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As a teenager in the '40s, James Randi "would have gotten stoned" for being gay. But when he outed himself to the world in 2010, the reaction was "wonderful."
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JAMES RANDI:
James Randi is the founder of the James Randi Educational Foundation (JREF). Randi began his career as a magician, but when he retired at age 60, he switched to investigating paranormal, occult, and supernatural claims, which he collectively calls "woo-woo." Although often referred to as a "debunker," Randi rejects that title owing to its perceived bias, instead describing himself as an "investigator". He has written about the paranormal, skepticism, and the history of magic. He was a frequent guest on The Tonight Show Starring Johnny Carson and is occasionally featured on the television program Penn & Teller: Bullshit!.
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TRANSCRIPT:
Question: Why did you decide to come out publicly at age 81?
James Randi: Oh, well. I did it, first of all, my next book is to be called, this is a plug, "A Magician in the Laboratory." And I’m working on that currently right now and it’s more or less autobiographical because so much of my life is spent running around the world and sitting around in laboratories and watching, in many cases, watching scientists make total fools of themselves. But I forgive them for that, they’re just not informed. I tried to inform them and such. And I thought, "Well hey, before I publish the book, I should really come out and say to people, yes, I’m gay. I’ve been gay all of my life." I don’t have any problem with that whatsoever. The point that I came out so late in my life is only due to the fact that I never got around to it. All my friends and family have always known. All of my office people and such have always known about this. And I’ve never made any refusal to discuss it, and if anyone has every asked, I said quite frankly, “Yes, that’s the situation.” And for 25 years now, I’ve had a faithful companion and we get along just fine. We’re very attached to one another, I’m very happy in that relationship and it doesn’t enter into my work at all though.
Question: How has the public reaction been?
James Randi: Oh, the public reaction has been wonderful. I anticipated that it would be, frankly, but it’s been much more, much better than I even dreamed it could be. I’m still getting emails months after this happened. I’m still getting email from people who say, "Oh I just found out about so and so, and bang on, that’s the way to go." And these a people who can or cannot be gay one way or another, it doesn’t make any difference. They all accept it. And a couple of sour grapes out there, but I could ignore them safely. But a very, very small minority. People have understood and we are in an enlightened age.
Now, when I was a teenager, oh, that would have been the last thing I could have possibly have done. I would have gotten stoned, I would have gotten beaten up every day, I’m sure, by the kids at school. But not anymore. That day, I hope, is passed.
Question: Will coming out be easier for the next generation?
James Randi: Yes. And not only that, in that respect as a matter of fact. I’ve found one thing that I did not anticipate. I’m getting a lot of correspondence from young gay people who say that I’ve served as an example of how it can be done and they’ve determined that they’re going to do it too. And that’s very encouraging. I think that relieves them of a bit of a burden, you feel somewhat freed up.
Now, I didn’t notice the difference at all because I’ve been out all of my life if anyone asked. That’s all there is to it. And nobody ever... well some people did ask, or sort of hinted at it. And I would come out with it right away. I had no problem with that. I still have no problem with it whatsoever. Here I am. And people often will say, “But you named your car Sophia, after Sophia Loren.” A little blue Miata, a beautiful little jobbie. And they said, “Well, you keep on talking about Sophia Loren.” And I say, “Yes. You see, I’m gay, but I’m not blind." After all, you know, that is not Oil of Olay that Sophia uses. That’s got to be witchcraft.

[@bigthink]

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[@JW_Steed]

He's lovely, I wish I could have a dinner with him as he seems so clever and interesting.

[@Trund27]

"I'm gay, but I'm not BLIND!" OMG such win

[@ifhesamanandshesamanimhugh2252]

+staffan144 HE CAN'T BE BLIND! He says my penis is just the right size! And I agree!

[@Towdadddy]

Snodge Kat gay?

[@hammeringhank5271]

Ok

[@joe4316]

I have always said that. We still know a beautiful woman when we see one.

[@laurajohnson4086]

Ali Abbas - And WHY would you wonder about that? Perhaps you should question your own sexuality.

[@xx0chrissy]

I swear, this man is my real life Dumbledore

[@xxlCortez]

+x0chrystinax0 Kinda ironic, considering his stance on magic.

[@ZevHoover]

+xxlCortez he was a professional magician you know!

[@xxlCortez]

Zev Hoover He prefers the term conjurer and he never once claimed he doing magic. And then, spent a lot of time debunking magic claim.

[@tf1090c]

Best comment

[@zaynab99]

i want to be best friends with you based on this comment

[@Coldtrojan]

"I'm gay but I'm not blind!" I loved that.

[@phill633vgs]

RIP Sir. You will be missed.

[@spridle]

By who tho???

[@johnlove2954]

@@spridle By gays, and atheists. Oh, I just repeated myself.

[@innerdescent8210]

@@spridle By quite a few people including myself.

[@__Jesus_is_God__]

How can he rest in peace if there is nothing to rest in after death according to athiest?

[@devinhigoy221]

@@johnlove2954 At least he will be remembered unlike some religous homophobic person commenting on youtube.

[@ekhaat]

"I'm gay but I'm not blind" Love it :-)

[@greatspirited]

You're probably stupid too. LOL Foolish idiot.

[@ekhaat]

greatspirited How did you arrive at that conclusion (whether correct or not)?

[@ErgoCogita]

ekhaat He didn't. He is under control of mental puppeteers from thousands of years ago. Pity that.

[@greatspirited]

ekhaat Sorry

[@wastingtimewithstrangers2894]

RIP BROTHER. YOU WILL BE MISSED1928-2020

[@snicks34]

"I may be gay but I'm not blind!" Fucking Ace

[@calvinscheuerman]

+Ross Granick Randi is the fucking best.

[@taunteratwill1787]

+Ross Granick You may be? If you're not happy with the idea of a chick in your bed and like me better then your probably gay . . . . . . . . may be . . . .

[@calvinscheuerman]

Taunter Atwill nobody likes the idea of you in their bed.

[@taunteratwill1787]

Wich is lucky for me considdering your icon picture little inbred creep!

[@calvinscheuerman]

Taunter Atwill wearing a suit makes me an inbred creep? that's sort of an odd insult to go with. you can try again if you want.

[@eddiemetalblood1]

Who gives a damn if this man is gay?! He is freaking awesome!

[@IAmSirZak]

@Josef Copernicus Care to explain? Genuinely asking

[@braydenshanley7435]

Jason Voorhees Why?

[@mslone6094]

@Jason Voorhees Bro. Just- Why-

[@munchmongoose]

Did you even watch the video? Him being open about it has given comfort and confidence to thousands of people to also be okay with themselves. That’s who gives a damn 😂

[@laggedoff]

EVIL ABOMINATION!!!! THAT Tie with That jacket?!?!?!?!?!?

[@pudding1255]

It looks good bro

[@92brunod]

@@pudding1255 it's a joke

[@JosephRobert82]

I'm gonna come out at age 81 too.

[@paulgoogol2652]

you failed

[@youtubespy9473]

Life update?

[@FelixFelisis]

I had a feeling there was something fruity about him. I must be a psychic.

[@ernestochang1744]

+Xena of Amphipolis can we just stop saying the word psychic, i mean with all the bad connotation it has with it i swear if i hear another person say he/she is psychic i will personally get out a desert eagle open their mouth and blow their bullshit into the next century

[@michaelgibbons7014]

+Ernesto Lone Wolf It was a joke? Because he spent his life debunking false psychics? Haha??? Right over your head lol

[@ArticruciA]

There was this bit where he was on TV and was talking about old devices used for healing with the host of the show and the host was talking about a device where you sit in front of it naked and James had a Freudian slip as they were joking around as was like "I won't get in front of that naked, I'd like to see you get in front of it in the nude." or something like that...lmao

[@gamerzero7735]

Xena: Destroyer of Nations I see what you did, there.

[@truths.stranger5454]

he didn't even ping on my radar. the colorectal cancer might have given it away. sounds like Randy Randi is a bottom.

[@OddReview]

This man is a living legend

[@karynation128]

I so agree! This world will be much more empty without independent thinkers like Randi and Chomsky.

[@atheistmommy3710]

OddSockGames ABSOLUTELY. I have so much respect for this man. And Richard Dawkins. My hero's.

[@alt8791]

Oh, 2020, why must you be so mean to us?

[@alt8791]

@Jason Voorhees good sir, fuck you.

[@Whereisjaygoing]

@Jason Voorhees FUCK YOU!!!!!

[@JordanBeagle]

9 years ago, rest in peace to a legend! I hope his partner is alright after his passing.

[@Mechaghostman2]

Oh shit, I thought he was going to say he was coming out as a Christian or something. Thank god all he said was that he was gay. Loads of relief. {:-)

[@kooljazzmann8352]

frtard "Why would you 'thank god' if you're against Christians" Keep your panties up, nobody is "against Xians"!!

[@kooljazzmann8352]

frtard "I always lol inside when atheists still use 'thank god' or 'goddamn' " We also say OH SHIT even though we don't have diarrhea...! Forgot that I already said how STOOPID that is!

[@kooljazzmann8352]

frtard Or are you so blank you've never heard of *FIGURES OF SPEECH?* We even call people like Yewww ASSHOLES knowing you are just a wee bit more...

[@kooljazzmann8352]

MumblingMickey"We do know the flying spaghetti monster is not real" Oh yeah? PROVE IT...!

[@kooljazzmann8352]

MumblingMickey"nows the time to build that underground bunker to avoid being killed in the alien invasion" EXCEPT for the Goddite cop-out: The rapture will have happened by then and I'll be warm and cozy flying around heaven playing my harp all damn day! Or I'll be in hell listening and partying with some of the finest entertainers the world has ever known!

[@jasonq7504]

Being gay in no way diminishes my respect for James Randi as a person or for the great work he has provided. I simply don't care. That's his business.

[@johnbryan3386]

It should've been until he started talking about it!

[@noahq2130]

@@johnbryan3386 lmao why shouldn't he talk about it

[@Magic818100]

I have to admit it took this man courage to expose all the trickery and healing and so call miracles preachers use to claim that were doing in the name of the god. yet he had the guts that no one had to expose these lies and these con artists

[@Kevin15047]

If only he were in Judea 2000 years ago, we wouldn't have Christianity today. :)

[@TheBigMclargehuge]

Yeah, picking that low-hanging fruit. So brave.

[@heckingbamboozled8097]

@TheBigMclargehuge "low-hanging fruit" that had hundreds of thousands to millions convinced of their authenticity. It doesn't matter how low brow something is if it has a significant impact on the general populace and their viewpoints.

[@heckingbamboozled8097]

@Jason Voorhees And how is waiting until it's socially acceptable enough to not be attacked on the street for revealing your homosexuality cowardly? I can guaran-fucking-tee that you would've done the exact same thing if you were in his position. Oh wait, this personal attack on his character is all because he debunked and disproved Geller, someone you seem to admire. You're a fucking imbecile.

[@desireejohnson3642]

"Idk why you always have to be judging me , just cuz I only believe in science"

[@danielhansen9614]

Rest In Peace one of the smartest people that ever lived. We would have needed your intelligence and understanding in a time like this

[@azzanine1710]

I would state that a sign for true success to the LGBT movement is when the term "coming out" is a forgotten phrase. Forgotten out of sheer redundancy due to sexualities many taboos being dissolved nor being an issue. The next sign would be the retirement of the LGBT movement. In the ideal egalitarian world there would be no need for such groups and they would be integrated in to society without thought. This indicator applies to any pointlessly oppressed group.

[@alephnull4044]

That will never happen because of how rare homosexuality is. It will ALWAYS be a question of 'coming out' because people always make the reasonable assumption that you're straight otherwise.

[@JarOfRats]

Agreed. Society should neither punish nor celebrate someone due to how they choose to connect their plumbing with another adult.

[@shanenelson3863]

@@alephnull4044idk i think it's like 10% of the world's population is gay. But like only 7% are out.

[@berniebasset9465]

@@alephnull4044 Rare? I live in an island with a population of 65,000 people. I could name 20+ homosexuals that I have actually hung around with. Another 15 or so that I've met and probably another 10 that I know of. When you think of how many people we come into contact with, it's really not that fucking rare but then, it probably depends on where you live.

[@disht2]

It's lower than ten percent. Its two percent. And its still gross.

[@Khonnell66]

R.I.P. Truly a loss to the world

[@RadagonTheRed]

I am only 27 but I can honestly say that Mr. Randi has been a role model to me and a true source of education and inspiration to me all of my life. I only just moments ago discovered that he is gay and I’m so glad to hear he has a happy relationship with his partner, because the only thing I have always wanted for him was someone deserving of his epic wit and superb mind. I must confess that I am truly afraid that we are at some point going to lose Mr. Randi and those like him, but then I realised that those of us who love him and respect his work so much are the ones who must continue his legacy!

[@BigJamesGraham]

" Yeah I'm gay but I'm not blind!".

[@robynalice879]

God, this made me so happy to know he was in love before he passed. RIP, you sweet, sweet man. ❤

[@zander7671]

That's a pretty funny thing to say considering he was an atheist.

[@robynalice879]

@@zander7671 Hahaha! Oh jeez, I goofed on myself.

[@zander7671]

@@robynalice879 My mom taught me to the last hardest when I laugh at myself. And you're absolutely right He was a sweetheart.

[@sashas7638]

Who cares if was gay? This extraordinary dude was one of the best in debunking frauds

[@ErgoCogita]

Many of you have highlighted the fact that sexual preference, in principle, doesn't mean anyone is bad, inferior or wrong. I agree 100% and I even get that saying so is actually a means of implying that people who DO think it matters in principle, are in fact bigoted and deserve for their beliefs to be marginalized. However, we live in the real world, not a world of principle. Sexual preference DOES matter right now because of the very important push to end the criminally negligent lack of acknowledgement of same sex partners and their rights to be as happily or unhappily married as any heterosexual. So, it's not important information in any other regards except for when it is. And right now, it is. So, If Randi wishes to share the uncommon knowledge of his homosexuality as a gesture of lending his good name to the cause of equality, then I stand behind him 100%.

[@dozone6043]

Here, here. I too stand with him

[@Reason_over_Dogma]

thought he was going to say atheist lol.

[@AsWeSpeak154]

+John Brown is my homeboy. So did I. :)

[@eduardtarniceriu102]

+John Brown is my homeboy. Me too :))

[@matapegheata7257]

He is atheist.

[@Reason_over_Dogma]

Mata Pegheata I know

[@rexluminus9867]

I thought Randy is going to say the earth is flat.

[@DaveDangerous74]

What santa claus is gay?

[@TheRealMake-Make]

So was Jesus...everyone knows that.

[@DaveDangerous74]

Make-Make Don't be silly Jesus is a fictional character. But if Santa is gay... This puts a whole new light as to why he is grooming all those children with free gifts.

[@larrycarpenter4133]

Little known fact: Mrs. Clause is a hermaphrodite.

[@johnbryan3386]

Unlike Santa he likes to unload his bulging sack up your chimney!

[@DaveDangerous74]

@Cocho Calentano Then Jesus has very good taste.

[@rimmersbryggeri]

I'm gay but I'm not blind. That's the best response to such a question I have ever heard.

[@Jay-vz7og]

Love him. Never knew he was gay until recently. Total win for the gay community to have such a smart rational mind on their side.

[@johndough2125]

How is that a win, don't be gay and selfish

[@tiredmummy7512]

As we say in england...... in the north east of england..... bovvered!!!!!!! Doesnt matter if he's gay. Whatever floats your boat. Doesnt detract from the amazing work he does....

[@swine13]

I can't believe I only really found out James Randi existed until this year. The man is an absolute legend.

[@guntertv304]

I love that man. He got me into scepticism and i don't know how to thank him.

[@BFDudes]

I wish I could see why people dislike a video, especially one like this.

[@BFDudes]

***** So? Not like it affects you in any way.

[@ifhesamanandshesamanimhugh2252]

+Jeppz Postman The dislikes come from the people who thought he came out as a Christian.

[@alphajones5242]

+THEADMIN lmao

[@BFDudes]

EpicBunty So he's a pussy because he chose to not reveal his sexuality, because if he did, he would pretty much be a social outcast? Alright. The 70's was a different time, I doubt general people were as friendly and open towards gay people as we are today as a society.

[@Proffessor2000]

Jeppz Postman Don't. Engage with this ignoramus. You're wasting your time. He's a fuck-head and he has no problem showing the world exactly what he is. (either that or he's a numb-nutz 12 year old trying to start a flame war) Don't, Don't give him the satisfaction.

[@Afonso2001br]

What a wise, lovely and elegant man he was! I miss you, James. Rest In Peace, dude! I will remember you in all my life.

[@iVenge]

Gay, straight, whatever we are... what all of us loved about the man was his *_mind_* .

[@dr.drakeramoray789]

oh the irony. for years hes been debunking those who lied to everyone, in the end it turned out he was the one lying to everyone

[@eefacam10434]

What I find impossible to understand is how homosexuality can be considered a choice or a temptation. For me and most heterosexual people the notion of same-sex activity is of absolutely no interest at all -even abhorrent. Any one who considers themselves "gay" must be totally convinced of their orientation. Why would anyone choose a lifestyle that can promote the kind of vitriolic response such as is apparent here -unless they are 100% sure in their own mind of their sexual proclivity. I would think that it must take a great deal of courage.

[@greatspirited]

To change the very nature of marriage is to tell God that He is wrong in the way He set it up, from the very beginning. There are many fine people who believe that tolerance of homosexuality is a virtue. But tolerance of evil, or sodomy in this case, is never a virtue, it's a huge vice. The reason that so many people want to go along to get along with homosexual marriage is because they know someone, a family member or a friend, who is homosexual and who is a wonderful person, and they want his/her friendship, so in their mind their friendship with their homosexual friend trumps the bible and the catechism. This upside down thinking - friendship with a human trumps God's Word - will lead to hell. What if their friend was an adulterer, or a child molester? Would the friendship with that person be more important than telling him/her that they are wrong? Saving someone from the fires of hell is true friendship, not sanctioning them in their sins.

[@eefacam10434]

greatspirited Firstly, adulterers and and child molesters have victims. This is rarely the case with same sex relationships. Secondly what right do you have to masquerade as some form of God's spokesman. You have to realize that apart from the USA, organised religion is on a steep decline and small wonder with people holding judgmental attitudes like yours. How dare you assume that everyone automatically shares your beliefs. It's odd that the phrase "God-fearing" seems to be irrevocably associated with your deity -not "God-loving". All I seem to hear from people like you are warnings of divine retribution, sin, punishment, pain, hell-fire, damnation, eternal agony and one more that I nearly forgot -unconditional love. Never mind, we don't need to bother with that one do we?

[@greatspirited]

Roy Bird We live in an evil world. This I am judging. I'd fear God if I was you. He's mighty powerful. You fool.

[@eefacam10434]

greatspirited How long did it take you to compose this eloquent response? At least there was no swearing. Of course I realize that you are a troll. However I can't resist commenting that if you are an example of what it is to be Christian, I certainly favour my chances with God over yours.

[@Lakewolf585]

greatspirited to quote Jesus of Nazareth (who, I'm fairly certain, sets the standards for behaviour) : "...and anyone who says to his brother ,'you fool', is in danger of hellfire." "This is how they will know that you belong to Me, by your love for one another."

[@kari7403]

I absolutely love the fact that he didnt "come out" because heist didn't have the time to. To me that just sounds like he was just so accepting of himself and all those around him were also, to the point that he didn't think it big deal, like being gay didn't make him who he was, it was just a matter of fact. His sexuality didn't make him who he was. Such-and-such amazing man. RIP James Randi

[@AverageAlien]

Still can't believe he died. He always seemed like an eternal immortal presence

[@CWTV321]

@Big Think Really wish that you guys would delete or not allow comments that do not allow replys. IMO these videos are meant to start discussion. not allow bigots to spew their hate and then hide behind youtube settings. specifically talking about Freddy Shumakerr here but im sure there are others. thanks for your videos.

[@noodles1916]

The world is moving forward. So good to see. Faith in humanity=restored.

[@lilsweetpeaches8116]

Please explain your point a bit more---

[@noodles1916]

That fact that he has had so much support.

[@lilsweetpeaches8116]

Oh-thanks!

[@noodles1916]

You're creepy.

[@noodles1916]

:p

[@tikbalangbukid]

'it dont matter, really..' The charcter of a person is what matters most.

[@LtColVenom]

Aside from coming out, it is quite impressive to learn that it never made the headlines especially because he was not trying to hide it. Epic magic trick.

[@mj4ever1332]

I'm super glad that he's happy 💕 I adore him!

[@davidparrott1763]

James Randi, One of my personal heroes; though I never met him, it was his skeptical view and demands for objective evidence that shaped me into the adult I am today. He is a living treasure that has spent a lifetime promoting education and critical thinking.

[@TylerVanner]

My opinion on you has not changed one iota. Still a cool dude as far as I am concerned you go for it James.

[@lxmzhg]

You better not bend over... or he may just do that.

[@lilsweetpeaches8116]

***** I bets he sure woulds likes it...he would love to roll me in flour and find my wet crack...wacky man!

[@lilsweetpeaches8116]

***** YOu am be like a baseball catcher, used to catching balls on de chin.

[@noeditbookreviews]

He used to be straight until Uri Geller stared at him and yelled "bend! Bend! Bend!"

[@VCthaGOATdunker]

LOL No wonder Uri's voice was so high too.

[@Dr_Bille]

This guy is frigging awesome

[@Wulfrune]

Honestly, a big SO WHAT? what differences does it make? None. The only reactions seems to come from haters, haters who personally can't leave their own closets.

[@addelbhatti3872]

I miss Randi so much, and can't even put it into words how much I feel his absence. Randi, I know you'd chuckle at this but if there ever was a place after death, I hope too see you... Thank you for everything. You are loved.

[@naota3k]

I remember the first time I learned he was gay. I think my reaction was "huh, I didn't know that, wouldn't have guessed", and then just got on with life.

[@lharris2able]

Good on him. Better late than never. No one should have to hide what is an important part of our lives!

[@bjrnvindabildtrup9337]

didn't seem like he was hiding anything though, but sure, good for him. if he hadn't "come out" to the public, also good for him.

[@lharris2able]

Helgi Hilmarsson Agreed.

[@bjrnvindabildtrup9337]

+mwmanning54 k

[@lharris2able]

Caesar Tobon Yes. He helps breaks down the barriers. Never too late to be ones self.

[@supernovaheights8978]

You people are idiots, he made an underaged boy from another country his butt receptacle lied about him, changed his name and held him captive for decades and living in fear of being deported. He broke immigration laws and lied to all of his fans and family, even using this Kid to enrich himself by scamming people claiming the kid was a psychic. You people are no moral delusional fucks!

[@PossessWithin]

may you be happy and well friend! :)

[@peterpayne2219]

Didn't know that. Well, cool! One of my favorite people.

[@thebipolarbear2639]

I'm hetro, AND am sooo proud of James. Good on you mate.

[@elizdonovan5650]

Love his work and his humor. Who cares if he’s gay ... none of my business. I don’t have to come out everyday as a heterosexual. A persons sexual orientation is their own business unless they actively interfere in an unwanted way with someone. Pity there are not more James Randi’s in the world. 🌲🌝☘️

[@kdelage1]

Bravo Randi! You are a man of great integrity and a wonderful role model for all.

[@jaganjacfan]

Oh, no.... SANTA'S GAY! (tam tam taaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaam...)

[@gourmander]

"I'm gay but i'm not blind!" - James Randi, 2011

[@shaputer]

Always loved you just the way you are Randi !

[@OrthodoxJourney359]

I'm Skeptical of skepticism, is this really true? Are you sure......?

[@DarkOmicron]

+Brian McClurg Being skeptical of skepticism is like being a vegan who eats meat.

[@thedavyjones]

Good for him! This guy is great

[@lulu4882]

If anyone ever asks me if I'm gay I'm responding "Yes, that's the situation." RIP king

[@jennifercassinera6297]

I like him as much as I did before. He's a spectacular person and zip hope he is with us for a long time.

[@kari7403]

Well, he was around for longer than most people. RIP James Randi

[@keeristommy]

I want to recommend to anyone with a good mind, not to mingle at the comment section below because you only get yourself into petty arguments with irrational and delusional people who crave for attention. So for all you out there who didn't bother with this section anyway, i hope you do neither because i am surely not going to look at this section again or let alone respond to any comment. Let's just enjoy the elaborate video's. Goodbye

[@arriola352]

+Tommy Keeris i wish i would have read this sooner

[@kari7403]

What's a "good" mind as opposed too"bad" mind? Is a bad mind like a dirty mind? Can you have a dirty good mind?

[@Scrittus]

this guy is awesome

[@MrMetallidude]

I love Randi. He's so cool, kind, intelligent. And I'm happy that he came out publicly as gay.

[@shadowofadoubt14]

I love James

[@koaxyz]

love this

[@imnotdavidxnsx]

"bang on!"

[@frankbieser]

Great video. Glad you posted it. Though I wish you hadn't cut the video in the middle of his last sentence.

[@jedistar164]

This does not surprise me one bit, now I know why he hates God and religion

[@okkdennn]

lol he doesn't hate God and religion because he's gay, he hates them because they're stupid.

[@jrpone]

lol, he doesnt even go after religion with the same fury he does magicians and psychics..Religion is his side project. If he "Hates" anything its fradulent con-artists using lies and slight of hand to make money...Religion just happens to fit the bill.

[@WoWguidery]

You are a god.

[@ungertron]

Thank God James Randi has a celebrated sexual preference, if Randi had the same sexual preference as Moses or King David from the bible he would be hated and jailed. The public and the sexual police, in this country, don't take kindly to polygamists.

[@sander395]

Polygamy is illegal in the states?

[@ungertron]

Yes Polygamy is illegal in all 50 states of the USA. The gay community & their supporters wants cops out of gay bedrooms but they are not upset about keeping cops in the polygamist bedrooms - go figure.

[@sander395]

Why the fuck would polygamy be illegal? In my country, polygamy is perfectly legal and it doesn't have the slightest effect on peoples lifes. Then again, nearly every form of sex and relationships are legal in my country - even incest aslong as it is among consenting adults and there is no force being used. Just let adults decide for themselves who they fuck and love or not, aslong as it is consenting

[@ungertron]

Your right polygamy should be legalized. Hold on now, so in your country a father can divorce his wife and marry his two 19 year old twin daughters, as long as their consenting? What country is that?

[@sander395]

ungertron The Netherlands. And technically, yes that is possible. But they have to be able to prove that they are all in a good psychological state and that there is absolutly no cohersion going on. I believe there are some additional rules aswel. I believe people have to prove that they have had a relationship for more than two years, starting after the 18th birthday of the child. So that would actually make it impossible to have sex with your 19 year old daughter, but okay to do so with an 20 year old. I'm no lawyer though, so I don't know if this is really correct. All I know, incest is legal

[@ping139]

Dont you just love him, we will all miss him, he is now back in 1927 .RIP James

[@Lakewolf585]

Ok, I'm done here....time to find some other useless endeavor....

[@laurajohnson4086]

Lakewolf Whitecrow - Then WHY did you bother to even type a comment dumb fuck ???

[@nicolenedekock1671]

i dont know he s a bit weird i dont trust anyone who thinks they've got IT ALL FIGURED OUT and then trying to convince the world to believe what he does in a very careful deceptive way all i can say is dont trust the fist guy who s teachings appeals to you

[@nicolenedekock1671]

VERY MUCH YESSSSSS

[@novafawks]

The way he tries to "convince" others isn't deceptive at all. Not only that, I will add that he doesn't try to convince others, he simply lays out the tests and facts and let people decide what they think is right based on the results.

[@peekeyeseek]

Who cares? Why do people need to come out????

[@arckocsog253]

I don't get it, either. Why is this personal info relevant for strangers?

[@peekeyeseek]

+Arc Kocsog It's nobody's business what consenting adults do in private. I have straight, gay and bi friends. Old and young. So what, big deal. I don't intend to embark on any sexual relationship with them and vice versa. If any of them did I would be flattered. Rejection? I don't know of a living soul who hasn't been rejected in some way or other. What's the point of coming out these days anymore? Especially in the Western World. Slowly attitudes and laws have changed. My kids are in their twenties now. The kids in their school were open from the onset when they knew, even at school. They got treated like everyone else. If they were a likable character they were liked, if they weren't then they weren't liked. Simple. I brought my kids up around gay, straight, old, young, clever, wealthy,poor, different races bla bla bla. My kids accept people for basic fundamental reasons. Respect, trust, honesty you know? They are free thinkers. Live and let live!

[@peekeyeseek]

+Arc Kocsog If that is you in the picture then you must be young too. Thank God our up and coming generations are clued up. I do however make the assumption that you also could not care less about the sexual orientation of others.

[@javigalindo8560]

+peekeyeseek It's a matter of identity. It's not for you, it's for the person coming out. It's a manner of asserting some degree of control over a life that person had zero say in, and of asserting their existence in a world that erases them. Doesn't matter if you don't care, it's not for you.

[@peekeyeseek]

+Ozoceanic they might feel erased in your world but they don't over here. Everyone just gets on with it. They don't have a chip on their shoulder. All my kids friends came out in their early teens. It is seen as a natural part of development among many many people and parents I know. We don't care about sexual orientation. Its such a shame that has been your experience. Anyway straight folk don't come out, sluts don't come out, whoremasters don't come out, promiscuous people don't come out, sexual offenders certainly do not come out. Apart from the latter beasts, who can rot in hell. The thing is I do not want my kids and their kids kids being a persecutor or being persecuted just because they love whoever. And its an easy fight to pick with me because I obviously support people and diversity. If you were meaning to pick a fight, go and be brave and stand up to those who make people feel erased. Otherwise ssshh, its your personality and attitude that is the problem not your sexual orientation! If I have picked your grammar up correctly, you are indeed picking a fight. Way to go you! ( ps that is sarcasm by the way)

[@hotwelder21]

Gay is what he was, not who he was. Who he was was a gift to humanity. A man who could stand up and say "you're completely bullshit" in the most elegant manner. James Randi was the best we could offer.

[@ganderstein3426]

Who cares? Why do you feel obligated to tell us who you prefer to have sex with? Most people don't care what you do in your private time. It sounds more like you're attempting to promote something, rather than stating something most of aren't interested in.

[@tiffsaver]

I'm ambivalent about that too, Gander. I think the reason people do this is because they want to be an open part of the gay pride thing. For so many hundreds of years gays have been persecuted and murdered (they still are), and perhaps now they're fallen into that "us versus them" mentality. "Look at me, I'm gay." Who really cares! But in any event and for whatever the reason, I'm glad that I've lived long enough to see folks get some semblance of civiil rights, women's rights, and gay rights. Hell, there should be free rights for everyone. Why should they have to fight for them?

[@jakup10]

Why not? Why don't you just not watch the fucking video if you don't want to hear about it? It's about relating to people and stopping the hate.You're the one who made it all about sex, it's really a question of love.

[@ganderstein3426]

Jacob Harney Why? He's the one who brought up who he preferred to have sex with. Nobody gives a shit. I watched it because I'm tired of propaganda. What about fat people? What about ugly people? What about stupid people? What about people with big noses? What about bald people? What about people who stink? What about people who are poor? Human beings will always discriminate. Even you phony righteous ones. Nearly all human beings discriminate in one form or another. That will not end until the human sees his end. I mean, his and her, I can't be "sexist" either. I forgot.

[@2012201220122012YEAH]

Mmmm good intentions behind the comment I think. But being gay says a lot about your hormones, your lifestyle, your orientations... I think there's more attention paid to it than ought to be in society but regardless it is a significant thing. I'm just glad James Randi is known for being so cool and logical, not for being gay.

[@ganderstein3426]

***** People are always going to have to face biases. That will never change. You're the one missing the point. It won't change. Humans are always going to include and exclude, even if it's in a sneaking way. You can force bias to hide, but it will always be there.

[@faza553]

ACCEPTANCE will set us free individually & clarify our common humanity.

[@wardrecaridius3740]

"I'm gay but I'm not blind!" Had me fucking laughing, I love this dude

[@gregsettle5880]

"For God so loved the world" The most wonderful message that has ever graced this planet!

[@matthewscott1091]

It’s so important to remember our history & not just gloss over it. Not only so that we can try to avoid mistakes of the past but also to appreciate how far we’ve come. Just remember: - During World War II the Nazis hunted many groups, including gay men. About 100,000 were arrested, 50,000 were imprisoned & about 15,000 were sent to concentration camps where most died. After the war they were still seen as criminals & those who survived the camps were often sent to prison & denied any reparations. - Until 2003, in 12 US states you could be arrested In your own home for having sex with someone of the same sex. - Until 2011 regardless of your service or how you risked your life fighting overseas in the military you could be court-martialed (expelled) for being gay. - Until 2015 same sex couples couldn’t get married in 13 states (including mine). Denying them basic rights like hospital visitation & power of attorney & penalizing them financially regarding inheritance & social security. We’ve come *so* far. Sadly you can still be fired from your job, lose your home, denied healthcare or be kicked out of a public business for simply being gay/lesbian. Gay “conversion therapy” is legal (for minors & adults) in most of the US & I can say from first hand experience it’s incredibly damaging & abusive. And I haven’t even mentioned the fight & struggle for trans rights. *Imagine everything James Randi saw & endured during his 92 years of life on this earth. Who can blame him for not coming out publicly sooner? We have so much to learn from the LGBT people who came before us. Randi gave a gift to the entire world though by opening so many peoples eyes to truth & critical thinking. He will be missed. 💛

[@guysome3263]

Everything is so recent. Didn't even realize. Good call.

[@jarlsterra]

That third fact is honestly shocking considering how common homosexual behaviour is amongst serving military personnel.

[@intheair1987]

He is one of the most intelligent, just, and brave people and the fact that he is gay is just so inspiring.

[@daymeeeee]

When i read the description for this video, i thought he was coming out as an athiest. But, James Randi is gay?? That's awesome!

[@TheePsychedelicAngel]

daymeeeee Why is that awesome? People should stop giving gays special treatment because its nothing special

[@laurajohnson4086]

TheePsychedelicAngel - People should stop giving STRAIGHT people "special treatment" because there is nothing special about being straight either.

[@dozone6043]

To be welcomed and not fear death or bodily harm is special treatment ? what twisted world do you live in. And I'm from the south Bronx a fucking war zone where my greatest enemy are suppose to protect me (police). But where ever you grew up sounds like a total nightmare. Bet you bring up Jesus any chance you get but no one tells you to stfu about it. That's what it must feel like for gay people to exclaim their sexuality; feels like freedom of speech.

[@TheGreekPianist]

I kind of suspected Randi was always gay from the way he talks so properly and naturally has a lot of etiquette to himself; but he's so amazing that you don't care what his sexual orientation is.

[@allwaizeright9705]

I was too busy to say anything.. I know the feeling in that regards. Sorry to see gone..

[@BobSmith-mz1uo]

There was just a story on the web about a ring of scammers renting out airbnb apts and posing as landlords to scam renters out of cash. People were laughing and calling them suckers. I wouldn't have fallen for the scam but I would never laugh. I remember Randi's message: YOU CAN BE DECIEVED. *RIP great man.*

[@minch333]

He didn't come out at 81, he came out to the public, the public doesn't count.

[@DunkeysLongLostSon]

Oh, I didn't even realize. Well, it's not like it actually matters. James Randi is, and would have been, a genius weather he was gay or not. Thank you, Randi, for educating our world on skepticism.

[@masonlee5866]

I had no clue. James is brilliant and seemingly humble

[@bigmattman2005]

The only reason he did this was because he was almost compelled to as a celebrity to help the young people in society. A shining example, because he's always been happy and proud of who he is; no need to shout it from the mountaintops or to hide it from people, but to state his preference matter-of-factly if ever asked. In fact, there's a lot of personal beliefs/behaviors that I wish more people would treat in this same manner...

[@munchmongoose]

You sound like someone who thinks pride parades are “too in-your-face”

[@carmelo7361]

Sexual orientation, political and religious views are very personal things that aren’t anyone’s business. No one should feel compelled to ask, and no one should feel pressured to discuss this matters publicly.

[@epasurr]

The thing that I admire most about him is that he doesn't let his orientation define him. I'm a huge fan of his and had no idea he was gay until just this moment. Either way, James Randi is a hell of a human being.

[@dfens762]

That's how to be gay. I came out in a similar way by keeping it simple, letting my friends know I'm bi, that in my personal life my romantic partner(s) may be the same gender as me, that it's nothing to celebrate, nothing to condemn, just a personal preference. I feel we should steer a little bit away from "gay pride" and instead embrace "gay normality". I don't think my simple sexual preferences warrant celebrations, I think the best thing for gay acceptance in society isn't big performances and parades, it's getting decent respectable gay people to simply come out in the open, say they're gay, and go about their business to demonstrate how normal and harmless being gay is. I have at least 50 friends/acquaintances who may have never met an openly gay/bi person other than me, but now knowing me, they can personally attest that they know a bisexual and that they are just like any other ordinary decent person.

[@reginepoulet]

One of the few if not only famous people I would like to meet you are an inspiration Randi keep up the good work

[@carlosmatos9848]

You learn something new everyday, Today I learned James Randi is gay.

[@hadesmcfadden2982]

and his response "why is this really a big deal?" good for you Randi