Iyanla: Fix My Reality Star Life: Part 1, Evelyn Lozada | Full Episode | Iyanla: Fix My Life | OWN

Look back at the episode that started it all. In the series premiere of "Iyanla: Fix My Life" in 2012, Iyanla traveled to Miami to visit Evelyn Lozada, weeks before the headline-making news of the alleged domestic violence incident between her and her then-husband, Chad Ochocinco Johnson. Part 1 of 2. (Original air date: September 15, 2012) // Watch more episodes of "Iyanla: Fix My Life" on the Watch OWN app: bit.ly/watchow...
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[@Vxruxxss]

Iyanla's energy has changed sooo much. She has grown so beautifully by the end of Iyanla fix my life. Miss her so much

[@NajSinghs]

Auntie's up here on KZbin. ❤🌹 She's soo sweet.

[@ntombikayisetertia7098]

"If u don't have a vision for yourself what's the vision your bringing to the marriage?? "🤪🤪🤪🤪

[@stoplayin21]

All the abuse and violence Evelyn does to women, men do to her. Be the most gentle person to women and watch how you attract gentle men. That’s how life works. Balance

[@melaninheadwraps6268]

You better preach!!

[@miss7968]

🗣 amen 🙏

[@sweetlistenings3324]

@@dddddadadad1796 why you so mad? we on youtube watching a show and commenting on what's being shared with the world.

[@bossb8989]

Wow

[@RUBY-zi2ug]

my aunt needs to see this

[@nitarhodes42]

I don't know who this young lady is, but when Iyanla brought her in and let her weep, snot bubbles and all, I genuinely felt for her and that seven year old girl whose vulnerabilities were never protected or dignified.

[@jamisontanksley112]

I love that your can see a soft nice person in her when someone finally gave her the ability to be taken care of. Having an entitiy to lean on not only brings the best out of you, but brings out the growth

[@Ohdeesseous]

She's hasn't changed at all that's why she keeps going through the same things

[@QueenSugar72]

Exactly

[@msmokaonehunnit5721]

What do you mean?

[@QueenSugar72]

@@msmokaonehunnit5721 still messy, still a bully

[@Ohdeesseous]

@@msmokaonehunnit5721 She's sitting there crying with Miss Iyanla explaining how much of a bully she is, and how her ugly behaviour comes right back to her and on the last few seasons she was acting the same way. From the earlier seasons of BBW to this episode with Iyanla to the recent seasons of BBW she behaved exactly the same. Zero change, a thug amongst women, blaming the other women for the stuff she says and does.

[@msmokaonehunnit5721]

Ok I'm a bit slow guys I haven't watched this episode yet,I saw the comment and I thought you were referring to Ms.Iyanla?? I was so confused..my fault. Y'all scared me for a minute tho,cuz I love Ms.Iyanla and the methods she uses to heal people,not everyone appreciates her methods and she gets alot of negative words about that. Ok..bout to watch this episode.

[@Helen-fg5pz]

A man who is not accountable to anybody is a danger to himself.

[@Helen-fg5pz]

When you have a big life you also have big issues.

[@Helen-fg5pz]

I am not my sister's keeper, I am my sister.

[@Helen-fg5pz]

A product of negativity thrust into the world, chaos.

[@Helen-fg5pz]

You call it anger but most of what you have done has been out of fear. 😮

[@nicholemobley6152]

I swear I need her to just talk to me she soothes instead of shames Bless you Izanyla

[@katrynlittle165]

Damaged people know they should not be in a relationship, we don't wanna be alone so bad

[@visionsofasia1649]

That's true. In your heart you know you aren't ready. Your mind is conflicted daily on the fence. Because you weren't ready. But you didn't want to lose that person liking you so much. I wish I knew the future sometimes....

[@lavlashbeauty]

@@visionsofasia1649 girl this is so true 😭

[@urmamasmamasmama]

Evelyn is a bully. Idgaf

[@tiheshakp]

FACTS! SHE LIVES FOR DRAMA

[@maireadpower6475]

She tried it with OG on basketball wives ,she got nowhere only shot down everytime, OG showed the real Evelyn everytime ,I get her hurt I get her struggles trust me but she needs to be honest and work on herself, do good you'll get good back, I think inner issues from childhood dictates our grown future, its so sad,I wish her peace and happiness,you need to accept when your wrong full stop,period

[@irritism1227]

At the end, I fell in love with Chad's kids. They are so innocent and sweet!

[@kamogelokoloane7465]

I find it hard to feel anythn for Evelyn..even when she cries🙄

[@mz.ak4713]

She always crying make me sick😒

[@DelaRanta01]

lol

[@nelixsulu6201]

Because she's a bully

[@JozzyJah111]

This is 2yrs old and she still has not changed

[@keke555788]

​@@JozzyJah111this was filmed in 2012

[@back2yaz112]

You never know what people are really going through behind cameras. I pray Evelyn continues on her journey of healing ❤️‍🩹

[@176103cw]

I love this show....we all have the same problems and issues LOVE is the answer!💚💛💚✨✨✨

[@raquelleseda2302]

So why is Evelyn concerned with being such a good example to her step daughters? What about the example she’s had on her own daughter her whole life? What about their own fathers example to them?

[@saltnpeppanatural1931]

She changes to fit whatever relationship she’s in 🤷🏽‍♀️. Then complains when it doesn’t work out.

[@MOTHEGREAT1981]

Evelyn wasted Ms. Iyanla's time

[@teejay8910]

Exactly 🙌🏽

[@raea3588]

I am grateful for the episode because it gave me so much to think about to help me change my life. And I pray that one day Miss Evelyn will have the peace to get to where she needs and wants to be. I can't judge another person or what I don't understand.

[@harlemknights6871]

Evelyn is a liar 🤥. Remember OG

[@lakeisha617]

I agree. She's all about a "show" & a "dollar ", and until she truly wants help to own and fix her. It's a waste that she succeeded in getting pd for. That's whatever shows that she does. I feel Iyanla was reading right through her and that, that's why she spoke to her as she, before she crossed her threshold.

[@harlemknights6871]

I still remember when she threw that wine bottle. She’s a violent person. Then wonders why he used disciplinary action.

[@gentleasa5728]

Regardless of all the whack, foul, behavior I saw out of her. She was beautiful when she said becoming a Servant if God! I pray she continues, nothing more pure, beautiful, humble , than someone in the service in our Lord!

[@princesslene55]

@@tziporahyisrael7254 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nelixsulu6201]

Nah, this woman is the devil lol

[@jesusiscoming6817]

Yet Evelyn remain toxic smh you would think after doing this show she would do the work but didnt. This show was just to make Chad look bad. I can't stand Evelyn she's always playing the victim.

[@ArtrishaAnderson]

I would love to sit and talk to Iyanla. Since I lost my mom I have and don’t trust no one to actually talk to

[@thailea5958]

❤❤

[@brownsugako7772]

I remember this time period, I was side eyeing Oprah because this was before she had a lot of shows on her network and let Evelyn not only come on this show, but Evelyn had her own show on this network for a while. This non Black chick gets propped up by Black celebs to behave badly against Black women, so glad OG was her karma!

[@luna-kiva]

Uh, what has race or ethnicity got to do with any of this? Seriously. How or why does skin color even factor into this? Fun fact. There is no such thing, anthropologically or scientifically, as different races in human beings. Skin color is an adaptation to different climates around the world as we spread out across the globe. Race is a man made concept to cause disunity, separation and sow hatred amongst ourselves. The sooner we understand this the sooner we can realize that we are all each other’s brothers and sisters, no matter what shade of pigment in the skin.

[@brownsugako7772]

@@luna-kiva go tell police that keep killing Black men, women and children because of RACE that RACE or ethnicity don’t matter!!!

[@maireadpower6475]

OG was definitely her karma 😅O G handled her truth

[@themamabuza3637]

Iyanla is an amazing woman I’m always crying and laughing as I watch these episodes 😭♥️😂🤣🙌🏾

[@TanyaRomelus]

Love the fact that she try to get help but what happened cuz years later she called OG a monkey 😪😪

[@tommycolls7839]

Well she do look like one real talk

[@adamu32]

I was looking for this comment

[@viewerslikeme2]

Trash ​@@tommycolls7839

[@chillbrutha82]

It just occurred to me how much Evelyn looks like Gizelle Bryant.

[@videovixen203]

Yes. Been saying that. A little Vanessa Williams too.

[@nobuhlekhumalo1903]

"A thug among women..."lol

[@winrosewanjau56]

The spikes on the shoes and the Leopard prints 😅

[@justdorcas3875]

I honestly don't think the fighting, cursing, and bullying is the real Evelyn. I think she does it for TV and to stay on the show and relevant. You can't tell me she behaves this way in her real life because she does not hang around these ladies in her life, it's all for TV.

[@jesusiscoming6817]

I honestly believe Evelyn is a hurt person. Hurt people hurt people. She needs counselling.

[@rasta487]

When this episode came on years ago my friend said this is great. I said Evelyn is an opportunist. She wants to be associated with Oprah. Now my friend gets it. As soon as she wasnt being talked about she went right back to thug. Have to admit I was disappointed that the Oprah network rewarded Evelyn's years of poor behavior. Sent wrong message imo.

[@MsAllie-hf1bh]

Moma looks just like her the same smile.

[@kdeloris2225]

Evelyn, you're in trouble girl 😂😂😂

[@nokulungashozana9179]

Why was there a tour of the house????

[@sharnelgezwint3990]

I wish Iyanla can help me to do my work

[@karenedwards2704]

You and I both

[@Doctor-stone.]

Then you both need to write in the show

[@karenedwards2704]

@Doctor stone I really wish she was still in production as I would have. Makes sense doesn't it.

[@annholl1603]

😂😂😂😂🤡💀

[@crystaledwards6610]

I hate that that had to happen to her. I wouldn't want any woman to go through that, but you would of thought going through that will change her violent behavior,but no. Evelyn knows how it feels to be abused and mistreated so why she do that to someone else.

[@iamlaurengill]

A classic episode!

[@teejay8910]

🙄... Evelyn's playing victim.. The mean girl from BWLA..with her bullying Ladies on the show.. And the "UNBECOMING GESTURES" she made by saying her "P" is the best , she throws it out good... No sympathy for Evelyn shd will never change her ways .... Good Luck Marc Anthony 🤞🏽

[@AO-wg9ne]

Eww Marc Anthony 😳🤦‍♀️... Now she's going to learn what it's like to be mentally and emotionally abused 🙄

[@QueenSugar72]

Marc Anthony? 😳

[@MsAllie-hf1bh]

Moma is a beautiful person. As human we age like fine wine. We don't pop off like young folks. If I was 20 years younger this would be a different conversation.

[@karabog7460]

Lol she will never change

[@sos1474]

Neveeeeeeeerr!

[@HouseofEmanuelDillard]

I am proud of you, Evelyn. Thank you for being honest and kind!!!! ♥️♥️

[@mrwihi7585]

Such a great person Iyanla.

[@danaciaross1991]

I feel like overall she really did seem to have a good relationship with his kids.

[@msoi215]

It had to break those kids hearts to find out that Evelyn and their father got a divorce. Not to mention the fact of the reason why they got a divorce.

[@nreynolds75243]

So many things in your life come uninvited. One day it becomes a breaking point. You're just sick of it and you end up angry, hostile and beside yourself. It's hard not to have those feelings. You feel cheated in life and it hurts.

[@karenm.2185]

Omg where is part 2!!! This was getting good!!! Please hurry with the next part. 😭😭

[@QueenSugar72]

Probably won't be until tomorrow

[@gentleasa5728]

Go to website choose videos, and part 2 came up about 45 min ago! Enjoy ladies

[@MsAllie-hf1bh]

I love me some Mrs Vanzant

[@msoi215]

Did she knew this man has 8 head of kids when she met him? And to think, she was considering bringing another life into this world with this man.

[@abundantsunflower1107]

Evelyn has shown a lot of vulnerability. It takes a lot! (Hopefully she grows after this)

[@adenharewood7809]

It's been 9 years since thus she's still not grown

[@Milla_cpt]

I need this lady to fix my family but I think if she ever came to Italy and spoke to them she would forever leave her job they are just a lost cause …

[@newgardner]

Evelyn had not answered the question that was asked 2-3 times in various occasions……Who are you? …..Come on Simba

[@girlwomen4685]

Is this real lifeeee? Cant wait to watch this episode 👐🏼👐🏼

[@catherine4043]

when I "grow up" I want to be the Iyanla Vanzant in my country 😍

[@sexytrinny52]

A leporod never change their spots

[@pjpj3416]

*leopard

[@jamila9316]

Watching evelyn lie to iyanla face is crazy

[@starshine4923]

I'm just waiting to see what hate comments are coming Evelyn's way

[@JK-rt1gy]

How interesting that Chad Johnson turned out to be an upstanding guy after all!!

[@KatieNicolexx]

Ms. Iyanla should have left when she said if this is for TV she would leave. This whole thing is for TV

[@joemorgan636]

Evelyn is lovely lady seriously beautiful ❤❤

[@GreenGeeky]

I've been waiting for this 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I fxcking KNEW SHE WOULD DO THIS! 🤣🤣🤣

[@TheMwendaa]

Giiiiiirrrrl

[@maireadpower6475]

I'm here in Ireland and I knew she'd definitely do this,all drama all TV, the money🤣🤣

[@tanyapeters5062]

Hugs Evelyn that took courage.

[@kamirah9720]

Ooo I been waiting for this

[@AThom-fz9km]

She dismissed the comments and laughs. The councillor, identify the sharp objects, on her shoe's, as form, of aggressive syllable. She is what she wears a aggressor.

[@Cherblue3]

I remember watching this interview in real time and Evelyn was WARNED by Iyanla... She told her it was gonna cost her...and it did...

[@juanitanoble6381]

😅 Chad has some sweet 🧁 kids ❤

[@aneishahibbitt6590]

In the last conversation on the beach I honestly don't think she knew the reasons why she got married, she barely could answer any of the questions that Iyanla was asking when it came to her husband. You can definitely tell she was making excuses about certain things especially when it came to her marriage. God Bless her 🙏🏾 good thing she came out of it

[@jabusithole123]

I did not like her, I judged her but now I realise we are all human being going through challenges and we can all heal and be well

[@176103cw]

I love you Iylana 😍🌟😍😇😇😇💫💫💫

[@crystal5076]

I been thinking about this for awhile.. but what if who she is on basketball wives is not really how she is in real life. Yes she may have been going through a lot with chad, & her upbringing may have been rough. Reality TV shows can bring out the worst in people judging from what most tv stars said. They have to act a certain way for cameras. Idk it’s just a thought.

[@luzcortez3269]

I have hope that she can change, she has to want it though and move in that direction. We all have the possibility to change and we need to ask God for the strength and will to We cannot do it apart from Him.

[@Angels_surround_me747]

I TOTALLY RELATE.

[@cynthiabaldwin3107]

Man I'm late but glad I seen it even though she still low-key toxic to this day lol but at least they gave her a moment to be human and I love it 🤠

[@justdorcas3875]

She's not toxic, she does all of that for the show and that is not the real Evelyn. The real Evelyn is the genuine love you see that his kids have for her and she has for them.

[@AThom-fz9km]

She seems like she changing. I felt really sorry for the children. They cried, as if they new she wasn't sincere in her truth.

[@justdorcas3875]

It was more like they cried because they love her because she genuinely loves them and they want her to do better.

[@jssrosal25]

I resonate with so much of what evelyn was feeling here. What would you say to the 7 y/o you?

[@kimlewis940]

I remember the show and she said to that man..u can cheat just wear a condom

[@supising]

UGH the dinner table talk was just 😢 so sweet

[@Angels_surround_me747]

A MAN NOT ACCOUNTABLE ..IS A DANGER TO HIMSELF.

[@Onyinyechi35]

I don't know about you.....but I was taking notes .....it's easy to look at someone else and criticise them when people have a lot of dirt in their lives too..... just because you are better at hiding them

[@t.c.5456]

Rotf. You clowns are in the comments supporting EVILyn. Meanwhile, she was still a bully after this OLD episode

[@krystal8715]

I was thinking the same thing! She's got all this support but she's still just as wicked as she's always been.

[@t.c.5456]

@@krystal8715 righhhhhht

[@elsadog9]

Lack of a dad = lack of limits and self control.

[@anitaboyd5623]

Yesssss Iyanla🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@ghchic2568]

So she got him firef and now who pays the child support and Alimony 🤦🏾‍♀️, instant Karma at its finest

[@truelife974]

He didn't go broke!

[@shayshay3424]

Iyanla fix my life

[@nontombibashe571]

How come i feel nothing for her even though she is crying i

[@ttp436]

Oh well that didn’t work

[@jahlive1243]

Evelyn adores Iyanla and has so much respect for her 🥰

[@bellaf7774]

Love Iyanla ❤️ love the little girls at the end awwww 💕❤️

[@AThom-fz9km]

The councilor informs, her about the sharp objects, on her shoe's

[@keningram5324]

My favorite episode

[@noyoudont7617]

That food look's nasty and none of them ate it!

[@therealsabrinamichele1252]

Her step daughters don’t trust her. Evelyn is gold digger

[@mz.ak4713]

She still the same way today just sad🤦🏽‍♀️

[@marlenenoubet4927]

😂😂

[@justmars4273]

This definitely didn’t age well

[@OneShroomTooMany]

Wym

[@laleezy77]

😂

[@fp2361]

All I thought as I saw Chad's daughters was how colorist Evelyn is with rich in melanin women. She seems to think rich melanin = ugly. Then she morphed into a Black woman when called on it. Smh.

[@EzekielDominic-x4i]

Anderson Margaret Garcia Robert Taylor Jose

[@dkny39]

You know, You know, You know, You know...

[@candidapeier]

What does this woman do?

[@WandaBland-e3o]

Martinez John Garcia Angela Martin Cynthia

[@MsAllie-hf1bh]

37:15 I'm here to serve Love it.

[@RaynamiTsunami]

2 mins this vid been out already over 100 views ÙŵÚ

[@rachealwoods8024]

“A cussing maniac” that’s the perfect way to describe Evelyn.

[@uponyajilifecoaching9351]

I don't know why I really feel for Evelyn