo]

Nick, it's so fun to watch it on this video, thanks to your husband, Anthony!! 😮😮😮 #notificationsquad

[@ItsJustNick_]

thank you!!

[@jima.]

This Was Pretty Good.. Very Interesting Talk... Helped Me Realize, "I Just Hate Getting OLD" .........

[@andrewmelillo3235]

I missed you on KZbin ... And i loved every second of this video

[@What_is_life_without_chaos]

KEEP BEING YOURSELVES!!!❤

[@lucthin6245]

This is fun podcast. I am bi, but a Sagittarius, I am not a Virgo.

[@ItsJustNick_]

We love a Sagittarius

[@kylecissell958]

Awesome job guys very insightful.

[@Booboobanana]

Fear of commitment and fear of loosing freedom to have sex with others is how I see open relationship is and we are finding excuse to normalise it, in fact, it is now dominating on how gay men should have relationship these days and seems monogamy is being left out. Because of this, It's way harder to find a relationship and even date for those people who want to be in monogamous relationships.

[@kevinhowe6307]

Does Ant the younger man with the beard look exactly like Zedd?!

[@michaelwoodbodley8099]

The guy with the beard is the older one. I think Ant is on the left.

[@robertcase7293]

My partner and I fall into the old gay category. We’ve been together for over 20 years. We have a semi open relationship meaning we enjoy adding a dude to our mix. It’s very hot for both of us. It works for us and we trust each other completely. Communication is a key issue. There had been a few times when my partner had sex with another guy without me. I was cool with it. I wasn’t into this particular dude and I was like what the hell, have at it. We have a very strong and loving relationship. That helps a lot.

[@bill7445]

I’m gonna say it. I listened to all episodes and Ant just interrupts the flow of every conversation, especially when it’s a deep conversation, he always interrupts it with some crude irrelevant ’joke’. We can see he is somewhat insecure or not fully mature, passing on his opinions as loaded questions or remarks. The conversations are so interesting until he butts in

[@Bradymcbridhe8304]

Maybe that's why Nick likes him? He's different.

[@kv3078]

Felt like waiting for eternity 😂😂 literally the most anticipated pod cast for me 😂 love u yall ❤

[@anuarvonen]

LovelyOnes!!!! Always!!!! With Lovely People!!!!

[@ItsJustNick_]

Thank you!! ❤

[@kingbingham5139]

How often is this fab podcast!

[@ItsJustNick_]

Every Tuesday!!

[@ChristianBlandford]

So proud of u guys ❤️❤️

[@ItsJustNick_]

Thanks so much Christian!

[@rebeccahamm6522]

Love yall! ❤

[@ItsJustNick_]

we love you!!

[@oshanegreen1954]

I believe it is communication because once boundaries are set but yea

[@JakesSake]

When I was younger I always said it would be an absolute no go for anything other than my partner - after 2 long terms relationships. I would say I would probably be open to threesomes but not open. Things change I guess

[@ralfnilsson6839]

Hey from kiruna in sweden I like your videos and please don t be break up ❤❤❤

[@ItsJustNick_]

Omg hey!! Should we go to Sweden?

[@ralfnilsson6839]

@@ItsJustNick_ i support You guys and I support You gay People loves is love please don t break up and more pranks videos and you are welcome to sweden come to kiruna in sweden

[@marythevlogger]

Very informative podcast.

[@kirtundercoffer7655]

Nice podcast, nice channel. 34:14 bagsy, bagsie: At least on the US East Coast you can also say "Dibs" or "I call dibs". People still say this and it goes back at least 50 yrs. Also, again on the US East Coast, "I bagged something" isn't a new phrase. It also goes back fairly far but may have come into vouge in the 80's.

[@lizzyannie1]

Loved it. ❤

[@ItsJustNick_]

Awee thanks Lizzy!!

[@tluang]

I Can't share

[@FABWaldorf]

Fergus Dublin Ireland 🇮🇪 Hey Nick & Ant, U guy's havent come in to my feed in ages. Congratulations on getting Married! I'd love to see your Vlog called ..."Its Nick & Ant"...cos it is both of you afterall. Gr8 show 2nite! Fx❤

[@ItsJustNick_]

Awee hey from London!

[@brycemaldet1645]

I am so excited to be here 🥰😍

[@harrypingol3430]

Hello from the Philippines 🇵🇭🌈

[@ItsJustNick_]

hello!

[@andrewclark7882]

Missed you both xxxxx

[@ItsJustNick_]

Awee glad we’re back

[@santos8589]

Porque no han sacando un vídeo? León Guanajuato México

[@JerwinaCultura]

When you say they are famous in TikTok I knew this already

[@nikos1503]

the podcast was very interesting keep up your good work and it was nice to see you again as for Open Relationships and Threesomes we have a song in my country (Ο έρωτας γεννήθηκε για δύο .......Ο τρίτος φέρνει πάντα χωρισμό )Love was born for two.... the third always brings break up I hope you never try something like this after all, I hope you will be together forever, you have our love guys

[@wicthdragondefoxsa-bearsa3170]

I love this episode. I will say as someone who is married and poly I will state that one open/poly relahinships are not for everyone it should never be used as a bandaid or to make your partner happy. It should be something you want as well . also it should be something that works for both or more of you. How ever There is down sides it like mongamy eveyrthing has a draw back but one thing everyone should have is commaction and respect no matter what. I got out out of soemthing with a d bag that was a closet case and tried to use my being poly againts me when heffers were flirting with him online ect. Yes jelsleoy hapans in any type of relashinships thats were honesty and commcnation resureance needs to come on. Bottom line it can work or it can't like any thing esle but its not right for everyone and thats ok just be honest do what you think is right not what everyone esle thinks.

[@moisesgalindo77]

I missed you so much 🥺

[@ItsJustNick_]

Missed being on KZbin!

[@akwad.7903]

Why did you delete the last video?