Q&A Answering Your Questions About My Orthodox Jewish Life | Orthodox Jewish Mom (Jar of Fireflies)

In this video I will answer your questions about Orthodox Jewish life, homeschooling, and general questions about me :)
Hello and welcome! My name is Chana, I’m married to my best friend, and we have four wonderful children together. We also happen to be Orthodox Jews and we homeschool our kids. This video is a sneak peek into our daily lives :) You can see how this particular Jewish homeschool mom sets up her days, rolls with the punches, and gets it all done. Thanks for watching!
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[@jaroffireflies]

Hello! Thank you so much for coming by! I got to almost all of your questions, which were such great questions by the way so thank you for that! Feel free to post any follow up questions here in the comments or just say hi! Love chatting with ya'll! I hope you are having a most wonderful day!

[@tudormiller887]

Great Q & A video. I'd love to see similar content. Baruch HaShem Le'Olam. 🔯 P.S. Are most of your books in your library ArtScroll books published by Mensorah Publications ? Watching in 🇬🇧

[@jaroffireflies]

@@tudormiller887 thank you! So glad you enjoyed! I do have a lot of artscroll, but plenty of other publishers as well :) So many amazing books available!

[@bettymaines6305]

I did take exception to one thing you said - you don’t have a career now. Let’s see, you are the administrator and at times the teacher for your children’s education , you are responsible for maintaining a kosher household and being ready for shabot every week , you plan your children’s / enrichment activities , you entertain in your home and all that goes along with preparing for that , you supervise your children and make sure they are safe, you procure all household items , food, etc. social director for your family. Gee, you are just a lady of leisure !! You do have a career, you just do not get a pay check for it ! Oh and how could I forget , you maintain a You Tube channel. You work out of love and not a pay check. I think you have an amazing career ( and no I am not a stay at home mom praising “ women’s work”. I am retired after almost 40 years working as an accountant and I do not have children I would have been described as a career professional , and I double assure you I see just as much value in your current “ career” as I ever have seen in my former career. I applaud you )

[@MachaMongRuad]

Here here!! 💯🫶🏽🙌🏼

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Betty ❤️ I really appreciate this!

[@kathiedozier5749]

Exactly! You are embarked upon the most important career!

[@ponyvet77]

YES! I always say I have 3 careers/fulltime jobs: vet practice, our farm and our home/family. Never ever think being the "CEO and COO of Internal Affairs" of your household is not a career!!

[@jaroffireflies]

@@ponyvet77 true!

[@rabeksmom]

As a Christian I've never felt that you've been annoyed at Christians and I always sensed your comments about Christian curriculum were more disappointment than annoyance. Thank you for the content - I love when you do Q&A! :)

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you! I’m so happy it comes across that way!

[@kerry7418]

I spent last winter reading all of the Anne books, actually I'm just starting the last one now. I work in Cavendish, where Anne of Green Gables was written and where Maud grew up and we are celebrating LM Montgomery's 150th birthday this year with lots of great activities to go with it. Hope you have a great week Chana.

[@jaroffireflies]

So fun!!!! Hope you have a good week too ❤️

[@maneatertiff]

Hello from Halifax! Love visiting our PEI neighbors

[@karenjohnson5634]

Oh I’m so jealous!!! 😂❤ I love Anne of Green Gables!!! Hope you have a wonderful experience and celebration!!!! 😊

[@wb5598]

Headed to Cavendish for a day trip as my husband and I travel around the Maritimes for a vacation - visiting from Philly.

[@kathy3178]

Chanana, I am a devout Christian not once have I ever thought you were anti-Christian. In a good way, you have challenged me to learn more about Judaisiam and go deeper in my own faith. I absolutely agree with you about theology in curriculum. Christian curriculums go way overboard. I don't need Bible verses while trying to teach multiplication. I too find it fascinating how nuns live. I've actually watched a few videos and read a couple of books on the subject. Hope you have a great rest of the week. You and ALL of your family are in my prayers.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so very much Kathy! I appreciate you and your comment so much!

[@shawndavis824]

I agree completely!

[@Noname-wi8xp]

It seemed strange. I assume most Christians wouldn’t be expected to teach their kids about other faith beliefs when not necessary. Christianity is hard to escape even the basics on in the US. Other faiths aren’t similar in that way. Especially anything beyond Halloween really 😆

[@loisxander6321]

Why are there so many against the Jewish people. What do the Jewish people believe that being said I have learned so much from you but I don’t understand. As a Christian I was always been taught that Jews were Gods chosen people. And that God wants us to Love one another. I am 80 and still have so many questions. I know that God hears us all and that someday I will have my answers.

[@motherofbeagles8532]

@@Noname-wi8xp I wouldn't say 'expected' but in my own home, exposing our son to other religions was just part of his cultural education.

[@shawndavis824]

Loved this video! I cannot believe anyone would think that you dislike Christians. I have NEVER felt that way. You have ALWAYS been so kind and welcoming to me! I completely understand why you would edit out any doctrine that is not your beliefs. I did the same when the content was in conflict with our denomination’s doctrine. Why would we want to confuse our children? I did explain that not everyone believes exactly what we believe/practice. I am sorry to hear that the piano lessons did not go well. Maybe when the time is right you will find the right teacher. Just like school/curriculum finding the right fit can be a challenge. Have a fantastic week and blessed Shabbat!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much Shawn! I think maybe some people forget that I am Jewish and that is not a Christian religion or something :) I try not to let it get to me but it does make me sad that anyone would think I wouldn't like a people based on religion or any other thing.

[@erinfernow1810]

I always love watching your videos. I can’t imagine someone spending time watching just to fuss about what the content creator does. People move on to someone who more lines up with your beliefs if you can’t handle the difference. Chana, thank you so much for letting us in your life. I am a Christian who is fascinated by the Jewish faith and respect it because that’s the root of where my beliefs come from too. I am so sorry for the people who try to force their beliefs on you. I pray for the Jewish nation. What is happening in this country is appalling and needs to be stopped.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so very much Erin! I appreciate you and I am so glad you are here :)

[@StellaDallaz]

Your library is incredible.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you 😊

[@cheryld1502]

Time will be come sooner than you want to do all the stuff you can’t do now - those kiddos grow up so fast! Enjoy every minute ❤

[@jaroffireflies]

For sure! So true!

[@purpleandred7]

Chana, I am a Christian, and I have subscribed to a handful of Jewish KZbin channels; and quite honestly, they are up there as some of my favorites. In all of your videos, I have never heard you put down, speak bad against, or otherwise be offensive towards Christians or Christianity. You have shared your conversion story from Christianity to Judaism, and to be simply put, your faith and beliefs changed. As a Christian, I of course am sensitive to MY faith being spoken bad about or put down .. I believe we all have the freedom to choose our beliefs, our religions, without having to slander others for their choices. I feel that you have done so beautifully, as have most of the other Jewish channels I subscribe to. Sadly, there was one conversion channel in particular who went to great lengths to demean and speak ill against Christianity, and I quietly left and no longer support. The most ironic part is that in just about every religion, or at least most, LOVE is the one element, factor, teaching, belief that binds us all together. Each of our religions are based on love .. our God is love; we are to love others; we are to show our, and God's, love; and we should use that common denominator to love those of different faiths and beliefs. Kindness, love, respect -- they really are feel-good emotions that are so easily conjured up .. yet hatred and mean-spiritedness, those are emotions that take so much hard energy and need to be worked-up. If I were to profess my belief in Christianity and then only show dissention or hatred towards others beliefs by my actions and words, what does that say about the God that I choose to believe in .. what would anyone think of me who bad-mouths and shows disrespect to other people's choices of religion? I appreciate you, Chana, and the way you have converted from one belief to another without speaking against the faith system you left. I have alot of respect for you and any others who speak out about their chosen faith without putting down someone elses.

[@susans.2815]

What an absolutely beautiful response ❤️❤️❤️ Susan

[@purpleandred7]

@@susans.2815 💜💜💜

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much for this lovely and thoughtful response ❤️

[@whoissashaanyway9654]

I always feel like people can subscribe to their religion of choice (or not as they see fit) but quite honestly, if there's some message to be had and you feel like it applies to you, does it matter what religion it comes from? I don't think so, I just take it 🙂

[@ponyvet77]

a cookbook collab with Mr Firefly's mom would be something to consider...as she was his inspiration 😊 (reaching for the stars a bit I know 😂)

[@jaroffireflies]

That would be cool! She is usually a bit too far away though :)

[@sarahdicus9665]

I enjoy your videos, was raised catholic but I agree with you as far as catholisem. I am trying to find my own path. Thank you for explaining so many facets of Judisem.

[@jaroffireflies]

You are so welcome!

[@giuliamotta628]

Chana, I must say you handled the Christian vs. Judaism question FABULOUSLY! If it were me answering that question, I probably would have gone off!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much!!! I really appreciate that :)

[@damealeta3541]

I had to laugh when you mentioned your crafting and lack of time. My husband and I have been cleaning out our storage shed. A lot of stuff from when we moved *8* years ago. (Ugh) When I opened the third banker box of crafting supplies I set the lid back on, looked up at my husband and said "I think I need a 12 step program!" LOL I absolutely love that you want to do an illuminated manuscript of some kind. I, too, have a great interest in calligraphy and illumination. I actually purchased some sheep/goat vellum and real gold leaf. Have I done anything with it? No. Also, it's in long term storage so I don't even have access to it. I also have powder pigment. Am I nuts or what? Now that baby firefly is truly on the move your time is sucked up in a lot of different ways. I think of you often and continue to send good vibes and prayers to you, your family and extended family. Be safe and have a wonderful summer!

[@jaroffireflies]

Oh yes, any time I had seems to have flown out the window with this little guy!

[@missyg5355]

Hi Chana! I just want to say that I’m in awe of how you answered that question about Christian theology in curriculum. You handled that question beautifully- and a lot better than I ever could lol (seriously, you have so much patience and grace!). I, too, share your frustration with it. My family is Christian, but not religious at all. We celebrate the major holidays, but that’s pretty much it. We are homeschoolers and it is so frustrating to find theology included in things like math where it doesn’t make sense for it to be. Or there will be curriculum where if you edit out the theology, the children will miss critically important parts of instruction. For example, I’ve seen it in reading curriculum where they use theology to teach about vowel sounds and blends- taking out the theology would mean missing out on instruction on particular topics. Ultimately, we had to opt for all secular curriculum as it got to be more frustrating than it was worth. Keep doing what you’re doing- you’re making the best choices for you and your family. Sending you lots of light in these dark times ❤

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you for your kind words :) Yes, the part about missing out on critical parts of the curriculum is a fear of mine too. But if I use secular curriculum, they also end up teaching things that go against our religious beliefs especially in science. I love the fact that Christian curriculums recognize G-d and keep that a focus, but I don't like things like copy work, spelling, illustrations, etc being something that goes against our religion.

[@lisal5718]

@@jaroffirefliesBut wouldn’t it be possible to use secular materials with the older ones and then explain that this is what is scientifically known and then cover what you believe and why you believe it. Maybe it is just me, but as a relatively non-religious Christian from Europe I never got while American Christians so often need to teach belief as facts. I mean is that not the beauty of faith that I can believe things without having to proof it.

[@missyg5355]

@@jaroffireflies yeah, I definitely get that. My son is still super little, so we haven’t had to cover science all that in depth yet. We plan on covering it secularly as part of the school day and then having him attend some sort of of a religious program like a Sunday school in order to get the religious part of it. I was raised Catholic and my husband Methodist, so it can be challenging to find a good fit. It’s complicated lol

[@jaroffireflies]

@@missyg5355 oh definitely complicated. I’m sure you’ll find a way to do it though! You’ve got this!!!

[@missyg5355]

@@jaroffireflies awwww thank you!!! ❤ It’s our first year officially homeschooling. Our little guy just turned 4, so we’re doing preschool at home. I can’t wait- I’m so excited 😍

[@donnajones9006]

Thank you for the informative questions you answered. My husband and I pray for Israel and support them 100%. Love your channel, so wholesome!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much to you both!

[@jessicaburali2295]

Hi Chana, I always enjoy your Q & A's. I feel exactly the same about makeup, but sometimes you just have to. You do so much, and I especially love seeing your beautifully organized library. Encyclopedia Brown and All of a Kind Family were favorites of mine 55. years ago! Hola from Cuernavaca, Mexico

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Jessica for your lovely comment!

[@winnieewing7730]

Channa I am old enough to be your mother but you mind me of my mother (I always call her mammy)she was a great mammy and protected us from everything without making us afraid. Love you're Q &A. Please could you do a shopping video as l like to see the lovely big shops. ❤❤❤Ireland

[@jaroffireflies]

Aw thank you so much! This made me feel so good!

[@loristoner851]

Always interesting and good to see you! 😊

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you! 😊

[@coosbaytech]

I love your Q&As! Hope you have a lovely week 😊

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you! You too!

[@MamaHilker]

I admire you and love your videos. 100% behind you about not showing children on social media. You were very careful in your wording but I am not in this case; too many perverts trolling social media. Also agree with you 100% in how your tailor your home school curriculum to emphasize Jewish topics and values. All the very best wishes to you and your lovely family.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so very much! Yes, I was careful in my wording. I know there are kids who watch my videos with their parents so I want to be respectful of that.

[@familiatischler4623]

Love this Q&A!!!! ❤❤❤❤

[@jaroffireflies]

So glad you enjoyed!

[@sarahfarrell8214]

Love ya Chana, another great video!! I keep praying for the hostages and the Jewish people around the world for their safety.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much Sarah!

[@victoriaheisser7137]

Great video! ❤

[@jaroffireflies]

Glad you liked it! Thank you!

[@irecarmi22]

Shavua Tov dear Chana!!! Thank you for sharing !!💐

[@jaroffireflies]

My pleasure 😊 Shavua tov!

[@jennbidwelledwardson2885]

Thank you for sharing your life with us!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you for being here!

[@kathleencasella4703]

Always enjoy your videos. I pray for you and your family. ❤

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much Kathleen ❤️

[@BrendaJones492]

Shalom Chana. Glad you’re back. Interesting video as always.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you kindly Brenda!

[@kristinmiller4779]

Good morning Chana and firefly kiddos! Love your Q&A❤❤

[@jaroffireflies]

Hello 😊 and good morning!

[@Jverburgh]

Thank you for sharing, Chana. I love watching your videos, especially the Q&A's. Have a great day/week and see you on your next vlog.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you! Nice to see you here!

[@SusanP674]

I love your Q & A videos, I always learn something new. Much love to your family!💙

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much! So glad you enjoyed!

[@patriciagreene5842]

Thank you for sharing and helping us learn . Another fantastic video 😊

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Patricia!

[@kimtoney4823]

Thank you for the video Chana, it's always a pleasure to watch! Be Blessed!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thanks for watching!

[@celiaowen2444]

You did so well answering the Christianity questions which were a little uncomfortable It was done without shying away from truth and with sensitivity towards the questioner. Well done ❤

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much :)

[@user-ey8hk5vt1u]

I was so pleased with your video , I was getting worried as it seemed like ages since your last one and I was hoping everything was ok. 😊

[@jaroffireflies]

Glad you enjoyed it! I posted a note in the community section last week that I wouldn't be able to get a video out because of the holiday the week before and Fathers Day.

[@RochelWaldman]

Chana, Good to see you again. You look Great! The Head covering color is so pretty on you. Have a great week, and a great summer!

[@jaroffireflies]

Than you so much Rochel! Shavua tov!

[@josephkavanagh5221]

Boker Tov! All the very best! Thanks for addressing my question. I learned immensely from the books of Rabbi Telushkin.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you! Hope you are having a great day!

[@aprilmapp3140]

Thank you very interesting, have a great week.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you! You too!

[@HappyGirl4666]

Prayers for the Jewish people 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 . Thank you for your lovely smile, Chana.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you!

[@lmmartin959]

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions.

[@jaroffireflies]

My pleasure! Thank you for watching!

[@63Littlemouse]

Welcome back Chana, good to see you again, hope you enjoyed the holidays & your two week break. I would say you have a pretty full on career going on what with 4 children, home schooling, running a home & all your KZbin content ! Life is busy for you, as the children grow (which happens far too quickly, so enjoy every minute) there will be plenty of time for crafts again, in the meantime there's always a good book to escape in, time allowing. Clare x

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much Clare! Always a pleasure to read your lovely comments :) We did enjoy our holidays very much!

[@heathermmartin16]

Woohoooo, the Anne of Green Gables series! The best 😊

[@jaroffireflies]

Yes!

[@merrynhopkins1162]

Always enjoy your videos You do such a great job juggling - children teaching etc

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much! I really appreciate that!

[@RachelP-qr3zk]

Hey Chana! I'm so happy to see you back I really missed your videos last week. Thank you for the clear answers to all your questions! I bet you I wouldn't mind if the video was 40 minutes long🤣!

[@jaroffireflies]

You are so kind thank you!

[@marydrummond8832]

Praying for everyone .🙏

[@jaroffireflies]

❤️❤️❤️

[@mags102755]

I always enjoy your question and answer sessions. Thanks Chana!

[@nikosvik1]

I enjoy all your videos but the Q and A ones are my favourites. No wonder Mr Firefly only wants sour dough bread now. They always look amazing. Thanks for sharing your lives with us 😊

[@jaroffireflies]

Aw thank you so much!

[@esthers6014]

Shalom!! We have so many Siddurim too!! I laughed when you mentioned your growing collection. Have a gut Shabbos.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you! You too!

[@marybee4734]

HELLO HANNAH NICE QUESTION AND YOU ANSWERED VERY WELL 🥰🦋🦋🦋🌻🌻🌻🐝

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you 🤗

[@annettemurielle]

I love your Q & As! Have a wonderful restful fun-filled summer Chana!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you! You too!

[@annettemurielle]

❤💖❤

[@meadowrose100]

Hannah, I know you said you were going to be backing off making videos for a while; but I want you to know that it’s such a joy to see you here in whatever capacity you are. Have a wonderful weekend!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much!

[@stacysilver5843]

Thank you! Love your channel and the way you answered the questions about Christianity was fantastic. Diplomatic, clear, intelligent.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much Stacy!

[@MaureenDrees]

Thank you for sharing your answers with us. You are in a chapter of your life where there isn’t much time for crafting and sewing, but as your children grow older, another chapter will begin when those art projects will be able to happen again.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much!

[@megvoss3329]

You are pretty stickin' cute in these Q&A videos!

[@jaroffireflies]

lol thanks 😊

[@traceyp6333]

Thank you!😊

[@jaroffireflies]

You’re so welcome!

[@colleenorrick5415]

Chana, you should not have to defend yourself regarding Christianity. In my opinion Christianity is being terribly perverted these days. And I’m a Christian. I’ve been exploring Judaism and there is much to love there. You have obviously found what brings you joy. And that inspires me to

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you Colleen!

[@hoosierlady3085]

I love your videos! I get something out of each one. BTW I'm 72yr old Mother & Grandmother. You are doing a great job with your family. Blessings!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much!

[@witsonsmom729]

I've never felt you were derogatory or negative toward any other religion. As a Christian, observing you and others prepare to observe shabbat has made me think about the sacredness and holiness and ways I might want to express or better set apart that time in my faith. Culturally, its interesting to learn about how other people live, the things we have in common, and the things that are different. And I'm always up for trying new recipes and talking about books. I read Encyclopedia Brown as a child too.😊

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you of you kind words! I really appreciate you!

[@allisonbr1327]

I would pay to take a class from you online! I've seen how you organized your homeschool curriculum and your organizational skills are off the charts haha.

[@allisonbr1327]

100% seriously, if you ever have the time/capacity to teach classes about any of the topics you love - Judaism, homeschooling, home making and organizing and running a home, recipes and bread-making, etc. - I would be so up for that!

[@jaroffireflies]

Aw thank you thank you Allison!

[@loriwallis832]

Hello there. Great, great video. You answered all questions so truthfully and easy to understand. As you know I love your channel and your content. I have learned so much from you, especially as a Catholic. YES, please do a cookbook, I would buy it in a minute. Have a wonderful week. 🩷🤗🩷

[@jaroffireflies]

Thanks so much Lori!

[@kristens333]

Sideways stories from wayside school is one of my favorites. My daughter loved it too.

[@jaroffireflies]

Such a good book!

[@heatherlashier1763]

Oh my goodness! I had totally forgotten about “All of a Kind Family!” I LOVED them! I grew up in a little seaside town in Massachusetts, 4 doors away from one of our 2 town libraries. I spent a huge part of my childhood there, meandering all through the magic of books. Thanks for the memory! I’m going to purchase the set for my two granddaughters. ❤️❤️

[@jaroffireflies]

So fun! I had never heard of them until recently and I adore them! As do my kids :)

[@robertandgwenkramer2305]

Thank you for answering our questions! I so enjoy your channel. Thank you for sharing your life with us in such a positive way. All Jewish people and Israel remain in my daily prayers. Gwen

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much Gwen ❤️

[@Spencerplace]

Hi i normally dont comment, but i just like your uplifting spirit, i work in a jewish retirement community, when i started i found your channel, you have taught me so much! Thank you!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much! I really appreciate your kind words 🙂 Thanks for being here!

[@gaeilgesinger1]

Thankyou so much for your Q&A. I truly appreciate your perspective and find it helpfully instructive. Prayers lifted continually for all Jewish People all over the globe and for the Peace of Jerusalem and the nation of Israel.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much! 🇮🇱

[@LuiMac1026]

Wayside School was my favorite book as a child 😊 You are my favorite KZbinr ✡️💜 great videos!

[@jaroffireflies]

Aw thank you so much! Yes, I loved that book when I was a kid too :) I remember laughing out loud while reading it

[@LuiMac1026]

@@jaroffireflies me and my brother would act like the characters when we were kids (: definitely my growing up as well as went popular in the 90s

[@jaroffireflies]

@@LuiMac1026 oh I love that!

[@LuiMac1026]

@@jaroffireflies his favorite was Todd I loved Stephen and Jenny ❤️ Don't know if you finished it but love wayside there's a whole 5 books if y'all interested recommend continuing the series it's so good 😊

[@jaroffireflies]

@@LuiMac1026 we have one of the others as well :) We found both at our local friends of the library sale!

[@LalaCats3]

Dear Chana, first of all, you are lovely in appearance and in spirit, and I pity people who feel the need to be mean in your comment section. I have treasured your channel over these last few years. I am a Christian, and I respect you and your Jewish faith. I enjoy learning about your life, customs, holidays, etc. Secondly, I have been battling cancer for just over a year, and your advice on head coverings has been very valuable to me as I have been going through chemotherapy and have no hair. I understand you cover your hair as part of your religious observance, but your advice has been very valuable to me in my own situation, and I thank you. Third, after the initial troubles in Israel over the past year, you asked people to read the Psalms out loud on Israel's behalf. I had actually coincidentally chosen to read Psalms on my own just prior to that as I was initially facing my cancer diagnosis. You are so right in that the Book of Psalms is very powerful. It contains the highest heights and the lowest depths the human spirit can experience, and proclaims the love, kindness, and power of God over all we experience. I have found it amazingly effective in dealing with my own ups and downs in my journey, and I think of you and your request when I read Psalms as well so that I can honor that request for Israel's well-being. You have helped me in some profound ways, and it is the least I can do in return. Thank you.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you for your kind words. I appreciate you! I am so happy to hear that the advice on head coverings and psalms have been so helpful to you! I will pray for your full recovery! May it be quick and with no complications and a full remission!

[@LalaCats3]

@@jaroffireflies Thank you so very much, and may you and your family always be blessed.

[@debbiec4224]

Hi Chana. Loved the Q & A. You absolutely handled the question regarding Christianity exceptionally well. I don’t know why/how anybody would ask/say those things. Everyone has a right to practice their own religion and should not be subjected to what they do or don’t believe! Its a private matter. Glad to hear everyone is well. Lots of great questions. You even answered a few of mine! You would be a great teacher! I hope you are having a wonderful week! 😊

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much Debbie :)

[@michaelurvoy]

Oh, gosh, it's been a while since I was last on your virtual doorstep. I hope that you and your family are doing well, Chana!

[@jaroffireflies]

Welcome back! Yes we are well thank you! Hope you are well too!

[@michaelurvoy]

@jaroffireflies Baruch Hashem, I am doing quite well, thank you. I have had to do battle with my health recently, but I am coming out the other side and looking to the future. Whilst in my recovery, I have been thinking a lot about where I would like to take my Judaism, and ordination might genuinely be on the cards.

[@jaroffireflies]

@@michaelurvoy glad to hear you are doing well! Wishing you a full recovery with no complications!

[@user-ow2pp9fd3i]

It's always great to see your videos! Hey, I have never thought you to be anti-Christian....you rock!!!!!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you!

[@sashabelle728]

My husband and I homeschooled our children as well. It only makes sense that you teach your children what you believe. You and your children are reading some books that I not only enjoyed sharing with our children but were childhood favorites of my own. I loved Encyclopedia Brown (I've shared him with our grandson too), The All of a Kind Family series, etc. Such good books. I am really enjoying your channel and so appreciate the care you take to protect your children.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much for your lovely comment!

[@sashabelle728]

@@jaroffireflies when we were homeschooling I remember that a black sharpie was my best friend when it came to editing inappropriate content. My children still laugh at the “sweaters” I gave the Egyptian ladies in our history text. 😊 Would a sharpie work to block out the Scripture on the math textbooks, worksheets, etc.?

[@jaroffireflies]

@@sashabelle728 I’ve used white out or just removed pages in the past depending on how the content is set up

[@sashabelle728]

@@jaroffireflies that’s a good idea. I could have used that at times too.

[@welbornsh]

Encyclopedia Brown! I loved those books growing up!

[@jaroffireflies]

Me too!!

[@pixiesgarden8353]

Wayside School! Nostalgia! I loved those books as a kid! Glad your little dude is loving it. Is there such a thing as Sourdough challah? Also, are you doing the 5x5 reading challenge this year?

[@jaroffireflies]

No official 5x5 challenge for me this year :) With the toddler toddlering I’m not able to read so much and I don’t want to put that pressure on myself :) There is such a thing as sourdough challah but I haven’t made it personally :)

[@sharonhenrySH]

4 children, Channah! That is a full time career. Never say that you don't have one. Raising little humans is full time. That is why there are schools and daycare, Yada. Admire that you have the perseverance to live on one salary and homeschool. Have seen how proud Mr. FF is that you are knocking it outta the park and keep up with your blog, which we all enjoy! Keep it up, GF!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you thank you thank you Sharon! 😊

[@janithgottfried8320]

Hi Chana! I totally agree with keeping the children's faces and names private. I have been trying to get a young family member to stop posting her children and where they are currently. Tried to stress the dangers, but it falls on deaf ears....may I be a bit personal and say you look fabulous for being 43! As always a pleasure to watch and learn.....

[@jaroffireflies]

Aw thank you for the lovely compliment Janith! Yes, it’s hard for some people, the kids on the internet thing. I think they think that if they stop, they are admitting they are wrong. But we have to put our kids before our pride.

[@faithroseteresecassano3727]

Love and greetings from Niagara Falls New York We absolutely love you and your beautiful family . New word of the day! … TODDLERY !! 😂❤❤❤

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you 😊❤️

[@faithroseteresecassano3727]

@@jaroffireflies you’re quite welcome 🤗

[@yesabenson]

I love all the beautiful literature you have provided for your children! We had beautiful shelves full of wonderful children’s literature that I enjoyed reading myself! Question: are there rules about the application/removal of makeup during Shabbat?

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you! We do love our books around here! As for makeup, I don't every wear makeup on Shabbat so I am not the best person to ask this question to. I believe you can apply it before Shabbat, but not on Shabbat, and not remove it on Shabbat. But again, this is not an area that I know much about because it has never come up for me.

[@CherylNoe]

Good morning friend 😊

[@jaroffireflies]

Good morning Cheryl!!!

[@tarotbysharonah262]

❤ You Chana

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you!

[@Penny-bt4gc]

I totally agree with not showing your children’s faces online. The internet is such a precarious place for children. I don’t think you need to apologize for teaching your children your faith and giving them a strong solid foundation in Judaism. It’s more than many Christians do for their children. As a Catholic I was never offended by your comments about Christianity.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much Penny!

[@chanahminuk8485]

Oooo, I love And Rachel was his Wife. It's one of my favourite frum novels. (Also excited if you are reading the Anne of Green Gables books for the first time, and the All of a Kind Family series... a childhood favourite.)

[@jaroffireflies]

So fun! I am super excited to read And Rachel Was His Wife. But I must finish From Djerba to Jerusalem first lol :)

[@chanahminuk8485]

@@jaroffireflies Take your time. The biography you are currently reading sounds interesting. I should check that out.

[@jaroffireflies]

@@chanahminuk8485 hope you enjoy it!

[@motherofbeagles8532]

I like Hydrochic for modest swimwear. They have extended sizes and lots of options/pretty colors/patterns. I am Protestant and wanted modest swimwear to be comfortable on a cruise and when with my son when he needed a parent along when he was a Cub Scout (my husband sometimes could not attend due to his disability and there were a LOT of men and boys at camp/swimming) It made me more comfortable.

[@jaroffireflies]

I’ve ordered from them before! It was a great swimsuit.

[@motherofbeagles8532]

@@jaroffireflies I agree tho a bit pricey, but they hold up very well.

[@user-cr8nk4yg9i]

Books: I'm glad you brought up, All of Kind Family again. Encyclopedia Brown - that brings back some wonderful memories. Anne of Green Gables series. they were all very good. I can recommend Emily of New Moon series and Jane of Lantern Hill.

[@jaroffireflies]

I have Emily of New Moon! It’s a recent find from a used book store, but I haven’t read it yet

[@robinepowell]

​@@jaroffirefliesI think there are three books in the Emily series. I haven't read them since high school. Wikipedia will have all the information about Lucy.

[@jaroffireflies]

@@robinepowell amazing thanks!

[@laurenk88pa]

I ADORE All of a Kind Family....I wanted to change my name to Ella when I was little

[@jaroffireflies]

Love that!

[@ChyarasKiss]

OMGs! I was obsessed with Encyclopedia Brown when I was a kid. #GenX I was so thrilled when they did a series

[@jaroffireflies]

It was so good right? My kids love trying to solve the mysteries!

[@ashextraordinaire]

Wouldn't you make the best kallah teacher! When you were talking about teaching adult women, that's exactly where my mind went.

[@jaroffireflies]

Awwww I would LOVE that! I did it once, for a friend. But there wasn’t much need for another kallah teacher in my community so I didn’t go through any kind of formal training.

[@ashextraordinaire]

@@jaroffireflies That's awesome you were able to do that!

[@jaroffireflies]

@@ashextraordinaire it was a cool experience for sure

[@Thestephouse1]

🙏❤

[@janiesmys461]

I 💯 could never have homeschooled. I respect you so much for that

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you 😊 It’s a hard job but also incredibly rewarding

[@barbaraangele1062]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@cindys1697]

I loved Encyclopedia Brown when I was a kid! I still have a few of them from when my kids were little. The Westing Game by Ellen Raskin is a good children's mystery book also. I recommend reading it first just in case its not suited for your family. Love your channel!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much for the recommendation!

[@martinelanglois3158]

You showed a prayer book. Is there only one or are there many prayer books? If so, what would be different other than language? Thanks! I wish you and your lovely family of fireflies a very peaceful week. 💚💙

[@jaroffireflies]

There are many prayer books. There are slight differences for Ashkenazi Jews and Sephardi Jews for example, and even for different types of Jews like Moroccan Jews, Iraqi Jews etc. There are siddurs for women, and for everyone. There are Hebrew, and English, and lots of other languages. You can check out an online Jewish bookstore to see some examples, like Eichlers.

[@avocado00000]

Hi Chana. Would you be willing to show us the one page of the illuminated siddur? I would so love to see it, and I think others would love to see it too! Nice Q and A. Hope your family is safe in Israel. Shavuah Tov!

[@jaroffireflies]

Ohhhh maybe? :) Its just a page with mode ani

[@avocado00000]

@@jaroffireflies Just Mode Ani? That's beautiful, and I bet you did something amazing with it.

[@mastljn]

Snoga Athletics features a lot of active wear including swim wear that is very modest.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thanks for sharing!

[@francineflaks9621]

You can use timers for lights on Shabbat.

[@jaroffireflies]

Correct

[@kristinrooney-erb501]

You lit up talking about teaching. How blessed are your kids to be educated by you as well as your internet audience. I imagine when your kids are older and time allows that teaching will always be in your life whether that’s teaching young Jewish women or mentoring young wives and moms in your faith community. Have a blessed day and prayer to both you and Israel. Ps. as a Christian viewer, I have NEVER found you to be disrespectful of my religion. It makes complete sense that you are raising your Jewish children well, Jewish! 😂 why that is controversial is beyond me haha!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so very much Kristin! I really appreciate you!

[@lisandrabracero7301]

Mee too! Anne of green gables is great!! 8 book !

[@jaroffireflies]

So excited to finish the series lol

[@Trekkifulshay]

I'm Christian and I wont use a lot of Christian homeschool curriculum. Most of it is written from a perspective we as also Christians don't share. Why is there a Bible ish story Math? Can't it just be math. Yet there are some gems that we love. That said I totally get why within your home you'd want to limit/exclude the Christianity because like you said it's not like your kids can avoid it living in the US. Thanks to your channel I think my kids and by extension my Pagan BFF know more about Judaism than they ever expected. Just yesterday I was explaining why a Minyan of minions drawn by a Jewish artist was funny.

[@jaroffireflies]

A minyan of minions 🤣🤣🤣 that’s hilarious! Thank you for your lovely comment :) Yes, math should just be math :)

[@ericagoehring1089]

I love your Q&As so much. I am a Christian, and I had to roll my eyes a bit that people thing you would actually teach pieces of someone else's scripture and faith. Hmm... Why would anyone do that? As a homeschooler, things definitely come up that don't fit our beliefs and values. I simply skip it. Cheering you on in this wild and wonderful season of parenting!

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you ❤️

[@vickiebasu1080]

Any camping trips planned when the weather permits? Any chance you can schedule an hour for crafts, etc, a couple of times a week? It’s good for kids to see Mom being creative as it encourages them to do so as well. Just a thought. I really enjoy your vlogs and admire your devotion to faith and family. Stay well.

[@jaroffireflies]

Yes! Lots of camping trips planned for after the summer! I love the idea of scheduling crafts but I basically have 3 full time jobs so the time literally just isn’t there to schedule :)

[@vickiebasu1080]

⁠@@jaroffirefliesI understand. At the risk of being a noodge, maybe sometime, one vlog could be devoted to a treasured hobby, or not. 😀I understand that your life is extremely busy: Mother, teacher, wife, KZbinr and so on and my request doesn’t cover the scope of topics that you want to cover on the channel. No worries. Thank you for sharing with us.

[@jaroffireflies]

@@vickiebasu1080 thank you for the suggestion ❤️ It’s just a chapter in life right now but it’s where I’m at

[@dawnbaker9274]

It's always sad when your Q&A ends. But that's okay.😊 I enjoy them so much because I learn something every time. Agree about Christian curriculum. 4 kids, a husband, and a house to run...I'm surprised you find time to sleep much less anything else!😅 Keep on doing what you do.

[@jaroffireflies]

Thank you so much Dawn!