Jamie's Manipulation Gets Exposed | The Bachelorette

The truth about Jamie's manipulation finally gets back to the guys and Michelle. As a result of his actions Michelle decides it's time to send him home.
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[@alexlazzerly3677]

Michelle handles drama better than any bachelor or bachelorette I think I've ever seen. She might be my favorite.

[@tinak6484]

Michelle is my favorite too. She’s so calm and composed🥰

[@crazy4orlando2]

Same. She's awesome.

[@nelliek2549]

It's the teacher genes. You deal with loads of horse crap as a teacher.

[@bratzsnoopy]

Agreed, she nips it in the bud real quick

[@mellyholly]

Same!

[@TheDirtyDancer100]

“Why are you talking about episodes?” is my favorite line

[@kyliehanza3102]

With good reason, this man was about the airtime clearly

[@sophieamandaleitontoomey9343]

I love Nayte so much. 😂😂😂

[@hereforit2347]

@@sophieamandaleitontoomey9343: Me too. He’s winning right now. 💜

[@preciouspayne3188]

@@sophieamandaleitontoomey9343 same here

[@rae7867]

My line was wait who sitting at home f the viewers lol

[@anythingcanhappen290]

Jamie has no integrity and is very insecure. He used the non-existent conversations in the house to find out if she had a relationship with him and Nayte clearly saw through it.

[@f.k.a1010]

Narcissistic Personality Disorder stems from deep insecurities. He is the epitome of cluster b.

[@thequeen3834]

So glad he’s gone smh. I got so tired of his screen time

[@bellasee1]

Thank you! Explained perfectly!

[@loveicecream9947]

@@thequeen3834 same he was clearly there for tv

[@sashanyawalker5684]

bruh I love Nayte 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 "are you threatened by Joe?"

[@Kathryn_Jordyn]

Yeah, definitely threatened by Joe. Haha

[@judithmais8702]

Threatening by Joe, last week, this week he is jealous of the young man, Brandon, GASTON having a rough night!!!

[@Kathryn_Jordyn]

@@judithmais8702 oh I'm at work so I haven't seen the episode yet. Dang, yeah he needs to go. Too insecure and lies is a red flag anyways.

[@VTang]

Haha I know it was so direct and cute

[@horepahm3539]

That hit him to the heart.🤣

[@pdm5013]

1. Michelle handles drama so well. Her teacher tone comes out. 2. Nayte facial expressions and eye rolls were perfect. Love him. Also glad he called Jamie out. 3. Jamie takes zero accountability. 🚩🚩🚩🚩Glad she sent him home.

[@TRACEWORLD2]

I was really upset he didn't have to speak while driving away. I thought that was in their contract!

[@SuperCHERISHED]

Jamie was not feeling confident. He had insecurities. Michelle appeared to have liked him. He sabotaged his opportunity without realizing it. It was actually painful watching him fabricate the scenario about Michelle.

[@carmeloanthony5923]

nayte said f the viewers had me weakkk hahahah

[@robb4278]

I'll say it again. Can y'all imagine how Clare would have handled this situation? 💀 Michelle is a Queen. Periodt.

[@Richard-lh3te]

Clare would have lit the place up

[@thequeen3834]

If Clare was so into him she would ignore all those red flags and keep him lol

[@jacquelineabercrombie7223]

No I can see a Katie breakdown for attention moment happening but NOT Michelle just cut through the chase and get on with the party!!

[@MsAmyjoy7802]

Michelle's trained to deal with children & does for a living. I could never do that, I'm more of a Claire myself... bit unstable lol

[@robb4278]

@@MsAmyjoy7802 I appreciate that honesty. 🤣 We all have a little Clare in us.

[@SmartPuff_]

Nayte is out here asking aaaaaalllll the good questions!

[@carlenewright9376]

Jamie coughing when confronted is him trying to buy time to come up with a lie. My teenage son does the exact same thing when he’s lying.

[@aL13711]

She was so stern and graceful handling that drama. Jamie's facial expressions, raised eyebrows, smirks like "who, me?" shows that he is a very proud man, trying to save face and change the narrative. He ran circles around that explanation to remove himself from the responsibility. I'm very glad she handled that so well and also had the kindness to also apologize to the other men for doing that in front of them.

[@thequeen3834]

Right I was so annoyed by his facial expressions when she called him out. Like he thinks hes all that all the time lol

[@aaronmurrayvazquez]

the confusion on his face like bruhh you did this to yourself and spoke openly to the camera about it

[@aL13711]

@@thequeen3834 the eyebrow waggles as the other guys called him out...my god....

[@jaydecampbell3499]

Jamie really said, how you think this is gonna look to the viewers?! Let’s nip it in the bud?? Sir you lost your mind

[@kelamanjaro1]

When nayte cranked his neck i was done 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 he saw the BS for what it was

[@Ariel-ps8je]

I love the way that she communicated when breaking up. It was so dignified and respectful despite her frustration and hurt. She is a great communicator

[@petrayaw5618]

So true , that is why she wanted more from Matt. Everything happens for a reason.

[@platinumbranch2056]

She really is a great communicator! I am therefore ready to enroll in her 5th grade class. :)

[@phillisshayi7441]

She handles herself so well

[@claudettegill8400]

Look at the change in his face when Nayte asks, “ are you threatened by Joe” I watched it over and over and had a good laugh 😂 😂. Jamie was a real trip.

[@cmagee28029]

Hi Claudette, I'm a Claudette too!☺️

[@HoneymoonSpirit]

OMG. Michelle is such a baddass. No one in the history of the Bachelor/Bachelorette has a BS detector, self-trust, and composure like her! I'm so inspired.

[@Salma-yo6ns]

Well said!! I’m inspired because she set strong boundaries and clearly advocate for herself with such calm and poise. That requires being self-assured in a way I aspire to be. Directness doesn’t have to harsh and you can still get your point across is a lesson I need to learn lol

[@jaydecampbell3499]

Did no one else notice how nayte’s hand was moving. Like he was tryna stay calm but looked like he was fighting the urge to knock him out

[@judithmais8702]

You saw that too???? Like an upper cut is coming!

[@HollandHouseTravels]

Why was he having a personal conversation with a producer and talking about viewers at home and episodes? This is completely ridiculous.

[@toute1940]

😂😂😂Are you threatened by Joe? Are you worried about Joe? 👏👏

[@gemarambhajan876]

Joe needs to go home all through dis episode joe looks confident.hmm

[@chasedickson2344]

Jamie's face lmaooo he was so triggered by that

[@claudettegill8400]

Joes frown on his face made me laugh like crazy, when Nayte asked if he was threatened by Joe.😂😂😂

[@skti5597]

I got so nervous when they kept showing close ups of Naytes hands. I was like please don’t pop off, Nayte! We can’t lose youuuu!! But he (and Casey, Rick, etc) handled it all perfectly. Once Michelle got all the info he stepped back because he knew she could handle herself. Chef’s kiss.

[@evolsirhc123]

Looking back on it, it was so weird that they zoomed in on his hands here. They did the same thing when he was talking to Chris S and at no point in time was he close to hitting either of them. Weird af from the producers, I really didn’t like it.

[@erinwinn7102]

Her background as a teacher gives her this amazing conversational skill and poise-teachers are so underrated! She’s an amazing role model

[@vllawmsangi9609]

I just lovee nayte in the background while jamie was speaking🤣

[@nadaleenatasha]

Hilarious!😂

[@pixiestxNyomouf]

Like "nah, keep going bro. I wanna hear where you going with this"

[@olisadavis4529]

Natye is so funny he kills me😂😂

[@jant3528]

Jaime is not attractive inside and out

[@erod5531]

If Nayte isn't selected then I would LOVE to see him as the next bachelor!

[@NicoleHRRCP]

He won Michelle’s heart

[@ilovegoodsax]

Nayte is the last man standing.

[@thequeen3834]

I can see Nayte being the one she goes for tbh

[@adanchetesfaye285]

Yes!Nayte&Jo is the one.

[@anonymousanonymous-qx7mv]

He won

[@brownsugar85]

Jamie was a red flag from the beginning. The way he was all like, I wanna see if she's good enough for me before they went on a date, and his dismissive facial expressions when she was talking, are all narcissistic red flags. I'm all for people healing from their trauma, but clearly he still lives in it, and needs some serious therapy before he keeps hurting other people while justifying it.

[@judithmais8702]

This man needs help and l am truly trying not to Bash him because he clearly needs psychological help, quickly!!!

[@brownsugar85]

@@judithmais8702 Absolutely. That's the dilemma with dealing with narcissists. We want them to get help but at the same time, it's not her job to deal with it or be his therapist, that's his journey.

[@anythingcanhappen290]

Nayte is the Justin of Katie's season with the facial expressions and side eyes

[@carolyntran6364]

Except cuter

[@michelleyustira7640]

Took me a solid minute to remember who Justin is. Life in the bach lane is sure faaaast huh!

[@bkopgamer]

@@michelleyustira7640 the one who made into second place by default after the Greg sent himself packing.

[@judithmais8702]

@@bkopgamer Better than the one left Standing, who last 3 lousy months, even a Fling last longer!!!!

[@michelleyustira7640]

@@bkopgamer Which is why it's insane that I already forgot! Hahaha

[@tatianazamor3522]

He started to believe his own lie 😂

[@redvelvetsprinkles]

Michelle is hands down the greatest bachelorette!!! She handles drama and puts it down swiftly and with so much grace !!!

[@gemarambhajan876]

Michelle need to dem how home

[@ndo533]

I'm surprised the producers didnt tell her to keep Jaime on for ratings drama

[@platinumbranch2056]

@@ndo533 They "may" have, but no game playing Michelle said ABSOLUTELY NOT!

[@Leopoetess]

Michelle is a teacher. She is accustomed to handling with conflicts calmly. She has class !

[@thequeen3834]

She’s stunning too. She looks like she could be Saweeties sister in this scene

[@ninaprague4798]

Nayte is so spot on! It kinda seems like he is 2 lines ahead in the script. Excellent! Jamie is so full of it, LOL. Michelle`s facial expressions say it all: Are you efing kidding me? Do you hear yourself? This might be the best episode I have seen for years :D

[@MaishaOnTop]

Michelle and Nayte's facial expressions did it for me 😂 They're already so in sync

[@giovvanagonzalez4165]

3:11 Naytes face reaction 😭😂🎯

[@shrutik9673]

Lmaoooo

[@judithmais8702]

Did you noticed how Nayte's right hand shake when he is upset? 🤔

[@MaishaOnTop]

I love him 😂😂😂😂

[@MaishaOnTop]

@@salmab6283 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sophieamandaleiton-toomey8469]

I knew we picked a great Bachelorette in Michelle. I absolutely love that she has no tolerance for this drama. 😀

[@isrberlinerin4063]

I detected that Jaime was a manipulator from the get go and now that he was confronted he tried to weasel him self out and his facial expressions spoke volumes. It is really sad , since he had not such a good past and he did not learn anything . I am so glad that Michelle took immediate action when she became aware of what Jaime was doing . Sending him home was the right thing to do !

[@Deina7]

Jamie is a coward insecure man for starting this unnecessary drama.

[@djosephine]

The way Michelle handled this entire situation blew me away. Her poise and the way she communicated. Grace dignity strength! What a woman 👑

[@ione97]

nayte was not about to take his foot off this man's neck lol

[@allisond4916]

Nayte, Casey and Rick were on it!

[@christine3477]

It was getting to the point with "are you threatened by Joe" that had me cackling!! Yes Nayte, lets just get right down to the point! lol. When Jamie said "does that sound at all like our conversation " and Michelle momentarily turned into Che'llè I was nearly on the floor. We all know that look when you look off to the side then back at the person like "DID. HE. JUST... oh see.." 🤣 LETS GO SIS. Weed em out!

[@MaishaOnTop]

Not Che'llé I'm cackling 😂😂 The hood was about to come out of her for a second 🤣🤣

[@Salma-yo6ns]

I caught that too! This comment cracked me up 😂 😂 She had to remember where she was cuz he tried her. I need to learn from her grace lol

[@mikaylalange3228]

Michelle is stunning and carries herself with incredible class. She is a powerful bachelorette.

[@colettespencer3357]

Jamie is possibly a narcissist. His traumatic upbringing may have created this. Sadly, not easy to get well but I hope he gets help. 🙏

[@pb4531]

He's such a gaslighter terrible

[@Kathryn_Jordyn]

Wow, that dude could have gone far in the show if he wasn't so insecure and lied to Michelle.

[@ndo533]

His eyes gave him away. They were weird and conniving. Didnt trust a word. Dont know why Michelle was so easily swooned. He gives me the creeps

[@HM-bz5dx]

@@ndo533 For real! He gave me creeper vibes from the first scene.

[@EarlyBird792]

True

[@msnandimarie7023]

Yes and lied about the men and lied on Michelle. He is too old for that crap. I did not like him from the beginning. He reminds me of someone that I know.

[@funchik93]

I loooove how Michelle handled this! She has such big energy, I'd be very scared to disappoint her. Love the character she's been bringing forward from day one on this show.

[@JuLayLeeBee]

Nayte is giving BDE

[@funchik93]

Definitely!!!

[@melissalitus8879]

Facts he has it all!

[@VictoriousSage]

What does it stand for?

[@christinefranklin9878]

Something about Jamie did not sit right with me from Day 1. Plus, he has the attitude like he is the prize. Mmmmmmmmmm...NO!

[@MaishaOnTop]

Nayte's side eyes 😂😂😂 I love him

[@Elllafella234]

The fact that Jaime really thought oh let me make up lies for no reason and then still laughs I stalk his ig this man isn’t apologizing like don’t give him attention he literally wants to be another Luke p

[@sparklythings22]

or chad even i dare say

[@Raina430]

Very impressive, the way she handled that. It helps restore my faith in people’s sanity.

[@JeanetteAC]

Most times these words are so needed to say and needed to hear, "Let me walk you out"

[@seshat927]

slightly a "tangent" but omg Nayte is a dream

[@jackiebenjamin8772]

So you carry so call news to Michelle then when asked about it you say that you wasn't there to know what was said, so how can you be privy to a conversation when you actually wasn't around.

[@bratzsnoopy]

I love when these narcissists get booted out of the show.

[@1313sp]

Nayte was so awesome in this exchange. A real man here for all the right reasons!

[@MaishaOnTop]

I love the way he defends Michelle

[@robinafrica3456]

Amen to Michelle for getting rid of toxic men in the competition!!! Nayte, keep the “side eye” coming! Team Michelle and Nayte here!!!

[@morgangaskin3072]

She is the best bachelorette that’s ever been on the show! She is so beautiful & so secure with herself. Everyone should take notes, she’s a woman you look up to 💛

[@memeflower9006]

Loved it, Michelle is not having it out of anyone, and she's showing it with class like a lady, Go Michelle!

[@dieuduong7178]

Jamie trying to break through that 4th wall but all he really did was run into the brick wall "Nayte". That's the problem with narcissists: they don't realize what they are. This is sad. Jamie's a smart guy that survived a rough past. But his insecurities got the best of him. In a way, you know the producers do this sort of thing (get these "interesting" people on the show) for ratings and drama. But Jamie's a guy who's not quite right in the head. He needs a shrink

[@judithmais8702]

BINGO!!!

[@k.b.8994]

Are we seeing how good her BS radar is? She even sent pizza guy home without the drama surrounding the jacket….

[@MaishaOnTop]

Right! She is spectacular

[@winterhug4331]

November 3, 2021 - Michelle was so angry with Jaime that she could not even look at him. I am glad she got rid of him. All Jaime did was lie for no reason just to make himself look better

[@TheKerisha]

Thank goodness she sent that crazy manipulator home.

[@pb4531]

Michelle is fire 🔥 I need to be more Michelle in life

[@sandraplazola]

That exactly what I just said to myself!! Lol she’s such a role model

[@MaishaOnTop]

Same gurl!

[@platinumbranch2056]

Yes, let's go enroll in her class.

[@IheartMayMay]

I hope they don’t put Jaime on BIP.

[@ShayVidz]

Does anyone else think Nayte looks like Chris Brown? 😎

[@pettybetty1791]

Nayte's faces have me dying 😂 2:43 3:10 3:50

[@mwendecan]

Yo 3:10 is my favourite 🤣🤣. He’s like what are you gonna say now

[@g.a.mendoza1064]

Body language check: he’s Lying.

[@amydiette7178]

I am not a Dr but truly believe Jamie suffers from BPD that comes from fear of abandonment. It's a mental illness that is extremely hard to watch someone live with untreated and most are because they self destruct before anyone has the chance to love them enough to get them the help they need. Hopefully this situation will surface awareness about BPD. Borderline personality disorder.

[@V_Bruce]

Let’s Review shall we? 😂 1. His body language speaks for itself: constant clearing of the throat. Looking up and to the right usually means trying to come up with a lie as this is the creative side of the brain. 2. He said “my comment to Michelle”and then quickly backtracked because he is such a narcissist and he almost revealed how he started the whole thing. Only to follow up with “not necessarily my comment to Michelle”.And then went ahead with “ My comment to Michelle.. lol What!? 3. The long pause when he was asked a simple question. He was not asked the perimeter of the room they are standing in. 💀Guilty as Charged💀

[@zazlar4228]

She was completely right about the “seen her out with another dude” part. Seriously no reason to bring that nonsense into the conversation. He somewhat went out his way to make her feel small , intentional or not.

[@MaishaOnTop]

And this is why Nayte is Michelle's husband-to-be! He doesn't play about his woman. I love how he always had her back, even when she wasn't there.

[@thaliavanto3495]

OOP DID NAYTE BREAK THE FOURTH WALL

[@anniebanana3698]

Nope, Jamie did and then Nayte was forced to call him out.

[@kybunnii]

Nayte really is saying what I'm thinkingggg

[@BluePotatoHead]

Yooo Naytes reaction is like the viewers

[@judithmais8702]

Did anyone noticed Nayte's right hand trembling? 🤔

[@VictoriousSage]

No.. when?

[@judithmais8702]

When he was speaking to Jaime, the shake got overwhelming then he twitch the right hand, then holding the glass.

[@VictoriousSage]

@@judithmais8702 i watched it 3 times. Maybe the clip was fast. Good eyes

[@milwaukeemotor5995]

he handled his uncertainty poorly when he could have just admitted to Michelle how he was feeling when he heard about the fact that Michelle knew Joe before the show, and asked her, I want to question you about your relationship with Joe, etc.,

[@scully392z]

I’m glad Jamie got called out, finally.

[@melissalitus8879]

Michelle looks so good sheesh!! 😍😍 her dress is beautiful. Jamie is a lying fool smh 🤥 glad he got exposed and called out... bye bye 👋 true colors showing already 😒 you never mess with Michelle! We are all rallying behind her 🔥

[@ariannagraves631]

IM WEAK AT THE FACE NAYTE MADE @2:43 he all like, Keep exposing yourself

[@MaishaOnTop]

😂😂😂

[@kishoreningthoujam]

“Agreed” -such a powerful statement

[@MaishaOnTop]

😂

[@LeezPgh]

Hope Jayme gets help. He’s got some serious relationship issues and needs to get help so he doesn’t hurt others and himself.

[@lucbordage7291]

This is Karl & Katie all over again. But Michelle handled it a lot better than what Katie did on her season by taking the person aside and hearing their side before sending him home. But both Michelle & Katie are sending the Players home early, great. But of course, always a few players sneak in late in the process. Michelle will figure them out though, smart girl! Michelle & Katie were great picks for bachelorettes.

[@dianasamson9311]

I Love Nayte eyes 🤣🤣🤣 it like that he says you have been caught Jamie... no way to run😂😂😂

[@shanogeorge5078]

She is so smart and graceful! Love Michelle

[@Darthfugface]

Jamie is like a teenage school girl. So happy he is out

[@candileebarnett3113]

Rick face the entire time had me dying 🤣 😂 😭 💀 😩

[@judithmais8702]

"Gosh it just scare me to see you GASTON, looking so down in the dump!!!"

[@hereforit2347]

I wanted all the guys to collectively go to Michelle and tell her that Jamie *alone* was spreading that narrative. They could have easily done that because he was going to different pockets of guys and telling them all the same thing. I guess she’ll see all that when the season is over.

[@romstar]

Nayte isn’t about the BS!😩😭👍 and looking at Jamie with those gorgeous pursed ‘kiss 😚 me’ lips! I’m done!😩😩😝😘🙏❤️😭

[@judithmais8702]

You saw kissable lips on Jaime??? Sorry, the eyebrows lift l could not get pass nor the words that comes from that lips

[@romstar]

@@judithmais8702 meant Nayte in the background-seems I didn’t word it correctly 😱😩🙏👍

[@rhyanbrooksmith3833]

So proud of Joe speaking up

[@judithmais8702]

"Who does she thinks she is, She messed with the wrong man?" Bi-polar GASTON, Jamie!!!

[@nelliek2549]

Quick question. Why do people refer to Jamie as gaston?

[@judithmais8702]

Have you ever watched Beauty and Beast? Gaston felt he was entitled to Belle! He did not gave the her the option to choose him he believes he is entitled to her, like Jamie here! He is an older man but Brandon at 26, is far more mature that this Grown immature man!!!

[@nelliek2549]

@@judithmais8702 ahh got it. Thank you!

[@pmd1933]

That's how you do it!!!! Cut out the bad

[@debora.426]

I remember him saying he's way above ALL THESE GUYS, While talking to the producers!

[@frederickacudjoe5986]

Well he certainly knows how to use his words (Jamie)🤣🤣

[@milwaukeemotor5995]

did he make up this story about his friend seeing Michelle out and about with a dude?

[@judithmais8702]

Can we start over and delete the First One on One Date? Gaston, show up.

[@k.b.8994]

While I get that a relationship is a two way street, this guy was just playing to get his supply. He had to put it out there before his first one on one that it was more important for him to see if SHE could fit into HIS mold rather than just being excited to get to know her. Then just being cocky and over confident, not trying to get time… then when he did talk to her on the group date it’s like he went with a script and even mentioned how looking into her eyes he could see how captivated she was already by him….. like he has her eating out of his palms. Only to throw a tantrum to the producer and saying the meanest things about her because she dared to give anyone but him serious validation. I’m so glad she nipped that really quickly!

[@judithmais8702]

The GASTON in the flesh, "Who does she think 🤔 she is? She messed with the wrong man!" Bipolar Jamie.

[@letuna7423]

Jaime talking to the producers saying he has too wait six weeks?! Lolz

[@momoyromas9456]

Michelle face at 2:31 and 2:40 when he's talking cracks me up.

[@user-ne5vx2tz9y]

When Michelle was looking at Jaymie while he was talking and how she responded really had me questioning if I was bi 😭

[@Femmecreole91]

Raise your hand if you wanted to like Jamie because of his story/background but he tried so hard to make everyone not like him . self sabotage . that's so sad, I am not a therapist but i can tell that Jamie has abandonment issues and without realizing it he is sabotaging any good opportunity to be happy , i bet he is also an over thinker. he needs to deal with with Ghost because he has been through a trauma that if he does not address fast will might ruin any potential of having an healthy relationship with anyone , he is a sad man , if you look at him you will see the sadness on his eyes .

[@pixiestxNyomouf]

Nayte is me when people are lying. I am Nayte

[@Sabriellesounds]

YAAAYYYY!!! Finally!!!