It’s not an LA thing that’s a people thing. James has anger issues in general. This won’t be the last time unfortunately.
@claudinegittelaguilar53353 күн бұрын
He’s describing transplants. Not LA people. True LA people are not like this and I don’t get why transplants get to set the definition for the majority of the population 🙄 Colonizer energy for sure.
@fionaburns63604 күн бұрын
DV cycle, James has profusely apologised & begged it won’t happen again until next time. Girl needs to run
@michellemoebius48203 күн бұрын
Scary & just plain disgusting. He is scum
@SpacecatMoonbeam4 күн бұрын
I’ve been a domestic abuse worker for a long time. Ali needs to leave him. Alcohol is neither here nor there, he’s a perp and he’ll stay a perp.
@ChristineRussell-jv4rb4 күн бұрын
Think James is a bully no matter what. With or without alcohol he comes across as an A hole. He creeps me out.
@ginao68104 күн бұрын
Ali has classic codependency issues (I know because I have the same issues). At her first reunion where they talked about James drinking she said “we both stay off the alcohol and help each other” SCREAMED red flags. That’s her feeling compelled to fix him by tying his sobriety to herself. Therefore, she a) gains self esteem when he stays sober, and b) if/when he fails to stay sober, it will be her fault, not his (in her, and possibly his, mind. We on the outside know that’s not true) Girl, get yourself to Al Annon and sort out your codependency issues. You will NEVER have a healthy relationship until you do. It can even fuck up your friendships; the wrong people with find you and suck you dry.
@debbieentine62123 күн бұрын
Al anon would be the best place for her right now if she stays with him, which I hope eventually she doesn’t. He’s an expert at manipulating people with his sad, teary puppy dog eyes and how everything is everyone else’s fault. I never thought he was a good guy, even last season when everyone was saying he’d grown up and changed. He’s fat shamed, age shamed, spit on things, physically and verbally abused his loved ones. He’s a nasty creep
@Whatsup7664 күн бұрын
What she said at the time will be more honest than what she’s saying now after people get in their ears. PR and $$$
@billievaughn53094 күн бұрын
She is ok now..if she stays, she is only hurting herself..their next fight is going to be bad bc he is going to blame Ally for all this bad press
@annettew854 күн бұрын
Thank you, Zack. As a victim of DV aka Intimate Partner Violence in CA, I greatly appreciate your knowledgeable support of DV and that authorities do not arrest without more than valid evidence during the call response because the range of DV is far more than what media depicts it to be on screen. I only hope that with media attention, a licensed professional with offer free services to Aly to inform her of the cycle of abuse. I know personally that it does not get better and denial and shame make it very difficult to protect oneself while still being in the relationship. I also hope James seeks professional help to get to the root of his behavior because these are often caused by learned behaviors or their own trauma. Also, this is not about addiction. There is zero excuse for abuse. We should not make excuses for any form of DV (verbal/ emotional/ financial/ psychological/ physical). Celebrity should not protect an abuser and I hope the media begins to see the seriousness of DV. Especially after this year marks an important anniversary of one of the most infamous DV cases, Nicole Brown Simpson and Ron Goldman. That is DV that started small and ended in the most horrific outcome while protecting a celebrity abuser.
@margieshelnutt90063 күн бұрын
This isn’t James first Rodeo. He’s an addict and has anger issues. If he does it once he’ll do it a 1000 times. She’s needs to leave him & get the Hell out of Dodge.
@Mattslittlesister554 күн бұрын
He picked her up and threw her. Wtf
@morelove4444 күн бұрын
Zack, I wish I would have had a friend like you when I went through my own DV situation when I was younger.❤
@Bridgee344 күн бұрын
Yep
@grasshopper14514 күн бұрын
I was sitting here thinking the same thing. Zach sounds like a true friend ❤️
@stacyannrelvini34363 күн бұрын
Why is she staying with him?!? What’s next? Dateline?!? Unbelievable
@maryanncarine20753 күн бұрын
Ali is not a strong person. The enables him.
@patriciajones67713 күн бұрын
She has what DR PHIL Said is ABUSE WIFE SYNDROME, they deny and protect the abuser. This is a dangerous and sad situation, and without help it will only escalate.
@erinmboehm4 күн бұрын
He will be on bond. Usually there’s a no contact order with the victim- until at least the first court hearing, where the judge can remove if he wants. And once u commit the act- the state usually takes over and presses charges whether or not she wants to. And they could subpoena her to appear if she tries to blow off.
@maryanncarine20753 күн бұрын
No Contact order ? What a joke since she live with him
@celimardejesus78573 күн бұрын
She's not going anywhere. This screams codependent. It's only going to escalate. Let's hope she leaves before the next time or a bigger tragedy happens
@maryanncarine20753 күн бұрын
She is very sweet and soft.. James can easily manipulate and control her. Doesn't she have family or a friend to stay with rather than continue to live w/him ?
@YvetteTrask4 күн бұрын
dealing in Family Law, Lawyer, many victims of Domestic Violence will return to the Abuser many times, before actually leaving that particular situation, which at times do lead to even death in that particular situation. There are many forms of DV, verbal abuse, emotional abuse. Alcohol is absolutely no excuse for any form of abuse...Ally just needs to understand that the abuse will not stop.. Get away from your abuser..
@sophiacastro84864 күн бұрын
Even if Ellie try’s to take it back and not file charges it is outta her hand, his ass belongs to the DA, KARMA
@meganelizabeth21944 күн бұрын
WOW Zack! Anyone would be extremely lucky to have such a caring friend like you!!!
@hollyaliyev65034 күн бұрын
I love the coconut tree saying 😂❤
@billievaughn53094 күн бұрын
James impression😂😂 epic
@sharethelove50344 күн бұрын
You just know James is drinking again.
@ginao68104 күн бұрын
Possibly, but I think James is dangerous sober or not. James’s temper will always be a major issue. Even if he gets help, he will have to work very hard to maintain control. It’s much easier to let fly than to work hard
@margieshelnutt90063 күн бұрын
Thx Zac for sharing the FACTS.
@Coriscoffeewsuga4 күн бұрын
He’s done it before.. but first time he got caught!
@printawhitley18264 күн бұрын
Didn’t James say he was still smoking marijuana? Also Ally may be a very kind young lady but she is a little slow. Why start a relationship with a man that was fresh out of another relationship. She always appeared to me to be a clout chaser. She also professes to be able to tell future. She did see this one coming or they both just trying to drum up interest due to lost of VR paycheck? Regardless a house note can be easier paid with more money coming into the home
@Just-Melanie4 күн бұрын
I hope Ali doesn't fool herself. James has been in his own denial for a very long time - he is always like a ticking time bomb . . . 🧐🤔🤨
@aliciaz60404 күн бұрын
I tried fooling myself at 23. We even got engaged. Now I’m 38 and fabulous happy to have finally gotten out at 23
@sandralinke91504 күн бұрын
However she already is 😢
@Just-Melanie4 күн бұрын
@sandralinke9150 Seems that way . . . We shall see . . . 🧐🤔🤨
@Just-Melanie4 күн бұрын
@@aliciaz6040 Bravo! Well done!
@margieshelnutt90063 күн бұрын
California Sober is total Bull shit. That’s like a heroin addict saying he’s clean & sober but he does cocaine & alcohol. 🤷♀️🤦♀️
@cheffanie17524 күн бұрын
You know you better never take Stassi off your intro reel Classic
@thamilton0074 күн бұрын
True🤣
@hollyaliyev65034 күн бұрын
Because when you are in a DV relationship you literally make excuses for every bad behavior. You also cannot do anything until the person is ready to leave.
@melh28314 күн бұрын
I love the “coconut tree” line. I say it too 😂
@loriagates4 күн бұрын
I’m surprised they didn’t do a 72 hour TRO (I know some states do). Poor Ally. The gaslighting done in DV cases takes so long to undo and you can’t see or think straight in a “normal world”, never mind one where “fans” are involved. I hope she leaves before anything more can happen to her 😢
@sophiacastro84864 күн бұрын
Not poor Ellie she admitted stocking him to be with him knowing how he treated Rachel, remember Rachel stated James kicking Gram and the broken nose that James paid to fix?… hmmmm, shame on Lisa for constantly defending and giving him unteen chances they all cover each other up with the same blanket
@evelynbare19754 күн бұрын
James has problems from being raised in an unstable family and unstable home situation, too. Add to that the weirdness of Hellyweird at a young age, and using substances to cope... I don't think that he's a bad person, but he's not getting help that he needs. It's one thing to be this way with a woman who chooses to deal with it, but if he is ever going to have children, then he needs to get that help. He needs to grow up and face himself and his issues, but since he's not going into prison, a gang, or the military, that's probably not going to happen. He's no different than a lot of people, just more able to put off facing up to life and himself than most. BTW, The page from the cops is called an arrest sheet, or the blotter if you're old school. Brief description of police activities.
@soniajackson71974 күн бұрын
Whatever she said was the truth. Ali 🏃♂️ 🏃♀️ don't look back.
@clairebearsquarehair4 күн бұрын
Ally NEEDS you as a friend!!!
@katjaxxx73534 күн бұрын
I was so rooting for James - hope he gets help
@cvp20004 күн бұрын
James has a bizarre way of garnering sympathy and protection from these women he dates.
@Rhiannon3103 күн бұрын
@zack I adore you. From how you would handle your friend in crisis to you saying falling out of a coconut tree, bravo!
@VMH-034 күн бұрын
As people we are always searching for the why/ the excuse. I grew up around dv and was subjected as a child. Period end of subject .... i would never put my hands or ever hurt anyone.
@pamelahull5624Күн бұрын
This makes me so ANGRY !!!....please leave this situation..PLEASE !!..I am a teacher of Self Defense and Womans Advocate.. this will happen again. Love yourself enough to get help and leave...PLEASE..🙏
@lindageorge61744 күн бұрын
That's why Lisa drew the line with James' job at one point, because it was always something with him, and she was sick of it! I think he lost his C YOU NEXT TUE gig at Sur because Katie went to Lisa when James was fat shaming her, and she said she didn't want to work around him, and said she was sick of him disrespecting women, and she didn't really want to work at a place that didn't back her up! Lisa said she didn't condone his blatant disrespect towards women, and she said he owes Katie an apology! I think he made up with Katie before Lisa gave him a chance to DJ again! He was banned for quite a while!
@stephanielogana88934 күн бұрын
The mark up on the mocktails is crazy. Nothing can be affordable these days.
@joannegrieco85234 күн бұрын
They're not reality stars right now because vpr has a whole new cast so they actually aren't public figures anymore
@sjpnnk3 күн бұрын
I think people are still considered reality celebs even if they are currently not filming, especially if it's been their career for years.
@sandralinke91504 күн бұрын
Yep…very typical unfortunately We all saw Britney stand by Jacks’ side for years…
@jcrosas83084 күн бұрын
Wow. so she did say he did this. Wow
@lalaa86534 күн бұрын
Damn I was really hoping James changed.. who knows what fully happened but that’s disappointing
@maryanncarine20753 күн бұрын
Ali and Rachael turn a blind eye to his rages whenever someone implies or says something james does not like. We have all witnessed that. He has NO emotional regulation at all !!!!
@MK-nd2iu4 күн бұрын
Watching your man bawling, promising never to do it again.... it's tuff saying go. Ali most likely is concerned for James against the public
@Aspin-uk8vf4 күн бұрын
NO RESTRAINING ORDER IN PLACE, JAMES CAN GO HOME.....TOO MUCH SPECULATION; WORD SALAD.
@pamelahull5624Күн бұрын
BRAVO STEP UP !!!!
@grasshopper14514 күн бұрын
I wonder if that TMZ story was brought to you courtesy of LVP's money and connections. It's Milwaukee. This is not shade to the City of Milwaukee or the beautiful people that live there. It's about the demographics of his primary fan base and his real bread and butter monetarily- affluent trust fund babies, and the wannabe's , hangers on adjacent to them. This is the beginning of the gosh oh gee, this was a one off .... I was stressed over losing V-Rules with LVP helping James change the narrative. Let's see what happens with his New Year's Eve gig. When he's booked for a venue in places like Miami or Vegas etc etc etc. I wouldn't even put it past LVP to get in that poor girl's head. I hope Allie realizes there's more to life than bravolebrity.
@AP-dq8en3 күн бұрын
He performed before they had a chance to cancel him
@BPR202314 күн бұрын
There’s a handful of things that can lead to change, losing relationships and going to f’in jail especially in LA. If this does not lead to change nothing will. This man child has had anger and alcohol issues since the moment he walked on to VPR, it is deep rooted, his parents are a nightmare and he has admitted to being severely bullied in England. He needs to go away and seek help. The cast and Bravo covered these issues up, dark comes to light always. Jaime Lynn I fully believe, she said this crap over a year ago, no one paid attention because of Sandoval’s slimy ass
@aliciaz60404 күн бұрын
I’m almost 2 1/2 years off alchy I would never get mocktails lol
@lorienish12864 күн бұрын
Why do you have a countdown before you start ??
@aliciaz60404 күн бұрын
I hope ally leaves or James gets help I was in two abusive relationships engaged at 22/23 got out.. then 31-37 emotional abuse. Single now yikes I liked James
@Nypd36723 күн бұрын
If she doesn’t pursue charges case gets dismissed and it’s a misdemeanor instead I f felony goes by injuries and she can get order of protection but there is usually no jail time for a case with these kind of injuries
@kali.flowers4 күн бұрын
I would think the VPR cast isn’t speaking out for Ally’s sake. They can be there behind the scenes without bringing more attention to social media.
@Szaedit-m6o3 күн бұрын
I think Ally will announce that she has broken things off with James... i think she is just working out logistics. She has lived with him for a couple years now so maybe she is just playing nice with James so she cant get her shit in order. Praying for Ally ❤
@pumkinpie9474 күн бұрын
He knew. The police probably saw bruises or she was crying when the police showed up.
@billievaughn53094 күн бұрын
Well hello Ding Dong 😂😂
@andie98423 күн бұрын
WHERES THE UBER DRIVER?!!?!!😮
@marymotherofgod48614 күн бұрын
Zack🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️
@michelezurn7523 күн бұрын
I love the coconut tree comment!
@marniejane883 күн бұрын
Oh Ally....I feel so bad because when you're in a relationship like that it's hard especially if it's like not often..if you know what I mean.
@gerardinemcgarrity89424 күн бұрын
They will be back next day
@MotoCocoTV4 күн бұрын
Please..he is high ADHD.. but keep reading! I am High A.D.D. fun outgoing, positve and interrupting people. I struggle with oversharing..etc...Adderall actually slows our brains as much as it can...to get us to focus on 10 things not 50... like when you don't get a radio station FAVORITE song, in clear..then the meds help us hear the station more clearly.... however for those without true ADD /ADHD these meds are like coke...I do believe he needs therapy BUT IT'S LIFE DAILY SKILLS therapy.. how to try to Not interrupt, no blurting out, or knee jerk reactions. HOWEVER..HE HAS PHYSICAL Aggressive and verbal aggressive assault issues to me!... he is probably more of a Machiavevellain personality rather than narcissistic.. but I could be wrong... he is truly fighting childhood trauma, or severe personality disorders.. sociopath or psychopath.. very MUCH like Jax.. and Sandy, but it different ways... he is a spoiled child so bad to this day.. go back and watch all James clips from the start... he's disgusting... and he grooms, love bombs his women... and friends.... love you Zach And the pack!!
@Roz-y2d4 күн бұрын
I agree with most of what you say, both Jax and James are vile. And they both have a personality disorder or something. But why don’t their women see it? In Brittney’s case she not only saw it but had several years of footage of his vile behaviour. Let’s face it they’re only with these men for the fame and fortune, it happens a lot doesn’t it?
@LP-ct9nk4 күн бұрын
Their girlfriends don’t see it because they think the guys will change for them. Also people are very good at masking in general during the get to know you/honeymoon stage. Then when the girls are in too deep that drop the mask
@mdot19554 күн бұрын
James needs help before he really hurts someone or worse
@cheffanie17524 күн бұрын
One hour in, no one wants to say anything... ......
@TeaWithTambo4 күн бұрын
About what?
@gailgriffithth10714 күн бұрын
You can get out,but sometimes they will make one of them go somewhere else for a day
@corinahart96383 күн бұрын
Wait what happened with Lala and Tom's girlfriend?
@gerardinemcgarrity89424 күн бұрын
Its possible she can't remember uts possible she' can't remember what really happened
@janc81994 күн бұрын
Obnoxious twirp.
@joannegrieco85234 күн бұрын
It could've been done playfully for all we know. The cops don't write down everything word for word in my experience unfortunately for me when I was the victim of DV by someone who's Father was a known and liked police officer! I'm wishfully thinking and I truly hope Ally is really OK and not hiding stuff. I know she has friends she can stay with so why is she there ? She's stayed elsewhere before due to his drinking. I hope this was due to a relapse in drinking because that's where my mind went to with the loss of VPR perhaps he fell off the wagon and was trying to be playful but was rough. I don't know I'm gonna pray for them both!
@thamilton0074 күн бұрын
Hi Gorgeous, Hope your Holiday Season is Merry💫🎁🎄 I have a thought, does James have US Citizenship, if not, he could have problems if he's convicted of anything, same with Artem, Nikki Bella’s husband, which is why the girls may hesitate to fully Press Charges.
@TheOneandOnlyD-R-E4 күн бұрын
21:16 you can't plagiarize a public record, hun. Get over yourself. 🙄Talk about ding dong🙄
@OfficiallySusan4 күн бұрын
James needs a real friend, too. Someone who he trusts and can straighten him out. Someone who gets him into treatment so Ally can have space. Ally may not have another place to go. (Re: James working, someone has to pay the bills, and now he has mounting legal fees. It was also probably a contractual obligation)
@YvetteTrask4 күн бұрын
Dealing
@claudianieto72854 күн бұрын
Ally is an Aquarius. If you look up some of their traits, it will make sense why she is sticking by him.
@sandralinke91504 күн бұрын
Yep I’m an Aquarius and stuck by a toxic man with a violent temper for 13 years 😢 I hope she gets out sooner 🙏🙏
@Saundra-jq7rm3 күн бұрын
Zack you're so awesome. Loved your response if it were your friend. 🩵💕 Yours is the right and only approach as a real friend. . Unfortunately, Ally is being a fool. It will happen again and again she's chosen the victim path . She doesn't have enough mileage to know better. Too young and naive. She will regret staying, never leaving.