OLFP | Love & Marriage Huntsville

[@1_luv]

Story Time: Around season 2 or 3 of LAMH, I was visiting my sister and she was watching the show. I never watched and started watching with her. In this episode, Mel and Martell were going thru the divorce and he was visiting Mel at her office. He left with the kids and then came back with the baby girl crying. Mel said, "What's wrong with her?" Martell said, "Oh, she's crying because my name is no longer listed on the business." 😂😂😂😂 I was invested, I said "So the baby is reading the terms of the LLC and property deeds now?"😂 To me, thats when the show was popping and you could follow Mel's path of success, without him weighing her down. I dont think that the show can get back to that place. The cast is in a different place, but their storylines have not evolved.

[@MBCrusin]

Exactly, the storylines have not evolved. There’s no reason why Mel and Martel’s name should even be in the same sentence at this point

[@here4drealt333]

Bondy you are spot on in the assessment of why Hoetel is mad at Mausau and Maurice. I also agree re:the courthouse even that Family court judge. Plus if Mel had cheated on him, no way he would want her back.

[@RainChoc_]

Mel did talk about it on her Tik Tok live. She said when she’s ready to tell HER story, she will. They didn’t get that from anybody, but Martell. She briefly spoke on it & you can tell it still affects her.

[@stormthomas1855]

He just said he hasn’t had a girlfriend in 4-5 years😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@LadyCJ-0516]

So he just dismissed Coleslaw…yet again!👀

[@RemYr-ym2bg]

@@LadyCJ-0516 And she'll say it's just for TV. SMH

[@gees5380]

Kimmie has lowered her standards, for Maurice, and now she suck.

[@Prettiewoman]

That part 💯

[@Traciero]

Right, but the way she’s acting makes me wonder if she ever had any standards🤷🏽‍♀️

[@abiyah3176]

@@Traciero Kimmie said that she puts up with things now that she wouldn’t have when she was younger. I think she was lonely for a long time and feels she’s older and may not be able to get anyone else.

[@here4drealt333]

Yep, she quit her good job as a nurse. Did'nt she rise to a management position as a nurse? Only to end up w/this 40 something year old man who is still acting like a college student to where she is riding around time to see where he is. Chiiiile no.

[@MoneyMakingMotivationClub]

@@gees5380 😂😂

[@OneWorthwhile]

So beautiful ladies, y'all glowing ✨🔆🌟🔥

[@viveneallen5352]

Jamie, you are underestimating Martell. That man is evil.

[@GenNet-2]

I used to be passive aggressive, but when the lioness came out, I was the one who got in a lot of trouble. I like Mel’s personality, because she is playing her chess pieces every time.

[@viveneallen5352]

Kimmi treats Maurice like he is her child. Jaylan is more grown up than Maurice.

[@Mzhoward2020]

Kimberlee is a Simp!

[@angelajohnson2528]

Agree 💯💯

[@VeeStandingOnBusiness]

15:05 Bondy is describing the characteristics of a narcissistic person..manipulating their environment to appear charming and lower the guard of those around them

[@terraingirl]

I agree with Necey. Melody definitely came at Nell very respectful when she asked her why she was talking about her on subjects she wasn’t privy to. Nell is another Kimmi. Started off real relatable, honest and then slowly showed their ass.

[@venicerankin3697]

Martel just wants Ari to get a check off Mel back 😒

[@here4drealt333]

That part!

[@Designs_Decor63]

Never

[@angelajohnson2528]

Never going too happen

[@Shushyby]

Bondy you are spot on!!

[@livia8227]

I’m as over this show as Jamie is 😭😂😂😂

[@booknerd8610]

Yes Bondi. That’s why Trish is on the show. Can’t bring Slawrrion.

[@sc390]

Good Morning Ladies.Maurice /Own Lawsuit has been blown up! They proved Maurice do not own Credit One, he only work at OWN.The hilarious part Own or Carlos has failed to register with state now operate in Huntsville illegally for 8 years 👀🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MoInTheCity03]

What’s the source for this information

[@sc390]

@MoInTheCity03 ELECTRONICALLY FILED 12/22/2023 6:00 PM 47-CV-2023-901536.00 CIRCUIT COURT OF MADISON COUNTY, ALABAMA DEBRA KIZER, CLERK There was a 62 page response filing 11/2024 recorded by the Clerk of the Court from Attorney for Helen Griffin.

[@AngiebLee-to3zi]

And I said the same thing Martell in all the Scott Brothers was out there doing the same thing and Martell fumble his family

[@LadyCJ-0516]

IMO, Credit One is the after hours, juke joint!👀

[@SheniceSays214]

Kimmy is one of those wives who is willingly selling themselves short so she can say my husband. He blatantly disrespects her.

[@sdmac1339]

Marsau and Tisha have long been trying to tell us about the fake facade of Maurice.😊

[@gees5380]

Yha cast is not or have ever been Melody's friends The husband was Martell's friends

[@SheniceSays214]

Exactly Martell can’t play the game right because if you cheat. You’re supposed to be making enough for two households. He wants first rights of refusal so it looks like he has the kids more than Melody and go for child support.

[@gabrielleellison715]

I’m going to say this knowing that someone is going to aim to be offended and misunderstand what I’m saying however, I wonder how many women that center men end up chronically sick. I bet the probability of getting sick and the sickness returning is high because of the constant trauma exposure that they forced their bodies to endure.

[@ms.win_]

@gabrielleellison715 I agree 💯. I don't track Kimmie's life, not even on the show bc she stopped having a voice, and I think it may correlate with her decline in heath..IMO 🤔😕

[@RainChoc_]

@@gabrielleellison715 Actually makes a LOT of sense 🎯 💯. Stress is a silent killer too on top of that too.

[@VeeStandingOnBusiness]

Stress is a killer

[@nisaanajieb1174]

your comment is spot on. auto immune diseases affect women at much higher rates than men

[@mohasnomoreftg]

Lol. Bondy be talking and talking...let the other ladies speak damn!

[@ninasky6237]

I thought I was the only one!

[@miss_leewhatstea4899]

Good recap, ladies. Destiny was so fake in this episode. She knows good and well she was tryna be all up Mel butt. Kimmi and that story about how she called the office looking for Maurice when he was caught up in that DUI situation was giving me Melanie Fiona 🎤 "4 am an my lover won't answer. Probably somewhere with a dancer..." 😂😅 One more thing. I agree with Bondy's point about Kimmi rushing home. I personally think Kimmi doesn't do girl trips because she doesn't want to be too far from home because she KNOWS who and how her husband is.

[@angelajohnson2528]

Agree 💯💯

[@AngiebLee-to3zi]

And why is everybody keep talking about Melody and Martell they've been divorced almost 5 years but everybody else getting mad when Melody talk about their business please how is Kimmy going to come for Melody Kimmy you need to sit your ass down cuz your own husband tired of you and he already told you you can't help him are you mad because everybody know he coming in the house all times of the night

[@sdmac1339]

Mel strikes me as the type that if the wives did know about Martel she would flip on you if you told her.

[@geraldineglass180]

MARSAU EVEN SAID THAT THERE WAS NOTHING OPEN OR TO DO IN HUNTSVILLE UNTIL THEY OPENED BLAQUE

[@bcjones541]

Martell worked at the police station. Remember, he was on his lunch break from that job when he and his uncles were trying to steal the ATM! Those policeman are his friends. Policemen befriend judges! That's why Martell continues to play with the system! I wouldn't put it past Martell to be watching Mel! Imo

[@peachesandcream3415]

Well martell singing like a carnary😂😂😂😂 I guess he said, they talk about me, and now it’s my turn to talk mess!it’s no fun when the rabbit got the gun!😂

[@corimackey2972]

Maurice also made kimmi quit her job, so he can feel powerful and control her. Kimmi was an RN.

[@cshopper1346]

Remember at the Houston trip, Martel said Mel was trying to put him in jail! He used to work at the jail!

[@AngiebLee-to3zi]

That's why they need to stay out of melodies business Melody been everybody storyline for years Maurice is tired of Kimmy he already told her it ain't nothing that she can do for him

[@angelajohnson2528]

Yes Agree he did tell Kimmie that

[@SisterMomGranny]

Great commentary, as always!

[@Mzhoward2020]

Bondy is always spot on!

[@SheniceSays214]

The name card is a waste of time. I definitely can’t stand Nell. They are so pathetic and protective of Martell and then want girl code.

[@sdmac1339]

Kimmi gives she has been jealous of Tisha's "soft life". I think she was a freak party chick on the DL.

[@RemYr-ym2bg]

I believe Marsau and Tisha have always been overly confident about there being no cheating receipts bc they've already tied up those ends with NDA's. He is also smarter than Martell as he chose women who have something to lose.

[@757IsMyHomebase]

Everyone has an opinion of beauty. All of the women on this show are beautiful, even Ms. Wanda. None of the cast is unattractive. Saying the group is jealous of the Holt's looks is hilarious. Come on, Jami, clarify that. Jami, I do like how you clarified how Destiny may not be a mole. If she was in court, she could have texted or called and said she just saw his ex.

[@sdmac1339]

Kimmie's friend said that both Kimmie and Tisha know who they married a d are not going anywhere.

[@Shushyby]

Yes the "pimping out" is exactly what I thought Destiny was talking about. That information that CS exposed. That's who Martell should be infuriated with.

[@Summerbreeze_RN]

Whew ! Bondy you ate with the LAMH review !!!

[@Theconqueringwoman]

This was good!!!❤

[@ladyjaygee9166]

Bondy is on point ‼️

[@SheniceSays214]

Martell is definitely mad at the other dudes played the game better than him.

[@bittasw33ts]

Thanks for the break-down in slow motion. I never saw the fight. Now I'm disgusted with how JJ is acting towards his daughters when he knows his wife was wrong

[@cliquesnvues]

Jami... be holding back. 👀

[@JamiThatsMe]

You’re right

[@cliquesnvues]

@JamiThatsMe It's written all over your face....we see. Push back makes for good content. Don't get trapped in an echo chamber.

[@ninasky6237]

I came for your thoughts mostly lol ima have to gone head and subscribe ​@@JamiThatsMe

[@LadyCJ-0516]

Maurice may have been on “something” else…🥤He appeared tooted & booted 🤡

[@MoneyMakingMotivationClub]

😂😂

[@HowYSeeIt]

Melody’s great grandmother was unalived by a drunk driver I think that's part of why she was going in on Maurice so much in that scene 20:41

[@patriciaperry-higgins6269]

Them saying Mel can't keep friends is crazy as hell. Who are the friends? Im one if those women that when you cross me im done PERIOD. Who need dirty lowdown snakes for friends? Whoever think those women are Mel friends are crazier than hotell. Mel treat them accordingly they act like co-workers so be it we co-workers thats it thats all. The FRIEND words get passed around to quickly for me. My friend are family of 20 plus years, they know me just like i know them. We might have a word or two but before we hang up the phone or leave each others presence we fix it. Respectfully cheating was Mel never finding out NOTHING! He allowed that trick to come into their life as if she was welcome and she was by hoetell only!!!! Mel was trying to keep her family together until she came to the reality that he wasn't fighting for her or the children. So she left her husband he wasn't her boyfriend that was that woman husband. Still to this day hes protecting coleslut on Queen Sheba interview she asked him about that girl calling and telling OSNC about the RP Hotell said everybody makes mistakes it was karson trying to get on the show. Dawn and Lauren are Mel real friends and they show it. He was a jailer so he possibly have the hook up as to what's going on.

[@MoBetta-v9e]

This info about Kimmy hanging with Arionne and them working together is news to me chile! The Huntsville wheels just keeps turning lol

[@diamondprincess9168]

That's old news actually that was all brought out at the beginning when everything was coming out what about coleslaw and Martell and they never did work together Ariane was in college she was majoring in biology and I guess she was going to try to be a nurse I don't know but Kimmy is an RN that's why people say that they work together

[@MoBetta-v9e]

@ smh so they figured because Kimmy is a Nurse and Arionne was in Nursing school, there was a correlation? LOL please smh cant make this stuff up😫

[@ladyjaygee9166]

Kimmy was a nurse manager at the hospital and arrione was a cna at the same hospital . That’s old

[@MoBetta-v9e]

@@ladyjaygee9166 ohhh ok

[@Shushyby]

Martell is very miserable, probably low key hating himself because he is the one who has lost!! Not necessarily just Mel, but Martell has lost the respect of the community, his progress is stagnant, all that. I low key feel bad for him.

[@hgh495]

carlos said on one of the episodes with heavenly that he would never let coleslaw on the show outta respect for mel. now if mel was to go, then yea i could see arionne on the show

[@corimackey2972]

Kimmi should have let Maurice go when he was complaining about not getting the cheeks when she was going through chemo recovering from cancer

[@sdmac1339]

What makes Kimmie such an amazing person? I believe Kimmie got with Maurice because she was tired of being a single mom.

[@angelajohnson2528]

Agree 💯💯

[@AngiebLee-to3zi]

And how the hell he want to bring her own he ain't claiming her he trying to bring her own and hurt Melody Melody don't give a damn about him or her and how in the hell could he make Melody and he can't even make himself

[@angelajohnson2528]

Agree Say It

[@bytriciabailey5122]

That would be true but don’t forget they all knew that Martell was cheating for years so no their wives didn’t want to be like him.

[@Designs_Decor63]

I agree with yall. Bring big ari on for the snotts.

[@geraldineglass180]

HE DIDN'T HAVE A VASECTOMY WHEN SHE MET HIM

[@sdmac1339]

If Mel could hold a show on her own she would have left the show. Martel said he doesn't have a girlfriend. So what real life is he really showing?

[@OneWorthwhile]

Ooohfta glad I made it, so used to it being aired Thursdays 😮🎉😊

[@ninasky6237]

Bondy so passionate about lamh she beyonce on this topic, lol

[@AngiebLee-to3zi]

Melody case staying that baby mama did everybody keep throwing that baby mama and Melody's face she can't hold a candle to Melody in his 10 years later in Martell still ain't claiming her ass

[@tavaresleora4286]

MELODY IS A 'KAREN', BCUZ OF HER STATEMENTS🤮 RECEIPT'S= PEOPLE WHO GET'S ARRESTED, DID SOMETHING WRONG 🤔 AND TALK SHI- ABOUT MAURICE, WITHOUT KNOWING THE FULL & TRUE STORY! WTF🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Passion-po6dv]

Hey Jamie.... beautiful Bondy & Ms Dixon... Ladies we are watching same show & I keep in mind the editing & chip chop of convos & bullet points production lays out to push story along and/or layout narratives. If this is biased then okay. Based on beginning I can't wait to hear the interpretation of the spaghetti & green beans @ the gym set up scene especially the 3 of you view on convos w Melody & Chubaca. That will clear it up.

[@sdmac1339]

Mel talked shit season 1-3. Until she was tired of Martel.

[@bcjones541]

Maurice was with Kimmi for what she owned and had to offer him! He had nothing and was sleeping on somebody's sofa! It took seven years for him to marry Kimmi! He talked her into putting his name on her home as part owner, quit her nursing profession job, and wanted her to become step-mom & chauffeur to he & Kiawah's son! Kimmi was the one with the income! Maurice had no funds nor decent credit! He didn't want Jalen to live in his momma's house upon his finishing college! Yet Maurice made plans for Kiawah & her husband to move to Huntsville in one of Kimmi's & his homes. Kimmi didn't have a say, so in his plans?! Maurice and Marseau use their wives for their credit purposes!? Neither of them had good credit, allegedly!

[@AngiebLee-to3zi]

And she can't hold a candle to melon

[@choklitsoul4700]

I believe babies can sense rejection from the Mother in utero.

[@ceceliamcknight6225]

Don't matter where they are , in a house, an apartment, it's gone be an issue LMBO!

[@Passion-po6dv]

But Bondy, Melody new Abt him cheating B4 the show & B4 the cast new??

[@blkwomenrinthebuilding]

No she did not. The cast knew way before her. That was the thing. They were smiling in her face and they knew. Mel found out AFTER them. Tisha and Kimmi already told it Also She wasn't going to do the show because she found out. Martel told her that he was no longer dealing with Coleslaw. She believed her husband and went on with the show Once they started filming...she found out he lied

[@AngiebLee-to3zi]

Because she can't hold a candle to Melody and she's not black excellent so why would she come on the show she can't hold a candle to Melody and Carlos know that why y'all think she ain't on the show

[@sdmac1339]

What makes Kimmie such an amazing person?

[@sdmac1339]

How about a different perspective. Martel is abusive and a manipulator. AND Mel is passive aggressive manaipulator and egotistical. Maybe Mel and Chris have seen them both do nonsense. Mel has continued to fan some of the flames during this divorce.

[@cliquesnvues]

Martell has never been attractive to me... Charisma...nawl. I don't see it. I see someone who is full of himself and talks slick. Most people see right through that ish

[@JHjhjh1]

I would love to know the source that said Mel was abused as a child and that's why Destiny made that comment to her mom smh cause I don't know that I believe that

[@godschild6698]

@@JHjhjh1 , AC discussed it with a cc who recorded the conversation. It’s on you tube. The oldest Scott brother also alluded to it on IG. Even some cc who despise Mel said it wasn’t right to divulge and laugh about the alleged abuse after the cc released the recording.

[@geraldineglass180]

CAUSE HE IS HER CHILD

[@sdmac1339]

Nel been doi f too much. However, Mel does have Do girls and bring these people on to do her dirty work. Nel included. They all go at Tisha to start then slowly go against Mel.

[@msp9810]

Is this a re-upload? This isn't this weeks LAMH. Jamie did you post last weeks panel.

[@lynellesiler1872]

Hi😂❤😅

[@Shushyby]

Mel still low key has love for Martell, I don't think she wants to hurt him and I think Mel deep down wants to protect Martell. But she can't. His disloyalty towards her just ruined any friendship they could have. It's sad.

[@Passion-po6dv]

Quick question for you Bondy. Melody poped in on one of your lives one day & during the convo she was tlkg Abt her in background & also mentioned her own mother i believe. Then you were responding with a reply about your mother & Melody got up walked away, stayed away a few minutes & what you were trying to say about your mother was just..... overlooked, you sat there dumb founded. When she finally came back, she said zero, no " my bad", no I'm sorry what were you saying, nothing. Then she told you some yap yap yap & well I gotta go. Then it was just you on the screen. Were you cool with that, bcuz it was rude af.? Just wondering. Ciao bella ladies

[@Passion-po6dv]

Why would she wait for him to be arrested, ( bcuz she said she could hv given the info of his whereabouts ) when she knew her kids could possibly be present if he was pulled over? That was imo putting kids in jeopardy. I mean she thinks or says she has to hv security?

[@blkwomenrinthebuilding]

Martel KNEW about the warrant tho He basically went to the courts WITH HIS KIDS and they got him then HE put his kids in jeopardy

[@Mzhoward2020]

@bondyblue you have great critical thinking skills

[@tavaresleora4286]

#DESTINY🩷 #KIMMI🩷 #TISHA🩷 #STORMI🩷 #NEL🩷 WHAT ABOUT MELODY LOOKING WEAK FOR MARTEL????????

[@KindTiffany]

@@tavaresleora4286 She didn't look weak for him. She did her part to make her marriage work like she should've. Once she saw he wasn't gonna stop, she left him, as she should have.

[@tavaresleora4286]

@KindTiffany SHE DO LOOK WEAK FOR BEING HIS DOOR MAT FOR YEAR'S🤦🏾‍♀️

[@booknerd8610]

A woman who can ask such a question, no shade, has never been in love. I wish for these women the opportunity to really fall in love, not lust or deep like, with someone. I Pray they never have to learn the negative life lesson of weakness/vulnerability in a marriage the way Mel had to.

[@elainecole9673]

@tavaresleora4286 lady stop it. You're looking really bad.

[@LoisBatiste]

​@tavaresleora4286 she loved her husband and tried to hold on to her marriage . That doesn't make her weak. Weak would have been if she continued to stay with that BAN

[@geraldineglass180]

MARSAU EVEN SAID THAT THERE WAS NOTHING OPEN OR TO DO IN HUNTSVILLE UNTIL THEY OPENED BLAQUE

[@geraldineglass180]

HE DIDN'T HAVE A VASECTOMY WHEN SHE MET HIM

[@geraldineglass180]

MARSAU EVEN SAID THAT THERE WAS NOTHING OPEN OR TO DO IN HUNTSVILLE UNTIL THEY OPENED BLAQUE