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@kylias79717 ай бұрын
Great point about the two halves. I never heard that it was new age. The way I think of it is like a man walking in a field of beautiful flowers. He must be careful not to trample over another man's wife. Till he finds one willing and obedient to be plucked. Women only bloom physically in a season. Do not reject good men the Lord sends into your life.
@JackKristensen-bo6hi7 ай бұрын
Can you make a video on why god won’t stop taking to me. He’s been talking to me for a year now but won’t stop or give me a reason why he won’t stop
@michaeldigiulio63277 ай бұрын
Jackie your so special a A true women of Gods LoVe and teachings. And you teach it in a way anybody can understand since You have such a higher vibrational love energy that impacts
@Hemingway3086 ай бұрын
Like cool story. 🥱
@a.artmaster87336 ай бұрын
@@JackKristensen-bo6hiwhat to do you mean exactly? That’s very interesting
@jeffreypullis6967 ай бұрын
Marriage is not about us. Its for each other!
@jackieVanTine_7 ай бұрын
100%
@divineprovidence8037 ай бұрын
Unfortunately many couples aren't marrying. I think this trend will continue. People aren't willing to commit to each other anymore. Sad times.
@Carolina-cm6nu7 ай бұрын
Agreed, but first and foremost it is for God, and then for the couple
@rene-hk6xs7 ай бұрын
@@jackieVanTine_ 32 mad at God for not being married lol,I.m going on 65 was married but not now,2 boys grown up.listening also helps me to look and stay young Jackie.Massaging my wife's head with kind words would be a favorite hobby yes sirree. Easy on the eye,lovely sister in Christ!
@rene-hk6xs6 ай бұрын
@@jackieVanTine_ Compliments always misconstrued as flattery,typical of the false humility here.Must be young christians.
@jonsknow__7 ай бұрын
At 39, I'm still not married, which is frustrating when I see younger people with children.
@latkagravas9867 ай бұрын
Don't do that to yourself. If it came for me twice - it comes to everybody. On my later one at 46, he (God) did not stop my so sweet, so tender pretty Wife ❤😰 passing 7yrs later after she came. We were only together for 7 short years and here I am still tripping 😭😭 - 4yrs now since her passing. My first time came at 33, she was super cute and pretty - but I let her go, cause I was not sure of me in her heart. Just be you, be the Best you. Be in the natural and it will come. But Iv'e gone down with my ship 'my Beloved Marie'😰
@jackieVanTine_7 ай бұрын
I hear you, but remember that Sarah had a baby WAY past menopause. God can do anything and can resurrect a dream you thought was dead. My good friend who is over 50 was waiting and I watched her in tears praying without a sign... but God did it and she is engaged today against all odds! Do not give up on hope!
@alexwood69197 ай бұрын
A lot of younger people with children AREN'T really as happy as they claim to be. Most aren't financially stable and decided not to use protection, and now the children are their lesson for playing with sex. Plus, in my experience, I have a sibling raised well by my hard-working Mom, yet she has Schizophrenia, is lazy, makes excuses, and tends to be delusional! This has taught me that NO MATTER HOW u RAISE UR CHILD, THEY CAN CHANGE ON YOU! Now i no longer want kids! 🙅🏿♂️
@trommelbiel7 ай бұрын
I am a lot older but still trusting God.
@Miranda-uf7xb7 ай бұрын
It is a fine line between do not lose hope, and perhaps accept that God has other plans for you. Maybe there is something you need to achieve first, whether that be professionally or spiritually. It is a tough reality to accept that we cannot have what we want, but our existence is not for our pleasure. I am in the same boat, but regarding a different topic (not marriage/children). Some days it is hard to accept that something most people have is being withheld from me, but there must be a reason. Dwelling on it just creates delays. It is more beneficial to just keep moving. Some days I question if I did something to deserve my situation as a consequence/punishment, but I can't think of anything I have done to the same degree of being deprived of what I am being deprived of. There must be a reason, and I want what God wants. I can say for a fact that my emotional strength is incredible as a result of this thing and some other things too. I have a feeling yours is as well. Oh how I wish you the very best and a strong everlasting inner peace, despite your challenges. The frustration and feeling crappy about your situation is not going to go away, however I hope you have more good days than bad ones and not the other way around. A happy moment for every sad moment this has caused you. Take care!
@mrryan74756 ай бұрын
"If Christ doesn't give me one more thing he's given enough". This is a blessing of a reminder for me, I've been so concerned with my needs lately
@jackieVanTine_6 ай бұрын
He is the greatest treasure !
@principedosincels3 ай бұрын
@@jackieVanTine_ you can have you coky cause prety privilage
@TheKoekoek7 ай бұрын
Our lord is beautifull isn't he. I hope youre pregnancy will go smoothly. I'm only 17 but i already had to learn to put the Lord before a girl that i like. She didn't believe in the Lord and that was an obvious sign i needed to let her go and put the Lord first. And the best part is that three weeks later now she found God and turned christian. The Lord still is performing miracles AMEN!
@TshegofatsoLefatola2 ай бұрын
"marriage is for you but not about you" I really love that
@Fullclip7777 ай бұрын
I've been single for almost 38 years, my whole life. My grandma raised me in the church, and I've had friends that are girls, that wanted to get to know me, but God always took them out of my life. Part of me wants a wife, and part of me wants to stay single and dedicate my whole life to serving God. I'm not sure what God has for me, but I have faith in his will for my life.😭🎶💯👑🙏✝️
@Daniel_lee_prado_jc_Son7 ай бұрын
45 yo man myself and in similar situation as well. Go with God, bro or sis 🙏
@jackieVanTine_7 ай бұрын
I love that :) that is honorable. You demonstrate true love for Jesus in this. God bless you!
@jeffreypullis6967 ай бұрын
Same with me!
@feliciaciappetta3427 ай бұрын
I know and understand people mean well, but it is NOT helpful when people say, "Keep believing! Keep praying! Don't lose hope! Pray and fast, God will do it! Remember Sarah! You just haven't met the right person yet"...especially when you've been hearing this for DECADES. And unless you're 40+, single, never married, you don't really get it. Can God still do it? Absolutely! However, God promises marriage to NO ONE, no matter how much one desires it. Those are the facts. So, the most charitable thing one can do for the singles who are 40+ is to pray silently and recommend nothing, because I can assure you that those who find themselves within this category of life, have done ALL the things, likely a couple/few dozen times over. Maybe, just maybe God has other plans. 🤷
@Daniel_lee_prado_jc_Son7 ай бұрын
@@feliciaciappetta342 that's exactly what I was saying. Im not sure if it was a misunderstanding or a failure on my end of the message. But following God does not mean that your future spouse will be there in a few days/weeks or years. It just means that. Follow God and see what he wants for you to be doing with your own life.
@stephanieC27 ай бұрын
This is the 1st year ive ever truly cherished my singleness. The relationship im building with Jesus & the love ive been recieving from him is beyond my wildest dreams. Hallelujah to our King almighty! 🥹 🙏🏼
@jackieVanTine_7 ай бұрын
That’s amazing sister! That is the BEST place to be :)
@TruthSaying6 ай бұрын
👍
@a.artmaster87336 ай бұрын
That’s beautiful itself, I just hope not forever single and that you are wanting a family and a good man, and not too late in life, because humans aren’t really meant for singleness forever. At the end, leaving a legacy is priceless. Knowing you shared emotions and thoughts with a partner is priceless (I’m still hoping for myself I’m 31).
@acenthelma51826 ай бұрын
That's where I am at too on this journey... Truly enjoying and cherishing the LORD and basking in HIS LOVE ❤
@chritinawaltmon65053 ай бұрын
I’m trying to build a deeper relationship would you mind contacting me I’m lost in this
@iPixelDenise7 ай бұрын
When you get married you become one. You don’t lose anything. You should work together. Not having control over eachother.
@alidarosieee6 ай бұрын
Been single for most of my 30 years here on earth, but when I found Jesus (or He found me?), I found the greatest love of my life. Thank you for the reminders! ❤ When you have Christ, you have everything you need. With or without a spouse. If we don’t find contentment in our singleness (pursuing Jesus relentlessly, focusing on Him and growing in the Lord on your own), we won’t find it in marriage either.
@isabellacam47753 ай бұрын
Amen!
@sandraschofield95207 ай бұрын
35??? I’m turning 64 and Waiting for my Issac! I was a young widow.. The Lord promised me a GODLY husband and the enemy sent a counterfeit an Ishmael.. and I fell.. the Lord removed him from my life n he passed few years later… SO THAT PROMISE IS STILL THERE… WE WILL GO TO NATIONS N SERVE THE KINGDOM TOGETHER.. THATS WHY WE ARE JOINED IN MARRIAGE! And for all you younger ones.. BE VERY CAREFUL .. YOU ARE RIGHT .. THE ENEMY CAN N WILL BRING A COUNTERFEIT!! MAKE SURE YOU ASK THE HOLY SPIRIT TO SHOW YOU AND THAT YOU WILL KNOW BY THE SPIRIT.. SPIRIT TO SPIRIT CONNECTION! YOU ARE RIGHT ON IN THIS VIDEO YOUNG LADY… MUCH WISDOM. KEEP SPEAKING HIS TRUTH!!!✝️
@Barbpriestley376 ай бұрын
I not anymore happy with the one I am with He cheated on me And broke my heart I only want to go back to North Carolina and live with my son Jason I need Prayers for Restoration Between me and my son Jason and his girlfriend Jennifer pray That Father God soften both there hearts and give me the answers I need Lord Jesus Christ name Amen Thank You for Prayer's I Appreciate all the Prayers bring Son Jason back in my life 🙏 🕊️✝️🙏🕊️
The waiting period is often misunderstood, for me, it's an opportunity to work with God, to heal and renew all areas of my life that need healing. Yes, I do think about marriage at times, but my focus is on doing what the Lord has already called me to do. We are all tempted to either live in the past and play the victim, or to become worried & anxious about the future, this keeps us from living in the present moment, the here & now. The word present, if I may use a play on words...the present, the now, is a gift from the Lord, a "present" to bring his "presence" into our lives, to help prepare us for the future God has for us. So use the gift/opportunity of the present moment wisely, as this will help you to receive all that the Lord has for you! Cheers!
@MietBaldewijns13 күн бұрын
thank you.i needed this comment. i feel exactly the same and im in the same situation: put God first and the rest will follow
@SFMC_Hyderabad.4 ай бұрын
I am a devout Christian and a pure guy to be precise ..I have been believing for a godly lady..
@steveayala-dq5ix6 ай бұрын
My true Love is Jesus Christ. Whether or not I'm blessed with a significant other makes no difference to me because my heart belongs to Jesus anyways. I love you Jesus Christ Amen.
@MietBaldewijns13 күн бұрын
i feel the same..He fills you up when you put Him first
@vijdamvsichko90777 ай бұрын
God JESUS bless all of His people especially the single ones, Amen YESHUA.
@jackieVanTine_7 ай бұрын
Amen :) 🙏
@lysemmy5 ай бұрын
I agree, the whole deception of the kingdom spouse, twin flame, soulmate journey will have you doing nothing but obsessing overthinking, and worrying about things and idolizing those things rather than putting Christ first and allowing everything else to follow.
@polinap80273 ай бұрын
I realized that all my worries come when go out into society - when I have a vacation or am outside of home - they disappear cause I leave my "circle" - so when I stay like only me and the Lord - there are no troubles no worries etc.!!! All the timelines are within the social field. So our struggle should be mostly addressed to our social anxieties and care about other people's opinions 🖐️
@JoseFlores-kl6jm5 ай бұрын
It can't be just a coincidence that I heard this message when I needed to hear it most ! I just turned 33 in May, and I know that I have my whole life a head of me ! I trust God's timing with respect to finding my future wife.
@liameuler2.02 ай бұрын
God Bless Everyone Amen!
@aaronchiswell33135 ай бұрын
I'm cooking dinner listening.. I stopped and applauded you, such deep truths! God bless you 🙏🙌✝️🔥
@PapaGeorgio23-1117 ай бұрын
I’m 33 and I’m in love with God and there was this girl I love but He revealed she is not for me and I’m thankful for his Devine guidance through his Holy Spirit I am content being single my peace is God I love him so much I’m willing to be single for the rest of my life he means so much to me I can’t let anyone or anything distract me from him ;I’m content with the life he has given me ;this took a long time for me to learn (aneo ahava teh yeshua) “I love you Jesus”❤️✝️🕊🙏🏻
@SentilongJamir7776 ай бұрын
Your relationship is blessed. I lost a good woman like you because i wasn't equally yoked. I'm changing my ways now.
@luyandadunjwa6 ай бұрын
I believe in the one, in the context of the one whom God chooses to be your spouse.
@RenataWMala6 күн бұрын
This was a very powerful word! I appreciate your time and effort. I have been idolizing marriage and this was a fresh reminder to start preparing now and serving Christ in every way I can in my singleness and having faith that He will bring me my spouse 🙏🏻 if you can pray for me Jackie I would greatly appreciate it! God bless
@larraamadeo53016 ай бұрын
I Marcie just turned fifty one, still waiting for him to bless me with marriage, he revealed this to me, and children, even at old age. Finally, providing me with provision, family, love, and friends. Marcie
@hubb11156 ай бұрын
How did he show you that you were going to have childreb?
@RobertGareau-z2b6 ай бұрын
did god reveal to you he has a spouse and children for you in the future?
@arturoramos613 күн бұрын
Hear the Lord's message. Thank you 🙏
@HandsGlobal7 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this today, thank you. Over the last few days, I truly feel like I don’t need or even want a significant other. I’m loving life and being able to dictate my own life. What it really is, is that I love myself fully. Being single is a gift and I am enjoying every minute of it and I look forward to the day God gives me the wife he intends for me to have when the time is right.
@liameuler2.02 ай бұрын
I trust in you Lord Jesus Amen! Thank you for everything you've given me Lord Jesus Amen! I love you Lord Jesus so much Amen!
@GiuseppeJoseph7 ай бұрын
I pray for the Lord to introduce me to my future spouse. After more than half a century, yes 5 decades of being single, I have needed a helpmate for a long time, but I trust the Lord had a reason for me to wait. I have visions for a ministry to establish a retreat camp for international college students, so that is only one of the reasons why I am truly in need of a wife to help me to accomplish this part of God's Will for my life.
@jackieVanTine_7 ай бұрын
I hear you Giuseppe! Remember your Heavenly Father KNOWS what you need and when you need it more than you do. He provides for you, not only emotionally, financially, etc. but in this need as well. Until she comes, He is your friend and your help! Ensure you are doing all you can to prepare to be a husband and living according to God’s will for your life in this current season. If that is the case, you can rest assured God will bring her when the time is right. You will look back and thank God it didn’t happen sooner.
@yoitsmagiic997029 күн бұрын
Thank you. I needed this firm word. Definitely gave me sobriety. Shabbat shalom
@gk33307 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. I lost my relationship with Christ after being in a relationship that was sent from the devil. All I care about right now is feeling that holly spirit within me. I’ve been so caught up in wanting a new car or a better job and I’ve lost the true meaning of life. This video brought me to tears. Stay blessed I pray you have a healthy pregnancy! ❤
@susieroberts845717 күн бұрын
Am reading this message in Dec 2024, and God spoke to me in this message
@RichardBotchway-cm3ui7 ай бұрын
This is my first time watching your video, but I can simply say you are a blessing and a breath of fresh air to the TRUE CHRISTIANS
@jackieVanTine_7 ай бұрын
Thanks so much Richard! 😊
@jakehw_2 ай бұрын
This message came at the perfect time. I am in a fairly new relationship and I have been obsessing over it and thoughts of marriage. I know the Lord put this in my path to realign my focus back on Him
@MultiBaggerInvesting7 ай бұрын
I got married when I was 22. We have had 3 kids since then, and I am now 28. Rewarding? Absolutely, 100%. Till death do us apart? Those were the vows we made. Do I think I got married too young? It's too late to look back, but the way things happened, it was definitely passions running high and we decided to marry. Most of the people I went to school with are not married yet. On another note, I believe the Apostle Paul said that those who marry will "have trouble in the flesh". And "the flesh wars against the Spirit, etc.". These are some of the things I didn't consider before getting married. Enjoy your single time, as hard as it can be (it was for me as well). Thank you for the video Jackie.
@777DivineFlame6 ай бұрын
I had to see this. It's this very reason that almost made me renounce my faith but in a Day He Healed That Heartache. 🙏
@jackieVanTine_6 ай бұрын
PRAISE GOD!!!
@RickBeckham4 ай бұрын
When I first became a believer I was filled with the holy Spirit and I felt the spirit in me .. totally changed me I Loved it praising the Lord and just felt so good..but after 4 months the feeling left me ..and I totally bummed out ..I believe I did something wrong I didn't understand..but years later I realized the Lord wanted me to walk by faith and not my feelings.. since then my faith has grown a lot ..but I realized God is always watching over me..he showed me..God is so good 👍
@Rivers-of-Living-Water6 ай бұрын
Amen, Sister. What an important message for me to hear right now. I'm 25 so everyone and everything in my body is telling me I need to be married, but I am finding that I am really just falling in love with Christ right now, and that's a beautiful thing. Thank you for convicting me
@Will-ce6mw6 ай бұрын
May the Lord lead us in all truth, Christ never charged a penny for his help or time. Be blessed
@jeffreypullis6967 ай бұрын
You are amazing and transparent!
@jeffreypullis6967 ай бұрын
Wow!
@jeffreypullis6967 ай бұрын
1 corinthians 7
@jeffreypullis6967 ай бұрын
Jesus is first and the center!
@jeffreypullis6967 ай бұрын
Baby Isaac!
@jeffreypullis6967 ай бұрын
Where do u guys live?
@matthewweeks319Ай бұрын
This is really special video, your very transparent! This is what makes your videos different from others! The Lord will bless you!
@wetsphere6 ай бұрын
Christian believe like this sounds so freaking passionate it's heavy.
@AidenTaylor-fp7fb5 ай бұрын
God will give his gifts in his time BUT we have to believe in him and in his perfect timing since God himself is a perfect man and me must faith because faith without the works is dead. Thank you Jackie. In Jesus holy and mighty name I pray, Amen❤
@trommelbiel7 ай бұрын
Wow. A lot of wisdom in one video!
@jackieVanTine_7 ай бұрын
Any wisdom I have is from the Lord!
@timothymccrary34855 ай бұрын
Thank you! The way you presented it was so conducive to being closer to God and your partner. always feel like praying we don’t always feel like picking up the phone etc. however you are so right🤍
@GEORGIOARCADE7 ай бұрын
Jackie thanks for this word of encouragement and truth about finding "the one" 😊🙏🏽✨ I'm 33 and I don't mind waiting for the right lady God has for me. I still have a lot of building my life up to do. God does things on his time and when he blesses us it's at the right time. I can't wait to tell you when he does send the right woman for me. Good vibes to you my friend in Christ.
@jackieVanTine_7 ай бұрын
Amen Georgio I KNOW she will be a wonderful woman of God!!! You will make a great husband :)
@bananaJacob7 ай бұрын
I like the word 33
@pierra8730Ай бұрын
Well, I’m glad you’re here to tell us about it ! Thank you 🙏
@iPixelDenise7 ай бұрын
This is really good. I also feel like you shouldn’t always “ give it up “ just because he wants it Everytime. A Fruit of the spirit is self control. If he doesn’t have that. He should go to God about that because That will eventually drain you. Doing something just because He wants it when you’re not in the mood for it. 🥺 I was in a relationship where something similar was the case and it drained me quick 😭 But everyone is different!
@Kiwi-vm9gc6 ай бұрын
I was trying to see if anyone commented on this because that did not sit right with me.
@ram478636 ай бұрын
I don't know about that, but if you only have mood once every month If he a healthy man, I believe he will still complain If you always not in the mood because you stress from work and other stuff, ask your husband to help you, or ask him to fully provide you It's his job to be a provider anyway
@GuestCount4 ай бұрын
yes2 only for husband and wife. if the husband is understanding and has self control he will be patient and compassionate because her woman is not in a mood or shes tired, but even so both goes on hand, when you ask him for something you need and he will not do it because of so in so forth, what do you feel, Do to others what you want them do to you, Golden rule.
@Nathan-qz3mg2 ай бұрын
Amen, Im so happy for you. I pray that God blesses you and your new family. Im single, and I've waited longer than Jacob in the Bible. Time is running out. I hope it's sooner than later, but God has his perfect timing and dont want potentials, I want His best. I just pray and hope He reveals her without a shadow of doubt who she is, but regardless i will still serve him and keep Him first. Thanks for insight and your word.
@joelpritchard4517 ай бұрын
I can tell you flat out how good the lord is because in the winter I blow snow for money but we had all most no snow last winter But I can tell you that god is Blessing me because I am now cutting grass for money and we are getting lots and lots of rain so the grass is growing fast
@sunguarmagan95353 ай бұрын
I am older. I have never been married. But, I totally trust God. This video was one of the BEST youtube videos ever. And I learned and re-learned SO much. She is 100% right. We follow and obey the Lord in ALL things and make HIM our top priority and He takes care of all the rest. We are not to worry about anything and just go about our Father's business. We delight in HIM and live an awesome life (Godly exciting life with suffering, persecution, and endurance) with and in HIM and He does all the rest. If we can't find joy with God alone, we will never find joy with a husband or a wife. True joy comes from the Lord and doesn't depend on singleness or married life or circumstances or situations. 😍
@srtman047 ай бұрын
Thank you Jackie with this AMAZING word today! You are such a blessing!
@sandraserantoni1013 ай бұрын
Thanks for your great wise words! You are completely right. I am in that solitude now. God give me sobriety and patience not to idealis man anymore.
@ronaldmorgan76327 ай бұрын
Been married for the last 41 years. It's not easy, and sometimes you just have to walk away and cool off and think about things. But, it also teaches you to count your blessings. I'm sure that had I not been married I would not have discovered God.
@jackieVanTine_7 ай бұрын
True words Ronald. Yes, it’s not always easy… it does teach you so much!
@jasminezipporia34516 ай бұрын
Thank you Jackie for allowing God to use you. I just finished watching three of your videos about “the one” and each of them spoke to me in the exact way I needed to hear it. God is always speaking to us, even when it’s a message we don’t necessarily want to hear, but need to hear. God is so good and because of your obedience in making these videos, I’m turning back to Him! 🙏🏾🙌🏾
@jackieVanTine_6 ай бұрын
Amen sis :) thank God He wrecks our plans before they wreck us!
@razvanderecichei7 ай бұрын
You don't understand how much your videos help, especially the live videos with Lance, thank you
@jackieVanTine_7 ай бұрын
I’m so glad brother :) thanks for sharing that with us!!
@filiprbx_yt941218 күн бұрын
I needed this right now thank you for this word ❤🙏
@Jmyin7 ай бұрын
It’s so hard not to be angry. It feels like my life is a waste with a burning desire to be somewhere else. I’m so tired of wanting I’m tired of giving it over only to be feeling down over my reality. God knows that I can’t change myself… I feel so mad that I don’t want it later. I want it now or never
@ca62487 ай бұрын
That's how I feel. Let's continue praying and not give up.
@Jmyin7 ай бұрын
@@ca6248 yes and I do :(
@johnmooney49837 ай бұрын
Prayers for you
@jackieVanTine_7 ай бұрын
Go back to the beginning Jymin… why did you start following Christ in the first place? Was it not because of what He has already done for you on the cross and not what He could give you? Your life is NOT a waste. You have gifts and purposes God has entrusted to you to further His Kingdom that WE NEED in the body of Christ. We need you to rise up and be all that God has called you to! Give this dream over to God and let Him be enough for you. Come what may. Be content with Him, because He is more than enough. You’re right you can’t change yourself, only the one who made you can change you. So spend time with the Lord and surrender your sin with HIS help. He loves you, He is for you and He delights to give you a partner as He did with Adam in the garden!
@LiciaDiane-o2h6 ай бұрын
Ok but a lot of people are in sever emotional pain cause of being single. I know i am. Im 43 and i pray daily and ask God to bring my husband he has for me into my life soon. Yes i peay to God for a wonderful soouse but its still painful for me cause hes not here yet i am a single mother my kids are grown now but being a single mother and going thrro motherhood alone was very very painful for me. What i went thro alone in raising my children makes me cry Everytime i think about it. I had postpartum depression after i had my youngest son. The was emotionally excruciating and i didnt have a good husband to rub my back and say its ok baby i got everything, go lay down and relax. I didnt have that at all. And it hurts me so bad. But now i have faith that God will bless me with an awesome spouse and beauty for my ashes. But please understand that waiting is very painful for some people its not easy at all. And if God was enough for all of us then no one would get married. So i dont think your statement is fair or true @@jackieVanTine_
@josephadeniji39436 ай бұрын
I love that sex and affection part, making women to understand that sex is important to a man the same way affection and sweet words are important to a woman.
@truthseeker9507 ай бұрын
I'm holding on to Christ alone. I trust in Jesus & thats that. Nothing, nobody can mislead me out of my path. I know who is who. I just pray that everyone get to know Jesus personally soon & find the true purpose of life 🙏
@braddill26572 ай бұрын
SOOO GOOOOOD!!!! Yah Bless you both overflowing
@stevenclarke66017 ай бұрын
Thanks! Your getting the one Mrs jackie and that is a holy baby which i will predict in 25 days to be born on this earth.
@jackieVanTine_7 ай бұрын
Amen haha thank you Steven! :) she’s gonna be here any minute and actually you are predicting QUITE CLOSE to the estimated due date!!
@Luciaimparato93907 ай бұрын
@@jackieVanTine_when are you due to give birth to your baby girl, sis?
@CapitalCash3 ай бұрын
B O O M ! wow that was a good one. Things we want are actually harder then what we even expect yeah idolizing marriage and we forget life is about being a servant vs a taker. Dying to self, seriously hard at times.
@Oscar.AnangeloftheLord.Perez.17 ай бұрын
You have a gift, preach it girl.
@jackieVanTine_7 ай бұрын
Thanks Oscar!!
@Oscar.AnangeloftheLord.Perez.17 ай бұрын
@@jackieVanTine_ It's good you're making meetings with women. Make a website like these videos and create a charge subscription to your website where women can talk to you and you can add your husband and books and his share of talk with men. I wish you success, happiness, and love. May God favor you.
@jeannineniles390820 күн бұрын
Thank you. God bless you. ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉
@anthonymoreno-n6j6 ай бұрын
I got divorced when I was 36 with no kids and I am man 50 years old and still not married with no kids still praying the Lord
@@Haunted_Gains A POWERFUL VERSE SAYS She had leprosy SHE TOUCHED JESUS CLOTHES AND SHE IS HEALED!!!
@MorningStarMusicAndMedia6 ай бұрын
I started feeling a breakthrough when you said, "Get ready, because you're gonna die to yourself, but you're gonna be more Christ-like," almost like something clicked. I feel as if I've had a prayer answered by this video and have become even more faithful in His deliverance of these blessings if he allows this blessing into my life. May He continue to bless your marriage and these miracles! Amen 🙏
@towhomshallwego177 ай бұрын
Thank you Jackie, this message came at just the right time as me and my girlfriend just broke up last night. We both really need to grow spiritually and we need to learn to put God first above all else, and I'm hoping this experience will help us finally do so, because throughout the relationship we failed to even though we knew and tried. So I would really appreciate your prayers for the both of us, that we may grow in our relationship with God and for whomever He has prepared for us as spouses in the future.
@Barbpriestley376 ай бұрын
I think that person was not the right one for some reason God remove people that is not right for you God brings the right one in And The Love will be in the center of your life They will want to do everything with you no excuses at all happiness will come back to you in Jesus name Amen
@towhomshallwego176 ай бұрын
@@Barbpriestley37 Yes, you're right. Admittedly, I wasn't the right person for her either. I'm still trying to grow in my relationship with God and in my desire and love for Him above everything else. Please pray for me, that I may draw a little closer to Him each and every day of my life. And thank you for your encouraging words. I believe in Jesus name, Amen.
@brandifleming65193 ай бұрын
Just subscribed to your channel. Thank you so much for acknowledging the stigma behind single Christians as a married woman. Often times, we forget what life was like before the Lord blessed us with someone special but you clearly didn't. I pray He continues to bless you and your marriage in Jesus' name.
@jeffreypullis6966 ай бұрын
God finds our purpose!
@santabala63144 ай бұрын
When!!!😢
@carolcarpinteiro7 ай бұрын
Hey! I’m brazilian and I knew your channel in the middle of a storm in my life. I’m so grateful to find you. You teaches me a lot, and now - the first time in four years - Im resting in God and now I understand how singleness is good. I was so sad with God and acting like a spoild child, but now Im feeling like a woman and I see how I’m growing. Thanks for everything.
@TheHornet1fan7 ай бұрын
thank you for your words of encouragement, I was married for not quite 25 years, when my dear, sweet wife was called home to be with our Dear Lord Jesus. that will be 5 years ago in Sept. since then, I've done well as a single again, much better in fact then before I was married, but still there are lonely moments that I wonder if I will ever meet someone again. My biggest hesitation is the constant drumbeat on social media re the divorce rate even among believers, and how people simply get bored and leave you and take half of everything. It sounds terrible , but this does concern me. please say a prayer, as I would still like to be in a relationship again some day. Lord bless
@jackieVanTine_7 ай бұрын
I am sorry to hear about your loss brother… I am sure your wife is waiting for you with the Lord! It is not goodbye forever. I understand your concerns regarding the dating culture of our time. However, if you keep praying and ensuring you are living and walking in the fear of the Lord, I am sure He will bring someone to accompany you that will NOT try and defraud you, but be a helper :)
@Pearl3935 ай бұрын
You may not have had anyone telling you this when you needed it, but I desperately needed this message. Thank you and god bless you :)
@eileenramirez92057 ай бұрын
Hi Jackie, I just wanted to say thank you so much for this word! It was much needed. For a long time I have idolized marriage but always knew that it could not happen unless I put Jesus first, and sought him first. And He has been pruning me to seek him first and put him first before my daily needs and its been so hard. Honestly I’ve run away from Him because of it more times than I can count. But he has been telling me to trust him, to allow him to love me and care for me as I care for those he has put in my path to take care of before myself. And its been hard to trust that God, the Father does provide and he does protect. So all that to say I am learning. But I really do appreciate what you had to say. Really needed to hear that!
@jackieVanTine_7 ай бұрын
I was there Eileen! I once was so frustrated of waiting I told God “I break up with you” and went back to the drugs men etc. until my sins consequences swallowed me up and I came back to God. It’s never wise to fret against the Lord, I learned that. God is so faithful sister, that He will not bring the right person into your life unless you are ready because you would ruin it and it would ruin you. Trust Him :) He does not fail you! Obedience is better than sacrifice and there is always blessing when we obey Him and trust Him! Walk by faith and not by sight.
@em777755 ай бұрын
Congrats on the new little one! What a wonderful blessing to be starting a new family in the Lord. I remember baby brain and it lasts for a while after the baby, so go easy on yourself. ❤
@MeAwesome7 ай бұрын
Thank you for this beautiful message. I’m in my mid 40s still single, sometimes get so tired of being alone, please keep me in your prayers so I can fulfill God’s plan, God gives me strength to keep going and keep serving Him. God bless you 🙏❤️
@jackieVanTine_7 ай бұрын
Lord, I pray for this sister in Christ. Fill her with your strength and a great delight in your presence. Give her a greater hunger for you, your Word, your presence. Lord, remove any lies that are plaguing her mind and let her believe not the voice of a stranger. Give her wisdom and understanding to continue to walk with you according to the spirit and not the flesh. Build up her confidence in you and who you have made her to be. You said you will never leave nor forsake us… let her not succumb to loneliness but let her find comfort and joy in your presence. Bring the right person when she is ready and so is he at the right time my God. Bless her in Jesus name! Amen
@MeAwesome7 ай бұрын
@@jackieVanTine_ In Jesus name Amen 🙏 Thank you for praying for me. Keep me in your daily prayers please. I just prayed for your too, congratulations for this new family member coming, God bless you 🙏💕
@gvasqu7 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness I’ve needed to hear this so bad, Please pray for me to grow in my self control and discipline. Thank you God bless
@A127-i3x6 ай бұрын
I felt sorry I came from hinduism now I'm 31 and single I left almost everything for Jesus and I was so mad at him cause I'm rejecting unbeliever girls and thinking why Is God holding me from getting married then I realised how selfish I am If it is His will He will bless me otherwise I am fine with Jesus 🥺God is good all the time.
@julesluvsJesusChrist5 ай бұрын
I am 39, and have been single for some time now, I have come to know God and understood that, when in the season of waiting He’s pruning you, having you die to your idols, self, and other distractions that are keeping you sometimes away from Him. If you seek first the kingdom of Heaven and do His will, everything else and the desire of your heart will be added to you. Whether I marry or not, I want to be less like myself and let God increase in my life. Be in relationship with Him. Be enamored by Him, and He will bless you in due time. Maybe not with a spouse BUT with a deeper calling that will fulfill His will on Earth as in Heaven. ❤I pray this word blesses you in Yeshua’s name, Amen!
@joelpritchard4517 ай бұрын
I am 37 and yes single as well but I am not angry at the lord Jesus Christ
@jackieVanTine_7 ай бұрын
I love that Joel. That is true faith and trust in Him :) there’s never a reason to be angry with the Lord.
@joelpritchard4517 ай бұрын
@@jackieVanTine_ I was trying to to say please don’t get angry at me for asking the lord that I stay single till the day I die after 8 saw your video your videos are really powerful please never stop posting them
@flightforlight1577 күн бұрын
This is SO GOOD
@willejones19187 ай бұрын
I'm 45. Lol. With a high libido. It's a Massive struggle. And I'm tired of being without a partner.
@alexwood69197 ай бұрын
Enjoy the single time and find some hot milfs. King Solomon had several women of different Nationalities. Don't wait on a wife, let her come to you! Meantime have fun and stay strapped and protected. Going to Dominican Republic 🇩🇴 myself to celebrate instead of dealing with annoying American women who like to play games and waste time
@Daniel_lee_prado_jc_Son7 ай бұрын
Have fun, but God's command is no sex before marriage. Remember brother. 🙏
@alexwood69197 ай бұрын
@Daniel_lee_prado_jc_Son SEX is MARRIAGE. Sex is two souls creating a BOND in INTERCOURSE. NO ONE legit waits until after buying a diamond ring 💎💍$25,000 on a wedding 💰etc. All these religious beliefs misinterpret the meaning of what actually is.
@willejones19187 ай бұрын
@@Daniel_lee_prado_jc_Son before I was saved and baptized I had a sexual life. Now I still have those cravings but do my best.
@Daniel_lee_prado_jc_Son6 ай бұрын
@@willejones1918 trying to keep the feels of the flesh under control without overcoming the feelings of the Spirit, especially after the fact of being reborn of the Spirit in Christ is a feeling that I've not known yet, as I've not been baptized in Jesus Christ yet (I've accepted him as my Personal Lord and Savior but haven't been baptized in the water yet, the physical ritual so to speak) but I'd imagine that He will help with those carnal desires to diminish) praying for you bro 🙏
@chritinawaltmon65053 ай бұрын
You know you are right if Jesus dosnt give me anything else he saved me and I thank him daily I wish I had a deeper relationship with Jesus I do but I I will try harder he is worth that I always believed in soul mates always so that was a hard one to hear but your right
@Zachcampbell246 ай бұрын
I feel this year God has given me great contentment He said godliness with contentment is great gain I’m thankful for that gift! I’m 24 Times we all get lonely of coarse but I learned this year Jesus is my wife The Bible says we are the bride of Christ That means we can have a holy union with the Father If we need a Father He’s a father If we need a sibling He’s a sibling If we need a companion He’s our companion He fills every gap we have Therefore we are whole in Him and lacking nothing at any time or season
@naomipetersen19136 ай бұрын
Thank you my sister , I needed to hear this. Sometimes us singles do Idolize marriage and we think that our future partner will complete us. However our Lord Jesus is our first love, he will never leave us nor forsake us. I'm trying more and more to appreciate our time together just me and Jesus my best friend❤✝️. God bless your family
@traciemccutchen81287 ай бұрын
It’s true! I wanted to have a wedding! I would look at invitations, colors, venues, etc NOW that I’m not idolizing it, my mom is a minister I’m fine wearing a pair a jeans and a top and get married in the living room! 😂 I told God I want a husband like Aquila and he and I can help others spiritually. Weddings are good to have I was just wanting one for the wrong reason! I know God will give me my husband in His time! I just have to wait and grow spiritually so I will be the wife God says I’m supposed to be!
@jackieVanTine_7 ай бұрын
This was BEAUTIFULLY put Tracie!!! That right there is spiritual maturity. God is well pleased, that’s for sure :)
@jeffreypullis6967 ай бұрын
True!
@jss.20207 ай бұрын
@@jackieVanTine_love drew God to the cross
@meetooyouphotography2 ай бұрын
Your videos have coming to my life so timely. I'm turning 35 in a couple of weeks and your video about did God say he's your husband. I've had 2 friends say this guy is my husband and 1000 thousands. I've been idolising it so bad. I repent. Thank you for sharing your video and testimony!!! 🎉❤ gave me so much more confidence in God before spiraling!
@aaronrocks3657 ай бұрын
Thank God I waited, hoped, wished, and prayed about getting married when most everyone else in America doesn't want to, but I get to watch all of my friends be able to do that. Imagine wanting to do the right thing, hold back your own desires, and having faith it would come one day when most of society would rather sleep around, cheat, divorce, not have kids, and have same-sex attractions, but you get always get benched. You wait over half of your life only to be too exhausted by then to even give it the time it deserves while losing almost all interest in the process. "It's not good for man to be alone." The more things change, the more they always stay the same. It has been so worth it.
@AmericanFarmerHVAC20247 ай бұрын
I feel the same way and it's very heartbreaking. Where is my "award" with "The One"?
@anayaj71636 ай бұрын
@@AmericanFarmerHVAC2024 Just like she said in the video not everyone will be blessed with marriage, the bible talks about how marriage will split your attention from God (1 Cor 4:34), and pray and ask God for confirmation and discernment for your future spouse. Hope this helps, because the closer you are to God (in the Word, seeking His guidance, being obedient, fasting, focusing on your personal relationship with Him)to closer in line you'll be with His purpose for your life which may include a spouse!
@kayavlaanderen57523 ай бұрын
Amen, I could say the same about my life.
@MerryCarrie2 ай бұрын
Girl! Your wisdom is awesome!
@michaelmaduro57217 ай бұрын
Marriege breaks all the bad chains that is holding you back. Nothing can destroy a married couple
@jackieVanTine_7 ай бұрын
I’d have to disagree. God breaks all bad chains that are holding you back and much can destroy a married couple IF God is not at the center of it. However, God can USE marriage to break chains, absolutely. But it doesn’t break all bad chains.
@michaelmaduro57217 ай бұрын
@@jackieVanTine_ thats what i meant. Maybe i said it wrong but thats what i meant. I am not a good explainer
@lamz80747 ай бұрын
Thank you. I really need this msg right now. My 5yrs serious relationship to my dream wife just ended. Lots of pain im going through right now
@Neil-ym8vy7 ай бұрын
I would not say angry, but frustrated. I know being a single person is part of his judgment for my rebellion in sexual sins. You can't go around committing sin without consequences. His ways are not ours ways.
@sway_98037 ай бұрын
Well said
@jackieVanTine_7 ай бұрын
I would agree, there is consequences to sin. However, He doesn’t delight in correcting us, but He loves us enough to correct us. He wishes we would’ve gotten it right a long time ago. He can make up for the time we wasted in sin and when we get it together and walk according to His will, He brings the right person in His timing.
@luthandodingalibala18755 ай бұрын
Hoooo your honesty shocked me I am blown away by the things you have been saying I honestly didn't there are women like you who actually just want to please God,you seem pretty selfless I am blown away and very encouraged that I will get a spouse who understands the truths you have just shared.Wow!This was refreshing!
@joelpritchard4517 ай бұрын
Please don’t get angry with me Jackie but after seeing this video I am going to ask Our lord Jesus Christ that I stay single till the day I enter the earth
@scottveron1660Ай бұрын
I’m married and divorce is at the door….I am standing in the gap that this will not happen…but I have idolized my wife and marriage just as you spoke….God is separating us for a season….it hurts,but God is in control and God is good…I have realized to put God first,wife second…thx for your channel…this message was 🔥🔥🔥🔥
@PaleoBushman6 ай бұрын
God is gracious! Unfortunately, we live in a very materialistic world. Too many young ladies are told to waste their youth riding the carousel. Then later in their mid-thirties when they're thrown off, they're upset because of what they squandered. This is the trap the enemy of mankind laid for them. He lays a different one for young men but it's still just is terrible.
@tinaferr6 ай бұрын
yep and it creates lots of baggage that can make healthy relationships more challenging. you can end up pushing love away bc of it. purity and self-control are good. guard your heart. do not awaken love before it's ready
@sallyart00Ай бұрын
I’m turning 25 next year. I guess I’m still young and I got 5 more years til thirty. Anyways, lately I have been feeling anxious and as if god has being putting relationship on my heart in a way I never felt before. I raised Christian and still is ( orthodox ) and I truly love Jesus ( although I have fallen short and did disobey god few times : (. But I feel like Jesus is more than just a religion he’s more of a long term best friend to me and I always go to him and talk to him daily. …. I been focusing all my life on my hobbies, school and learning and still is and I just don’t want to go on dating apps to find a person bc I want to let god be the one choosing ( I actually noticed that I fall in love relatively quickly and that’s why I always reject relationships bc I don’t want it to go through a adultly so I just loved from a far or just a crush ) I felt like god was protecting me all this time bc I do get allot of attention since I look attractive but never really was asked on a date or approached and the ones who approched got scared of my responses 😅lol I guess I can blame that on god for making me the way I am ( somewhat intimmating lol) But anyhow I just wanted to say that god has his own PLANS for us and everything works according to his plan even the times we mess up it’s part of a story he’s writing.
@sallyart00Ай бұрын
@@tinaferrabsolutely and broken ppl can damage the idea of love you have in your mind and worst can make you doubt yourself and the way god made you and doubt that you cared or loved which can make you give less when you meet your potential partner:(
@dbe256 ай бұрын
Right On Sister. Speak the truth in love and preach the word. I appreciate you and your gifts .. God bless you. ❤Amen!