When You Are The One Being Left - The R Spot Episode 5

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Iyanla Vanzant

Iyanla Vanzant

Күн бұрын

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@senoviahankajena6458
@senoviahankajena6458 5 жыл бұрын
Being left is one of the most hurtful and embarrassing thing that happens and i dont wish it apon anyone...
@danyellg3079
@danyellg3079 Жыл бұрын
Yes it is!! I will never forget this pain. 💔
@ghettoghost305
@ghettoghost305 5 ай бұрын
Being left is a two way street depending on your perspective. When I was younger, it was hurtful, embarrassing. Being older, it is God’s way of removing that person from your life for a reason. I taught my kids that when they were young and also to NEVER chase anybody. Can’t force anyone to want you and even in the future if they decide to want you, why go? I teach my kids to NEVER go any place where you weren’t wanted in the beginning. It saves a lot of heartache and teach you how to love yourself and how to be fine being alone.
@freedomprime4733
@freedomprime4733 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been left, dropped, abandoned, ignored, rejected and I was angry, I was in rage, I asked why..then I began to go within and heal my own hurt. I am the love I choose to be and attract! No more dependency because of daddy issues. Thankyou Iyanla ❤️ acceptance is healing.
@latonyahoward3017
@latonyahoward3017 Жыл бұрын
This is where I am at this moment. I’m trying to figure out how to be this for myself.
@chazieantunes6732
@chazieantunes6732 6 жыл бұрын
I also refuse to chase after someone who's ok with losing me.
@CPR4THEBODYlivingaenrichedlife
@CPR4THEBODYlivingaenrichedlife 5 жыл бұрын
Powerful sis!!
@gwendolynlee3202
@gwendolynlee3202 5 жыл бұрын
AMEN!!!
@msbarbhenry
@msbarbhenry 5 жыл бұрын
This is what I need to come to terms with!
@mmowec8159
@mmowec8159 5 жыл бұрын
You shouldn't have to. I had to learn this the hard way
@Star-sj6pe
@Star-sj6pe 5 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you said that speaking from experience I left they behinds right where they at
@teathepot525
@teathepot525 6 жыл бұрын
To be left, Droped, Rejected, and Abandoned! The words seem to burn like acid!
@siajambuba
@siajambuba 5 жыл бұрын
Me right now.
@arnettra
@arnettra 4 жыл бұрын
Stranded. Abandoned, rejected. But I'm better person because of it. It didn't feel good at the time. I've seen them get their payback too. God is good🙂
@TheRonskins
@TheRonskins 4 жыл бұрын
😔😔😔
@coolcat6341
@coolcat6341 4 жыл бұрын
I almost had heart attack,,, it was not the break up its the way he don it,the way he treated me toward the end,, to be dropped after I healed his soul,,, he left me for the women who cheated on him..
@phoenixrising4719
@phoenixrising4719 7 жыл бұрын
My husband of 31 years left me with 1 days notice and then 2 weeks later he's in another relationship. Listening to these over and over again have helped me so much. I am so grateful thank you ♥
@justme7520
@justme7520 6 жыл бұрын
How are you doing today? I am going through something similar . I knew the guy 17 years off and on the last 10 years we where together. He dumped me for another and is still with her. It's a year now he left me for her and it has been so very very hard for me to move forward. I think of him everyday and then I start to think of them and it hurts so bad. I get mad at myself for missing him when he doesn't even seem to think I exists . He seems very happy with the new one. How can someone just forget everything you did for them and move on like nothing. I don't understand.
@PTALARA1
@PTALARA1 6 жыл бұрын
i listen over * over
@susaryla
@susaryla 6 жыл бұрын
I feel so sorry for you, hope you feel better soon.
@justme7520
@justme7520 6 жыл бұрын
@The Queen and Her castle... . Anything right now will help so I can try to understand what happened because I will never get closure from him . I woke up this morning missing him so much and it hurts but I have to try to move forward. Thank you
@justme7520
@justme7520 6 жыл бұрын
@The Queen and Her castle... . Thank you for your words and your information I will definitely look at those videos. Maybe I will understand more. Like when he looked me straight into my eyes and said I love you and then he was gone he wasn't even going to tell me he was ignoring me he didn't call or see me for 4 days until I approached him and then he told me no more sleep overs I've been causal talking to another woman. Again thank you for advice I will look into Narc more.
@JamaicaYam
@JamaicaYam 8 жыл бұрын
I refuse to chase after someone who doesn't want me! The love ❤️I was giving is who I am! 🏅🌟👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@caramelveganprincess6389
@caramelveganprincess6389 8 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree with you more.
@ms.kanderevised1802
@ms.kanderevised1802 8 жыл бұрын
yasss girl
@ms.kanderevised1802
@ms.kanderevised1802 8 жыл бұрын
yasss girl
@sofialovinglife597
@sofialovinglife597 7 жыл бұрын
Amen
@lucyluca6680
@lucyluca6680 7 жыл бұрын
Ghanya Thomas stay strong .....u deserve better. do something else when u get that impulse
@jujubee90275
@jujubee90275 7 жыл бұрын
I am a psychotherapist and you're teachings help me to help my patients❤
@hanzannalyn16
@hanzannalyn16 5 жыл бұрын
can you help me? I need therapist.
@chattingcarter8212
@chattingcarter8212 4 жыл бұрын
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@hersheisme915
@hersheisme915 8 жыл бұрын
I have had to look at this every time I feel like calling him.
@thelovely1553
@thelovely1553 8 жыл бұрын
me too😞😞
@thelovely1553
@thelovely1553 8 жыл бұрын
me too😞😞
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@jessicawilliams8302 8 жыл бұрын
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@lisag6959
@lisag6959 8 жыл бұрын
Kels Harden
@somikazimtiya5871
@somikazimtiya5871 7 жыл бұрын
ok
@noziphowabatagore3765
@noziphowabatagore3765 6 жыл бұрын
"I refuse to want someone who does not want me."
@sodiumfree9185
@sodiumfree9185 5 жыл бұрын
I wanna get over this so bad.. I've passed the angry stage. I'm tired of crying myself to sleep at night..
@KB-504
@KB-504 5 жыл бұрын
#metoo
@cecakhan2581
@cecakhan2581 5 жыл бұрын
Me too
@arieslyfe3955
@arieslyfe3955 5 жыл бұрын
Me three
@jackieh7546
@jackieh7546 4 жыл бұрын
I do too.
@doncorleonen3521
@doncorleonen3521 4 жыл бұрын
Me tooo :(
@eliz8294
@eliz8294 2 жыл бұрын
GIRL. This video saves lives and souls. Do not feel bad about being left by someone who doesn't want you. Give all the love you gave them to yourself Be gentle with myself Talk to god Journal your egos anger Iyanla is golden with wisdom and self care I thank god for her.
@jacobbaker4545
@jacobbaker4545 7 жыл бұрын
very true what she is saying...I went through the same thing and confronted the hurt. After i was done healing my entire life changed for the better. I found love, first within MYSELF and then from a wonderful man, who treats me with the utmost respect who I will be marrying soon. Really good advise.
@lovelock1994
@lovelock1994 7 жыл бұрын
Alana's Take how did you confront the hurt
@thatgworl2504
@thatgworl2504 6 жыл бұрын
Alana's Take 🖤
@Itsacamlife
@Itsacamlife 6 жыл бұрын
Alana's Take congratulations girl!!! I hope I can heal soon but it seems like I’m not. 11yrs with someone is a long time and he leaving and wanted something new and wanted to be with many women broke me. I hope o get to where u are. But it is hard when I shared a son with my ex partner.
@pinkysaha430
@pinkysaha430 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks 4 sharing
@amymeibauer9079
@amymeibauer9079 5 жыл бұрын
You are awesome!
@vcampbell11
@vcampbell11 7 жыл бұрын
She just gave me my life back!
@Msjuju20131
@Msjuju20131 5 жыл бұрын
Right. Ive been suffering for 3 weeks now. I got to let him go. He totally dont want me at all.and he told me. What was I thinking???
@zaydozier
@zaydozier 5 жыл бұрын
I feel so broken. 2 and a half years and now this. I don’t understand how someone can promise you forever and then just leave you behind like your worthless.
@mypersonal1575
@mypersonal1575 5 жыл бұрын
Antonio DelQuan hold your head up, stick your chest out! In due time you'll be just fine! Just let it go, know that if a person leave you, they wasn't meant for you! Focus on yourself, please don't run behind them don't wonder who or if their with anyone else it's no longer your business. Do absolutely no contact. As time go on you will feel better.
@tracyndiyob
@tracyndiyob 4 жыл бұрын
💔
@maxamilien285
@maxamilien285 4 жыл бұрын
Fuck I feel the same thing!! Same thing happened to me
@georgiaj5301
@georgiaj5301 6 жыл бұрын
He told me it was over and to leave his home. I didn't ask why. I just went to my car and drove off. That was 9 years ago and from the day I drove off until now, I have not called, texted, emailed, written or anything. I have never begged anyone who didn't want me and I never ask why. Iyanla you are right, that the relationship had been going downhill way before that last day. Thanks for these lessons Iyanla.
@AJourneetoWynn
@AJourneetoWynn 5 жыл бұрын
Georgia J this literally just happened to me🤦🏽‍♀️
@elenageorgiou6345
@elenageorgiou6345 4 жыл бұрын
Have you moved on these 9 years? If yes after how much time?
@MsMarkeila
@MsMarkeila 6 жыл бұрын
Wow so many people going through the same thing I thought I was all alone
@mightyme.makingitnew9979
@mightyme.makingitnew9979 5 жыл бұрын
MsMarkeila @ been there myself hun , god looks after his children..... it’s only been 6 months of getting that person out of my life , but I feel and see better . I was hurt so bad but I’m glad he wanted to leave as I know and can do better💯🙏🏾👍🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🥂💋
@LibraChick43
@LibraChick43 5 жыл бұрын
I know right...I thought I was alone as well.
@maricrismagcaling526
@maricrismagcaling526 5 жыл бұрын
Me too
@DimpledNatural
@DimpledNatural 4 жыл бұрын
Me too, satan likes to make us feel that way
@tretreh4456
@tretreh4456 5 жыл бұрын
I'm on the floor in tears this is so good. I just saved myself from catching a case.
@shanaydee
@shanaydee 5 жыл бұрын
Iyanla is sent straight from God, I refuse to give someone all of my heart who won’t give all of theirs to me
@romeytube26
@romeytube26 3 жыл бұрын
so true 🤗
@TheChuckie23
@TheChuckie23 7 жыл бұрын
I held on for so long and the writing was on the wall. I did not make myself a priority. I am learning every hour and minute. Thank you Ms. Iyanla for your inspirational words.
@serenaessed9637
@serenaessed9637 8 жыл бұрын
i just got an AHA moment and I will forever refuse to want people who do not want me.. Thank you so much Iyanla. God bless you!
@OLatreil
@OLatreil 8 жыл бұрын
The end of this is melts my heart. I'm working on self-love and each time I hear it it's like I'm hearing it for the first time.
@versipelliss
@versipelliss 5 жыл бұрын
I feel exactly the same way. Have to watch/listen again and again this kind of video to remember it : love yourself first. Everyday. :(
@angeliqueesprit9155
@angeliqueesprit9155 7 жыл бұрын
"What I've learned is the dept and capacity of my own love." #SelfLove is so beautiful!
@desativado9332
@desativado9332 7 жыл бұрын
I just wanna cry watching you. You made me feel warm.
@justinsenior8264
@justinsenior8264 5 жыл бұрын
Lord this lady has reached depths of my soul.. everything she said is the truth this is my current situation.. she ministers from the heavens..I wish I could hug her
@ando1135
@ando1135 6 жыл бұрын
Man, it's hard. The negative thoughts and the "why" are strong when someone doesn't reciprocate back to you what you give to them. Slowly, I am learning to distance myself from people who simply don't care about me as much as I care about them...it's so tiring to give so much effort for crumbs in return.
@DontDooTooMuch
@DontDooTooMuch 5 жыл бұрын
Yes it's like a slap on the face.
@tashaequeen8935
@tashaequeen8935 5 жыл бұрын
So hurtful
@Nahnie-jb8wo
@Nahnie-jb8wo 7 жыл бұрын
I wish I listened to this prior to me losing my dignity and lashing out at church!! Thank you, Iyanla. ☺
@Dream-Me
@Dream-Me 4 жыл бұрын
Did you get your happy ending ?
@mymoodmyvibez7111
@mymoodmyvibez7111 3 жыл бұрын
how are you now?
@gowithin1116
@gowithin1116 2 жыл бұрын
I listen to you before bed as I’m going through a breakup. You are so comforting and I appreciate your work. 🙏
@paigejude3655
@paigejude3655 7 жыл бұрын
I started crying when you spoke about your revelation. This video & that moment changed something in me.
@rubenrichrodriguez1146
@rubenrichrodriguez1146 2 жыл бұрын
I swear I’m a 49 year old man… I’ve never cried so much like this… watching her and listening to her videos… I’m hurt and I’m dealing with it… it’s not easy… but I’m getting through it.. the more I cry the more I’m letting out the pain I’ve been feeling for 7 years straight… I’m starting to build a new me… breaking all bad habits…
@juliebeilin6441
@juliebeilin6441 5 жыл бұрын
God lead me to you Iyanla! I needed to hear this right now! My depression has been deepening after my ex broke up with me 6 months ago. Thank you thank you so very much for your advice!! Love to you ❤️❤️
@ashleyjackson2143
@ashleyjackson2143 8 жыл бұрын
The worst feeling in the world!! Especially when you gave your all! After 3 yes all I could think about is what did I do wrong.
@caramelveganprincess6389
@caramelveganprincess6389 8 жыл бұрын
Probably nothing, sometimes people just don't get it until it's too late. I am a firm believer in Karma. What you do to others will eventually come back to you.
@klove33
@klove33 7 жыл бұрын
We in the same boat , I thought about what I did wrong but in all honestly I did the best I could , so what more can I do
@gugukhumalo9313
@gugukhumalo9313 5 жыл бұрын
"never ask why"...
@marcyallison5996
@marcyallison5996 6 жыл бұрын
When you no longer want them, they want you. Why does this happen????!!!! Reject the rejecter.
@KOLAkola
@KOLAkola 5 жыл бұрын
Marcy Allison haaaaa cuz they have to earn key word earn ur trust again gotta keep them chasin
@knucklehoagies
@knucklehoagies 7 жыл бұрын
My significant other just broke up with me yesterday. I really did love this person and the pain can be unbearable at times. Watching this did give me some hope. Thank you.
@realsevencarter
@realsevencarter 7 жыл бұрын
Jason Rittle god bless you ❤️
@davidgutierrez6398
@davidgutierrez6398 5 жыл бұрын
Me too I feel the same
@stephaniemac7635
@stephaniemac7635 5 жыл бұрын
Six weeks later I’m still feeling my heart is broken I’m so sick of being left like I didn’t even exist
@KOLAkola
@KOLAkola 5 жыл бұрын
Stephanie Mcallister time heals all wounds stay busy meditate drink a lot of water and stay prayed up.
@Fonzi79
@Fonzi79 5 жыл бұрын
I see this is 9 mos ago . I hope you recovered. My x just left me over Xmas Holiday . It was devastating i was a good very good girlfriend but he just left and abandoned me after 3 YEARS... I wanna hurt him so bad.....
@cecakhan2581
@cecakhan2581 5 жыл бұрын
@@Fonzi79 same since October
@MsJerrySparkle
@MsJerrySparkle 4 жыл бұрын
same here everyone, 2 years, my first serious relationship. i love him. but this has been creeping on us, if im honest. its just so devastating, losing all the time and the plans we made and the world we created
@sjfisoanzpaprjcoa
@sjfisoanzpaprjcoa 4 жыл бұрын
@@MsJerrySparkle I felt that. I'm here with you girl.
@ayodejiboyede4594
@ayodejiboyede4594 7 жыл бұрын
All the love, energy, time, companionship that I was giving to her it was mine, it was my the depth and capacity of my own love....OMG!!!🙈
@EM5959
@EM5959 5 жыл бұрын
Ayodeji Boyede omg is right- you’re walking away with the gold.
@kevinseaman6070
@kevinseaman6070 5 жыл бұрын
Wow.!🙏ing for you and that's what I will always do.
@victoriajohnson1956
@victoriajohnson1956 8 жыл бұрын
Thx Iyanla for ur wise advice. I was left by my husband of 25 years and it was very painful but I cherished my children and thought of the good times and relying on God and prayers to keep me sain. I thought I was not going to make it, but God is good. It has been 2 years now, and am still going strong. Am waiting for ur video on how to heal the children.
@TheGodsRain
@TheGodsRain 8 жыл бұрын
I LOVE you Iyanla, I think I just got it, IT'S NOT PERSONAL, we can only control ourselves and how we respond to everyone outside ourselves!!! Don't focus on why, just pay attention to their actions and the signals they give us!!! And I've come to the conclusion that I want to love with the best of my ability those that I am connected to by nature and by choice!!!
@desariewalker2471
@desariewalker2471 5 жыл бұрын
I needed this so bad, I was going through depression from being left and having hurt I see what she’s talking about when it comes to my ego
@TheDivineI
@TheDivineI 5 жыл бұрын
I have not been in a relationship since I was 38 years old when my last relationship reached its end...I am 60 now. I did not plan for this, it literally took me years to learn how to love myself, fully...not through the lense, attention, affection or approval of another but though clarity of self and self-worth. I had layers of stuff I had to work through. However, I have no regrets because it was work that had to be done sooner or later and work that only I could do. I AM GRATEFUL for all of the lessons, blessing, teachers and students...THANK YOU ALL, THANK YOU.
@gowithin1116
@gowithin1116 2 ай бұрын
She is my go to after breakups! Going through my second break up in 2 years & I replay this over and over! Thank You ❤
@audreyshea1891
@audreyshea1891 5 жыл бұрын
When you got to the part of giving love to yourself for the first time in weeks I felt like I could stand up again. Thank you for being so real and easy to understand. I like your honesty!
@katelinnelson6894
@katelinnelson6894 5 жыл бұрын
This exactly the talk I needed to hear....thank you...from the bottom of this broken heart...thank you
@tashaequeen8935
@tashaequeen8935 5 жыл бұрын
Our hearts will heal its hard right now but God sees us and he's here w us thats why we are still breathing..even while our hearts are broken hope all is well and Happy 2020!
@katelinnelson6894
@katelinnelson6894 5 жыл бұрын
@@tashaequeen8935 faith is a whole other thing ive got to work on. Haha, but I got all the bad,out of the way. 2020 will be healing and revitalizing for me! (I hope) and for anyone else reading this! Thanks positive words!
@tashaequeen8935
@tashaequeen8935 5 жыл бұрын
@@katelinnelson6894 yes faith is the key. But as long as you are embracing yourself through the dark times and seeking and asking God to renew you it will workout Amen!
@glynisrobertson9757
@glynisrobertson9757 7 жыл бұрын
I have been running after people who didn't want me, a light bulb just went on... the love I gave is the love I have for myself, yes.
@kikinyte6806
@kikinyte6806 4 жыл бұрын
@Glynis In October 2016 When the GUY LEFT ...i was HURT HEARTBROKEN & WORST OF ALL I KEPT MYSELF STUCK and this lasted 3 years and when i said ENOUGH you will not go into 2020 carrying this broken Energy...LET GO LET GO LET GO . Iyanla drops nothing but total gems....But honestly, KZbin cured my depression and inspired me to start my own channel. It was a risk I was willing to take and I decided why not begin with documenting moving out of my Depression to Self Love stage.....and Boom I just took the leap. I am not fussed about being popular, I think its my message which is important.....but if the channel can flourish and grow then that's a BONUS!!!!. I CANNOT WAIT TO GET BACK TO MYSELF AND NORMAL ROUTINES AGAIN BUT IN THE MEANTIME AND WHATS HELPING ME REFICUS AND HEAL IS MY YT CHANNEL. I created a KZbin Channel Documenting my Self Love Journey 2020 & Would Love For You All To See and Support My Channel. Check it Out >>>> kzbin.info/door/64VqNHt4-TG7R-To31cFAg. I hope You Like It : ) and it inspires you to just TAKE THE LEAP....Do it for Yourself not for anyone else and enjoy the process. Its tough but worth it.....and as we stuck in doors we might as well kill sometime and get creative. Have a blessed Weekend xo
@sunitasreekumar
@sunitasreekumar 8 жыл бұрын
Learning to love your self more... Is such a journey... Learning to have self Honor self respect and self value above all is essential... Learning not to give ur power away.... Something I am learning today after a hard break up
@mindingmyownbusiness6194
@mindingmyownbusiness6194 7 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this my man left me for his side piece I felt like dirt I was hurt I fought to get back question everything. in the end the side piece won. it hurts but don't lose yourself ladies trust me I know. let it go it will make you lose your mind if you dont.
@kikinyte6806
@kikinyte6806 4 жыл бұрын
In October 2016 When the GUY LEFT ...i was HURT HEARTBROKEN & WORST OF ALL I KEPT MYSELF STUCK and this lasted 3 years and when i said ENOUGH you will not go into 2020 carrying this broken Energy...LET GO LET GO LET GO . Iyanla drops nothing but total gems....But honestly, KZbin cured my depression and inspired me to start my own channel. It was a risk I was willing to take and I decided why not begin with documenting moving out of my Depression to Self Love stage.....and Boom I just took the leap. I am not fussed about being popular, I think its my message which is important.....but if the channel can flourish and grow then that's a BONUS!!!!. I CANNOT WAIT TO GET BACK TO MYSELF AND NORMAL ROUTINES AGAIN BUT IN THE MEANTIME AND WHATS HELPING ME REFICUS AND HEAL IS MY YT CHANNEL. I created a KZbin Channel Documenting my Self Love Journey 2020 & Would Love For You All To See and Support My Channel. Check it Out >>>> kzbin.info/door/64VqNHt4-TG7R-To31cFAg. I hope You Like It : ) and it inspires you to just TAKE THE LEAP....Do it for Yourself not for anyone else and enjoy the process. Its tough but worth it.....and as we stuck in doors we might as well kill sometime and get creative. Have a blessed Weekend xo
@ashleyayane4625
@ashleyayane4625 4 жыл бұрын
The love of my life of six years left me for his side and he married someone else now after 3years my husband of one year has left me for his other woman I blame me and iam here to stop hurting my self like that😔
@gugukhumalo9313
@gugukhumalo9313 5 жыл бұрын
Never ask why.! Thank you for this.
@iamsodapop4947
@iamsodapop4947 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like I just want to run to you, hug you extremely tight, cry my lungs out til I fall asleep. The pain is beyond words..
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 5 жыл бұрын
You'll be fine in time, it happens to the best of us.
@iamsodapop4947
@iamsodapop4947 5 жыл бұрын
@@nikkyshamz2696 Aameen Trying hard to look at the positive outcomes; yes, it such a homework..
@maricrismagcaling526
@maricrismagcaling526 5 жыл бұрын
Time will heal us🙏🙏🙏
@jackieh7546
@jackieh7546 4 жыл бұрын
It takes time
@andrewrobinson8019
@andrewrobinson8019 5 жыл бұрын
My partner and I had been doing great. He disappeared all day yesterday. He resurfaced with the truth. He's struggling with addiction and a job loss and he decided that the relationship was not a good idea at this time and asked me for my friendship instead, as he works on himself. In all honesty, while it hurts a little , I'm relieved he spoke his truth and I told him yes, I can be his friend and be as reasonably supportive as I can as he faces his demons. No ego here. People are free to do what they feel and if that doesn't include a relationship with an individual that so be it. Its not healthy to want someone who really doesn't want you. Its not fair to either party. I let him go easily this morning and told him I want what he feels is best for his life. I also don't want to be with someone struggling with addiction who won't get professional help. He thinks he can kick the habit on his own. He tried that before and relapsed yesterday, on his birthday. I'm praying for him but I refuse to be hurt by the break up, I'm more hurt by the addiction.
@kasilversun951
@kasilversun951 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Iyanla. For the past two weeks, and as I approach my 60th birthday, I've embraced the mantra, "I'm healing" and have been working toward spiritual decluttering; putting out the trash of the last decade of my life. I'm finally healing from a sudden break up and this video is clarifying how to put the final pieces of my heart back into place. I did see and hear whispers in my soul that the relationship wasn't as "magical" as I was spinning it to be and am meditating on what I did with that "knowing". Today I looked into the mirror and said, "The love I gave is the love that I AM. And I REFUSE to want to be in a place where I'm not wanted, honored, treasured, and respected and where my love cannot be returned in FULL measure." It's now my new practice as I continue to heal and move forward. Looking up, looking out, and being love & light. Peace & blessings to you. 💗
@scorpio03able
@scorpio03able 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, you are so right. I knew it coming to an end way before it ended. Why I stayed ... companionship.. not a good reason but wanted things to be right. Yes the hurt and anger is hard to deal with. Gentle with myself and stop blaming myself and talking down on myself
@shawntalayshumpert6480
@shawntalayshumpert6480 4 жыл бұрын
I’m glad I listened to this because this is so accurate in my life . The question “ Why “ will run you crazy ! I started to question myself . It’s not easy ! But I will get through this ! Thanks IYANLA:)
@martaalvarez7478
@martaalvarez7478 4 жыл бұрын
I’ ll write everything in a paper, turn it into a small ship, and let it go in the river. I will give my feelings to the universe through this
@jonathandagher520
@jonathandagher520 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you Iyanla, this video really helped me going through a heartbreak. Thanks a lot. I'll keep watching till I get this.
@Gloww9
@Gloww9 6 жыл бұрын
oh my God..I cried while watching this.This has helped me to understand and get over a relationship that we both were hanging on to. How to be gentle with myself and take care of my feelings and at the same time have some dignity about it. As a matter of fact, he called while I was watching this, but I did not answer my cell. Iyanla you are the truth my love. I love The R Spot! I'm all about learning to love myself more and more each day and realizing that it's not always someone to blame. I'm learning how to channel my emotions and how NOT to react in a negative way to everything negative to me. I'm finally learning..at 52 yrs old how to always be a lady about it. Lol...now that's challenging, but I'm doing it! You spoke on every emotion I had and how I wanted revenge...but I don't even feel the same way today..I feel an enormous amount of maturity and calmness as I continue to learn and grow. But when you said you ask yourself...why do you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you....that right there lit a FIYA in me. That was it! I promised myself that I'm going to move on and out of this mess I'm in and do it with grace and dignity. Thank you Iyanla - Be Blessed!
@nazraahmed2881
@nazraahmed2881 8 жыл бұрын
I cannot believe last year this time I was heartbroken and then A friend of mine told me about this woman and send to me her videos. only I can say my dear thank you so much to make me stronger God bless you
@iwitness173
@iwitness173 8 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this! Although it was my desire to get closure from him I now realize that my closure is knowing who I am and who I was in my entire relationship. I didn't lower my standards just because he showed me in so many ways that he did not value me as his wife or mother of his children. Now I need to shift my focus and see why I stayed and put up with the nonsense for so long. Thank you so much for this video!!!!!!!
@shamandahartsfield1946
@shamandahartsfield1946 5 жыл бұрын
I NEEDED THIS LORD KNOWS I DID ❤️ 5 years I gave my all into someone I didn’t think would give up on me. He left me because of his own feelings towards me which made me feel like I was losing myself. I had signs and etc but I still wanted things to work out because my love was so strong I thought it was capable of rebuilding. I cried begged pleaded and even asked why. I couldn’t get clear answers except “I don’t want to be with someone I don’t want” I left with my dignity and he also gave me tools to help me stay strong it’s just bittersweet because as he was tearing me down he was trying to build me up. I’m a STRONG WOMAN and he knows that I will get through this like he told me “it’s never the right time to say goodbye”
@mayprise
@mayprise 5 жыл бұрын
This is just me. . . 5 years I gave ended on Dec 30th 2019 and I never thought he would give up on me
@shamandahartsfield1946
@shamandahartsfield1946 5 жыл бұрын
Oluwasefunmi Ayorinde now I understand all the reasons why we couldn’t be together no longer as I go through My process of healing. It really takes one day at a time & genuinely very good Friends 🙏🏾❤️ And most of all God ! Life passes on ❤️ you got to keep going
@kikinyte6806
@kikinyte6806 4 жыл бұрын
@Shamanda ME too :( In October 2016 When the GUY LEFT ...i was HURT HEARTBROKEN & WORST OF ALL I KEPT MYSELF STUCK and this lasted 3 years and when i said ENOUGH you will not go into 2020 carrying this broken Energy...LET GO LET GO LET GO . Iyanla drops nothing but total gems....But honestly, KZbin cured my depression and inspired me to start my own channel. It was a risk I was willing to take and I decided why not begin with documenting moving out of my Depression to Self Love stage.....and Boom I just took the leap. I am not fussed about being popular, I think its my message which is important.....but if the channel can flourish and grow then that's a BONUS!!!!. I CANNOT WAIT TO GET BACK TO MYSELF AND NORMAL ROUTINES AGAIN BUT IN THE MEANTIME AND WHATS HELPING ME REFICUS AND HEAL IS MY YT CHANNEL. I created a KZbin Channel Documenting my Self Love Journey 2020 & Would Love For You All To See and Support My Channel. Check it Out >>>> kzbin.info/door/64VqNHt4-TG7R-To31cFAg. I hope You Like It : ) and it inspires you to just TAKE THE LEAP....Do it for Yourself not for anyone else and enjoy the process. Its tough but worth it.....and as we stuck in doors we might as well kill sometime and get creative. Have a blessed Weekend xo
@Laura_111
@Laura_111 5 жыл бұрын
I really needed this. My spouse of 10 years has cheated several times, threatened to leave me, has a serious gambling problem, works when he feels like it and tells me to get over anything that makes me upset because my feelings are not important. I have finally built up the courage to end it. My happiness comes first. I love your show!
@333stella
@333stella 4 жыл бұрын
I feel SO grateful to have come across this video and hear these words. I absolutely needed this... I cannot thank you enough.
@yahdahyahschosen5583
@yahdahyahschosen5583 3 жыл бұрын
I am going through this again with him. I know at this point he cannot come back-how could i ever entrust my heart to him again? I don’t understand why i still love him.
@kayalex83
@kayalex83 8 жыл бұрын
Wow!! This is heavy, you're right it's not for the faint pc heart. This touched me to the core. I really one mistake I made was not putting space between us after the break up. I don't know why if I just wanted to still have some connection, he didn't give me the space, but I didn't ask. It's been 3yrs this last time around. I've been putting in the work, healing myself and channelling my every and love towards me. My lesson from this is I won't give it anymore energy. Stop trying to want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me. I have too much to offer, and now I know, that he wasn't worthy of me. God bless you Iyanla, you break it down precisely.
@rubix1cube
@rubix1cube 6 жыл бұрын
Wow I needed this. I am currently in the anger stage and hearing her words has put some peace in my heart.
@michaelmartinez1860
@michaelmartinez1860 5 жыл бұрын
Oprah who?? Girl you are amazing! You gave me so much clarity and understanding. God bless you.
@kimpayne8869
@kimpayne8869 4 жыл бұрын
So glad I found this lady, just listening, is helping, thank you
@sbusisiwelinshaba7841
@sbusisiwelinshaba7841 7 жыл бұрын
Miss Iyanla thank you for your powerful words, they are healing and helpful. I have been left too and i can relate with that pain of i cant breathe kind of pain, of my friends getting tired of hearing me talk about it, and asking myself and them if i would ever get over it. i hear of others who havent gotten over a person after months, even years and i didnt want it to be me. I was angry, hurt and bitter and i wnated to scream out loud and i cried my lungs out and one day i asked him why and he told me why and your right it didnt make me feel better, i felt like i was getting dumped all over again i cried. I read somewhere about feeling the pain and letting go so i tried that, then i did things to get myself distracted i focused more on achieving my goals and prayer. I forgave myself and stopped blaming me and him for evrything that happened, i let go of hope and expectations that he would come back. My best friend told me "hey you still got your first love and thats you", thats me, I cut off all communication with him, now i able to go an entire day without thinking of him, i am able to smile and laugh genuinely, ofcourse there still those moments now and again but am healing and i refuse to want or chase someone who does not want me!! i refuse!! God bless you miss Iyanla for this video it has given me more courage and am sure me and many others out there, thank you again.
@sexybatch21robinson70
@sexybatch21robinson70 7 жыл бұрын
same with me
@roslynjones1722
@roslynjones1722 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much Iyanla!!! I tell my girlfriends this all the time. They refuse to listen to me. I watch them struggle in the death of their relationships. Unwilling to nurture themselves because they are praying for the chance to nurture someone who doesn't want them. I am going to share this with them and I hope they see themselves in your words. Continue to be a blessing to
@bowlegg41smith71
@bowlegg41smith71 6 жыл бұрын
3 year relationship and he left me when I say I was devastated it hurt me so bad smh
@loyalroom182
@loyalroom182 5 жыл бұрын
Wow
@patriciavandevelde5469
@patriciavandevelde5469 5 жыл бұрын
That happened to me i never want to go through that again never better the love of a dog
@Fonzi79
@Fonzi79 5 жыл бұрын
Same thing just happened to me during the xmas holiday. 3 yrs without any talking about if he wanted to work it out , he just We grew distant and NEVER let me know he was feeling like that and thats basically all i got from him after 3 yrs together happy.. I asked him to bed honest if it was another woman involved he said no but I dont know if this is true or not. Im devastated...
@shanayw3010
@shanayw3010 5 жыл бұрын
I can relate 3 years together and i just loss my mom a month later he starts distancing himself we didnt bring in the new year ..he stop answering my calls and he would text back after i sent like 20 texts ...i called him 3 days after my birthday which he didnt wish me a happy birthday i call him and a female answers his phone talkin about they together and After doing some digging i find out its this female i caught him texting last year ..so after all the blaming me accusing me of cheating he was pursuing someone else ...im so hurt this just happen last night ..he wont even let me come get my stuff out his house Talking bout he gon mail it to me😡😡😡😭😭😭💔💔💔
@ladennayoung2939
@ladennayoung2939 4 жыл бұрын
I'm sure he showed signs of not being fully present. Unfortunately we refuse to accept and acknowledge it. Prayerfully things are better for you in Jesus name.
@camipinto9865
@camipinto9865 6 жыл бұрын
He left me twice in TEN years and got 2 people to call and convince me each time, that he truly loves me. I brought him back twice. He is leaving me again today- this needs closure. Thank you Lyanla, i weep when i hear your messages but i know in time, with your advice i'll be stronger and find the right one who will love and respect me and help me fulfill my dreams.
@jackmeoff9116
@jackmeoff9116 5 жыл бұрын
when you are left, It ain't right!! A women Left me 6 months after my Mother died!! You talk about pain, But I'm getting thru. God Is good!!
@soleil7259
@soleil7259 4 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry to hear that Jack. That women wasn't for you ! Take you time and grieve ❤️ Stay strong. A Men left me a few days ago and told me one of the reasons was: how unattractive it made me that i was grieving over my sister who died young 2 years ago. He told me i never was his priority because of my sister... that statement was really hard to swallow it hit me like a rock. This men was so insecure. He himself was still after his first love and didn't had much feelings for me in the first place, but that women is still alive that's the very big difference (he sometimes acted like you could compare the two situations) but instead of leaving him, i stayed and tried my best to be what he wanted and that was a big mistake. Jack i wish you all the best. Your mother would be proud of you ❤️
@jackmeoff9116
@jackmeoff9116 4 жыл бұрын
@@soleil7259 Think you for the kind words but more importantly thanks for sharing your story and your pain. I wish you the best that life has to offer!! Take care & be safe.
@soleil7259
@soleil7259 3 жыл бұрын
@@jackmeoff9116 Thank you !
@DiosdeAlcázar
@DiosdeAlcázar 5 жыл бұрын
She's dropping bombs of knowledge right now. This is me and every emotional response & emotion that I've experienced. I have done some bad things but I've done a lot wrong too and I've struggled with letting go & that big WHY question. Time to let it all go & allow the pain to run its course but it's not easy. Thank you Ma'am!
@aenese34
@aenese34 6 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend broke up with me a month and a half ago. It's been hard but when I discovered this video I felt like suddenly this huge weight was lift off my shoulders and my heart. I've been feeling better but still there are days where I lose myself to sadness and I can't help but think about how much happier I was with him and how those days will never come back, and being paranoid about what if he's with someone else...but then, I remember to watch this video again and I feel better, not so hopeless.
@blondiemarian2109
@blondiemarian2109 6 жыл бұрын
I love you❤. The best advice I have ever received. No one has ever helped this way, not even my family or friends. The why always makes me crazy and you helped me to release it and stay away from anger. Taking the love I have for someone who loves me no more and giving it to myself really made a difference. THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart!!!
@chelsealynn3814
@chelsealynn3814 6 жыл бұрын
I had to take some deep breaths cause that's some real stuff right there! My love goes deep and now I know I deserve to give it to myself first.
@aasmahsohbat6154
@aasmahsohbat6154 5 жыл бұрын
She exuberates such warmth and empowerment. Thank You for such beautiful pearls of wisdom.
@corrinderby4657
@corrinderby4657 5 жыл бұрын
I have been watching videos similar to this, reading and seeking out materials of this like, and this is the Best place I have found, the best advice I’ve come across. Thank you so much Iyanla!
@talisiaross5405
@talisiaross5405 6 жыл бұрын
Day 3 and I needed to hear ALL of this as I begin to pick up the pieces of my life! It’s funny how my breakup had taught me sooooooo much about myself! And while the pain is gutrenching, I am going to be alright! I’ve learned and accepted that the relationship was seasonal and the lessons it was supposed to teach me! I’ll cry but they are definitely healing tears! This video was right on time as I was already journaling this morning!!!
@___bluff___
@___bluff___ 5 жыл бұрын
14:00 changed it for me... thank you so much, 18 years married 3 kids and dumped 7 days ago... now I understand the point of, WHY should or would I want to be with someone that does not even care about me
@KOLAkola
@KOLAkola 5 жыл бұрын
Sean Godbert it seems like these men don’t want to accept getting old.
@anthonypham8911
@anthonypham8911 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Iyanla. I'm grateful to find your channel and your wisdom. Your words, advises, lessons, explanations are exactly what I needed. I got stuck for 2 years wondering WHY my ex wife me and my son behind? Each time I called her, questions the WHY, she got mad, angry, hang up. I've learned a lot from you and I am taking your advise to keep on moving forward. Thank you again Iyanla. You are surely an Angel. Each time I see 11:11 on my clock or my phone, I start praying that my pain would go away and never to feel that hurt again.
@sadiemoreno3642
@sadiemoreno3642 2 жыл бұрын
How are you all now? My fiancé left me and my son behind as well. That’s a ton of hurt for yourself and your child.
@1stfreedomfinancial859
@1stfreedomfinancial859 2 жыл бұрын
@@sadiemoreno3642 I'm almost completely healed. Time is key. I kept reminded myself to never look back and ask WHY.
@normajeanweimer1709
@normajeanweimer1709 6 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I found you❤ my husband left me after 38 years of marriage for someone younger, someone he worked with, people say there must have been red flags, but honestly didn't see. Its been 2 years I'm doing better but the sadness comes and goes. I have three grown children and there my constant. Thank you for this video, so very hard to let go when you love someone that doesn't love u back and that you've loved for so many years. Thank you Iyanla❤❤❤ Norma Jean
@danielle1905
@danielle1905 6 жыл бұрын
Norma Weimer wow just wow. 38years? That must have been heart wrenching. Mine just left after 11 years and I feel sick all the time and don’t know what to do with myself. I pray all the time and try and keep it together. It’s very difficult. I just want to send you love and peace.
@KOLAkola
@KOLAkola 5 жыл бұрын
Norma Weimer that selfish fool, that young girl gon leave him for someone younger just watch and u will have the last laugh with that 😂 he just want to feel young and that he will never be again😂🐇
@fadwajapan6404
@fadwajapan6404 4 жыл бұрын
Really sad..I knew it was not ideal relationship from long years back but I pushed the relation till the kids left home and I left with them also.
@dondenevassell5249
@dondenevassell5249 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. The hardest piece for me is feeling so disposable. Always having to shake it off like it's ok. Someone leaving me has become expected. thankfully I have come to the realization that I don't want anyone who doesn't want me. So again, thank you.
@vanessacs538
@vanessacs538 7 жыл бұрын
The funny thing is i'm good now i realized i deserved better and will get better than what i thought i needed in God's time, he will come into my life and i will be ready, until then i will enjoy everyday God gives me!!!!!!!!
@crystalgrose
@crystalgrose 6 жыл бұрын
Vanessa Cs AMEN!
@peightonmarie7434
@peightonmarie7434 5 жыл бұрын
Same here 💯
@maricrismagcaling526
@maricrismagcaling526 5 жыл бұрын
@@crystalgrose amen 🙏🙏🙏
@jermikabradberry5503
@jermikabradberry5503 3 жыл бұрын
Gonna have to listen to this one a few times.👂🏽
@glittersparkle5148
@glittersparkle5148 8 жыл бұрын
so so so so true. im glad im not the only one who has gone through or experience such pain. first time at age 39. im stronger for it.
@blaqgodes123
@blaqgodes123 5 жыл бұрын
Just in time I need a healing for my soul and here it is right on time. This woman is living her purpose. I thank you God for her.❤️
@d4bluegj
@d4bluegj 5 жыл бұрын
When a bad person leaves you, you have a huge sense of relief. It is funny when he thinks he left you for someone else and he has that sense of superiority thinking he won. It is funny when he finds out that you were planning to leave him for a long time. Actually he did you a favor by leaving! The funny thing is that he is in a rebound relationship with someone worse than him.
@priyankatomar3807
@priyankatomar3807 7 жыл бұрын
I Dailly see this video just to come out from the situation I am right now ..and I see this video from where u stated saying I refuse to allow me to want someone who don't want me yes I refuse to allow myself who can't meet my desire and I refuse I to refuse to think of that man👍👍👍👍👍love you dear making this video u helping ppl like us
@jmabraham22
@jmabraham22 8 жыл бұрын
God knows I needed this, right now today! Thank you
@anna-kaygreen5957
@anna-kaygreen5957 5 жыл бұрын
This made complete sense. It's the ugly truth but everything you said was true. Being here hurt but this very helpful. I always thought focusing on the hurt made me a wuss and tears was a sign of the weakness. Thank you so much.
@jamilahs2747
@jamilahs2747 7 жыл бұрын
I have to listen to this everyday
@Applauseify
@Applauseify 3 жыл бұрын
I love your advice as it straight comes from lived experiences and not spiritual evolved perspective. It is no nonsense advice. Difficult to follow but true in its essence. Thank you. You are one of my teachers who is helping me make sense of the situation I have led myself to ..I was left publicly by my spouse and I clinged /begged to him for over three years. But eventually I was left. I tried as much adjusting I could do but could not stop him from walking out and filing. The first response was hurt, anger, betrayal. Even though I was never happy with him and the way he wanted to change me , the hurt was sooooo bad. I was in deep pain, shame, fear and many other mixed emotions.
@lilfeluvskobe
@lilfeluvskobe 8 жыл бұрын
Perfect timing, needed to watch this. Thank you.
@beverlyschultz9276
@beverlyschultz9276 3 жыл бұрын
You are amazing. I’ve known the end was near for months and couldn’t manage to figure out how to break away. He’s one of those people that can’t manage to say they don’t want the relationship anymore. You are the only person who has been able to get through to me. I am so grateful. I know I feel strong enough to leave with dignity. I didn’t want to leave with anger and you show me how to do that.
@tinachristine4573
@tinachristine4573 6 жыл бұрын
The ego can never be satisfied. Thank you for this. Lately I've been feeding my ego and it's not pretty.
@daphneroslan5974
@daphneroslan5974 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!! You KNOW the program because youve been there!! Wow! Thank you for the encouragement and amazing wisdom.
@happythoughts505
@happythoughts505 5 жыл бұрын
Im still wanting & loving him 2 years later, i want it to end so i can move on!!!
@TheKe1a
@TheKe1a 8 жыл бұрын
I cant even leave your posts/videos..whomever left you must have been scared. Your strength shines through to the world and I honestly love you for it! Also you are very youthful and I love the hair too!
@mantsopalebohangpatriciamo1166
@mantsopalebohangpatriciamo1166 5 жыл бұрын
Sad thing is I knew he no longer wanted me and I was on a no contact rule for at least one month ....the next thing I did, I am still shameful of it I showed up at his door at 6:30 am and begged him to take me back...he never replied till this very day....there signs were always there never ignore them
@hugh7386
@hugh7386 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you I search online all day for something that spoke to my spirit. And this definitely did …. ❤️
@shellyortiz1977
@shellyortiz1977 7 жыл бұрын
Right now i cant even handle what shes saying cause is the damn thruth...bless this over im buying her book her audiobooks cause damn she can change your shifting the way u feel.....
@divinegrace5002
@divinegrace5002 5 жыл бұрын
Omg! What pearls of wisdom!what clarity!omg ! Thankyou sooooo much....xxxx much love beautiful person xxxxx
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